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Her conscience won't allow her to let the friend plan a baby shower, but her conscience is okay with carrying on a 3 year affair and having the man's kid?
Chile, the jokes do write themselves😒🙄
Exactly. Make it make sense.
Lmfaoooo
Lol i said the same thing.
When the phrase "my conscience" was read, I was like: 😮🧐🤔 Come again...your WHAT???? No such a thing after all this!!! The damned nerve!
These sidechicks are getting bolder and bolder with no shame. What's worse is that they are blaming the wives but not the cheating married man they're sleeping with and getting pregnant for. SMDH
They think the man isn't going to treat them the same
This world is their playground, there will be a day they'll have to answer to this.
5:50 The side chick is a "powerful corporate woman" but she settled on being the mistress. The unknown "co-wife." She says she all these positive characteristics and yet she can't find a man for herself.
Imagine! And she said she’s the kind of woman the man wants and yet 3 years and counting as his mistress. Why didn’t he leave his wife for her since she’s his dream woman? Just delusional! She is the fool, not the wife.
On behalf of all wives and/or mothers out there, thank you Fumi for bursting the bubble that this disloyal, selfish and downright rotten individual has been bouncing around in. She thinks she is so much better than the wife, but she will learn ALOT after she has that man's baby. Motherhood is gratifying, but make no mistake, its not fabulous as you make it up in your head before you have a child. Further, it changes the relationship between a man and a woman, it strips the relationship of the eurphoria and frivolity that these type of relationships are based in. When real life sets in she will learn, and she will get her just do..she has some nerve thinking she is special and exempted..shameless piece of work she is!
There's an old adage; "all's fair in love and war"🤐
Well said, just sad that most humans these days are so low down and dirty. Karma is real..
She will learn that SHE'S NOT THE ONLY ONE!!!!
Well spoken
Very well said thank you!!
"You have gone and had a baby with a liar" Fumi is PREACHING today !!!!
“You don’t have to take what your mothers tolerated!” That moved my soul because I wrote myself a promise at 11 years old that I would NEVER stay with a man like my father 💯… I grew up witnessing my mother suffering from severe depression and my father not caring enough to change his doggy ways 🥀 6 children during their marriage, I knew I deserved better 🌹
👏🏾👏🏾
Amen
Why is she - with all the accolades - still friends with the wife if she is naïeve, not intelligent etc? Answer: she wants to be close so she can upstage the wife. She doesn't know that she is the fool in this situation. The husband and the friend deserve each other. Wish the wife much strength and love when it all happens.
What is the definition of a friend,let alone bestfriend? I can never for the life of me be able to be the reason someone else cries themselves to sleep at night,it is so common in South Africa to be asked out by a married man or a man with a partner and it is also a thing for ladies to say Yes,I am a single 32 year old,if im busy meddling in someone else's relationship I might miss my blessing, i cannot be caught sleeping on myself like that,im full of potential,imagine i ask God why he never blessed me with marriage,and his answer is when I came presenting your husband to you I found you busy doing the work of the enemy destroying my work.Ladies lets becareful,the Karma we bring to ourselves
Well said
@Cbos, 1000% Keep your Shine and Light Mydear so you can be ready for when God delivers that blessing😊
You are beautiful!
Well said.
Not just in SA. Every where in Africa. Our men have no respect for female dignity and the women have lost sense of self and dignity.
When u say NO to a married man , you are labelled stupid because "where will u find a single man"
Cry our beloved continent
1. Fumi you can never look just halfway decent.
2. To those who haven't subscribed please do. It's free!
3. What you said about the situation was nothing but FACTS!
Same old story. When the baby comes, that's when mess gets real. It's hard to look desirable when a child is needs caring 24/7. Its hard to be submissive and attend to the man's needs, when you haven't sleep in days.
Exactly. They always collapse when the baby arrives. Sleepless night, don’t have time for yourself and also pregnant weight.
Goodluck to her
And she'll be doing it all by herself, SMH
Eish preach 💯💯
Only mothers know this.
Fumi you were at the peak of your A game today!
If that's a Best Friend who needs Enemies❤
Not me !!!!!
You nuh
And if she thinks that man is going to leave his wife for her she is an idiot. 😒 That man is not going to leave his wife, as despicable as he is.
Abi ohhh.
She's a Frenemies 😂
Fumi's advice always starts out nice, and then she drops the hammer 🔨🔨🔨. Love her!
No one does it better! Love it. 😁
a whole ANVIL!
It's a Ghanaian talk show in Ghana, It's called Sister Sister. Love from🇬🇭
5:45 She said "our man." She's in too deep. This is how people get killed or crippled.
My friend did exactly this recently. Funny thing is that she is in a relationship as well so her boyfriend is unaware of her behavior. She called me stupid when I confronted her. I wish her the best. I was not married to the guy so it's Over. Moving on.
I'm sorry you experienced that.
Hopefully she is your ex friend
Sorry you experienced that and I pray God covers you, heals your heart and blesses you with a man for ONLY you. ❤🙏🏽
Some women don’t really want the man. They are just jealous of their friend
Only Mother Fumes could stop mid-read to adjust her crown and then proceed w/the verbal smackdown - "My scarf. Ha!" 😂 Gotta love Mommie Fumes! 😘 Bless XOXO 🙏🏾❤️
‘Flagrant audacity!’ 🤣❤️
I know right! What a queen.
If he does it to his wife, he's going to do you BIG TIME 😂😂😂😂. THANK YOU FUMI ❤.
For sure!! This man is WORTHLESS!! This side chick will definetly reap exactly what she sow.
I’m subscribing because of the intro, your laugh and your realness of your show.
@Deirdre Hunte Welcome, to Fumination 🥰!!! All Love & Support Here 😉!!!
Welcome
Welcome Deirdre
Welcome honey😘
Welcome!🎉❤
The title itself was EEWWWWW. My heart breaks for the victim. As someone who tries to respect my relationship with my friends these stories just anger and sadden me.
14:51 "And this side chick has the audacity.... My scarf." Had me out. 😂
“You do not have to take what your mothers tolerated!” Amen.
I don't know if this dilemma is real or for entertainment purposes, but it happens so often in real life. I endorse this read 100%. I hope when her turn comes, she can take the heat. Fumination, get a safety deposit box and save money even if you are a housewife. Bank accounts are traceable.
This woman is very disgusting she called herself a friend your friend enemy you took the money from the husband and then made her pay you back sorry for this baby coming into the world😮😮😮😢
@@vanaphill2454not in certain parts of the world
Omg Fumi this is a TV show from my country Ghana. The story is definitely heartbreaking and disgusting at the same time. thank you from covering it.
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Thought I heard a Ghanaian accent
Yes, the incident happened in Ghana and has been on social media for awhile now. I just wish this betrayal of a friend is able to see this video from sister Funmi.
It’s a Ghanaian talk show actually; great delivery as usual auntie Fumi ❤
I thought so because they said cedis 😂
She confused the accents I guess.
My friend has a saying (in nigerian pidgin english), "men be like table fan, na where them face them dey blow". When they're fixated on you, you feel like the one and only, wait till that fan turns, it will blow other ppl too. She has betrayed the friend's trust, is having a baby with her husband, bad mouths her but a baby shower is where she draws the line? It's the faux morality for me!
My Grandma used to say, "If he did it with you, he'll do it to you."
She is unbelievably arrogant and callous! That education of hers had taught her nothing about common decency. She disrespects her 'friend' and undermines her marriage. May karma hit her hard!
I’m sure the wife already knows. SHE is hosting the baby shower for a reason, pepper season is coming 🙌🏾
How could this chick still consider herself her “best friend”?!!!? I would never ever do this to my best friend! She’s delusional. Karma will get her good for this. I truly feel for the wife 😢 I love your POV on this #FumiNation
I love your channel so much. My mom passed before I was even a teenager and my stepmom didn’t care to raise us even though we lived with her. At this moment I don’t have a relationship with my father but whenever I watch your videos I leave with a lesson. I’m 22 next month but I’ve learned so and without your content I would have gone astray a long time ago. Thank you and God continue to bless you ❤
and God bless you for seeking your true self with a strong moral compass.
❤❤👏🏾! Aww keep going hun x. She is truly a blessing
God’s blessings and grace, ok
As a housewife very well said👏🏽👏🏽. I absolutely pity women that think they can steal my position and find success. If they ever try and succeed, whoa to thee!
As a married woman now i cosign on everything Femi just said. When I wasn't married I remember getting hit on from married men it happens all the time but I know how to end it on the first try. I just say to them "If you try that again the second time, your wife will know about this" some of them will try the next time and I definitely keep my promise 😅😅 see a man can read through a woman with how the woman respond when they flirt it's up to the woman to cut that off on the first try. I don't play that
I LOVE, LOVE, how you dragged this lady and the classy READ!! This is disgusting.
Watching Fumi glow at her age, getting her bag, being a great mother and wife, really makes me feel like I need to step my game up. I love this channel and everything Fumi brings to the table.
I saw the title I clicked fast, I know Fumi is about to put some sense into the ladies
The side kick karma is set.
Sistah’s in addition to high self esteem, please let’s teach our kids (especially daughters) how to identify a good friend. Anyone who treats another human like this is far far from the title of friend.
I’m just here to comment on Fumi having the best laugh on the internet! Oh, and the advice is always spot on. I I was married to a cheat and they don’t change. Move on, indeed!❣️
Look at fumi just being radiant 😍.
Fumi, no matter how bad my day is, just hearing your laugh brings me joy. So glad to hear that you do read the comments. I love that you have our (sisters) backs. ❤❤
Karma shall locate her fast fast …. Thank you Auntie Fumi for your everyday advice
"You don't have to take what your mothers tolerated." That line right there almost made me jump up and shout; so true!!💯 My sisters and I grew up watching our father cheat on our mother left & right; the last being one of her friends! Now, at damn near 40, I'm a twice divorcee because I absolutely REFUSE to be disrespected!😤 My tolerance level for cheating of ANY kind is negative ZERO! It's better for me to walk away before I end up in jail for m#rder behind a no-good son of a b!tch!🤨😅 Fumi is so RIGHT! It's a New Day,💫 and if you're in a similar situation with a trash-a$$ partner, get out now! Trust me, you will NOT regret choosing YOU for once! You got this!🙌💕
Amen Sis! grew up in a similar situation back home. when the drama unfolded with the ex, I knew all the signs. Seen them before ... wasn't long for the disrespect to show up. Whoa ...I was like hell No !Chose Me, myself and my kids.It's truly a new day Sisters let's change this game & choose ourselves.
The scarf adjustment 😂😂😂I hear you mama, I love it the way you handle this topics.
Especially when she is emphatic and says “absolutely NOT! I feel that “no” in my soul!
@@Creyole yes she adjusted the scarf and finished it all up🤣🤣
Can you imagine the way she described her friend. The poor woman is such a beautiful soul😢 damn she is evil
Fumi preached that scarf right off her head! I LIVE, I LOVE! 😅
I was one of those people, I'm ashamed to admit that I would listen, but not subscribed. Then I said to myself, why do you continue to listen to this lady's content and not subscribe and then I finally did. You will reach your million...Congratulations in advance...
Omg you’re so cute! Don’t feel ashamed babe!!!! 🎉🎉❤❤😅😘
Fumi,
I luv watching you every day. I wish I could rewind and do things over. But, for all the young ladies, don't be someone's door Mat. Luv you Fumi, your skin is so beautiful ❤️
❤thank
Fumi I found you via my grandmother, who watches you on our flatscreen TV, 80 inches with my other UA-cam account. She loves you! But she does not know what the subscribe button is or what a subscriber is or what a follower is, so I came to this account to subscribe for her, thank you for all you do daily!
What a selfish woman. She says she is a corporate woman, so it means she has money. So the friend tells her they are having financial issues and she asks him for money. So he deprives his children of money to give it to someone who already has money, and she takes it depriving those children knowingly and she is so proud of that! Karma will come for her indeed.
I stand with you Mrs. Fumi, this kind of horrible behavior has to stop, and may all these ladies causing harm to another woman in the name of ding a ling be given full cups overflowing of the same heartlessness they pour out to others.
That's so sad and wicked of her so called best friend. 😢😢I pray the wife does not throw her the baby shower!! Her karma is very very close
I simply love that somehow we think alike. You don't pass to be aunty. We almost the same age which makes you my sister. I'm so proud that you bold enough to go out and be so honest with sisters
I think you are an awesome woman; a woman of truth, decency and honesty! This woman is going to reap what she sowed!
God bless you Fumi!😊
Nobody tells it like it is like FUMI!!! I ❤ you forever for standing for what’s right and standing for women (and GIRL CODE).
First off, I'm loving the scarf and of course, your makeup is always on point I have been wearing them the last couple of years and get compliments all the time. As for this letter...smh. NONSENSE. I'm having a hard time comprehending that these two adulterers are for real. If this woman thinks so highly of herself, why doesn't she go find her own husband?? I advise she seek counseling.
🙏🏾Amen!!! I agree!!
Fumi, I can listen to you talk, laugh, and give advice ALL DAY LONG! I just love your energy and your wisdom. You read this situation from start to finish with precision and class. Thank you for addressing real life issues with real solid advice. 👑🙏🏾💕
Well spoken Fumi!! She has a lot of "reaping" to do. It is unfortunate but she does not realize that her actions will affect that baby.
I watched this program Live on Tv in Ghana, and I must say I couldn't believe it. This confirms the importance of having a small circle ( just me and myself)
Me and myself ,children included is my life since 20yrs now
My circle is me Jesus and God. Let Him guide amen.
Fumi you told 400 years of the truth. Well said.😊 💯 💯 💯 ❤.
Ooh Fumi! You are sooooo WISE! I love when you let loose with the truth! BRAVO!!!!
Good Lord….. a mess! Why do people create this level of drama in their own lives? I could never
As funny as this may sound Sister Fumi, there are people who, when they see the word "subscribe , " think of magazine subscriptions where you have to pay something. As a result, they do not subscribe thinking that there is a monetary obligation. This is particularly true with some of the older viewers or those on fixed incomes. Recently, my 2 friends tested this on their UA-cam channel. They cater to the 50 ➕️ cohort. Once they started saying "it costs you nothing to subscribe," they saw an immediate increase in subscribers 😊
im farely new and doing so so im 51 single mother of two one adult & teenager. im always encouraged and uplifted to do better. 🌸💗when i see your channel. im going be a life long subscriber
Welcome, to Fumination 🥰!!!
thank you happy to be here 👋💗
Loose Woman in UK, The View is USA. And you're absolutely right about this situation; it always happens. Great wisdom and advice Fumi for this woman and us all!
We need a black show here in the U.K. tbh
I think Its a Ghanaian talk show and Aunti Fumi I love your makeup❤❤
This is why I love looking forward for your videos because you speak the truth about anything you say about anything
My sister gave me some of the best advice. She said “keep life simple because life will always find a way to be hard”. I don’t know why some folks insist on making their lives so complicated that when life gets hard it’s unbearable. This lady has to learn the hard way and it’s terrible because the child is going to take the brunt of it.
Omg! Fumi I salute you 100-percent on what you just said. Fantastic talk today, you had my heart racing like crazy because when you've got a bee in your bonnet as they say you speak the truth and helping by giving support for everyone that is going through this thank you❤❤❤❤
I played back the scarf adjustment so many times cause I lived for it😂😂😂 you hit the nail on the head Auntie Fums👏
I just found your UA-cam channel and let me thank you for speaking the thruth like it is. Much love and respect from US.
I absolutely love Mrs Fumi! This Queen not only speaks facts but is also very uplifting to us women. Never arrogant, humble and understands that none of us are safe from so many things going on in this world today. You know the saying, "It takes a village..." then Mrs FDV is our village [Journalist] Auntie because she gets us altogether here, shares the wisdom and hope that we use them as tools to carve out better paths. I say Journalist because you truly do narrate the way journalism should be done. Too bad I'm not in London, wishing you an early Happy Birthday from across the pond.
I love your laugh Fumi, rooting for you to hit that million by the end of the year!😊
Fuming! Fumi 😮 Just broke it all the way down! Pay attention! Yasss! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is why it's not just the married person that gets the blame, that is foolish talk. She also gets her share of blame for such a betrayal. She was fully aware of the marriage and has no excuse.
❤You look beautiful Fumi! Love your channel. You've become one of my favorite influencers.
Isn’t she Lovely⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬❤️😘😍
Aunty Fumi!!!! I love all the advice you give! btw, It's a talk show in Ghana called Sister to Sister
This woman is beyond wicked so is the husband. This is the ultimate betrayal. Women who do this to other women must realize that this behavior by the man will be reciprocated ten times over. Watch you will see. I pray to God you will see the light, wait it is coming.
Preach sister Fumi, preach. Your sermon was well delivered. Thank you for touching on the men/husbands as well. They are more at fault than the side chicks because they are the ones who are stepping out of their marriage for extra marriage activities. Continue informing women that they are worthy than their man/husband and need to lead relationships that are toxic to them and their children, if any.
You are SO right. When you become a mom - that baby changes so much of what you thought prior to becoming a mom.
She loves that she decieves her friend more then him.
Hail Queen Fumi. You said a mouthful. Preach queen. I couldn’t have said it better myself Amen❤
😂😂😂 Thank you, sis, some women, ha they think they better than others no, we are all women we need to be there for one another not against. She has no idea what is coming 😢😢😢.
That "friend" is not a friend. She is absolutely revolting. How you get them is how you lose them.
I love Fumination!❤
Loving you is so easy! May God grant you a full, fulfilling and long life, so we can have much more of your phenomenal self.
I wish you were my aunt, so I can call and visit sometimes. Love you so much, Mama Fumz🧡
Auntie Fumi, this is from a Ghanaian program and as a Ghanaian woman, I was so embarrassed by this story when I first saw it. Disgusted by the gal of that person.
Darling Fumi it's your laugh for me darling even if I'm going through something your smile laugh advice motivation makes my day
You reap what you sow...how you get him, is how you keep him..Good luck to her..I feel sorry for the child😢.
Omg..i enjoy your storytimes so much.😊. the headrap..i live i love..this woman was deceitfulll..but karma is real..
Well said sissy preach 🖤🖤
THANK YOU SIS, call it like it is. That women will get it back!!!! I’m so happy it’s not me!!!💕
Amen to everything you said Fumi! You said everything! You are so good at breaking these things down and saying what needs to be said. Thank you for speaking for women who go through these things.
SisterSister (the show in the clip is a Ghanaian tv and radio talk show)
Much love from Ghana 🇬🇭
Fumi.. I can't imagine I hadn't subscribed. I keep coming for more videos and just when you talked about subscription I realized I had not subscribed.
I just did. Please keep mentioning it, we will get to a million soon Fumi nation
Aunty Fumi, this talk show is in Ghana 😊. Anyways, sending all my love from 🇬🇭 ❤
This read from Fumi is ON POINT! Preach sis! Preach! 🙌🏾❤️👏🏽
Love you Fumie you always say it as it is some woman have no shame but what goes around comes around Blessing ❤
Yassss fumi I agree with you all the way this lady is low down and foul sleeping with her best friend's husband and the man is a cheater and a liar probably a pathological liar and if he doesn't have a problem disrespecting his wife what's to say he ain't going to disrespect you and I hope this lady reaps what she sow and this lady has no class and no integrity whatsoever.
Wow. This gives a whole new meaning to moving on and never tolerating nonsense. I did it in 1996 and I don't regret it at all. If at all I stand tall praising God for the strength and courage He afforded me. Yo Him be all glory
Thank you Aunty Fumi for saying this, karma will get you. He says things to you too keep you but he will hurt you more than his wife. If he will liked you more than his wife he will leave her for you but he didn’t. You are sitting with your friend who is happy for you and you talk about her like that.
I love how you have handled it, she will feel it though am 20 and not married l know it's with out husband support 😢.
Thank you Fumi you read her like a best selling book.yessss you told her the Gods honest truth she will pay what a shame