Don't Be A Cold Fish
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- Опубліковано 6 жов 2024
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If you're doing no contact or pulling away from a girl, it's important not to be passive aggressive or cold when she reaches out to you. You always want to be receptive when she comes back to you. This video will show you how.
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Since i watch your videos my relationship with women has improved dramatically. I found a super hot gf and our relationship runs pretty good becuz i know how to handle women ;) I never felt so confident in my life. Thank you very much! There is still alot to learn.
It's seems pretty hard for me to get one lol
How come ?
combine this with NOFAP and you'll get all babes out there
This is like a cold war strategy.
Thank you so much I have succeeded with a girl who was trying to friendzone me so hard, she doesn't even know how she feels so attracted to me. Thank you so much after reading your book I know how to respond to every single situation she's been throwing up at me.
Women don't know wtf they're doing either. We have to teach them and teach ourselves.
You would think they did.
it seems its primarily only men who go through growth more than women do as a result of improving your dating life
She contacted me after 1 week, didn't wanna meet, had an Excuse, so I just answer and don't try to contact her anymore.
Listen to this man! I lost my gf because I went cold fish on here. DONOT DO GO COLD. He is speaking truth. Thanks to this channel I was able to get her back and more attracted to me than ever. Thank you man!
How? Did you go no contact? Isn't not contacting them what put her off in the first place?
you lost her when she left you. Everything else is just background noise. You should be over her when she left you. Else she would make you n orbitr. You have no access to her but she will have all the access to you
It seems like we have to live life like monks...always have to maintain balance which is really hard to do. Sometimes I am just too nice and sometimes I'm a blatent asshole who only cares for himself. How can we find this balance? How can we find that inner peace?
We have to mantain balance while women fuck around all the time with us.... IDK I think its the men's nature as a warrior to keep calm and control itself in the chaos, fuck....
You could watch Einzelgänger or Eckhart Tolle on UA-cam, even though they do not do relationship advice, they help you find an inner peace and let you realize you can live your life happy without any girls
Hey, Chris! You are awesome, man. You are my Mentor. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. I know from personal experience that your stuff works 100% of the time.
Thank you very much as always as.
Almost watched all of your videos.
Well I pulled away cause she pulled away when she left the town and now we are stuck in a cold war lol. She did aproached me again at some point and asked her out but she said she needs to leave again so I pulled away again and she also did not contacted me anymore lol. This shit is fun.
Would you update? I go similar situation
@@zombiedeutsch she never became an actress and also i never spoke to her ever again haha. I turned into a succesful amateur athlete tough. People come and go in your life for different reason. Some come to support you, some come to teach you, some come for you to teach them and others come for you to learn from their mistakes. Focus on your goals and your morals first kings, because your self and your dignity come legendary. Eventually becoming some kind of Lawrence of Arabia at some point. You will be remembered...
@@Hav0ck23 did she contact you again, or did you simply ignore her when she contacted you again?
LOL, the photo at 0:40 😂
Man this shit be so confusing one minute it's no contact next minute it's you gotta talk to her but I think I get it just use no contact until she call you then talk to her like normal don't ignore when she try to reach out right?
Don't ignore if they reach out
Petros Giorgallis right I get that should I call at all or always wait until she hit me up everybody says don't call
It's real simple, do what they do. If she doesn't call/text, you don't. When she reaches out it's because she wants to see you. Always be loving and kind.
Kevin Sanchez she used to reach out but my phones been off for awhile now so idk
But don't ask her out again if she's rejected/ignored you twice when you asked her to do something, if she keeps contacting you just have a short funny happy convo and end it. Tell her it was nice talking, nice hearing from her something along those lines, always.
You are so slick and smooth bro. Keep posting more vids and do what you do.
But when she comeback I start lose interest in her😅
Cool how you make it so simple .. great vid
Ok, so I went no contact for 2 months because my girl was being disrespectful, and she came back and apologized. I forgave her immediately and told her that I missed her too and all seemed fine, we were both happy in the moment, but just next day she started being disrespectful again so I got mad and told her that she needs help and blocked her. Did I do right?
Blocking her bad idea
Why? She was like indirectly mocking me for taking her back so easily.
@@9800GtGameplay you show anger and you don't her again from that move
@@9800GtGameplay blocking someone is a childhood behaviour not mature
You shouldn't have taken here back easily. That may have been a shit test to see if you would take her back. That instantly put you in a position of weakness.
Or just how about be usually distant and she will always come to you. No need to be her little doggy by doing what she needs. It is also much better for your self esteem
Passive aggersive is the way to live life 😈
Great coach as always @developattraction
Excellent
Nice video coach 💓💕💖
I met my girl in London , its been 4 months since we have dated
Her attitude is that she doesn’t really text ( never really did )
Calls just twice a day , talks to other guys , talks to her ex .
But tells me she loves me
What do I do ? I really love her although I stop myself from calling her all the time
Make her feel like I don’t care but not talking to her makes me depressed
Please tell me what to do
Mirror her actions. If she truly loves you she'll put more time and effort into you.
Continue the course. It's still very early in the relationship. Just be the best man in her life and she will choose you.
Paarth Kanwar just ignore her she will back to you if you kip calling her she will thing you lost with out her !!! If you do that she will ignore you just no contact best thing to do
You could watch Einzelgänger or Eckhart Tolle on UA-cam, even though they do not do relationship advice, they help you find an inner peace and let you realize you can live your life happy without any girls
Chris, I really appreciate these videos, they’ve helped me in so many ways to be a better man.
I have a question about this video.
What do I do if my girlfriend keeps telling me not to wait to contact her when she doesn’t contact me for a few days?
I tell her I’m only giving her space and she can contact me when she wants to talk or see me, but she disagrees.
Tell her to contact you when she changes her mind, then move on. Done you fixed her shittest. She will contact you.
dude first thing don't have a convo about this ...and if she says such thing ask her why she has to stop contacting in the first place
Texting first once a week or something to surprise her. Sometimes when there’s an issue and she closes up try to open her up. If she gives you attitude or stonewalls then you walk away.
I pull her away 2 mths and she is trying to talk to me again. But she loves another boy what should I do?
And I am interest in her
Ahmedmenstyle she wants her cake and to eat it to
I came across women in my office. I didn't talk to her much in person, just occasionally. She used give all signs of liking, such as staring and unconscious signs too like mimicking actions etc. I started texting her. One day, I asked her out, but she blocked me. Then, I just didn't talk to her for a month and said sorry for what happened. But later she again showed some signs. So, again we started texting and her replies were quick and detailed. One day I texted I like her. But she said I don't feel like that for you. It was misunderstanding. And a little off path conversation and she blocked me. Now then I sent an sms saying that you got me wrong and I want you to know that I want to move forward. And told if this time your answer is same then I will move on. And she said it was misunderstanding and she meant the same and nothing else. So I deleted her number from my phone. So, what do you think the problem is? Am I too upfront or she was not interested at all. But one thing to notice, my friends say that she used to give signs to most of them like staring. But with me it was staring, smiling and unconscious signs too...
I like to watch you getting better and better :-)
Wow, an exceptional one from you.
Chris got a question most of the time you always told us that when the girl pulls away,loose interest and breaks up
and reaches out to you again ,you mention on your other videos that you need to give her a hard time because she needs to work on our attention.but here you mention do not be cold as fish. Can you explain further more please.
If my ex has reached out with a lot of affection, and then I respond with some affection, and then she doesn't respond. Should I reach out to her, or wait again for her to reach out?
Nope don't reach
@@azazel3944 it was my birthday 2 days ago, and she literally wrote me like a page telling me how much she loves me, misses me, and how she wants to spend the rest of her life with me etc... (which oddly enough she said as she was breaking up with me (long distance a bunch of other crap). I responded her thanking for the message and also letting her know I love her. Should I just wait now?
@@Ninja4hire110 yes wait and live your life
Responded by telling her you love her? ....wrong move bro! Dont give your love away so easily. You should have kept your feelings as a mystery at least initially. No harm done. Just "wait for her" to reach out. Live your life and let her reach out to you.
@@Ninja4hire110 stop believing her words bro look at her actions
Thank you ❤️
Thanks criss so much. In fact am always listening to your videos which I learned alot so far. Everything works of you. If you please I wanna ask about one issue I got confused about every once in a while. A month ago I was sent a message to my girlfriend, she received it and did not reply back. But the thing is I still get her likes on my posts over Facebook. What should I do this please 🙏
Great!
Good one though 👌🏻
stalemate .both pull away😂nowadays Girls do this
Shes will not miss me coz shes loved other one strongly .. but i feel shes useing me or want me or still have feelings but am sure shes loved me for short time but me 2 years nothing after love term
Chris. Tell me trick how to ask someone out. If I ask anyone after some chit chat. They always says yeah sure we will, but they never meet.. like fuck. 😑 And I never text them again 😂 I have some self-respect.
love u bro👍
Have a out of subject question. Pls tell me whether will No Contact work again if you broke it after 3 weeks..??
What to do if she is back and says i love you..you do the same..what's next ?
Ashish Sharma 🏃 🏃♀️ 🏃 🏃♀️
You tell her “I know” and continue to lead. Let her prove she loves you through her actions. Actions are more powerful than empty words.
Hey Chris! Plz guide me on this..
Do putting stories on social media about quotes telling her how bad she is, how she ruined me etc. affect no contact period?
And do such bad stories affect her way of thinking? As she is already thinking bad of me. (while I did nothing wrong with her). Thnku
Yes it does
Hey Develop Attraction, I know you said that we shouldn’t give gifts until we know the girl cares about us. Are birthdays an exception? Is it O.K. To break the rules here and be romantic or is it something that kills attraction if we aren’t sure whether or not she likes us yet.
No birthday. No xmas. No new year.
Give her when you want, and when you think she deserves one. Not on a particular event
sir canwell sir why you no help us desperate people? we are on knees begging you for help. our ex leave us and we no know what to do sir coach canwell sir
He has a book that you can buy and provides free coaching on UA-cam??? This dude also needs to make a living, why don't you support him?
fuck your barber is he blind or what
Should I ignore her if she's asking for some help.? Bcoz just last day she told me that she don't want me anymore
Depend maybe she was Just teasing you, but if she was serious about it, fk her and dont help yr not her dog.
And now you are clearing this?
Arsalan A If you read my book you would know this already.
@@DevelopAttraction i thing i have to spend few bucks for this priceless knowledge afterall...lol
Any ay your videos are just great and keep doing the good work mate😀😀
But what if she always gives this hot and cold treatment..??.
The. Bring that shit up! Tell her you won’t be treated this way and this better be the ultimatum. If she continues then the get he fuck out, being that beta might hold that fucked up relation a bit longer but in long run- man you will be fucked
Okay so Chris I'm almost done with no contact, almost 3 weeks in. I've been posting myself having a great time on my Instagram stories and she seems to be affected that I'm having fun. She's in a rebound by the way. And I've seen that she's been tweeting stuff like "this is so difficult, I don't know if can still take it." stuff like that. I won't go into detail but I know you get the point.. Should I contact her or should I wait until NC is over? I don't wanna mess up this stage. :)
Why would you want her back if she is with another guy? That's so insulting and disrespectful to yourself dude
Girls on the rebound are very different. She still has feelings for her ex. Just give her time to choose you.
Kevin Sanchez thanks man! That's what I observe. She's trying to make me jealous lol. I'm still doing NC regardless.
@@abstrakk1021 do not let her see you you getting jealous. Don't let anything she does rattle you, at least not visibly. That will communicate strength which she will find very attractive.
Kevin Sanchez thanks man! I appreciate that. Even thru social media, right?
The problem is I think I am not her priority and she doesn’t love me as much as I do , she doesnt put a lot of efforts to meet and all .
Please help I feel depressed
Love from India
When someone shows you who they are believe them...her actions are telling you she doesn't give a fuck? Have to look out for yourself my man
She will leave you eventually
my ex texted me about some bill related thing yesterday and i ignored it. that same day she came over at 10pm. i found it strange. also She was supposed to come on last Saturday to get her families stuff from my house but I left a note outside my door in case she came over and I wasnt here Saturday n wanted her to see the list of what we still had left to split. She was all like why didnt you call or text me about what was left. And I just told her I was going to tell you Saturday but you never showed up or let me know. I still need to meet with her and not sure how to act or say?
For 10000 times act normal be yourself nothing hard
@@azazel3944 lmao! You crack me up. Yea that's easy
@@azazel3944 today is my b-day Nd her sister and her brother both wished me happy b-day but she hasnt but it's normal after a break up lol
why age matter?
@GreenEYESfromOHIO I just turned 25 today and shes 23. And she did with me.
@Develop Attraction, My ex canceled a date last month, and then reached out twice the following week. I asked her out on two occasions (she reached out first), and she ignored my first invite and then she was passive agressive on the second one, so i pulled away. She wished me a late happy birthday which i said "Hey babe, thanks for the wishes. I would like to see you, when are you available?" She ignored the message for a week...and then next week expected me to see her around 11pm by saying "can i have some of your time?". I waited 22 hours to say "What will the conversation be about?", she says "mmmm never mind :) it was for yesterday anyway", i told her "oh okay, well it was great hearing from you. Im really busy so i got to go. Keep in touch". Was i cold after she turned me down three times? What should i do?
Razor5313 No you weren’t cold at all. If anything you were too nice. If a girl flakes on you three times you actually should ignore her completely now until she comes to you with a date and time to meet up. She knows what you want. She’s playing games.
@@DevelopAttraction i will definetly do that, she hasn't earn my time at all. The strange part is that she has reached out first since may 19. What you think about this?
With women don't think a lot
Razor5313 just ignore no contact best thing to do
O dislikes wow must be good
thank you for clarifying this woman are like cats