Don’t Feel Harmed, And You Haven’t Been | The Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius
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Marcus Aurelius pointed out that regardless of the severity of circumstances, there’s always a choice in how we judge them. “Choose not to be harmed-and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed-and you haven’t been,” he stated. Marcus’ instruction sounds easy, but it’s difficult to apply if we don’t understand what causes us to feel harmed and when we don’t have the wisdom to make a change. Luckily, the ancient Stoics provide this wisdom.
The work Meditations by Marcus Aurelius contains several ideas that shed another light on the experiences we usually consider harmful. His writings allow us to see our lives differently and change the way we think about the hardships we face, so we can be, as he wrote it, “like the rock that the waves keep crashing over.” This video expands upon several passages from the Meditations that could help us feel less harmed. Don’t feel harmed, and you haven’t been - The Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius
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00:00 - Intro
02:45 - The pain of judgment
06:33 - Are we asking the impossible?
09:56 - Seeing the beauty in adversity
12:57 - Focusing on ourselves
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Your channel is one of the reasons why I'm still alive. Thank you.
Give yourself a little more credit than that, please.
God bless...
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You are the reason why you're still alive. You're doing great :)
I know what you mean.
*"The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts."*
- Marcus Aurelius
That's a misquotation actually
@@licandres01 would you honor us by pointing out your view ?
And the quality of your thoughts depends upon how your life is going.
@a moron op?
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT MARCUS AURELIUS.(in my humble opinion).
I'll do a RETURNISHAN (PUN):
*"The quality or satisfaction of your life depends essentially on the quality of your thoughts" *
*"Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one."*
- Marcus Aurelius
“Quote” - Some Guy
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That's a good one
@@markofsaltburn 00qÀàa,Àà
- the guy who spent much of the meditations writing what characteristics make a good man
"It's not our problem when people hate or despise us. It's their problem". - Marcus Aurelius
Do you like Bulgaria?
Yes!!!
depends on what they are willing to do to us
Yes and no
Was it not a quote by Adolf Hitler?
Where has this therapist been my entire life
There is a channel called daily stoic.
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My exact thoughts when I saw this in my recommended.
Did not expect to find my favourite UA-cam in the comments section here - hmu if you’re in Vienna anytime soon :D
Stoicism has done more for my mental health than any drug or doctor ever could
Agreed
You haven't tried mushrooms 🍄
@@undrwatropium3724 I’ve done both. No reason they can’t both be equally helpful, or one might be more helpful for you. I think they work well together though.
What I don't like about stoicism is the slight smell of nihilism and selfishness.
Stoicism seems like a prime candidate for tedtalkificated corruption. (If it would be corruption at all.)
Loss is nothing but change, and change is nature's delight. - Marcus Aurelius.
“I’m living everyday like a hustle, another drug to juggle. Another day, another struggle.” - Biggie Smalls
Thank you, needed this.
Ok ok . I was raped as a child by my brother he refuses to even say he is sorry . what change should i feel the world had in mind for me ?I am working at fixing his mess he left for me at now 43 .
Truth
@@montacap sorry to hear that
"Dishonest, jealous and shameless people are part of this world... Is a world without shameless people possible?" I have to embrace this instead of being appalled or offended by it.
so true .
@@meditationmusicvlogs7445 so me indeed.
Lying and jealousy is definitely something I've always despised throughout my whole life but I don't think being shameless is bad. People who want you to feel ashamed are only using it as a power tool. When you let go of any shame that you have, your life will actually be much better and productive. It does not make you a bad person at all, yet everybody out there is trying to make you feel ashamed for everything like eating meat or whatnot. Fuck that shit! Live your life and do as you please. Feeling ashamed is good for noone.
It's the Yin/Yang of Life. Embrace the Dark. Trust me, I know. Gonna get a Yin/Yang for my next tattoo.
@@True38 shame is usually used against others to control them. being shameless might just make you a bad ass. Depends on what you are doing, though. Directly harming others doesn't make you a bad ass - just bad and an ass.
"For the mind that expects too much, life is continually at fault" ... excellent 👌
So what classifies as too much then I think is the question? Obviously everyone would define that differently but how? How do we weigh an expectation to conclude whether it's too much or not? Somewhere I once heard that expectation equals desire+belief in the same place. If that is the case, then 90% of our expectations are actually just desires. Just us asking for things but not believing in the possibility of having them, hence the eventual disappointment. So I suppose the statement holds truth, sure - don't expect more than what you're able to believe in and you won't be disappointed. But how if not through aiming for more can we get more? How would one grow their faith if not by asking for more, although... we've already done plenty of asking... so I suppose it's time we focused on bolstering our faith, our ability to believe in the possibility of having what we want, whatever that may be. Because desire without belief is a contradicting state, one which feels anything but good.
Entitlement comes to mind.
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The mind that expects very little might be the cause for the cynicism we observe.
"The universe is change; our life is what our thoughts make it."
- Marcus Aurelius
Really so my thoughts at 8 years old made my brother rape me now my thoughts told me if you want to keep alive shut down all memories . then at 20 i got married and found a man that did not want to hurt me . That woke up the beast called flashbacks which came with rage blinding pain and decades of hate . But yes thoughts are what makes life happen . He was 17 I was 8 . When the flashbacks came I called him and told him he called me a liar mom told me she still loved her son . So I cut them all out . My rapist " brother " has found god and told him sorry but still has not told me sorry . My oldest brother is trying to get us together for a "family" reunion . Really ?
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@montacap I have a similar case of ptsd but we really did shape our memory loss by our thoughts and emotions by repressing them so we don’t hurt as much, there’s no drug out there can fix this kind of trauma, it’s time and better thoughts, the longer we spend hell bent on the event that caused us suffering the longer we continue to suffer, I’ve learned now to move on but I have little memory of life because I chose to let go of the past, at least I’m here to live and to improve and I live in the moment now, something I struggled with before
@@JZGreengo Actually there is something like a drug, it's called Ayahuasca. It's considered the most powerful psychedelic known to man. Personally I'll be on my way to having that experience in a few months cuz no matter what I do and how much I improve, some way somehow I always revert back to the shitty thoughts that make me wanna kms... And sure, it's about thoughts and shit but one can't deny there are things buried inside so deep we may not even remember them and yet these things still control us and hence our lives.
@@sterix_gg I get it but from my own experience, drugs do nothing, they just provide temporary relief
Anticipation of pleasure is, in itself, a very considerable pleasure. And anticipation of pain is, in itself, a very considerable suffering. 👀
I understand this deeply, looking forward to the bowl at the end of the day is better than the actual bowl at the end of the day.
Anticipation of pleasure leads to addiction because it sets in motion the expectation that the thing anticipated will automatically provide pleasure. Then we get the habit of thinking that pleasure absolutely depends on that external something.. and we give away our power to generate happiness by relaxing into the mind itself.
@@silentrotation6541 yep I also understand intimately.
Pain is a moment - suffering is a story
You are applying different standards. Pain can span time as stories can. Pain over time is already a story.
*Suffering is pain resisted.* - It doesn't need a time function. The moment you are experiencing pain, you can suffer through resistance in that moment.
“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” - Marcus Aurelius
I really wish. Unfortunately words do hurt us.
But thanks for reminding us of these aspirational words.
@@favouritemusic8959
_Sticks and stones are hard on bones._
_Aimed with angry art,_
_Words can sting like anything._
_But silence breaks the heart._
- Phyllis McGinley
When the harm started in your childhood, the journey to stop perceiving/feeling harm is long and arduous.
As an adult I looked forward to leaving that pain behind. But I ran into new pain.
When I was younger I accepted any treatment I received from anyone. The moment I believed I deserved to be treated better endless amounts of suffering entered my life. You can try to avoid some misfortune by surrounding yourself with people that will likely respect you but that isn’t a guarantee that they will and the general population will still treat you as they see fit. Now that I accept that how people treat me is their right and just a reflection of who they are not who I am I do feel more at ease.
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But if we are attacked by someone, they still have to pay the price by going to jail. I guess the tutorial is just about how to accept the pain of what happened and not dwell on it.
this is very interesting.
if you look for your happiness from things ouside of you, you will not find it.
my hope for you is you learn to build your world as you see fit.
thanks, gonna apply this to my life. :)
🙌🙌 going through this now, and came to the same conclusion. I deserve to be happy, and if anyone else has a problem with it, that’s their issue, not mine. No matter who they are to me, if they cannot respect my wishes, it is not my problem
The most insightful technique marcus aurelius taught is negative visualization. It's in your ability to imagine the worst possible scenario and accept it that we'll then be able to live as true stoics.
🙏🏽 I needed to read this just now. Thank you for sharing 🌻
Would this be a kind of shadow work?
I am just starting to really learn how to use spirituality not just for discovering the transcendent dimension within me but also use this capacity to help my poisonous or cancerous tendencies to evolve.
So it seems like the concept of shadow work is that practical part that I was searching for in all the awakening teachings. I would really appreciate it if some of you guys could talk about this and their experience of embodying awakening and evolving.
Samurais did that too.
It sounds fascinating! I am going to look that up and learn how it is done! I am good at blaming and judging, perhaps this will help me get those things under control.
@@fujimuto4277 To be honest, I don't really think it's a spiritual thing. It's just a matter of imagining the worst possible fate so that you're prepared for it and aren't caught off guard.
Philosophy keeps me alive. It gives me perspective. It allows me to enjoy the worst days of my life. Philosophy is the food for spirit.
I am diagnosed with PTSD years ago, and I've stopped getting treatment because I don't feel any better and instead I tried walking and spending more time on nature. I stayed at a countryside in the Philippines for almost 6months, slowly and slowly I found my peace and I realized that the person inside this skull is different from the person outside of it; so slowly I tried controlling my thoughts by meditating and taking a long walks to the hill, and picking woods on my wayback, (I didn't just find peace I also have a wood to cook my meals and keep me warm 😂) that's how and what I did to get sane, to take control over my thoughts and mind.
Sounds tranquil
I problem with therapy is that you are encouraged to re live trauma. That keeps the trauma fresh.
Nature walks help me as well.
"Stoicism is a great practice because it helps us to accept everything that is happening around us and have an abundance mindset"
it really isn't, it's self destructive as a growth philosophy. ( good idea, bad in practice in all aspects of daily life)
@@yamum6498 ok “Ya Mum” I’ll take your philosophical advice. What would you offer as an alternative?
@@Bobin10101 Do drugs
@@yamum6498 And why did it help marcus an emperor? And what alternative do you have?
@@husseinmoussa2947 Alternative: make up your own mind.
Relinquish expectations is necessary to avoid pain and suffering. We’ve become too attached to comfort anyhow
Good point , my Punjabi sister
True, but so so so hard
How is that not "losing hope"?
@@jesse6029 qq
So true!
"Fear is pain arising from the anticipation of evil." ~ Aristotle 🙏🏽♥️
@Auhuhhuu being attacked or killed by a grizzly bear is an "evil". Your not giving the quote its fair due.
@Auhuhhuu Would you call yourself getting mauled by a bear a good then? If not, then point proven. The act of the bear attacking you is evil/bad for you, the bear itself is not.
@Auhuhhuu in can be in relation to man. Aristotle was most likely smart enough to differentiate nature from the capability of evil. Your own example is keeping you from other perspectives of the words
It took me forever to realize that regardless of how I wanted individual situations to work out, my wishes were irrelevant. Things happen as they should. It also took me forever to realize that all of those outcomes lead me to exactly where I am now, so I'm glad things happened as they did instead of how I wanted at the time.
“Choose not to be harmed, and you won’t feel harmed.” I really like this stoic prospective.
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#3 The background music is a perfrct fit
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Your voice and the way you speak in these videos, bro it's like everything is right and blended just perfectly.
Thank you very much for your compliment!
True
Yes, you are so right. I hear it all the same way! I hope he keeps it going like this.
Well said
@ Why are you getting so invested over a compliment? 😉 Shouldn't you be equally excited about hatred coming your way? 😉
"Keep your expectations low and you'll never be disappointed" -Kratos
* "You have to have high aspirations, moderate expectations and small needs" * -William Howard Stein.
And let's not forget this in't about toothache or a mild depression. This was written by a soldier, in an age without modern medicine. Pain, sickness and loss were a daily part of life those days.
You can experience he did today with modern medicine
you forgot to mention brutal forms of torture.
@@paige172 torture rape and death. Those good old times hey 😅
it wasn't written at all, just a past presentation of an afterthought of a man just as special as you or i.
@@yamum6498 yep, a Roman emperor, with total power over everyone and everything, yet being able not letting that power corrupt him , but living the life of a stoic instead ..Just like you or i . Nothing special hey ?
Finally fully embracing Buddhist non attachment has freed me from so much.
Same.
So now you are attached to non- attachment😬
@@Mugairyuiai not really. I know that even at my age, I can still waver and give too much attention to things outside of my control.
This is exactly what I've been saying for over a year especially: Stop believing everything dang thing you think.
Watching this, it felt like there was a giant wrench in my brain turning a rusty bolt and releasing some great tension in me. I actually feel at peace.
Ah that was a deeply satisfying analogy
Beautiful Eric
@@aw7331 thank you! 🥹❤️👍🏻
It’s always difficult for me to describe what’s going on in my head, especially since I’m on the spectrum. So whenever I do manage to express myself correctly it feels miraculous.
Bro i started watching ur "self hate" video to help my girlfriend and now i listen to you 24/7... even in class, lunch, on the bus.... ur voice is just so calm and it makes me calm
You have made me realize the error of my ways... I tried to change the world and in turn let it change me....
"The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane." - Marcus Aurelius
If governments were sincere in wanting to save money, they would build asylums for the sane rather than for the demented.
@@Esmeralda-gt6uf everyone is demented. Most demented are those who appear the most ‘normal’.
That's for sure
"Can't touch this" - MC Hammer
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“Can’t Hurt Me” - David Goggins
I'm reading Stoicism for inner peace. It's a freaking masterpiece, man, congratulations 😋
This is the art form I am trying to practice the most. To be in a chaotic room, filled with people, but internally being at peace. Contentment is true happiness 🤘 heaven isn't something someone else can give, it's all inside of you
You can feel that way and tell yourself that but if the trauma is serious it may build into a breakdown and become worse later than it originally would have been. In my experience processing it healthier than choosing to not be harmed.
That's the paradox isn't it?
@@jepsen1977 hmm, I'm not sure. That's just my experience in "choosing to not be harmed".
Yeah, it's a kinda fine line between acceptance and victim blaming.
If people who went through certain circumstances experience the same kind of problems afterwards, is it really a problem of those people's minds?
I think it's good to work on both, getting more resilient, but also changing the circumstances when possible
@@incanthatus8182 good point. I use to feel really ashamed from victim blaming from Christianity and even new ageism or secular people with no experience of what I deal with that its just mind over matter. This would have had the same affect but I'm numb to it now and keep those people at a distance. I just accept health issues and being an hsp isn't always a choice. Perhaps that's the best I can do not to be harmed. Interesting topic.
Sometimes to got ta scream and shout let it all out
It is not that you are harmed and feel nothing, that would be psychotic. Its the level to which you let that harm dictate things upon receiving it. Rememeber, you are still capable of so much, no matter what happens. Imagination is alwats what frees us.
"Can't hurt me " said David Goggins 😂
I don't know if Goggins have read stoic philosophy. But if he hasn't - and he has come to the same conclusion as people like Marcus Aurelius through introspection - that makes stoic philosophy ever more solid; like a more universal Truth. When a perspective survives over time and over cultural space, then - to me - it seems much more legit.
Exactly. 👍💪
a con man, a fraud. don't bring him here.
In some degree this goes for aging, sickness, diet, lifestyles... If you worry about something it will grow. Of you forget or give no attention to something it will usually shrink. I have been thinking of this in terms of how some people can live as drug addicted , homeless, thieves. Yet seem to live such a destructive life for years without much visible effect. I have come to feel that atleast a good portion of these people exist in this way because they do not have shame of it. And in alot of ways actually enjoy what they do. But the addicts who hate themselves and feel ashamed, alot of this type will deteriorate quickly.
Accepting the unacceptable is a very difficult task, because we are human beeings ! Thank You Marcus and Einzelg - as gold to ones soul !
Exactly at one of the toughest days in my life this channel was recommended to me and saved my life. You are a blessing to the world for making these videos
I try to be a stoic and it does help me in times of crisis. I come from a family of perennial worriers and that would also explain the predisposition towards heart disease and suicide which also runs in my family. Reading philosophy and meditation has helped me get through things which would’ve broken me before. I guess you just have to learn to let go and be as least resistant to things and go with the flow.
"Meditations" of Marcus Aurelius is one of few books that I'd feel lost in my life without..
Writing an essay on Marcus Aurelius meditations, this came out at the perfect time!
Would love to read it
I need to watch this every day! I can accept some things that I can’t control, but my mind is still bothered when people close to me, like family, intentionally cause harm. If a stranger insults me, it’s easy to shrug it off. But when a family member rips me off financially, for example, it gets to me. I have to accept that some people are shameless, and sometimes those people will be family members.
Can't tell you how good the timing of this video was.
You are doing an amazing work, sir.
Keep this up!
Once again man, knocking it out of the park with these videos. You truly deserve recognition my friend
Just a little share: I feel like I've been summoned to watch this SKKSKS I was abt to sleep, exhausted from crying, feeling very much unarmed of knowledge and skills which made me felt I could be harmed and intimidated anytime. I thank you very much for this! Such a big help! 😭❤️❤️
stay strong.
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@@pyamju7419 and never forget you are not alone. last year I was at the end of my rope and I got talking to someone online She really helped me and I think I helped Her when Her partner was away. If you ever need someone to talk with, at etc just get in touch.
I feel exactly the same way. Tonigh I learned I am not alone. Thanks to everyone here for sharing your feelings.
There are times in my life where I have consciously made myself upset about something that I felt, for a brief moment, that I could have chosen to not be upset about. There are times I have been genuinely upset (lack of sleep, an already bag day and other factors play roles), but I can remember a few occasions where being upset was a choice, or being upset later upon ruminating about it became a choice.
It’s easy now, in the late hours of night when I am relaxed, to tell myself I can choose differently in the future, and sometimes on good days, I do, and it does get easier the more I do it.
I cherish the days I am able to choose not to be upset over injustices, unfairness and entitled people trying to take advantage of me, and with practice, I look forward to being able to say “No” and eventually not be bothered when someone starts yelling at me because they refuse to hear my “No” and to just calmly repeat myself until they either give up trying to manipulate me or I choose to walk away from the conflict without trying to explain myself or people please. I eventually want to be able to say “no” to someone without leaving things open to negotiation or explaining myself, and if they get mad about that, to see it as their problem, not mine.
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Your content is changing my outlook on life for the better. Thank you
Your best video yet! Listened to it on repeat 6-7x! so much here, don’t expect the impossible, it’s not possible to only have good fortune. You are doing a great service by making these videos!
I had a mentally rough work week, and I stumbled across this, thank you.
Love the phrase “the mind is the ruler of the soul” and how suffering is optional. I guess the question is, how we can control our minds instead of the other way round. I enjoy watching your videos!
We may do this by thinking and by thinking about our thoughts.
Einzelgänger gives such great insight in his videos on life. It's stuff like this that inspires me to create videos on self growth as well. I wanted to say you are appreciated!
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This change my life's perspective as a whole. I'm still wondering why you still haven't got 1 million subs, cause you're so really really good at doing these kinds of stuff and it's inspiring at the same time life changing. Much loveee.
Following your channel for a long time. In the lockdown period I gained inspiration and rational insights. The studies you have done and the way you lay the different philosophies out, makes them easily understood and absorbed by the individual. I appreciate what you do, and I’m sure I am not the only one with this opinion. Just ordered your book mentioned here. Thanks! Cheers!
Thank you Einzelganger, thank you UA-cam. This came at the right time.
I think the "choice" of being harmed or not gets predecided during our childhood. The need for love and acceptance can be so overwhelming if one did not receive those things as a child. As we grow older we are told to repress those feelings and emotions and that makes us angry and bitter deep down. Everytime someone insults us, those angry emotions instantly tell us "not this time", and we lash out, or worse, we supress it further and get even more resentful. Trying to not feel that way can not be a solution because at the end one is still not feeling loved and accepted and therefore ignoring their need for those things will only spiral one into a vicious cycle of hate and resentment towards the world. I don't have the answer to what we must do, all I know is that we will not stop untill we get what we want 😔
Thanks for your work. Your content is life-changing and brings much needed comfort and perspective into people’s lives.
Individuals can act in any way they find plausible, and this allows them to accrue benefits or suffer costs, depending on the circumstances.
The responsibility that our actions necessitate is the only true weapon we can exploit in order to antagonize the nefariousness of the world around us.
Marcus Aurelius realized the power of that weapon and that helped him become an exemplary emperor despite adversity and despite his weaknesses. That is what makes him a respectful example for all of us.
No one chooses suffering it's a reaction of a complex set of circumstances. You do the best you can to understand it, the learning is the freedom.
Subconsciously people choose to suffer.
I always love these teachings. Thank you so much, these videos have made it much easier to be a happy person. ^^
Very good video. It has a long time that I don't feel so unanxious and relaxed as I'm now, after watching this video... Releasing my back from the load of "feeling harmed by other people's insult" really made me feel at ease.
Hey. I just wanted to thank you so much for creating the things you do! Marcus Arelius Meditations is the best I’m going to buy a copy right now. Thank you❤️
Thank you...that helped m so much today!!!!! Saving me from internal warfare!!!
I need to listen to this every morning. Thank you 🙌
“Resisting adversity and pain, but it’s part of the game of life” yes, indeed. How dare I expect no significant pain, anguish and adversity. It hurts man, real bad. Enduring and moving on, with inner strength and conviction, let us endure.
As John Lennon sang, play the game of existence to the end…
It's good to see this channel grow, almost reaching a well-deserved million. Your vids really helped in my self-improvement journey so thank you 4 that
Beautifully articulated as usual.
Thank you for sharing the wisdom.
You are helping a lot of people, myself included. Thank you.
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Damn!!! I love your videos!! So inspiring and motivating. So much you can learn.
Thank you so much...your video is helping me get through a crime that would otherwise drive me crazy with anger and grief. You have loaded this with the best and most incisive teachings of Stoicism that can make a difference in shaping how one thinks about and then as a result, feels about difficult circumstances. I was seeking a reminder of these teachings and you gave it to me.
Amazing! Just finished your book Stoicism for Inner Peace.... such a great read! Thank you
Thank you, and that’s great to hear.
@ please do one on how we can be like colour sergeant bourne in zulu please
@ please on how to build his traits ,character and stoicism
When your circumstances as a young child have any of your parents hurt you.... Yeah, you'll feel hurt.
I had a lot of trauma in my childhood....I recite the "DESIDERATE"..."YOU ARE A CHILD OF THE UNIVERSE, NO LESS THAN THE TREES & THE STARS, YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HERE"..ALSO MY MANTRA..."THE EARTH IS MY MOTHER"...ALSO I CAME ACROSS DR. LES CARTER, (UA-cam), "SURVIVING NARCISSISM ", FOUND OUT MY MOTHER HAS A "COVERT, NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER ", I'M OK, SHE'S NOT OK...ALSO THE BUDDHIST THOUGHT HELPS, UA-cam UNDER "BUDDHIST ENLIGHTENMENT?"...HOPE THIS HELPS, & THE STOICISM. FOUND OUT I'M A LONER, & IT'S O.K., I HAVE A DOG THAT GIVES ME MORE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THAN MY "MOTHER"(? sic.) Ever could.. love yourself, validate yourself, encourage yourself...these are things every kid needs, yet we didn't get. Therapy can help, takes a while...just don't be hard on yourself...whatever happened to you...you didn't deserve...some people say forgiveness, but sometimes that is difficult to do...I give it up to GOD TO FORGIVE THEM...HOPE YOU FIND JOY IN YOUR LIFE...LOVE YOUR SELF
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I love it when it's just the right time I see one of your videos. Very inspiring. I needed this.
Thank you Einzelganger! This is total reconfiguration of my lens of view in the world 🙂
2:10 Unfortunately, crashing waves eventually wear away the rock.
Take it as it is haha
And the rock goes from a roughness, void of uniformity and beauty (meaning),, to a smooth ideal only through the beating of waves (life)
But the rock doesnt get upset about it.
How I’ve been thinking lately is I don’t deserve to feel hurt so I just choose not to be.
Just what i needed. Definitely saving this. Thank you.
This video came into my life at the right time, cant thank you enough
this kinda has a "if you feel depressed just stop feeling depressed" vibe to it
Lol pretty straightforward isn't it my friend
You have presented this idea in more ways than one and from different philosopher's perspective.
It's not that I don't understand it or agree with it but when people rub me wrong I can't help but want to 🤬🤬🤬
Your videos are a light in the darkness of caothic human existent. Thank you so much for your work.
"pain is inevitable, suffering is optional" really brings a different perspective
It's basically like being a Warrior in a garden instead of a gardener in a war. Prepare for the worst so when the worst happens you know what to do.
Explanation: dont fight the tyranny and the lies. Let them come over you like waves. Let it be what it will be. For me its like dont giving a fck about anything. Dont change anything, be at the place you are.
No it's not, don't care about anything in response to what happens. It's whatever happens, care still about your duties as a virtuous person.
That is unhealthy. I honestly doubt that's what martin luther king thought and held near his heart, the man who was responsible for ending the Segregation in the United States, or what Nelson Mandela thought about as he fought against the Apartheid, or what Mohhand Ghandi etc. I could go on and on.
Well-said, Yusuf. You will be the only one who suffers at the end anyway.
I totally needed to hear this! If I got an award for each painful movie I made on my head I’d the the most famous person on earth, well at least I’m not alone on this journey to strengthen the mind, thanks so much for this content 🤍
I love your creative and insightful works. You give lot of value to our lives. You do things that brings greater good.
"The less baggage you carry, the more you realize this present moment has everything you need. So if living in the past brings you comfort then you are surely in the way of the Living."
-My Understanding
Good words, good words.
*Here and now is all there is.*
We live in the present. We only remember the past, and anticipate the future. 🙏🏽💕
You know, this video is exactly what I needed today. Thank you!
I love your messages so much! Their wisdom has been transformative. They also present a chalk for me bc You speak really fast! I often have to rewind to catch and digest what is being said. Your content is so profound; speaking a little slower would make them even more impactful for some of us slow pokes. 😂😊 thank you for what you do!!!
“Switching to your sidearm is always faster than reloading.”
- Marcus Aurelius
_"I know you are... But... What am I?..."_
-Marcus Aurelius
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Hey, you never know, he could have coined it first.
"The only real power we have is choosing our response. We can't choose what happens to us" _(Leila Janah)