If he wants peace , he should support a woman, if he comes to woman's house , and she pays everything, and he is asking for 💸💰, what peace he will receive???? What you give is what you get. Simple.
Just keep in mind of what women say and what women do are two diferent things, it's a world of hurt if you don't learn that early in life... there are very few who are not like this.
all "simple things" on paper like that, turns out in adult life those are most complex to achieve... in consistent basis. Fixing roof or car is easier as do it well once, it wont bug you in 5 years.
@@effexon “Women are born on top of the mountain, and men are born at the bottom” this is where we start in terms of intrinsic societal value. I can tell you flat out that no matter how “nice” a woman appears, it is an incredible struggle to try to find a woman who actually gives a rats ass even about the man they claimed to love. It’s like speaking of foreign language, when you actually try to convey your own feelings wants or desires to a woman. It just doesn’t compute because it’s so far below their needs, wants and desires and your job is to make them happy by fulfilling all of those needs. I am afraid it's too late now to fix this mess easily that started decades ago. It will take decades and still. MGTOW keeps growing (men totally checked out of relationships, not hating women, just not interested anymore in the rigged game). Passport Bros keeps rising (men looking for good feminine, loyal wives in more traditional countries, where men are still appreciated). Marriage is done in the West, even relationships... You see, these are all the consequences if you keep bashing men. If you keep saying, "We do not need men, all men are creeps," "we are strong and independent." I know many single men. Not once did I hear a guy say I am strong and independent. We call it, he's single, bachelor, that's it. Men want to feel needed. if they are not wanted by our society, and a lot of women??? What else did you expect that would happen. It's just logical. We all lose. A lot of men have been warning modern women for years, but they never truly listened. Family, values, morals... No to Hook-up culture... Now some women are stepping up, but are they genuine??? Are is it to monetise, because it's getting mainstream. It's like watching the décline of the Roman Empire. In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".
They don’t care what men want, that’s the problem. They want what they want and if you’re not gonna give it to them then they are going to leave. They will tell you this to your face too, it’s sad.
Well in the U.S. there is less difference. That is why we have problems. When everyone stays in their own lane and tries to be the best in that lane. Things are better for all. But the U.S. is a lost cause.
This was more than that, she said pretty interesting points actually and just because in this era everything os so mixed up and messed up, to state some clarification would be important
This is a list of all the things I want as a man - Job I can go to where I get along and feel useful and get paid decent - Male friends who I can talk to about guy stuff and world events and politics and other stuff - Girl who genuinely likes me and is always there to talk and who is emotionally and physically caring towards me - Quiet alone space where I can do things I like, like read, listen to music, play games, learn things, etc. - A chair somewhere with a nice view that I can be outside in when it's warm - that's it basically. Everything else is okay if I have those things.
What we want is: Feel proud of ourselves, jobs etc..nobody wants to feel like a loser, have peace and quiet and if there is a woman who can give us that, even better! Have friend time because having fun with friends is way different from having fun with girlfriend or wife
Thank you Keira. Yes, I have been saying for a LONG time. My father and mother were perfect examples. My father just loved my mom. All he wanted was my mom. He didn't need other women. She was his Queen and she didn't have to say she was his Queen. She knew it. This example showed me as man how to be a man. My father was amazing example. My mother adored, admired, and respected my father. They were a team. The perfect compatibility. She was fiery, strong will, stubborn, loving, kind, and generous. My father was the calm, gentle bear, he was strong, compassionate, kind, generous and loving. He literally was my Yoda for manly wisdom. They were perfect together when my mom would get angry or frustrated a simple touch or hug from my father could melt the way no other person could.
you're lucky. it sounds like you have gratitude for that. It's more like what she says out there though... people of divorced parents. You know what the divorce rate is if even one of the people come from divorced parents, 2 fold the avg, if both, 4 fold. I'm living it unfortunately... that's my karma to live though. You have something else to give, which is great!
As a man, I disagree. Yes men tend to focus more on making themselves better than chasing love, but that doesn’t mean we don’t need to be loved. Men aren’t just these work and sex addicts and most of us are out here trying to find the one.
Wtf is the one? As man and not a narcissist that thinks he's the main character in a movie or the simulation of some kinda matrix but a red blooded mammal fighting the universe to simply exist in it with no real purpose other then to exists. sex even from someone you don't necessarily relate to can keep a relationship alive for ever. I've seen relationships with people who don't even speak the same language but they feed each other's basic needs sincerely but don't have any of the same interests in music, movies politics,or even religion true love transcends all, and sex is the highest form to intertwine souls I don't believe there is one person out there for you, it's all circumstance everything that ever was and ever will be is because of circumstance destiny is a mans idea but chaos is truly human
@@KonglomeratYT No, you are talking about the inauthentic corporate citizens that make up society, passing themselves off as MEN. In 50 years, I've never met, seen or even heard of what I would consider a Man. I have high standards though.
Also, men find intimacy in sex when women find intimacy outside of sex. For men sex isn’t only about the physical deed, it’s about intimacy with their spouses and that is based on research.
I have seen if men don't care about sex, then they get especially prostrate issues later on in their lives, it is essential for a healthy guy to have sex regularly.
Thinking that most men worry more about sex than their kids is crazy ngl I dont think you can make generalizations like this unless you specify the age ranges in which you are talking about bc stresses change
Then you might be aesexual or have low testosterone. If you do not have the hormones or desire to mate regularly you are well, different. That is not a bad thing, but it's the truth. So it might be better for you to care for children and be a doctor rather than be in a relationship and love someone emotionally, besides physically because physically is the bear minimum.
she's done this video for simps and incels to watch it like her, irl she doesn't give a f about incels, actually her most watched video, clowned on men hardly
I felt like ive taken a fresh breath of air listening to the video and your point of view on things. Because as a 25 year old man, most of the things you gone over are really do resonate. To add to youre topic, a man feels satisfied when he sees that he is satisfying his woman, and getting things done. We like to be of service to people, because it gives us a sense of community and purpose!
I disagree with some of the points made here. As a man, sex is most definitely not more important than my children, and i don't believe that it is, atleast for the majority of fathers. Secondly, of course men want to have sex more often than women, and that's totally fine, as it's simply our biological nature. Now, does that mean, that women should completely disregard their own preferences and needs, just to "provide" sex every day? I don't think so, I think a man should also adjust to the lower sex drive of his partner, and a middle ground is the way to go.
Can you provide the source that men want sex more than women? Because all the studies I see say that our sexual desire is way more alike than different.
@@BoglimWrangler666 So if you have a boyfriend and an intruder comes to the door, if your boyfriend refuses to protect you, you’d stay with him? Of course not. You automatically feel entitled to his physical protection. But god forbid if he feels entitled to anything of yours. It’s not an “imaginary dream thing to whine over”, it’s something women look for in men whether the big bad thing happens or not. You look to your men for their ability to protect you, and the ones you don’t think can or will are invisible to you. Stop pretending to be ignorant.
As a guy, was a little skeptical at the video start, but it's amazing how accurate this is. If such a speech were mandatory in every school (for example during each civic education class) and governments actually cared to apply this, imagine how much less mental pain would both genders experience and all the confusion that could be avoided at such a scale. Thanks Keira
As a straight man who is around a lot of people on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, I’m just realizing how many people are straight like me. She’s saying some stuff that I disagree with, everyone is complicated, but there are some good overall lessons.
Not really she basically says that women's don't have ambitions and goals and if they do there's something wrong with them, simplifies men to work and sex addicts and thinks a women's entire life revolves around husband and kids
This video is a textbook example of outdated gender essentialism masquerading as biological fact. The idea that men "wake up thinking about work" because of testosterone while women "stress about men" because of some subconscious drive to find a husband is not only reductive but also dismisses the complexities of human psychology, individuality, and societal influence. 1. Biology vs. Social Conditioning - While hormones influence behavior, they don’t dictate our thoughts or priorities in such a rigid, binary way. Testosterone doesn’t make men inherently work-driven, just as estrogen doesn’t make women preoccupied with relationships. These are societal narratives that have been reinforced for centuries. 2. Over-Simplification of Stress - Men and women both experience stress related to work, relationships, and countless other aspects of life. The notion that men are “practical” while women are “emotional” is a stereotype that ignores the reality of modern life, where women juggle careers, ambitions, and personal lives just as much as men do. 3. The “Men Built Everything” Argument - Yes, historically, men dominated fields like construction and infrastructure-but that wasn’t due to inherent superiority; it was because women were excluded from those roles. Today, women contribute to every sector of society, from engineering to medicine to politics, and the world isn’t crumbling because of it. 4. Reinforcing Limiting Beliefs - Content like this doesn’t “empower” anyone; it just reinforces restrictive gender roles that keep both men and women from reaching their full potential. Telling men they exist to work and women that they exist to find a husband doesn’t help anyone-it just perpetuates outdated norms that many people are actively working to dismantle. If the goal was to provide insight into gender differences, this misses the mark by leaning into oversimplified, one-size-fits-all logic. Humans are more complex than “men work, women stress about men.” Let’s move past narratives that do nothing but keep people stuck in limiting boxes.
Hi, female here: Idk if its because i'ma tomboy or smt but i really don't think like this. Reading the comments w/ bros saying "she's right, women only think about men" is kinda sad I'd hate for all my homies to think that i'm obsessed w/ them or that we aren't equals, that i am there to "serve" them. (And ya, biologically we are different, but i don't want my chromosomes to decide what role i should play in my own life) I know most of y'all don't care, but i hope to find a guy i can just raise an honest family with, live a passionate life, and be well-off enough to help others. I don't think listening to this kinda stuff is gana get me here, nor has it ever been the case for me. I hope some of you understand that 🙏
She sounds like a young woman who lacks perspective. This is the problem with social media, anyone with an internet connections can blast their opinions as facts.
I can't believe people agree with her. Maybe it is true for uneducated men and women, but most people are not that simple-minded. Maybe she lacks life experience to evaluate situations better. No man with any money would risk his wealth for sex. Just believing that sex is the main reason for a relationship says a lot about her intellect and standard of living.
@@mihirengg19 true, I can only speak for myself, but my decade long relationship with my SO is about more than the "men only want sex" agenda. Were something to happen to her that rendered her unable to provide it for the foreseeable future, I would still spend the rest of my life with her. She's more than just a sexual object to me. She's my best friend. The same can be said for about every other "men only want a woman to..." point she made. And I resent being called simple. Although a majority of men are, don't generalise. It wouldn't be fair to say that women only care about money, although largely true, there are some women who earnestly don't, and would stick with you through thick and thin. Find yourself one of those, one that really wants to spend time with you, regardless of what you are busy with, she'll join in. Not an empty headed, clingy nag - that line is easy to cross. No, a real woman you can take hunting, fishing, motorcycling or whatever else you are into, and she'll gladly go, and not resent you for it, but love that you have included her. And then you'll find an "Alpha" male saying crap like: "You don't want a woman, you want a homie" No dude, I want a partner, one that doesn't get jealous when I wanna go trap shooting, but is down to actually learn the sport, and end up enjoying it, not one that sits around and whines about the heat, noise, and grime... And what frigging time we're going home. Truth is, beta bro, you REALLY want a woman that can control you with her cooch. And you'll get angry at her and display toxic masculinity in those situations by yelling at that b**ch to shut up, or take a hike, because she's embarrassing you in front of your homies. Or you'll just leave her at home, and get upset when she starts nagging you to come back home, because she doesn't understand what you are busy with, or why you are gone for that long, and you'll get into an argument each and every time time you walk through the door... My wife doesn't need to speculate on what I'm doing, she gets to come along and see what the hype is all about, and nobody minds a girl being present, because she doesn't nag. We'll do the chores together when we get home. Those who play together, stay together.
Honestly you’re a beast. Keep crushing it. Epic video. A lot of truths and super cool to see you blowing this channel up just off honest rants. Congrats on 10k!
this is as big as her channel is going to get. the algorithm is saturated with young women posing as self help gurus. cranking out videos every single day is also not good for a channel's growth.
Okay... You said about women that's why I need to write my opinion. Because as 21 years old woman I stress about job every f*cking day and my job isn't stereotypically masculine. I'm an English teacher. (And despite everything I write I like this job but don't want to have it for long period) And yes, I wanna my students understand everything, I wanna also feel that they like me, that I'm not that stereotypically bad school teacher. Because when you feel comfort you can better understand material (stress also can be useful but it's more about tests). And as I work with kids who lost one of parents due to the war I really stressed not to say something that can hurt them. And yes, maybe it's not equal to man's stress, but it's also stressful. And oh my god, I'm still a woman. I stress about my education, about my future, my health (how ironically). And I have never stressed about men or about my appearance. Because for me it's important to develop myself as much as possible to provide my existence. If I find a man, we will do it both - provide our family as a team. It's not about race. It's about support. You're maybe happy with your man and I wish you be that blessed up to the end of your life. BUT! Don't forget about women who don't have such men due to different reasons. Everyone needs to know ways to make money, recipes to cook favourite food, some basic life stuff because we all live this life. So your points aren't about all men and women. I can't say you're wrong. But you're also not correct for everyone on this planet.
Yeah I think about work or my hobbies/interests first thing in the morning haha, when she said women stress about men first thing in the morning I realized this video is not meant for me.
@@MrBank-hc1jgDo you even know how much of a responsibility being a teacher is? This is coming from a 15 year old boy. I definitely do not have as much stress as my English teacher does grading and putting together lessons for hundreds of students every single day. You definetly have to love your job to stay sane as a teacher because with how crappy teenagers and kids can be it would suck.
@Callabunga24 That is all right, you don't have to figure it out. It is the wisdom of the ages expressed in two lines. Why a man and a woman which have everything going for them can not be content with what they have. John C. Bogle the Founder of Vanguard and one of the leaders in Index Mutual Funds wrote a book called "Enough" right after the market crash of 2008 which touches on the very same topic. The book is in English.
@@douglasbullet6456 In fact that demonstrates the magnitude of your complexity. A lesser man would have been blown away. You stood your ground and even laughed!
Sorry but uhh, as a dude, work isn't the first thing on my mind in the morning. The existential terror of realizing I exist and experience life with no explanation as to how/why this experience is objectively true is the first thing I think about in the morning. Maybe I'm a womans or somethin.
@@onesyphorus Meditate, exercise, make time in the day to get away from screens, and get busy, brother! And laugh at it all. The existential dread of existence is too absurd not to laugh at the situation. All you can know for sure is that you exist... whatever tf that even means and there's no alternative besides the long nap which is just nothingness or maybe some creator that doesn't show themself to their own creation or... reincarnation? Pretttty fuckin whacky and laughable. Those tips and that thinking helped me a bit, but it's still been a consistent problem for like 7-8 years now. I've finally decided to see a pysch for it (if I ever hear from the damn office I was referred to 4 months ago). OCD, trauma, and depression/anxiety all can lead to early morning dark existential thoughts. Definitely, get checked out if you can't get a lid on it. There's help out there, but they're not going out of their way to help ya. You've gotta take those first steps. Hope this is a seriously helpful amendment to my opening joke comment! This shit genuinely sucks.
maybe you need to find god. that way you'll find the meaning in your life and not feel like you're alive just to die. and I don't mean christianity, try searching for something like '' what is the true religion''
@@Fadi5000 Your negative comment without backing it up by providing specifics tells me you are immature, inexperienced, and/or have psychological issues.
I hope this is just UA-cam and online, but it seems like people in the United States are just so confused about gender issues. Man and woman are different, but equal in their human dignity. God created man and woman because we need each other. If it wasn't meant to be that way, then everyone would be the same gender. I think toxic feminism has confused the newest generation of boys and girls. More men are lonely and single than ever. Women are angrier and more scared of men than ever. That's what it appears like online, not sure if it's the reality.
none of this applied to my life or my father so no. its naive. its pretending life is this simple when most men are NOT this simple but shes got a biiig head...
@@emmaversace4329 70% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. If women in the US actually stuck to their vows, only 15% of marriages would fail! You need to realize that life isn't a fairy tale, and you will argue about something sometimes to 100% of the people on earth... If you decide to marry someone, you make it work! Most modern women have forgotten what it's like to take responsibility and accountability for their actions and act like they're 5 years old well into their 30s and 40s when something doesn't make them feel like a princess!
Most men 30 years ago before bedtime: ☑Got the job done. ☑Woman still likes me. ☑Family still safe. Most men in 30 years before bedtime: ☑Got the job done. ☑Still safe from women. ☑Planned next week's hike.
Probably because it's a young person with no life experience speaking out her ass trying to make a grey world black and white by putting everyone in a nice little box.
It is, she mistakenly assumed that reducing men to being simple beings who just want sex was a compliment when it really just diminishes their struggles and who they are
Yeah I feel she a bit wrong while she's onto something. If she changed the word work with survival I would totally agree with her. Work or what you do for work is not important unless you factor in survival. We'd be sitting on the porch drinking beer and smoking weed all day if we didn't need money to survive. As for children we would teach them how to hunt and send them out to get food. Then we'd build some shit, inspect what we just built and be like yep, I'm the best. Have some more beer and call it a day. Pretty simple lmao
@kiink182 If you say you do it for yourself you’re just coping honestly. If there wasn’t a reason to care about your looks then you wouldn’t care about it but if you’re a human being then you will obviously care about how people perceive you. And looks is the number one way people perceive you
She is a total throwback to the old school (like REALLY old school, 2006) era of UA-cam. And she drills common sense into people’s heads with every video. Some of what she’s saying should be obvious but the sad truth is that in 2024 everything has gone backwards. Good for her and glad I subscribed.
Not quite, go back to school of life. Get One! I dont bother stressing over markcist fems who hate men, as creepy! To hell with them!, I work and grow without women drag me down.
???? Do you know her? You cant say stuff like that about her parents, only seeing one simple video. Do not say things like that ever to people you dont even know.
Girl, I cannot relate to you. The first thing I think about when I wake up is never men....it's how can I acheive my goals. It's am i doing enough? Am I productive enough? Am I being too lazy? And I don't think it's because I'm a lesbian either, I don't think most straight women spend their time since the moment they wake up concerned about men. That seems like a self esteem issue, an issue of seeking too much validation. Obviously most of us want romance, but you have to have a personality outside of men (or other women). You can't spend your life trying to please others constantly. Everyone must learn to feel complete alone first
Yeah these videos are really weird, treating men and women like different species, I mean of course there are general differences, but the differences among individuals are also present, also it's ignoring the fact that these roles are made by rules and impositions through the centuries, and this is a fact... a woman that is not interested in men is not less of a woman, a man that doesn't think about sex everyday is not less of a man, and it's scary the amount of people thinking that she said some awesome realistic stuff
If you're a lesbian why are you watching this video clearly directed towards straight women. I also agree that men isn't all we think about but agree or not, it's definitely a significant thing 'most' women think about and its perfectly fine lol
It's like she's saying women don't have any inspirations and goals other than to please men 😭😭 Feels like i time-traveled and seeing a video from prehistoric times or something
@@zuzkhin4472 i know right! This is just idiocy fueled by her own desire not to achieve anything other than male attention and praise. She may think like that but the rest of us dont.
Yeah as a guy this is ridiculous lmao not every man is stressing about sex all the time so I'm sure woman aren't stressing about men all the time either. 😂 Like libido fluctuates some people might be like that (clearly her) but definitely not everyone most days I'm not thinking about sex or woman at all there's more to living than that
Think about how ridiculous you're making life by succumbing to the feminist brainwashing. All you have to do is look pretty, have sex, and not solicit other male attention. That's it! And all your earthly needs are handled by a man. You're arguing to spend time and money in school. School sucks that's why you're always looking forward to summer break. Working sucks. That's why you're always looking forward to the weekend. You're arguing to make your lives way more difficult. Why? Why do you want to compete with us and sit in traffic? Serious how can you not see how sweet a deal it is to be a traditional woman. Look pretty, have sex, only have eyes for one man and all your needs are met. I swear let God send me that deal I'm signing a blank sheet of paper and he can fill in the rest. That's all I have to do? I'm gone, you have to catch me to do anything else.
People agree because they feel it's relatable and true. Which is also wrong. Getting your informations by your feelings. Just get an expert in the field that has good relationships around them and take advises from them.
ikr! Thank god, found a sane comment. This video was the easiest disagree for me. Not sure what her sample size was or whether it was diverse enough in the first place but this theory was bs.
I dont stress about s3x. Catering to my hormones involves prioritizing physical fitness. I don't worry about validations. I can validate myself by learning to appreciate my own personal improvements, without outside interventions or opinions. But you did kind of hit this on the head. Civilization is largely narcissistic in a way where validation implies importance. You can be important without anyone telling you that you are, or treating you like you're a special little pillow encapsulated snowflake where everything you do and say *NEEDS* to be heard and reciprocated. Society is toxic.
I stress about my tax return to be honest....then I think "this isn't natural....nowhere in our evolutionary PAST did men stress about something as abstract as "taxes"...then it puts into perspective just how out of sync humanity(as well as men in particular) is with their instincts.... So society is very ANTI MALE in that regard... So the fact I'm having all these thoughts highlights the fact I'm not actually "simple"...my thoughts are very COMPLEX(because of societal pressures)...and I'm thinking "it shouldn't be this way....and to COMPOUND the problem women think men are "SIMPLE" and only think about sex and food......I wish!....I WISH!!".. I'm in a constant state of questioning my own existence
The road I drive on was actually paved by a woman. Very nice lady. She drinks at the restaurant I work for. My roof was also put up (partially) by a woman (my Grandmother) She literally helped put up the trusses and laid the shingles LOL. Work and Sex arent even in the top 10 things I stress about. Not even remotely close.
Stress about work on wake up, during the day and at bedtime; Waiting for the boom to fall, worried about falling behind and being discarded by the side of the road.
I definitely don't stress about success and such, I just want to connect and find nurturing aspects; like friends, mates and such. Family is most important
Ahhhh...the confidence of youth. I remember the unflappable opinions I had in my twenties. I remember having reductionist takes and reducing the complexity of most things to almost a binary. Then I grew older, had more experiences, and experienced others experiences.
Yeah nothing like a 20 something year old birdie who thinks they've cracked something. Good thing I was too embarrassed to post any of my genius theories and opinions when I was younger
Your take is a portrayal of patriarchal femininity that oversimplifies and degrades human behavior to an extent that is unhealthy for both men and women. If I viewed life in such a shallow and limiting way, I would be so incredibly unfulfilled. I don't want to sound hateful; I just want to articulate how sad watching this made me. Thinking about those who agree with this and how shallow and un-enriching their lives must be. I hope you are able to wake up one day and stress about something other than the body carrying your consciousness and whether it is desirable enough to men who will never love you, trust you, or respect you. I hope these men that you speak of and that have spawned in your comment sections may one day wake up to a thought other than sex or work. How sad that labor and sexual pleasure are the only priorities in a world enriched with art, culture, nature, and connection. I value the establishment and fostering of a family, I value sexual pleasure, I value discussions regarding relationships between women and men that help us better connect and respect each other. However, I do not value or wish to spread an idea of life, the human condition, and masculinity and femininity that does not fulfill or enrich but rather dulls and degrades an idea that could be and is so much deeper and full of love and genuine spiritual connection.
She read Simone de Beauvoir (prob only book that wasn't literature) and agreed to all that validation without any critic thinking. She awakes, opens insta or twitter and just absorbs all that neo feminist bubble content and learns 2 or 3 terms that might make her sound smarter, even though she doesn't even completely comprehend them. She never fact-checks her feminist friends and she's worried that being herself might be unpleasant for others, because she's the product of a very vile society that is against women
Well….this is a very naive perspective, but I appreciate that you had the balls to post it. While I don’t disagree with absolutely everything, I disagree with most of what you said. But you will learn more as you go on and hopefully by talking to women like me. I’m definitely up to talking and sharing my experiences and what I’ve learned with you to help broaden your lens!
As a man, i want to thank you. I' struggling with depression and anxiety, and i really needed something like this video to feel that men are valued. Nowadays i feel like most women thinks that all men are pigs, and, hopefully, i am not, and other are not, just some of us. Both sexes are needed and both men and women are better in other areas, so we need to cooperate with each other. Thanks you again 🙏💚
She values men? She's literally calling men dogs and thinks men are simple. It's tragic to see how low the bar is for men feeling valued in todays world.
men worry about job because this is a source of income. no income - no family and there is no backup coming. so at the end of the day men care about their families. The need for sex is even more natural, it is a need of the body. a person cannot stop drinking or eating for a week because he is in a bad mood, it doesn’t work like that
@Musicmanrobertwhen married they dont. they like to work like any western person but they expect man to carry family burden. more educated, enlightened, stable women rise above this biological urge. But young women are like this. Some women only want to work to see people and thus have options in this department. it is harder without money to buy nice clothes etc.
@Musicmanrobertyah that is why marriages cant last. "strong independent" = lonely person who cant cooperate or share. basicly semi narcissist to me. no wonder they are having constant mental disorders as if you are not truly that way by birth or childhood, "larping" will cause serious issues in life. In olden days, maybe 80s or 90s it worked like this regardless of what people said and seems to work roughly same in all countries in world.
@@effexonEven men can't be completely independent. They are dependant, as are women. Anyone who says, "I am independent", is a liar and delusional. Because we AS HUMANS are dependant on protection from other people and love and value given by our close ones and community. Without that we are just soulless beings walking on Earth without any purpose or thought.
It's just so horrible that men also have to grow and birth the babies. Oh wait, that's women who do that. 🙄 It's weird how women's contributions to humanity get played down while men's are played up. If women are so useless, then men can try to get offspring from other men. Good luck with that. 😂😂😂
As a stressed, overworked 30 year old man in these degenerate times, another video from you cheers me up. Thanks for this video, you're only stating the obvious, but it makes me feel theres hope for the future x
Finish the video so you don't have to. This girl basically just hates her own gender. Honestly reeks of self projection more than any sort of valid thought. Like your not stressed about work? No wonder you need a man so much. Your PATHETIC we get it just please don't act like all women are like this to validate yourself. Your not pathetic because your a woman your pathetic because thats just who YOU are.
As a man, you’re completely right, men are simple, at least most of them. But, your point about “what a girl has to do every morning” is a problem to me. You’re more honest than a lot of girls about how sex is in a sense a system of control. You give the man sex, he keeps protecting and providing. I don’t want to be treated as a sort of guard dog who gets rewarded with blowies. I’ve never truly accepted my “role”. For the record I would and have been protective of women, I’m talking more about intimate relationships rather than like a basic chivalry. My point though is I don’t agree heterosexual relationships should be an exchange where the male is entitled to sex, and the female entitled to material things. That’s prostitution. It sounds cynical, and it is, but that’s just what I would compare it to
Thank you for commenting on this. I also didn't agree with that part of her speech. I agree with the differences in hormones but those are just facts that more people should know. She's pretty young, I think she will rethink some of her views down the road.
i think she was trying to attack it from a more scientific route. how if he is taken care of in the morning, he can focus on the important things, not as an exchange, but with genuine loving motivation, because his head and hormones feel cleared and balanced, not because it’s prostitution.
right, and it also makes it sound like women don't have that need, only men do. when in reality most women also want sex, and it's something that benefits both ppl in the relationship
True. It's also a ridiculous point when you consider woman and men have a different libido individually, so the woman could be the one with the highest sex drive, and viceversa.
@@connoryork6631 : You really don't get it, do you? What you see in a population of distinct individuals is _dynamic equality:_ Precisely because we are different, it's not objectively possible to rank us from best to worst. Within any one metric, ranking is indeed possible. One of us might be the strongest, the fastest, the best mathematician, the best quarterback, the most brilliant chess player, the most gifted physicist, the most imaginative sculptor, the most evocative poet, or the most talented musician. But one person isn't likely to be all those things. So, who's better: the musician or the quarterback? Maybe God can objectively rank us, but we simply aren't qualified to do that. Therefore, we are in essence dynamically equal: better at some things, worse at others -- and who's to say what defines the "best" of us. Indeed, it's _because_ we're different that we must consider ourselves equal. You might be able to say one apple is better than another -- you _might_ -- but will we all agree that apple A is superior to orange B? This isn't even delving into the various values that change with time or conditions, or the consequences of each characteristic being a limited infinity unto itself, such that within the gamut containing it is an array of values as limitless and on as smooth a gradient as the set of all numbers from zero to one, all colors from red to orange, or all directions from north to northeast. So, no. "Equal" is not "the same." We are all individuals, unique and irreplaceable. And we are all dynamic equals. Would you have it any other way?
Everyone knows this, the game is to create chaos in every facet of life through the media so we all fight against each other. They whisper in your ear “that person over there is doing this and that to you” “You should hate them” and then they stand back and watch us all fight. They do this with every subject in life on purpose to keep us all fighting while they clean up.
you may not realise how much the fact that young women like you exist feels so heart-warming and encouraging to so many men, and in any case certainly to me!! It gives me hope for the future. So thank you so much for stating these things!!
Here are some reminders for my fellow men: you are emotionally complex, you can invest on your emotional intelligence, you don't have to kill yourself working, you can be soft if you want to, you can have platonic female friends, you are not a slave to your sexual impulses. In short, your biological characteristics guide you, but they don't define you.
Thank you! I am a softer man in many ways - and I don't identify with all these characteristics they say that men "should" have. And yes I have decided to not care too much about what others think. I want to be the happy cheerful person I am without becoming cold and "tough" in a way I find bad.
Of course. But noone respects it. And part of developing emotional intelligence is realizing our emotions are trivial in the grand scheme. A man is expected to bring logic and ration to any situation, especially in a relationship. Women think we are simple although many of us really are not, but to break their paradigm would also break the relationship. Being soft is also different from being compassionate, and compassion is different from emotion. Be compassionate, let your emotions guide you, and be soft wherever possible, but remember that a man is meant to be thick skinned, unwaivering, and hardened towards things that pose a threat to our families. We are meant to be a stable and secure foundation that our family can lean on. If you can't provide that, you will always struggle in a relationship and will not be treated like a dignified man in any social situation. It's the hard truth all men learn. Don't let them see you falling off your horse.
@@minimal3734 Are you a Gnostic? Ofc there are many many things, esp external, that define us. What about the fact that if someone shoots you with a gun in the head you die. That's a very clear definition of mortal that you aren't going to avoid.
@@minimal3734 Biological reality and human nature isn't a prison, it's just there. It's a natural process. We will always be defined by factors outside of our control. Did you know that the foods and drinks you ingest and the quality of the air you breathe in affects your decision-making without you realizing it? Do you realize how many things affect our subconscious without us even knowing about it?
@@VincentLacar No I'm a guy. Coming back to this video I'm noticing not only is she completely wrong about men, she's also completely wrong about women. Gender doesn't magically decide my priorities in life, and I certainly don't function as a sex powered drone.
@@noobsaibot8199 That’s because men nowadays are overly feminine, lack purpose and depression and loneliness statistics are peaking. Find a man who respects himself, lives a fulfilling life, is generally at peace, and they will have these traits. These are the people who are actually ready to be in a healthy relationship.
It's making me sad that from an environnement you can have those assumptions, even if there's biological things that happens, there are A LOT of shades, nuances to mens and womens. Everything is more complex that it appears so, and I know you know that. The thing we need to think of, is being just, right based on the personnality, the person you have in front of you. Try to know deeply, maybe a lot more are simpler than we think, maybe you'll never know how they feel.
I don’t agree with a lot of this. Men are complicated, but often quiet. U talk about men and women in absolutes when most people are unique. This video is ridiculous! Men simping in the comments too is crazy!!
Wow. Not only do you understand, you have put yourself out there in an attempt to educate other women, regardless of potential backlash. I admire your level of raw honesty. My compliments. God bless you.
@detroitloVeSeverybody she was wrong for saying that when women wake up in the morning, they think about men and men are thinking about sex and work. She was wrong that women should please a man and give them what they want. She is making women sound like helpless workers who need men and making all men like horrible sexiholics.
She actually wrong on so many levels This video is a textbook example of outdated gender essentialism masquerading as biological fact. The idea that men "wake up thinking about work" because of testosterone while women "stress about men" because of some subconscious drive to find a husband is not only reductive but also dismisses the complexities of human psychology, individuality, and societal influence. 1. Biology vs. Social Conditioning - While hormones influence behavior, they don’t dictate our thoughts or priorities in such a rigid, binary way. Testosterone doesn’t make men inherently work-driven, just as estrogen doesn’t make women preoccupied with relationships. These are societal narratives that have been reinforced for centuries. 2. Over-Simplification of Stress - Men and women both experience stress related to work, relationships, and countless other aspects of life. The notion that men are “practical” while women are “emotional” is a stereotype that ignores the reality of modern life, where women juggle careers, ambitions, and personal lives just as much as men do. 3. The “Men Built Everything” Argument - Yes, historically, men dominated fields like construction and infrastructure-but that wasn’t due to inherent superiority; it was because women were excluded from those roles. Today, women contribute to every sector of society, from engineering to medicine to politics, and the world isn’t crumbling because of it. 4. Reinforcing Limiting Beliefs - Content like this doesn’t “empower” anyone; it just reinforces restrictive gender roles that keep both men and women from reaching their full potential. Telling men they exist to work and women that they exist to find a husband doesn’t help anyone-it just perpetuates outdated norms that many people are actively working to dismantle. If the goal was to provide insight into gender differences, this misses the mark by leaning into oversimplified, one-size-fits-all logic. Humans are more complex than “men work, women stress about men.” Let’s move past narratives that do nothing but keep people stuck in limiting boxes.
why would women stressing about work would be masculine? a woman can have a job which she is passionate about and wants to do it in the best way possible.
The first thing that a man thinks about in the morning is - his purpose. What is my purpose? Am I succeeding? Am I happy? Am I a good father or friend or husband?
A womans hormones doesn't regenerate every 28 days. Your body is producing both estrogen and testosterone every day. The menstruation cycle is something else.
@@locinolacolino1302 : You need to look at this the other way around. A mans stress levels will definitely affect his testosterone values. So will poor sleep, low quality food and obesity as well. As a general rule, your T-levels are at their highest early in the morning, and at their lowest in the later stages of the day. The point is that the woman in this video doesn't know what she is talking about.
This is hilarious. Stressing about work isn’t a thing associated with healthy men, no. I don’t think I’ve ever once been stressed about sex. I’m definitely not simple; no man I know is simple. You may be mixing up the notion of simplicity and that of being straightforward. You should check your information.
bro what are you even talking about? Oxford defines simple as "used to convey that something is very straightforward." they literally have the same meaning. And yes me and every male friend of mine stress more about work than anything else. Even scientific studies show that men's happiness depends most on their work.
@@capacitor8399 Straightforward has a second usage you conveniently forgot: frank or honest. Come back with evidence that being stressed is a healthy trait and I’ll be interested. You’ve challenged nothing I said.
Hilarious is just the start. Regardless of the inaccuracy on talking points, she’s gathering a decent fan base…good for her. Don’t allow yourself to get caught up believing everything said as truth here. Approach the talking points with a healthy logical mindset and ask yourself…where’s the evidence to back up these claims.
@@k1ttyyh i guess it just sounded like you were saying youd rather have a fun healthy life than have a bunch of sex and it was just a relief to hear since the video makes it sound like its ALL men think about 😌
We really are. A lot of men are just as petty and insecure as women. Many men want to complain about coworkers and other assailants as much as women do, its just we feel like pussies when we do.
Personally it makes me feel flat out uncomfortable and weird doing it, so whether it is discouraged or not doesn't matter to me. It is what I think of it
@@bluegiant13 Same here. But there is certainly cultural pressure and influence that makes men seek to hold face with a calm equilibrium. Especially so here in England, which is traditionally stoic and reserved.
@@cerdic6586 Yeah, but these norms have come from somewhere and it likely is that they are rooted in our natural proclivities anyway. It is not that I am unable to express my emotions, I can do that well enough with good friends and they can do it as well, but the way we do it is not in a cathartic or intense type of way like women. We go about it calmly, for example, we like to be honest and when we don't like a behavior of someone we just say how it makes use feel .e.g.: Hey, when you do this it makes me feel x. Simple and straightforward.
Trust me, you’re wrong. The men who I respected the most and gave the most sexually treated me like absolute garbage. The men who I set the bar higher for treat me better. Also, my biggest stressors are not periods, men, or children. It’s probably the same as everyone else: money, stability, peace, and the people closest to me.
For me as a man...taxes...finances.... My own mortality and existential dredd(thoughts that ive wasted my life or have missed opportunities)... Then it passes me off when women have CHARICITURE views that men are SIMPLE creatures who only think about food, beer and sex.... No..I think about MEANING in my life all the time.
There are, in fact, bad men. She's talking about good men. The difference is wolves versus sheepdogs. And she's right, about good men. At the very least, she is trying.
@@vasserviserbgd6431 Do you actually think that the first things women stress about in the morning are men, children and our appearance ? Maybe if we had no responsibilities or if we were housewives but nowadays most of us work and worry about what the comment above said. That doesn’t make me any less of a woman tho!
Yes,everyone difference. Regardless of gender. Yes we are different hormones but The cultural background and upbringing, whether I am independent or in need of a man and the environment-if everything were treated equally 100%, I believe the differences would not be noticeable."
What. A. Joke! And thank you for objectifying me, real hypocritical of you. Out here making me sound like a cave man for needing some companionship. Forgive the unusual show of humanity, I'll return to the social programming beat into me by public school don't worry. I just have to say before I return to being an automaton. You will never have honest love if you can't see men as human as well
Big misconception - a man stresses about work because he A) wants to have sex, or B) has kids to take care of. Between A and B, B will always win for good men. Edit: C) Wants status, D) Actually has a goal in life Obviously D would be a good sign. So, simply put, if you want simple men, treat them as if they are simple.
THANK YOU. I genuinely don't say this to judge anyone but it really disturbs me to hear "a man needs sex, not you." Like... I find it really sad that this mentality is considered normal and I feel sorry for the girl who made this video because she thinks this is just how it is because men have always treated her like this😔
@@maddieweaver2942 I think that men can change the order of their priorities throughout the life, but this three ones are really true... another point it's that she told about what we need not what we want or what we like, men really don't need women to survive just like women don't need men to survive... but what we need and what we love and want are different things... (as humans we obviously need each other, but as individual in society we can live without others)
@@devinicin men and women also don't need sex to survive, either though. I'd say it's a lot closer to the truth that men and women need relationships and bonding way more than they need sex; sex should ideally be a healthy aspect of a relationship if you're not asexual, but the relationship should always precede that and it sounds like she's saying the opposite. I guess a lot of men do prioritize sex over women but I think that will lead to a lonely life later with a lack of close relationships
You're right. Men are simple, with simple needs. One insight is the one thing a man needs every day. Yes, we need it. It doesn't mean we're animals, it means we want to affirm and build our relationship with you. If that disgusts you, you don't deserve your man.
@@Nick-ij5nt No, they dont. But dudes will want sex frequently because for most dudes its the peak of intimacy. For a lot of dudes sex is an incredibly intimate act. If a dudes gf/wife/etc doesnt want to have sex with him he will 100 percent take it personally.
@@Nick-ij5nt Speak for yourself. We need the emotional connection to help our relationship flower, we need the physical release to help us keep from straying. Being sneered at by our woman over our needs doesn't do anything good for the relationship btw
@@gerbenhoutman9348 I'm not saying men don't need sex at all, I definitely agree that if your girl doesn't give you any sex at all that's probably gonna destroy the relationship in the long term. My contention is needing it every single say. If you need sex every single day then you're very immature, sorry.
It has been obvious to me since I was about 14 that females are much more complex than us guys. Glad you have come to that conclusion too. We all need each other because our differences are so complimentary.
Thank god someone sees it too!! This is a sad video!! t's almost like an A.I video where a man wrote the text for this young woman. She basically is an example of internalized misogyny. The way she describes women is like they are there to exist solely in relation to men, not for themselves. She basically does not condemn marital rape because sex is simply what a man needs and a woman should provide that, she does talk about differences in hormonal cycle but just to say that "you're mad at your man for no reason."...oh god this was frustrating to watch. I thought this was going to be more of a feminist video so I expected her to say that women worry about men because the rates of SA and rape are so high and women feel unsafe but instead she perpetuates the idea the world revolves around men and women basically wake up and go to bed thinking about men -_- And she says women should look good "and present in a way so that a man wants us" because only then a men stays with you. And then she says a man does not need a woman just sex? Oh my lord. And she talks about not wanting to play the victim and act like she's better than men which is basically her being anti-feminist. This is an insanely misogynistic video and reminds me men are not the only misogynistic people because so many women still have internalized misogyny. And does she realize a lot of women work and worry about their job too, like what world does she live in? Men work and women are just mothers and housewives? Women also build stuff, they work. And all the men agreeing :( Sorry for this rant lol
You, sir, are funny 😂😂 but yea, that's why I ran to the comments. You guys give a fuller picture. I believe nothing is "all inclusive" because, realistically, there are exceptions to everything. That's just my opinion, though.
woah, ok? woah. we're all clones of each other, that's why some ignoramus youtuber who has only seen males in non-personal setting, and maybe 5-10 males in personal settings, can make videos like this. She even made a weird connection between morning wood and work. but whatever, this behaviour is all over the place. everyone knows how things work from their experiences in life so there's nothing we can say to them.
I agree. Men and women are different. BUT saying that men only stress about work and sex and women only about men and being loved etc, is dumb.. That's just not true. Men stress about women, women stress about men, men stress about work, women do too stress about work, men want to be loved, women want to be loved. We all want to be important and valued.
THANK YOU. I am a woman and I stress about my career. I've known plenty of men who are driven by drama and also men who are more in touch with their emotions. I've known women who are career-driven and don't care for gossiping. Thinking in terms of a collective whole is harmful for not only the people who are stereotyped but the person who thinks that way. We are all individuals at the end of the day and think differently despite stereotypes.
It's so refreshing to see a man in the comments disagreeing as opposed to the thousands of likes on the comments talking about how she hit it spot on 😔 I'm just reminding myself that these videos tend to reach a certain audience and that this hopefully isn't how most of the world thinks
@@maddieweaver2942 it does just appeal to the “traditional” ideal in men, and from the context of my life, as a guy, I don’t believe men are simple, but so many succumb to cultural expectations of being simple. Have a good day, the world is better than the internet makes it out to be
@@babymonkey4601 Thanks :) You're right, I think many men, and apparently women, do succumb to it. But clearly it's not as simple as making generalizations! I hope you have a good day too
If a woman can give a man peace, he will never leave.
It's refreshing to hear someone take our side. Thank you.
Nailed it!... well said
If he wants peace , he should support a woman, if he comes to woman's house , and she pays everything, and he is asking for 💸💰, what peace he will receive???? What you give is what you get. Simple.
how about yall find ur own peace.
@@KristineB-ey4sb no man is ever gonna ask for a womans money unless they're twisted and only using them for that
Just keep in mind of what women say and what women do are two diferent things, it's a world of hurt if you don't learn that early in life... there are very few who are not like this.
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Yup lol
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Absolutely 😂😂
Lmao 🤣
So true. But... I will show it to my wife.
As a young man I'm not too particularly stressed about sex. My siblings will continue the bloodline, I shall be in the mountains.
Based, the most masculine thing you can be as a man is a hermit or a monk
As a man... you got this right. If men have food, sex, respect and peace from their relationship, they are usually pretty happy.
all "simple things" on paper like that, turns out in adult life those are most complex to achieve... in consistent basis. Fixing roof or car is easier as do it well once, it wont bug you in 5 years.
@@effexon “Women are born on top of the mountain, and men are born at the bottom” this is where we start in terms of intrinsic societal value. I can tell you flat out that no matter how “nice” a woman appears, it is an incredible struggle to try to find a woman who actually gives a rats ass even about the man they claimed to love. It’s like speaking of foreign language, when you actually try to convey your own feelings wants or desires to a woman. It just doesn’t compute because it’s so far below their needs, wants and desires and your job is to make them happy by fulfilling all of those needs.
I am afraid it's too late now to fix this mess easily that started decades ago. It will take decades and still. MGTOW keeps growing (men totally checked out of relationships, not hating women, just not interested anymore in the rigged game). Passport Bros keeps rising (men looking for good feminine, loyal wives in more traditional countries, where men are still appreciated). Marriage is done in the West, even relationships... You see, these are all the consequences if you keep bashing men. If you keep saying, "We do not need men, all men are creeps," "we are strong and independent." I know many single men. Not once did I hear a guy say I am strong and independent. We call it, he's single, bachelor, that's it. Men want to feel needed. if they are not wanted by our society, and a lot of women??? What else did you expect that would happen. It's just logical. We all lose. A lot of men have been warning modern women for years, but they never truly listened. Family, values, morals... No to Hook-up culture... Now some women are stepping up, but are they genuine??? Are is it to monetise, because it's getting mainstream. It's like watching the décline of the Roman Empire.
In marriage - -
1) She stays: You pay
2) She goes: You pay
3) She cheats: You pay
4) You go: You pay
When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".
They don’t care what men want, that’s the problem. They want what they want and if you’re not gonna give it to them then they are going to leave. They will tell you this to your face too, it’s sad.
Throw in a remote control and it is even better.
Bingo
It's surprising how under the radar the book Casanova Optimization of Attraction is. If you're curious, It is definitely worth a look.
"Men. Women. Different".
What an amazing era, that such an elementary truth has to be stated.
El Mao
Well in the U.S. there is less difference. That is why we have problems. When everyone stays in their own lane and tries to be the best in that lane. Things are better for all. But the U.S. is a lost cause.
thats because in the last years, "the girl power movement" sold them the biggest lie of all time. "men and women are equal"
Women are scary 👿 😢
This was more than that, she said pretty interesting points actually and just because in this era everything os so mixed up and messed up, to state some clarification would be important
This is a list of all the things I want as a man
- Job I can go to where I get along and feel useful and get paid decent
- Male friends who I can talk to about guy stuff and world events and politics and other stuff
- Girl who genuinely likes me and is always there to talk and who is emotionally and physically caring towards me
- Quiet alone space where I can do things I like, like read, listen to music, play games, learn things, etc.
- A chair somewhere with a nice view that I can be outside in when it's warm
- that's it basically. Everything else is okay if I have those things.
A very good list, thanks for sharing!
Its crazy how similar most guys are at the end of the day. Its as if I wrote this myself
Belly full and ballz empty
What we want is: Feel proud of ourselves, jobs etc..nobody wants to feel like a loser, have peace and quiet and if there is a woman who can give us that, even better! Have friend time because having fun with friends is way different from having fun with girlfriend or wife
You were only missing good food and bedroom gymnastics
I love how the video is primarily meant for female viewers, but the comments are full of the homies
Recommendations.
ðɪs ɪz ɑbviɪsli kʰlɪkbejt fɚ mɛn
There are female viewers but they probably have started calling her "pick-me" even before going through half of the video
Wait what-
@@D402S aj wʊdɪnt sej ðejɹ ɹaŋ
Thank you Keira. Yes, I have been saying for a LONG time. My father and mother were perfect examples. My father just loved my mom. All he wanted was my mom. He didn't need other women. She was his Queen and she didn't have to say she was his Queen. She knew it. This example showed me as man how to be a man. My father was amazing example. My mother adored, admired, and respected my father. They were a team. The perfect compatibility. She was fiery, strong will, stubborn, loving, kind, and generous. My father was the calm, gentle bear, he was strong, compassionate, kind, generous and loving. He literally was my Yoda for manly wisdom. They were perfect together when my mom would get angry or frustrated a simple touch or hug from my father could melt the way no other person could.
you're lucky. it sounds like you have gratitude for that. It's more like what she says out there though... people of divorced parents. You know what the divorce rate is if even one of the people come from divorced parents, 2 fold the avg, if both, 4 fold. I'm living it unfortunately... that's my karma to live though. You have something else to give, which is great!
i hope many more parents will be like this
The energy put into this 😂. OUTSTANDING
Lmao simps falling for the pickme
typical
@@muhammadyoussef8 finding a video funny makes people simps? Go to touch grass dude
@muhammadyoussef8 Typical yet not surprising.
As a man, I disagree. Yes men tend to focus more on making themselves better than chasing love, but that doesn’t mean we don’t need to be loved. Men aren’t just these work and sex addicts and most of us are out here trying to find the one.
@@quixotik1021im the king of gays. What’s up
@@quixotik1021 just because he seems like a decent man doesn't mean he's gay. Grow up.
Yes, the word need should be replaced with want, for me anyways.
Wtf is the one? As man and not a narcissist that thinks he's the main character in a movie or the simulation of some kinda matrix but a red blooded mammal fighting the universe to simply exist in it with no real purpose other then to exists. sex even from someone you don't necessarily relate to can keep a relationship alive for ever. I've seen relationships with people who don't even speak the same language but they feed each other's basic needs sincerely but don't have any of the same interests in music, movies politics,or even religion true love transcends all, and sex is the highest form to intertwine souls I don't believe there is one person out there for you, it's all circumstance everything that ever was and ever will be is because of circumstance destiny is a mans idea but chaos is truly human
@@quixotik1021 Do you want him? Pretty sure he doesn't swing that way, bro
Little did she know her mindset has just made her more attractive for long term relationships to MANY men.
you have extremely low standards.
@@VOID-Venture_Geology A 10/10 man will get with a 1/10 woman if she offers lol. Don't pretend men have high standards. Women have high standards.
@@KonglomeratYT No, you are talking about the inauthentic corporate citizens that make up society, passing themselves off as MEN. In 50 years, I've never met, seen or even heard of what I would consider a Man. I have high standards though.
@@VOID-Venture_GeologySo, what is your idea of a man?
@@___solar___ Legend says he still has high standards, and still doesn't know what a real man is.
The "men care about sex not women" is the part I disagree with here. You significantly underestimate the value men put on women's validation.
Also, men find intimacy in sex when women find intimacy outside of sex.
For men sex isn’t only about the physical deed, it’s about intimacy with their spouses and that is based on research.
@@nate2759Correct. A lot of women understand the "power" they have, aka how much most men love women.
I have seen if men don't care about sex, then they get especially prostrate issues later on in their lives, it is essential for a healthy guy to have sex regularly.
True
@@nate2759 which is why some women use sex deprivation as a weapon to control and manipulate their husbands. It makes it truly evil and abusive.
This is such a 2017 level video
more like 1937 germany
@@feyyaz99 what?
@@feyyaz99
Godwin troll
@@feyyaz99 I wish
bruh im tryna remember 2017 lol
Thinking that most men worry more about sex than their kids is crazy ngl
I dont think you can make generalizations like this unless you specify the age ranges in which you are talking about bc stresses change
Then you might be aesexual or have low testosterone. If you do not have the hormones or desire to mate regularly you are well, different. That is not a bad thing, but it's the truth. So it might be better for you to care for children and be a doctor rather than be in a relationship and love someone emotionally, besides physically because physically is the bear minimum.
This is the most broscience I've heard from a woman
she's done this video for simps and incels to watch it like her, irl she doesn't give a f about incels, actually her most watched video, clowned on men hardly
haha. I agree
What is she, 14?
She's a kid
Copium in the replies
I felt like ive taken a fresh breath of air listening to the video and your point of view on things. Because as a 25 year old man, most of the things you gone over are really do resonate. To add to youre topic, a man feels satisfied when he sees that he is satisfying his woman, and getting things done. We like to be of service to people, because it gives us a sense of community and purpose!
Do you also see sex as a commodity? As something transactional which need to be given by women to men in return for their protection?
I disagree with some of the points made here. As a man, sex is most definitely not more important than my children, and i don't believe that it is, atleast for the majority of fathers.
Secondly, of course men want to have sex more often than women, and that's totally fine, as it's simply our biological nature.
Now, does that mean, that women should completely disregard their own preferences and needs, just to "provide" sex every day?
I don't think so, I think a man should also adjust to the lower sex drive of his partner, and a middle ground is the way to go.
Yet men are expected to set aside their own preferences and needs to provide financial, emotional and physical safety.
Analize the message more and you probably would understand it.
Can you provide the source that men want sex more than women? Because all the studies I see say that our sexual desire is way more alike than different.
@@Hornet1806 loll "physical safety"" when do you ever need to do that? imaginary dream thing to whine over
@@BoglimWrangler666 So if you have a boyfriend and an intruder comes to the door, if your boyfriend refuses to protect you, you’d stay with him? Of course not. You automatically feel entitled to his physical protection. But god forbid if he feels entitled to anything of yours. It’s not an “imaginary dream thing to whine over”, it’s something women look for in men whether the big bad thing happens or not. You look to your men for their ability to protect you, and the ones you don’t think can or will are invisible to you. Stop pretending to be ignorant.
it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the forbidden ebook called Flirtosphere Seduction on Vexoner
I call bs on this video, you can do ALL of this for him and he’ll still be a pig and cheat
Over for pigcheatcels
As a guy, was a little skeptical at the video start, but it's amazing how accurate this is. If such a speech were mandatory in every school (for example during each civic education class) and governments actually cared to apply this, imagine how much less mental pain would both genders experience and all the confusion that could be avoided at such a scale. Thanks Keira
Agree.
How would governments apply this?
As a straight man who is around a lot of people on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, I’m just realizing how many people are straight like me. She’s saying some stuff that I disagree with, everyone is complicated, but there are some good overall lessons.
Not really she basically says that women's don't have ambitions and goals and if they do there's something wrong with them, simplifies men to work and sex addicts and thinks a women's entire life revolves around husband and kids
This video is a textbook example of outdated gender essentialism masquerading as biological fact. The idea that men "wake up thinking about work" because of testosterone while women "stress about men" because of some subconscious drive to find a husband is not only reductive but also dismisses the complexities of human psychology, individuality, and societal influence.
1. Biology vs. Social Conditioning - While hormones influence behavior, they don’t dictate our thoughts or priorities in such a rigid, binary way. Testosterone doesn’t make men inherently work-driven, just as estrogen doesn’t make women preoccupied with relationships. These are societal narratives that have been reinforced for centuries.
2. Over-Simplification of Stress - Men and women both experience stress related to work, relationships, and countless other aspects of life. The notion that men are “practical” while women are “emotional” is a stereotype that ignores the reality of modern life, where women juggle careers, ambitions, and personal lives just as much as men do.
3. The “Men Built Everything” Argument - Yes, historically, men dominated fields like construction and infrastructure-but that wasn’t due to inherent superiority; it was because women were excluded from those roles. Today, women contribute to every sector of society, from engineering to medicine to politics, and the world isn’t crumbling because of it.
4. Reinforcing Limiting Beliefs - Content like this doesn’t “empower” anyone; it just reinforces restrictive gender roles that keep both men and women from reaching their full potential. Telling men they exist to work and women that they exist to find a husband doesn’t help anyone-it just perpetuates outdated norms that many people are actively working to dismantle.
If the goal was to provide insight into gender differences, this misses the mark by leaning into oversimplified, one-size-fits-all logic. Humans are more complex than “men work, women stress about men.” Let’s move past narratives that do nothing but keep people stuck in limiting boxes.
Preach! A little hug and a kiss after a long day of hard work makes it all worth it.
With women to
Hi, female here:
Idk if its because i'ma tomboy or smt but i really don't think like this.
Reading the comments w/ bros saying "she's right, women only think about men" is kinda sad
I'd hate for all my homies to think that i'm obsessed w/ them or that we aren't equals, that i am there to "serve" them. (And ya, biologically we are different, but i don't want my chromosomes to decide what role i should play in my own life)
I know most of y'all don't care, but i hope to find a guy i can just raise an honest family with, live a passionate life, and be well-off enough to help others.
I don't think listening to this kinda stuff is gana get me here, nor has it ever been the case for me. I hope some of you understand that 🙏
nah this vid is just another one of those girls tryna get views by appealing to the traditional/conservative audience
She sounds like a young woman who lacks perspective. This is the problem with social media, anyone with an internet connections can blast their opinions as facts.
I can't believe people agree with her. Maybe it is true for uneducated men and women, but most people are not that simple-minded. Maybe she lacks life experience to evaluate situations better. No man with any money would risk his wealth for sex. Just believing that sex is the main reason for a relationship says a lot about her intellect and standard of living.
seriously I was like WTFFF
She’s obviously a tradcon grifter who wants clout. These kinds of grifters have lucrative business these days.
Girl I’m stressing about my education and my car payments not some guy😭
Someone finally said facts😭
You’re the one who clicked the video..
Mf got mad when the word “men” was in a video 😭✌️
Your bad decisions, you deserve it, deal with it.
@@Lxxustell you are unable to read without telling me you are unable to read
Such a refreshing thing to see a woman speak good of men and not demonize them
Men are SIMPLE. 😂
She's onto some good points, don't get me wrong, but she misses about as many as she nails.
@@mihirengg19 true, I can only speak for myself, but my decade long relationship with my SO is about more than the "men only want sex" agenda. Were something to happen to her that rendered her unable to provide it for the foreseeable future, I would still spend the rest of my life with her. She's more than just a sexual object to me. She's my best friend.
The same can be said for about every other "men only want a woman to..." point she made.
And I resent being called simple. Although a majority of men are, don't generalise.
It wouldn't be fair to say that women only care about money, although largely true, there are some women who earnestly don't, and would stick with you through thick and thin.
Find yourself one of those, one that really wants to spend time with you, regardless of what you are busy with, she'll join in. Not an empty headed, clingy nag - that line is easy to cross. No, a real woman you can take hunting, fishing, motorcycling or whatever else you are into, and she'll gladly go, and not resent you for it, but love that you have included her.
And then you'll find an "Alpha" male saying crap like: "You don't want a woman, you want a homie" No dude, I want a partner, one that doesn't get jealous when I wanna go trap shooting, but is down to actually learn the sport, and end up enjoying it, not one that sits around and whines about the heat, noise, and grime... And what frigging time we're going home.
Truth is, beta bro, you REALLY want a woman that can control you with her cooch. And you'll get angry at her and display toxic masculinity in those situations by yelling at that b**ch to shut up, or take a hike, because she's embarrassing you in front of your homies. Or you'll just leave her at home, and get upset when she starts nagging you to come back home, because she doesn't understand what you are busy with, or why you are gone for that long, and you'll get into an argument each and every time time you walk through the door...
My wife doesn't need to speculate on what I'm doing, she gets to come along and see what the hype is all about, and nobody minds a girl being present, because she doesn't nag. We'll do the chores together when we get home.
Those who play together, stay together.
its called a pickme
@@TH3_T3RM1N4T0R I'm not simple.
"You are beautiful, and you are fine." I wish there were more of you.
- to make mine
Riiiight, I want friends like this
@@teast3606 hahaaha
Sounded like a poem lol 👆
Honestly you’re a beast. Keep crushing it. Epic video. A lot of truths and super cool to see you blowing this channel up just off honest rants. Congrats on 10k!
As a female, I can say that I’m officially a man. 😭😭😭
You are killing it. You are gonna have a huge channel in no time.
Yes that true, she have a point now
this is as big as her channel is going to get. the algorithm is saturated with young women posing as self help gurus. cranking out videos every single day is also not good for a channel's growth.
@@chewieeebby she is already proving you wrong by getting much bigger every day
Bcuz simpletons like you
She's going for the Simp Crowd now. She says she's talking to women but her audience is made up of mostly Beta male Simps. Like you guys. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Okay... You said about women that's why I need to write my opinion. Because as 21 years old woman I stress about job every f*cking day and my job isn't stereotypically masculine. I'm an English teacher. (And despite everything I write I like this job but don't want to have it for long period)
And yes, I wanna my students understand everything, I wanna also feel that they like me, that I'm not that stereotypically bad school teacher. Because when you feel comfort you can better understand material (stress also can be useful but it's more about tests).
And as I work with kids who lost one of parents due to the war I really stressed not to say something that can hurt them.
And yes, maybe it's not equal to man's stress, but it's also stressful. And oh my god, I'm still a woman.
I stress about my education, about my future, my health (how ironically). And I have never stressed about men or about my appearance. Because for me it's important to develop myself as much as possible to provide my existence. If I find a man, we will do it both - provide our family as a team. It's not about race. It's about support.
You're maybe happy with your man and I wish you be that blessed up to the end of your life. BUT! Don't forget about women who don't have such men due to different reasons.
Everyone needs to know ways to make money, recipes to cook favourite food, some basic life stuff because we all live this life.
So your points aren't about all men and women. I can't say you're wrong. But you're also not correct for everyone on this planet.
Yeah I think about work or my hobbies/interests first thing in the morning haha, when she said women stress about men first thing in the morning I realized this video is not meant for me.
That's less struggles than a 14 year old boy struggles, you're an adult complaining about such miniscule thing 😂
@@MrBank-hc1jg okay, you may know more, you're welcome to share about 14 y.o. boy struggles. Provide examples.
@@MrBank-hc1jgDo you even know how much of a responsibility being a teacher is? This is coming from a 15 year old boy. I definitely do not have as much stress as my English teacher does grading and putting together lessons for hundreds of students every single day. You definetly have to love your job to stay sane as a teacher because with how crappy teenagers and kids can be it would suck.
@@ЛобоваЮля-т8щI doubt he read the entire comment he probably just jumped to the conclusion that this comment was disagreeing with the video itself.
"Men are simple".
Not really. Human beings are very complex.
@Callabunga24 That is all right, you don't have to figure it out. It is the wisdom of the ages expressed in two lines. Why a man and a woman which have everything going for them can not be content with what they have. John C. Bogle the Founder of Vanguard and one of the leaders in Index Mutual Funds wrote a book called "Enough" right after the market crash of 2008 which touches on the very same topic. The book is in English.
Nah, as a guy I can confirm that we are very simple. Im a young adult and I still laugh when someone farts
@@douglasbullet6456 In fact that demonstrates the magnitude of your complexity. A lesser man would have been blown away. You stood your ground and even laughed!
Men are simpler then woman
@Callabunga24so why do t you put yourself in JAIL?...they feed you...eat, sleep, food..
Humans are SIMPLE right!?
Sorry but uhh, as a dude, work isn't the first thing on my mind in the morning. The existential terror of realizing I exist and experience life with no explanation as to how/why this experience is objectively true is the first thing I think about in the morning. Maybe I'm a womans or somethin.
same here 😭
@@onesyphorus Meditate, exercise, make time in the day to get away from screens, and get busy, brother! And laugh at it all. The existential dread of existence is too absurd not to laugh at the situation. All you can know for sure is that you exist... whatever tf that even means and there's no alternative besides the long nap which is just nothingness or maybe some creator that doesn't show themself to their own creation or... reincarnation? Pretttty fuckin whacky and laughable.
Those tips and that thinking helped me a bit, but it's still been a consistent problem for like 7-8 years now. I've finally decided to see a pysch for it (if I ever hear from the damn office I was referred to 4 months ago). OCD, trauma, and depression/anxiety all can lead to early morning dark existential thoughts. Definitely, get checked out if you can't get a lid on it. There's help out there, but they're not going out of their way to help ya. You've gotta take those first steps.
Hope this is a seriously helpful amendment to my opening joke comment! This shit genuinely sucks.
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maybe you need to find god. that way you'll find the meaning in your life and not feel like you're alive just to die. and I don't mean christianity, try searching for something like '' what is the true religion''
everyone will find different answers then? keep your bahai nonsense to yourself man 😹 @
I'm a 65 y/o man, and she's spot on. She understands the two genders completely.
@autism1151 ¿?
@autism1151 Username checks out.
she understands nothing
@@Fadi5000 Your negative comment without backing it up by providing specifics tells me you are immature, inexperienced, and/or have psychological issues.
@@Fadi5000 I found the weeaboo.
This is the sort of wisdom that women of the older generations tend to have. You are going to have a great life ahead of you.
she so dumb
I hope this is just UA-cam and online, but it seems like people in the United States are just so confused about gender issues. Man and woman are different, but equal in their human dignity. God created man and woman because we need each other. If it wasn't meant to be that way, then everyone would be the same gender. I think toxic feminism has confused the newest generation of boys and girls. More men are lonely and single than ever. Women are angrier and more scared of men than ever. That's what it appears like online, not sure if it's the reality.
none of this applied to my life or my father so no. its naive. its pretending life is this simple when most men are NOT this simple but shes got a biiig head...
are you sure because 50% of marriages fail and majority of old couples argue 24/7 to the point where it’s become a stereotype
@@emmaversace4329 70% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. If women in the US actually stuck to their vows, only 15% of marriages would fail!
You need to realize that life isn't a fairy tale, and you will argue about something sometimes to 100% of the people on earth... If you decide to marry someone, you make it work!
Most modern women have forgotten what it's like to take responsibility and accountability for their actions and act like they're 5 years old well into their 30s and 40s when something doesn't make them feel like a princess!
Most men 30 years ago before bedtime:
☑Got the job done.
☑Woman still likes me.
☑Family still safe.
Most men in 30 years before bedtime:
☑Got the job done.
☑Still safe from women.
☑Planned next week's hike.
A hiking plan sounds kind of nice.
*surfing and time with dog
Legit planning a hike for tomorrow.. 🤣🤣as a sngle 24 year old
you can't go wrong with a hike though. Ultimate bliss.
@@DrumToTheBassWoop went on 2 hikes this week, Loved both!
This is a backhanded compliment
I agree but can't seem to put my finger on why I feel so
Probably because it's a young person with no life experience speaking out her ass trying to make a grey world black and white by putting everyone in a nice little box.
@@RealNormHall You think so because it's a woman saying it.
I just see it as a young woman trying her hardest not to conform to what her generation has tried force feeding her
It is, she mistakenly assumed that reducing men to being simple beings who just want sex was a compliment when it really just diminishes their struggles and who they are
i don't care who the IRS sends i am not paying my taxes
I see what you did there.
How did they know my only weakness: Women.
lmao
Dan Vs IRS
stolen money indeed, even worse in germany literally 50% tax on income
I ran to the comments straigh after the first seconds 💀
lol me 2
i thought this was satire 😭
😂
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Yeah I feel she a bit wrong while she's onto something.
If she changed the word work with survival I would totally agree with her.
Work or what you do for work is not important unless you factor in survival.
We'd be sitting on the porch drinking beer and smoking weed all day if we didn't need money to survive.
As for children we would teach them how to hunt and send them out to get food.
Then we'd build some shit, inspect what we just built and be like yep, I'm the best.
Have some more beer and call it a day.
Pretty simple lmao
Aint no girl stressin over my sorry azz 😭
Skater dude going through it 😂
@kiink182 And who gets attracted to you by your looks?
Lmfao
@kiink182 If you say you do it for yourself you’re just coping honestly. If there wasn’t a reason to care about your looks then you wouldn’t care about it but if you’re a human being then you will obviously care about how people perceive you. And looks is the number one way people perceive you
@kiink182 so you don’t use makeup at all?
When I wake up I don’t stress about work This is a backhanded compliment this whole video in general
This whole video is just pandering to alt-righters/incels/MGTOW, I'd be surprised if she believes any of it.
this is the most Andrew Tate ass video i have seen which doesn't have Andrew Tate in it 😭😭
😂😂😂
@Nullaereale-- are u mentally challenged?
😂😂😂
If only more women were this wise. If Keira's parents are not proud of her then they do not deserve her.
She is a total throwback to the old school (like REALLY old school, 2006) era of UA-cam. And she drills common sense into people’s heads with every video. Some of what she’s saying should be obvious but the sad truth is that in 2024 everything has gone backwards. Good for her and glad I subscribed.
@@ABCDyeahyeahyeah 2006 youtube was best youtube anyway
Not quite, go back to school of life. Get One! I dont bother stressing over markcist fems who hate men, as creepy! To hell with them!, I work and grow without women drag me down.
???? Do you know her? You cant say stuff like that about her parents, only seeing one simple video. Do not say things like that ever to people you dont even know.
Youre not the one to judge the deservance of a strangers parents.
Girl, I cannot relate to you. The first thing I think about when I wake up is never men....it's how can I acheive my goals. It's am i doing enough? Am I productive enough? Am I being too lazy?
And I don't think it's because I'm a lesbian either, I don't think most straight women spend their time since the moment they wake up concerned about men. That seems like a self esteem issue, an issue of seeking too much validation. Obviously most of us want romance, but you have to have a personality outside of men (or other women). You can't spend your life trying to please others constantly. Everyone must learn to feel complete alone first
She’s talking to and about straight relationships. Obviously this doesn’t apply to you since you like women
preachh
Yeah these videos are really weird, treating men and women like different species, I mean of course there are general differences, but the differences among individuals are also present, also it's ignoring the fact that these roles are made by rules and impositions through the centuries, and this is a fact... a woman that is not interested in men is not less of a woman, a man that doesn't think about sex everyday is not less of a man, and it's scary the amount of people thinking that she said some awesome realistic stuff
If you're a lesbian why are you watching this video clearly directed towards straight women. I also agree that men isn't all we think about but agree or not, it's definitely a significant thing 'most' women think about and its perfectly fine lol
you girls are simply more on the 'masculine' side. that's why you stress more about work and getting shit done
It would be nice to have an update in 10 years👌🏼
Her: What do we stress about the most?
Me : school?...
Her: MEN!
Me : ?!
It's like she's saying women don't have any inspirations and goals other than to please men 😭😭 Feels like i time-traveled and seeing a video from prehistoric times or something
@@zuzkhin4472 i know right! This is just idiocy fueled by her own desire not to achieve anything other than male attention and praise. She may think like that but the rest of us dont.
Yeah as a guy this is ridiculous lmao not every man is stressing about sex all the time so I'm sure woman aren't stressing about men all the time either. 😂 Like libido fluctuates some people might be like that (clearly her) but definitely not everyone most days I'm not thinking about sex or woman at all there's more to living than that
Right like she had something kinda but I'm not that simple no one Is
Think about how ridiculous you're making life by succumbing to the feminist brainwashing. All you have to do is look pretty, have sex, and not solicit other male attention. That's it! And all your earthly needs are handled by a man. You're arguing to spend time and money in school. School sucks that's why you're always looking forward to summer break. Working sucks. That's why you're always looking forward to the weekend. You're arguing to make your lives way more difficult. Why? Why do you want to compete with us and sit in traffic? Serious how can you not see how sweet a deal it is to be a traditional woman. Look pretty, have sex, only have eyes for one man and all your needs are met. I swear let God send me that deal I'm signing a blank sheet of paper and he can fill in the rest. That's all I have to do? I'm gone, you have to catch me to do anything else.
I cant belive how many agree with this. I couldn't disagree more
Simps will agree with anything a pretty girl has to say
People agree because they feel it's relatable and true. Which is also wrong. Getting your informations by your feelings. Just get an expert in the field that has good relationships around them and take advises from them.
ikr! Thank god, found a sane comment. This video was the easiest disagree for me. Not sure what her sample size was or whether it was diverse enough in the first place but this theory was bs.
She's not presenting it well, obviously, but she's objectively correct.
Yeah. Her perspective is narrow & she does a poor job communicating her points. It's nowhere near as revolutionary as the comments make it out to be
I dont stress about s3x. Catering to my hormones involves prioritizing physical fitness. I don't worry about validations. I can validate myself by learning to appreciate my own personal improvements, without outside interventions or opinions. But you did kind of hit this on the head. Civilization is largely narcissistic in a way where validation implies importance. You can be important without anyone telling you that you are, or treating you like you're a special little pillow encapsulated snowflake where everything you do and say *NEEDS* to be heard and reciprocated. Society is toxic.
S3X
I stress about my tax return to be honest....then I think "this isn't natural....nowhere in our evolutionary PAST did men stress about something as abstract as "taxes"...then it puts into perspective just how out of sync humanity(as well as men in particular) is with their instincts....
So society is very ANTI MALE in that regard...
So the fact I'm having all these thoughts highlights the fact I'm not actually "simple"...my thoughts are very COMPLEX(because of societal pressures)...and I'm thinking "it shouldn't be this way....and to COMPOUND the problem women think men are "SIMPLE" and only think about sex and food......I wish!....I WISH!!"..
I'm in a constant state of questioning my own existence
The road I drive on was actually paved by a woman. Very nice lady. She drinks at the restaurant I work for. My roof was also put up (partially) by a woman (my Grandmother) She literally helped put up the trusses and laid the shingles LOL. Work and Sex arent even in the top 10 things I stress about. Not even remotely close.
The men I've been most interested in are the ones that aren't in that simple category. They think deeper than food and sex by the hour.
Is that common, you think?
@@At76812in third world countries yes alot common
Stress about work on wake up, during the day and at bedtime; Waiting for the boom to fall, worried about falling behind and being discarded by the side of the road.
yeah but maybe we should not stress about, lol
Female circle of emotions:
🥰😊🙂😐🙁😡🥺😭💀🥰😊....
Male circle of emotions:
🙂😐🙂😭😐🙂😐🙂
Jk
😂😂😂
Neurotypical:
ASD:
@@scary5455
Neurotypical Women:
Polish Male:
LOL 😂
looks about right
I definitely don't stress about success and such, I just want to connect and find nurturing aspects; like friends, mates and such. Family is most important
Same
Ahhhh...the confidence of youth. I remember the unflappable opinions I had in my twenties. I remember having reductionist takes and reducing the complexity of most things to almost a binary. Then I grew older, had more experiences, and experienced others experiences.
was just coming to say something similar
Yeah nothing like a 20 something year old birdie who thinks they've cracked something. Good thing I was too embarrassed to post any of my genius theories and opinions when I was younger
Hahahah she talks like a single girl who just discovered what s*** is and coping
Girl is simple and is a 3/10 please tell me how she is pleasing her man?
Oooofff if i had a face like hers i would do a handstand and let my behind speak
I f*k wit you bro 😂🤣❤
"He just need some" quote of the yr
Bro's got 60IQ
@@Brookpitlikliterally
Your take is a portrayal of patriarchal femininity that oversimplifies and degrades human behavior to an extent that is unhealthy for both men and women. If I viewed life in such a shallow and limiting way, I would be so incredibly unfulfilled. I don't want to sound hateful; I just want to articulate how sad watching this made me. Thinking about those who agree with this and how shallow and un-enriching their lives must be. I hope you are able to wake up one day and stress about something other than the body carrying your consciousness and whether it is desirable enough to men who will never love you, trust you, or respect you. I hope these men that you speak of and that have spawned in your comment sections may one day wake up to a thought other than sex or work. How sad that labor and sexual pleasure are the only priorities in a world enriched with art, culture, nature, and connection. I value the establishment and fostering of a family, I value sexual pleasure, I value discussions regarding relationships between women and men that help us better connect and respect each other. However, I do not value or wish to spread an idea of life, the human condition, and masculinity and femininity that does not fulfill or enrich but rather dulls and degrades an idea that could be and is so much deeper and full of love and genuine spiritual connection.
You’re like a shot of espresso after all those coments. I would feel so shallow with that mindset Like my stress is my education and money not men 😂
that is so beautifully said, you really articulate everything i felt about this video in a way i never could.
@@christina619no fr
Oh, an awareness expert 🤣🤣
She read Simone de Beauvoir (prob only book that wasn't literature) and agreed to all that validation without any critic thinking. She awakes, opens insta or twitter and just absorbs all that neo feminist bubble content and learns 2 or 3 terms that might make her sound smarter, even though she doesn't even completely comprehend them. She never fact-checks her feminist friends and she's worried that being herself might be unpleasant for others, because she's the product of a very vile society that is against women
35 years old man here.. not sure why this video has been recommended to me but kudos to you, you nailed it.
She nailed all of these it’s quite brilliant actually
_...I wonder if she has a sister_ hahaa
nailed what? HUmans arent that simple lol
@@Brookpitlik You're Over/Thinking. It's alright, it happens eventually.
Sounds like she nails every morning for her man, yeah I can't 🤮
Well….this is a very naive perspective, but I appreciate that you had the balls to post it. While I don’t disagree with absolutely everything, I disagree with most of what you said. But you will learn more as you go on and hopefully by talking to women like me. I’m definitely up to talking and sharing my experiences and what I’ve learned with you to help broaden your lens!
Love how mature you responded to this.
You sound very single to me lmao
Don't lie to yourself. You know what she said is true.
@@WhatsBellow
I'm single and seek no desire to change that.
@@SsiyahNoLimits
That makes no sense.
As a man, i want to thank you. I' struggling with depression and anxiety, and i really needed something like this video to feel that men are valued. Nowadays i feel like most women thinks that all men are pigs, and, hopefully, i am not, and other are not, just some of us. Both sexes are needed and both men and women are better in other areas, so we need to cooperate with each other. Thanks you again 🙏💚
She values men? She's literally calling men dogs and thinks men are simple. It's tragic to see how low the bar is for men feeling valued in todays world.
men worry about job because this is a source of income. no income - no family and there is no backup coming. so at the end of the day men care about their families. The need for sex is even more natural, it is a need of the body. a person cannot stop drinking or eating for a week because he is in a bad mood, it doesn’t work like that
@Musicmanrobertwhen married they dont. they like to work like any western person but they expect man to carry family burden. more educated, enlightened, stable women rise above this biological urge. But young women are like this. Some women only want to work to see people and thus have options in this department. it is harder without money to buy nice clothes etc.
@Musicmanrobertyah that is why marriages cant last. "strong independent" = lonely person who cant cooperate or share. basicly semi narcissist to me. no wonder they are having constant mental disorders as if you are not truly that way by birth or childhood, "larping" will cause serious issues in life. In olden days, maybe 80s or 90s it worked like this regardless of what people said and seems to work roughly same in all countries in world.
@@effexonEven men can't be completely independent. They are dependant, as are women. Anyone who says, "I am independent", is a liar and delusional. Because we AS HUMANS are dependant on protection from other people and love and value given by our close ones and community. Without that we are just soulless beings walking on Earth without any purpose or thought.
@Musicmanrobert yes !! a woman worries also but her job and running a house etc and if she has children that's also running through her mind!!
It's just so horrible that men also have to grow and birth the babies. Oh wait, that's women who do that. 🙄
It's weird how women's contributions to humanity get played down while men's are played up. If women are so useless, then men can try to get offspring from other men. Good luck with that.
😂😂😂
As a stressed, overworked 30 year old man in these degenerate times, another video from you cheers me up. Thanks for this video, you're only stating the obvious, but it makes me feel theres hope for the future x
What's degenerate about these times?
@@Brookpitlik He doesn't have a wife I assume
Guess I'm a man for being stressed by work?
Finish the video so you don't have to. This girl basically just hates her own gender. Honestly reeks of self projection more than any sort of valid thought. Like your not stressed about work? No wonder you need a man so much. Your PATHETIC we get it just please don't act like all women are like this to validate yourself. Your not pathetic because your a woman your pathetic because thats just who YOU are.
Bro who married her is living the dream.
Fr
Simp.
Wake up he says the truth@@BattleBecause
@@antiochussoter377 Simp to you too.
@@BattleBecause cope
As a man, you’re completely right, men are simple, at least most of them. But, your point about “what a girl has to do every morning” is a problem to me. You’re more honest than a lot of girls about how sex is in a sense a system of control. You give the man sex, he keeps protecting and providing.
I don’t want to be treated as a sort of guard dog who gets rewarded with blowies. I’ve never truly accepted my “role”. For the record I would and have been protective of women, I’m talking more about intimate relationships rather than like a basic chivalry. My point though is I don’t agree heterosexual relationships should be an exchange where the male is entitled to sex, and the female entitled to material things. That’s prostitution. It sounds cynical, and it is, but that’s just what I would compare it to
Thank you for commenting on this. I also didn't agree with that part of her speech. I agree with the differences in hormones but those are just facts that more people should know. She's pretty young, I think she will rethink some of her views down the road.
i think she was trying to attack it from a more scientific route. how if he is taken care of in the morning, he can focus on the important things, not as an exchange, but with genuine loving motivation, because his head and hormones feel cleared and balanced, not because it’s prostitution.
right, and it also makes it sound like women don't have that need, only men do. when in reality most women also want sex, and it's something that benefits both ppl in the relationship
True. It's also a ridiculous point when you consider woman and men have a different libido individually, so the woman could be the one with the highest sex drive, and viceversa.
Agree!!
Keira. We _are_ equal. We are _not_ the same.
I wish people could make this distinction, because it's a vital one. It could repair a broken mankind.
We're not equals.
The same is equal.
@@connoryork6631 : You really don't get it, do you?
What you see in a population of distinct individuals is _dynamic equality:_ Precisely because we are different, it's not objectively possible to rank us from best to worst.
Within any one metric, ranking is indeed possible. One of us might be the strongest, the fastest, the best mathematician, the best quarterback, the most brilliant chess player, the most gifted physicist, the most imaginative sculptor, the most evocative poet, or the most talented musician. But one person isn't likely to be all those things. So, who's better: the musician or the quarterback?
Maybe God can objectively rank us, but we simply aren't qualified to do that. Therefore, we are in essence dynamically equal: better at some things, worse at others -- and who's to say what defines the "best" of us.
Indeed, it's _because_ we're different that we must consider ourselves equal. You might be able to say one apple is better than another -- you _might_ -- but will we all agree that apple A is superior to orange B?
This isn't even delving into the various values that change with time or conditions, or the consequences of each characteristic being a limited infinity unto itself, such that within the gamut containing it is an array of values as limitless and on as smooth a gradient as the set of all numbers from zero to one, all colors from red to orange, or all directions from north to northeast.
So, no. "Equal" is not "the same."
We are all individuals, unique and irreplaceable. And we are all dynamic equals.
Would you have it any other way?
@@connoryork6631 you clearly didn't understand the message this person conveyed🙄
semantic pilpul is useless, arguing about what this or that word means is a midwit take.
This feels dehumanizing
Someone under 30 that knows men and women are different the world is healing!!!!
Only if you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. No one can save expect God. We have ALL fallen short.
Everyone knows this, the game is to create chaos in every facet of life through the media so we all fight against each other. They whisper in your ear “that person over there is doing this and that to you” “You should hate them” and then they stand back and watch us all fight. They do this with every subject in life on purpose to keep us all fighting while they clean up.
@@global1007 or you just ignore bullshit and bring facts to the table instead
@@PYC1337 What bullshit exactly? Are these social problems not "bullshit"?
Tf does that even mean?
you may not realise how much the fact that young women like you exist feels so heart-warming and encouraging to so many men, and in any case certainly to me!! It gives me hope for the future. So thank you so much for stating these things!!
Here are some reminders for my fellow men: you are emotionally complex, you can invest on your emotional intelligence, you don't have to kill yourself working, you can be soft if you want to, you can have platonic female friends, you are not a slave to your sexual impulses. In short, your biological characteristics guide you, but they don't define you.
Thank you! I am a softer man in many ways - and I don't identify with all these characteristics they say that men "should" have. And yes I have decided to not care too much about what others think. I want to be the happy cheerful person I am without becoming cold and "tough" in a way I find bad.
Of course. But noone respects it. And part of developing emotional intelligence is realizing our emotions are trivial in the grand scheme. A man is expected to bring logic and ration to any situation, especially in a relationship. Women think we are simple although many of us really are not, but to break their paradigm would also break the relationship. Being soft is also different from being compassionate, and compassion is different from emotion. Be compassionate, let your emotions guide you, and be soft wherever possible, but remember that a man is meant to be thick skinned, unwaivering, and hardened towards things that pose a threat to our families. We are meant to be a stable and secure foundation that our family can lean on. If you can't provide that, you will always struggle in a relationship and will not be treated like a dignified man in any social situation. It's the hard truth all men learn. Don't let them see you falling off your horse.
There is nothing internal or external that defines us. It is the belief that this is the case that keeps us in prison.
@@minimal3734 Are you a Gnostic?
Ofc there are many many things, esp external, that define us. What about the fact that if someone shoots you with a gun in the head you die. That's a very clear definition of mortal that you aren't going to avoid.
@@minimal3734 Biological reality and human nature isn't a prison, it's just there. It's a natural process. We will always be defined by factors outside of our control. Did you know that the foods and drinks you ingest and the quality of the air you breathe in affects your decision-making without you realizing it? Do you realize how many things affect our subconscious without us even knowing about it?
I disagree, it's extremely belittling to hear someone act as though men are these simple creatures that just focus on work and need sex.
You female right?
@@VincentLacar No I'm a guy. Coming back to this video I'm noticing not only is she completely wrong about men, she's also completely wrong about women. Gender doesn't magically decide my priorities in life, and I certainly don't function as a sex powered drone.
@@noobsaibot8199 That’s because men nowadays are overly feminine, lack purpose and depression and loneliness statistics are peaking.
Find a man who respects himself, lives a fulfilling life, is generally at peace, and they will have these traits. These are the people who are actually ready to be in a healthy relationship.
Every-man wakes up in the morning with a woody!😀
I think it happens 4 or 5 times a night. A man's body is designed for that.
😂😂😂
True, male hormones peak at 7 or 8am and ready for action, then we stress about working to keep this woman happy.
poke poke poke....
Finally a woman with sense common sense thumbs up love👍
Go Girl-This man says you got this!
It's making me sad that from an environnement you can have those assumptions, even if there's biological things that happens, there are A LOT of shades, nuances to mens and womens. Everything is more complex that it appears so, and I know you know that. The thing we need to think of, is being just, right based on the personnality, the person you have in front of you. Try to know deeply, maybe a lot more are simpler than we think, maybe you'll never know how they feel.
I don’t agree with a lot of this. Men are complicated, but often quiet. U talk about men and women in absolutes when most people are unique. This video is ridiculous! Men simping in the comments too is crazy!!
@@MannyHaribo-tech “Men are complicated but often quiet”
The hell are you even talking about
Wow. Not only do you understand, you have put yourself out there in an attempt to educate other women, regardless of potential backlash. I admire your level of raw honesty. My compliments. God bless you.
She is very wrong and so are you! I hope you will one day realize. God Bless!
@millyofdaworldhola984 real quick, what part was she wrong about?
@detroitloVeSeverybody she was wrong for saying that when women wake up in the morning, they think about men and men are thinking about sex and work. She was wrong that women should please a man and give them what they want. She is making women sound like helpless workers who need men and making all men like horrible sexiholics.
Educating women who's first thought of the day is about men
She actually wrong on so many levels
This video is a textbook example of outdated gender essentialism masquerading as biological fact. The idea that men "wake up thinking about work" because of testosterone while women "stress about men" because of some subconscious drive to find a husband is not only reductive but also dismisses the complexities of human psychology, individuality, and societal influence.
1. Biology vs. Social Conditioning - While hormones influence behavior, they don’t dictate our thoughts or priorities in such a rigid, binary way. Testosterone doesn’t make men inherently work-driven, just as estrogen doesn’t make women preoccupied with relationships. These are societal narratives that have been reinforced for centuries.
2. Over-Simplification of Stress - Men and women both experience stress related to work, relationships, and countless other aspects of life. The notion that men are “practical” while women are “emotional” is a stereotype that ignores the reality of modern life, where women juggle careers, ambitions, and personal lives just as much as men do.
3. The “Men Built Everything” Argument - Yes, historically, men dominated fields like construction and infrastructure-but that wasn’t due to inherent superiority; it was because women were excluded from those roles. Today, women contribute to every sector of society, from engineering to medicine to politics, and the world isn’t crumbling because of it.
4. Reinforcing Limiting Beliefs - Content like this doesn’t “empower” anyone; it just reinforces restrictive gender roles that keep both men and women from reaching their full potential. Telling men they exist to work and women that they exist to find a husband doesn’t help anyone-it just perpetuates outdated norms that many people are actively working to dismantle.
If the goal was to provide insight into gender differences, this misses the mark by leaning into oversimplified, one-size-fits-all logic. Humans are more complex than “men work, women stress about men.” Let’s move past narratives that do nothing but keep people stuck in limiting boxes.
Interesting topic, will watch when I have some time 👍
Wtf
Watch it now.
@@Username-ei4ff Yeah I did, I honestly think she has a very good idea of how a man's brain works, valuable person imo
@@lowgpu1687 Rewatch it now.
why would women stressing about work would be masculine? a woman can have a job which she is passionate about and wants to do it in the best way possible.
Because evolution shows work is a masculine trait
@@whosflair3716 no way you are calling such a general term as work a masculine trait. both women and men worked throughout the human history.
She pandering to dumb gullible guys,
@@whosflair3716Literally how? Not working is for the lazy, and trust me women are NOT lazy.
@@whosflair3716women worked since the dawn of time. Saying otherwise is at most ludicrous and delusional at best.
The first thing that a man thinks about in the morning is - his purpose. What is my purpose? Am I succeeding? Am I happy? Am I a good father or friend or husband?
A womans hormones doesn't regenerate every 28 days. Your body is producing both estrogen and testosterone every day. The menstruation cycle is something else.
lol proof she doesn't know what she's talking ab.
Sorry, you are so wrong.
@@noelle7786And you are more wrong to trust an idiot.
When was the last time you saw a Man whose greatest stress in life was the amount his testosterone levels fluctuate everyday.
@@locinolacolino1302 : You need to look at this the other way around. A mans stress levels will definitely affect his testosterone values. So will poor sleep, low quality food and obesity as well. As a general rule, your T-levels are at their highest early in the morning, and at their lowest in the later stages of the day. The point is that the woman in this video doesn't know what she is talking about.
This is hilarious.
Stressing about work isn’t a thing associated with healthy men, no. I don’t think I’ve ever once been stressed about sex. I’m definitely not simple; no man I know is simple. You may be mixing up the notion of simplicity and that of being straightforward.
You should check your information.
I've checked her information and shes' absolutely right!!! You must be a very young man.
bro what are you even talking about? Oxford defines simple as "used to convey that something is very straightforward." they literally have the same meaning. And yes me and every male friend of mine stress more about work than anything else. Even scientific studies show that men's happiness depends most on their work.
@@capacitor8399 Straightforward has a second usage you conveniently forgot: frank or honest.
Come back with evidence that being stressed is a healthy trait and I’ll be interested.
You’ve challenged nothing I said.
I believe you get her overall point, as overt and simplistic as it may be.
Hilarious is just the start.
Regardless of the inaccuracy on talking points, she’s gathering a decent fan base…good for her.
Don’t allow yourself to get caught up believing everything said as truth here.
Approach the talking points with a healthy logical mindset and ask yourself…where’s the evidence to back up these claims.
As a man, i stress about whether or not im gonna have enough time and will in the day to satisfy my dopamine needs by doing something healthy
Thank you!! Oh my god I can't understand how it's been so normalized that men care about sex more than they care about their actual partners 😔
@@maddieweaver2942 Are you sure you replied to the right comment? Im not connecting sry :D
@@k1ttyyh i guess it just sounded like you were saying youd rather have a fun healthy life than have a bunch of sex and it was just a relief to hear since the video makes it sound like its ALL men think about 😌
You are wholesome ❤
@@SH-to8sh thats so sweet thank you 🥺🥰
Nope. He'll still cheat.😂😂
well, that's wrong on their part then. not the girl
Men are simple... and yet amazing:)
I think men are just as emotionally complex as women. The difference is that men are discouraged from showing their emotions.
We really are. A lot of men are just as petty and insecure as women. Many men want to complain about coworkers and other assailants as much as women do, its just we feel like pussies when we do.
Yeah, because men are also humans.
Personally it makes me feel flat out uncomfortable and weird doing it, so whether it is discouraged or not doesn't matter to me. It is what I think of it
@@bluegiant13 Same here. But there is certainly cultural pressure and influence that makes men seek to hold face with a calm equilibrium. Especially so here in England, which is traditionally stoic and reserved.
@@cerdic6586 Yeah, but these norms have come from somewhere and it likely is that they are rooted in our natural proclivities anyway. It is not that I am unable to express my emotions, I can do that well enough with good friends and they can do it as well, but the way we do it is not in a cathartic or intense type of way like women. We go about it calmly, for example, we like to be honest and when we don't like a behavior of someone we just say how it makes use feel .e.g.: Hey, when you do this it makes me feel x. Simple and straightforward.
Trust me, you’re wrong.
The men who I respected the most and gave the most sexually treated me like absolute garbage.
The men who I set the bar higher for treat me better.
Also, my biggest stressors are not periods, men, or children. It’s probably the same as everyone else: money, stability, peace, and the people closest to me.
Then look for a man who wants you for you, not for your body
For me as a man...taxes...finances....
My own mortality and existential dredd(thoughts that ive wasted my life or have missed opportunities)...
Then it passes me off when women have CHARICITURE views that men are SIMPLE creatures who only think about food, beer and sex....
No..I think about MEANING in my life all the time.
There are, in fact, bad men. She's talking about good men. The difference is wolves versus sheepdogs. And she's right, about good men. At the very least, she is trying.
You are living in delusion. This women is right!!!
@@vasserviserbgd6431 Do you actually think that the first things women stress about in the morning are men, children and our appearance ? Maybe if we had no responsibilities or if we were housewives but nowadays most of us work and worry about what the comment above said. That doesn’t make me any less of a woman tho!
I stress about work. I dont stress about men.
Yes,everyone difference. Regardless of gender.
Yes we are different hormones but
The cultural background and upbringing, whether I am independent or in need of a man and the environment-if everything were treated equally 100%, I believe the differences would not be noticeable."
ikr 😂 I am a man and couldn‘t care less about these things. Working the whole day, the last thing a man needs is stress about women after work
I'm so happy this is coming from a women rather than us men saying this and getting cancelled once again thank you for acknowledging us
I ain't a dog, lady.
Come on skeletor swampfire guy dont be boring, be one of the boys! one of the dogs woof!
🤣🤣🤣 Right?!!! 😂
@@reynauldwhistles2338yikes
😂😂wtf pro she shouldn't have compared men and women cause as men we are different than they thinking.
men are kings and knights, thinkers, scientists, artists, and much more 😅
If women were like this woman, this will be a happy world to live in.❤❤❤
I second that
I disagree. This whole video made no sense.
Basically a women with no ambition and goals and someone who's entire life revolves around men and children
What. A. Joke!
And thank you for objectifying me, real hypocritical of you. Out here making me sound like a cave man for needing some companionship.
Forgive the unusual show of humanity, I'll return to the social programming beat into me by public school don't worry.
I just have to say before I return to being an automaton.
You will never have honest love if you can't see men as human as well
Big misconception - a man stresses about work because he A) wants to have sex, or B) has kids to take care of. Between A and B, B will always win for good men.
Edit: C) Wants status, D) Actually has a goal in life
Obviously D would be a good sign.
So, simply put, if you want simple men, treat them as if they are simple.
THANK YOU. I genuinely don't say this to judge anyone but it really disturbs me to hear "a man needs sex, not you." Like... I find it really sad that this mentality is considered normal and I feel sorry for the girl who made this video because she thinks this is just how it is because men have always treated her like this😔
@@maddieweaver2942 I think that men can change the order of their priorities throughout the life, but this three ones are really true... another point it's that she told about what we need not what we want or what we like, men really don't need women to survive just like women don't need men to survive... but what we need and what we love and want are different things... (as humans we obviously need each other, but as individual in society we can live without others)
@@maddieweaver2942surprised so few people are commenting on this!! This whole video and comment section are honestly just a bit disappointing to me
@@devinicin men and women also don't need sex to survive, either though. I'd say it's a lot closer to the truth that men and women need relationships and bonding way more than they need sex; sex should ideally be a healthy aspect of a relationship if you're not asexual, but the relationship should always precede that and it sounds like she's saying the opposite. I guess a lot of men do prioritize sex over women but I think that will lead to a lonely life later with a lack of close relationships
@@devinicin we literally do need eachother to survive. we need to reproduce and for that, men need women and women need men
What have i entered into here 😅 This is a weird corner of the internet
I always get this videos below the ones I searched for
Exactly 😂
Are you 5?
i think this is satire
the algorithm suggested this to me, when am I?
I don't stress about work, I stress about money which makes me work😂
Yep, exactly...if i had unlimited money...I would not stress about work lol
yeah
That's the point
thats what she meant bruh, yall acting slow
ok so you don't stress about money, you stress about the security it gives to you
You're right. Men are simple, with simple needs. One insight is the one thing a man needs every day. Yes, we need it. It doesn't mean we're animals, it means we want to affirm and build our relationship with you. If that disgusts you, you don't deserve your man.
you do not need sex every single day
@@Nick-ij5nt No, they dont. But dudes will want sex frequently because for most dudes its the peak of intimacy. For a lot of dudes sex is an incredibly intimate act. If a dudes gf/wife/etc doesnt want to have sex with him he will 100 percent take it personally.
@@adas2051 I'm a dude, I know.
@@Nick-ij5nt Speak for yourself. We need the emotional connection to help our relationship flower, we need the physical release to help us keep from straying.
Being sneered at by our woman over our needs doesn't do anything good for the relationship btw
@@gerbenhoutman9348 I'm not saying men don't need sex at all, I definitely agree that if your girl doesn't give you any sex at all that's probably gonna destroy the relationship in the long term. My contention is needing it every single say. If you need sex every single day then you're very immature, sorry.
It has been obvious to me since I was about 14 that females are much more complex than us guys. Glad you have come to that conclusion too. We all need each other because our differences are so complimentary.
You are awesome!!
lol
absolutely wrong! the number of views on this video and all these comments (mostly from men) agreeing with this stupid ass take..
Thank god someone sees it too!! This is a sad video!! t's almost like an A.I video where a man wrote the text for this young woman. She basically is an example of internalized misogyny. The way she describes women is like they are there to exist solely in relation to men, not for themselves. She basically does not condemn marital rape because sex is simply what a man needs and a woman should provide that, she does talk about differences in hormonal cycle but just to say that "you're mad at your man for no reason."...oh god this was frustrating to watch. I thought this was going to be more of a feminist video so I expected her to say that women worry about men because the rates of SA and rape are so high and women feel unsafe but instead she perpetuates the idea the world revolves around men and women basically wake up and go to bed thinking about men -_- And she says women should look good "and present in a way so that a man wants us" because only then a men stays with you. And then she says a man does not need a woman just sex? Oh my lord. And she talks about not wanting to play the victim and act like she's better than men which is basically her being anti-feminist. This is an insanely misogynistic video and reminds me men are not the only misogynistic people because so many women still have internalized misogyny. And does she realize a lot of women work and worry about their job too, like what world does she live in? Men work and women are just mothers and housewives? Women also build stuff, they work. And all the men agreeing :( Sorry for this rant lol
Quality woman. Quality person.
She's unusually level headed, very reasoned and direct. Obviously has men in her family she loves.
And here I thought each individual had their own unique thoughts
about .1% of the population now
You, sir, are funny 😂😂 but yea, that's why I ran to the comments. You guys give a fuller picture. I believe nothing is "all inclusive" because, realistically, there are exceptions to everything. That's just my opinion, though.
They do....but not that unique.
woah, ok? woah. we're all clones of each other, that's why some ignoramus youtuber who has only seen males in non-personal setting, and maybe 5-10 males in personal settings, can make videos like this. She even made a weird connection between morning wood and work. but whatever, this behaviour is all over the place. everyone knows how things work from their experiences in life so there's nothing we can say to them.
shhhh
I agree. Men and women are different. BUT saying that men only stress about work and sex and women only about men and being loved etc, is dumb.. That's just not true. Men stress about women, women stress about men, men stress about work, women do too stress about work, men want to be loved, women want to be loved. We all want to be important and valued.
I’m a women and I stress about work when I wake up lol. Never have I stressed about men haha.
She's obviously a Pick-me girl, wanting approval from Manosphere dudes.
On average pal
THANK YOU. I am a woman and I stress about my career. I've known plenty of men who are driven by drama and also men who are more in touch with their emotions. I've known women who are career-driven and don't care for gossiping. Thinking in terms of a collective whole is harmful for not only the people who are stereotyped but the person who thinks that way. We are all individuals at the end of the day and think differently despite stereotypes.
@@nate2759 you may be lesbian
Oh honey, you have much to learn
As a man; I don’t agree with this sentiment. I’m not simple, that’s simple.
most men are, not all. most men just want a normal life. normal means, peace, love, health, a home. I'm not one of those men, lol
I was simple then life happened.
It's so refreshing to see a man in the comments disagreeing as opposed to the thousands of likes on the comments talking about how she hit it spot on 😔 I'm just reminding myself that these videos tend to reach a certain audience and that this hopefully isn't how most of the world thinks
@@maddieweaver2942 it does just appeal to the “traditional” ideal in men, and from the context of my life, as a guy, I don’t believe men are simple, but so many succumb to cultural expectations of being simple. Have a good day, the world is better than the internet makes it out to be
@@babymonkey4601 Thanks :) You're right, I think many men, and apparently women, do succumb to it. But clearly it's not as simple as making generalizations! I hope you have a good day too