My Coming Out Story! The Beginning
Вставка
- Опубліковано 30 лип 2012
- Hey everyone. This is my first of many video's about being gay and coming out. I'm here to show my story in the hopes of it helping other people. I also hope to just start Vloging regularly about just anything, so that's exciting. If anyone has any question, feel free to ask. Leave them in the comment's or send me a PM. If you enjoyed this video, please hit the subscribe button up top and follow me on my coming out experience. I also would like to say that I've got my motivation to start making videos from all the other gay UA-camr's out there, so thanks guys!
Music in the beginning is No Tomorrow by Orson
Came out this year 2019 I'm 63 years old I lied to myself and others for 50 years. I buried the feelings so deep. I developed food addiction. Whenever I was in pain or those feelings that I didn't want to.think about came up I ate. A.lot. And did so for all this time. I've been coming out for a month now and just told my sister 2days ago. Today I might not be out and proud but today I am gay and OK. Andy
I'm proud of you for finally being yourself 😄
I'm 52, and still trying to come out...it wasn't that easy back when we were young...harder now because most of us have wives, kids, and all that...doesnt seam fair..these young guys have it made nowadays...hope they realize and appreciate that..
Hope you can loose the weight so you can live longer and find true love...
So sweet
Andrew, I’m 77 - came out to mom, dad, 2 sisters at 16. No real reaction, so into the closet for 61 years and counting. Came out to my 4 children (yes I married a woman) and a godson. But still faking it, leaving bits of cookies on the path like Hansel and Greta.
Hope you embrace your coming out
I wish these guys that have posted coming out stories would come back and give everyone an update on their lives.
I wish that too! I wish he posted again so much
It makes me wonder if they got married with a female and forgot and thought it was a stage they were going through. Only one bud and no follow up. He’s cute too, wouldn’t have an issue getting a decent attractive guy or girl.
Your welcome! If I can help one person then I'm happy and I've done my job. I too have noticed that we all go through similar situations, and I love how we can all learn from each other's experiences. It makes the whole process much easier.
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
The hardest person to come out to is yourself, then the second hardest your family.i give you credit for putting this video out there. It took me about a month to tell my mother, but unlike your mother mine didn't talk to me for a week. Good luck with the rest of this journey.
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
I have just seen this video. Thank you for making it and as you say if it helps one person then you have done really well. Thanks again :)
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Wow, you definitely have gone through so much. It takes a lot to be able to handle so much of what we have to handle and I think you have done a great job so far. Keep us posted on your progress with your family
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Great video and story!! Keep the videos coming. Good luck as you move forward.
XLNT vid! That was the quickest 19 min. vid I've ever watched. My experience was different. I kinda knew I liked guys since I was 7 or 8, but I fought against it tooth and nail. When I got to 9th grade, I went to a new school and got a huge crush on a straight guy in my class. When he walked in the room or smiled at me, the whole world lit up. We were best friends until 11th grade when my family moved.
Props on your courage, and good luck on your coming out journey. Hope you find a great BF!
Hey Kevin! This was a great coming out video! One of the best! Hope you upload new videos soon!
Oh Crap! Brilliant video. Thank you so much!. I am older, it is amazing to see stuff like this'
When I was your age, it was illegal, it was just wrong.
Thanks, I love it,
I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Hope you are doing amazing now 😅
Same here! ..these lovely men have it made...52 and only partly out...it sucks
@@philipzanoni Well I'm proud of you for even admitting it to yourself and us 😊 No matter what, You are amazing
@@redhood8141 Awe...thank you so much
You are the BEST. This is the best coming out video I have seen, I just watched it and I would like to thank you for sharing. I hope you are doing well.
Yeah, I hope he is too but I also hope you are happy and doing well
This was the first coming out video i've ever seen.It was amazin, and It helped me gather the courage to tell one of my friends. Thank you for your videos...You seriously need to make more because i've seen the two that you already posted like 20 times lol
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
I wish I could relate but I definitely feel for you. Not that it would help a whole lot.. I had four brother in which, I am the youngest with many nieces and nephews already. However, my parents were very religious and I knew I was gay at a young age. But my parents told me that they are my parents and would love me no matter what the circumstance. I would like to think you parents would say nothing less yet.. nothing more. I hope it goes well and I only recommend telling when you are ready. :)
Really wonderful video mate. Congratulations.
I was wondering why you stopped doing videos. I enjoyed the way you speak and express your ideas.
I like the honesty of your video, which puts a positive perspective on coming out as a gay person.
Thanks very much for the upload.
Great video Kevin !
Scott
MB, SC
hey boywonderguy, it's fun watching all these coming out stories on YT. i came out in 7th grade. 1971. talk about having a hard time...but i survived. u and all the others have it easy compared to way back when. enjoy what others before u have done. just saying.
And thank you very much! It's greatly appreciated, I hope you enjoy all the videos to come. :D
I think most of us can relate. Especially with struggling with actually saying "I'm gay" when trying to come out to loved ones. My mother also told me "ok. Be careful who you tell because you can't take it back once you tell them" I told her that I thought I was Bi. (Between bi and gay. Not bi or straight)
Good Job for coming out!! :) I like how in the beginning when you said your name and you were gay you sounded so PROUD!! :))
Lol that he was. Hope you are happy and doing well too
If they except gays outside your family, I would think they would be excepting of you. One of the first things my mom said after I came out was "What about kids?". I told her, there is always adoption. I want to have kids in the future, I always have and she knows that, and being gay wont stop me. And it shouldn't stop anyone else. Not all religious people are against gays, and from what it sounds like, I think your parent's may be okay with it. I wish you the best of luck! :D
I'm very proud of you!
Love you for been there to help other people
way to go, kiddo! best of luck in life to you!
Great video, Kevin! Keep up the good work.
I had a similar experience with my Mom a few years ago. Then, she tells me, "I love you, but I won't accept your choice." And as we were driving home she told me to ask God for forgiveness. I said, "For what? I haven't done anything wrong. I am who I am and that won't change!"
She's still in denial to this day. :-/
Hey bud, hope you and your mom are getting along better. Stay positive and know that you are loved
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Hi Kevin, I'm 19 years old and your cute! :D
one of ya first subscribers 4th :)
Love your video...you seem like a nice person, i hope you find happiness in your life.
I was extremely upset a few years ago when somebody wrote about a young boy who killed himself because he was teased over being gay. That man wrote it was a good thing that the boy had killed himself and it had made the world a better place. I am amazed how many boys and young men are gay. I am not gay but I love seeing videos like this because I am a Quaker and I believe in the brotherhood of man and there must be an equal number of women and girls who remain in the shadows.
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
very similar to what I am going through! Thank you so much!!!!
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Awwwwww. Really nice dude. Cute-as-shit doesn't hurt! :) You'll be fine. All the best!
I was under the impression that all gay people pretty much know they're gay once they're old enough. Now I know that it can take a while for some to realize it. But I guess I'm biased, because I've always known.
I felt woozy watching this, because the background looks like flowing liquid the whole time O.o
But can't wait for more!
God bless and I look forward to you next video.....take care
it went well
keep in mind that never told anyone in my life and iam 21
the first person i came out to was my DAD and it went well
but ive been polting this day all my life , that why it went so well
i decide to come out in the summer cuz that when i was not going to school therefore it would have been a calm time.
but yeah its a long story lol
your story was very smiler to mine in highschool , thats why when i watched your video i saw my self
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Is it his camera, or does he have some really nice broad shoulders?
Wish I would have come out at his age..my life would have been spoo different..
Hey Kevin, just saw your video, great video by the way. So are you back at school yet? and if so, how did it go with your friend?
Gees, Kevin, why can't you live next door? Best times I had between high school and college and growing up in the suburbs/country was starting to having feelings with guys in the 7th and 8th grade (12 & 13) was going out camping in the woods nearby, eyes connect, and an atomic bomb went off. You know the rest. During the day, working at McDonalds manager noticed & was gay. We went to our first gay bars and clubs. You know the rest, Kevin. Wish u were there! Damn your cute! "BJ" in Cincy, OH.
But Bob, he's early young. He wants his on the same level.
Nice video...good luck....BTW.... I think your celebrity double is Seth MacFarlane creator of family guy, both looks and mannerism.
I'm gay too and I come out in the 1990's it was so challenging back then. You got it I wish you the very best
Proud of you 😄 Coming out in the 90's I bet was hard
@@redhood8141 I came out in the 70s; in central Kansas, no less.
@@dimentia4204 Damn! I'm assuming that couldn't have been easy. But just proves how strong you are
@@dimentia4204 I'm 25 btw lol I came out to my close family and some Classmates when I was 15, so in 09/10
@@redhood8141, I was 23 when I came out, so, I'm sure it was easier for me than it would have been as a teen, but, even then, it was a pretty hostile environment. One of my most notable achievements, for the cause, was producing and acting in the play 'Bent' at the local community theater in '84, with absolutely no blowback.
You are so damn cute! You are so nice, so open, so real and pure. It's hard finding someone like you I'm such a vicious gay climate. I love your faith in those around you. Even o can't believe I lasted the full 19 min when I wasn't planning on finishing this video to begin with.
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Im all for your joureny...loved your vid....Boy.
awwwwww your so adorable :)
that was awsome so inspiaring your awsome keep being boss
I felt the exact way and still do sometimes...
Thanks for sharing your story, it's really nice... but, why is your room moving?
I wish soo much he will post another video. I have watched this video a thousand times. I know that's not going to happen though.
I knew I was gay when I was 7
That's awesome lol
Same, at 8 years old
@beyourownpetson92 me too 7 years old
Cuuuute!! :3
Sorry for the spelling errors. My auto correct and predictions are sometimes a bit over eager and get everything wrong.
Thank You
Kevin - your camera lens widens the image and distorts it. Do you know?
Intelligent nice guy. Thank you !
I only see your "Chick-fil-a What The Cluck" video. Is that it at your channel? I was hoping to follow your journey. There seems to be nothing for the last several years.
this guys rocks
So sweet
Congrats. How did it go for you? Well I hope. :)
I was in a fraternity when I was in college. It was before I came out. Loved the close male experience. Had my first love there. Was glad I wasnt out then. Very conservative school.Hope College. I have to say that I am a man that happens to be gay. My main desire is to keep company, and be intimate sexually and emotionally with men. hope this makes sense. Enjoyed your video. Sharing is good. Keith
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Yes
Great vid.....new sub here .,hi from 🇨🇦🏳️🌈
am i triping out or is the room moving
I came out to my mom over ice cream too haha. Must be somethin about it.
when are u posting another vid
What fraternity did you join?
Look, it's a young Joey Tribbiani 6 years before season 1 of Friends - Just turned out different - and he hasn't become a horn dog - yet, lol.
As for the parents: 'No you're not' may be as much surprise as anything else. I can certainly see a parental reaction of 'are you sure' - especially if you haven't been throwing off signals. They don't know all the thought you've given it, and most (or at least the best) of them really truly want you to be happy, they don't know if you've actually thought it through. Now of course if you're already sleeping with Jimmy who stays over sometimes, well, that's another story - you've certainly thought that through :)
i hope so;) lol
heeey!
you and I are like the same person! :O
Yes I Do ;)
God your cute
what did you major in College?
You are funny! You would get so tired of it, you'd turn str8.
Have you came out to anyone else since this? Wheres the videos you promised? :O
Good for you well done xXx
It's hard !
Coming out ! To admit it
Not only to your friends & family
But to yourself!
We all "elton john"
Lol
Look an adorable gay guy with batman and robin action figures! awesome : )
Hugs
I didn't have to tell anyone ...
I was lucky ...
Very supportive!
Family ...
Lol
They told me !
Lol
I think I have a gay crush on you
Hehe I totally understand
Really good video. Pity he never posed any update
That's so true! Such a pity he stopped posting.
Of course you know what educated people know, right? That for almost 30 years ago when major studies PROVED that straight males who keep tuning in to what gays are doing, and putting them down are those who have subconcious gay feelings themselves. Not saying your gay but it's probably there since you focus on gays a lot. Males with stronger straight feelings are not bothered by gays since that's just more guys out of the competeition for what they want. Don't be afraid to keep watching gays!
okay, the background is warping, it's just a big picture isn't it.
I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
gracis
Such a cute neat young guy. I wonder how things turned out for him……..
Me too! I'm afraid we'll never know.
Don't let people get u down (if they are) u are who u r and if they can't accept it then fuck them
As you haven't posted anything in a long time I take it things are going well?
Time for an update.-----You are cute BTW.
damn you cute back then! Had many bf since then?
Very sincerely and eloquently put! I hope you find a bosom pal soon. You deserve a very caring boyfriend.
Wow, that's a really handsome face. Like omg congratulations on ur genes lol. Could you like bless me with your spit or something maybe i'd get to be as good looking as you are
:)
u are so cute :D
cute guy
he made me drunk... the background is swaying....
you look so much like Seth MacFarlane
What if you're mom tell you get out my house
Hi sweeeetypie
You're really cute and it was a great vid, but I think the camera's on LSD
i feel the same way. i only had 1 girlfriend. i school i am 22 now you no i get ask. you. don't. have a girlfriend. are you gay. i say no. but. inside i feel like i am gay. because. i like at a guy. in inside i feel. he`s. cute. i don't. feel that if i see a girl .
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for anyone that you know, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
If anyone needs support against religious, social, or cultural abuses, this can help them: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological nature of religions.
neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
Ever wonder if the girl knew?