“My marriage ended because of a lack of desire to change and honor God.” That’s why most Christian marriages end including mine of 26 years. He divorced me to remarry another woman. There’s nothing anyone can do when one person chooses to divorce. I’ve been divorced five years. I’m so thankful that during my trials I’ve drawn closer to the Lord. He’s been good to me. He’s been healing me and this time alone has been amazing with Him. Great testimony and thank you for sharing it with us.
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My husband asked for a divorce.He said the passion is not there.He's been hanging out at bars.He's a man of preacher.Married 33yrs,I've been diagnosed with mantle lymphoma leukemia. He told me he met someone she has kids .My husband is 57 yrs old.Lord please help me
@@sisterhoodmatters Hang on to The Lord Sis! You were married to a repobate minded man. Don’t mourn over whom God has rejected. I am here trying to get insight on forgiving my husband. I argue with him everyday and don’t care if he away but I’m going to file for a divorce. I can’t deal with the mental anguish. He’s cheated, lied and stole but today he swears he’s not doing these things but it’s like a spirit of torment tormenting me with his ways. I truly want to be free from this Dead marriage. He’s not seeking God’s face not even a little bit.
Bless the woman for sharing such a personal story in such a very judgmental world. It's people that really need to hear this message; despite the narrow minded individuals of this world. Thanks for sharing this sis!!
I've made the horrible mistake of having an affair on my wife, luckily for me he woke me up and gave me divine correction to snap me out of an adulterous lifestyle. My wife and I have survived through the ashes. We're now enjoying our brand new grandson! I am under Jesus grace! Very Thankful!
I’ve been in your position. I was on the same dangerous path. You guys can persevere. We did it. 41 years this month. Expecting 7th Grandchild. Our children know what happened in my life. I have dedicated my grace that was given to me to help communicate potential hazards in their lives. I speak openly to them about my mistakes
Can you answer this for those of us struggling with being a good wife and still being cheated on: why? We just need an answer? I'm so glad you all are doing better. ❤
Yeah, we all have God Given Biological needs it's how we're created! When a wife Becomes a Prude Cold Fish? Uses SEX as a weapon to punish you? FVCK THAT!
@@blueseptember2174They lack integrity, empathy, boundaries, and are fundamentally self-serving. Some individuals have low cognitive functioning and a limited capacity for growth or change. They exhibit little self-reflection and avoid accountability. Their actions stem from deficiencies within themselves, not from anything you did. Don’t take it personally-if you were the same wife to other men with high emotional intelligence and integrity, they wouldn’t have cheated. Cheating and betrayal happen because individuals justify their self-serving needs and desires, regardless of the harm they cause to others. A person with low empathy is not thinking about the consequences or harm of their actions to others. Their goal is to feel better about themselves. While some cheaters may perform surface-level good deeds, these are not truly righteous people; they lack the discipline to consistently do the morally ethical thing, especially when no one is watching. The why is a lack within them. Only those willing to confront their flaws and take accountability can change and grow.
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My ex husband was a serial cheater. I left and divorced him 2018. The woman that he is living with still he was going with a couple of years before I left was pretending to be my friend. I left in 2018. They're still living together.. I was almost destroyed by these people but God will not let it happen. I am closer to God than ever 🙏 . There is life after divorce.
This struck a few chords in me, the biggest one is being a father. My heart goes out to this girl, who wanted love that she did not receive. I have a daughter and always want her to know my love for her as daddy. Praise God for the healing that you are now receiving. Sadly, most pre-marital counseling is not invasive or objectively challenging enough. I spent 2 years trying to get my first wife to come back home after she took everything and left. We had 3 different rounds of counseling and never once was a bible opened. How the ex-husband's porn addiction failed to be revealed and addressed is an example. If I were there, I would have given her a big, long hug. You are courageous to share your story. May others be helped for the glory of Jesus as a result.
I cannot believe that I just found this. I've been staying my coffee shop everyday this week because of the exact same situation. I love my husband. We have amazing marriage, except for we have absolutely no intimacy or honesty. That's not a marriage. This Saturday yesterday my husband decided to file divorce papers because I said if he wasn't honest with me you would have to divorce me he chose divorce over honesty of his p*** addiction. We've been together 17 years and race two children together. We have a granddaughter and another one coming in October. It's p*** over his family. I'm only 12 minutes 57 seconds into this but I cannot believe the similarities. Thank you for sharing the story all the way from Duchesne Utah.
You know it's funny because I just was looking for TD Jakes because every problem I have in my life I turn to him to hear his word and this woman pops up and I look and I just put in TD Jakes for giving adultery if this isn't God through someone else to show and tell you everyday I don't know what is you're beautiful God bless you and I'm on my way to success it's so hard but if you don't love yourself and your inner self you cannot love anybody else I pray that God sees us through if not she gave me courage that it's okay to move forward
@@linettemarch9271I wouldn't take her example as the best Biblical way forward. I sympathize with her pain. Truly. I can relate and empathize with her story, but marriage is a life long Covenant, not a contract. Divorce and Remarriage is not the answer. Remarriage is considered ongoing adultery according to Jesus if your original spouse still lives. And Paul makes clear that ongoing adultery not turned from means you will not inherit the Kingdom of God. So this could have eternal consequences for people choosing to divorce and then remarry to "start over". One of the best biblical teachers of the modern Era David Pawson, has covered this subject in depth. He explains how the so called exception passages are either a misapplication or even mistranslation of the text. Not a subject to bet your soul on by guessing wrong. So I hope people will hear out his arguments in full and get with the Lord before ending a marriage and starting a new one. God bless you and yours 🙏✝️🙏: David Pawson Divorce and Remarriage 2011 ua-cam.com/video/bMYa_avnirc/v-deo.htmlsi=sl3icJ_Tcwlw41zR David Pawson Divorce and Remarriage 2015 ua-cam.com/video/SpKNBw4j_6o/v-deo.htmlsi=4YbXKM7wbmTSCRqf David Pawson Divorce and Remarriage Interview on program "Heros of the Faith": ua-cam.com/video/ezbMGzHBYbc/v-deo.htmlsi=XBXDem1N7wsOlnXl
I sympathize with her pain. Truly. I can relate and empathize with her story, but marriage is a life long Covenant, not a contract. Divorce and Remarriage is not the answer. Remarriage is considered ongoing adultery according to Jesus if your original spouse still lives. And Paul makes clear that ongoing adultery not turned from means you will not inherit the Kingdom of God. So this could have eternal consequences for people choosing to divorce and then remarry to "start over". One of the best biblical teachers of the modern Era David Pawson, has covered this subject in depth. He explains how the so called exception passages are either a misapplication or even mistranslation of the text. Not a subject to bet your soul on by guessing wrong. So I hope people will hear out his arguments in full and get with the Lord before ending a marriage and starting a new one. God bless you and yours 🙏✝️🙏: David Pawson Divorce and Remarriage 2011 ua-cam.com/video/bMYa_avnirc/v-deo.htmlsi=sl3icJ_Tcwlw41zR David Pawson Divorce and Remarriage 2015 ua-cam.com/video/SpKNBw4j_6o/v-deo.htmlsi=4YbXKM7wbmTSCRqf David Pawson Divorce and Remarriage Interview on program "Heros of the Faith": ua-cam.com/video/ezbMGzHBYbc/v-deo.htmlsi=XBXDem1N7wsOlnXl
This feels like my life at the moment and if there is any way I can be connected with Koreen I would love to have just one conversation with her. Thank you for this testimony to help other women. May God continue to bless you. 🦋✨❤️
She is new christian and God is still working on her like He is continuing to work on us. I really enjoyed her testimony, I am going through a divorce, was with an addict, have daddy abandonment issues, tried to be a good wife and business woman and marriage failed. It suck her testimony was awesome and thank you. BTW who cares about the way she dressed love the message.
I admire the fact that you acknowledged the problems, knew that he needed to change and then left the marriage because he wouldn’t change. Love that you wanted to to honor God!
@scottlaflame9857 in your life, you never were mistreated even though you did nothing wrong. If you have then you can see it " only takes one to be done." Especially with corn addicts. They are the worst in behavior and lying.
It's an eye opening video, and definitely the key is "lack of desire to change and honor God." I have been single all my life partially because of my fear of this situation. But she gives the root of the problem there. Yay, I have changes to make in me before I ever get with someone. Thank you for your story!
I fully understand your testimony. I don’t know why there are so many negative 👎🏾 responses towards you and your testimony. God bless you and your future. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to love ourselves and put ourselves first. That’s a lesson the Holy Spirit has been guiding me through (lately). Bless you.💕
Too many married women don’t know how to be faithful to their husbands if a problem arises in the marriage whether it be money or sex in the bedroom just bring it up talk about it before it becomes more complicated to fix
@@Jennifer-l9n Sorry to hear that Jennifer...I have been married two times both had affairs behind my back I will not ever marry again it isn't worth the headache or stress I will just find a girlfriend or fuck buddy nothing more
Many wives talk and talk and talk and he says he'll change and then he doesn't. So a decision must be made. This is not hard to understand. You can't make people change. He has to want to.
It is like we get hurt so much by the same person we used to love. Marry the wrong person is the greatest mistake which I couldn’t forsee a character turn from bad to worse. Being alone may after all be better than with a wrong person in life. God pls help me to forget the memories of past. If you can pls erase the sad memories of such person. Amen
Alot of these comments are hateful. Most of you are watching this video based on the title and instead of coming here and embracing a fellow believer and her testimony you riducule her. I pray God has mercy on you.
WHICH GOD SINCE THE BIBLE YOU ARE READING FROM ONLY DECLARE A GOD OF ISRAEL?GOD OF JACOB?THE SAME GOD OF THE HEBREW PEOPLE...FOREVER IF YOU ARE TALKING A GOD OF CHRISTIANITY HAVING MERCY -NOW IF YOU ARE INVOKING SOME GOD OF CHRISTIANITY-HE CANNOT BE FOUND IN THE HEBREW BIBLE-NOR DOES HE EXIST-YOU HAVE BEEN LIED TOO.
I think the greatest asset for people going through a hard time in marriage is to have the right voices around. There's some much people that love each other and get divorced. Having the right people around is a game changer 🙌 🙏
What a brave woman! She could have been narrating my own story from both being Christians, me being the good girl, not wanting divorce but having to do it in the end. 30 years ago and I have forgiven him but I cannot get over the hurt and pain he caused me yet. Divorce is not the answer but if one will not work on the marriage, what do you do?
One hand can't clap 👏, the only way to row a boat to safety and efficiently is if both persons are helping. If divorce isn't an option you've already put yourself for a lifetime of unhappiness, however when men find someone they will leave, because happiness is paramount.
Sometimes some people are sent to be our best friend, a shoulder to cry on, but because of feelings and not understanding boundaries, we become lovers instead, it's hard to make a partime person a full time one.
He was in lust addiction most of his life. Fell in love but lied. It came out later cause the truth always comes to light. It affected their marriage. The end. Learn from it.
No deception in her speech. She spoke honestly, pointing all the fingers to herself and expressing her heart to God to continue His work in her. I pray that God honour her heart desire of a good marriage in Jesus name. Very sincere. God bless you.
Bravo! Your external traits (to use your term) would have made it easy to blame and not grow. Bless you for owning your own and knowing the source of all truth!
Phew. I could sense the complete exhaustion Koreen must have lived in trying to live a whole life from broken pieces. The Lord hears hearts break and sets out to make them whole. I hope she continues to trust the holiest, most powerful man who ever spoke saying, Come to me, learn of me for I am humble and gentle in heart.
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tsvarakadenga22: Well said. God can use the broken pieces of your life to make others whole. Don't despise your storm, because the anointing is often birthed during the turbulent waters of life. Be Blessed! ua-cam.com/video/CTFch0dbg9c/v-deo.html
This is awesome testimony… This Is MY STORY 😭😭… I am a new divorcee a year now. Thank You Jesus for sharing this … so much needed… People will Never Know what you go through with a Divorce.. I told The Lord I NEVER got married to Get a Divorce 😭😭
What is really hilarious, is people who do not desire to attend church seem the most judgemental of church. Know this, anyone can judge someone else, but God gave you power to judge you and your own actions. How is that working for you? I watched this whole video. Great testimony. Most of the comments are about her looks. Did anyone else listen?
Thank you for your testimony, your story was easy to follow and very well described. I'm sorry for your pain. I'm sad you lost your marriage. Your heart is beautiful.
Lisa Gransbery ahhh poor thing right.... The bitch had no idea that sleeping around can destroy a marriage....wait! ....right she was not thinking right....lol...she was lost lol
She is torn, adultery tears the victim apart that they can never be whole again as they were, and that’s one reason that in Old Testament times, adulterers like murderers and those who forced themselves sexually on others got capital punishment.
It takes 2 to tango. The man she married made some horrible mistakes but I’ve learned that it’s not always one sided. I’m sure this lady made some mistakes as well. I hear a lot of perfectionism and selfish-ambition and rarely any humility or Christ when I watched this. I pray she finds personal healing so history doesn’t repeat itself. God has taught me the hard way that there is no person in the world that can fulfill all your needs like Christ.
Hmm. I am listening closely. That idea of "fixing" each other or the other is not how it goes does it? There are only perfectly imperfect people. That doesn't excuse the sometimes harsh/cruel things we sometimes do or say to each other but exposes the false narrative you can go to all the counseling, read books and even read the bible together and you will still have a journey. A journey both people may or may not be able to survive and handle together.
We all have inner conflicts, things about ourselves that are not pleasing if/when they come out to each other. It is never, ever one sided. Love is not only a feeling but a choice, and the truth is, you can love someone but not be able to live with each others inner demons.
@beginningandlast - There are absolutely some cases where one partner desires divorce based completely on their own selfish choices. It does not always take 2 to tango. Some people just fall a part because they never leaned on the truth to set them free. And when they realize their life is just full of pain and difficulty, they have to blame someone else for their pain which is usually their spouse. If you are not surrendering your soul burdens to Christ, then you will place those burdens on others or yourself. This is the primary cause of divorce.
The problem with testimonies is that they can easily get in the way of Christ. This woman bragged about how good she was and how she tried doing everything right. There was no need for repentance because she believed she was morally superior to those around her.
Sounds like he was a narcissist. They never want help. You did right by leaving. I need to do the same because my husband is a narc too. They never stop looking for other women.
I'm suffering from the same thing. My husband is a narcissist. He cares only about himself. He chases women constantly. I thought it was me, but I'm very beautiful inside and out so in realizing it's not me.
It’s so amazing to me how we can think we are right and she tried to do it right but it still went wrong. What’s left is two people God loves and no marriage and one hurt and the other far away from God.
I'm starting to grow bitter toward men. I consider myself a fairly attractive woman, above average. I'm loyal, I try to take care of the man I'm with, I give them freedom, patience, and understanding. Yet every man seems to be either a full blown cheater, or have a severe wandering eye that they justify as "not a big deal", which will eventually lead to adultery if not checked. Well, if you're a Christian, looking at a woman with lust in your heart is committing adultery. It is a pattern for me to pick these men at this point, so it's obviously something I need to figure out, but why can't a man just be content with a good woman who is trying to live godly and support him? They want the modest woman only they see, and the nearly naked fake breasted bimbos online at the same time. I'm genuinely over it at this point.
Right! They are too lustful. They are all over the internet shaming women for not being being wives and all this negative talk about marriage and women. When majority of them are cheaters. They don’t even make marriage worth it but will shame women who aren’t married. Because they think it’s our life calling to their deal with their mess
MEN PREFER TO CONNECT WITH WOMEN PHYSICALLY. WOMEN PREFER TO CONNECT WITH MEN EMOTIONALLY. MEN NEED SEX & RESPECT. WOMEN NEED AFFECTION AND INTIMATE CONVERSATION. IF THE LANGUAGE OF A MAN IS RESPECT & TO RESPECT SOMETHING IS TO FIND IT VALUABLE, THEN THE VALUE OF A THING IS DETERMINED BY ITS RARITY. RESPECT THEREFORE, IS THE ART OF VERBAL CELEBRATION. WHATEVER YOU CELEBRATE WILL COME TO YOU WILLINGLY. GO WHERE YOU ARE CELEBRATED AND NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED. NOTICE HOW QUICKLY WOMEN WILL DISRESPECT A MAN IF HE IS PERCEIVED AS BEING CONNECTED EMOTIONALLY ELSEWHERE. EMOTIONS ARE THE LANGUAGE OF THE SOUL. EMOTIONS EMIT A FREQUENCY CALLED FEELINGS. FEELINGS ARE THE LANGUAGE OF FREQUENCY. WHEN A WOMAN'S FEELINGS ARE HURT, SHE BEGINS RESENTING THE MAN WHICH LEADS TO BITTERNESS. CONSEQUENTLY, THE FRUIT OF BITTERNESS IS S.I.G.N LANGUAGE: SHE BEGINS, SHAMING. INSULTING. GUILT TRIPPING. WHILE NEEDING TO BE RIGHT. IF THE LANGUAGE OF A WOMAN IS LOVE & TO LOVE SOMETHING IS TO FIND IT DESIRABLE, THEN DESIRE IS THE PROCESS OF BRINGING YOUR IMAGINATION TO ITS BOILING POINT. IMAGINATIONS ARE THE CONJURING OF WORDS AS PICTURES. FAIRY TALES ARE BASED ON APPEARANCE & ACCOMPLISHMENTS. PEOPLE OF POOR CHARACTER USUALLY HIDE BEHIND ACCOMPLISHMENTS AND APPEARANCE. LOOK AT THE BILLIONS OF DOLLARS SPENT ON CLOTHING AND COSMETICS. MOST PEOPLE WITHOUT DISCERNMENT CHOOSE RELATIONSHIPS BASED ON APPEARANCE & ACCOMPLISHMENTS. THIS IS THE SAME WAY PEOPLE VOTE FOR POLITICIANS. BASED ON APPEARANCE & ACCOMPLISHMENTS. NEVERTHELESS, NO ONE WONDERS WHY ATHLETES, ENTERTAINERS AND THUGS ARE IN SUCH HIGH DEMANDS DESPITE THEIR POOR CHARACTER. CHARACTER IS WHO YOU ARE WHEN NOBODY IS LOOKING. CHARACTER IS THE PERSONALITY OF THE INNER/ SPIRIT MAN. IMAGINE BEING A DOCTOR, LAWYER OR A POLITICIAN WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU KNEW YOU WOULD NEVER GET CAUGHT?
It goes both ways. There are godly men which are rare and godly women who are very rare to find. To many Christian singles don’t save themselves for marriage and this is where the problems come from.
This was really tough. To be honest I've been married 35 years. If I ever got divorced it's over. I wouldn't get married again. I believe Christ's words. It's too stressful.
Thank you for sharing. I think when I heard we got married or engaged within 6 weeks, i said oh oh. People can be on best behavior for 6 months. It takes time for the real person to show.
@StacyA406 So how are they getting pump and dump by Chad's and Tyrone's??? they thought they could do better because of that promotion or degree.# The 🧱 # less we forget!
Where did you get that strange idea? Here is a fact. Most women divorce their husbands due to adultery, porn addictions and substance abuse. If you're married to a cheater, porn addict or a drug addict you probably can do better. Nothing more disgusting than a sexually immoral person, rather than it be a man or woman.
No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening-it’s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way. Hebrews 12:11 NLT
People need to look at themselves (the demons they hold), please note the only judge is our Lord. Everything else is just ass talk. She’s blessed, anointed, and highly favored.
Has nothing to do with the discussion. Lots of physically attractive people. So what? That has nothing to do with what is important. Knowing God is the only thing important.
I’m surprised by how many people care how she was dressed. I don’t see anything exposed. She’s talking a lot about herself because this is her testimony. People need to let God change in her whatever He feels she needs to change. Picking her apart, for her trying to share some things she felt the need to share? There could be plenty of people who got something from this other than someone to judge.
“In sickness and in health, till death due us part” is so often derailed by human self-centeredness! Then to cover up the disobedience (of breaking their own marriage vows) comes all sort of defiant rationalizations, delivered in pretty sounding speeches…until their conscience is so trivialized that they believe their own lies… Jesus scribbled the men’s sins (with his finger in the dirt) as he said to the hypocrite men (ready to cast stones at the woman caught in the very act of adultery) saying let he who is without sin cast the first stone. The men walked away ashamed. Jesus said to the woman, where are your accusers? And then He said, that He didn’t condemn her either, but said to her, go and sin no more. Today, people condemn without the thought of mercy. People would do well to learn from this Biblical lesson. (book of John, chapter 8). May God mercifully bless you to understand and un-harden our hearts!
Powerful & Liberating 🙏🏾⛓️ I’m currently being sent away (divorced) and although she was hurt from a female perspective and situation I find so much of myself in her on both sides being truly hurt and at the same time have done some hurting (accountability) this truly blessed me in that I can relate on many levels and all that she spoke about in her testimony is soooo parallel to my current marriage. This hit so different b/c my wife and I are both in her testimony seeeesh praise God
I did not hear how you messed up. He committed adultery, you had nothing to do with that. You are normal, he was not. You should have been able to stay with a man who is also not perfect, but not an adulterer, and get help from his love and caring and some counseling if needed. He should have been all you needed besides God but he had issues only God could help, not you. Marriage is amazing unless you are married to a narcissist. They do not change unless they let God change them
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she doesnt have anything to do with his adultery. Did you NOT hear how she said he had those issues prior to marriage (always seeking attention from other woment)???
koreen, sorry for the unloving comments down below. Your testimony was great, I'm a male and I really enjoyed this. I can see the professionalism in the way you speak lol, so I can tell you weren't lying about the career stuff. Although what some of the people said below was true, they don't understand that you must share the truth with people in a loving way. There is a time to be lovingly firm with your words, and there is a time to be really gentle. If they don't change there will be trouble for them on judgement day. This is a situation where people should of been really gentle with their words and they needed to be more understanding. I understand that not everyone is taught how to dress, and not every church holds to this standard properly. I also understand that many people are still growing in their walks with Christ and God is dealing with them. With this being said, I decided to leave you with a gentle soft correction, and left the people below with a firm correction as they deserve. God has called me to be a teacher and as a teacher I probably can learn some things from your professionalism, because your brother in Christ wants a good job lol. Also there are some deeper things, i'd like to share with you concerning marriage. Here is my fb to contact me or leave a way for me to contact you if that's okay. facebook.com/david.charles.906
It happens… I too was divorced from a person I was so crazy about. As a man, I never abused her, never cheated, never even cursed her out. But she did the lying, cheating, etc. the marriage only lasted two years and we had one child. What I would like to share with others… seriously take the commandments from God very seriously. People “believe in marriage “ more than up holding God’s commandments. We all have to be careful of “self worship “ doing what we want etc and not seeking God’s permission. In fact, I discovered many of never took the time to the Old Testament, we never look at the book Leviticus.. we don’t pray and fast as said in Matthew17:21 that most bibles taken out such as the NIV… In short, many of “justify” to marry a person either one or both want “god” in the relationship… but really want to be a “god” in the relationship. Peace to you all and keep studying.
Experienced nearly the exact thing. 17 years and she had to have it all her way, ran from God into the world, surrounded herself with friends that were not believers, steeped heavily into the world and their influence over her destroyed all the good in her The lying, sneaking around, cheating all followed. She refuses to be accountable to me, to our children and especially to God. She resents me for holding her accountable. She began an affair with someone 16 years older, obese, unattractive is putting it nicely, an atheist, and she now lives with him.
This was such a powerful testimony I really enjoyed her boldness to speak on such a very rarely spoken about topic , but very commonly this happens!! She said some very important things that a lot of single people in the faith should really take heed don’t marry until you allow God to heal and deliver you from the stuff you have routed inside of you. A lot of Christians are very naïve when it comes to marrying God way. I love that she takes accountability for her own baggage, but she is not the reason the marriage failed She did everything right according to the word of God. The Bible tells us that adultery is a reason to divorce you can’t force someone to grow with you if they’re not willing to, sounds like he loved his lifestyle more than he loved his marriage because he didn’t even try to fight for it. I believe this man was a wolf in sheep clothing, He was a good friend, but he still deceived her. He made it seem like he wanted to honor the Lord by waiting for sex until marriage. Only because he knew it meant something to her he always had that lust spirit in him lust is not something that just comes overnight this sounds like to me a serious case of Lust and perversion and yes this has to be something he was been dealing with for a very long time way before she came in the picture. Men like this prey on good women like her, because they see the value that typically the woman doesn’t see because she is not aware of who she is due to traumatic experiences often associated childhood
true, I think he was the wrong man but their was a hook from her childhood and hurt and they established an ungodly soul tie that damaged her and kept her still linked to him even after. That man needs the LORD.
@@hollikrebs women who desires marriage and really honors GOD needs to seek wisdom and discernment because you must be able the obverse that persons fruit. Marriage is also I believe not for the immature, because mature people knows that a solid foundation is important and if Christ is not the foundation the marriage is built on especially if you’re confessing to be Christians it will fall. Marriage is no joke its an actual covenant
Why do people who are abused feel a need to accept responsibility for the abuse? Now you are abusing yourself! Forgive him, but no need to change the reality that he abused himself and you! If you had fallen for a man with integrity, you would not be up there. You are healthier than you think.
All Adams children have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Jesus died to redeem and with the holy spirit we all struggle with many things that are not right. He will come again to judge the living and the dead. thanks for sharing
I agree, it’s worldly to wear clothing revealing and form fitting but the truth is her heart. God loves her with His perfect Love and I hear her love for God and her devotion to God in her voice. Bless her. 💛
I can totally relate to the intimacy anorexia. If that's the recovery she's talking about, super important to address or her next relationship will suffer too. Good for her.
Having been in relationship with an emotional anorexic, I know the loneliness and emotional pain. It’s a wicked thing to do to another person. People need to deal with their stuff.
She shared her testimony. She was truthful . She spoke HER truth about her marriage to an x husband that had addictions. She was sharing truthfully. I'm not sure why you would say that you don't believe her. It doesn't matter .... Because she was bold and brave and courageous to share her truth. She also did not have to reveal being explosive with her anger. I took that as her not being a victim , but looking at how his abandonment and betrayal impacted her and she did not show up as her best self. Clearly , we all do the best we can when there's addictions, past unhealed wounds, abuse and neglect in the relationship with a spouse or another person we love and trust, whom betrayed us. All women do not claim to be victims . But as a survivor myself , I was victimized , and now I choose to be around others that are healing Too. So that makes us survivors. She did a good job!!
It doesn’t matter if she was the most terrible and mean wife ever. Adultery is the only valid grounds for divorce because it is such a deep and vile assault on the other partner. Short of murder, there’s no higher form of contempt for human life. “Abuse” is far too soft a word for what cheating does to your spouse.
I feel so sad for this testimony. I also misunderstood the title of this video, I thought this was a testimony of a cheater. My bad. Hope you're seeing better days!
Thank you for sharing, I think there are a lot of broken people out there struggling with what you struggle with, goodie goodie shoes that is empty...moulded by society and religion...sad how Satan pulls the wool over a person's eyes. Be blessed and Happiness with the true Father God, a living Daddy omnipresent...
The hardest thing I ever been through is getting out a marriage full of lies and the mess of the divorce. But I found Jesus in the brokenness. It’s was worth it. I lost my life and picked up his 🙌 praise The God of Heaven’s armies ❤️🙏
A strong businessman don't always mean he's going to love u he could be a complete ass u could meet a guy working in a shop who would love and respect u as u are
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When you show your body it is unrighteous. The bible speaks on dressing modest and covering your self up and to not give men a reason to look sexually at you. The bible mentions about adultry. If a man looks upon another women and lust after her he is committing adultry. That is an obiniation in the eyes of the lord becuase just with one look of a perverted man she can send them to hel*. It's hard to explain to a blind person (metorphorically speaking). Becuase the world wont understand the purity of the lord or his ways. Everyone else always makes excuses and say no that is ok, There nothing wrong. Becuase they are so use to perversion in their surroundings. But spiritually speaking she is dressed wrong because its inappropriate. The dress is tight, short, she wears make up. The only women that married make up in the bible was Jezebel and the lord feed her to the dogs becuase she wanted everyone to lust after her and not only that there are more topics like perversion etc. And the bible speaks of the womens hair being her glory. That it is her covering that represents her following christ, therefore strong firm believers dont cut their hair. If you believe God you would actually listen to the word of God and not only make up excuses to try to fit in with the world. For there is a scripture that says if you find your life here you will loose it in heaven. People dont seperate themselves from sin and start thinking everyone is holly when all they did was reject God, his word and his invitation.
It’s not someone else’s responsibility to guard your thoughts. You can be dressed like a nun and still be far from the Lord in your heart. So much expectation on women to keep men from lusting and that’s not on us. It’s up to the Holy Spirit to teach not you or I because everyone won’t agree on style of clothing.
@@Tyler-xt1sl that's all good, but modern day relationships are a different thing. Women are no longer considered property. With freedom comes great responsibility. Do you see our generations being responsible? I don't. Just dont get married
Please quit reading a book that considered women property. Its the old testament. Most old cultures considered women a burden and property. Since everyone is on equal playing fields then there is no reason to try to use religion to try and cover up your mistakes. God is a myth created by man to control the population. Stop using your faith as a crutch. No disrespect. Before you dig more verses up.... dont cast your pearls into swine. I used to be Christian. I dont care for your faith.
All that she spoke of ...is her excellentcy .....now i understand she might be a good woman...but women with this everything right...is very difficult to live with...and then play the victim...
This is bullshit! Another modern woman using her relationship with god to make HER bad choices (because they're not mistakes) ok w/god and her. You see how she emphasized being proud. She said I can lift my head high again. When she tells her story she takes half the time talking about how bad her husband, If she's sincere be accountable about your part! So the victim narrative is strong. Not being ashamed. She jokes about making divorce look good and pumping up that she makes that bag and could afford to walk away. She's every bit that career woman who puts herself first and because she can get up in front of people like a slick manager giving a presentation don't mean shit. She comes off disingenuous. It is what it is.
@@torig.5864 Good, strong successful men can see, sense or smell 304's a mile away. She put on an act. She ain't no different from the person she's telling the story about to the person who's telling the story. She should be ashamed of herself and that story. That is the sad fact about today's females. You-all have NO shame. You want it to be alright if you screw it to hell like this. She does not come across as a person of character. Still very proud, and the selfish character she said she was in her marriage she still is to this day and her happy so called testimony of cheating on her husband probably only resonates with females operating falsely like her. Wanting sympathy for her bad choices. Trust me. She will back down that dusty lonely road of whoring out! 💯😎
I feel u brother. No accountability on her end. Its always the mans fault at the end of every relationship and simps will rub her back and take her side
I ca relate it was like a dream a sleepover. I prayed over everything sacrificed all and still it fell apart it now feels surreal everything was confirmed by others in the church
Remember it takes two people to make a marriage, and it is based on intimacy, trust, and partnership. If you are the only one working on the marriage and the other person wants it to all be their way or the highway, not our way, the way God intended, then you are working with a narcissist. If you try to make your husband/partner happy by being there when he comes home, letting him know how much you miss him when he's not around, wanting to do things a husband and wife do, yet he cannot stop looking at smut, which is really allowing human trafficking, and if he sleeps with other women or even men (even that happens), then you are fighting a demon who has already destroyed your life to take you and your marriage from God.
Geez, her husband sounds like a Narc, ...he seems to have all the traits of a Narc. Narc always want to move fast in a relationship, always have some sort of addiction, once they trap u in the marriage, thts when all the abuse and cheating starts. Expect the real nightmare to begin, knowing the person u fell in love with/ married was not really there.
I'm so sorry for your pain. But divorce wasn't the best choice. It wasn't the right choice. Standing for your marriage, that is what is right! And yes, I know a lot of what she's going through with her husband...honestly I think most would agree my situation is worse. But "a lack of a desire to...honor God" is not a reason to divorce, because God hates divorce. By getting a divorce, that person also fails to honor God. Anyone considering divorce, or already divorced (like I am), know that your marriage can be restored by Jesus! STAND for your marriage and for healing of the one you promised your forever to!
I think it's not up to you to decide what was best for her marriage--especially if u were not in it. The bible even says that abuse of any form, adultery and lack of service to God are valid reasons for divorce. Especially if things are unchangeable or irredeemable. It seems she tried all she could (therapy/counselling/conferences) to patch up the marriage and exhausted all her strategies. If a man is taking u further away from the path of God, divorce may be the best (though most difficult) option.
@@Tam974eva I totally get where you're coming from. And that's why it's not me that decides what's best, it's God. I speak only from His word. Can you tell me where it says "abuse in any form, adultery, and lack of service to God" are valid reasons for divorce? I can't seem to find those in my Bible.
I think you’re missing the point, she tried everything and exhausted all of her options, yet he didn’t want to put in the work to save their marriage. And quite frankly, it sounds like he would’ve driven her further away from God. Currently, she’s worked on herself, continues to pursue healing and wants to honour God. And God being the graceful and merciful God that he is, will not only forgive but renew her heart and use this situation to bless her in other ways. Marriage is a two way street, she can’t be the only one willing to do the work and expect the marriage to last. God bless
@@jampelmk9044 I'm not missing the point. There is no such thing as "tried all of the options" as long as your spouse is alive, because there's always the option of "I can wait one more day." She didn't try to wait on the Lord longer. I've heard of marriages restored after 7 years, 9 years, 12 years, even 20 years, while one spouse stood on the word of God and waited and the other spouse ran wild. God can restore if we are patient. She should be waiting longer. Marriage is for life, period. How long did people in the Bible wait on the Lord? Abraham waited on the Lord until he was in extremely old for a son before he even got the promise, then still some 15 years after the promise. David was I think 17 years, Joseph was many years, we don't really know how long though exactly. The only person who has the power to pull us away from God is us, when we choose to focus on other things.
Nope! God grants us permission to divorce adulterers. But she will have to remain single and celibate until he dies. I’d rather be single then be with a lustful adulterers. No ones has to put up with your cheating. And often Christian men cheat because of Gid hatred for divorce and they abuse Gods grace. And abuse forgiveness from their wife
@@Brandiisbeloved Yea... I am not exactly sure what I was thinking when I wrote that. Now, I think I would probably say something more along the lines of "If he repented of adultery and was committed to change please consider reconciling the marriage". 1 Corinthians 7:11 says "But if indeed she is separated, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to the husband". Women need to know that it is noble and ok to remain married even in adulterous situations. It is not easy. It is not normal. It is hard. But I would like woman who have been the victims of adultery and ongoing porn use by their husbands to be FREE to remain married to their husbands. Jesus has the same sentiment (Matthew 19). They do not have to tolerate the adultery and porn. It is sin and we should hate what God hates and love what God loves, but divorce does not have to be the answer either. I could write a book on it but Love is longsuffering (1 Corinthians 13). Suffer for a while, loooongsuffer, create distance, get pastors involved, separate (even for years if necessary), heal, recover, counsel... but divorce does not have to be the "testimony". There are so many beautiful testimonies of restoration after offense. I would even say that her commitment to him could help lead to his healing. He is broken. He needs someone to walk through the journey with him. The deception that many woman are told in these scenarios is that "the man will never change. You will deal with this for the rest of your life". That is a lie from the enemy. Men change and are changing. Maybe God put you two together to be part of that beautiful journey towards holiness. It is difficult and that is what makes it beautiful. In her situation, it sounds like she was still attracted to him and had a level of desire for relationship. That is very promising. That brings me an element of hope for her story. Why not tell the man "Hey, if you... a, b and c then lets talk about getting back together?" The other major deception that many believe is that she is now free to marry another. The bible strictly forbids it. If she remarries, she is an adulterous. This is intense. The bible says "adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God" (it is a reference to hell). This is another reason to fight for the marriage. You have three options now #1 Believe God and contend for a restored marriage. #2 Remain single until his or her death. #3 Remarry someone else and risk eternal damnation. My point is that option #1 seems to be the most hopeful of those three. Am I right? Try! Stick it out! Show the world what God can do! Believe! Pray! This marriage restored would be a true testimony. Divorce is NOT a testimony. God hates divorce and therefore it cannot be a testimony.
@@BrandiisbelovedGod hates divorce. Do you realise that when they exchange their vows before God they never mentioned adultery? Only death will do us apart they say hence if they break of even due to adultery they are liars and they are not honouring the vows they made before God. God has never honoured divorce. Fear God and Obey his commandments.
For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; 2Timothy 4:3 Titus 1:13 This surely is a true saying. And you should be hard on such people, so you can help them grow stronger in their faith. Hebrews 12:6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 King James Version (KJV) 4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; 6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; 7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. 8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. 1 John 4:8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
Adultery is wrong period regardless of the reason proverbs 6:33 says a person who does this that their reproach will never be taken away🤷🏿♀️ don’t justify sin because it’s offensive to God😡
This sounds more like a performance than a testimony don’t hear humility or Jesus, and that outfit seems a little inappropriate for this setting, it’s all thru grace, pray we grow in wisdom and knowledge in Christ
“My marriage ended because of a lack of desire to change and honor God.” That’s why most Christian marriages end including mine of 26 years. He divorced me to remarry another woman. There’s nothing anyone can do when one person chooses to divorce. I’ve been divorced five years. I’m so thankful that during my trials I’ve drawn closer to the Lord. He’s been good to me. He’s been healing me and this time alone has been amazing with Him. Great testimony and thank you for sharing it with us.
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My husband asked for a divorce.He said the passion is not there.He's been hanging out at bars.He's a man of preacher.Married 33yrs,I've been diagnosed with mantle lymphoma leukemia. He told me he met someone she has kids .My husband is 57 yrs old.Lord please help me
@@sisterhoodmatters Hang on to The Lord Sis! You were married to a repobate minded man. Don’t mourn over whom God has rejected. I am here trying to get insight on forgiving my husband. I argue with him everyday and don’t care if he away but I’m going to file for a divorce. I can’t deal with the mental anguish. He’s cheated, lied and stole but today he swears he’s not doing these things but it’s like a spirit of torment tormenting me with his ways. I truly want to be free from this Dead marriage. He’s not seeking God’s face not even a little bit.
Truthfulness and vulnerability are so underrated. Major respect for this lady. I could identify with somme stuff. God bless her and her journey.
Bless the woman for sharing such a personal story in such a very judgmental world. It's people that really need to hear this message; despite the narrow minded individuals of this world. Thanks for sharing this sis!!
I've made the horrible mistake of having an affair on my wife, luckily for me he woke me up and gave me divine correction to snap me out of an adulterous lifestyle. My wife and I have survived through the ashes. We're now enjoying our brand new grandson! I am under Jesus grace! Very Thankful!
You sound weak you should just leave than cheat but you believe your in a loving relationship.
I’ve been in your position. I was on the same dangerous path. You guys can persevere. We did it. 41 years this month. Expecting 7th Grandchild. Our children know what happened in my life. I have dedicated my grace that was given to me to help communicate potential hazards in their lives. I speak openly to them about my mistakes
Can you answer this for those of us struggling with being a good wife and still being cheated on: why? We just need an answer?
I'm so glad you all are doing better. ❤
Yeah, we all have God Given Biological needs it's how we're created! When a wife Becomes a Prude Cold Fish? Uses SEX as a weapon to punish you? FVCK THAT!
@@blueseptember2174They lack integrity, empathy, boundaries, and are fundamentally self-serving. Some individuals have low cognitive functioning and a limited capacity for growth or change. They exhibit little self-reflection and avoid accountability. Their actions stem from deficiencies within themselves, not from anything you did. Don’t take it personally-if you were the same wife to other men with high emotional intelligence and integrity, they wouldn’t have cheated. Cheating and betrayal happen because individuals justify their self-serving needs and desires, regardless of the harm they cause to others. A person with low empathy is not thinking about the consequences or harm of their actions to others. Their goal is to feel better about themselves. While some cheaters may perform surface-level good deeds, these are not truly righteous people; they lack the discipline to consistently do the morally ethical thing, especially when no one is watching. The why is a lack within them. Only those willing to confront their flaws and take accountability can change and grow.
It took alot to get up there and talk about it. A divorce is painful. Thanks for sharing!
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My ex husband was a serial cheater. I left and divorced him 2018. The woman that he is living with still he was going with a couple of years before I left was pretending to be my friend. I left in 2018. They're still living together.. I was almost destroyed by these people but God will not let it happen. I am closer to God than ever 🙏 . There is life after divorce.
My wife of 12 years had an affair, sometimes I ask myself if this is a bad dream. Either way I packed my stuff and left. I’m divorcing her .
Same here. Divorced in 2013
This struck a few chords in me, the biggest one is being a father. My heart goes out to this girl, who wanted love that she did not receive. I have a daughter and always want her to know my love for her as daddy. Praise God for the healing that you are now receiving. Sadly, most pre-marital counseling is not invasive or objectively challenging enough. I spent 2 years trying to get my first wife to come back home after she took everything and left. We had 3 different rounds of counseling and never once was a bible opened. How the ex-husband's porn addiction failed to be revealed and addressed is an example. If I were there, I would have given her a big, long hug. You are courageous to share your story. May others be helped for the glory of Jesus as a result.
I cannot believe that I just found this. I've been staying my coffee shop everyday this week because of the exact same situation. I love my husband. We have amazing marriage, except for we have absolutely no intimacy or honesty. That's not a marriage. This Saturday yesterday my husband decided to file divorce papers because I said if he wasn't honest with me you would have to divorce me he chose divorce over honesty of his p*** addiction. We've been together 17 years and race two children together. We have a granddaughter and another one coming in October. It's p*** over his family. I'm only 12 minutes 57 seconds into this but I cannot believe the similarities. Thank you for sharing the story all the way from Duchesne Utah.
Bless this sister for her testimony. She’s going to help others.
You know it's funny because I just was looking for TD Jakes because every problem I have in my life I turn to him to hear his word and this woman pops up and I look and I just put in TD Jakes for giving adultery if this isn't God through someone else to show and tell you everyday I don't know what is you're beautiful God bless you and I'm on my way to success it's so hard but if you don't love yourself and your inner self you cannot love anybody else I pray that God sees us through if not she gave me courage that it's okay to move forward
@@linettemarch9271I wouldn't take her example as the best Biblical way forward. I sympathize with her pain. Truly. I can relate and empathize with her story, but marriage is a life long Covenant, not a contract. Divorce and Remarriage is not the answer. Remarriage is considered ongoing adultery according to Jesus if your original spouse still lives. And Paul makes clear that ongoing adultery not turned from means you will not inherit the Kingdom of God. So this could have eternal consequences for people choosing to divorce and then remarry to "start over".
One of the best biblical teachers of the modern Era David Pawson, has covered this subject in depth. He explains how the so called exception passages are either a misapplication or even mistranslation of the text. Not a subject to bet your soul on by guessing wrong. So I hope people will hear out his arguments in full and get with the Lord before ending a marriage and starting a new one. God bless you and yours 🙏✝️🙏:
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Very courageous 18:23
Watching this I feel a reflection of myself and my marriage. I'm holding on to the faith of a mustard seed. Balling my eyes out, God bless her 🙏
I sympathize with her pain. Truly. I can relate and empathize with her story, but marriage is a life long Covenant, not a contract. Divorce and Remarriage is not the answer. Remarriage is considered ongoing adultery according to Jesus if your original spouse still lives. And Paul makes clear that ongoing adultery not turned from means you will not inherit the Kingdom of God. So this could have eternal consequences for people choosing to divorce and then remarry to "start over".
One of the best biblical teachers of the modern Era David Pawson, has covered this subject in depth. He explains how the so called exception passages are either a misapplication or even mistranslation of the text. Not a subject to bet your soul on by guessing wrong. So I hope people will hear out his arguments in full and get with the Lord before ending a marriage and starting a new one. God bless you and yours 🙏✝️🙏:
David Pawson
Divorce and Remarriage 2011
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My husband left me for the streets but God has kept me through it All
This feels like my life at the moment and if there is any way I can be connected with Koreen I would love to have just one conversation with her. Thank you for this testimony to help other women. May God continue to bless you. 🦋✨❤️
She is new christian and God is still working on her like He is continuing to work on us. I really enjoyed her testimony, I am going through a divorce, was with an addict, have daddy abandonment issues, tried to be a good wife and business woman and marriage failed. It suck her testimony was awesome and thank you. BTW who cares about the way she dressed love the message.
hope you pull through🙏
Me too. I am healing from my narcs put downs. I'm glad she mentioned financial. That is why I am still here.
I admire the fact that you acknowledged the problems, knew that he needed to change and then left the marriage because he wouldn’t change. Love that you wanted to to honor God!
@@TowannaLoweHarrisalways two sides to the story dont be fooled. Only a fool would believe that a marriage ended because only one person had fault
@scottlaflame9857 in your life, you never were mistreated even though you did nothing wrong. If you have then you can see it " only takes one to be done." Especially with corn addicts. They are the worst in behavior and lying.
Two sinners living under one roof is difficult unless they follow God’s blueprint for marriage.
It's an eye opening video, and definitely the key is "lack of desire to change and honor God." I have been single all my life partially because of my fear of this situation. But she gives the root of the problem there. Yay, I have changes to make in me before I ever get with someone.
Thank you for your story!
I fully understand your testimony. I don’t know why there are so many negative 👎🏾 responses towards you and your testimony. God bless you and your future. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to love ourselves and put ourselves first. That’s a lesson the Holy Spirit has been guiding me through (lately). Bless you.💕
The Bible never tells us to put ourselves first.
Too many married women don’t know how to be faithful to their husbands if a problem arises in the marriage whether it be money or sex in the bedroom just bring it up talk about it before it becomes more complicated to fix
I was faithful and my husband slept with his 22 year old co worker and I had to find out by seeing their secret pornography on his phone 💔
@@Jennifer-l9n Sorry to hear that Jennifer...I have been married two times both had affairs behind my back I will not ever marry again it isn't worth the headache or stress I will just find a girlfriend or fuck buddy nothing more
Many wives talk and talk and talk and he says he'll change and then he doesn't. So a decision must be made.
This is not hard to understand.
You can't make people change. He has to want to.
It is like we get hurt so much by the same person we used to love. Marry the wrong person is the greatest mistake which I couldn’t forsee a character turn from bad to worse. Being alone may after all be better than with a wrong person in life. God pls help me to forget the memories of past. If you can pls erase the sad memories of such person. Amen
Thank you and may God bless us all who got betrayed by our unfaithful partners/ husbands.
Alot of these comments are hateful. Most of you are watching this video based on the title and instead of coming here and embracing a fellow believer and her testimony you riducule her. I pray God has mercy on you.
Thankful for her vulnerability and the transparency she has shown. Thanks lovebug.
WHICH GOD SINCE THE BIBLE YOU ARE READING FROM ONLY DECLARE A GOD OF ISRAEL?GOD OF JACOB?THE SAME GOD OF THE HEBREW PEOPLE...FOREVER
IF YOU ARE TALKING A GOD OF CHRISTIANITY HAVING MERCY -NOW IF YOU ARE INVOKING SOME GOD OF CHRISTIANITY-HE CANNOT BE FOUND IN THE HEBREW BIBLE-NOR DOES HE EXIST-YOU HAVE BEEN LIED TOO.
I think the greatest asset for people going through a hard time in marriage is to have the right voices around. There's some much people that love each other and get divorced. Having the right people around is a game changer 🙌 🙏
What a brave woman! She could have been narrating my own story from both being Christians, me being the good girl, not wanting divorce but having to do it in the end. 30 years ago and I have forgiven him but I cannot get over the hurt and pain he caused me yet. Divorce is not the answer but if one will not work on the marriage, what do you do?
One hand can't clap 👏, the only way to row a boat to safety and efficiently is if both persons are helping. If divorce isn't an option you've already put yourself for a lifetime of unhappiness, however when men find someone they will leave, because happiness is paramount.
Sometimes some people are sent to be our best friend, a shoulder to cry on, but because of feelings and not understanding boundaries, we become lovers instead, it's hard to make a partime person a full time one.
Now, his side.......
He was in lust addiction most of his life. Fell in love but lied. It came out later cause the truth always comes to light. It affected their marriage. The end. Learn from it.
No deception in her speech. She spoke honestly, pointing all the fingers to herself and expressing her heart to God to continue His work in her. I pray that God honour her heart desire of a good marriage in Jesus name. Very sincere. God bless you.
Bravo! Your external traits (to use your term) would have made it easy to blame and not grow. Bless you for owning your own and knowing the source of all truth!
Such a wonderful testimony. May our Lord Jesus Christ continue to guide and bless you. Thank you for sharing. It was really helpful.
Thank you so much!!! Truly a Blessing 💜
Phew. I could sense the complete exhaustion Koreen must have lived in trying to live a whole life from broken pieces. The Lord hears hearts break and sets out to make them whole. I hope she continues to trust the holiest, most powerful man who ever spoke saying, Come to me, learn of me for I am humble and gentle in heart.
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Beautiful testimony.
This is why she didn't feel comfortable sharing her story, you ppl are so judgmental. Let her be, God loves her the way she is.
tsvarakadenga22 amen sister!
tsvarakadenga22: Well said. God can use the broken pieces of your life to make others whole. Don't despise your storm, because the anointing is often birthed during the turbulent waters of life. Be Blessed!
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This is awesome testimony… This Is MY STORY 😭😭… I am a new divorcee a year now. Thank You Jesus for sharing this … so much needed… People will Never Know what you go through with a Divorce.. I told The Lord I NEVER got married to Get a Divorce 😭😭
What is really hilarious, is people who do not desire to attend church seem the most judgemental of church. Know this, anyone can judge someone else, but God gave you power to judge you and your own actions. How is that working for you? I watched this whole video. Great testimony. Most of the comments are about her looks. Did anyone else listen?
Most people don't attend church because there's no True spirituality in the church. It's all about money, money, money!
justinbig10 That’s your experience. Not mine
Starts at 9:25. If you want to know how to keep a man read the book the Care and Feeding of Husbands.
Thank you for your testimony, your story was easy to follow and very well described. I'm sorry for your pain. I'm sad you lost your marriage. Your heart is beautiful.
Lisa Gransbery ahhh poor thing right.... The bitch had no idea that sleeping around can destroy a marriage....wait! ....right she was not thinking right....lol...she was lost lol
@@evenunez7175 She states in the video that her ex husband was the one that cheated, not her.
For better or for worse. Noticed how she talks majority of her ex husband.
She is torn, adultery tears the victim apart that they can never be whole again as they were, and that’s one reason that in Old Testament times, adulterers like murderers and those who forced themselves sexually on others got capital punishment.
It takes 2 to tango. The man she married made some horrible mistakes but I’ve learned that it’s not always one sided. I’m sure this lady made some mistakes as well. I hear a lot of perfectionism and selfish-ambition and rarely any humility or Christ when I watched this. I pray she finds personal healing so history doesn’t repeat itself. God has taught me the hard way that there is no person in the world that can fulfill all your needs like Christ.
Hmm. I am listening closely. That idea of "fixing" each other or the other is not how it goes does it? There are only perfectly imperfect people. That doesn't excuse the sometimes harsh/cruel things we sometimes do or say to each other but exposes the false narrative you can go to all the counseling, read books and even read the bible together and you will still have a journey. A journey both people may or may not be able to survive and handle together.
We all have inner conflicts, things about ourselves that are not pleasing if/when they come out to each other. It is never, ever one sided. Love is not only a feeling but a choice, and the truth is, you can love someone but not be able to live with each others inner demons.
She is growing, it doesn't seem so at first glance, she has things she is working out in herself. No perfect people.
@beginningandlast - There are absolutely some cases where one partner desires divorce based completely on their own selfish choices. It does not always take 2 to tango. Some people just fall a part because they never leaned on the truth to set them free. And when they realize their life is just full of pain and difficulty, they have to blame someone else for their pain which is usually their spouse.
If you are not surrendering your soul burdens to Christ, then you will place those burdens on others or yourself. This is the primary cause of divorce.
The problem with testimonies is that they can easily get in the way of Christ. This woman bragged about how good she was and how she tried doing everything right. There was no need for repentance because she believed she was morally superior to those around her.
Thank you for your honesty, transparency and boldness to share your story. The Lord is not done His work to completion yet.
What was her role in the divorce again?
She didn't do anything but have enough of the mistreatment. She's a good woman and he'll regret he lost her for the rest of his days.
Sounds like he was a narcissist. They never want help. You did right by leaving. I need to do the same because my husband is a narc too. They never stop looking for other women.
I'm suffering from the same thing. My husband is a narcissist. He cares only about himself. He chases women constantly. I thought it was me, but I'm very beautiful inside and out so in realizing it's not me.
Women love them some narcissistic men, don't they. Don't change up now.
@@jenniferfisher4606 I’m so sorry Jennifer. Wishing you strength of heart within you.
It’s so amazing to me how we can think we are right and she tried to do it right but it still went wrong. What’s left is two people God loves and no marriage and one hurt and the other far away from God.
Wonderful testimony. I hope she can find a mate who is worthy of her.
This takes boldness, and honesty before God. I’ve never seen anyone be honest and repentant and be denied restoration and blessing by the Lord.
I share your pain, if you havent been there you wouldnt understand
I'm starting to grow bitter toward men. I consider myself a fairly attractive woman, above average. I'm loyal, I try to take care of the man I'm with, I give them freedom, patience, and understanding. Yet every man seems to be either a full blown cheater, or have a severe wandering eye that they justify as "not a big deal", which will eventually lead to adultery if not checked. Well, if you're a Christian, looking at a woman with lust in your heart is committing adultery. It is a pattern for me to pick these men at this point, so it's obviously something I need to figure out, but why can't a man just be content with a good woman who is trying to live godly and support him? They want the modest woman only they see, and the nearly naked fake breasted bimbos online at the same time. I'm genuinely over it at this point.
Right! They are too lustful. They are all over the internet shaming women for not being being wives and all this negative talk about marriage and women. When majority of them are cheaters. They don’t even make marriage worth it but will shame women who aren’t married. Because they think it’s our life calling to their deal with their mess
MEN PREFER TO CONNECT WITH WOMEN PHYSICALLY.
WOMEN PREFER TO CONNECT WITH MEN EMOTIONALLY.
MEN NEED SEX & RESPECT.
WOMEN NEED AFFECTION AND INTIMATE CONVERSATION.
IF THE LANGUAGE OF A MAN IS RESPECT & TO RESPECT SOMETHING IS TO FIND IT VALUABLE, THEN THE VALUE OF A THING IS DETERMINED BY ITS RARITY.
RESPECT THEREFORE, IS THE ART OF VERBAL CELEBRATION.
WHATEVER YOU CELEBRATE WILL COME TO YOU WILLINGLY.
GO WHERE YOU ARE CELEBRATED AND NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED.
NOTICE HOW QUICKLY WOMEN WILL DISRESPECT A MAN IF HE IS PERCEIVED AS BEING CONNECTED EMOTIONALLY ELSEWHERE.
EMOTIONS ARE THE LANGUAGE OF THE SOUL.
EMOTIONS EMIT A FREQUENCY CALLED FEELINGS.
FEELINGS ARE THE LANGUAGE OF FREQUENCY.
WHEN A WOMAN'S FEELINGS ARE HURT, SHE BEGINS RESENTING THE MAN WHICH LEADS TO BITTERNESS. CONSEQUENTLY, THE FRUIT OF BITTERNESS IS S.I.G.N LANGUAGE: SHE BEGINS,
SHAMING.
INSULTING.
GUILT TRIPPING.
WHILE NEEDING TO BE RIGHT.
IF THE LANGUAGE OF A WOMAN IS LOVE & TO LOVE SOMETHING IS TO FIND IT DESIRABLE, THEN DESIRE IS THE PROCESS OF BRINGING YOUR IMAGINATION TO ITS BOILING POINT.
IMAGINATIONS ARE THE CONJURING OF WORDS AS PICTURES. FAIRY TALES ARE BASED ON APPEARANCE & ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
PEOPLE OF POOR CHARACTER USUALLY HIDE BEHIND ACCOMPLISHMENTS AND APPEARANCE.
LOOK AT THE BILLIONS OF DOLLARS SPENT ON CLOTHING AND COSMETICS.
MOST PEOPLE WITHOUT DISCERNMENT CHOOSE RELATIONSHIPS BASED ON APPEARANCE & ACCOMPLISHMENTS. THIS IS THE SAME WAY PEOPLE VOTE FOR POLITICIANS. BASED ON APPEARANCE & ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
NEVERTHELESS, NO ONE WONDERS WHY ATHLETES, ENTERTAINERS AND THUGS ARE IN SUCH HIGH DEMANDS DESPITE THEIR POOR CHARACTER.
CHARACTER IS WHO YOU ARE WHEN NOBODY IS LOOKING.
CHARACTER IS THE PERSONALITY OF THE INNER/ SPIRIT MAN.
IMAGINE BEING A DOCTOR, LAWYER OR A POLITICIAN WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU KNEW YOU WOULD NEVER GET CAUGHT?
Indeed very stressful 😫 keep the faith 🙏🏽
To my fellow Christians. When u were baptized, you died to yourself. You no longer live but christ.
It goes both ways. There are godly men which are rare and godly women who are very rare to find. To many Christian singles don’t save themselves for marriage and this is where the problems come from.
This was really tough. To be honest I've been married 35 years. If I ever got divorced it's over. I wouldn't get married again. I believe Christ's words. It's too stressful.
Thank you for sharing. I think when I heard we got married or engaged within 6 weeks, i said oh oh. People can be on best behavior for 6 months. It takes time for the real person to show.
That’s the truth
Excellent Testimony
We are all a work in progress
We all grow in different ways and different speeds
Blessings to You on Your Journey 😊😊😊
So good. Thank you for sharing
The number one reason women file for divorce is because they believe they can do better.
Or they just want peace and appreciate freedom from constant strife. Many women who divorce never want to date again.
@StacyA406 So how are they getting pump and dump by Chad's and Tyrone's??? they thought they could do better because of that promotion or degree.# The 🧱 # less we forget!
Where did you get that strange idea? Here is a fact. Most women divorce their husbands due to adultery, porn addictions and substance abuse. If you're married to a cheater, porn addict or a drug addict you probably can do better. Nothing more disgusting than a sexually immoral person, rather than it be a man or woman.
It's becasue theyve been cheated on
No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening-it’s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way.
Hebrews 12:11 NLT
People need to look at themselves (the demons they hold), please note the only judge is our Lord. Everything else is just ass talk. She’s blessed, anointed, and highly favored.
Not only a good speaker, but a stunning woman.
FR
Has nothing to do with the discussion. Lots of physically attractive people. So what? That has nothing to do with what is important. Knowing God is the only thing important.
Sorry, im learning more and more not to compliment people because it offends them, i guess its my nature to do so, God bless you @hollikrebs
I’m surprised by how many people care how she was dressed. I don’t see anything exposed. She’s talking a lot about herself because this is her testimony. People need to let God change in her whatever He feels she needs to change.
Picking her apart, for her trying to share some things she felt the need to share? There could be plenty of people who got something from this other than someone to judge.
I don’t see the negative comments 😅
“In sickness and in health, till death due us part” is so often derailed by human self-centeredness! Then to cover up the disobedience (of breaking their own marriage vows) comes all sort of defiant rationalizations, delivered in pretty sounding speeches…until their conscience is so trivialized that they believe their own lies…
Jesus scribbled the men’s sins (with his finger in the dirt) as he said to the hypocrite men (ready to cast stones at the woman caught in the very act of adultery) saying let he who is without sin cast the first stone. The men walked away ashamed. Jesus said to the woman, where are your accusers? And then He said, that He didn’t condemn her either, but said to her, go and sin no more. Today, people condemn without the thought of mercy. People would do well to learn from this Biblical lesson. (book of John, chapter 8). May God mercifully bless you to understand and un-harden our hearts!
Powerful & Liberating 🙏🏾⛓️ I’m currently being sent away (divorced) and although she was hurt from a female perspective and situation I find so much of myself in her on both sides being truly hurt and at the same time have done some hurting (accountability) this truly blessed me in that I can relate on many levels and all that she spoke about in her testimony is soooo parallel to my current marriage. This hit so different b/c my wife and I are both in her testimony seeeesh praise God
I did not hear how you messed up. He committed adultery, you had nothing to do with that. You are normal, he was not. You should have been able to stay with a man who is also not perfect, but not an adulterer, and get help from his love and caring and some counseling if needed. He should have been all you needed besides God but he had issues only God could help, not you. Marriage is amazing unless you are married to a narcissist. They do not change unless they let God change them
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she doesnt have anything to do with his adultery. Did you NOT hear how she said he had those issues prior to marriage (always seeking attention from other woment)???
Feel special that you’re the first to hear my story? Sounds like high mindedness
Thank you for your testimony,
koreen, sorry for the unloving comments down below. Your testimony was great, I'm a male and I really enjoyed this. I can see the professionalism in the way you speak lol, so I can tell you weren't lying about the career stuff.
Although what some of the people said below was true, they don't understand that you must share the truth with people in a loving way. There is a time to be lovingly firm with your words, and there is a time to be really gentle. If they don't change there will be trouble for them on judgement day.
This is a situation where people should of been really gentle with their words and they needed to be more understanding.
I understand that not everyone is taught how to dress, and not every church holds to this standard properly. I also understand that many people are still growing in their walks with Christ and God is dealing with them.
With this being said, I decided to leave you with a gentle soft correction, and left the people below with a firm correction as they deserve.
God has called me to be a teacher and as a teacher I probably can learn some things from your professionalism, because your brother in Christ wants a good job lol. Also there are some deeper things, i'd like to share with you concerning marriage.
Here is my fb to contact me or leave a way for me to contact you if that's okay.
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It happens… I too was divorced from a person I was so crazy about. As a man, I never abused her, never cheated, never even cursed her out. But she did the lying, cheating, etc. the marriage only lasted two years and we had one child.
What I would like to share with others… seriously take the commandments from God very seriously. People “believe in marriage “ more than up holding God’s commandments. We all have to be careful of “self worship “ doing what we want etc and not seeking God’s permission. In fact, I discovered many of never took the time to the Old Testament, we never look at the book Leviticus.. we don’t pray and fast as said in Matthew17:21 that most bibles taken out such as the NIV…
In short, many of “justify” to marry a person either one or both want “god” in the relationship… but really want to be a “god” in the relationship. Peace to you all and keep studying.
Experienced nearly the exact thing. 17 years and she had to have it all her way, ran from God into the world, surrounded herself with friends that were not believers, steeped heavily into the world and their influence over her destroyed all the good in her
The lying, sneaking around, cheating all followed. She refuses to be accountable to me, to our children and especially to God. She resents me for holding her accountable. She began an affair with someone 16 years older, obese, unattractive is putting it nicely, an atheist, and she now lives with him.
This was such a powerful testimony I really enjoyed her boldness to speak on such a very rarely spoken about topic , but very commonly this happens!! She said some very important things that a lot of single people in the faith should really take heed
don’t marry until you allow God to heal and deliver you from the stuff you have routed inside of you. A lot of Christians are very naïve when it comes to marrying God way. I love that she takes accountability for her own baggage, but she is not the reason the marriage failed She did everything right according to the word of God. The Bible tells us that adultery is a reason to divorce you can’t force someone to grow with you if they’re not willing to, sounds like he loved his lifestyle more than he loved his marriage because he didn’t even try to fight for it.
I believe this man was a wolf in sheep clothing, He was a good friend, but he still deceived her. He made it seem like he wanted to honor the Lord by waiting for sex until marriage. Only because he knew it meant something to her he always had that lust spirit in him lust is not something that just comes overnight this sounds like to me a serious case of Lust and perversion and yes this has to be something he was been dealing with for a very long time way before she came in the picture. Men like this prey on good women like her, because they see the value that typically the woman doesn’t see because she is not aware of who she is due to traumatic experiences often associated childhood
true, I think he was the wrong man but their was a hook from her childhood and hurt and they established an ungodly soul tie that damaged her and kept her still linked to him even after. That man needs the LORD.
@@hollikrebs women who desires marriage and really honors GOD needs to seek wisdom and discernment because you must be able the obverse that persons fruit. Marriage is also I believe not for the immature, because mature people knows that a solid foundation is important and if Christ is not the foundation the marriage is built on especially if you’re confessing to be Christians it will fall. Marriage is no joke its an actual covenant
words i’ve said to myself and God….thank you for this reminder sis, of focusing on myself repair than his faults…God bless you ❤
Why do people who are abused feel a need to accept responsibility for the abuse? Now you are abusing yourself! Forgive him, but no need to change the reality that he abused himself and you! If you had fallen for a man with integrity, you would not be up there. You are healthier than you think.
I agree. I say this all the time. You did your part then it was him, not you.
All Adams children have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Jesus died to redeem and with the holy spirit we all struggle with many things that are not right. He will come again to judge the living and the dead. thanks for sharing
Great testimony! Thank you for sharing!
This is so familiar to me…
Makes me sad that she’s wearing such a low cut dress sharing this. She’s not learned about modesty. 🥺
I agree, it’s worldly to wear clothing revealing and form fitting but the truth is her heart. God loves her with His perfect Love and I hear her love for God and her devotion to God in her voice. Bless her. 💛
Thanks for sharing your testimony 🙏
I can totally relate to the intimacy anorexia. If that's the recovery she's talking about, super important to address or her next relationship will suffer too. Good for her.
Having been in relationship with an emotional anorexic, I know the loneliness and emotional pain. It’s a wicked thing to do to another person. People need to deal with their stuff.
I dont believe her. All women claim abuse. She always pointed out her husband faults. She never spoke of her faults. Made herself the victim.
What else would you expect from a woman. 😂
ok
She shared her testimony. She was truthful . She spoke HER truth about her marriage to an x husband that had addictions. She was sharing truthfully. I'm not sure why you would say that you don't believe her. It doesn't matter .... Because she was bold and brave and courageous to share her truth. She also did not have to reveal being explosive with her anger. I took that as her not being a victim , but looking at how his abandonment and betrayal impacted her and she did not show up as her best self. Clearly , we all do the best we can when there's addictions, past unhealed wounds, abuse and neglect in the relationship with a spouse or another person we love and trust, whom betrayed us. All women do not claim to be victims . But as a survivor myself , I was victimized , and now I choose to be around others that are healing Too. So that makes us survivors. She did a good job!!
It doesn’t matter if she was the most terrible and mean wife ever. Adultery is the only valid grounds for divorce because it is such a deep and vile assault on the other partner. Short of murder, there’s no higher form of contempt for human life.
“Abuse” is far too soft a word for what cheating does to your spouse.
Yes those who show no honor whatsoever always do go to abuse to avoid accountability. Disgusting ah
God bless you. Thanks for sharing your story
I feel so sad for this testimony.
I also misunderstood the title of this video, I thought this was a testimony of a cheater. My bad.
Hope you're seeing better days!
Joshua Mancilla
I thought the same ..l was a cheater ..thats why l clicked .
@@cathyb2967 how's ur situation now sister?
I have a podcast on Spotify. Is this lady available to give interviews.
Thank you for sharing, I think there are a lot of broken people out there struggling with what you struggle with, goodie goodie shoes that is empty...moulded by society and religion...sad how Satan pulls the wool over a person's eyes. Be blessed and Happiness with the true Father God, a living Daddy omnipresent...
The hardest thing I ever been through is getting out a marriage full of lies and the mess of the divorce. But I found Jesus in the brokenness. It’s was worth it. I lost my life and picked up his 🙌 praise The God of Heaven’s armies ❤️🙏
When we are divorced from a good relationship with God, divorce is no surprise.
Amen!
Thank you for your testimony❤️❤️😭
Please take a moment and pray for Jeff and Shay to be reconciled in marriage. Thank you.
Pride!!! Still a high 10/10. Wow!!!🤯
Little to no humility.
That's her first blind spot she should work on.
A strong businessman don't always mean he's going to love u he could be a complete ass u could meet a guy working in a shop who would love and respect u as u are
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I’m confused what is wrong with her dress I think she is dressed classy and appropriate
Erica Taylor, you are a sexy hot girl!!!
When you show your body it is unrighteous. The bible speaks on dressing modest and covering your self up and to not give men a reason to look sexually at you. The bible mentions about adultry. If a man looks upon another women and lust after her he is committing adultry.
That is an obiniation in the eyes of the lord becuase just with one look of a perverted man she can send them to hel*.
It's hard to explain to a blind person (metorphorically speaking). Becuase the world wont understand the purity of the lord or his ways. Everyone else always makes excuses and say no that is ok, There nothing wrong. Becuase they are so use to perversion in their surroundings. But spiritually speaking she is dressed wrong because its inappropriate. The dress is tight, short, she wears make up. The only women that married make up in the bible was Jezebel and the lord feed her to the dogs becuase she wanted everyone to lust after her and not only that there are more topics like perversion etc. And the bible speaks of the womens hair being her glory. That it is her covering that represents her following christ, therefore strong firm believers dont cut their hair. If you believe God you would actually listen to the word of God and not only make up excuses to try to fit in with the world. For there is a scripture that says if you find your life here you will loose it in heaven. People dont seperate themselves from sin and start thinking everyone is holly when all they did was reject God, his word and his invitation.
Her breast showing.Thats all
It’s not someone else’s responsibility to guard your thoughts. You can be dressed like a nun and still be far from the Lord in your heart. So much expectation on women to keep men from lusting and that’s not on us. It’s up to the Holy Spirit to teach not you or I because everyone won’t agree on style of clothing.
I agree. I see nothing wrong with her style of dress.
I had an exwife cheat on me that was Christian... I don't make a difference. Once a cheater always a cheater.
just b/c a person is a Christian does not mean that they won't sin, we are all human, and humans make mistakes, Christian or not!
Whosoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries her who is divorced commits adultery. Luke 16:18
@@Tyler-xt1sl that's all good, but modern day relationships are a different thing. Women are no longer considered property. With freedom comes great responsibility. Do you see our generations being responsible? I don't. Just dont get married
@@thomasgabriel442 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Hebrews 13:8
Culture may change, but Gods word does not.
Please quit reading a book that considered women property. Its the old testament. Most old cultures considered women a burden and property. Since everyone is on equal playing fields then there is no reason to try to use religion to try and cover up your mistakes. God is a myth created by man to control the population. Stop using your faith as a crutch. No disrespect. Before you dig more verses up.... dont cast your pearls into swine. I used to be Christian. I dont care for your faith.
All that she spoke of ...is her excellentcy .....now i understand she might be a good woman...but women with this everything right...is very difficult to live with...and then play the victim...
Imagine the verbal abuse she heaped on her husband the psychological damage every day belittling him for not being driven enough.
People are offended that she is pretty, attractive and highly employable.
Plain old jealousy
And the scary part, they can’t even see it.
Can we just listen to so we can change too.
You need to stay sane and divorce for the sake of your mental health!
This is bullshit!
Another modern woman using her relationship with god to make HER bad choices (because they're not mistakes) ok w/god and her.
You see how she emphasized being proud. She said I can lift my head high again.
When she tells her story she takes half the time talking about how bad her husband,
If she's sincere be accountable about your part! So the victim narrative is strong.
Not being ashamed.
She jokes about making divorce look good and pumping up that she makes that bag and could afford to walk away.
She's every bit that career woman who puts herself first and because she can get up in front of people like a slick manager giving a presentation don't mean shit.
She comes off disingenuous.
It is what it is.
I'm not sure you fully understood the message. Having someone cheat on you is not fun. She went through her struggles.
@@torig.5864 Good, strong successful men can see, sense or smell 304's a mile away. She put on an act. She ain't no different from the person she's telling the story about to the person who's telling the story. She should be ashamed of herself and that story.
That is the sad fact about today's females.
You-all have NO shame.
You want it to be alright if you screw it to hell like this.
She does not come across as a person of character. Still very proud, and the selfish character she said she was in her marriage she still is to this day and her happy so called testimony of cheating on her husband probably only resonates with females operating falsely like her.
Wanting sympathy for her bad choices. Trust me. She will back down that dusty lonely road of whoring out! 💯😎
@Arturo Lopez oh my. Who hurt you, Arturo? I am sorry if you were treated poorly and wrongly.
I feel u brother. No accountability on her end. Its always the mans fault at the end of every relationship and simps will rub her back and take her side
Definitely no accountability for being unloving. You can tell she’s delusional and inauthentic.
I ca relate it was like a dream a sleepover. I prayed over everything sacrificed all and still it fell apart it now feels surreal everything was confirmed by others in the church
Remember it takes two people to make a marriage, and it is based on intimacy, trust, and partnership. If you are the only one working on the marriage and the other person wants it to all be their way or the highway, not our way, the way God intended, then you are working with a narcissist. If you try to make your husband/partner happy by being there when he comes home, letting him know how much you miss him when he's not around, wanting to do things a husband and wife do, yet he cannot stop looking at smut, which is really allowing human trafficking, and if he sleeps with other women or even men (even that happens), then you are fighting a demon who has already destroyed your life to take you and your marriage from God.
I really needed to hear that I wish I could write her or email her
very touching. Thanks
Geez, her husband sounds like a Narc, ...he seems to have all the traits of a Narc. Narc always want to move fast in a relationship, always have some sort of addiction, once they trap u in the marriage, thts when all the abuse and cheating starts. Expect the real nightmare to begin, knowing the person u fell in love with/ married was not really there.
this blessed me
I'm so sorry for your pain. But divorce wasn't the best choice. It wasn't the right choice. Standing for your marriage, that is what is right! And yes, I know a lot of what she's going through with her husband...honestly I think most would agree my situation is worse. But "a lack of a desire to...honor God" is not a reason to divorce, because God hates divorce. By getting a divorce, that person also fails to honor God. Anyone considering divorce, or already divorced (like I am), know that your marriage can be restored by Jesus! STAND for your marriage and for healing of the one you promised your forever to!
I think it's not up to you to decide what was best for her marriage--especially if u were not in it. The bible even says that abuse of any form, adultery and lack of service to God are valid reasons for divorce. Especially if things are unchangeable or irredeemable. It seems she tried all she could (therapy/counselling/conferences) to patch up the marriage and exhausted all her strategies. If a man is taking u further away from the path of God, divorce may be the best (though most difficult) option.
@@Tam974eva I totally get where you're coming from. And that's why it's not me that decides what's best, it's God. I speak only from His word. Can you tell me where it says "abuse in any form, adultery, and lack of service to God" are valid reasons for divorce? I can't seem to find those in my Bible.
You are a star my dear, keep trusting God. The advice you gave is exceptional.....
I think you’re missing the point, she tried everything and exhausted all of her options, yet he didn’t want to put in the work to save their marriage. And quite frankly, it sounds like he would’ve driven her further away from God. Currently, she’s worked on herself, continues to pursue healing and wants to honour God. And God being the graceful and merciful God that he is, will not only forgive but renew her heart and use this situation to bless her in other ways.
Marriage is a two way street, she can’t be the only one willing to do the work and expect the marriage to last.
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@@jampelmk9044 I'm not missing the point. There is no such thing as "tried all of the options" as long as your spouse is alive, because there's always the option of "I can wait one more day." She didn't try to wait on the Lord longer. I've heard of marriages restored after 7 years, 9 years, 12 years, even 20 years, while one spouse stood on the word of God and waited and the other spouse ran wild. God can restore if we are patient. She should be waiting longer. Marriage is for life, period. How long did people in the Bible wait on the Lord? Abraham waited on the Lord until he was in extremely old for a son before he even got the promise, then still some 15 years after the promise. David was I think 17 years, Joseph was many years, we don't really know how long though exactly. The only person who has the power to pull us away from God is us, when we choose to focus on other things.
Go back to your husband. Don’t believe the lie that “divorce is an acceptable answer “.
Nope! God grants us permission to divorce adulterers. But she will have to remain single and celibate until he dies. I’d rather be single then be with a lustful adulterers. No ones has to put up with your cheating. And often Christian men cheat because of Gid hatred for divorce and they abuse Gods grace. And abuse forgiveness from their wife
@@Brandiisbeloved Yea... I am not exactly sure what I was thinking when I wrote that. Now, I think I would probably say something more along the lines of "If he repented of adultery and was committed to change please consider reconciling the marriage". 1 Corinthians 7:11 says "But if indeed she is separated, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to the husband". Women need to know that it is noble and ok to remain married even in adulterous situations. It is not easy. It is not normal. It is hard. But I would like woman who have been the victims of adultery and ongoing porn use by their husbands to be FREE to remain married to their husbands. Jesus has the same sentiment (Matthew 19). They do not have to tolerate the adultery and porn. It is sin and we should hate what God hates and love what God loves, but divorce does not have to be the answer either. I could write a book on it but Love is longsuffering (1 Corinthians 13). Suffer for a while, loooongsuffer, create distance, get pastors involved, separate (even for years if necessary), heal, recover, counsel... but divorce does not have to be the "testimony". There are so many beautiful testimonies of restoration after offense. I would even say that her commitment to him could help lead to his healing. He is broken. He needs someone to walk through the journey with him. The deception that many woman are told in these scenarios is that "the man will never change. You will deal with this for the rest of your life". That is a lie from the enemy. Men change and are changing. Maybe God put you two together to be part of that beautiful journey towards holiness. It is difficult and that is what makes it beautiful. In her situation, it sounds like she was still attracted to him and had a level of desire for relationship. That is very promising. That brings me an element of hope for her story. Why not tell the man "Hey, if you... a, b and c then lets talk about getting back together?" The other major deception that many believe is that she is now free to marry another. The bible strictly forbids it. If she remarries, she is an adulterous. This is intense. The bible says "adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God" (it is a reference to hell). This is another reason to fight for the marriage. You have three options now #1 Believe God and contend for a restored marriage. #2 Remain single until his or her death. #3 Remarry someone else and risk eternal damnation. My point is that option #1 seems to be the most hopeful of those three. Am I right? Try! Stick it out! Show the world what God can do! Believe! Pray! This marriage restored would be a true testimony. Divorce is NOT a testimony. God hates divorce and therefore it cannot be a testimony.
@@BrandiisbelovedGod hates divorce. Do you realise that when they exchange their vows before God they never mentioned adultery? Only death will do us apart they say hence if they break of even due to adultery they are liars and they are not honouring the vows they made before God. God has never honoured divorce. Fear God and Obey his commandments.
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Good for you all good Christians who are judging her. Where is love?
For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; 2Timothy 4:3
Titus 1:13
This surely is a true saying. And you should be hard on such people, so you can help them grow stronger in their faith.
Hebrews 12:6
For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 King James Version (KJV)
4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
1 John 4:8
He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
Whaaa. I'm sure you cared about your husband you are exactly what you are.
Adultery is wrong period regardless of the reason proverbs 6:33 says a person who does this that their reproach will never be taken away🤷🏿♀️ don’t justify sin because it’s offensive to God😡
Forgiveness and restoration IS God's heart toward any person who sins in absolutely any manner.
Sometimes we just sit back and talk..lets be honest how many times have you done wrong even though y knew the right thing?
This sounds more like a performance than a testimony don’t hear humility or Jesus, and that outfit seems a little inappropriate for this setting, it’s all thru grace, pray we grow in wisdom and knowledge in Christ