A man can’t show his affection apparently. It’s forbidden. That’s why I prefer to pay an escort to worship her like a goddess and act all goofy and stuff. Worths all the money.
the hamster will get exhausted and get off the wheel or die, the wheel will remain , the hamster will be replaced , don't spin the wheel, don't be the hamster.
The girl who ghosted me I was doing everything wrong. Trying to fix the relationship, see her, talk to her. I got so exhausted. I was putting in 99% of the work and she put in 1%. She really did me a favor. Dating a woman with psychological problems is exhausting.
It's a red flag. If a woman is truly attracted to you and not just using you, she'd be cheerful and flirty to you. If she's not, her attraction level is far lower than you think. You don't want that.
Met a woman on the apps who was in hindsight passive aggressive and diagnosed bpd. She repeatedly told me how unhappy she was with life and i physically couldn't bring myself to take things further (despite her being my dream woman in many other respects) I'm so thankful i let her tell me all her red flags on the first date😅
I gave her alot of attention through text because were long distance, she pulled away for 3 weeks, I just decided to end it, didn't see it going anywhere. I'd rather date someone closer. We'll see if she tries to contact me to try to fix it. I'd rather walk away with my head up high than her slowly drain my emotions.
I've been there before. Texting really kills attraction. Just because you're always talking through text all day or all night doesn't mean she likes you. She maybe just bored, or while you two were talking she's talking to someone else as well. Already learned my lesson, and no to long distance relationship/situationship.
Turning 50 next week and haven’t had sex in almost 18 months. But, I’m actually okay with it, surprisingly. I don’t crave it like I did between 20-40. I’m saving a tonne of money in the process and enjoying not having to deal with them to be honest. Notch count is a respectable 60-70, so it’s all good. I’ve a friend who’s only slept with four people his whole life.
Chris could you give us advice on what happened when a woman does something dumb and the guy gets mad and pulls away or goes no contact. Then and goes crying to her friends and they all say he's a jerk you don't need him and now he's the villain. With that kind of validation from others will she go back to the guy?
@@PyroShields No I'm a man and I'm wondering if women telling the woman being no contacted that she's right would make her less likely to go back to the man.
But what if the man is the one giving lots of attention? I had a guy that gave me a talking to about reciprocity because I was not replying back to him like he wanted. He was giving attention and wanting it back but it was too much for me.
Well you are obviously turned off and don’t want him, so what Chris is saying is the truth. If he had gave you less of his attention and didn’t care if you reciprocated, you would have gave him more of your time.
Block her leave her for the streets she’s showing that she’s indecisive so decide what’s best for you. What makes you think she won’t leave again if she’s already conditioned herself to be this way?
I agree with the previous two commenters--don't block. Women run completely off emotions. When she blocked you, she was angry. As time passed she got a case of Fear of Missing Out and a dose of other emotions like nostalgia, regret (doesn't matter if you f'ed up or she did as emotions are arational), and sadness. In that emotional state, she unblocked you. If you block, it shows you care too much. If you don't block, and it isn't a big deal--plus, like the others said IF you are doing awesome things in your life, that will show. In my opinion, you can't go wrong in not caring at all, on being indifferent. This will come with internalizing the following: everything is changing and impermenent, and that's okay, it's the way of all temporal things
The more time you spend with a woman, the less she’ll respect you. Sad reality
A man can’t show his affection apparently. It’s forbidden. That’s why I prefer to pay an escort to worship her like a goddess and act all goofy and stuff. Worths all the money.
True if you’re not having sex with her!
When she doesn't respect you, don't respect her.
See her once or twice a month if that sometimes skip months make her earn you
@@lds6182 Nah, better to move on then to wonder if she's with someone else. Why deal with that anxiety.
The person that cares the least in the relationship has the most amount of power!
the hamster will get exhausted and get off the wheel or die, the wheel will remain , the hamster will be replaced , don't spin the wheel, don't be the hamster.
Just always be busy
The girl who ghosted me I was doing everything wrong. Trying to fix the relationship, see her, talk to her. I got so exhausted. I was putting in 99% of the work and she put in 1%. She really did me a favor. Dating a woman with psychological problems is exhausting.
When you make your attention and everything easy for women, you will be less than average
Attention is like crack to them
So true
This woman I dated said she’s not entirely happy with her life. I told her it’s going to be alright and then I excused myself.
Lolol right move
Is anyone entirely happy? Seems sincere to me instead of a red flag.
It's a red flag. If a woman is truly attracted to you and not just using you, she'd be cheerful and flirty to you. If she's not, her attraction level is far lower than you think. You don't want that.
Met a woman on the apps who was in hindsight passive aggressive and diagnosed bpd. She repeatedly told me how unhappy she was with life and i physically couldn't bring myself to take things further (despite her being my dream woman in many other respects) I'm so thankful i let her tell me all her red flags on the first date😅
You should have asked her whats wrong instead cowardly running away. She probably thinks you thought she wanted you to ask her to marry her.
Mirror their actions by making equal amount of effort
True indifference is the answer. It takes away the anxiety of trying not to show you care and it just reeks of authenticity.
Which comes from being so busy doing stuff you actually enjoy 😊
@@GibranEscobellthen she complains you don’t care about me
@@onaraider2007 You tell her you care about her show her some love actions without breaking your work habits.
Now I’m with girl and I don’t care about her so much and she’s treat me like King
I gave her alot of attention through text because were long distance, she pulled away for 3 weeks, I just decided to end it, didn't see it going anywhere. I'd rather date someone closer. We'll see if she tries to contact me to try to fix it. I'd rather walk away with my head up high than her slowly drain my emotions.
I've been there before. Texting really kills attraction. Just because you're always talking through text all day or all night doesn't mean she likes you. She maybe just bored, or while you two were talking she's talking to someone else as well. Already learned my lesson, and no to long distance relationship/situationship.
You give them too much attention you’ll get nowhere, you give them too little attention you’ll go nowhere. It’s a balancing act, just stop, walk away.
It’s better to give less than more. If she has burning desire for you, you will always have the key to the back door
@@blair5475Literally
This guy is on point man.
Waiting with this ..I'm so glad
Don’t wait try to forget and move on,
100% hard truth. Real facts of life.
Great book
Facts
She will crave and chase the attention once it"s withdrawn
Turning 50 next week and haven’t had sex in almost 18 months.
But, I’m actually okay with it, surprisingly. I don’t crave it like I did between 20-40. I’m saving a tonne of money in the process and enjoying not having to deal with them to be honest.
Notch count is a respectable 60-70, so it’s all good.
I’ve a friend who’s only slept with four people his whole life.
Women take inches...pun intended😄
Don't like her pictures on social media, it's the best intrigued to her you are the one who not chasing her attention
How its fine to let her to be on instagram trying to check, while u work for family?
❤
What counts as attention? Does even staring or looking count?
Women don't notice things they aren't interested in. If you notice her looking or staring, she's interested.
Yup those count. Only look if you are going to approach, otherwise don’t bother
💯💯❤️
I don’t date, so I don’t care what she does!
Chris could you give us advice on what happened when a woman does something dumb and the guy gets mad and pulls away or goes no contact. Then and goes crying to her friends and they all say he's a jerk you don't need him and now he's the villain. With that kind of validation from others will she go back to the guy?
Are you the woman and are you asking if you should go back to the guy?
@@PyroShields No I'm a man and I'm wondering if women telling the woman being no contacted that she's right would make her less likely to go back to the man.
Women don’t really listen to each other much
1st
But what if the man is the one giving lots of attention?
I had a guy that gave me a talking to about reciprocity because I was not replying back to him like he wanted. He was giving attention and wanting it back but it was too much for me.
your salt and peppar sucking technique says your for the streets , respectfully of course
you did him a favour and he should've read between the lines and run far, far away from you.
He shouldn’t of vocalised it women only hear through action
Well you are obviously turned off and don’t want him, so what Chris is saying is the truth. If he had gave you less of his attention and didn’t care if you reciprocated, you would have gave him more of your time.
She wanted ... but was ungrateful
chris my ex followed me on social media after unfollowing me last time. what shoud i do? ignore? block?
Women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear….play accordingly
Ignore and let her see your transformation 🔥
Block her leave her for the streets she’s showing that she’s indecisive so decide what’s best for you. What makes you think she won’t leave again if she’s already conditioned herself to be this way?
Let her see your transformation, don't block
I agree with the previous two commenters--don't block. Women run completely off emotions. When she blocked you, she was angry. As time passed she got a case of Fear of Missing Out and a dose of other emotions like nostalgia, regret (doesn't matter if you f'ed up or she did as emotions are arational), and sadness. In that emotional state, she unblocked you. If you block, it shows you care too much. If you don't block, and it isn't a big deal--plus, like the others said IF you are doing awesome things in your life, that will show. In my opinion, you can't go wrong in not caring at all, on being indifferent. This will come with internalizing the following: everything is changing and impermenent, and that's okay, it's the way of all temporal things
i wonder why women need attention all the time for?
Because they need a man to take care of them or they die. This is hard wired in there subconscious