Yeah this girl has NO clue what she is talking about... A gut instinct is not ur freakin emotions... It is literally a unexplained guy feeling that makes u say what is this. The feeling is emotionless, it is just alarm that says something is off. Everything she described is feeling of the heart and yes u shouldn't listen to ur heart.
@@stonefox9124 I think what she is saying is that if there is a pattern to one's gut feelings (certain type of personalities, for example, tick you off for no particular logical reason), then this could be related to the reason(s) she mentioned.
No it does not. Your heart (intuition) will never steer you wrong. It’s your ego that has convinced you that your heart will get you into trouble because it doesn’t want you to discover the essence of who you are is in your heart, not your head.
@@stonefox9124This divorced man agrees. Trust your gut. Do not trust your head or your heart. Trusting my gut instinct would have saved me a house and a whole pile of money.
I basically agree. I find when discussing this with people the analysis is often a little too shallow. Gut feelings are useful for decisions you need to make quickly on little information. Sometimes there just isn't time for analysis and you need to act. For example I have had a few occasions where I have been talking to someone and something felt very off and unsafe to me. What was it, what was I picking up on? Not sure. However I choose to not continue. However I can't conclude that gut feeling was accurate in every case as I can't always later confirm if someone is actually dangerous. I found out some were through information I discovered later, but the others I have no idea. However, gut feelings are next to useless when it comes to things beyond pretty immediate experience. When there is time to analyse well, gather data, and so on. the data gathered will be far more likely to lead to accurate conclusions than gut feelings will. Lets say we are talking about financial decisions, broad political beliefs, things that can often trigger a disgust response leading to judgemental conclusions about others, conclusions about many cause and effect relationships. What feels correct, intuitively true, common sense, very very often isn't accurate. Hence why so much progress has been made in terms of knowledge since the scientific method began being deployed. When you let people answer questions related to certain areas of maths such as probability peoples intuitive sense of what's likely is WAY off, mine included. If people who manufacture planes were doing it on gut feeling rather than data, I don't think I would want to fly. Many aspects of the criminal justice system are based on gut feeling. It just feels true and correct that X is the case, but the data shows it isn't. For example, of course harsher punishments reduce crime. Except they don't. When you analysis areas of the world that had a particular form of punishment and then later that punishment was greatly increased, say the addition of the death penalty, the crime rates for the crimes that this punishment is applicable to don't drop. There are all kinds of reasons as to why, but it runs against intuition. Lots of people on jury's have a gut feeling that if a women is attacked sexually she will scream, fight back etc. Often in reality that's not the case. Some women freeze, some act like it's okay to try and get through it with less harm. The data and stories show that the actual response vary greatly. But lots of people just have a strong feeling that of course someone would fight back. Basically people going on intuition and gut feelings over demonstrable facts does a HUGE amount of harm in society. There are practically endless examples. I recently had a relative who had to make a major financial decision. She was pretty scared of taking path A because she didn't like the idea of it, it just felt really risky to her because it was the bigger change / decision of the options. I put together a spreadsheet showing how the thing she was scared of was actually demonstrably the lower risk option, and by a wide margin. She acknowledged I was correct and that she could see she had a much higher chance of losing money with path B. But... her gut told her to go with option B because it felt less scary. She lost money because she took the high risk option that felt less risky. When the cost of a false positive is low gut feelings are quite useful. For example if you feel someone is a threat so you avoid them then it turns out they were not a threat at all, it doesn't matter that much. If you get it right you avoid danger. So generally best to go with your gut there. But lots of decisions have major impacts for false negatives and in those situations going on gut instinct is a risky game and you can get burned just as bodily, sometimes even worse, with what feels right / true over what can be shown to be right / true.
From HC Mehdi: "Follow your heart at your own peril. It will likely lead you to the hammer that broke it last and if you’re not prepared it will finish the job. Follow your mind at your own peril. It will likely lead you only to those places you know and understand and you will end up exactly where you started. If you’re not perfect, do this instead: toss yourself into the abyss and fall into life. You’ll have a better chance of landing somewhere new than if you follow your broken heart and ignorant mind."
Let's define,"gut." It's not something your normal senses are picking up... Call it intuition, ect .. It's saved my life, and protected me many times...
That’s seriously stupid. I’ve ignored my gut instincts to my regrets. Part of “gut instincts” comes from guardian angels tapping on your shoulder crying, “beware!”
As a Briggs Meyer ENTJ, my intuition is a real strength. Connecting the dots where other people see none gives me an advantage in determining (nearly invisible) patterns, giving advance warning or knowledge of opportunity unseen by mere mortals. Sorry, gut feelings are valuable.
I've not trusted my gut feeling before and often regretted it. rarely has my gut feeling been wrong. several times my gut feeling saved my daughters life
Interesting! What feelings are evoked by those glasses? To me, the glasses evoke very pleasurable didactic intellectual feelings. Worn atop her head, they evoke casual feelings: the playful, the self-deprecating, the well-grounded, the self-aware, the balanced. They also inspire a sense of openness, frankness: There is no wall between her and us. But the wall is nearby, if distance or separation is needed. We perceive all of this in an instant, without realizing any of it!
Feeling is everything. It's all we have. So rejecting or fearing feeling doesn't help us. Facing the feeling and exploring it and getting to the bottom of it works better. In contemplation, we can relive the experience on the bridge and get back to a quiet place and integrate that feeling with others. We can face our aversions and relive them and release them. This is the power of assertive proprioception. Perception is a two-way process: We are participants not spectators. We can zoom in on the action and put ourselves right in the game.
In the end memories are all we have and what we have and who we're with dictates what those memories are like. Thus the feeling is just the by product of the memory.
“Well, we don’t normally pick up strangers. But I’m gonna trust my instincts on this one. Go ahead, saddle up partner!” “Who needs the radio when you have us?” “Mock - yeah - ing - yeah - bird - yeah…”
As a master procrastinator, I don’t think I agree with the notion that the urge to procrastinate is a “gut instinct”. If anything I’d say my gut instinct tells me I should not be procrastinating, and I’m ignoring that. To be fair I guess you could argue this could be a case of selectively defining bad things as not being gut instincts, but idk.
Multiple data points, may be helpful. But, subconscious trigger points due to past trauma: physical or psychological. Requires retraining the subcouncious, through the councious and self. My take. However, I feel your in-depth analysis really shook things up. So, thank you❤.
Since joining Facebook and Instagram in 2018, I have noticed how commonly people like to talk about intuition and intuitively reaching certain conclusions. As a person with profound interest in mathematics, data science who happens to possess profound interest in the English language, as well, I have not been able to conclude with much success that we possess the ability to reach correct decisions based purely on intuition or instincts. However, the majority of the human population has, apparently, made this word a part of their common way of describing certain outcomes quite effectively: intuition and not expeditious rationalization or unearthing of what could be described as the correct choice given the circumstance.
If u look you'll find women actually have awful gut instincts and men have excellent gut instincts. Men are more in tuned with the world which is key for survival and a must for men whereas women are more in tuned with social behaviors where instincts are less useful. The gut instinct is not emotionally based as she claims. Everything she says is heart based which is a typical female point of view on the matter. The gut instinct is a emotionless feeling literally in the gut that just tells u something is off. She did really bad on this topic.
Thank you Olesya for this vid. I tend to make decisions on gut instinct not so much on logic ! Bad habit ! Its good to be logical and emotionally intelligent.
Trusting your ‘intuition’ and ‘gut’ instincts that are ancient primal wisdoms that are embedded in our DNA are imperative to our survival. More crucially they are also the spiritual link to our higher consciousness. The mind is a collection of constructs, concepts, habits and learned behaviours and when solely relied upon can distort your real time perceptions and experiences based on ‘past’ events and rate them as good or bad based on the outcome of the past scenario that was similar.
As a psychologist you are reacting more from a left brain perspective, which can be good. However ignoring right brain limits your overall ability to perceive situations
The somatic response is connected to intuition. Try psychedelics if you’re strong and mentally trusting of your senses in a clinical setting. Maybe not available on some US states. Better than SSRI’s! Attraction is a silly metric. Hormones is a far better description
If you can't trust your gut feeling, you shouldn't trust anything or anyone for that matter. Of all the things which exist in corporeal and spiritual realms, gut feeling is most trustworthy.
Video is no good... U fail to properly separate gut INSTINCTS and brain EMOTIONS. They're NOT the same thing. Everything you have described is not a gut instinct.
😂 right! She literally didn't explain the guy instinct at all, just threw a bunch of heart feelings and emotions together and called it a gut feeling! She has the heart and gut mixed up...
Good evening, I disagree. There's something called natural instinct, animals have it too (animal instinct). I have trusted my gut since I was 3 years of age. I have been through extreme trauma in my life, of different kinds. I am a retired Army veteran with 21 years of service. This natural instinct we all have (gut feeling), I like to call 'intuition.' Trusting my "gut" has kept me alive, from danger, and extremely bad relationships, yet I am grateful that I am emotionally balanced. Also grateful for this great gift from God called 'intuition.' -Georgie Porgie 1/144,000
Every time I’ve had a gut feeling, I just ignored it. I’ve been wrong every time.
I regret not trusting my gut feeling
My gut instinct saved my life. Not once, not twice. Three times.
Yeah this girl has NO clue what she is talking about... A gut instinct is not ur freakin emotions... It is literally a unexplained guy feeling that makes u say what is this. The feeling is emotionless, it is just alarm that says something is off. Everything she described is feeling of the heart and yes u shouldn't listen to ur heart.
Give examples
My gut can tell when a cop is around. No idea how I do it...
@@stonefox9124 I’ve had lots of gut instincts that I ignored. I remember them screaming at me.
@@stonefox9124 I think what she is saying is that if there is a pattern to one's gut feelings (certain type of personalities, for example, tick you off for no particular logical reason), then this could be related to the reason(s) she mentioned.
Trust ur gut. It's ur heart that gets u into trouble...
No it does not. Your heart (intuition) will never steer you wrong. It’s your ego that has convinced you that your heart will get you into trouble because it doesn’t want you to discover the essence of who you are is in your heart, not your head.
@@jonpauldelange🤣 sure... Go talk to any divorced man... U go tell them that and watch them kick u out of the room. Ur heart will get u into trouble.
@@stonefox9124This divorced man agrees. Trust your gut. Do not trust your head or your heart. Trusting my gut instinct would have saved me a house and a whole pile of money.
My gut instinct has saved my life on a number of occasions. Thank you gut !
I basically agree. I find when discussing this with people the analysis is often a little too shallow.
Gut feelings are useful for decisions you need to make quickly on little information. Sometimes there just isn't time for analysis and you need to act.
For example I have had a few occasions where I have been talking to someone and something felt very off and unsafe to me. What was it, what was I picking up on? Not sure. However I choose to not continue. However I can't conclude that gut feeling was accurate in every case as I can't always later confirm if someone is actually dangerous. I found out some were through information I discovered later, but the others I have no idea.
However, gut feelings are next to useless when it comes to things beyond pretty immediate experience. When there is time to analyse well, gather data, and so on. the data gathered will be far more likely to lead to accurate conclusions than gut feelings will. Lets say we are talking about financial decisions, broad political beliefs, things that can often trigger a disgust response leading to judgemental conclusions about others, conclusions about many cause and effect relationships. What feels correct, intuitively true, common sense, very very often isn't accurate. Hence why so much progress has been made in terms of knowledge since the scientific method began being deployed. When you let people answer questions related to certain areas of maths such as probability peoples intuitive sense of what's likely is WAY off, mine included.
If people who manufacture planes were doing it on gut feeling rather than data, I don't think I would want to fly.
Many aspects of the criminal justice system are based on gut feeling. It just feels true and correct that X is the case, but the data shows it isn't. For example, of course harsher punishments reduce crime. Except they don't. When you analysis areas of the world that had a particular form of punishment and then later that punishment was greatly increased, say the addition of the death penalty, the crime rates for the crimes that this punishment is applicable to don't drop. There are all kinds of reasons as to why, but it runs against intuition.
Lots of people on jury's have a gut feeling that if a women is attacked sexually she will scream, fight back etc. Often in reality that's not the case. Some women freeze, some act like it's okay to try and get through it with less harm. The data and stories show that the actual response vary greatly. But lots of people just have a strong feeling that of course someone would fight back.
Basically people going on intuition and gut feelings over demonstrable facts does a HUGE amount of harm in society. There are practically endless examples.
I recently had a relative who had to make a major financial decision. She was pretty scared of taking path A because she didn't like the idea of it, it just felt really risky to her because it was the bigger change / decision of the options. I put together a spreadsheet showing how the thing she was scared of was actually demonstrably the lower risk option, and by a wide margin. She acknowledged I was correct and that she could see she had a much higher chance of losing money with path B. But... her gut told her to go with option B because it felt less scary. She lost money because she took the high risk option that felt less risky.
When the cost of a false positive is low gut feelings are quite useful. For example if you feel someone is a threat so you avoid them then it turns out they were not a threat at all, it doesn't matter that much. If you get it right you avoid danger. So generally best to go with your gut there. But lots of decisions have major impacts for false negatives and in those situations going on gut instinct is a risky game and you can get burned just as bodily, sometimes even worse, with what feels right / true over what can be shown to be right / true.
From HC Mehdi: "Follow your heart at your own peril. It will likely lead you to the hammer that broke it last and if you’re not prepared it will finish the job. Follow your mind at your own peril. It will likely lead you only to those places you know and understand and you will end up exactly where you started. If you’re not perfect, do this instead: toss yourself into the abyss and fall into life. You’ll have a better chance of landing somewhere new than if you follow your broken heart and ignorant mind."
Jesus take the wheel! 😂
Let's define,"gut." It's not something your normal senses are picking up... Call it intuition, ect .. It's saved my life, and protected me many times...
That’s seriously stupid. I’ve ignored my gut instincts to my regrets. Part of “gut instincts” comes from guardian angels tapping on your shoulder crying, “beware!”
As a Briggs Meyer ENTJ, my intuition is a real strength. Connecting the dots where other people see none gives me an advantage in determining (nearly invisible) patterns, giving advance warning or knowledge of opportunity unseen by mere mortals. Sorry, gut feelings are valuable.
Same like me infj...we have develop trust on our instinct...yeah we may be wrong...but who else gonna believe ourself if not ourself...
I've not trusted my gut feeling before and often regretted it. rarely has my gut feeling been wrong. several times my gut feeling saved my daughters life
I can't take seriously: people with glasses atop their heads
Interesting! What feelings are evoked by those glasses? To me, the glasses evoke very pleasurable didactic intellectual feelings. Worn atop her head, they evoke casual feelings: the playful, the self-deprecating, the well-grounded, the self-aware, the balanced. They also inspire a sense of openness, frankness: There is no wall between her and us. But the wall is nearby, if distance or separation is needed. We perceive all of this in an instant, without realizing any of it!
@r.w.emersonii3501 disgust
@@murranz😂 he is a SIMPly man with all his feels
@@stonefox9124 Women are glorious! They make life worth living! But we need the freedom to approach then step back, retreat to a safe distance!
@@murranz What if she were a fish in an aquarium? Would you feel the same way?
Feeling is everything. It's all we have. So rejecting or fearing feeling doesn't help us. Facing the feeling and exploring it and getting to the bottom of it works better. In contemplation, we can relive the experience on the bridge and get back to a quiet place and integrate that feeling with others. We can face our aversions and relive them and release them. This is the power of assertive proprioception. Perception is a two-way process: We are participants not spectators. We can zoom in on the action and put ourselves right in the game.
It is hardly "all we have".
@@themacocko6311 What else do we have? The objective universe? Is it real? The table is made of atoms: What's an "atom"? What's a "wave"?
In the end memories are all we have and what we have and who we're with dictates what those memories are like. Thus the feeling is just the by product of the memory.
@@stonefox9124 Whether it is memory or feeling, we can work with it, massage it, get to know it, and transcend it, peeling the onion.
I didn't ever expect that this question will be explained so good, thank you very much
“Well, we don’t normally pick up strangers. But I’m gonna trust my instincts on this one. Go ahead, saddle up partner!”
“Who needs the radio when you have us?”
“Mock - yeah - ing - yeah - bird - yeah…”
As a master procrastinator, I don’t think I agree with the notion that the urge to procrastinate is a “gut instinct”. If anything I’d say my gut instinct tells me I should not be procrastinating, and I’m ignoring that. To be fair I guess you could argue this could be a case of selectively defining bad things as not being gut instincts, but idk.
Multiple data points, may be helpful. But, subconscious trigger points due to past trauma: physical or psychological. Requires retraining the subcouncious, through the councious and self. My take. However, I feel your in-depth analysis really shook things up. So, thank you❤.
This is excellent information. Next time, I’ll ask these 3 questions to my gut feeling. 🙏🏼
This Video Is Amazing! ❤
Since joining Facebook and Instagram in 2018, I have noticed how commonly people like to talk about intuition and intuitively reaching certain conclusions. As a person with profound interest in mathematics, data science who happens to possess profound interest in the English language, as well, I have not been able to conclude with much success that we possess the ability to reach correct decisions based purely on intuition or instincts. However, the majority of the human population has, apparently, made this word a part of their common way of describing certain outcomes quite effectively: intuition and not expeditious rationalization or unearthing of what could be described as the correct choice given the circumstance.
If u look you'll find women actually have awful gut instincts and men have excellent gut instincts. Men are more in tuned with the world which is key for survival and a must for men whereas women are more in tuned with social behaviors where instincts are less useful. The gut instinct is not emotionally based as she claims. Everything she says is heart based which is a typical female point of view on the matter. The gut instinct is a emotionless feeling literally in the gut that just tells u something is off. She did really bad on this topic.
Thank you Olesya for this vid. I tend to make decisions on gut instinct not so much on logic ! Bad habit ! Its good to be logical and emotionally intelligent.
Trusting your ‘intuition’ and ‘gut’ instincts that are ancient primal wisdoms that are embedded in our DNA are imperative to our survival. More crucially they are also the spiritual link to our higher consciousness. The mind is a collection of constructs, concepts, habits and learned behaviours and when solely relied upon can distort your real time perceptions and experiences based on ‘past’ events and rate them as good or bad based on the outcome of the past scenario that was similar.
As a psychologist you are reacting more from a left brain perspective, which can be good. However ignoring right brain limits your overall ability to perceive situations
Damn, I’m in love!!!! I can listen to you speak for days, I def don’t agree with all your point of view: but my listening is rooted in argument.
The somatic response is connected to intuition. Try psychedelics if you’re strong and mentally trusting of your senses in a clinical setting. Maybe not available on some US states. Better than SSRI’s! Attraction is a silly metric. Hormones is a far better description
I like ur content it helps me to deal with my heartbreak ❤ Ty
If you can't trust your gut feeling, you shouldn't trust anything or anyone for that matter. Of all the things which exist in corporeal and spiritual realms, gut feeling is most trustworthy.
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Video is no good... U fail to properly separate gut INSTINCTS and brain EMOTIONS. They're NOT the same thing. Everything you have described is not a gut instinct.
EXACTLY, this is what I also said in response to the part about procrastination/not finishing a project
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What is evidence for definition of gut feelings..! 🎉
😂 right! She literally didn't explain the guy instinct at all, just threw a bunch of heart feelings and emotions together and called it a gut feeling! She has the heart and gut mixed up...
Fear and attraction ARE the same thing
No they're not... Only someone who hasn't experienced the extremes of either would think so...
Good evening, I disagree. There's something called natural instinct, animals have it too (animal instinct). I have trusted my gut since I was 3 years of age. I have been through extreme trauma in my life, of different kinds. I am a retired Army veteran with 21 years of service. This natural instinct we all have (gut feeling), I like to call 'intuition.' Trusting my "gut" has kept me alive, from danger, and extremely bad relationships, yet I am grateful that I am emotionally balanced. Also grateful for this great gift from God called 'intuition.'
-Georgie Porgie 1/144,000
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Lovely eyes❤
Its like say some DONT wear some color . First time i can say its wrong what ur statment . Over intelectulized what u say .