HOW TO MAKE ANY WOMAN REGRET LOSING YOU!! Powerful Steps to Win Her Back - Men's Dating Tips

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 18 січ 2025

КОМЕНТАРІ • 582

  • @christiectherapy
    @christiectherapy  10 місяців тому +34

    Struggling to find love? This is the number 1 mistake men over 30 make. Click here to find out what that is: bit.ly/4fJ9xW4
    .
    Book a 1:1 call here: bit.ly/4fJ9xW4

    • @MountaintravelerEddie
      @MountaintravelerEddie 10 місяців тому +5

      If she regrets losing me, then she fucked up….and I move on, don’t care. She should have thought about it better. I don’t have time to waste

    • @doubleJJ01
      @doubleJJ01 10 місяців тому +1

      This was the best video , I watched before , I save to my like but its gone thank you for re-uploading , you're soo beautiful ❤

    • @AnthonyManzio
      @AnthonyManzio 6 місяців тому

      None of your video work in getting a women full of packed fraud you tuber all a big waste of time. No monitors bs loads of videos.

    • @HOLLASOUNDS
      @HOLLASOUNDS 6 місяців тому

      Everything was going good, and then She said joking banter calling each other names and I called her a bitxx and that was it she stormed off and that was it, the end.

    • @CarlosVelarde-gy3ys
      @CarlosVelarde-gy3ys 6 місяців тому

      @christiectherapy to be fair when it comes to a women she will never care losing me even if I was good and she betrayed me and I let her go she will never regret and look back she Wil move on and do the simple think woman know how to do she find somebody else and never.look back so her greeting I doutdt that andnme.goi after her is a wasted

  • @fallen546
    @fallen546 10 місяців тому +483

    A man's best revenge is to live well. Level up boys. Make sure she regrets her choices.

    • @thisdyingsoul76
      @thisdyingsoul76 8 місяців тому +13

      Right. Never take them back if they don't appreciate you when they have you. You're better off to find someone that appreciates you in the moment .

    • @jjmst55
      @jjmst55 8 місяців тому +5

      @@thisdyingsoul76 Or maybe she just didnt like him so she regrets nothing

    • @thisdyingsoul76
      @thisdyingsoul76 8 місяців тому +7

      @jjmst55 if it was someone you just met and had only been with for a short time, maybe.
      But if you were with them for several years or even decades... most likely she had feelings for the guy at some point.
      And if their motivation was money or status, the best revenge is to thrive in those areas well beyond what she expected.

    • @TrueHunter999
      @TrueHunter999 7 місяців тому +1

      Agreed

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 3 місяці тому +2

      If she never thinks about you again, level up all you want, she'll never know.

  • @wildcat4478
    @wildcat4478 10 місяців тому +330

    The power of walking away. Guys, remember you have your own standard that will make any women regret losing you

    • @jamemsmsms
      @jamemsmsms 8 місяців тому +8

      Yes, love yourself and improve yourself be famous be more money be high value, it's only key to regret her decisions

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 8 місяців тому +3

      Womem just don't look back. They don't see anything.

    • @jamemsmsms
      @jamemsmsms 8 місяців тому +6

      Yes women dont look back, save your self my brothers,, Be famous Be billionaire, and travel the world what ever your goals and she starts gonna stalk to you and regret it, her decisions, proof to him you are the only one who gonna love yourself no matter what,

    • @JR-Canada
      @JR-Canada 8 місяців тому +1

      That only works if you have a ton of options. Otherwise it's cliche and blablabla that everyone is talking about.

    • @jamemsmsms
      @jamemsmsms 8 місяців тому +3

      No dude purpose and goals is matters women just a mirror of you ton of options women around the world who wants you who needs you don't overthink a one girl, overthink about your life

  • @Dansyoung
    @Dansyoung 10 місяців тому +317

    Don’t try to win her back. Move on and enjoy life.

    • @JVe-v6q
      @JVe-v6q 4 місяці тому +1

      Fr fr.

    • @MR.UNKNOWN733
      @MR.UNKNOWN733 3 місяці тому +3

      That ma boy😊

    • @RojalRanjitkar
      @RojalRanjitkar 3 місяці тому +3

      Everyone has different situation

    • @Dansyoung
      @Dansyoung 3 місяці тому +3

      @@RojalRanjitkar Indeed, but if she’s playing games, move on - life is too short.

    • @RojalRanjitkar
      @RojalRanjitkar 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Dansyoung i can't my friend. She is my whole life.
      She made me whole me,and she also made me whole empty.
      How love can be fake?

  • @ChristineCole-u3f
    @ChristineCole-u3f 5 днів тому +97

    Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave, and I can't stop thinking about her. I love her so much, and I've tried everything to get her back, but nothing seems to work. I'm frustrated and feel like I can't picture my life with anyone else. I've made every effort to move on, but the thoughts of her keep overwhelming me. I don’t know why I'm sharing this, but I miss her deeply and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @JuanitaKelly-e2m
      @JuanitaKelly-e2m 5 днів тому

      Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I can relate to your situation. My own 12-year relationship ended, and like you, I couldn't let go. I did everything I could to bring her back. Eventually, I sought help from a spiritual counselor who assisted me in reuniting with her.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f 5 днів тому

      That’s amazing. How did you find this spiritual counselor, and how can I contact him?

    • @JuanitaKelly-e2m
      @JuanitaKelly-e2m 5 днів тому

      His name is Fatherabulu. He has remarkable powers and can help you too.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f 5 днів тому

      Thank you for sharing this! I just looked him up online and I'm really impressed.

  • @troooooper100
    @troooooper100 10 місяців тому +99

    but why take someone back after they have checked out other options.. unless you think are trash yourself... and have no self respect.. someone's second choice.. what if someone better comes along in the future... you will wait for her to return again? wtfff... if she left and she wont listen.. then she is already SAID by her ACTIONS you DO NOT MATTER to HER.... she KNOWS it'll hurt you but she DOES NOT care... she is OK with HURTING you for DREAMS.. why would you want someone like that with you.. i'd rather be alone then be someone's toilet paper... wtf

    • @PotentialEnergy1
      @PotentialEnergy1 7 місяців тому

      🙏

    • @100logic8
      @100logic8 7 місяців тому +1

      Amen brother

    • @CraniacStudios
      @CraniacStudios 3 місяці тому +4

      It depends on the circumstances. I was married to my ex for 17 years and we have two young children together. I love her very much but she is in a committed relationship with someone else. The thing is, I’m leveling up. I’ve improved on my flaws that contributed to the divorce and I have changed as a man. I also have a new plan with goals and aspirations that no longer include her. I start school in January and I am going to build an amazing life for myself. It’s going to take a few years but it’s going to happen. If she ever wanted me back, I don’t think I’d ever take her back. If she wanted me, she wouldn’t have left. But after I evolve and reach heights that she never thought I would, she better not even try to come back. I refuse to allow someone who doubted me at the starting line to stand with me at the finish line.
      “If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you could possibly imagine”

    • @knowbody9679
      @knowbody9679 3 місяці тому +2

      Man you said it and described my wife to a t. It’s hell on earth being tied to her when she checked out on me. I wish I could just move on. I’m about to pursue prostitutes just for some kind of attention

  • @TheMikeD428
    @TheMikeD428 10 місяців тому +114

    I agree with all of the steps in this video; however, I don’t agree with the concept of getting the ex back. If, as a man, you are working hard to be the best version of yourself, then why go back to someone who has proven with her actions that she will lose respect for you? Even if you get back together, if you suffer a temporary setback, she will choose to leave again - she has no true desire for you, it’s only surface-level attraction. If you are the best version of yourself, then you can move on and find someone better and more mentally committed to the relationship. She made a choice, and you can support her choice by moving on to someone better. Her regret is the consequence of her behavior, and it’s hers to deal with.

  • @HenriettaR.Morrison
    @HenriettaR.Morrison Місяць тому +119

    relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried everything to win him back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss him a lot and just can't stop thinking about him.

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c Місяць тому +1

      I understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar situation when my 12 year relationship ended. I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, and their guidance ultimately helped me to bring him back into my life.

    • @HenriettaR.Morrison
      @HenriettaR.Morrison Місяць тому

      Amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact them?

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c Місяць тому

      His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help restore your relationship with your ex.

    • @HenriettaR.Morrison
      @HenriettaR.Morrison Місяць тому

      Thanks for sharing this valuable information. I just looked him up online and I'm impressed.

  • @barbaraandrews5
    @barbaraandrews5 2 місяці тому +123

    Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him

    • @AntjeMoench
      @AntjeMoench 2 місяці тому

      It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.

    • @barbaraandrews5
      @barbaraandrews5 2 місяці тому

      That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?

    • @AntjeMoench
      @AntjeMoench 2 місяці тому

      His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.

    • @barbaraandrews5
      @barbaraandrews5 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.

    • @Dj87691
      @Dj87691 Місяць тому

      That suck where are woman like you seem like we can never find the right person

  • @RobbiJamesshow
    @RobbiJamesshow 8 місяців тому +61

    She told me she wasn’t attracted to me, yet. She said she hasn’t been for awhile…
    She also slept with another man during this time and blamed me because I didn’t give her enough space….
    Walk away - always walk away…

    • @losheroes6076
      @losheroes6076 4 місяці тому +1

      damn

    •  4 місяці тому

      @@RobbiJamesshow my girl pulled that same garbage. Only thing different. I walked in on them, he was doggy style on her and both looked up at me. You never ever want to see it, even if you do suspect it. In an instant a lesser dude could have f**ked both of them up. I wanted to, but then she wins twice. So I smirked and left. But I was crushed and heartbroken. Worst pain ive ever experienced and still am. But I'm not goin to jail for that tnuc.

  • @albertshinskiy
    @albertshinskiy 7 місяців тому +187

    Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @deboralaw-on9od
      @deboralaw-on9od 7 місяців тому +9

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy 7 місяців тому +5

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?

    • @deboralaw-on9od
      @deboralaw-on9od 7 місяців тому +3

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex

    • @ruruoniyt3815
      @ruruoniyt3815 7 місяців тому +15

      Hey bro i feel you. And i believe the only reason people lost feeling because another person gave them a new feeling. Just go no contact. Full no contact. Let them be happy without you,but believe me it wont last long though until she remembers the memories and start comparing. In my experience she came back after 2 months.

    • @stev1efps951
      @stev1efps951 7 місяців тому +9

      Feel that pain. Feel ALL of those emotions. Sit there and cry, then cry some more, keep crying until you can't cry anymore. Then get up and go about your day, YOU NEED to accept those feelings/emotions in order to de sensitise them. I'm telling you now if you keep shutting those feelings out you'll never fully get over it. Goodluck man.

  • @OmVladOn
    @OmVladOn 10 місяців тому +11

    Me and my ex broke up because she's depressed and she said that she couldn't commit to the relationship, so I respected her decision even if I first offered to help her out !

    • @LeeEverett1
      @LeeEverett1 7 місяців тому +9

      That was a lame excuse. Brother, she couldn't commit to a relationship with YOU. Take the high road and never speak to her again.

    • @jonathanmelo8673
      @jonathanmelo8673 6 місяців тому +4

      Shes using that as an excuse

  • @xandagross88
    @xandagross88 7 місяців тому +21

    I was in a situation that my ex slept with a guy from her work and after I caught them she saying toxic about me completely comparing to me with the guy this vid makes me realise I need to start doing something in my life before it's too late

  • @jlinkq
    @jlinkq 5 місяців тому +21

    Bro live your life and love yourself first. Take care of yourself. Forgive her to heal but don’t go back just use that energy for yourself

  • @robd3529
    @robd3529 6 місяців тому +16

    At the end of the day it doesn’t matter if she regrets leaving you or not, all that matters is where you go from this point and making sure you don’t let her back in

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 7 місяців тому +13

    I honestly feel like moving on already. Though I’m not perfect. I’ve given it my all and really brought my best self. But I’m a human with limits too. She told me she has never loved me from the very beginning. Also why not just move on and bless another woman with our improved self. While she can find someone that she truly loves.

    • @Docpowel
      @Docpowel 6 місяців тому +1

      You are everywhere bro. Wish u all the best

  • @bilalarain4632
    @bilalarain4632 4 місяці тому +19

    i think having a mindset that she'll regret leaving you will not help you in anyway, instead once you walk away, you should not care if she regrets it or not.

  • @PspTomisi
    @PspTomisi 4 місяці тому +123

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @laurawheeler-px6oz
      @laurawheeler-px6oz 4 місяці тому +4

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @PspTomisi
      @PspTomisi 4 місяці тому +2

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @laurawheeler-px6oz
      @laurawheeler-px6oz 4 місяці тому +3

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @PspTomisi
      @PspTomisi 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @erickonlinee
      @erickonlinee 4 місяці тому +5

      search Andrew Tate breakup in youtube, hit the gym, it will go away.

  • @aobasaurus
    @aobasaurus 8 місяців тому +24

    "You have to become the man that you've always known yourself as needing to work towards and the man she never thought you could become" well said

  • @idolbass
    @idolbass 7 місяців тому +32

    When someone breaks up with you it means their feelings have changed, you will NEVER talk someone into loving you. You are better off moving on and finding someone who loves and adores you.

  • @davidshoyt1979
    @davidshoyt1979 10 місяців тому +99

    This sounds pretty sexist. It’s always “what the guy did to push her away”. Sometimes. More often than not the girl is the messed up one.

    • @russellheyns1846
      @russellheyns1846 6 місяців тому +3

      I somewhat agree. The language was a bit of a give away. “What YOU did to make her not want to try anymore”. Although she did chastise her for believing the grass is greener. It’s more balanced than a lot of other advice out there. And she’s a woman herself so it can’t be easy to try to see things from the other side.

    • @gaza10
      @gaza10 Місяць тому

      Thank you!

    • @PUN1SH3R438
      @PUN1SH3R438 Місяць тому

      @@russellheyns1846 Exactly because it was something that SHE did that caused the argument that lead to us not speaking. She was only counter-arguing because I was holding her accountable.

  • @cheungamh
    @cheungamh 7 місяців тому +33

    If she moves on to another man in another relationship it’s over . Why would you take back someone that chose to leave you and proceed to try and start another relationship? That’s disgraceful

  • @whathuh6965
    @whathuh6965 5 місяців тому +11

    I'm not placing any focus, energy and desire into a woman that proves to me that she doesn't deserve me after I've tried. Now, my mindset is "You want me cool: You don't want me cool". Either way, I'm good.

  • @DonnaStelzer
    @DonnaStelzer 2 місяці тому +51

    It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.

    • @user-fy3mh3yj9y
      @user-fy3mh3yj9y 2 місяці тому

      I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.

    • @DonnaStelzer
      @DonnaStelzer 2 місяці тому +1

      Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.

    • @user-fy3mh3yj9y
      @user-fy3mh3yj9y 2 місяці тому

      I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
      I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.

    • @DonnaStelzer
      @DonnaStelzer 2 місяці тому +1

      I promise you will not regret it.

    • @user-fy3mh3yj9y
      @user-fy3mh3yj9y 2 місяці тому +1

      I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤

  • @inspiredx3866
    @inspiredx3866 10 місяців тому +10

    She admitted she couldnt communicate well with things she was going through personally and i was a great guy. I have to continue to remind myself its out of my hands though.

    • @mhill88ify
      @mhill88ify 10 місяців тому +2

      Fuck what she said, you should believe that you're amazing because YOU believe it man...

  • @Boc3phu5
    @Boc3phu5 6 місяців тому +8

    Personal experience: they will come back. Always do. They just need time to think and reflect and when they're finished they'll say hi to you in the meantime just work on yourself

  • @chrivera07
    @chrivera07 6 місяців тому +3

    I love it, I never thought about it, she broke up and blame on me for my temperament and walk away, she always had to have the last word and I couldn’t be right for her. I can be the man she wanted for me and myself for good. I am not perfect man but I have flaws which make me human and I accept that. Great topic!

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 3 місяці тому +3

    *The idea of showcasing happiness and confidence post-breakup is such a strong strategy.*

  • @troooooper100
    @troooooper100 10 місяців тому +14

    idk if i agree or not.. but i needed to hear this

  • @nicholasbrunger8312
    @nicholasbrunger8312 3 місяці тому +2

    I feel like I lost the love of my life to my own depressive tendencies. In fact, I don’t think either of us loved anything in the world more than one another. Wasn’t because of her, but that’s how I made her feel, that she was making me depressed. It’s really hard feeling like you pushed away the single thing you loved more than anything else in your life. All I can hope for is she eventually remembers how good things used to be as I try get the test of my life back on track

  • @StevenThomas-mz8lb
    @StevenThomas-mz8lb 5 місяців тому +7

    I wasn’t perfect and we had our issues but married for 23 years now divorced 6 years. She has called or face times me every week and often texting multiple times a day, sometimes we don’t talk or text for days or weeks. But she is always the one coming back to me and wants to keep connected. She is Persian and I’m from USA. She divorced me and I let her go, so she got what she chose and we can never be back the same, this is just another relationship with the same person as we age on. 😅 happy to be single again, and I avoid the drama women can bring to a relationship.
    ❤🙏😉

  • @rodneysessoms8804
    @rodneysessoms8804 7 місяців тому +19

    By time they your ex wife or girlfriend realize they messed up, it's much too late. Keep movin' forward onto bigger and better things

    • @rodneysessoms8804
      @rodneysessoms8804 4 місяці тому

      @nm9586 you're have to prove to her that she's able to trust you again

  • @JessicaAnotii
    @JessicaAnotii 4 місяці тому +4

    Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

    • @Shanieceflordi
      @Shanieceflordi 4 місяці тому

      It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 4 місяці тому

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @Shanieceflordi
      @Shanieceflordi 4 місяці тому

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Shanieceflordi
      @Shanieceflordi 4 місяці тому

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
      Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

  • @mistertiggy
    @mistertiggy 7 місяців тому +19

    If a woman leaves you, NEVER let her back! She’s already in another man’s bed! Facts of life! Go see other women and enjoy life and only allow her back to hook up late at night and that’s it!

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 7 місяців тому +48

    Why would I want some one back that didn't see the value in me and has been with other Men . That's sick

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 5 місяців тому

      once with other men , nope keep your stds . you made the choice to risk me now own it

  • @ackbuilder8262
    @ackbuilder8262 8 місяців тому +6

    Good content. The only issue most men have is that once she tries another man sexually while away from me, there is no way I would entertain getting her back. There is a disconnect in your message - live your life and don’t pay attention to her being with another man. She can still come back later. There is a reason that notch count is a single most prohibitive reason to allow a woman back in your life. There is a reason virginity was required back in the day.

  • @andrerone8208
    @andrerone8208 3 місяці тому +6

    If a woman likes to think that the grass is green on the other side of the fence Let Her Go let her do what she has to do leave her be and if her relationship doesn't work out and she comes back to you only to find that you're in a new relationship with your new flame she's going to try to come in when you back but she's going to realize that her opportunity to win you back has passed level up for yourself today tomorrow that's all I got to say thanks

  • @Isseihyodou300
    @Isseihyodou300 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you this help we just broke up this past week and I really don't want to lose her I did anything begging crying anything just for her to make up with me but she didn't I truly genuinely love him for 2years she didn't even think or fight for our relationship and the worse is that I think she's not even sad or depress breaking up with me she's more happy 😊

  • @OSRSXD
    @OSRSXD 4 місяці тому +2

    You're amazing. i love how ur mind works and how you see things as they are while you have learned from ur own mistakes and not just living ur life to find ur own happiness- rather, you make the effort to help give people advice who are hurting inside who have probably been in the same situation you have once upon a time. thats why eveything you say sounds so accurate. not everyone has the same mental strengths to have loved being in a relationship with someone and been able to move on so easily after putting so much time and attention into their special person- but ur advice is very genuine and i hope it helps people who need it and this video is my first time seeing you and i can tell ur advice is worth it's weight in gold.

  • @BrittanyHendricks-t2z
    @BrittanyHendricks-t2z 3 місяці тому +1

    Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.

    • @EvaStang-r3y
      @EvaStang-r3y 3 місяці тому

      Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.

    • @BrittanyHendricks-t2z
      @BrittanyHendricks-t2z 3 місяці тому

      Wow, that’s incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?

    • @EvaStang-r3y
      @EvaStang-r3y 3 місяці тому

      His name is Fatherabulu, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reconnect with their ex.

    • @BrittanyHendricks-t2z
      @BrittanyHendricks-t2z 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing this valuable info! I just looked him up, and he seems impressive.

  • @Jylng
    @Jylng 6 місяців тому +2

    My relationship of going on 3 years, my fiancee was going through mental health problems and struggling with loving herself and missing her family, as she moved 8 hours away for me, she moved back home a month ago. Our relationship overall great, but her mental health really effected our relationship as she said she can’t give the love i deserve because she doesn’t love herself, and it really hurts knowing that, as i did my all for her and loving her that she can feel that way, I believe she’ll be back once God heals her, just the time being is very difficult.

  • @frankmorris6765
    @frankmorris6765 14 днів тому

    When I learned that she already started dating three weeks after I broke up with her, I realized that I never wanted to be with her ever again. If another man touches her, I don’t want no part of that. It sucks because we work together but I just put on a smile and go about my day. Some days are better than others, but I’m making it work.

  • @samwilliam6369
    @samwilliam6369 5 місяців тому +3

    She got divorce and called me after 6 years... Suddenly..... I chose to be alone till now and I do hold so much love for her that I could never love anyone else..... I am not sure if she is toying with me.... She broke up with me for no reason before getting married..... My heart is in severe pain and afraid of losing her

  • @shawnbateman79
    @shawnbateman79 7 місяців тому +3

    I totally agree with the points in this video, and towards the end of my relationship, I was becoming needy, insecure, paranoid, and not the person she met in the beginning. I understand why she stopped being attracted to me. But also, she was not her best version either and not the person I met in the beginning as well. She changed a lot both in personality and with confidence and self-esteem as well. In a way she did the same things I did and made the same mistakes but selfishly she expected me to be the one that did the changing for the relationship. It was very selfish on her part for her to expect me to be the person I used to be so she could be who she was afterward.

  • @roho741
    @roho741 6 місяців тому +5

    Yeah, they might regret it later on in some parts of their lives...but given the fact that some of them are beyond saving. I'd say that it would probably happen again over and over and nothing will change at all

  • @RobinStiem-x3p
    @RobinStiem-x3p 7 годин тому

    Amazing-video! My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop (thinking about him)

    • @MargaretaHill-y9d
      @MargaretaHill-y9d 7 годин тому

      Its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let him go. I did all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back*

    • @RobinStiem-x3p
      @RobinStiem-x3p 7 годин тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?

    • @MargaretaHill-y9d
      @MargaretaHill-y9d 7 годин тому

      His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

    • @MargaretaHill-y9d
      @MargaretaHill-y9d 7 годин тому

      Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.

    • @RobinStiem-x3p
      @RobinStiem-x3p 7 годин тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive!

  • @ELmasDuroChamp
    @ELmasDuroChamp 2 місяці тому +1

    Stay focus 💯 Value your worth No looking back

  • @BonnieSetliff
    @BonnieSetliff 6 днів тому

    Excellent-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)

    • @user-sr8mk6ff1c
      @user-sr8mk6ff1c 6 днів тому

      It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him*

    • @BonnieSetliff
      @BonnieSetliff 6 днів тому

      That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?

    • @user-sr8mk6ff1c
      @user-sr8mk6ff1c 6 днів тому

      His name is Owen Abiola, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.

    • @user-sr8mk6ff1c
      @user-sr8mk6ff1c 6 днів тому

      Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.

    • @BonnieSetliff
      @BonnieSetliff 6 днів тому

      Thank you for sharing this valuable information! I just looked her up online, and I'm impressed

  • @masonsteven77
    @masonsteven77 28 днів тому

    I’ve watched many videos looking desperately for some kind of solace and thoughtful advice, and this is so good it’s as if I haven’t seen anything else.
    You’re an angel and you are smart. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting helpful videos like this one.
    Brilliant.

  • @ManpeiKonyak-xg7zl
    @ManpeiKonyak-xg7zl 3 місяці тому +1

    My 4 years and all my efforts wasted..I realise I was so focused on her life instead of mine. Now im learning new skills through online courses like Power BI, Architecture, Web Development just to name a few. 😊

  • @loudestloud1834
    @loudestloud1834 7 місяців тому +5

    My ex had unrealistic expectations. We were medium distance, I'm finishing a masters degree and busted my ass studying and teaching to not pay tuition. I still tried to give her all I reasonably could. Anytime she called I picked up and would talk for nearly an hour each day. She said she felt like an afterthought in my life while I was working as hard as I could to get my career squared away and give us a stable future. I was planning to move to her city after graduating. She was never an afterthought to me. It really sucks that all this had to end over miscommunication

    • @Freudster21
      @Freudster21 5 місяців тому +1

      Very similar situation, once a woman comes up with a reason to lose emotional attraction, there’s really no stopping it. Best to just level up and have her regret it.

    • @avve9001
      @avve9001 4 місяці тому

      Her loss

  • @FatihiDeen-lx8kh
    @FatihiDeen-lx8kh 3 місяці тому +1

    I deeply got my girlfriend hurt so badly which was my fault.
    I apologised and showed how remorseful.
    Now she is back and insisting we should be friends, which I don't get it. please explain.

  • @jerisbistro
    @jerisbistro 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for this. It was very timely for me.

  • @mwhite7712
    @mwhite7712 2 місяці тому

    Christie, I just found your content and this video so far LITERALLY is me. I'm subscribing because I NEED this.

  • @aaronlopez6159
    @aaronlopez6159 4 місяці тому

    Man I needed to hear this. No look or even give yourself the chance to investigate but you are right when I'm not worried about that, it is giving me time to realize not just her mistakes I was telling her during the breakup but now I can actually reflect on my own mistakes and learn how to forgive her and yourself again. Thank you!

  • @anisemp2429
    @anisemp2429 2 місяці тому +1

    First time watching you but 😘
    I'll subscribe you.....

  • @josephkush1032
    @josephkush1032 6 місяців тому +3

    Couldn't eat or sleep for a week after my partner wanted to leave. The best thing you can do is becoming a person who you can respect and would love

  • @christopherhilliard3681
    @christopherhilliard3681 6 місяців тому +1

    Relationship of 5 years ended 6 months ago im living for myself and living life to the fullest you can't move forward looking back don't waste your time on somebody that doesn't value you do better kings

  • @chuongnguyen-q8k
    @chuongnguyen-q8k 8 місяців тому +1

    I wanted to thank you for opening my eyes and my ear, after listening to your advice I realized I spend so much time/energy/ money etc…Now I decided to walk away from her and go on with my life. Again I thank you for inside advice an wonderful idealistic…

  • @Moretosh
    @Moretosh 7 місяців тому +4

    What happens when someone detaches from you each time you are doing great together? Like the better it is the more sabotage comes. Weird?

  • @heliumamv7880
    @heliumamv7880 Місяць тому

    I came her to motivate myself ... I got motivation and seeing this lady also made realise that this world is full of preety girls... You just need to level up

  • @oblivious108
    @oblivious108 3 місяці тому +2

    It hurts being rejected. And I don't know what to do or how to move on, not necessarily with her, but with these self doubts about myself.
    Also, I have a question. When you say "embrace your wins," what "wins" are you talking about exactly? Because I certainly don't feel any wins at all.

  • @adamborkowski982
    @adamborkowski982 Місяць тому

    When it comes to marriage and not dating, I feel this is different. To a point

  • @nangel4852
    @nangel4852 8 днів тому

    i was so close to my friend we were best friends till a girl joined our group so we always hanging out together then my friend started to like her and i was kinda rooting for him hope she likes him back but one day she confessed to me and i fell for her but it didnt work out she actually ended up chosing my friend so now i lost them both and i ended up alone ..... trying to move on idk how

  • @tsjrusso
    @tsjrusso Місяць тому

    I just subscribed to your channel because you make perfect sense.. if I had a question that I wanted to ask you in private, how would I go about doing that? Thank you

  • @mhill88ify
    @mhill88ify 10 місяців тому +18

    We're pre-supposing that "she lost respect for you"...which is probably the case 85%+ of the time. Sometimes though, women break up because they feel unworthy. Sometimes they are just confused, empty individuals. There isn't always a lesson to be learned in "earning her respect." Earning her respect isn't always worth it, she could be a complete idiot. So Fuck earning HER respect, its YOUR OWN respect that is more important.

    • @michaelmich00
      @michaelmich00 7 місяців тому +1

      Thats true, a lot of avoidants selfsabotage due trauma and feeling unworthy.

  • @goldfinger-ub3fl
    @goldfinger-ub3fl 7 місяців тому +9

    Run for the hills guys you deserve soo much more ,, Know your worth! ,,, Do you really wanna get back with someone who's been fucked by another dude? She wasn't thinking of you when she opened her legs for him ,,, Walk away level up and upgrade ,,, In order to grow you have to cut a piece of yourself off ,, Let her regret it live your life on your terms not hers !

  • @michaeloreagan9758
    @michaeloreagan9758 4 місяці тому +1

    I has an amazing situationship that lasted 5 months. We had an argument and one day she said leave me alone. I did for a month and decided that i should delete her on social. I left a door open and wish shed come back but i don't know if she will

  • @weho_brian
    @weho_brian 2 місяці тому +2

    why would you want to make someone else feel bad. People who are not meant to be together should go their seperate ways

  •  5 місяців тому +1

    Remember. The initial 2 months will be horrible pain. But keep educating yourself daily on this subject. It does subside

  • @luciorodriguez720
    @luciorodriguez720 7 місяців тому +1

    So if you are good, thats more than enough to move on, if she regrets or whatever, wish her the best and is the best thing to do, but never take her back, you will find someone that will love you and spend time to make things work, so just be natural and move on with your life

  • @HeatherCates-q7i
    @HeatherCates-q7i 7 днів тому +197

    Been scrolling through UA-cam videos just to get my mind off my depression ever since my boyfriend left me. I can’t believe I wasted 6 years of my life. I hope I get past this stage. What do you all do when you can’t get over someone? I still want him back.

    • @KatherineHolden-h1f
      @KatherineHolden-h1f 7 днів тому

      Losing someone you’ve been with for 6 years can be very difficult. I’ve been in a similar situation, so I understand your pain. My marriage of 7 years was on the verge of ending before a spiritualist helped me restore the love we had. I hope you get through this pain.

    • @HeatherCates-q7i
      @HeatherCates-q7i 7 днів тому

      Thank you. I want him back-I can’t get over him. Is it possible to share information about who helped you? I’d be glad if they could help me too. I hope this goes well.

    • @KatherineHolden-h1f
      @KatherineHolden-h1f 7 днів тому

      Sure. His name is Father Akabu. You can search online for him-I’m certain he can help you.

    • @HeatherCates-q7i
      @HeatherCates-q7i 7 днів тому

      Thank you for this.

    • @rbellot11
      @rbellot11 6 днів тому

      There 8 billion people on this planet you will find millions of way better men….stop wasting time, be happy that it was only 6 years, and not 40,50 or 60 years.

  • @raywhite8539
    @raywhite8539 4 місяці тому

    Excellent! Best video on this subject thanks

  • @jeffreyerickson3035
    @jeffreyerickson3035 6 місяців тому +1

    Wow, she is really good. She doesn’t beat around the bush. She says what’s on her mind about the social media part and everything else what a fantastic job she did can’t wait to listen to her again. My hat is off to her as they say.

  • @vivekkarki5073
    @vivekkarki5073 4 місяці тому

    Thank you dear for at least motivating me it’s been 2 months now I have not talked with her , hope she is happy in her life with her ex it’s me who is just alone , thank you for motivating me

  • @davidmatossian2550
    @davidmatossian2550 Місяць тому

    How do you do that or try to do that?When you also have kids together and she tells you.She needs space to heal and to fix what was broken

  • @jan_nieras
    @jan_nieras 6 місяців тому

    After spending 2years together ,sharing and planning wonderful things and planning for our future,she just cheated and abandon me all of a sudden,finding someone else that fast and simply acting as though she never meet me,the level of coldness and lack of empaty has actually traumatized me like nothing happens to her..😔 she is happy with someone else.i know..need to move forward 😢

  • @BenChawang-h2n
    @BenChawang-h2n Місяць тому

    Thank you so much !! I’m alright

  • @josiahb.1598
    @josiahb.1598 2 місяці тому

    thank you so much! I've been struggling with that lately.

  • @OmDusane
    @OmDusane Місяць тому +1

    Rather than chasing butterflies make your garden more beautiful agreed
    I made my garden more and more beautiful but still the butterfly I want is not here that butterfly still goes to a garden which are not good enough 👍

  • @oliver7011
    @oliver7011 7 місяців тому +5

    I say it this way, i need to become the man she was stopping me from being.

  • @JVe-v6q
    @JVe-v6q 4 місяці тому +1

    If anyone is reading this . the best thing you can do as crazy as it sounds is walk away. Respect your self and dont beg. Dont cry just say ok and be done. Just like that. 9/10 she will reach out. Dont respond.give yourself and her time to rethink your love lives

    • @Shambhu100
      @Shambhu100 4 місяці тому

      Exactly what happened with me today, dating 1 month, says isn't ready for a relationship, I walk away from her house without talking to her, she blows away my phone but I never answered. Self respect

  • @hopli981
    @hopli981 2 місяці тому

    THANK YOU, I NEEDED THIS

  • @javar1987
    @javar1987 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for this. My almost 6 year old girlfriend ended our relationship. This is a good start

    • @rishabhchaudhary3758
      @rishabhchaudhary3758 7 місяців тому

      Keep strong gentlemen !! it’s going to be really hard but I want you to feel the pain and accept it, I want you to walk with the utmost character and integrity. We are with you always !!

  • @thisdyingsoul76
    @thisdyingsoul76 8 місяців тому +4

    Why take her back when she didn't appreciate you the first time?
    Better to just move on and let her regret giving you up anyway.
    After she told me she deserved better, I decided I deserved better. I found better.
    I get unsolicited updates. I keep telling people I don't care but people seem to think I need to know how she's doing.

  • @Chamris
    @Chamris 2 місяці тому +2

    Guys i have a question that i always gave her everything and support to her but 1 day she left me just because she need space and wanna live what she want so i decided too long time for blocked her on instagram am i doing right thing ? she gonna regret losing me after that?

  • @tazbod6723
    @tazbod6723 4 місяці тому +1

    My friends... if your ill-spirited girl threw you to the curb, move on. That's the only way you can win. Pretty therapist will not help you, unless they want to be your next girl, and she knows to behave better than the last girl. That said, it's nice to see that somebody wants to help.

  • @porkrod7
    @porkrod7 2 місяці тому +1

    Mine has a few other elements i.e. sobriety in her fifth month..

  • @thomasterence4034
    @thomasterence4034 4 місяці тому +1

    How would you help me now to get a good person

  • @TMHCOMICS
    @TMHCOMICS 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm no longer dealing with it. I did my best but it wasn't good enough

  • @claytonleach8848
    @claytonleach8848 5 місяців тому +1

    Don't give any more space in my head thinking about her rent free bye. It's time for me.
    Do what makes my life full filled.. There are solid women out here and will be lucky to share my time.

  • @dennismeredith6944
    @dennismeredith6944 3 місяці тому

    This is great advice!

  • @AM-rf4cp
    @AM-rf4cp 2 місяці тому +1

    the point is i don't want her to regret or get hurt :)

  • @balain-m8y
    @balain-m8y 5 місяців тому

    These advises are amazing and realistic.

  • @prakashdubey8227
    @prakashdubey8227 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for genuine informations

  • @justjames1111
    @justjames1111 6 місяців тому

    Excellent video, thanks.

  • @jsmooth6049
    @jsmooth6049 10 місяців тому +15

    Men's mental health shouldn't u focus on women's mental health these 304's are going nuts out here

    • @NathalyNate
      @NathalyNate 6 місяців тому

      So leave them alone what you have to work on is the man's mental health because men are more important

  • @rebelsolidsnake
    @rebelsolidsnake 7 місяців тому +5

    I left her because she was constantly mistreating me for a stupid reasons, for her insecurities. I gave her kindness and love and I was in a roller
    Coaster in a circle. So bad to leave someone you like. She has written me twice but I’ve asked her to give me space, she almost a month that we don’t talk anymore, I miss her but respect comes first. Yes I was a good man, I gave her the world. I hope she will regret me

  • @bobbymunoz5086
    @bobbymunoz5086 2 місяці тому +2

    This girl is sugar coating this video..If a woman has left you guaranteed she is seeing another man or going to..Now its up to you to take her back if she comes back around..I say NO move on forget about her and find someone else who wont leave u no matter how muchbthe heartache...Have pride and honor for urself. .Do ureally believe these women leave a man and lock themselves in their rooms and watch Netflix all day thinking about you...My Dad a told me a long time ago if a woman aint calling you shes up to no good..I found this to be true..

  • @cj2144
    @cj2144 7 місяців тому +1

    Does this work if we dated for 5 months? i reflected on some things and i know i could of done better in some areas but it could of def been fixed if she communicated bettter to me. i want to move on but deep down i do want her back. ive been stalking her social media and i know i need to stop, even tho she follows me and all of mine and i dont. how can i win her back for good and how long will it take?