ETIQUETTE: LEARNING HOW TO SPEAK ELEGANTLY AND ELOQUENTLY! 🗣️🥂

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 276

  • @celestelee5138
    @celestelee5138 Рік тому +8

    Fumi, I urge you to initiate a modeling agency, makeup, haircare, and clothing lines. Your vision holds immense potential in the fashion and beauty industry, and I'm confident in your ability to make a substantial impact. I eagerly anticipate the success of your ventures. Even a budget friendly hang bag line would be lucrative.

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  Рік тому +3

      Awwwwwwwww, thank you so very much indeed darling. 🙏🏾 I will do my very best. 🩷🩷🩷🩷😃

  • @SWGA.SickleCellAwareness
    @SWGA.SickleCellAwareness Рік тому +127

    As a public speaker, I read to relate to different people and increase my vocabulary. My goal is to be a TedTalk Speaker. Thank you Fumi ❤

  • @CherieBellamy
    @CherieBellamy 11 місяців тому +3

    Love all the etiquette episodes. They are needed and you are the perfect ambassador.❤

  • @dmccul2820
    @dmccul2820 Рік тому +31

    My mother never finished high school. She would spend time every day learning new words. She never partook of other classes. By the time she was in her 30s people assumed she was a college graduate based solely on her vocabulary.!

    • @avispajotte8535
      @avispajotte8535 Рік тому

      ❤ Great testimony.

    • @ca7067
      @ca7067 Рік тому

      Amazing 🤩 love this. Thanks for sharing.

    • @celestelee5138
      @celestelee5138 Рік тому

      Malcolm X did the same while incarcerated

  • @rochelle9562
    @rochelle9562 Рік тому +23

    Thanks, Fumi. I found the people I admire most are the ones who are restrained. They command respect, they don’t demand respect. There is nothing to gain by a raised voice especially when you need something from the person you are hollering at. My sisters taught me to firmly but sweetly say, “I trust you will find a solution,” then embrace the silence. It rarely disappoints. My board promoted me to CEO because they say they admire my diplomacy!

  • @sc4724
    @sc4724 Рік тому +46

    “Silence is a response” Love it!!

  • @evilfluff2646
    @evilfluff2646 Рік тому +32

    As a 28 year old girl, aunt Fumi is one of my role models 🥰

  • @AshaCattette
    @AshaCattette Рік тому +50

    You, auntie Fumi, are akin to Proverbs 16:21 “Whoever is wise in heart shall be called prudent. And whoever is sweet in eloquence shall attain what is greater.”

  • @shyfishburn9228
    @shyfishburn9228 Рік тому +12

    Dear Fumi some haters don't understand tact & eloquent.

  • @eleniprovia7667
    @eleniprovia7667 Рік тому +59

    Fumi those etiquette videos are EVERYTHING. PLEASE do more of those ❤️❤️❤️they are greatly appreciated 🙏🙏🙏

    • @rowenaramsaran4256
      @rowenaramsaran4256 Рік тому +2

      I second, third, fourth, fifth through tenth the request for more etiquette episodes Please, Miss Fumi❤. Thank U in advance.

  • @godliveopoku-duah9704
    @godliveopoku-duah9704 Рік тому +19

    You exude elegance, Fumi. You don't even have to try. It's just in your DNA. ❤❤❤

  • @legal_beagle5294
    @legal_beagle5294 Рік тому +8

    You stated to look at other people on how they dress, speak, eye contact, and tone....You are that individual for me. Thank you for all that you impart to those willing to take your advice. Some didn't have a positive mentor in their lives, and you are filling the gap! Peace and Blessings!

  • @WONDERFULLYMADE2009
    @WONDERFULLYMADE2009 Рік тому +7

    Eloquent speaking is such a great tool to acquire. Pls can you do a video of your top recommended books to read

  • @kapungwekamukwamba5310
    @kapungwekamukwamba5310 Рік тому +2

    I struggle with public speaking ,am 38 .I loved this so much.

  • @Yahshe
    @Yahshe Рік тому +4

    Politely say hmm😂😂😂 love this video.

  • @berylbii2600
    @berylbii2600 Рік тому +7

    First viewer....With love from Kenya, I have learnt a lot through this, thank you Fumi

  • @SnippetsBB
    @SnippetsBB Рік тому +7

    Some may scoff these days at notions of elegance (manners/etiquette) and eloquence (speaking). I would never want to leave this world with only the legacy of coarseness and incivility I see nowadays. Each day we make a choice of being THE classy change we want to see around us. Fumi- thanks for the refreshing reminder!

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 Рік тому +87

    My former husband is from Chicago and when I would speak they would always say, "Why do you talk white"?! 🙄
    My mother was raised in the 50's so she went to finishing school and she made sure to teach my sister and I young when it comes to being elegant and having manners. Which no one really does anymore.

    • @Creyole
      @Creyole Рік тому +11

      I get that all the time! Because I enunciate my words and put “ing” on the end of my words. Sounding “white” is so stupid and degrading as well. I use to refrain from using expressive words for fear of being ridiculed. But you know what? I don’t care what anyone thinks of me anymore. I was a English major in school and I love words and anyone at anytime can do the same thing as Fumi and pick up a dictionary

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 Рік тому +9

      That guy was simply insecure. I dont know why a good husband wont be proud of a wife who speaks well, has good manners and comports herself elegantly. My dad is very proud of my mom's elegant mannerisms. In fact that is what attracted him to her. And he is proud to keep her stress free always feeling light enough to present herself elegantly

    • @fionagreaves2836
      @fionagreaves2836 Рік тому +5

      I am not at all surprised at your comment where they say you are talking white. I was told that so many times because I always speak properly especially when I around people who I am not familiar with.My answer is always,"Speaking properly has no color..I have many tones of voices , When I speak at an event or among others outside of the family my tone of voice is different to when I am speaking at home among my family.My cousin always says to me you have many voices.Yes I do.

  • @annalo6240
    @annalo6240 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for that Fumi. You look so beautiful in the blue dress and your high buns. Sooooo classy.

  • @AshaCattette
    @AshaCattette Рік тому +40

    This is such a perfectly timed video especially for the upcoming summer months and wedding season for those of us who need a little etiquette refresher. Thank you Auntie Fumi for your gentle education and encouragement, elegance is a habit and mindset that once it’s deeply ingrained in our lives it will drastically improve our interactions and relationships.
    Truly superb and appreciated, much love from D.C for you and your family; God is truly moving and working in your life. 😊👸🏾👼🏾

  • @mena679
    @mena679 Рік тому +11

    Fumi, I'm 64, and I love everything you say. I've discovered you very recently, and I'll be sharing your podcasts with my friends. You're a goldmine of relevant information for young women. Thank you ❤

  • @TruPoetic
    @TruPoetic Рік тому +21

    YES, make up, dress and advice are all on point. 😊

  • @VIsidore
    @VIsidore Рік тому +3

    💯 percent, Fums. We should also speak articulately and intelligently.

  • @khositshangela2886
    @khositshangela2886 Рік тому +2

    Too much respect for myself.....I like that!

  • @Xo_Chante__
    @Xo_Chante__ Рік тому +12

    Great video. I would like to add that the skill of small talk also play s a role in speaking elegantly. There is a book titled “The Serious Business of Small Talk” by Carol A. Fleming that helped me tremendously.

    • @abisinuola150
      @abisinuola150 Рік тому

      Thank you for this sis. Just purchased it off @amazon now.

  • @alikazan24
    @alikazan24 Рік тому +1

    Love your advice Fumi, you are filling a void! Elegance is diminishing in our society, thank you for doing your part to keep class in the equation.

  • @rudomhokore7649
    @rudomhokore7649 Рік тому +1

    I live for your tutorials. I come from a rural set in Zimbabwe, but, whenever I go out people don't believe i'm rural. This is because of the lessons i've been picking up from your tutorials. Thank you.

  • @dmccul2820
    @dmccul2820 Рік тому +15

    I worked with university educated women. A couple of them would use profanity like scattering chicken feed. One day their behavior was so atrocious while I was on the phone with our boss that when I hung up, I told them off and used profanity. I was told a day later that they were now afraid of me as they had never heard such language come out of my mouth. I responded: “The power in any word is knowing when to use it effectively!”

  • @ritakobani892
    @ritakobani892 Рік тому +6

    Thank you mommy Fumi 🤗
    I love you❤😘

  • @nelonweke
    @nelonweke Рік тому +5

    I am always excited when I get a notification from you

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 Рік тому +5

    Great topic. Your dress is beautiful.

  • @BilaOgopa
    @BilaOgopa Рік тому +1

    Juste to say i follow you from France. I'm 31 and i love you so much. You are fabulous and wise and generous ! I never left any comment so here's my first one ❤

  • @nicolehayes448
    @nicolehayes448 Рік тому +2

    I couldn't help but laugh when you mentioned how some women would sneak & pass gas at the dinner table!😅😂

  • @mssagittarius615
    @mssagittarius615 Рік тому +2

    How could anyone speak negative about you! ❤️

  • @corlettewilliams8880
    @corlettewilliams8880 Рік тому +2

    Always looking Fab!!! Do we live,do we love.Yes we do

  • @EspritsFantomes
    @EspritsFantomes Рік тому

    There’s a way to speak with friends/family inside your home and outside at work or events.
    I am loud around my sisters all weekend you won’t catch me be like that outside 😂😂

  • @shirleyobonneylartey3655
    @shirleyobonneylartey3655 Рік тому +4

    ❤ Now I am always looking forward to watching your show. 🎉

  • @dodoreveur9336
    @dodoreveur9336 Рік тому +2

    I'm addicted to fumi's video

  • @preciousadaobi2583
    @preciousadaobi2583 Рік тому

    I love you Ma'am. No other good Teacher like you.

  • @evemcdonald6528
    @evemcdonald6528 Рік тому

    I love watching your videos Fumi, you said so much about speaking elegantly and eloquently. I have always been of the opinion those who use profanity have a poor grasp of the English language. Thanks to my mum, may she rest in peace I have been asked if i had elocution classes growing up.

  • @awazihindula7738
    @awazihindula7738 Рік тому

    Hi Aunty Fumi, i'm your fan for some years now. I am a lazy person when it comes to reading. Listening to you encourages me to create love for reading. Thank you so much for your teachings 😊

  • @rebeccabledsoe182
    @rebeccabledsoe182 Рік тому +1

    Oh my dearest FD-V you are so beautiful! I love how you do your makeup, your hair is fabulous, you dress impeccably…you deliver with every post!! Cindy Lauper has said; when she is sad , she wears her brightest colors!…your posts are such a delight for me! Thank you for always being you!!! Love, light & blessings, Namaste 🙏🏽 💕✨

  • @loffliff7570
    @loffliff7570 Рік тому +5

    Thanks as always., so.glad u did this. This is especially for my daughter; she does need to hear it from u to action it. A fan she is!

  • @aliettemanteaw3300
    @aliettemanteaw3300 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful dress. Really looks great on you Fumi

  • @queenie4837
    @queenie4837 Рік тому +8

    A great episode, reminding us of who we should strive to be - better, better & better. Thank you Fumi for everything to do for us...xx

  • @mamamah2328
    @mamamah2328 Рік тому +5

    I so enjoyed it and I can't help sharing to some of my sisters. The make-up is just super

  • @rithaferguson4814
    @rithaferguson4814 Рік тому

    I love... No response is a response! ❤❤❤❤❤ YAASSS! I feel the same. You're beautiful today and your makeup.

  • @tonyawilson8052
    @tonyawilson8052 Рік тому +2

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!❤

  • @jinkai598
    @jinkai598 Рік тому +5

    Greetings from Jamaica 🇯🇲 dear Fumi…it’s always lovely watching your videos…such a learning experience each time, with you always being well informed, funny, fabulous and well spoken. Keep up the good work. Sending love 💜🇯🇲

  • @nalishebomubita-1913
    @nalishebomubita-1913 Рік тому +2

    Fumi sending you so much love all the way from Zambia 💕🥰🥰

  • @lucianaisidore5229
    @lucianaisidore5229 Рік тому

    Teach the masses,, FUMI. Teach them,, especially the younger generation.

  • @Zamazizi
    @Zamazizi Рік тому +7

    We had toast masters at university as an extra curricular activity. English is a second language and the toast master program really helped with my confidence.
    Thanks for another great and informative video. Practice really makes perfect when it comes to expressing oneself elegantly.

  • @alfredahudson6919
    @alfredahudson6919 Рік тому

    Hello! I am so thankful that I accidentally found your channel while searching for videos and information relating to etiquette. I am interested in teaching young girls proper etiquette. I am extremely grateful that I found you. You are beautiful and very elegant!⚘️

  • @alishadennis7769
    @alishadennis7769 Рік тому +1

    You look amazing and thank you for the wisdom - teaching ladies what is proper & good manners to display in life 😉 🌹!!!!!

  • @loretta6350
    @loretta6350 Рік тому +4

    Looking Fabulous ❤

  • @soniagriffith5983
    @soniagriffith5983 Рік тому +3

    ❤😂, big sis u always make my day, on vacation in montserrat in the Caribbean, 😊

  • @udementia9463
    @udementia9463 Рік тому +1

    I like the vibrancy in your voice. It boost my mood.

  • @brendal971
    @brendal971 Рік тому

    Thank you for these tips💐. Helpful indeed. Great to hear your insight on how we can become elegant females💕

  • @LatashaValentine
    @LatashaValentine Рік тому +1

    Makeup is very nice, love it. Really nice dress. This video is needed fumi. I try so hard to keep my mouth quiet but sometimes I don't know what happened. All of sudden my voice is so loud and it increases by the second.
    And then I would say, father God, this was not good at all

  • @michellemuldrew827
    @michellemuldrew827 Рік тому

    You are beautiful, elegant, intelligent, and absolutely hilarious! I love both watching and listening to you.

  • @honieethesolarpunk4895
    @honieethesolarpunk4895 Рік тому +3

    great video

  • @michellewoods2347
    @michellewoods2347 Рік тому +2

    Love your speaking beautiful lady !!!

  • @helenlucka
    @helenlucka Рік тому

    I love that… no response is a response and it is so true

  • @donnawaithe2967
    @donnawaithe2967 Рік тому

    Hello my Queen. Happy birthday. May God bless you with many more.🎉❤🇧🇧🎊🎁. I will be the same age as you in August. ❤❤. Have a blast.

  • @blessingdiliyah8722
    @blessingdiliyah8722 Рік тому

    Hello mummy Fumi
    Anytime you want to change your wardrobe kindly send down the old stuff to Ghana. I really love your sense of fashion 😘

  • @thebradoctor
    @thebradoctor Рік тому +1

    I love you my Sister! As a kid I sounded Ike i was about to cry when I spoke in public! Even when reading the church announcements on Youth Sunday! My mom and maternal GF were ministers, so as a "preacher's kid" you're always scrutinized! I started putting force in my voice. Now I don't always hear "confidence " in my voice! It seems rough! Thank you for this video. Gives me a direction to go that will help me speak confidently but not rough! Love you for taking the time to address eloquence! God bless you more! 💜👩🏽‍⚕️

  • @frontporchwisdom1119
    @frontporchwisdom1119 Рік тому +4

    Omg, Fumi , I'm hollering right now !😅😂 I just love ur beauty inside and out , your wisdom and truth! U know you're a well put together woman , when u can multitask those gifts too ! Blessings my sis !

  • @estheri5944
    @estheri5944 Рік тому +4

    Aunty Fumi you are too funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kristenpotter377
    @kristenpotter377 Рік тому

    Fumi I love the person that you are, I love your videos, I love your advice, I love your spirit thank you so much for your videos. Keep up the fantastic work you are doing. God Bless You.

  • @tanzaniandonnainitaly9905
    @tanzaniandonnainitaly9905 Рік тому +6

    We do love and live for these episodes😍😍😍.

  • @yeamaneal5652
    @yeamaneal5652 Рік тому

    Wowsi! You look drop dead gorgeous!!! Great content.

  • @modiehisusan9880
    @modiehisusan9880 Рік тому

    sending hugs and ❤ to auntie Fumi♥️❤️ from LESOTHO.

  • @KiraboIryn
    @KiraboIryn Рік тому

    I just love everything about you fumi, love you my dearest

  • @CocoBookClub
    @CocoBookClub Рік тому

    Another important topic, still a big problem in this area with our sisters, many still struggling with this, still work to do, 👍👍

  • @lorrysinverary4896
    @lorrysinverary4896 Рік тому

    I enjoy how to speak elegantly.

  • @tanzaniandonnainitaly9905
    @tanzaniandonnainitaly9905 Рік тому +5

    Wow, was waiting for this series, Thank you, aunt fums. ❤❤❤

  • @tianasaves
    @tianasaves Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video. It was very beneficial to me, since I was looking for ways to improve my English (not my first language).
    Also, as a black woman, it's very important to know how to behave and talk elegantly. I would like to improve myself and set a good example for those who associate being elegant with being white, or being well-spoken to not having an accent. I believe everyone could benefit from this type of content.

  • @shirleyobonneylartey3655
    @shirleyobonneylartey3655 Рік тому +2

    Love your lookd. ❤🎉

  • @freshstartjb40
    @freshstartjb40 Рік тому

    You are glowing, ummmm I wonder why? Is it’s because it’s your Bday.
    Happy Best Birthday FUMI!!!!!!!

  • @rodahmusyoka831
    @rodahmusyoka831 Рік тому +4

    ❤❤❤❤Thankyou for the wonderful lesson Fumi.
    Lots of love from Nairobi Kenya I appreciate you❤❤

  • @TruPoetic
    @TruPoetic Рік тому +2

    Greetings Fumi 💜

  • @beea.9435
    @beea.9435 Рік тому

    Lovely dress.... You definitely look elegant.

  • @mztee9766
    @mztee9766 Рік тому +3

    Teach em, Queen Fumi!❤❤

  • @Marie-el4qu
    @Marie-el4qu Рік тому

    "SILENCE IS A RESPONSE" FOR SURE AM LEARNING. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU ❤

  • @HotHoneyAndSpice
    @HotHoneyAndSpice Рік тому +2

    Flawless video Francine! Currently looking to refine my wardrobe so thank you for the recommendations. I’m not 40 yet but almost there so I’m getting ready for that wonderful decade 💕

  • @leahwhitehead3326
    @leahwhitehead3326 Рік тому

    The dress is most lovely and exuding class

  • @patriciahayes1237
    @patriciahayes1237 10 місяців тому

    I’m living and loving all your episodes on dress code make up ect thank you so much❤️❤️

  • @ndidiamakaakpunonu1232
    @ndidiamakaakpunonu1232 Рік тому

    Hello Aunty Funmi, how are you all doing? I am distracted by the beauty of this dress on you that I couldn't concentrate and listen to your teaching. You are gorgeous!

  • @berniemills8390
    @berniemills8390 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful Fumi...YOU are elegance and eloquence! All we need to do is follow you. ❤👸🏽

  • @stephanieh5216
    @stephanieh5216 8 місяців тому

    Very beautiful makeup! I am loving your entire look!

  • @graceubi6661
    @graceubi6661 Рік тому +1

    Fumi, I love your laughter and have emulated you. It draws people to me. 💕

  • @charliemarshaii6722
    @charliemarshaii6722 Рік тому +2

    This was a great video Fumi

  • @dedraruiz-richards7134
    @dedraruiz-richards7134 Рік тому

    Can't wait for more in this "how to series"

  • @deannaautry6736
    @deannaautry6736 Рік тому

    I So ❤️ your Beautiful Smile/WIT, I agree, saying Nothing Says Everything 🙋🏽‍♀️👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rjclassictv4536
    @rjclassictv4536 Рік тому

    Thank you God for blessing us with a sister,mother,aunt you are amazing girlfriend

  • @ionie7911
    @ionie7911 11 місяців тому

    Good morning
    U
    Are
    Such
    A
    Smart
    Lady
    Texting
    Won't
    Do
    It
    Sometimes

  • @charijones9899
    @charijones9899 Рік тому

    Thank you Fumi, let your absence speak volume. Your dress and make up is beautiful.

  • @mikakapembwa2166
    @mikakapembwa2166 Рік тому

    Makeup is elegant, actually suitable for you❤

  • @mariascott3424
    @mariascott3424 Рік тому +2

    Yes we have to speak eloquently and proper no profanities

  • @Foodreview3.0
    @Foodreview3.0 Рік тому

    GIRL I AM ROLLING. When you fanned your dress! 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣