Transgender Pakistanis: The Open Secret | Real Stories
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- Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
- Transgender Pakistanis: The Open Secret | Real Stories
Flamboyant, colourful and eccentric, many among Pakistan's marginalised transgender community scrape a living through dancing, singing and begging on the streets of the country’s economic capital, Karachi. Many others, though, earn money catering for the sexual needs of local men in the city's seedier districts.
Investigating a never-before-seen side of life in Pakistan, this film from Oscar and EMMY award-winning director Sharmeen Obaid-Chinoy follows the stories of three transgender people, who each represent a different way of life in the country. Maggie is a prostitute who dreams of becoming an air hostess, while Chahat was abandoned by her middle-class family to beg on the streets. Sana is Karachi's most sought-after transgender dancer, desperate to give up the profession after a particularly gruesome gang rape. Is there any hope for these courageous individuals who want to stand out on their own?
With exclusive access, this cutting-edge film goes behind the scenes of the transgender community to uncover the truth behind Pakistan’s Open Secret.
Official Selection, United Nations Association Film Festival
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If they are not causing any real harm like taking people's lives why bother with them mind your own business
As a trans woman, I thank you for this documentary. Very enlightening to see LGBT topics inside other cultures outside of America.
What horrible life, poor people.
frozensuitbeautyfull
Real Stories can u plz plz plz tel me about chaht..where she would be i want to meet her
It broke my heart when Chahat said she would be happy to be a dog just so she could live with her mother. 😢
its too hurted :9
I knowww!! I want to go to Pakistan and bring her here with me...I have many Trans friends and just overall people who will love her immensely...I wish I could get in touch with her!! :(
😢
Atiya Johnson Hello Atiya what you doing for them. I wish I do something here in Pakistan to lessen their pain
Chahat heart touch storie ..
Jis ka koi nhi hOta uska khuda hOta ha... ap sb say best hO...
I'll never complain about my life again .
We should be grateful we do not live there.
@@marywilliams9858 True but people in Pakistan have a beautiful heart .
Naman Paul exactly we should be thankful to god that we can live freely with respect may god bless transgenders with respectful position in society(ameen)
Naman Paul same here
Not all people...
It's funny how men dictates what makes a woman respectable. Yet it's these men who pull up at nights seeking for pleasure. Bloody hypocrites.
It is a way to make money with prostitution!
Truth in yr words
And maybe not. You went out with him to say that?? STFU always talking rubish
It is also a man who is making this documentary so that you can see.
Yas!!!
If I had the power "I would have been a dog just to stay beside my mom"..that line is so overwhelming ..and it defines all her pain ..
almost made me tear up
@stop lgbt thats why you’re poor and live in a third world country. 😂
@stop lgbt no one asked you
This line makes me speechless for a momenr
@stop lgbt but you are here supporting this video watching it! People are born homosexual or transsexual. Biological diversity occurs in all mammals.
She compared herself to a pigeon and said she would rather be a dog to live with her mother. That should tell you something about the emotional damage that rejecting people does...regardless of agreeing or disagreeing with her life, nobody should have to go through that. I hope she has a better future.
Love should be unconditional !
@Ray Hernandez wow this is your response to that
"It"? Wow! You're the one who need psychiatric help.....
@Ray Hernandez I know full well what a transgender is. I'm just saying to call them "it" seems wrong. They are people, after all, right?
@Ray Hernandez You do realize that trans people have been using bathrooms corresponding to their identity for years without issue, right? The only reason people like you are thinking about it now and making ignorant assumptions is because the LGBT community is in the social spotlight more than ever before. If that weren't the case, you would have no idea that transgender people regularly use bathrooms corresponding to their identity and it wouldn't be a problem for you, just like it shouldn't be a problem regardless if you know about it or not because guess what? The vast majority of trans people are not "sick". They're just people like the rest of us.
when Chahat said he wishes he was a dog just to live with his ma my heart broke 💔
the same happened with me
yes true
Yeah same 💔💔💔
LittleGirl Blue Joplin so sad :(
ME too i was literally dying that a blessed human wants to be a dog ;_; and me crying to god that i am not blessed while i don't know about trans problems. it's sad
Chahat broke me. She has such pure eyes, and the way she talks, she seems exhausted. If you can convey to Chahat, then please tell her tht she has a sister in India. I would happily consider her my family. It's difficult here too, but it's improving. Allah tumhe khush rakhe, Chahat. Tumhari saari khwaishein poori ho
He*
@@khadijaaweys9009 NOPE, SHE
@@aaheliroyasa97 he*
@@aliaaiz278 No, SHE .
MOON R HE* he has a pp you clueless person
My mum has taught me from a very young age to respect them. Ever since I can remember, if any trans would come up to us to beg, my mum would not only give them some cash but also strike up a conversation with them. Talk to them, ask if they have had breakfast/ lunch. After some years, they used to come up to mum to say hello and not beg.
Bottom line: Respect all living beings ❤️
Your mum is a wonderful human being and the world needs more people like her
@@alanawilson6104 Thanks! She's my queen 💗
But what about you?
Lots of love and light to your mum&you from a friend in Norway,Namaste✌️
@DeFiNiTe wa thank you 💖
"I'd be happy to be a dog, just so I could live with my mother." Chahat got me.
Harper Harper same ):
That got me too!
I literally cried.
that line made me cry
Harper Harper and he smiled afterwards...broke my hearth in many many pieces ...
Everyone in this video has similar struggle but I cried whenever I looked at Chahat's face. She is tired of her life. I'll wish all her struggles end soon.
simran dogra I felt so sorry about him
Yes me too
Feefa B her*
😟😟😟
💛 Yes, me too. She is such a lovely person, who just wants to experience the love of family, when she said that she was tired of being alive, I know exactly how that feels & I just wanted to hug her. 💛
"Dreams don't come true for people like us." broke my heart. 💔💔💔😢
Same !
Amsy Aragoncillo dreams don’t come true for me either n I was MJ’s house without having to work for it ;) being trans is not natural and thus u can’t expect t achieve it normally. They are lucky in western world that they are allowed to transition lol
Elettra Reynolds They aren't. I simply disagree. I bet you don't have the balls to be as brave enough as all of these kind woman. You haven't met them and you call them freaks? Wow people are so damn low.
@@spoopyricenoodles1901 hahahahahahhaahhahahahahahhahaahahhahahahahhahaahahahhaahaha
shut your pie hole you mouth breather
True story: a transgender who I'm not sure was male or just a female dressed up but when my mother was pregnant with me, she went on a rickshaw 🛺. In the middle of the rickshaw driving, she fell right on the street. Before anything could happen, that trans person saved me and my mother's life. She still visits Johar Chowrangi! May Allah bless her! I wish I could repay her but can't visit Pakistan at the moment.
❤❤❤ beautiful little story my friend! Much love to you all from Aotearoa NZ
I'm transgender myself but not from Pakistan
I'm from more rich and Islamic country
True we have higher standards life than them BUT only If we hide ourselves
The punishment of being out trans or dressing in public here is beheaded
It's very dangerous and taboo here
The reason for me to write this comment is all the nice people in the comments section
I can't believe that there such nice and kind people
I wish you happiness and good karma
Good luck to you, and be safe!!
where r u from?
love n light to you.
Nami Ali Caucasian youre so Nice Nami im glad you finally understand the transgender struggles. thank you sister
May ALLAH give you all the happiness you deserve in your life INSH ALLAH
Chahat will get heaven not those who tortured her mentally or physically. Because she has such a noble heart which many so called normal humans don't have.
30% reservations have been provided to dalits in India in every government sector. Frist try to do something like that than we will talk.
@Shahrukh Afzal our house maid (a girl from Dalit community, named - Soma Bagdi, she has a noble heart as well) gets her tiffin from our kitchen in the morning on the same dining table we share to dine. It's the practice which was introduced by my father himself and it's still continued by me and my family members. That's how I (as you asked me only) treat Dalits in my country (a single example practiced everyday apart from the other examples practiced quite frequently to Dalits by me). Now I wish you treat minorities better in your society.
@Shahrukh Afzal ua-cam.com/video/WDqZJjfVfrk/v-deo.html
@Shahrukh Afzal It wasn't a panegyrical statement but a little good start from me against the discriminations present in Hinduism. You can also find these as Shia-Sunni in Islam (you should also treat that better in your community), Catholic-Protestant in Christianity, Mahayana-Hinayana in Budhaism, Digambara-Svetambara in Jainism etc.
Exactly💞👍🌈
"No one should live alone" Chahat you made me fall my tears 💕
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thats gross
I FEEL YOU CHAHAT
But life make you learn to live alone.
When Chahat says " I'd be happy to be a dog so I can live with my mom" - that's really broke my heart. My mom always told me, no matter how's that person are, never ever disrespect them. They're HUMAN.
She would like to be a dog to live with her mother but rejected and go against God's will of being a man ... That is really something heart wrenching......They wanted to have kids but they get removed their reproductive organs for a desire of being a female ..if someone wants to be a cat it doesn't mean he/she goes against nature and does this things. When anyone goes against nature, they have to pay for it...... God give us the right path ...
I could tell off bat that Chahat's "guru" physically, and obviously mentally hurt her. These "gurus" are disgusting people.
if they are disgusting then who are we??
@@hoorainrakhshani6238 normal
What you see is the years living as chahat for the guru. The world can black peoples heart to survive it. Thats what I see. Not that its right
Chalat (?) Breaks my heart. She seems wise beyond her years and is very observant. It's obvious she suffers from a form of depression.
Chahat is giving me a ride of emotions. Such a pure soul
Transgender in Pakistan who is a rickshaw driver
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Hi my name is Kelly I am seeking a transgendered lady for marriage my dear
For anyone wondering, Pakistan passed a series of new legislations in 2018 and 2019 which gave transgenders the right to get ID cards with X gender, Passports with X gender, separate quotas for them in Universities and Government Jobs. They also contest in elections now. Big hospitals have trasngender wards too. Yesterday Pakistan's first transgender doctor graduated. Now Pakistan also has Transgender lawyers, anchors and they are also getting into other professions.
Sometimes it’s difficult to change the minds of a population who values tradition highly…I really wish the best for these people
It’s beautiful that theyre becoming progressive.
That is so great to hear.
@stop lgbt good job
Hopefully, these girls can see some improvements in their circumstances as things progress. Thank you for this comment!
Men don't like them at day
But they like them in night
Shame shame
They like them because of the temptation not by heart
Only minority of men like transgenders, its nowhere close to an real woman
Not meaning to be rude but ...
aren't the Gurus more like glorified pimps ?
This system is disgusting and watching this made me so sad .. and mad at the same time.
This system has been there for centuries since the British Raj
That is exactly what this is. They try to skirt around it calling it a "custom" acting like they're doing a good thing for the girls. In reality they're just operating human trafficking rings in plain sight, keeping the girls as slaves and indentured servants and profiting off of their hard work.
Pimps operate the exact same way.. They promise the girls that they're going to be taken care of, protected, that they can have anything they want, lots of pretty new clothes, drugs, money, filet mignon, etc.. But once the girls are under their control the pimp stops treating them like princesses and starts forcing them to work all day and night. The girls are constantly abused, and have to make more and more money, because they "owe" their pimp. If the girls get sick or if they can't make enough money they beaten and starved, raped, sold off to another pimp, even killed.
The gurus use all the same tactics, it's the same game with a different name. The saddest part is that this appears to be an acceptable practice and the authorities are not interfering. And, almost as bad and equally disturbing, it appears that there are people in the comments who are genuinely defending this inhumane practice. That actually view it as an innocent cultural custom that westerners cannot possibly understand, SMH.
As an out transsexual woman I am blessed top have been born where I was instead of here
Joselyn Mikolajczak and yet you’re still not free
@@evangeline77x There is Nothing - ABSOLUTELY NOTHING - innocent about this practice... and yes, I agree with you - same game, different name .. :(
Chahat
you are absolutely right
if he said would be a man so he live with her mother. .....that best
She rather be a dog, because she knows she can not be a man. You have to put aside your beliefs and consider the possibility that some people are born this way. Maybe feeling that they are in the wrong body. It is not a life anyone chooses, but it is who they are. We can not judge others. God is love. And God alone can judge.
PopSugar Sprinkles it’s sad but he doesn’t have to be a dog to live with his mom. It’s easier he can just be a man, work as a man then in his own personal time dress as he wishes. Simple!
Chahat is hot as a man, damn he is handsome
It’s been 6 years since this documentary was posted. I wonder where the interviewees are today? Each of them had lived through horrific events, yet they were still decent, good-hearted people. Finding a way to follow-up with them at this point would likely prove difficult to impossible, but it would be incredible to locate them. I sincerely hope each of them found their own version of fulfillment, and that all of them found safety.
yes
Yes a follow up will be very interesting pray they be in good shape 🙏
What I honestly don't understand is that to have their sexual identity they accept a life as a guru's slave, as prostitutes that are heavily abused or as outcasts without partners or family. If this is what was in store for me, I would probably forego my sexual identity and live "in the cupboard" as this would bring me more joy and happiness in life - job, family, children, respect... (even though it would not be right or just). I have a job where I have to fake being someone I am not for 10 hours a day and also after work in my private life, but this is how life goes if you want to make a living and be part of society that isnt open to people even just living a different lifestyle or having a more liberal mindset, so I accept that and pay the price of not being able to be myself and truly authentic.
@@sandraweiss3891 agreed but we don't know what they go through, their are probably millions who live the way you are saying .
I wonder what happened to them as well. The one who wanted a family is such a sweet, gentle soul. I hope she's okay today. I hope they're all okay. Why are humans so cruel to one another?
The pain in Maggie's eyes when she said I just desire him...poor thing my God I cannot imagine how she holds it together so well. I would be in pieces.
Jade Saldaña :I certainly agree.Those so called "gurus"=pimps,masters in humans' slavery for their own profit. Their males->Clients/consumers are the GUILTY ONES,BUYING THEIR SERVICES hypocritically...!
May God help those poor humans...
26:51
I said the same thing
i can see her nearly in tear when she said she dont love her... strike pain into mine heart when see her eye
😞
Chahat made me cry actually i can't stop my tears when i remeber her says that she prefers to be a dog just to live with her mother. I'm muslim and i will pray for her and i love her
If only our eyes saw souls instead of bodies, how different we may see the world....
She is so wise
ugh man up dude
@@Turk1881 what is wrong with you, ugh HUMAN up dude
These people are souls of heaven. They didn't ask to be this way, they were forced by the society...... Otherwise all of the creations are dear and loved by Allah
"friday night after prayers is one of the busiest nights of the week" the utter irony...
Emma S
Some call it irony... others would call it hypocrisy.
When Chahat said “we’re like these birds, they are born from someone and raised by someone else”. I can see a bright writer in Chahat. I wish she gets that chance to publicize her thoughts.🥺
his*
Ikr 🥲
kudos to the kind soul of the Pakistani reporter who was never to pushy asking them question making them uncomfortable, lastly it is a huge thing doing a reportage like this on such a taboo topic in Pakistan so thanks for bringing light on that it is indeed really well done
and lastly I wish there was some kind of way to support them or help them :(
I thought Pakistan was an extremely conservative country. It surprises me that trans can walks the streets without getting killed. Media can seriously fuck up your world view.
jan jansen there are plenty of documentaries about paskistani/ Afghanes etc fucking young boys ....
pakistan, a liberal country??? I don't know whether this joke is too good or worst.
jan jansen Yeah. They hate terrorism and try their best to cut them out. There are some villages which are very conservative but the Cities are very modern
India is so liberal that a liberal in pakistani will be termed as a radical conservative in India.
AKASH SINGH as if you know anything, your prejudice and hate is speaking, you've never lived or visited and can't talk.
I am myself transgender watching this really make me emotional.
I am lucky enough to be loved by my entire family and many good friends around me.
Watching Chahat stories really makes me cry .
Can't imagine being isolated by own family.
Hope everything goes well to Chahat.
Pray to Jesus christ n all ur sins will be washed away..
@Nagendra Mishra
I am Malaysian .
How's that ?
LMAO
@@lisahazard7423 For real? I am from Sabah.
Power to you , friend.
@@user-hw7dz7mg5n
Sabah dimana ?
Suku apa ba?
Any chance of a follow up documentary? This needs more attention.
Ok so men hate them, right ? Then who picks them up when they pull over the car ?
Hypocrisy, no ?
Would have called hypocrisy if the same men who hate them would pull over car but that's not the case so hypocrisy doesn't seem the right word.
Men are individuals and all individuals are different, so can't say its hypocrisy since the same man haven't done this.
@@Keniz99 Men are individuals but that is not the explanation here...
@Alisha JacksonIt will make sense when you have the necessary mechanism to process it......And please get a life...you need it....
Bunch of hypocrisy. They’re probably all married too.
“They’re ruing our society” no the hate is ruining it
Ulimi Ulabi What u mean??? Pakistan is the worst islamic country by far
@Ulimi Ulabi soory but that would go to turkey
@@heemabaily4007 I thought Turkey is not that restricted
@Ulimi Ulabi whom u dsnt
@Ulimi Ulabi They're the purist muslims, they follow the Quran strictly, that's why that faith is so disgusting
Chahat not only is a beautiful person she has a beautiful soul
Rachel Lokotui she is ❤️❤️
Rachel Lokotui ask yourself where is going to end his soul ah? Withot God . where
ross moli Matthew 7:1-5
1 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.
2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?
5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
Hi there Ross Moli you see I am not here to judge this person (Chahat),you have to see and understand what this person lacks and needs. Which is obviously love that she should have received from her family if she has no other choice but this to survive and make money then like I said I am no one to judge because I have my own flaws we are all born sinners no one is perfect, If this person was taught of Heavenly Father and the ways and the love that Heavenly Father is greater than any love on this Earth then maybe it would have been a whole different situation. To judge someone you have to be perfect. So before judging anyone how about we show them love and teach them of the TRUTH.
Rachel Lokotui Hye R
He has a beautiful soul. Not she. A blind man can see he is not a she
I got chills when the man asked Maggie that if she had teenage girls. It is the worst.
I live in Pakistan and this video has broken my heart. I wish all transgenders get respectable jobs. Well, now they have their ID cards as ordered by supreme court of Pakistan. I hope they will get jobs.
“We are born from a womb not a stone”
Wow. That hit me hard
MurphysLaw95 what’s that supposed to mean
Sthe Zwane That she is human with feelings and hopes and dreams like all of us
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Shahat is such a pure kind soul. I hope she finds peace and happiness inshallah. I'd befriend her if I knew her
relunnie21 she is super kind I hope so too!
So sad :( what a beautiful person. Life is so unfair for so many people. It makes me so angry that here in Australia we have tons of people who get to live for free in a decent home with electricity and water and get money for doing absolutely nothing, which many of them just spend on drugs and alcohol - and in Pakistan all of these people are suffering so much just to try and be who they feel they are. So saaad
me too wana be her friend. me too semi-alone. i keep hens
United States GOP I'm sorry, are you God?
U r not God to judge being christian I am taught not to hate someone for their decision. Hate the practice not the person. I have many gay. Friends but I am christian please do not misuse the bible.
I’m happy that the doctor showed actual concern for Maggie
Right? He was non judgmental and asked straightforward questions in a non threatening way. He expressed concern for Maggie without raising his voice or being upset. Even when Maggie disagreed with his comments, he didn't react. This attitude should be more mainstream.
This documentary made me sad. Humans should be allowed to live their life the way they want with dignity.
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Da bro agree and when that religious man said those words he needs to rmmber that God made them too. God is the one who made them way they look and the souls that lived in their bodies. is that so hard for people to understand..
Da bro exactly
Syaz Ali maawwmm
I hate the guru!! First sentence: where ' s my money? Second sentence: chahat make me tea!! What an arsehole !!!
Erik Milian right!
The guru is such a horrible person
I agree
My heart breaks for Chahat; she seems so gentle and kind, and just wants to love and care for someone. She has a motherly heart and no one to share it with.
Of course people complain about them being street workers, yet refuse to give them any way to get out of such a situation. Hypocrites. Just want to find someone to point a finger at other than themselves. They dont give a damn.
They're forced to raise themselves, harassed and abused. Of fucking course theyre loud and abrasive and put up an intimidating front. Of course they laugh and taunt back when insulted. You leave them with no choice but to be that or they will be hurt worse.
Nasty bigots in the comment section here too, go figure. Watched a whole video and your empty heads couldnt grasp a single thing of value. You couldnt even feel sympathy for the suffering of fellow humans, just because you dont understand their identity. Because you refuse to understand it, truth be told. Of all the misery in the world, you give such a rats ass about another individuals gender identity and how they present it when it literally has nothing to do with you and I PROMISE does not actually affect you like you think it does.
this should be top comment
Pizza Crust 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!!!! My heart breaks for these poor woman!!!!! Why can't they have respectable jobs??? BECAUSE NO1 WILL GIVE THEM JOBS!!!!! SUCH IDIOTIC THINKING!!!!!! THEY ARE BORN THIS WAY, NO1 WISHES TO LIVE THIS WAY!!!!!!! SUCH A BEAUTIFUL SOUL!!!! I WANT TO take her Home & Make her HAPPY!!!! POOR SOULS, SO LOST, THEY ONLY WANT LOVE & ACCEPTANCE & TO LIVE & BE HAPPY..... ❤💙💛💜💚❤💙💛💜💚❤💙💛💜💚PRAYING THEY WILL EVENTUALLY FIND ACCEPTANCE, EVERYWHERE!!!! PRAYING THE IGNORANCE STOPS!!!!
welcome to the third world...
Pizza Crust
If he wanted children, he would not have mutilated himself.
Pizza Crust he you dipstick.
If only Chahat saw the amount of support and love people are showing her here...dil se dua hai ki voh humesha khush aur abaad rahe !!
@stop lgbt woo-hoo good for you. Now crawl back into your hole. Why do people feel the need and desire to be horrible?? What does it do for them to want to hurt someone else?? I guess their Mom didn't give them enough hugs at all. Why do others live rent free in these hateful people's minds??? Too much energy wasted. Pity
Transgenders shouldn't be shosn tolerance, it's against God, Islam and life
Chahat's story hit me more than others because when she got abandoned she didn't choose to live like other transgenders lives in pakistan. The way she told her story, It really effected me.
Misbah Kiran He*
You are right. I realized Pakistan are way way worst than here in the Philippines. But transgenders here like me doesn't have to ask money on the streets we work for it.
@@missdavao846 as a Pakistani I can say that it is quiet difficult living as a trans here but the begging is the option they choose themselves.
@@misbahkiran6554 But if they cannot find any paid work because they are transwomen what other options do they have to survive?
@@evangeline77x they do find work here. Its not impossible but yes its hard but I've seen so many trans who works in cafes & restaurants. Some if them have their own cafes too.
"I paid 30,000 rupees for her, if she goes to someone else I'll take 40,000 rupees for her."
"Its not slavery. It's our custom."
WHAT???
It sounds like slavery
yes...its not like that...they get what they have spent on them
@@saimak6239 People should not be sell or bought! This is actualy human traffic and slavery. It was really painful to see how for most of them it was the only option to get food and protection. So happy some of them get a job. Things are moving and hope from the bottom of my heart things will be much easier for the next generation of transgender people all over the world. Love
Princess Sparkle Pixie right..🤦🏽♂️
And he said its not like buying her then what is it??? Tf
The best one was Sana's "we're hired to be rude".
My Pakistani mom told me about the struggles transgender women go through, when I visited a few years back it hurt to see the limited job opportunities (like begging which can feel humiliating and dehumanizing at times ): ) these people had and the disrespect some ignorant people showed. I hope that things change for the better, there are good people
I dont love him, I desire him.
If I fall in love, I won't be able to leave him
"So painful" 😢
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Yes it is
He married his cousin now is that a right thing 2 do
I have to stop watching these documentaries! They’re getting me depressed
Films En Francais
Same.
It doesn't bother me because I have my own issues I have to address.
Me too
+Asfat Shareimkibwana 9825958379
@@monturai4856 what is that
So deeply, DARKLY & profoundly haunting...My heart breaks for ANYONE forced into dangerous & degrading prostitution just in order to live & "survive" day-to-day...& on top of which, those being transgender, & constantly subject to such ridicule & loathing by society in general & disowned by their very own families...I cried when I heard the words, "I'd rather be a *d o g* so I could live with my Mother..." I so strongly wish them Love & a sense of self-worth...
Sounds like what mentally ill people go through in Canada.
I actually dont feel sorry for them because they can always work like other men do ..but they chose this? Ofc their families will disown them what a shame
Aymen Aziz you’re a shame.
@@minyoongi1513 stop justifying wrong behaviours ...you know damn well what i said is true
Aymen Aziz well what you said isn’t true tho 😂. Shake my head it’s 2018 and your mind is still back in the 80’s. Why can’t we just accept people? Not everyone is going to be the same. Why is it hard to accept people for who they are. This is the reason so many people in this world are depressed. people like you just can’t accept one another.
I think we as the LGBTQ+ community in the west need to watch more documentaries like this and remember and acknowledge the struggles of our brothers and sisters in other countries. We need to stand with them and support them. ❤️
Well said
I think we could support them by being more conservative like they are. All they want is acceptance and to blend in. Yet we have people making up new words and inventing genders making a mockery of their struggle as if someone calling themselves “catgender” is the same as an actual transsexual with life long dysphoria.
@@tula1433 how can we be more conservative? conversativeness goes against any freedom we have
I will never see a man in a dress as a female. These aren’t my brothers and sisters. In terms of importance lgbtq issues are the very last on my list. Straight ppl have grown sick of you ppl in the US. We’re tired of it being pushed down our throats. You’re gonna see a huge change when Biden is finally voted out next yr and either Trump or Desantis gets elected and l can’t wait. Ppl are sick of yall
@@tula1433 Absolutely!!
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how pretty most of them are and how kind and beautiful Chahat is.
Susey
I think Maggie could be a model.
Chahat is a beautiful soul
Susey you are so nice.
Impressed
Tf...
This video totally changed the way I see transgender people, especially Chahat, she’s so sweet and the way her family treated her broke my heart I would take her home and be her friend because all she deserve is love, really.
No one should be alone.......chahat,,,,i will pray for you😭
@India's Voice ishwar Tere ko Akal de.
@India's Voice Haram ki olad hai tu. Pta ni kaise sanskar hai Tere.kisi achhe Ghar ka to ni lagta.
Niceeeeee
😟
Hai
🙏
Chahat is such a sweet soul 🥰 God bless every single one of them, no one deserves these hardships.
"That's why i don't love him, I just desire him. If i fall in love, I won't be able to leave him." 💔💔💔
Absolutely correct love is as beautiful as worsen also
@@TarunKreinvented i know that sometimes falling inlove with someone means you have to take risk 😩
@@pharshiewanaladjahali5613 you don't know the actual pain of love. This happened with me I know better what inside the person feel
Tarun kr reinvented
Who are you to say that person "doesn't know".? You've no idea what they've been through or have felt my friend.
Bless your heart.💖
@@mamamarianovits9029 what you want to say mama
...”I’d be happy to be a dog just so I could live with my mother”.....what is this world where human beings have to feel like this ? 😞
And unfortunately we are the same humans who let feel these types of humans feel this
Humans are horrible in many ways. I agree with you. Watching this made me cry because it brought into perspective of how the world can be so cruel and ruthless because of unkind people in it.....
😭
I wished I could meet Chahat and let her be part of my family. She has such beautiful heart.
I searched them on Facebook but couldn’t find
@@aisha.khan.85 why didn't you try on tinder?
Same here, Chahat have a beautiful soul wish I could help her from this suffering.
@Bot #10110 her* dumbass
I feel the same way. I wanted to pay off their pimps and then work with supporting transgender women with education, health care and jobs where they can advance in that create real futures for them.
The heartbreak and pain behind Maggie’s smile and eyes when she was talking about her boyfriend and how she can’t love him, just desire him, broke me. That is so heartbreaking.
I live in Pakistan(but not in Karachi) and even as a child i felt bad for them,how people spoke to them or didn't use proper pronouns or treated them like shit.I try to be nice as possible to them because i believe they can't change(you can check the brain structure theory,it is a fascinating read).One thing i observed in this video is that they over react in the street but when you are alone with them they speak like any other human being(maybe it is a money making scheme by that i mean begging) because transgenders in other countries like developed countries don't act like that..I hope in the future,we as a nation become open minded and don't judge people on petty things.
Ali Shah "Open mindedness"? What's that?
+Sameer Ali Hahaha,i see what you did there.Sad but it is the truth.
Ali Shah what i know in my country Philippines lots of gay but they were inborn gay.And they are smart working in Parlor beautician.In hongkong many Pakistan here also.
Ali Shah If i may ask, Where are you from? Just curious as to where smart people like you generally exist here in Pakistan.
Florida Aguada Well gay and transgenders are totally different things,transgenders can be straight or gay or bi according to their new gender.Yeah i know there are many Pakistani living in Philippines.
oh Chahat you beautiful, beautiful soul..
Bangtan's Bae she is beautiful but she doesn't know the rules of cabin crew she have tattoos too on her body which is not allowed
army
Bangtan's Bae ARMY💚
Bangtan's Bae sooo true 😢😢😢
Anar Talib that's Maggie, not Chahat
As a Pakistani and a Muslim, I believe people should treat them same as they treat "normal looking" people. We are honestly no one to judge but God. So let's leave this on God and treat them like human beings🙌🏼
144:1 are you blind?? When the hell did I said it's said on Quran? Read my comment again sweetie , I clearly said " I believe"
Not what Allah believes. Smh get help
144:1 and what I said was let's leave it on god cause clearly he's the only one to judge not me or you or the world
144:1 all parts of hadith are not true. Some part of it is fake.
Kritisha Lovexo yea exactly. we ain't anyone to judge
ねーねー A "real Muslim" follows the example of Mohammed. This is what Muslims are commanded to do.
It matters not what you THINK, it only matters what Mohammed taught.
You're talking out of your ass. Most of you perverts think you can call yourself another gender too..so I wouldn't expect someone so completely insane to wrap their head around religious matters.
I’m here for Maggie! I hope she lands that air hostess job ❤️
I hope he gets tested first. All those symptoms he was having are very concerning to his health
I really feel bad about Chahat. Please give us any information about Chahat.
Si,por favor quiero ayudarlo .
She should grow a beard
@@abdullahal-shimri3091 he should grow a beard
@@stonedsloth6367 And you should grow a brain.
Don’t. its not good reply if u want a complete lecture
Chahat, is a beautiful soul, I cried.
It's So Sad... I am an African American Woman who lives in the U.S.A. I wish I could Help All Of Them. No One Should Continue To Suffer due to Gender, Race or Social Status... Those Guru's are taking Stone Advantage of them. They're more like Pimps. Chahat has such a Kind Heart I am praying for her. I see her building more friendships by taking in more novices... It would be good for her and good for them.
Chahat stories shows no matter whatever we have, Having a company of friends and family is a bigger gift in life. No human wants to be alone. It's heartbreaking.
Whatever life I am living.. I am grateful for that😐no more complaints..
{Kunal Patil} don't try to find happiness in other people's misfortune
that’s why i don’t love him, i just desire him. if i fall in love, i won’t be able to leave him.
this line along with the sad smile is just, painful.
Edit: *_Woah thank you for the 448 likes. This is my first time, lol._*
Her
Thats my problem to , ... and thus thing hurts alot
timestamp?
@no one
So?
@no one
You don't make sense.
My countrymen unfortunately don't even know about humanity, How can they understand this,that.. these people are also God's creatures , I hate myself for being the part of these ignorant countrymen
Don't be upset bro. Help them :)
"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see" - Mark Twain
You shouldn’t. You can be an example and you can help. I understand to a point being surrounded by closed minded people. If you remain close to God, you will receive guidance on how to elicit change and know where and who to help.
Lots of love ❤️
indeed it is,..... i follow the saying of "'Leo Tolstoy"' in my life which is ''Everyone thinks of changing the world but no one thinks of changing himself''' so i always try to be an exemplary and ideal for others and treat these people plus do so many other things in such a way which is required or right to do...it would be very difficult to explain but i am suffering from a kind of ''social anxiety '' or having hate for these people in my heart....my story is long. thank you for encouragement and motivation. May God bless you-
yeah it is.. i am trying my best..Thanks buddy@Hello my friends
Much love to you from a transgender person ❤ may God bless you
Pakistan’s first transgender doctor just graduated Yesterday 🥳.
A horribke achievement
Chahat history broke my heart, I will pray for her and her happiness. I really would like to know if she is ok
Me too
Where you from
Thy talk about india and pakistan .. how much we hate each other , little do we know how the common people share the same plight from both the countries .Who is worried about the wars and politics when we have such heartbreaking stories to be worried more for !
- Love from a common Indian !
Sugandha Dogra ❤️
i can add up one more thing... don't you think this is just same on both side...what diffrence do we have besides religion.
Sugandha Dogra Why don't you spend some time in Pakistan?I am sure you will notice the difference and realize why we are enemies.
blyat man please explain why enemies?
Alicia D. Sorry but I don't understand your intentions of asking this question.Are you a Pakistani with a western name trying to lecture me on whose fault it really is that we are enemies or you are a westerner totally unaware of what's going around the world.If it's the latter case I am happy to explain.
I LOVE HOW THEY CLAP BACK "Tart?" "your mom's a tart."
@cookiez105 Lmao yes! These lovely ladies have such amazing personalities despite their unfortunate situations.
Chartina Harmon dont u mean men they clearly look like men with makeup so ugly and hideous
Silent Seeker lol i bet.
@@silentseeker3579 👍🏿😁
@@user-bp2hc8tr1f you are uglier and more hideous inside
There is something special about Chahat that has warmed everyone's heart including mine🥰. I wish her well and pray🙏 that God fulfills all her heart's desires.
"It's not like buying someone, I just paid money so I could own this person."
no timeee frame
i am from Karachi and i know how people think about them and behave with them in streets. It's pathetic! we really need to change our perception about them and we should not only accept them in our society but also give them full rights to live their lives freely and happily. they are also humans like us, if God didn't discriminate between them and us then who are we to discriminate?
Community should support and guide the people like ChaHat not to be on Street begging for money.
I feel so sad for her and I am pretty much sure there are many ppl like ChaHat out there.
Really want to encourage them and give them some love which they deserve.
Can u find Chahat? Really wanna contact him
Yes find Chahat and show her this comments we love her
Absolutely true! Who are we to discriminate if god has created all of us! I know god also wants them to lead a normal peaceful life! I appreciate your wise words bro! Respect to you from india for your progressive thinking.
These women are raped and beaten everyday!! What about them!?!?
Chahat is such a beautifull and noble soul, she is so pretty, both on the outside and inside. I wish i coud just give her a hug and say ''You are not alone sweetheart! Ill be your best friend, Im also trans, i feel ya!''
Life here in Pakistan for trans is too damn hard. They face too many hardships. Their families dont accept them. Society dont accept them. I wish their situation improves.
Zafira *he*
26:50 "that's why i don't love him, i just desire him. If i fall in love, i wouldn't be able to leave him" 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
can't express enough how I've seen lots of queer people felt this way. it's just beyond sad, and i can only hope for them to be able to find genuine love-may it be with another person or within themselves.
I’m crying for Chahat😥 she’s a real girl, not crazy or conceded.. she’s only ever wanted a family.. if I could I would let her live with me and we would be family:,-)
its not a girl
XXL patrick Ik she’s not but I meant she’s the realest out of all the ones I’ve seen on here she doesn’t act crazy and over Feminine, she’s genuinely a good person
No, he is a man who thinks he is a woman. If I think I am a dog does that make me a dog? No!
John Morris I said I KNOW HES NOT A REAL GIRL but at least have a heart for his life situation
@@JohnMorris-ge6hq no you should just think ur stupid Because that's what you are and that make sense
Why ppl are so uneducated and stupid gosh
The ending broke me. When I was little the flamboyancy of transgenders used to intimidate me a little bit. This documentary gave me an insight into the dark world of transgenders.
It is great that Sana was able to find a job, she seems the most intelligent to me. The emptiness in Maggie's eyes still haunt me and Chahat's despair is unbearable.
I hope their lives get better, every human deserves to live a happy and dignified life.
Thank you for respecting us lbs🙏🏻😇 god bless you
*I don't know why the video is in my recommendations but by seeing this I m really crying and will not dare to complain about my life again.....😖😖😰😰* *This is really painfull...*
Really painful video but we don't know
Y all r here .
We r in big reddterp of kal.
Real god is kavir dev
We r children of god.
Gyan ganga
I also don't know why it has come into my recommendations but this documentary is really an inspiring one and I won't complain about anything in my life.
God bless to all of us
It is just not enough for us that we thank God for not putting us in a position as them and got about doing our stuff. We should do everything in our power to make their lives better. This We can start by giving them the respect every living individual desire and deserves.
I identify with Maggie. I was also in love with a Pakistani boy. After 2 years of a long-distance relationship, he finally sent me some videos where he was celebrating his wedding. My heart broke into a thousand pieces. Now I just have to forget him.
did he marry girl or guy?
The government should atleast allow them to have respectable jobs 😔😥
For past 2 years alot has been done for transgenders in pakistan including them having proper jobs.
Thea Caballero which country even do that
Recently, a tv channel has employed a transgender as their anchorperson and new laws are being passed so at least some progress is being made. Hope for the best I guess.
I'm from India and my mom is a transgender, i am adopted but thanks to my parents i can live a happy life.
@@Keniz99 And I am sure they love you dearly. Be happy.
i want to go and save Chahat she broke my heart
U are cute
Me too
callme zizou u won my heart
But she is actually he
U r sooo cute..what is your real name
I hope the channel gave Chahat money.. an opportunity.. something. Broke my heart😔
Why
@@swegboii6447 ask that again
@@rivvy2138 why
@@swegboii6447 because she needs help...duhh
@@rivvy2138 how does that answer my question dumbass
being indian, i find these pakistani Hijdas way more polite than their Indian counterparts. The way they say "Pyare Saab" Or Dear Sir, is sooo polite.
I feel sorry for chahat & I believe everyone saw sadness in his eyes & how he wished to have a happy family
9:16 I want to strangle this man
@Roberta Rodriguez We live in a mad mad world. People in the comment calling them ‘women’ but these so called ‘women’ are male by birth. It’s something that can’t be changed no matter what these men are called
@@User-718_ People are more than their genitals. I think if a man feels like a woman or a woman feels like a man, then that isn't a problem for me. I don't really care. So these men want to be women? Fine, they're women.
@@User-718_ just shut up, be respectful, thats why they are trans, they dont fit in the norms of a cis man and a cis woman, you annoyed conservative whatever are so rude to anything different than u that doesnt harm or hurt u, u feel pleasure looking down on different people, evil in heart
His*
Lol, I love these womens sass despite the negativity that is put towards them.
Petika Grant These are men.
Pamela Middleton shes using the correct pronouns for the transgenders??
Yes very sexy and confident 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
They are male. They can say they aren't but they will always be one.
@@prodbywolfcanyon1119 they arent denying they're male, so whats your point?
Chahat made me cry when he said he would be a dog if he could live with his mom...boi stop...
Her eyes were so deep, it eeally moved me too. More power to her.
If chahat change his life style n go back as a normal man then perhaps he could live with his mom on be happy again I agree 100% with his mom to deserted him
@@hzahidaable do you think that when she become that man that never expressed her true personality and true feelings and that made her suffer and fall into depression everytime she see her self in a mirror will make her happy after she finally dressed like she wanted and find that there are some woman who felt like her? And by saying she wish that she was a dog following her mom she meant that she wish that she was never born in such a disgusting inrespectable country and to never feel that pain that she went to when she was a kid.
Yo mama yo mamay thank you, this was the perfect answer. I wish more peolpe could understand that.
You mean her smh 🤦♀️
It's sad to see how these girls have to live in such a way to keep their identity. I hope that they are no longer exposed to danger and live their lives happily.
They are actually guys so
These Homosexual Men. Thank You.
chahat...that poor soul has so much pain in her eyes...my heart broke 😭...i hope she gets her share of love and respect 🙏
sara nadeem correction *in his eyes
How to call em, so confused her or him hhhh
Why is chahat so pretty and decent tho?
Yeah i wondered the same thing he was very different from the rest...
From Inside no one likes to be thrown out of home, that's why she felt it real hard
@@umnanasar8518 *She
Ammna Abbasi you like lady boy? fine you can have him
@@jasonkuy7100 maybe they were just complementing chahat
I'm kinda expecting to read some rude comments here but hey, not most of the people are bad. I felt... Somehow, relieved.
not me
bad people dont click on such videos . theyre busy doing their bad brutal stuff
unfortunately, the dislike ratio tells a different story☹️
damn those words said by the girl in blue at the intro just make so sad
"if i had it in my fate to be like someone i would've been like like my brothers or id happy to be a dog so i could live with my mom" damn that makes me cry, i wish her family accepted her the way she is
I hate Chahats “guru”. Preying on vulnerable people, shame on you. Chahat I wish you peace, happiness and love
I have huge respect for Transgenders. In India they're considered DemiGods! They are called to bless a newborn child as they are considered lucky. Once some man tried to steal from me at a railway station and a Trans women helped me ❤️! They too have beautiful souls. And Chahat is ❤️❤️ God bless you abundantly.
Even in Pakistan people get them blessed by transgenders. Also even in India transgenders are treated badly, I never knew they were considered “Demi Gods”, if they are why are they treated so badly?
@@sandershano5758 Bro I never commented anything bad about your country. Why did it bother you so much? Don't try to start any argument here! I was just trying to send warm greeting to them ❤️ If you really what to know their standing in India today just Google Laxmi Narayan Tripathi and read here Wikipedia!! ☮️🙏
@@naturewanderer1609 it’s just a question, why are you getting mad? I had no ill intention..
@@sandershano5758 I never got mad just answered what was appropriate!! Your intentions got clear in your questions! Instead of appreciating the good you wanted to bring out the bad. Ain't we all got enough politics and politicians to do that? If I want to give a lil bit of love to some community from your country, why do you want to question it? Just coz I'm an Indian? Would you really question if I was from some other country? I don't think so! I don't know your story or your intentions but peace be with you and your loved ones. Love from India❤️ 🙏 🇮🇳
@@naturewanderer1609 Laxmi narayan tripathi. I KNOW HER
Chahat seems so lonely... I feel bad for her
Good is so sad
i agree,i really felt so bad at the last
You feel bad for him?
Yeah I feel bad for him
If a person truly wants nothing to do with something or wants nothing to do with a particular group than they wouldn't waste their time on watching transgender videos just so they can comment negative stuff so you guys are either in the closet wanting to come out.. or jealous either or