Perfectionism Masked My Fear of Rejection (and how I healed)

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  • Опубліковано 3 січ 2025

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  • @sonalfennema4546
    @sonalfennema4546 4 дні тому

    Yes, i can totally relate to what you are saying. My mind can agree with what i see myself doing and surrender would also be the key for me. Yet I really don't know how. I see myself struggle and suffer. Video's like this, a woman at peace, seemingly found the key, fuel that part of me who likes to beat myself up... 😢.

    • @BoostOfJoy
      @BoostOfJoy  4 дні тому

      Hello ❤
      Thanks for your important comment. I appreciate you taking the time to write it. Surrender is a much bigger topic and you will have your own unique journey to find it. I did find it helpful to remember that in these moments when we feel we can’t let go, and we end up feeling powerless- to realise that we are actually losing our energy when we choose to give it to our need to judge ourself or another. When we choose not to give our power (energy) away in these moments in the form of judgement/anger, we retain our energy. Otherwise it just drains into an endless void. I found that helped me with letting go of the need to control. I also made a longer video about the struggle with surrender if it spikes your interest. All the best in this journey! ❤

    • @sonalfennema4546
      @sonalfennema4546 4 дні тому

      @BoostOfJoy thank you ❤️

    • @BoostOfJoy
      @BoostOfJoy  День тому

      @@sonalfennema4546 Also, I find it helpful in those moments when I get irritated or angry by someone's actions, to recognise that by not accepting the 'flaws' in another, there is a part of me I am not accepting. So it's a beautiful opportunity to turn the lens around to myself and see where I am not loving myself in total acceptance. I've also found it really helpful to accept that we are living in an extreme time of polarity where people are choosing to polarise to self or service to the whole. By fully accepting that there are those making the choice to polarise to self, it makes it easier to navigate this chaotic time and not pour our attention into trying to change anything external (direct our energy into the projection). I.e., accepting that we can live in unshakeable inner peace despite the external manifestation of the collective anxiety that is expressing. I hope my ramblings make some sense. Lots of love to you.

  • @razorsharpbt124
    @razorsharpbt124 4 дні тому

    Hi there, Malise! 🙂

    • @BoostOfJoy
      @BoostOfJoy  4 дні тому +1

      @@razorsharpbt124 Hi Razorsharp! ❤️