Recording yourself on video everyday is phenomenal advice. I tried it everyday for a week now and I can see a huge improvement not only in my speaking abilities but in my confidence when talking to people. I think this is the main reason why UA-camrs become so sociable and confident...its because they record themselves almost everyday and learn from their mistakes. Thanks for the video Conor.
@@Dubai.2161 The idea of practising something everyday for a long period of time will naturally make you better at it. For instance, change speaking with running, if you run for an hour everyday, after a month or two, you'll find yourself so much better at it. You'll have more stamina, better breathing, better strides, stronger leg muscles, and overall, *you'll just be better.* It's hard to do it everyday but once you get the flow going it'll be easy, but you have to do it everyday, that's the only hard part. It's about consistency. Edit: spelling.
What he said applies to almost everything in life. You don't get muscular with 1 month of training, but if you just keep going and grinding, you'll eventually attain a noticeable change in your body. If you want to get good at a game such as chess, as you play more and more against different players, ultimately you are going to master it. Wise words from this guy. Today's lesson was that no matter how little or big, always put it into the work and take action with what you have learned instead of just watching and reading the same or similar stuff about the subject.
I really like 5:30 “The greatest musicians when you listen to them practice it’s horrible. When I play piano I play the pieces I know. The greatest musicians when practicing are trying things they don’t already know” So good!
Hey, I watched this video to improve my public speaking 7 years ago for an extempore public speaking competition. Thanks to this I won not just 1 but multiple public speaking competitions, really appreciate this and ‘How to Start a speech”. Thank you!
@@nithin6654 just like what in the video said, try random things, only then you will achieve excellence. People who do something more, even though they are just trying something stupid, will be better in the end than people who only do research--- reading books, looking at other's works---and only practice a little bit.
I think the "pottery" example was so on point. Making the goal about weight vs quality, enabled the first group to work without the pressure of "perfection". That's such a great trick we can all benefit from.
I liked your comment. You have got a good point. I have to give your credit. "without pressure of perfection" words are right. If you want to be successful, you have to try again and again no matter how hard it is
Hey. I'm Joseph Renelle A. Mendoza from 12 - ABM JOBS of Eusebio HIghschool and I'd like to thank you for teaching me these lessons. I've learned from this that the best way to have improvised capabilities and in-depth quick-time analyzed speech is to just simply practice. By consistently submitting myself under the pressure of speech I am able to better myself of it, and become more fluent in the way that I present myself using my words. I've learned that with just experience, even through failure, I can better myself.
@@emmanuelameyaw9735 in order to know that the information passed through is clear and easy to receive, it is necessary to tailor your words right and carefully to the listener. Filler words create unnecessary pauses and noises, it therefore removes the authenticity of the information that is being passed through.
I agree! Recording your speaking and watching yourself is the best way to improve your presenting skills. I think it's because when you give yourself feedback, you've got to listen. That's why I have students bring to class their charged smartphones, so I can record them on their phones when they give their presentations. I know that they will go home, look through their apps and photos, and ask themselves, "Am I going to delete this, ignore it, or am I going to watch myself." Those who decide to watch it are headed on their way to becoming great speakers. What do you think?
I've just realized, that i was subconsciously getting better at speaking, while learning, studying English. Yeah, in addition, I'm so passionately curious, and inquisitive to listen to people, to identify who they are, and etc( end of thinking capacity 😂). Passion is contagious. You just have to be doing things you compell!
@@RamonThomas hello, it’s been another 8 years since that, do you think toastmasters is worth it ? I also have some struggle speaking in public, but not in little groups of people, it’s subconscious I dont understand
@@joaoS85 Hi. I 100% recommend it at least to learn the techniques to organize your thoughts and words, but it's more than public speaking workshop exercises. They also offer a way to learn how others connect ideas outside of strong articulation. There's little nudges - I won't say direct guidance - on vocabulary, emotion, captivating others etc. The primary mechanism for learning here is feedback. You are expected to share and also encourage others along. If you worked in STEM and are familiar with smart folk who can't get ideas across well, this is perfect to improve those with choppy or overly technical language. Also, the boost to your confidence and hearing encouragement from an open group definitely helps. Be gracious with yourself, but also listen and be attentive to others.
Conor Neill I was an Anthony Robbins student for years ! I’m in the ministry and I work with addictions and adults with disabilities . I’m going into law enforcement next year . My background is neurolinguistic programming, hypnosis, psycholinguistics , and linguistics. You mentioned in one of my favorite videos you created on speaking about 10, 000 hours to really begin to master an area of any skill set. I truly appreciate your videos ! People have no idea how true that statement about mastery and 10,000 hours is dead on the money ! I’m over 40 years of age ! I’ve been studying these fields since I was 18. I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say - I rarely meet people that really really get into this field you and I love with 100% passion !!! The power of words and our ability to use them is both innate and ironically so new from a perspective of total understanding ! Language acquisition should be the first and last thing we study from out infancy to the highest levels of academic and personal competence ! I salute you for your passion ! Keep doing your thing , we need more teachers of knowledge like you !!! God bless
I want to say thanks mr.Neill, I decided to learn English about 8 months ago and in my opinion I'm able to reach some opportunities through English, I can understand and speak with foreign people who can speak English. So you are definitely right, it was difficult to learn at first but it's definitely worth it, people should keep going to practice like you said, I'm so glad it could understand your speech, it made me feel inspired and motivated.
What an amazing advice!!!!!! I am shaken to the core & feel super determined to hustle everyday. Thought of doing this webcam thing few weeks ago, but gonna begin it tonight itself! If i deter from it, I'm hoping anyone who likes this comment woukd bring me back to this video and get me determined once again. One of the most beautiful video I've ever seen ❤❤
The speaker is very persuasive, and he also has amazing public speaking skills. I will spend every day for a few minutes to practice my skills, most likely for more than ten days.
I’ve always doubted myself, fearing my voice doesn’t sound good. I struggle to speak in front of crowds and even to talk to myself on camera. Shyness and my own thoughts hold me back. Feeling stuck, I decided to change. I started going to the gym months ago to boost my confidence. Today, I saw this video where you said, “Just talk to the camera, or you’ve wasted your time watching this.” Those words stuck with me, so I decided to try. It was incredibly tough, my heart was racing, but I opened my laptop, turned on the camera, and started talking. To my surprise, I talked for 5 minutes and 40 seconds, even though you suggested just 3 minutes. I couldn’t believe it-me, a shy, introverted person, talking to the camera for that long! I realized my voice and accent aren’t as bad as I thought. Thanks to your video, many of my self-doubts have vanished. Now, I’m focusing on the real reasons I struggle with public speaking, and I’m ready to work on them too. Thank you so much. This video helped me immensely.
Mr. Cornor, I am very grateful to you as I found the missing link. I have been listening, reading, for more than nearly 3 years ( all famous motivational speakers Jim Rohn, Les Brown, Brian Tracey, Jack Canfiled, Bob Proctor, Tony Robbins, Ian Harvey, Zig Ziglar, Nepolean Hill etc. and their books ) and hardly attempted to follow this simple rule, you just mentioned in this video. Now I know what I need to do, going to apply this rule daily. I know I can do it. Prior listening to this video, I was randomly searching the motivational videos and was very indecisive. But your video gave me the direction. Big thanks to you, I am writing you name in my diary..as your video is the turning point of my life and would remember today's date 20th May 2016 23:50PM.
@@muhammadroshanmughees1586 Of course it worked if he stuck with it. if you put time into any skill in life you can learn it. no kid rode a bike on their first time, they practiced. same thing applies for this, writing, learning a new language whatever the case may be if you want to improve you need to invest the time into it, have critical thinking and improve where you lack.
PRACTICE... PRACTICE.. PRACTICE!! This is really wonderful advise you gave. This advise is so helpful and useful for us. Thank you so much for your entire speech it is great!! Regards Balaji - Sydney - Australia
@@kikiteupractice on your own language or see the meaning of the words that you don’t how to say it in English that’s well make you learn some new words and make you get petter
I'm not really a good speaker but I can say I'm progressing well when I record self video then I listen after, then I try as hard as I can to speak more by choosing a specific topic sometimes randomly especially after reading book(s) . Thank you Conor ❤ to share this wonderful video
I watched so many of your videos - they are amazing. Life changing. Thank you 🙏. I noticed in many videos you always quote “ I decided or decide to do this” which I find it so empowering. I now get up every morning and ask myself ‘ what have I decided to do today’ - it turns out to be far more productive on the days I ask these questions 😊.
The original book on deliberate practice is called Peak by Anders Ericsson. In this book he noticed that everyone he studied that had achieved a significant level of succes in their field had approximately put in 8 to 10 thousand hours of practice. But those who really excelled, let’s say the top 3 were those who practiced deliberately. Meaning they got feed back on a regular basis from a coach pertaining their efforts in order to correct the mistakes made. Practicing 10 thousand hours whilst doing the wrong thing will not help you achieve your goal.
Speaking makes you better everyday, snother thing is listening to people speak - not necessarily on how to speak just on anything and see how they do naturally!
Great points Conor! I share with my students and in the leadership speeches I have given this idea that you're good at whatever you have done for 10,000 hours that I had learned from an MIT course I had taken! I love your style and depth, glad to subscribe to your channel! Very valuable!!!
Away from presentation evaluation,you are such a great teacher sir. This was my first time watching one of your videos,sure, they are great and very useful. watching your videos makes a person not only have spoken but ,have taught conversation skills.
I m listening to this video in 1st September, 2024 and it is just mind-blowing, so beautifully crafted and easily delivered and most importantly after 12 long years the importance of the video in same.. Thanks UA-cam for this great recommendation video and thanks to the speaker sir. 😊
Thanks Mr. Neill! I will follow your advices to improve my speech. My mother tongue is Spanish and I am learning English, but it is very difficult to get organized my ideas when I have to do an essay or a speech in English. I am going to record a video everyday of myself as you recommended and keep practising, practising and practising.
Genial que pueda dar charlas en Español. Espero poder encontrar mas videos suyos en ambos idiomas para compartirlos y practicar sus consejos. ¡Muchas gracias!
i am talkative in the initially after watching this is.. i changed my way of speaking and talking with friends and office mates... thank you very much... we expect much from you...
"it's what he chose to do everyday" when describing Messi.... Such good advice. Listening to yourself back (as just audio) , and watching yourself back (with no audio) is a great discipline. "only by doing more speaking can you get better at speaking". Boom
i notice i speak best when i'm confident. earlier today someone came to interview me, and i spoke very clear and confident with happiness. usually i'm a bit anxious and have a slight lisp,, but in that moment i felt at my best.
You convinced me to try! I wasn't going to do it....until you caught me out with the researching and philosophizing, analysing and "thinking" a good talk. So I did it, it was crap, but I'll do it again tomorrow xx
Hardly all they do is dance to music or talk about nonsense for 30 seconds. Nothing remotely close to what he’s talking anout. Comments like you dont need to make useless and unrelated remarks.
I have found a POWERFUL quote can "hook" the audience. "I reached for the stars. I missed. So I settled for the sky." (From a young person dying of cancer.) And yes, I have used it.
A 10grade student, 15year old here From Today 9th june 2024 will start to convey my vision my though on anything i see for 3min and will surely tell my progess here Thanks alot Sir.
Hello Sir, i'm Abubakar Umar from Nigeria. a newly employed Graduate Assistant at Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University Bauchi. I always used your guide and i found them very much helpful to my Carrier as Academic staff. and I look forward to your kind assistance alway. Thank you and God Bless
Im going to try this advice from today and see the improvement after a week or so, Actually i have been talking to myself for a long period of time, just uttering anythings that comes to my mind and this is to practice my English speaking skills because i dont have anyone to talk in English, so aside from heavy reading on English books novels etc, i tried to talk it out to myself whenever i have the chance. Im improving significantly but upon stumbling to your videos today i think this is it, another recipe to boost up everything, this is the game changer❤ Thank you brother❤
The point about putting in the time is really true, I observed it when I saw Usain Bolt interviewed about his training and it turns out just minor things that he doesnt do once lead to him not winning. Its not his insane gift but really the work he does to use it
Thanks Neill for a such good trick to improve speaking.Its a great advice and idea to start with improve speaking.I watched so many video and tried different approaches to improve speaking. But it is one of the great video i have ever seen till now.
I am a very straight forward speaker, that's why I am not very much liked by a lot of people. I can never be what people wants me to be. God created me to be honest, truthful person and tell people to treat others with respect & justice.
I am the shyest introvert ever, sadly to a fault😢. I pushed myself to host online workshops but no matter how much i try, i keep freezing and fumbling over my words. I am getting a little more confident with each workshop but i still struggle in front of people 💔. I feel like im just not made for it no matter how hard i try. The algo pushed up this video so i guess its a sign. Im going to keep trying. Thank you for your amazing advice. Bless you sir.
thank you; i noticed that you mentioned the importance of a certain measure of randomness; as a psychology student, i noticed a very sharp divide (akin to the ideological divides present in the left-vs-right brain debates) between processes involving randomness and the ones involving reinforcement schedules; if you are interested, we would be curious about your take on what is a most productive balance between these two factors - does it depend on a person? the situation? a golden middle way? ty
Mr.Neill,Thank you for this beautiful video. I'm Fathima from Maldives, watching this video inspired me a lot. I'm going to start practice ,practice and practice... you are very right, practice that makes us perfect for whatever we do... great helps thanks again.
Amazing video. I've improved my public speaking a whole lot since i've started focusing on it. Videos like this one is a great way to get better. Thank you.
Once upon a time in a youtube comment, there was this lesson in one-upmanship: That 10,000 hour number didn't originally come from Gladwell, but was estimated by Ericsson, Krampe, & Tesch-Romer in theiur 1993 paper! Deal with it! ;-)
Recording yourself on video everyday is phenomenal advice. I tried it everyday for a week now and I can see a huge improvement not only in my speaking abilities but in my confidence when talking to people. I think this is the main reason why UA-camrs become so sociable and confident...its because they record themselves almost everyday and learn from their mistakes. Thanks for the video Conor.
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About what should i talk
Good idea
Thats the key !!
Wish i saw this comment 7 years ago
12 years later, it's still a phenomenal advice
It's still phenomenal advice***
And it's not phenomenal either haha
10,000 hours of practice can bring you every where.
Wrong
fr
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well, actually it's not fr. it will took u less hours if you're really talanted. and vice versa. read about it on the internet. it's already proven
You also need the right tools, I'm using Talk Adventure app that makes practicing speaking fun as part of a gameplay
“Only by speaking, do you turn into a speaker.”
This nails the gist of the secret to mastery. Thank you so much!
Yes 🙌
Very amazing sentences
Me personally, i think it's more important to listen very carefully to everything you are flowing with heartful atention to.
Then of course as much as you listen, as much you record and then replay.
I don't wanna turn into a 📢
Recording yourself and practicing on a daily basis are amazing ways to improve your English.
Meanwhile me at 2:00 am getting motivated by this video😂
+1 😂😂
3:25 am 🤣🤣
1.06 am here 😂
🤔🤐😪
Me too!!
This isn’t just about speaking
Yes it is
Facts.
Please elaborate ??
@@Dubai.2161 The idea of practising something everyday for a long period of time will naturally make you better at it. For instance, change speaking with running, if you run for an hour everyday, after a month or two, you'll find yourself so much better at it. You'll have more stamina, better breathing, better strides, stronger leg muscles, and overall, *you'll just be better.*
It's hard to do it everyday but once you get the flow going it'll be easy, but you have to do it everyday, that's the only hard part.
It's about consistency.
Edit: spelling.
@@DioZandro thank you
What he said applies to almost everything in life. You don't get muscular with 1 month of training, but if you just keep going and grinding, you'll eventually attain a noticeable change in your body. If you want to get good at a game such as chess, as you play more and more against different players, ultimately you are going to master it. Wise words from this guy. Today's lesson was that no matter how little or big, always put it into the work and take action with what you have learned instead of just watching and reading the same or similar stuff about the subject.
I really like 5:30 “The greatest musicians when you listen to them practice it’s horrible. When I play piano I play the pieces I know. The greatest musicians when practicing are trying things they don’t already know” So good!
Hey, I watched this video to improve my public speaking 7 years ago for an extempore public speaking competition. Thanks to this I won not just 1 but multiple public speaking competitions, really appreciate this and ‘How to Start a speech”. Thank you!
I am average in English and my communication and presentation skills is not good what should I practice daily?
@@nithin6654 just like what in the video said, try random things, only then you will achieve excellence. People who do something more, even though they are just trying something stupid, will be better in the end than people who only do research--- reading books, looking at other's works---and only practice a little bit.
Sunday, 28.04.2024 I will stick to this advise and make a consistent practice until I become the greatest speaker I could be.
Welcome to the rhetorical journey 🙏
How did you do?
What's the progress?
You're black, you're not sticking to anything
All the best
I think the "pottery" example was so on point. Making the goal about weight vs quality, enabled the first group to work without the pressure of "perfection". That's such a great trick we can all benefit from.
I liked your comment. You have got a good point. I have to give your credit. "without pressure of perfection" words are right. If you want to be successful, you have to try again and again no matter how hard it is
Hey. I'm Joseph Renelle A. Mendoza from 12 - ABM JOBS of Eusebio HIghschool and I'd like to thank you for teaching me these lessons. I've learned from this that the best way to have improvised capabilities and in-depth quick-time analyzed speech is to just simply practice. By consistently submitting myself under the pressure of speech I am able to better myself of it, and become more fluent in the way that I present myself using my words. I've learned that with just experience, even through failure, I can better myself.
I have really bad social anxiety and always stutter when I talk to people. I will try this thank you 🙏🏻❤️
@@Solitary0669 ❤️
@@Solitary0669 hey, ify. You're not alone
saaaaaame it makes me depressed
Thank you for showing me the way, I'll be persistent and overcome this journey of learning how to be a speaker
One step at a time… Welcome to the Rhetorical Journey!
Indeed, when the practice becoming perfect, the perfection leads to success. Yes! hard work or smart work yields to profit.
No filler words in this speech 💯
@@Dhrealty the point of communication is not to get rid of filler words.
@@emmanuelameyaw9735 in order to know that the information passed through is clear and easy to receive, it is necessary to tailor your words right and carefully to the listener. Filler words create unnecessary pauses and noises, it therefore removes the authenticity of the information that is being passed through.
I agree! Recording your speaking and watching yourself is the best way to improve your presenting skills. I think it's because when you give yourself feedback, you've got to listen. That's why I have students bring to class their charged smartphones, so I can record them on their phones when they give their presentations. I know that they will go home, look through their apps and photos, and ask themselves, "Am I going to delete this, ignore it, or am I going to watch myself." Those who decide to watch it are headed on their way to becoming great speakers. What do you think?
Wow that's an amazing technique. 👏
Good Stuff
Very good
when you record yourself what did you say?
It's a great way to improve speaking skills.
I've just realized, that i was subconsciously getting better at speaking, while learning, studying English. Yeah, in addition, I'm so passionately curious, and inquisitive to listen to people, to identify who they are, and etc( end of thinking capacity 😂). Passion is contagious. You just have to be doing things you compell!
No shiz sherlock
Is there anyone in 2024
I’m still here 🥳
@@secretboii_pubgm me
I'm here as well
I'm here✋
Here we are improving best we can even at the end of 2024
I'm a Toastmasters member for the last 8 years and this is among the best advice I've ever come across about public speaking.
@@RamonThomas hello, it’s been another 8 years since that, do you think toastmasters is worth it ? I also have some struggle speaking in public, but not in little groups of people, it’s subconscious I dont understand
@@joaoS85 Hi. I 100% recommend it at least to learn the techniques to organize your thoughts and words, but it's more than public speaking workshop exercises. They also offer a way to learn how others connect ideas outside of strong articulation. There's little nudges - I won't say direct guidance - on vocabulary, emotion, captivating others etc. The primary mechanism for learning here is feedback. You are expected to share and also encourage others along. If you worked in STEM and are familiar with smart folk who can't get ideas across well, this is perfect to improve those with choppy or overly technical language. Also, the boost to your confidence and hearing encouragement from an open group definitely helps. Be gracious with yourself, but also listen and be attentive to others.
@@joaoS85 Yes, Toastmasters is totally worth it. You make short 1-2 min unprepared speeches and longer prepared speeches for 5-7 mins
This is the most tangible and effective communication advice ever!
Once upon a time I stumbled across your channel , and it helped improve my life !!!
Thanks brother !!!
God bless you and your family !!!
Conor Neill
I was an Anthony Robbins student for years ! I’m in the ministry and I work with addictions and adults with disabilities . I’m going into law enforcement next year .
My background is neurolinguistic programming, hypnosis, psycholinguistics , and linguistics. You mentioned in one of my favorite videos you created on speaking about 10, 000 hours to really begin to master an area of any skill set. I truly appreciate your videos !
People have no idea how true that statement about mastery and 10,000 hours is dead on the money ! I’m over 40 years of age ! I’ve been studying these fields since I was 18.
I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say - I rarely meet people that really really get into this field you and I love with 100% passion !!!
The power of words and our ability to use them is both innate and ironically so new from a perspective of total understanding ! Language acquisition should be the first and last thing we study from out infancy to the highest levels of academic and personal competence ! I salute you for your passion !
Keep doing your thing , we need more teachers of knowledge like you !!!
God bless
I want to say thanks mr.Neill, I decided to learn English about 8 months ago and in my opinion I'm able to reach some opportunities through English, I can understand and speak with foreign people who can speak English. So you are definitely right, it was difficult to learn at first but it's definitely worth it, people should keep going to practice like you said, I'm so glad it could understand your speech, it made me feel inspired and motivated.
What an amazing advice!!!!!! I am shaken to the core & feel super determined to hustle everyday. Thought of doing this webcam thing few weeks ago, but gonna begin it tonight itself! If i deter from it, I'm hoping anyone who likes this comment woukd bring me back to this video and get me determined once again. One of the most beautiful video I've ever seen ❤❤
This man has class and depth.
Neither
The ability to adapt to changing circumstances is crucial for success.
Totally!
Watching after 13 Years and still got lot of data mean OLD is GOLD
Old is gold 👏👍🏻
The speaker is very persuasive, and he also has amazing public speaking skills.
I will spend every day for a few minutes to practice my skills, most likely for more than ten days.
How did it go?
I’ve always doubted myself, fearing my voice doesn’t sound good. I struggle to speak in front of crowds and even to talk to myself on camera. Shyness and my own thoughts hold me back. Feeling stuck, I decided to change. I started going to the gym months ago to boost my confidence.
Today, I saw this video where you said, “Just talk to the camera, or you’ve wasted your time watching this.” Those words stuck with me, so I decided to try. It was incredibly tough, my heart was racing, but I opened my laptop, turned on the camera, and started talking.
To my surprise, I talked for 5 minutes and 40 seconds, even though you suggested just 3 minutes. I couldn’t believe it-me, a shy, introverted person, talking to the camera for that long! I realized my voice and accent aren’t as bad as I thought.
Thanks to your video, many of my self-doubts have vanished. Now, I’m focusing on the real reasons I struggle with public speaking, and I’m ready to work on them too. Thank you so much. This video helped me immensely.
Thank you 🙏 well done 👍🏻
The pottery class example is the best one I've ever heard about how to get the best results through a learning process. Thank you for sharing.
Mr. Cornor, I am very grateful to you as I found the missing link. I have been listening, reading, for more than nearly 3 years ( all famous motivational speakers Jim Rohn, Les Brown, Brian Tracey, Jack Canfiled, Bob Proctor, Tony Robbins, Ian Harvey, Zig Ziglar, Nepolean Hill etc. and their books ) and hardly attempted to follow this simple rule, you just mentioned in this video. Now I know what I need to do, going to apply this rule daily. I know I can do it. Prior listening to this video, I was randomly searching the motivational videos and was very indecisive. But your video gave me the direction. Big thanks to you, I am writing you name in my diary..as your video is the turning point of my life and would remember today's date 20th May 2016 23:50PM.
Hey how did it go?
did it work?
@@muhammadroshanmughees1586 Of course it worked if he stuck with it. if you put time into any skill in life you can learn it. no kid rode a bike on their first time, they practiced. same thing applies for this, writing, learning a new language whatever the case may be if you want to improve you need to invest the time into it, have critical thinking and improve where you lack.
Alive?
This made me think learning everything skills in this perspective.
PRACTICE... PRACTICE.. PRACTICE!!
This is really wonderful advise you gave. This advise is so helpful and useful for us.
Thank you so much for your entire speech it is great!!
Regards
Balaji - Sydney - Australia
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What if your not fluent in English.
@@kikiteupractice on your own language or see the meaning of the words that you don’t how to say it in English that’s well make you learn some new words and make you get petter
I'm not really a good speaker but I can say I'm progressing well when I record self video then I listen after, then I try as hard as I can to speak more by choosing a specific topic sometimes randomly especially after reading book(s) . Thank you Conor ❤ to share this wonderful video
The book that helped and helps me still very much, because of all the tips and tools is:
Present Yourself with Power, dare to shine.
"A value you would Share with a Child as the Basis of A Good Life"
For the past 7 yrs I’ve been wanted to be a public speaker I’m so glad I found this video
I am watching it 2024 and i am thinking this vedio still work for us on daily based
I watched so many of your videos - they are amazing. Life changing. Thank you 🙏. I noticed in many videos you always quote “ I decided or decide to do this” which I find it so empowering. I now get up every morning and ask myself ‘ what have I decided to do today’ - it turns out to be far more productive on the days I ask these questions 😊.
Wonderful! Great way of being intentional
The original book on deliberate practice is called Peak by Anders Ericsson.
In this book he noticed that everyone he studied that had achieved a significant level of succes in their field had approximately put in 8 to 10 thousand hours of practice.
But those who really excelled, let’s say the top 3 were those who practiced deliberately. Meaning they got feed back on a regular basis from a coach pertaining their efforts in order to correct the mistakes made.
Practicing 10 thousand hours whilst doing the wrong thing will not help you achieve your goal.
Here I am getting motivated from this speaking video after 5 years it is uploaded!
Wow six years ago
" In the journey of personal growth one of the greatest obstacles we face is the presence of limiting beliefs "
Thanks Conor Neill for your valuable tips for developing personal skills.
Speaking makes you better everyday, snother thing is listening to people speak - not necessarily on how to speak just on anything and see how they do naturally!
Great points Conor! I share with my students and in the leadership speeches I have given this idea that you're good at whatever you have done for 10,000 hours that I had learned from an MIT course I had taken! I love your style and depth, glad to subscribe to your channel! Very valuable!!!
i take this as a sign for me to do it, and will get better every small steps! tysm for this video this is very helpful
That smile end of every sentence is awesome 👌
You said everything I needed to know to improve my speaking ability in just a few minutes of this video. Thank you Conor.
Away from presentation evaluation,you are such a great teacher sir.
This was my first time watching one of your videos,sure, they are great and very useful.
watching your videos makes a person not only have spoken but ,have taught conversation skills.
I have done it myself. Recording yourself on video everyday is phenomenal step. I have seen huge diff
im not really a comment person but boy u made me admire u thanks a lot it genuinely helped
Thank you 🙏
A powerful talk that is applicable to more than just improving speaking skills.
I m listening to this video in 1st September, 2024 and it is just mind-blowing, so beautifully crafted and easily delivered and most importantly after 12 long years the importance of the video in same..
Thanks UA-cam for this great recommendation video and thanks to the speaker sir. 😊
Wow, thank you!
Thanks Mr. Neill! I will follow your advices to improve my speech.
My mother tongue is Spanish and I am learning English, but it is very difficult to get organized my ideas when I have to do an essay or a speech in English. I am going to record a video everyday of myself as you recommended and keep practising, practising and practising.
Genial que pueda dar charlas en Español. Espero poder encontrar mas videos suyos en ambos idiomas para compartirlos y practicar sus consejos. ¡Muchas gracias!
Teresa would you like to practice with me ?
+Teresa Roosevelt You may practice with me if you want. My Skype name is refat.english
hye r u there
This is a really good advice. Applies to almost everything in life.
Im going to start today!!!
I appreciate this video. It made me start talking to the camera every night. It taught me what practice means.
i am talkative in the initially after watching this is.. i changed my way of speaking and talking with friends and office mates... thank you very much... we expect much from you...
"it's what he chose to do everyday" when describing Messi.... Such good advice. Listening to yourself back (as just audio) , and watching yourself back (with no audio) is a great discipline. "only by doing more speaking can you get better at speaking". Boom
i notice i speak best when i'm confident. earlier today someone came to interview me, and i spoke very clear and confident with happiness. usually i'm a bit anxious and have a slight lisp,, but in that moment i felt at my best.
You convinced me to try! I wasn't going to do it....until you caught me out with the researching and philosophizing, analysing and "thinking" a good talk. So I did it, it was crap, but I'll do it again tomorrow xx
One day at a time, one video at a time… keep taking small steps
Very powerful video Conor!...Your comment on recording oneself for three minutes every day...Ideas started flowing through my mind. Excellent stuff!
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wow. the Teacher's voice is great and very easy to listen to these videos
When you experience something.
You will become part of it.
It's simple but no easy, just by doing it you become that
Recording yourself each day for 3 minutes is how TickTock was born..
haha!
It depends on the subject you speak about
Hardly all they do is dance to music or talk about nonsense for 30 seconds. Nothing remotely close to what he’s talking anout. Comments like you dont need to make useless and unrelated remarks.
@@messimagisterial4216 nevermind. at least the author of the video gets my comment.
I just love thr pottery class example. It's so real, so practical. We only improve by taking action
I just did this. And I feel a lot more confident already!!
I also recorded a video for myself to open in 10 years.
That's great!
I would also follow this advice, starting today I would commit to practice 2 hours speaking every day.
when he said the videos give you feedback i knew this was a golden video
I have found a POWERFUL quote can "hook" the audience. "I reached for the stars. I missed. So I settled for the sky." (From a young person dying of cancer.) And yes, I have used it.
A 10grade student, 15year old here
From Today 9th june 2024 will start to convey my vision my though on anything i see for 3min and will surely tell my progess here
Thanks alot Sir.
Hello Sir, i'm Abubakar Umar from Nigeria. a newly employed Graduate Assistant at Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University Bauchi. I always used your guide and i found them very much helpful to my Carrier as Academic staff. and I look forward to your kind assistance alway. Thank you and God Bless
Career!
By praticing day by day, it'll transform you better and better than yesterday. I am now studying English and I will do that
Just felt like letting you know that I've watch this video so many time. I think others have as well.
Thank you so much Conor for sharing your skills. I can't tell you how much your videos have inspired, motivated and helped me.
glad to hear that advice . i will do it everyday and im going to back after 30 day to tell you the revolution mr conor
Im going to try this advice from today and see the improvement after a week or so,
Actually i have been talking to myself for a long period of time, just uttering anythings that comes to my mind and this is to practice my English speaking skills because i dont have anyone to talk in English, so aside from heavy reading on English books novels etc, i tried to talk it out to myself whenever i have the chance.
Im improving significantly but upon stumbling to your videos today i think this is it, another recipe to boost up everything, this is the game changer❤
Thank you brother❤
The point about putting in the time is really true, I observed it when I saw Usain Bolt interviewed about his training and it turns out just minor things that he doesnt do once lead to him not winning. Its not his insane gift but really the work he does to use it
His thoughts could apply anywhere field you work onto. mine is architectural art and mathematical coding
Glad to see that u actually reply to the comments.. Have just decided to do a 3 mins video a day.
You;re my mentor from now on :)
That's what I did past three years and now you can see the result😊
Public speaking is all confidence along with a lot of facts or ideas!
Thanks Neill for a such good trick to improve speaking.Its a great advice and idea to start with improve speaking.I watched so many video and tried different approaches to improve speaking. But it is one of the great video i have ever seen till now.
We miss your videos
Leo Messi Still the GOAT after 11 years.
RONALDO IS THE GOAT.
Was he meant to become a buffalo by this time? 😂
He didn't speak English 💀
Ronaldo is the only GOAT
You mean 13 years
I am a very straight forward speaker, that's why I am not very much liked by a lot of people. I can never be what people wants me to be. God created me to be honest, truthful person and tell people to treat others with respect & justice.
I'd like to thank you for your helpful contribution , i really appreciate it
I am the shyest introvert ever, sadly to a fault😢. I pushed myself to host online workshops but no matter how much i try, i keep freezing and fumbling over my words. I am getting a little more confident with each workshop but i still struggle in front of people 💔. I feel like im just not made for it no matter how hard i try. The algo pushed up this video so i guess its a sign. Im going to keep trying. Thank you for your amazing advice. Bless you sir.
thank you; i noticed that you mentioned the importance of a certain measure of randomness; as a psychology student, i noticed a very sharp divide (akin to the ideological divides present in the left-vs-right brain debates) between processes involving randomness and the ones involving reinforcement schedules; if you are interested, we would be curious about your take on what is a most productive balance between these two factors - does it depend on a person? the situation? a golden middle way? ty
Mr.Neill,Thank you for this beautiful video. I'm Fathima from Maldives, watching this video inspired me a lot. I'm going to start practice ,practice and practice... you are very right, practice that makes us perfect for whatever we do... great helps thanks again.
How's the progress Fathima..?
Just did my very first 3min video 😋 Thanks Conor 🙏
Amazing video. I've improved my public speaking a whole lot since i've started focusing on it. Videos like this one is a great way to get better. Thank you.
Once upon a time in a youtube comment, there was this lesson in one-upmanship: That 10,000 hour number didn't originally come from Gladwell, but was estimated by Ericsson, Krampe, & Tesch-Romer in theiur 1993 paper! Deal with it! ;-)
One of the greatest video on UA-cam.
Everyone can improve, but some people are born with the gift of gab.
I really think this guy is brilliant.
I find this video very much informative regarding to boost up the speaking skill
Amazing!’!! 💪🇮🇪great fellow Irish ☘️ man telling everyone as it it! I watch back all my videos to improve them
thank you very much for the video, i found it very usefull.
cheers from Argentina