Dumper Feelings When Their Ex Reaches Out (Podcast 354)

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  • @davemcdonald7143
    @davemcdonald7143 4 роки тому +12

    Just move forward everyone..why bother with someone who can't be bothered with u

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +2

      Hi Dave, thanks for your comment. Yes, moving forward is key.

  • @adriankj3938
    @adriankj3938 4 роки тому +18

    So many mind games, better for the dumpee to move on forward

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Adrian, thanks for your comment. Moving forward is so important. Be a better person tomorrow than you are currently today, each and every day.

    • @adriankj3938
      @adriankj3938 4 роки тому

      @@vincentbos Hi Vincent you’re videos have been educative, I was wondering if you had any advice on the friendzone and ghosting

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому

      @@adriankj3938 thank you for your support. I need to make podcasts on these subjects because I don't think I have anything covering this right now. My suggestion is to avoid the friendzone because once trapped, it's very hard to escape.

    • @adriankj3938
      @adriankj3938 4 роки тому

      @@vincentbos thanks mate look forward to the next video. Shout out from Australia, thinking of you guys with the covid.

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому

      @@adriankj3938 thank you!

  • @junerm21
    @junerm21 2 роки тому +2

    Sometimes, the dumpee is not looking for a sexual relationship. They just want to be good friends, like a member of the dumper's family.

  • @elliotwolf2276
    @elliotwolf2276 4 роки тому +6

    Hello Vincent, I’ve got a rather complicated question. They say that if you love somebody then you should never give up on that person and that love should be an action and not a feeling but I also believe that you are not meant to be with everyone that you are in a relationship with which? How do you feel about that topic

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +3

      Hi Elliot, that's an interesting question and perspective. My thoughts are, that If you love someone and they breakup with you, set them free. If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never truly were.

  • @junerm21
    @junerm21 2 роки тому +1

    Vincent, Please discuss the attitudes of supremacy, espoused by dumpers.

  • @MorrisOp24
    @MorrisOp24 4 роки тому +2

    My ex got into another rebound relationship , I’m low key getting over waiting for her

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Mauricio, thank you for your comment and I'm very sorry to hear about this. Keep moving forward with positivity and you will have a much happier future.

  • @PrettyBrownEyes91
    @PrettyBrownEyes91 4 роки тому +2

    What if the dumpee blocked the dumper???

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому

      If someone has been blocked then they must respect that the other person doesn't currently want to contact them.

  • @angelasperanza1140
    @angelasperanza1140 4 роки тому +1

    Vincent straight facts you said💯

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you Angela, how are you today?

    • @angelasperanza1140
      @angelasperanza1140 4 роки тому +1

      @@vincentbos great! and you?

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +1

      @@angelasperanza1140 yes I'm good thank you :)

    • @angelasperanza1140
      @angelasperanza1140 4 роки тому +1

      Vincent post 1 for Valentine’s Day the best gifts for a man ❤️😂 let me know

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +1

      @@angelasperanza1140 are you in a relationship and want to know what to get your boyfriend?
      If this is your ex, then you shouldn't get him anything! :)

  • @juniorrivera8666
    @juniorrivera8666 4 роки тому +1

    My each will not reach out cause her relationship she has been for 3 months...we’ve only dated for 6 months and I was still coming around when we broke up so I’ve been in no contact for 3 weeks now and I know she Will not reach out

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому

      Hi Junior, the important thing now is to concentrate on moving forward with positivity and self-improvement.

  • @qbfilmroom7202
    @qbfilmroom7202 4 роки тому +2

    Damn being dumped sucks . Like worst pain I’ve ever had

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +1

      Hi QB, I promise you will get through this struggle and have a happy future.

    • @qbfilmroom7202
      @qbfilmroom7202 4 роки тому +1

      Vincent Bos thank you 🙏

    • @alejandroquintana611
      @alejandroquintana611 4 роки тому +1

      Same here. But you know what, we will heal. 1 month here when my childish wife left.

    • @qbfilmroom7202
      @qbfilmroom7202 4 роки тому

      Alejandro Quintana we have to get past it. 8 months married

    • @rickcope3226
      @rickcope3226 4 роки тому

      @@vincentbos 13 years. My girlfriend has dumped me after 13 years. We live in

  • @TheMaribelisima
    @TheMaribelisima 4 роки тому +3

    I really don’t know what’s my position here... probably the 1st option I guess... but his reply was positive and he even mentioned we should meet, so either my ex is an alien 👽 or his romantic emotional attraction is not high enough and he was just being polite (in a more romantic way... 🤦🏽‍♀️) thanks for this podcast, Vincent, I won’t contact my ex again...

    • @adriankj3938
      @adriankj3938 4 роки тому +2

      Go the old contact rule and don’t ever let yourself be friend zoned, if they’re worth it they’ll come back if not, you deserve better.

    • @TheMaribelisima
      @TheMaribelisima 4 роки тому +2

      @@adriankj3938 thank you, it’s very frustrating. I Know now I shouldn’t have broken NC. The interaction was positive and I really thought it could lead somewhere... but obviously it didn’t since I haven’t heard from him since the 5th of January. How disappointing that is...

    • @adriankj3938
      @adriankj3938 4 роки тому +2

      @@TheMaribelisima I just went through a similar situation on the weekend, it still hurts and I’ve had a couple of rough nights but getting there, she ghosted me and just started pulling away and don’t want anything to do with me anymore so I called a quit I deserve better and it’s her loss

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  4 роки тому +2

      @Maribel thank you for your comment. Your ex might be an alien, or maybe he has a low level of romantic emotional attraction, but either way, the best suggestion is to never contact him again now, unless he contacts you first.

    • @TheMaribelisima
      @TheMaribelisima 4 роки тому +2

      @@vincentbos lesson learned...

  • @vintagebabyseventythree6244
    @vintagebabyseventythree6244 3 роки тому +1

    Don’t do it. Trust me

  • @junerm21
    @junerm21 2 роки тому

    Dear Vincent, You need a podcast to discuss dumpers who are serial daters. Having a non-sexual relationship with such men, but having been loving towards the individual, one need ask oneself, how can a high class dumpee, be expected to even believe she is inferior? The whole thing is totally laughable! The dumpee is a superior person, in the eyes of God!