Why the Girl You Want Doesn't Want You

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  • Опубліковано 22 лип 2024
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    In this video, I talk about why the girl you want doesn't want you. This phenomenon happens a lot and it's also part of being a nice guy (and it explains why being a nice guy backfires).
    If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 51

  • @Sean-nl5ge
    @Sean-nl5ge 3 місяці тому +57

    Lads, always be mission focused. The moment you move away from that, you’ll be punished.

  • @despachantecentral3841
    @despachantecentral3841 3 місяці тому +63

    Tension is the secret.... She has to be wondering where she stands with u...

    • @kenvr2287
      @kenvr2287 3 місяці тому +13

      Only if she likes you….otherwise it makes no difference.

    • @MuhammedAzmi317
      @MuhammedAzmi317 3 місяці тому +3

      Does it means mysterious for tension?

    • @nomercy4186
      @nomercy4186 3 місяці тому +4

      @@MuhammedAzmi317it means say what you want and don’t try to appease her or seek her validation. Let your masculinity speak for itself so she can be feminine. Then tension will naturally build

  • @jhptsdx6275
    @jhptsdx6275 3 місяці тому +34

    Treat a 10 like a 6, it is life changing

  • @johncanaparius3233
    @johncanaparius3233 3 місяці тому +43

    Caring shows her she has higher SMV. Not caring shows her yours is higher. Her hypergamy kicks in and the rest is history.

  • @UltimateLimitless678
    @UltimateLimitless678 3 місяці тому +23

    Life is meant to be lived in abundance.

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 3 місяці тому +35

    You don't get the girl because you're too needy and too focused on her, plain and simple

    • @keasenne
      @keasenne 3 місяці тому +5

      I taught a certain young man this & he is now happily in a situationship. He almost didn't get her because of jealousy & been too needy. 😂

  • @okorieifeanyi5436
    @okorieifeanyi5436 3 місяці тому +17

    Fact.... Whatever you chase will run!
    Don't chase ehm!

  • @RipitSlipit
    @RipitSlipit 3 місяці тому +1

    This was a great insight i got 10 years ago. The idea of social magnitism, the push & pull dynamic

  • @georgerodriguez2987
    @georgerodriguez2987 Місяць тому

    Good quality advise your book is awesome I have it I plan to review it month by month

  • @bonganikato3016
    @bonganikato3016 3 місяці тому +8

    Men do not give your strength and vigor to those who ruin kings. Stop listening to anything else.

  • @underdoge8338
    @underdoge8338 3 місяці тому +5

    God, this sums up my dating life completely

  • @aldobottle937
    @aldobottle937 3 місяці тому +4

    This is great but it's also my anxiety that kicks in from past experiences that pushes the girl away, cuz that makes me start acting differently and I know she can sense my fear

    • @arlieg1934
      @arlieg1934 2 місяці тому

      Heal your anxiety first. Work on your confidence. Then get into a relationship. But some advice, does an Alpha male even want to get locked down into an exclusive relationship? 🍀

  • @igor_rybovic
    @igor_rybovic 3 місяці тому +3

    everything should be natural and never forced

  • @cliffchampion5501
    @cliffchampion5501 3 місяці тому +9

    This is absolutely true

  • @Samuels_nkem
    @Samuels_nkem 3 місяці тому +1

    Always on point
    I spoke with a girl concerning her ex, she told me how the guy used to over text and call her, always jealous when he sees her with other men.
    Cutting the story short,
    She later told me she broke up with him cause of his jealousy.
    That's when all of your recent videos seems to be making sense

  • @AmazingNature365
    @AmazingNature365 3 місяці тому +3

    Great video ❤

  • @dandaman9009
    @dandaman9009 3 місяці тому +5

    Thanks so I should just take my own life because I am to nice and this is killing my ability to date, have friends, and get women. I see no way out of my nice guy behavior other than taking my own life

    • @baldcheddar
      @baldcheddar 3 місяці тому +8

      If you are genuinely a nice guy then thats who you are. When people say dont be nice to women or people in general it means do not let them walk all over you. Have a backbone. Speak up if you think something is wrong. Don't do anything to harm yourself. The world needs more nice people 🙏🏾

    • @milindkbl
      @milindkbl 3 місяці тому +1

      Bro do not see other women like your mother or sister, even if you are a nice person avoid going out of your way to impress or be in good books with women or even people for that matter. Have your boundaries by being masculine enough. You have to be happy and attractive within then the right women will
      automatically choose you.Just know one thing - the ocean is full of fishes 😉. Do not over emotionally get stuck with one.
      Best wishes to you.
      Soon experience will change you

    • @manikyum
      @manikyum 3 місяці тому +2

      Take your life?!.. c'mon man snap out of it. You are giving a woman too much importance, focus on building your nest first, the birds will come.

    • @youngplanet
      @youngplanet 3 місяці тому

      Remember that women do not like nice guys they want bad boys protect yourself from them or you’ll end up the white knight provider for them

    • @curiousoctopus3560
      @curiousoctopus3560 3 місяці тому +1

      Actually there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy, but clearly the problem is, well your actually like me and you seem to have issues staying motivated/having a goal. A man of purpose.
      Wanting to end yourself over girls is no no

  • @ritik6809
    @ritik6809 3 місяці тому +1

    So how can i get her chris... I've had some success with her by reading your book and not being too available... But at the end of the day i do want her so i am bound to make mistakes... Should i give up on her completely and focus on other girls who want me??

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 2 місяці тому +1

    One thing I will never do is let the woman make the first move. A lot of women like to do this because they want to control the man and the relationship. That's a bad move for a man. I'll chase initially and even ask her out but after that I will see if she chases me so at least I can say I choose her.

  • @welcometofightclub9477
    @welcometofightclub9477 3 місяці тому

    Can no contact work multiple times? Cause we fight a lot.

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 3 місяці тому

    Facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @teamcrocop
    @teamcrocop 3 місяці тому

    ok the girl left, embrase the space.
    But how do you control your emotions to do no mistakes?

  • @ExoecistBlue
    @ExoecistBlue 2 місяці тому

    But the secret is when you dont care about a woman you dont double text ,you dont overpursue or do anything to much to begin with. You can show you are interested bc if you dont she may move on

  • @bjornsvartsen
    @bjornsvartsen 3 місяці тому

    Not that this fine gentleman needs my co-sign but he’s 1000 percent right. This is coming from a guy that grew up around a lot of Swedish women..the more attractive ones I think are the easiest when you’re not available bc they wonder if their beauty clock is ticking. Like he’s stated it’s harder to find a high value man than a hot woman.

  • @andrezbarkle6133
    @andrezbarkle6133 3 місяці тому

    Hi

  • @x_MrYAYA_x
    @x_MrYAYA_x 3 місяці тому +1

  • @Szakalsky
    @Szakalsky 3 місяці тому

    master

  • @AEH-df7ho
    @AEH-df7ho 3 місяці тому +3

    Because she wants a chad

  • @youngplanet
    @youngplanet 3 місяці тому

    Don’t chase them waist of y your time energy potential use your time to build yourself your body and your career business come first then they’ll follow you like crazy this is how it dose work not what you see in Hollywood it’s a big scum to us men

  • @Slidehhy
    @Slidehhy 3 місяці тому

    What do you think of a girl wearing revealing clothes in a relationship

  • @gfsfyfy426
    @gfsfyfy426 2 місяці тому

    🎲🎲🎲

  • @imtiazahmed7467
    @imtiazahmed7467 3 місяці тому +1

    2nd

  • @hernstv
    @hernstv 3 місяці тому

    Spot on , Chris!

  • @farhanmustafa122
    @farhanmustafa122 3 місяці тому +1

    Third

  • @omarelsherif4125
    @omarelsherif4125 3 місяці тому

    FIRST

  • @alphapimp0073
    @alphapimp0073 3 місяці тому +4

    Wrong a man should never chase women

  • @joeb5578
    @joeb5578 Місяць тому

    Oh, man. This nonsense has been happening to me since January 2024. I'm getting real tired of it. Hot & cold, hot & cold. Last time I went no contact for 2.5 weeks. She was all over me for a few. And now it's happening again. I've had enough. I'm going cold again. Don't know how long this time. Wish me luck.
    I've never had anything like this happen to me. NEVER.
    I meet girls all the time. I thought this one might be different.