4 Ways to Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Success | Conor Neill

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  • @mrmoshlijjie3502
    @mrmoshlijjie3502 4 роки тому +17

    I am Arabic
    It takes a long time to translate the video
    The good news is that it deserves
    Thank you
    Allah bless you

  • @Thing-vc2qm
    @Thing-vc2qm 5 років тому +20

    Great video. As always the hardest part it to put the theory into practice, but realizing what holds you back is the first step toward taking care of it.

  • @avirajsingh567
    @avirajsingh567 5 років тому +4

    Hi Conor, your videos mean a lot to me. That's all I can say.
    In world, I respect most to my parents and to my "real" teachers and you are like a real teacher to me. Thank you soo much for sharing your knowledge.

  • @emnasammari4374
    @emnasammari4374 4 роки тому +1

    I am happy to listen to your words today! I am working on my PhD and I am struggling with it especially with the lockdown! I ll try the Pomodoro tips ;) thank you ! I learned a new thing today! greetings from Tunisia

  • @muhammedhalava6591
    @muhammedhalava6591 5 років тому +1

    it is enlightening lesson to kick off the barrier of our success . thanks Conor

  • @johngaffigan9568
    @johngaffigan9568 5 років тому +2

    You live an "other-centric" life in direct service to others. I strive to live similarly. Your videos are always thought provoking. Some, like this one, stand out as being particularly helpful. God bless on your valuable mission to challenge us to be our absolute best.

  • @sinatrabone
    @sinatrabone 4 роки тому

    I'm trying to become a masterful music teacher. Your visualization excercises before entering a room of students was so powerful I had to pause the video and let it sink in.
    Thank you for the quality of your work. I am so glad I stumbled on your videos today. I will be making use of your ideas this year!

  • @SAA-zc4xp
    @SAA-zc4xp 2 роки тому +12

    Being Humble despite a great personality and so much knowledge is perhaps your key to being so effective

  • @avjarin
    @avjarin 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Conor. I'm so glad I came across this video and your other materials online. I have been looking for ways to further improve my ability to communicate as well as to lead. This was super helpful. There is no limit to learning. The next step: put this into practice! Thank you!

  • @ExAnimo-e4x
    @ExAnimo-e4x 2 роки тому +1

    great! I study English and listen very important things. Thank you very much. God bless you!

  • @nourashaheen487
    @nourashaheen487 11 місяців тому +1

    Can't thank you enough
    Noura from Egypt 🙏

  • @saqlainkazmi3309
    @saqlainkazmi3309 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir. I think that i am learning a lot from you.

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 5 років тому +2

    Excellent share Conor, I wasn't aware of the DEAF acronym. I love your point on putting focus on others, in terms of productivity and output, it's a great way to achieve more

  • @debramaclellan896
    @debramaclellan896 Рік тому +1

    I just found you today, but you are thoroughly inspiring me to take action. I just watched two videos from you and I plan to watch more!

  • @overdrammtic04
    @overdrammtic04 3 роки тому

    Also despise boredom and frustration thanks for the tips!

  • @trainingguru2645
    @trainingguru2645 3 роки тому

    I appreciate your attitude to give, give and give without return. Your reference to Bhagwat Gita is trui impressive. I hope I will not be deaf to my Self Distactive Forces.

  • @shunyabinduinteriors
    @shunyabinduinteriors 3 роки тому +1

    Learning to be D.E.A.F from this moment onwards.tq so much👍⏱️⏳

  • @nikhilpandey9066
    @nikhilpandey9066 3 роки тому

    Purpose of life ! And no words

  • @lolottathinks...
    @lolottathinks... 4 роки тому

    I think you should be extremely proud for all the positive you are bringning into people's life M.Conor with those capsules and the one on self-sabotaging specially. It has strongly reached and resonated with me so I want to thank you warmly for having the generousity of sharing with us all sorts of great contents, so well explained and defined. I'm convinced it's how you communicated those informations also that really makes a difference. The message becomes clear, powerful and very effective probably because we can feel the pure intentions behind it. I have spent a very long time reflecting and researching on that subject and tonight, I feel I got it and more importatly that it will stay with me! Earlier I was going trough some TEDx presentations when I came accross yours, very proud for having the curoisity to have watched it and then checked out for more of your work... I'm taking advantage of the free time we have these days to learn great stuff so thank you again for being a BIG part of it !!! LOVE from Montreal & a Great productive Quarantine to you also!!!

  • @kavalkari
    @kavalkari 5 років тому +2

    At 9:47 he quotes the Hindu Religious Text Bhagavad Geetha “Karmanye Vadhikaraste, Ma phaleshou kada chana” which means, do your part of the duties without expectation of results

  • @georgeobare6289
    @georgeobare6289 4 роки тому

    Wise,warm and infectious disposition Professor.

  • @abidsalmi1689
    @abidsalmi1689 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir, I'm learning a lot from you.
    ✌️ 🇩🇿

  • @jeevan4337
    @jeevan4337 5 років тому

    Put speed to 2.0 and you can finish this amazing video early. Thanks to Conor, I am a subscriber now!

    • @jeevan4337
      @jeevan4337 5 років тому

      @@ConorNeill You sound totally fine to me, I can understand each and word, syllable you put. You are taking pauses to give weightage to your words, sound more convincing, which is important for your fans across the world, some are good at listening, some are not, some replay twice to thrice to understand maybe. To me you are equally convincing at 2x, it's just that I want to listen to all your videos.

  • @drabidkhan6990
    @drabidkhan6990 5 років тому +1

    thank you

  • @caveri100
    @caveri100 5 років тому +1

    Absolutely brilliant from Norway 🇳🇴 thanks 🙏 so much, you helped me a lot. Really a wise man. Om shanti. Caveri.

  • @damilolaosoka7695
    @damilolaosoka7695 4 роки тому

    Hi Conor, stumbled upon your page today, I am thrilled at the level of content dished out. well done.

  • @YaHmmm
    @YaHmmm 3 роки тому

    Like your perspectives and insights.

  • @antonioferraria6738
    @antonioferraria6738 5 років тому

    Thank you very much Professor Your calm and confidence help us to control the emotions, to reflect, and act inteligently… help us improve better our performance.

  • @LCLimited365
    @LCLimited365 3 місяці тому

    just came across your channel today. Amazing constant!

  • @tzlitu
    @tzlitu 5 років тому

    Thank you sir.

  • @lamiaridouane520
    @lamiaridouane520 4 роки тому

    One of the best videos I have ever watched

  • @mohammedelharrat5265
    @mohammedelharrat5265 4 роки тому

    Every day I try to change my self but I can do it because I don't know who to it as the video give the motivation to do something for my live thinks very much for everything

  • @nischaymalhotra6287
    @nischaymalhotra6287 Рік тому

    This video had a profound impact on me at the time! Revisiting to remind myself of these lessons :)

  • @fennycruz6714
    @fennycruz6714 3 роки тому

    Inspirational...from the philippines

  • @ehccommunity9458
    @ehccommunity9458 4 роки тому

    Great! Awesome! Thank you so much! :D

  • @floriniepure6833
    @floriniepure6833 5 років тому

    Thank you, Conor
    Much appreciated!

  • @Stop007
    @Stop007 5 років тому

    This really helped me focus my mind. Thank you!

  • @EBSJones4
    @EBSJones4 5 років тому

    Basically, I believe it comes down to defeatism. So many people in the UK seem to suffer from this. "Why bother? It's only the rich/the people who went to private school/the people who know the right people who will get anywhere?" Most people don't even try. They stop before they even start.

  • @BeautifulHomes83
    @BeautifulHomes83 5 років тому

    Thank you for your videos Conner they are great

  • @AndyMontgomeryPiano
    @AndyMontgomeryPiano 5 років тому

    Enjoyed your movie Conor, thanks for sharing! Learned quite a lot!

  • @emanstefanos7667
    @emanstefanos7667 Рік тому

    Thanks for your efforts
    Inspiring lecture

  • @lorraineschaden430
    @lorraineschaden430 Рік тому

    Very interesting, thank you for sharing.

  • @baitoelaiz
    @baitoelaiz 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this great content, one of the best UA-cam Channel Out there.

  • @funanimalsounds
    @funanimalsounds 5 років тому

    Very good.

  • @deaddrink9150
    @deaddrink9150 5 років тому

    Nice! I almost done with my first short story.

  • @dreznik
    @dreznik 5 років тому

    growth mindset has been instrumentalized by big tech companies to subdue folks in doing what their agenda is for you. have a growth mindset in tune with what *you* want to do.

  • @leslieseptember5388
    @leslieseptember5388 5 років тому

    Hi Connor. It's by chance a got to your video. I liked your presentation. I liked your humble style. I like your professionalism. I subscribed to your page.

  • @penangiteInAU
    @penangiteInAU 3 роки тому

    Love your funny title and interesting acronym, Conor. They made sense. Thank you:) Just wonder why fear is not part of the self sabotage?

  • @SaifKhan-ek5ik
    @SaifKhan-ek5ik 5 років тому

    Inspiring

  • @BS-lf6fb
    @BS-lf6fb 4 роки тому

    Do you ever hold seminars in USA?

  • @lubnanaeem6928
    @lubnanaeem6928 5 років тому +1

    Lovely idea but hard to apply

  • @priyanshu7821
    @priyanshu7821 5 років тому

    Sir its realy helpful vedio.....

  • @theoracle9704
    @theoracle9704 5 років тому +1

    These videos try to tame your subconscious mind.
    Embrace your subconscious and it will empower you.

    • @theoracle9704
      @theoracle9704 5 років тому

      Hi
      Its a journey, it cannot be channeled in an instance.
      But from my experience and journey, here are some summarized tips:
      1. Eliminate (or minimize) all toxicities (physical, chemical and emotional). Most people are brain fogged due to build up of toxicity in their system mainly due to chemical toxicity (in the water, air quality, food and medications/supplements). As toxicities reduce you will start tapping to your potential.
      2. Stop limiting your beliefs to only science. Science is interesting and is fundemental to our progress but it is partially limiting because it makes us believe that we are limited by the "so far established physical laws". So abolish that self limiting belief.
      3. The understanding/realization that you are part of a sophistacted system that is not yet fully understood (ie being yourself [body and mind])
      Most people believe or function purely from their conscious awareness and strictly believe in science, to the extent that they have switched off all other non physical senses (i suppose gut feeling could be one manifestation of a non physical sense that your subconsciousness communicates to u)
      4. Be consciouncess of what the external enviroment is communicating to your subconscious mind (ads/media//social media/other people) and try to mediate/manage that incoming information. Ultimately, alot of these external factors are trying to make you a slave or a follower by communicating to you that you are of lesser value, status, knowledge or other. The truth is , your mind knows everything but you have to believe in it.
      The subtext of alot of information out their is that "you are not sufficient, you need help, we will help you". The outcome of which makes you a revenue stream /consumer podding.

  • @_ch1r4q_44
    @_ch1r4q_44 5 років тому

    Thanks a lot for the advice Sir, I like your videos. ) In a funny way, the intonation, diction of your speech reminds me of Bruce Lee's, which I really like :D

  • @bramblebop1904
    @bramblebop1904 5 років тому

    Why four? How did you come up with them.

  • @rumanasiddiqui5268
    @rumanasiddiqui5268 5 років тому

    Hi can you guide me how to do poster presentation in an international conference

  • @kingskiller1253
    @kingskiller1253 4 роки тому +1

    Question It is so strange from person like you make lesson on UA-cam like normal people?

  • @be_hope_dk6547
    @be_hope_dk6547 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! __/|\__ I think this was a big part of what I needed to hear just now!!!... ∞

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Рік тому

      Welcome to the Rhetorical Journey!

  • @UncommonSenz
    @UncommonSenz 5 років тому +60

    I'm thrilled by your sense of composure and articulation... I'm happy I chanced on your profile.. I just wish I did earlier..

    • @krgaurav1511
      @krgaurav1511 5 років тому +1

      Salam Pedia i feel the same

    • @haniwadie9474
      @haniwadie9474 4 роки тому +1

      Please, I want a translation of your lectures in Arabic. I would like to hear all of your lectures, but I do not master the English language

    • @vivekteega
      @vivekteega 4 роки тому +1

      I feel the same man

    • @johnnyakundi432
      @johnnyakundi432 2 роки тому

      Piujjj

  • @mariamshqair9611
    @mariamshqair9611 5 років тому +66

    The most things sabotaging your success is :
    1- Distraction, you have to stop the habit of opening email first in the morning and you have to manage your time ,so you can use panadora technique .
    2- Emotions, stop react by effect of your emotion , try hard to control rather than it will control you .
    3- Arrogance, stop your ego of reserves and shift your attention for another needs .
    4- Fixed mindset, you should be a growth mindset ,try to give focusing on your work and improving it quality .

    • @malikc63
      @malikc63 3 роки тому

      You need to edit further this comment to add clarity in all four points (DEAF)

    • @mariamshqair9611
      @mariamshqair9611 3 роки тому

      @@malikc63
      give me an edition please ^^

    • @grannygrammar6436
      @grannygrammar6436 3 роки тому +3

      @@mariamshqair9611
      He's a doofus, Miriam just putting you on. He doesn't have an edit to give you because your post is just fine.
      Ignore him.

    • @mariamshqair9611
      @mariamshqair9611 3 роки тому

      @@grannygrammar6436
      Thank you ..
      But no problem if any one give suggestion..

    • @youssefmebarki9979
      @youssefmebarki9979 3 роки тому +3

      Pomodoro.

  • @FolaOluwashade
    @FolaOluwashade 5 років тому +26

    I'm so glad I came across you via UA-cam suggested videos. I'm learning a lot from your videos. Thanks a million for sharing your wealth of experience and wisdom with us. I just thought I should let you know your videos are making tremendous positive impacts.

    • @teacherrefat2259
      @teacherrefat2259 5 років тому

      What's the benefit of learning it when you are financially poor and don't have sufficient money? He cannot help you with anything.

    • @johnhinckley7615
      @johnhinckley7615 4 роки тому

      Hi Refat Have you never heard the saying that knowledge is power? The "funny" thing about that saying is that (all else being equal) it's true. True understanding brings ability with it. So if you keep your mind open and attentive you give yourself the opportunity to learn and to do things you previously thought impossible.
      Otoh, mental negativity will cripple your mind. It's your choice as it always is. Belief opens doors for you that you didn't know were there. I'm not talking about hoo hooie fraudulent do dooie kind of wishful thinking. I'm saying that your mind takes your suggestions and acts on them regardless of what you think reality is or should be. I'm saying "don't cheat yourself" because you don't believe in any particular religion or aren't religious at all. What your subconscious sees in your imagination often enough it will act on to the best of its ability. Fill your imagination with what you want to do, focus on that, seeing in your mind what is needed to be done to achieve what you want--and keep at it. Whenever the opportunity arises do everything in your power to do what you're thinking about. Just do it. Actual ability will follow your attempt to do what you aggressively and intentionally imagine yourself doing. This is the only way that new things and new intentions ever come to pass. You want something new and different in your life you can have it... ...but only if you choose to accept your thinking and believe that acting on your thoughts and imagination will work to make your goals real. Don't believe and you won't achieve until you choose to believe and act on what you believe. Until then you'll never have what you really want.
      My suggestion is to take what I've written and meditate on/about/through it. Think truly deep thoughts not thoughts that can bring your whole mental house of cards down in the course of a few bad actions brought on by irresponsible, common, easy thinking and choices.
      Control your thinking and you control your life and your world. Ignore your thoughts and your mind will ruin you and every life you come into contact with as fast as you ignore the "immature" thoughts that I've presented to you in this comment. Your life and how you live it will absolutely without fail become what you truly believe and what you persist in thinking about.
      In truth... willpower is weak and will always lose to imagination no matter how strong your willpower/willingness/and uncontemplated desires are or become.
      Pay attention to your thinking and your words. Words will guide your thoughts if you allow them to through _any_ degree of inattention. So choose your words wisely and use them to think those things that you want in order for your mind to do what's necessary to obtain your desires.

    • @nathanlindstrom9778
      @nathanlindstrom9778 2 роки тому

      I couldn’t agree more with F F. Thank you Conor!

  • @cindyeyler
    @cindyeyler 3 роки тому +3

    Interesting the point of arrogance/entitlement equating to feeling worthy of having, better or more-- so many times I see clients experiencing worthiness issues and not feeling or believing they are good enough to have, better, none the less, worthy of more. I find this flip side you discuss an interesting contrast. I get the arrogance/entitlement aspect. The worthy portion has a bit of fine line... in other words to me it depends. Thanks for the video.

  • @khalidmahmud8376
    @khalidmahmud8376 5 років тому +5

    You are great for clarity, articulation. This is also an excellent topic for learning.

  • @ThatCologneGuy
    @ThatCologneGuy 5 років тому +4

    University professor as well and I love this list....I especially like that he doesn't use 'Fear' for 'F'....'Emotions' is so much stronger than just fear....It really stuck with me when he said that we shouldn't react to the world from emotions. I checked out Kilian Jornet and his outlook....cool stuff.

  • @AshShar
    @AshShar 5 років тому +18

    Such a pleasant personality and ‘to the point’ speaking. Simple and effective presentation. Please keep up the great work.

  • @StephenMarino
    @StephenMarino 5 років тому +4

    Working hard, focused, being conscious, aligned and feeling inspired are nice, yet results do matter. While we may not control the outcomes, we still must deliver. When it's important and urgent, how do you get tasks done?

  • @english3956
    @english3956 Рік тому +2

    1- Distraction
    Measure your Important Tasks eg How many pages you wrote if u want to be a writer then you will understand how much time you are distracted
    Pomodoro technique
    2- Emotions
    stop to react by your emotions
    3- Arrogance
    stop your ego of reserves and shift your attention for another needs and wants
    4- Fixed mindset
    you should have a growth mindset, try to give attention on your work rather than the reward

  • @CliffordStarks1
    @CliffordStarks1 5 років тому +2

    Nice Conor, stopping self doubt to help others take the effective actions needed to succeed 👍

  • @hirokidabar4655
    @hirokidabar4655 4 роки тому +3

    You are inspiring. You are a goldmine of character building and personal insights. You tie all these concepts together so well, you have much to be proud of! I hope not only to share your work for others to see and learn from, but to teach your lessons myself. I can fairly say you have fostered a growth mindset in my Conor, thanks.

  • @accountable3653
    @accountable3653 5 років тому +22

    Dedicated
    Entrepreneur
    Admirable
    Fantastic . gracias Maestro Connor.

    • @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812
      @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812 5 років тому +2

      Conor Neill actually, I like your choice of words. Not everyone is an entrepreneur who watches your video. I am watching your videos to better myself as a person, not because I am in the business industry.
      So please keep up with what you are doing and be who you are for that is what makes you unique.
      We have the duty to apply ourselves to the full potential, but we as individuals can’t take the credit of our success was due to our own power. The One who is The Creator of the Heavens and the Earth has the power to do all things, and only through His will are we able accomplish our successes. Thus what ever you have and/or given are gifts from your Creator.

    • @devorahacts
      @devorahacts 4 роки тому

      As someone who works and lives in the disabled community, I'd hate for a deaf person to have to see this. Yeesh. Seriously, redo this. Ugh.

    • @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812
      @duallinguallady-aishaahmed1812 4 роки тому

      @@devorahacts You know as crazy as it may sound, it never dawned on me the word "DEAF" until you have just pointed out.
      Sometimes in life we get upset and/or angry towards another individual without realizing they may have not had a bad intention in the first place and thus pointing out as you have done is excellent, but at the same time we should not make that person feel like an idiot.
      I hope that I didn't say anything wrong, if you feel that I am out of line, then please forgive me. Thank you.
      Oh my goodness, I can't speak for the presenter, but I do wonder if he too realized.
      However, I can understand where you are coming from and your feelings towards it.
      Anytime any of us are affected by a situation in life, we as individuals are more sensitive towards it. For I am very sensitive towards anyone making fun of someone who is mentally ill because depression runs in my family.

  • @purposedrivenexecutive340
    @purposedrivenexecutive340 2 роки тому +1

    This is great and useful Conor. Thanks!

  • @soniaperez2417
    @soniaperez2417 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! I just discovered your channel this evening and I am impressed! The quality of your presentations is excellent! This particular one is inspiring snd actionable. I can see why you have so many subscribers: you produce quality content. Thank you!

  • @claudioholalla
    @claudioholalla 2 роки тому +1

    Trully inspiring Conor. It´s not about the likes and subs but giving my best consistently

  • @lukemccann
    @lukemccann 5 років тому +1

    First video of yours I’ve seen. Great tips, thank for the info 👍🏼
    Side note, you would make a great priest! 😄

  • @abby-fichtner
    @abby-fichtner 5 років тому +3

    Really enjoying your videos. This one in particular was interesting because I hear about fixed vs growth mindset all the time, but I never heard it described in that way. I really like that. Thanks for all the videos and wisdom!

  • @anjanlamichhane2123
    @anjanlamichhane2123 4 роки тому

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  • @mikesimpson1368
    @mikesimpson1368 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you, Conor - an exceptional film, insightful and incisive as ever. I hadn’t realised I was an expert in self-sabotage! Much for me to focus on there. Thank you.
    Mike

  • @timyateslouisvilleky6627
    @timyateslouisvilleky6627 4 роки тому +1

    Who in the world are the 52 down thumbs? This guy's videos are awesome, if you want to learn.....

    • @BeatAddict808
      @BeatAddict808 4 роки тому

      I was thinking the same. This is pure gold and so helpful.

  • @8016tm
    @8016tm 3 роки тому +2

    So natural expressions during presenting these amazing ideas. Ideas that are very practical.

  • @deep7564
    @deep7564 Рік тому +1

    Great, I'm still young, this video is really inspiring. I continue 😊😊😊

  • @PauFernandez13
    @PauFernandez13 4 роки тому +2

    As always, very interesting insights on how to put yourself in the driving seat of your life and boost performance. Thank you Conor

  • @GGADEDtv
    @GGADEDtv 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks alot sir. You've impacted me.

  • @arshavinhd6649
    @arshavinhd6649 Рік тому +1

    Great video. I think the most important thing is to stop the fixed mindstt cuz it can change your first three tools

  • @Iampowerful8
    @Iampowerful8 5 років тому +1

    I was listening with great interest. Until you cited the Hindu scripture. That simply put me off. I could not make the connection.

  • @MochaMuzings
    @MochaMuzings 4 роки тому +1

    Great content 👍

  • @drabdallah4343
    @drabdallah4343 4 роки тому +1

    Sir, you need an interpreter to translate your contents from English into Arabic
    Thank you so much

  • @salmanasser6287
    @salmanasser6287 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Conor,,
    I ask god to protect you,😄
    Thanks For Helping us
    you are agreat man
    iam so glad to see your videos
    I am From Egypt And I in The Faculty of Commerce English
    I wish I will be great So do you

  • @ceciliasandoval1726
    @ceciliasandoval1726 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, thank you, very helpful.

  • @SufiCenterSurabaya
    @SufiCenterSurabaya 3 роки тому

    Very inspiring Conor Neill ..thanks Mohammad Syafiudin, MBA (Indonesia)

  • @sarikasharma1716
    @sarikasharma1716 5 років тому +1

    Learning from u a lot mr neil cheers from india

  • @isaacmwanza2475
    @isaacmwanza2475 5 років тому +1

    Thank you very much Connor

  • @srinibhavani
    @srinibhavani 5 років тому +1

    That's an AWESOME video...something VERY PRACTICAL to learn from and to apply in Real Life. Will DEFINITELY help me complete my book. Thank you!

  • @shechaiyah6869
    @shechaiyah6869 5 років тому

    What is HOLY is Causality, in positive directions.
    See the PROCESS that SUCCESS REQUIRES.
    A THOUGHT is stairstep to BELIEF
    which is stairstep to VERIFICATION
    which is stairstep to KNOWLEDGE
    which is stairstep to INTENTION
    which is stairstep to AN OBJECTIVE
    which is stairstep to METHOD fair & sufficient
    which is stairstep to ACTIVITY
    which is stairstep to OUTCOME
    which is stairstep to GAIN
    which is stairstep to ATTAINMENT.

  • @ThePainterr
    @ThePainterr 5 років тому +3

    I thought the "F" stood for "fear"....
    Fear to grow by having a fixed mindset....I am who I am and cannot change who I am....lol

    • @richardduplessis1090
      @richardduplessis1090 5 років тому

      "I am what I am" is a mitigation plea, but can't amount to a valid defence.

  • @lizskyline17
    @lizskyline17 3 роки тому +1

    I am really suffering from self sabotaging for years and felt hopeless. Via the DEAF tips from this video, I now know what I can do to begin to stepping out from this downward cycle.
    Thank you Conor, I am so grateful!

  • @r.m1447
    @r.m1447 5 років тому +1

    Loved ur video! great content as usual.

  • @marialuizaacerbi6579
    @marialuizaacerbi6579 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for the wonderful inspiration. Maria Luiza Acerbi Brazil RJ Penha - Work as an Entrepreneur and teacher as well.

  • @Diana.Kurian
    @Diana.Kurian Місяць тому

    Amazing work Conor. New subscriber here. Glad I found your channel 😊

  • @ralphmccawley1554
    @ralphmccawley1554 5 років тому +1

    Dear Connor. I awoke this morning to a recommendation to watch your video, A serenedipidious algorithm. It may save help me to save my life...literally... very dramatic, I appreciate but scarily true. If I may, I'll let you know in six months. Thanks for the advice. First I must get and set the pomodoro (other fruits and vegetables also available, I imagine). Any further recommendations and advice gratefully and graciously received. Thanks again.

  • @marianalituana
    @marianalituana 3 роки тому +2

    this is my first 'contact' with you, Conor, and this video is a kind of balsam, fresh rain on arid land when so many hard-sell talks and self=branding speeches just don't help. Thank you for you kind tone, inspiring words and realistic pieces of advice.

    • @anthonyscott2242
      @anthonyscott2242 3 роки тому

      Hi mariana
      How are you doing

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  3 роки тому

      Kind. words,thank you ;-)
      Welcome to the Rhetorical Journey!