Why Pride Is the Worst | The Seven Deadly Sins | PRIDE

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  • This video series explores the Seven Deadly Sins as a Christian concept and beyond. What’s so bad about these sins? How do they apply to present-day life and society, and how can they influence our well-being and the well-being of those around us? And can non-Christians benefit from this concept? This essay delves into the mother of all sin: pride.
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    00:00 - Intro
    03:01 - Pride as a sin
    06:34 - I'm better
    09:04 - The divisiveness of pride
    12:56 - The delusion of pride
    18:23 - Is pride truly bad?

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  • @DuneGuy796
    @DuneGuy796 Рік тому +2067

    "Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source. True humility is the only antidote to shame." - Iroh

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 Рік тому +72

      It's bcuz of Iroh that I've long since figured out the true meaning of Pride
      Pride suggests perfection. There's nothing the Proud won't say or do to avoid Humility, even if it comes at the cost of others

    • @DuneGuy796
      @DuneGuy796 Рік тому +15

      @@cqllel5186 Indeed.

    • @wandel51
      @wandel51 Рік тому +42

      Iroh is amazing. Because of him I like to watch Aang again from time to time.

    • @edwardSteadyHands
      @edwardSteadyHands Рік тому +28

      Man of culture

    • @tessacortes9226
      @tessacortes9226 Рік тому +23

      Iroh should have been the fire lord

  • @nicketaevani-fzukunf007
    @nicketaevani-fzukunf007 Рік тому +775

    I believe dignity and gratitude are more important for self worth than pride.

    • @Smyrna37
      @Smyrna37 Рік тому +12

      This is probably the best comment so far. Very true!!

    • @pareshmaniyar8273
      @pareshmaniyar8273 Рік тому +35

      I feel dignity is a subtler form of pride (where one expects the respect oneself)

    • @pahlevymu
      @pahlevymu Рік тому +15

      Was gonna say this, specifically gratitude. Imo, the difference pride and gratitude is quite thin, pride tend to compare our accomplishment and achievement with others, while gratitude is feeling grateful with our own accomplishment, there's no other people to be compared.

    • @nicketaevani-fzukunf007
      @nicketaevani-fzukunf007 Рік тому +7

      @@pahlevymu And it is also about being grateful for others' direct or indirect involvement.

    • @theyrekrnations8990
      @theyrekrnations8990 Рік тому +1

      Add "respect" to that please

  • @iamdjaninfj1758
    @iamdjaninfj1758 Рік тому +1051

    The real danger in pride is that it blocks empathy, which is the foundation of “love thy neighbor.”

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 Рік тому +22

      Incorrect. Pride and empathy can exist at the same time.

    • @iamdjaninfj1758
      @iamdjaninfj1758 Рік тому +67

      @Jayson T. Empathy is a truly selfless act, pride is invariably selfish. Your assertion is amusing.

    • @parth6115
      @parth6115 Рік тому +2

      @@iamdjaninfj1758 but whose neighbour is worse in behaviour, how are they our equal

    • @JamesLee50
      @JamesLee50 Рік тому +2

      @@iamdjaninfj1758 empathy is one of the most selfish acts, think beyond the surface level think on what love and empathy is fundamentally

    • @iamdjaninfj1758
      @iamdjaninfj1758 Рік тому +13

      @whitebeard I am clear on the fundamentals, what is unclear is how you define empathy. I define love fundamentally as giving, with no expectation of recompense. What say you?

  • @ryanshuell-mu9sx
    @ryanshuell-mu9sx Рік тому +346

    Pride caused me to miss out on countless opportunities in my life. Many times in the past, a career opportunity would present itself to me, but if it wasn't at a certain level, I would take a hard pass. I did this over and over, until there were no more opportunities. Then, I had nothing. Eventually, I realized that I had to go down to go up. I ended up doing something mediocre, excelled at it, and rose to the level I wanted to be at initially. Sometimes, you have to take a circuitous route in life.

    • @WALDENSOFTWARE
      @WALDENSOFTWARE Рік тому +17

      Lack of pride can also be detrimental. Taking on jobs less than you deserve. The key is balance.

    • @GlobalBricks1
      @GlobalBricks1 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@WALDENSOFTWARE no. We should all be humble

    • @WALDENSOFTWARE
      @WALDENSOFTWARE 11 місяців тому +5

      @@GlobalBricks1 Then the narcissists will conquer.

    • @inertboi
      @inertboi 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@WALDENSOFTWARE middle path is the right path

    • @Feargamelioncheetahs
      @Feargamelioncheetahs 11 місяців тому +5

      Pride keep me from endless servitude

  • @Attackatyourownrisk
    @Attackatyourownrisk Рік тому +285

    Pride, power and entitlement. The 3 deadly traits most people have. Most people believe they are better than you because they hang in hyena packs. People also abuse their authority that they may carry just to make a point. These people believe they are higher than you, higher than god. Step back. Let them flex. The most high will make sure they receive what they put out. Only the most high can make these narcs fall from grace. They can never take what they dish out. And they will be put in the same circumstances that they tried to put you in. Let it play out from moment to moment.

    • @saltedslug7954
      @saltedslug7954 Рік тому +2

      Be a good capitalist. Pride breeds competition, competition births innovation, innovation drives the society forward

    • @mhmdmhmud
      @mhmdmhmud Рік тому +7

      do u feel that you're better than these narcs?

    • @Aravis217
      @Aravis217 Рік тому +23

      Most people judge themselves on their intentions, while they judge others by their actions. Thats why they feel like they are better than others.

    • @optimusoptimum4436
      @optimusoptimum4436 Рік тому +7

      Developing a healthy sense of pride can be a challenging task, especially in the context of capitalism, which often values material possessions and external markers of success above personal qualities and character. Here are a few ideas for cultivating a healthy sense of pride:
      -Focus on personal growth and self-improvement: One way to feel proud of oneself is to set goals and work towards achieving them, whether they be related to personal development, career advancement, or hobbies and interests. By putting in effort to become the best version of oneself, it is possible to feel a sense of accomplishment and pride in one's own progress and achievements.
      -Celebrate your uniqueness: Instead of comparing oneself to others and striving for perfection, try to embrace and celebrate your own unique qualities and talents. Recognizing the things that make you special can help you feel proud of who you are and build self-confidence.
      -Practice gratitude: Focusing on the things you are thankful for, rather than what you lack, can help you appreciate the good things in your life and feel proud of your accomplishments.
      -Find ways to give back: Giving back to your community or helping others can be a great way to feel a sense of pride and purpose. Volunteer work, charitable giving, or simply lending a helping hand to a friend or family member can all contribute to a sense of pride in oneself and one's own abilities.
      -Seek out positive role models: Surrounding oneself with people who embody the values and qualities that you admire can be a great source of inspiration and help you feel proud of the person you are becoming.
      Overall, it is important for capitalists to strike a balance between maximizing profits and operating in a responsible and ethical manner, taking into account the needs and well-being of all stakeholders.

    • @Aravis217
      @Aravis217 Рік тому +16

      @@optimusoptimum4436 So, basically what your saying is that to have a healthy sense of pride- focus on yourself and being the best you. An unhealthy sense of pride is focusing on others and just trying to be better then them.

  • @mindfulnesswithmatt
    @mindfulnesswithmatt Рік тому +416

    Great explanation. Pride is when people have low esteem and overcompensate by reducing others to elevate them. Dignity and mutual respect that acknowledges difference, but doesn't create vertical structures of better and worse are what we should be teaching more of

    • @True38
      @True38 Рік тому +19

      That is arrogance you are talking about, not pride. Pride is actually a good and natural thing, it's just people who confuse it with arrogance. There's nothing wrong with being proud of yourself and your accomplishments.
      Without pride, we wouldn't live in this beautiful world we live in. Sloth is a much worse and more pathetic sin imo. Nothing is achieved by sloth but everything can be achieved with pride.

    • @pluviophile5996
      @pluviophile5996 Рік тому +5

      @@True38 Yes

    • @johnsmith-dh9mu
      @johnsmith-dh9mu Рік тому +12

      @true spoken like a prideful person.

    • @True38
      @True38 Рік тому +13

      @@johnsmith-dh9mu And btw, you have to love the irony that these so-called humble people who shame others for being prideful, do in fact think they are better than them XD
      "Oh, look at me, I'm so humble and down to earth, I am so much better than those prideful sinners"......

    • @mnkeymasta
      @mnkeymasta Рік тому +7

      @@True38 We're all Hypocrites here, Chatter

  • @bneum
    @bneum Рік тому +252

    Man, this was timely. Thank you for this. I struggle with pride quite fiercely. I appreciated that part of describing the Doctor of Philosophy, '"I did it all myself'....but, who paid for his education...who gave him his above-average intelligence?" Great perspective shift.

    • @groganfilm
      @groganfilm Рік тому +2

      Really good perspective here. Excellent!

    • @zeppkfw
      @zeppkfw Рік тому +10

      Same bro. I thought I had everything going for me but God seemed to have thrown a hammer at me and humbled me. I will heed the warning and be more humble with my achievements. God giveth and god taketh.

    • @bneum
      @bneum Рік тому +1

      @@zeppkfw Amen and Godspeed!

    • @KevinJohnson-cv2no
      @KevinJohnson-cv2no Рік тому +1

      Embrace your pride and let it flow through you; as long as you've earned it and can back it up with ability. Don't let the propaganda of gazelle's make you feel bad for your strength lol

    • @bneum
      @bneum Рік тому +2

      @@KevinJohnson-cv2no See I don't know though, what I got from Einzelgänger's video is that I don't want pride at all. I don't see the good side of pride, but perhaps just a different word like he used: dignity. I just want to expunge it from my soul. But is it possible? Or should I do that? I don't know! I appreciate your perspective though, I will ponder more on this.

  • @smokingpyro
    @smokingpyro Рік тому +38

    "Fuck pride, it only hurts, it never helps."
    -Marsellus Wallace

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому

      Pride is a coping mechanism. The false sense of superiority and security. Insatiable. It'll never be enough

    • @penamuuri6767
      @penamuuri6767 3 місяці тому

      What does Marsellus Wallace look like?

    • @WilliamLi-nd4lz
      @WilliamLi-nd4lz 2 місяці тому

      @@penamuuri6767 A Human?
      See, idk if ur pressing this cuz he's black. This isnt a matter of colour its a matter of christianity!

    • @WilliamLi-nd4lz
      @WilliamLi-nd4lz Місяць тому

      @@penamuuri6767 A Human?
      This is the scripture. Its clear, Pride is a deadly sin.

    • @ronancalder8724
      @ronancalder8724 27 днів тому +1

      @@penamuuri6767pulp fiction

  • @MsRojo555
    @MsRojo555 Рік тому +15

    “Before a fall the heart is proud, but humility comes before honor.” Proverbs 18:12

  • @garycox3841
    @garycox3841 Рік тому +101

    True humility, leaves no room for pridefulness. Just as pridefulness leaves no room for humility.

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому

      Pride suggests perfection. Humility is acknowledgement of imperfection
      There's nothing the Proud won't say or do to avoid Humility, even if it comes at the cost of others
      There is no Intolerance without Ignorance, and there is no Ignorance without Arrogance. Pride is supremacy

    • @davidhendersonii221
      @davidhendersonii221 2 місяці тому

      Humiliation is just as bad as Pride

  • @rduse4125
    @rduse4125 Рік тому +80

    I stopped using “pride” at all some years ago… people would say “are you proud of your children?” - I’ve begin saying, “No, I’m thankful for them..”
    Pride is what I’ve done, while gratitude is what God has done for me.

    • @hulk6057
      @hulk6057 7 місяців тому

      Wow beautiful

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому +1

      Pride and Gratitude are exact opposites. Never take Pride, only give Gratitude
      Pride is simply a reaction to reality when it doesn't go our way, hence the source of the other sins (why we envy, get angry and seek to hurt others in return, etc). It's a coping mechanism, born out of low self worth or accomplishment. Boastfulness. It aims for Supremacy
      To have Pride in others is pure selfishness. You do not 'give' Pride, you 'take' it. For yourself. Embellishment of the Ego
      Pride has nothing to do with anyone but oneself. It revolves around the self, centers on the self, makes errything else about oneself via association. Absolute narcissism. Megalomaniac
      Pride suggests perfection. As imperfect creatures, there is no place for Pride. Only Gratitude
      There's nothing the Proud won't say or do to avoid Humility, the acknowledgement of imperfection

  • @mockiii
    @mockiii Рік тому +19

    This reminds me of "It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows." Epictetus. The man is unable to learn because of his pride. This seems to happen to us more and more as we get older. There is a lot of happiness to be found in the student mindset at any age.

  • @toeprint-ss6vm
    @toeprint-ss6vm Рік тому +107

    I think pride always needs comparison with others and it's nicer to just be in your element and be grateful and happy when you achieve something.

    • @mirela2608
      @mirela2608 Рік тому +5

      I agree

    • @GlobalBricks1
      @GlobalBricks1 11 місяців тому +2

      But its not. Pride is bad
      Be humble

    • @luchr8249
      @luchr8249 10 місяців тому

      ​@@GlobalBricks1They are talking about internal gratification, which is actually good. When it becomes external is when it becomes bad. For example being proud that you are a child of God is actually good. It will lead you to praise and worship God out of love and joy, and not fear of eternal damnation. But if it becomes external you will start seeing yourself better than other religions and even better than your fellow christians like in the story of the pharisee and the tax collector.

    • @questionableclips
      @questionableclips 4 місяці тому

      @@GlobalBricks1 how are we not supposed to feel any sense of accomplishment when we accomplish something?

    • @GlobalBricks1
      @GlobalBricks1 4 місяці тому

      @@questionableclips by being happy, proud and humble.
      Don't be prideful. It beings others down and makes you feel better than others.
      I won a video game, i say GG.
      Pride will say im better than you and others in the world.
      Be humble
      ❤️🌈✝️👍

  • @yohaizilber
    @yohaizilber Рік тому +128

    While it is important to be proud of one's accomplishments and to have confidence in oneself, it is also important to recognize that no one is perfect and to be open to learning and growing since there are dangers in allowing certain negative emotions or behaviors to become excessive or dominant in one's life.

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 Рік тому

      Pride is Arrogance, Ignorance, and then Intolerance. Self glorification, egotism. Absolute narcissism. 100% Ego-Driven. Self centeredness. Pride is Supremacy. A bias, blind loyalty of one's own making
      To have Pride in oneself, or in others, is an act of pure selfishness. You do not 'give' Pride, you 'take' it. For yourself. The embellishment of the Ego
      When we get insulted, shamed, humiliated, rejected, offended, criticized, etc, the ONLY thing that is taking damage, is the Pride of OUR own making. Our Egos. 100% self inflicted. Where there is Weakness and Unintelligence, there will ALWAYS be the forcible suppression of their opposition by any means necessary. You can't have Intolerance without Ignorance. And you can't have Ignorance without Arrogance
      Pride has absolutely no place in this world. It's just pointless and meaningless. When we create a BIAS, we create an OPPOSITION: a vulnerability. We become the imbalance. Absolute self destruction
      The definition of Psychopath, is Pride itself. The true opposite of Pride is Gratitude

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 Рік тому +9

      Pride is the embodiment of insecurity. From insecurity, comes fears. And from fear, rejection. Denial
      We often create mental images of ourselves: our fantasies, our covets. Only to become afraid of who/what we truly are. The fear of rejection, the rejection of oneself. Absolute denial
      Dignity/self esteem does not come from Pride, but from Humility. True humility is without insecurity. The willpower to expose yourself for who/what you truly are and accept reality. To overcome the Ego and face yourself
      The ONLY thing that stands between US and REALITY, is our own Pride. The willingness to see what we don't want to see, to listen to what we don't want to hear. The transparent world. Pride is true blindness in every sense

    • @zeppkfw
      @zeppkfw Рік тому +4

      @@cqllel5186 I agree. People that looked the most secure and I guess unironically "alpha" to me are the ones that know their abilities but are always humble and look to learn, emphatize, help, and listen to other people. True leaders if you will.

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 Рік тому +2

      @@zeppkfw Indeed!
      They do not take Pride (embellish their egos & glorify themselves) in their accomplishments, but instead give gratitude to those around them that helped them get to where they are
      It has never been about US, but about everyone around us that we get to be apart of. It's not about taking, but giving back to others
      What it means to be Fit (Strong and Intelligent), is not to drag others down to your level or below you in order to be above them, but to push others above you. All Fit/Unfit action will have equal Fit/Unfit reaction. To push others above yourself, and then vice versa. One foot infront of the other. To walk forward together. The Golden Rule

    • @kylemacarthur9863
      @kylemacarthur9863 Рік тому

      Is pride, as we use the term now, a concept that is simply we are good workers? Is pride an industrial revolution term for productive or a necessary ingredient for being productive at work and therefore reinforced in a society that sees humans as cogs in a pyramid scheme serving Pharoahs at the top?

  • @blenderanimations2806
    @blenderanimations2806 11 місяців тому +16

    Pride can make one feel that he/she deserves something. This is so so true...

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому +1

      Pride suggests perfection
      As imperfect creatures, we have no right to decide who deserves what, regardless of their good or bad deeds. We make laws to protect ourselves from those who judge others so

  • @joshuaedwards9830
    @joshuaedwards9830 Рік тому +61

    I love the combination of Christian Theology and secular rationality. The two dont always contradict. This video brings both into a fusion dance.

    • @samwaffle3293
      @samwaffle3293 11 місяців тому +2

      This was so good! Christian worldview or secular worldview, both boil it down to its essence!

  • @yearginclarke
    @yearginclarke Рік тому +32

    I loved this video. This expressed in detail many things that naturally came to me and that I have believed in for many years. I grew up Catholic but moved away from it in the early 2000's due to me seeing things differently as I grew up. I have been agnostic since then. However I always recognized the 7 Deadly Sins and the 10 Commandments to be basic core concepts that should be natural for us to understand whether one is religious or not. I see SO many aspects of our modern societies filled with the consequences of pride and the other 7 Deadly sins.

    • @Trancymind
      @Trancymind Рік тому +5

      The good thing about catholics is that even if you leave the church on your free will, we won't turn our backs on you, you can always comeback and we aren't going to aggressively try to harrass you by joining our catholic religion. Even if you are an ex catholic, you are very welcome to visit our churches without forcing you to join our religion. We wish you happinesss on your search and don't forget we are ALL connected as a whole despite our flaws.

  • @KeepTalkingRomania
    @KeepTalkingRomania Рік тому +109

    In my opinion, pride is the root cause of the civilizational collapse we are currently experiencing in the West. It all started with the individual becoming less and less relevant for society and for itself. The Industrial and Technology Revolutions brought us a lot of well-being but we've lost our humility and with it, our souls. Knowing this deep inside, the individual tried to remain relevant and how can you do that if not by comparing yourself to others. We are living in a huge epidemic of narcissism with millions if not billions of people posting their perfect lives on social media. "Look at me, I'm better than you, give me your like". In a matter of 4-5 decades, society started to collapse and in 2020 the real implosion started. The mass formation would not have been possible without pride. All the virtue signallers save grandma who asked for more harsh measures and more dehumanizing restrictions. The vast majority of humans traded being human o signal pride. We traded everything that makes us humans for the pride of showing others how virtuous we are, how we believe in progress and science and we are good citizens that deserve to be cherished. No wonder the "rewards" for taking the poke in the arm were related to those 7 sins: food, badges of honor, access to the concerts and so on. I truly believe it is PRIDE which brought us where we are and PRIDE will be humanity's downfall just it was Lucifer's downfall.

    • @reefread1234
      @reefread1234 Рік тому

      yes the spirit of the air works with the children of wrath you see satans children basically. there are two types of people the serpents get struck in the head and antagonize the children of God its everywhere throughout history if you look the eagle symbol the nazi symbol it spreads throughput history to this end point of times

    • @llIlIlllII
      @llIlIlllII Рік тому +21

      And now we literally have pride month

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 Рік тому +3

      May Allah protect us from this

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 Рік тому +5

      Very accurate analysis. It's an epidemic that's only getting worse.

    • @rehtaeh
      @rehtaeh Рік тому +2

      "It all started with the individual becoming less and less relevant for society and for itself. ... We are living in a huge epidemic of narcissism..." You sound confused. 🤔

  • @apalsnerg
    @apalsnerg Рік тому +58

    Some amount of pride is important. If you have no pride, you will allow yourself to be trampled upon, your feelings overlooked, and your family disenfranchised. Some pride is necessary for one to have confidence. However, our pride must not exceed or humility. We must be able to acknowledge how far we have come, while remaining grateful for our opportunities, and humble in our realisation that it can be taken away from us. We must not be complacent, or believe that we deserve what we have been given.

    • @joeybabybaby5843
      @joeybabybaby5843 Рік тому +11

      Does confidence stem from pride or does pride stem from confidence?🤔

    • @rico14
      @rico14 Рік тому +2

      I think both.

    • @nocturneuh
      @nocturneuh Рік тому +6

      Agreed, moderation is key as it seemingly is in all things.

    • @mirela2608
      @mirela2608 Рік тому +8

      I agree 100 percent if we use dignity instead pride in main comment. Pride became unclear as people have different interpretations of meaning.

    • @rico14
      @rico14 Рік тому +1

      @@mirela2608 yeah I feel like a healthy amount of pride of who you are is an important part of the human experience. I love my Chicano background.

  • @christislord316
    @christislord316 22 дні тому +1

    This video was the breaking point of me realizing how prideful I have been, and what have been the root cause of the distance I have been feeling from God.
    And so I prayed to God to forgive me and take away my pride, and I, for the first time in a long time, felt the presence of God, like an immeasurable embrace.
    I will be working on myself, to rid myself from any ungodly vanity and pride.
    Thank you and God bless!

  • @JamesSheffer
    @JamesSheffer Рік тому +22

    Like everything else in this existence, Pride is defined differently by each individual. When anyone tells me I should be proud of having done what I did, my reply is, "That's one way of looking at it." And that is my thought of reply for every evaluation, made by me, and by others. Thanks so much for your deeply thought-generating videos! You are my favorite UA-cam presentation, along with Shirley Șerban of New Zealand.

  • @joeybabybaby5843
    @joeybabybaby5843 Рік тому +35

    Thank you for your analysis. My own observation is this: "Dignity" is self-validation stemming from living virtuously. "Authentic pride" is self-validation stemming from one's accomplishments and achievements made through said virtuousness. "Hubristic pride" is self-validation stemming from achievements and accomplishments made for the satisfaction of real or imagined "others". "Arrogance" is self-validation stemming from circumstance and possibly dissatisfaction.

    • @Dowlphin
      @Dowlphin 9 місяців тому +1

      Examine what happens when you stop entertaining the confusing notion of there being a good and a bad pride and instead replace your "hubristic pride" with "pride" and your "authentic pride" with "happiness" or "contentment".

  • @user-kx7eu9lt3n
    @user-kx7eu9lt3n Рік тому +8

    I have a hunch that the essence of pride is the denial of death, feeling that I can grow, accumulate, hold on to things indefinitely. If I clearly see the object of my pride, whether it be my body, my mind, my wealth, etc, nearing complete and inevitable destruction, how can I possibly delight in it in a prideful way? It's like we are all drowning, but you are wearing sweatpants and I'm wearing a tuxedo, so that should make me better somehow. I guess I win at one of many imaginary games we play, but that doesn't shield me from reality, I'll die just the same.

    • @alixmordant489
      @alixmordant489 9 місяців тому

      My theory is that the essence of pride is the human need for hierarchy. Hierarchy is a trait of many social animals. It feels good to be on top of the hierarchy, it gives you privileges and esteem. To be a loser, low in rank, feels awful. Everybody wants to be at least in the middle. It is a ceaseless competition. Nowadays, money is the main currency that translates into hierarchical status. Even countries compete, as we know. Wars, economic rankings etc. Yes, death is a problem. But humanity found a solution. We can give an inheritance to our children. Hence such accumulated wealth, hence we invented nobility. etc.

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому

      *Pride is the source of erry negative psychological aspect of us*
      Pride is the embodiment of insecurity. A false sense of superiority. It suggests perfection. Pride is Supremacy. A bias, blind loyalty. Pride is a coping mechanism. It's born out of low self worth or accomplishment
      Pride is the foundation in which we build our ego upon. It's an ego-driven impulse. It revolves around the self. It's centered on the self. It makes errything/one else about oneself via association. *It's absolute narcissism*
      To have Pride in others is pure selfishness. You do not 'give' Pride, you 'take' it. For yourself. Embellishment of the Ego. Megalomaniac
      There's 1 thing the Proud are absolutely terrified of, and it's Humility. Acknowledgement of imperfection. There's nothing the Proud won't say or do to avoid Humility. Even if it comes at the cost of others, especially at the cost of dissidents. Moral superiority. Self righteousness only blurs the line between Right and Wrong. Pure *Psychopathy*
      Pride is boastfulness. Gloat. When we create a Bias, we create an opposition: a vulnerability. We become the imbalance. Absolute self destruction. The only purpose of the Proud is to drag as many others down with them as possible
      Pride is the source of it all. It has no definition. There's not a language out there that can give it a definition for it is the source of erry negative psychological aspect of us. It's all negative things at once. Arrogance, Ignorance, and then Intolerance

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому

      "Pride has no definition, since it's erry bad thing at once. No language can define it. It's hard for us to describe it"
      It's as if reality itself is denying its existence down to the smallest thing, yet it persists anyways within us
      It's like climbing up a wall, but erry rock it grabs onto falls out. The only purpose the Proud serve, is to drag as many others as possible down with them
      Pride is like an invasive species, not just from another world, but from another reality entirely. Not in a multiverse-sense, either
      More like an 'Un-Reality'. A reverse reality, where non-existence can exist. A mirror. The upside down? Something that just shouldn't exist in our own reality, but does anyways, slowly seeping thru.. Edit: Hell??
      IDK how else to put it.. But that's how it feels to me. It's not meant to exist and I can't stress that emotionless text/sentence enough
      Edit: I just remembered something I was told about the laws. In order for fallen angels (demons) to continue to exist, they must be accepted by Man.. "It persists anyways" bcuz of Man. Is this what that means?? "Pride cannot be defined, only realized"
      Like we have to reject it in order to be safe from it

  • @TheGreatWasian_
    @TheGreatWasian_ Рік тому +7

    This man is incredibly intelligent and has answered questions that I have been internally battling with for years. The way that he writes is excellent; he clearly has had some professional education on writing and speaking. Thank you for this wonderful piece of work, sir!!!

  • @pman_t
    @pman_t Рік тому +14

    These clips from Mr Einzelgänger are sort of in 'noble price' level I swear. They are game changer..... So educational, so deep, so eye opener n etc they are. Great info, great contents, great quality out there for people to take wisdom from. wow.. thanks man, u are the boss :-"

  • @selfan2005
    @selfan2005 Рік тому +6

    "My powers have doubled since the last time we met, Count." Anakin Skywalker. "Good, Twice the pride, double the fall." Count Dooku. From Star Wars, Episode III: Revenge of The Sith.

  • @alexanderwindh4830
    @alexanderwindh4830 Рік тому +325

    Perfect for pride month.

    • @TheAngryArchieShow
      @TheAngryArchieShow 11 місяців тому +22

      I was just contemplating that... isn't "Pride" month, or pride in general evil when it comes to the trans activists?

    • @Damiani626
      @Damiani626 11 місяців тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Respect2theFallen
      @Respect2theFallen 11 місяців тому +2

      Lol I honestly thought that's what this was about at first then I realized I saw this one and it wasn't bashing Pride month hahaha

    • @hijodelsoldeoriente
      @hijodelsoldeoriente 11 місяців тому +1

      Exactly 😂

    • @tysonhalfacre8314
      @tysonhalfacre8314 11 місяців тому +3

      Lol legend

  • @danieldelange1583
    @danieldelange1583 Рік тому +9

    Paradise Lost, at the time of its writing, was seen as blasphemy because it portrayed Lucifer/Satan as beautiful but still the tempter. The Church demanded that Satan be portrayed as ugly and demonic but John Milton argued that in order to tempt one must first seem pleasing/beautiful.

  • @TheDoomerGoGetter
    @TheDoomerGoGetter Рік тому +46

    It's sad that the modern masculinity role models are men filled with pride.
    Andrew Tate, Donald Trump, etc...
    Pride is one of the worst sins of the bible and I'm not a liberal who absolutely hates these men, but I would love to see biblically masculine role models for young men, we have to learn to express humility and humble ourselves instead of being so full of ourselves, still love ourselves, I'm not saying to hate yourself.
    On my self improvement UA-cam channel I feel it's necessary for me to admit my mistakes so others don't make the same mistakes, yes it's really embarrassing, but I'm driven by purpose, a purpose of helping those who were in my position or in my current position because I speak about mistakes I made yesterday, never act like you're perfect now but you use to be messed up, we're constantly a work in process

    • @sinisterboy8753
      @sinisterboy8753 Рік тому +5

      Amen, we need new role models

    • @TheDoomerGoGetter
      @TheDoomerGoGetter Рік тому

      @brayan velez truth, it's time for biblically masculine role models to be put in the spotlight

    • @True38
      @True38 Рік тому

      Sure but you can't just be humble in life and expect things to work out for you. You will be walked all over all the way to the grave.

    • @genesises
      @genesises Рік тому

      who has ever said donald trump is their or a role model for anyone? because he is on tv doesn't mean anything.

    • @jahmanhosking5153
      @jahmanhosking5153 Рік тому

      Yeah, but Donald Trump does looks real funny. (You win some and you lose some)

  • @vogeline_
    @vogeline_ Рік тому +11

    Be proud but have empathy.
    If you achive something and you are proud and have no empathy you will flex
    If you achive something and you are not proud then you will not see it as an achievement. You will try to get better and better until you are satisfied with will never happen
    If you achive something are proud and have empathy, you will try to help others achive it too.

    • @ennardthefuntimepuppet6456
      @ennardthefuntimepuppet6456 Рік тому

      No, pride in general is bad and worst.
      If you go by that logic, you'll just increase more prideful people

    • @ennardthefuntimepuppet6456
      @ennardthefuntimepuppet6456 Рік тому

      Just Don't have pride to begin with, then achievements would cease to exist,
      Just live like a normal person with normal daily life.
      It is not that hard, unless you have pride within yourself

  • @yannicnoack5389
    @yannicnoack5389 Рік тому +26

    Watching your videos makes me feel truly humbled. Thank you for all the effort you put into researching and compiling this great source of insight.

  • @dumbvillage9253
    @dumbvillage9253 Рік тому +9

    After i started to see major results from my self improvement journey (completely quit corn, achieved great physigue, learnt many things, slightly improved my art that i wont show), i quickly became arrogant and pridefull. I quite literally felt natural disgust towards people who are addicted to corn. or the not wanting to listen to people who don't have a good physigue. I struggle at talking to some of my friends because i feel like they aren't worth my time. Pride destroys relationships and connections on so many levels it's unbelievable.

    • @prolapsrunner
      @prolapsrunner 11 місяців тому +2

      Corn... huh

    • @jjbuzz9230
      @jjbuzz9230 11 місяців тому +2

      that's what happens when we value material things including skills and abilities, instead of virtue/character. Have a superior virtue is more admirable, it is harder to accomplish than skills and abilities which is mere practice plus Talent. And it is truly beneficial to other people, although a noble character may not be recognizable to the untrained eye. Whereas skills alone doesn't mean one will benefit other people, skill without virtue may even be detrimental to others. So I think material/external things should not be the standard to evaluate others.

    • @Dowlphin
      @Dowlphin 9 місяців тому

      @@prolapsrunner Porecisely! 😏

    • @Dowlphin
      @Dowlphin 9 місяців тому

      Could you identify what made you act loathful towards others who haven't yet achieved what you had? It is peculiar since you know what it is like to be where they are.
      Something must have prompted you to disconnect from your past, even though the path of improvement, before and after, should be such a great confidence boost.
      Normally looking down on others in that way is a narcissism that masks a still existing self-esteem issue, as if you had to do something to get where you are that you hate.

  • @jigs.89
    @jigs.89 Рік тому +36

    Is this going to be a series of 7 deadly sins? Interesting.

  • @ginalibrizzi5204
    @ginalibrizzi5204 Рік тому +13

    “Living with dignity” is the phrase that resonates most clearly with me. This is within one’s own control regardless of circumstances. To me, it entails treating others with dignity as well.

  • @thoomm
    @thoomm Рік тому +6

    The timing of this video is uncanny to me, was thinking along very similar lines the whole day and now i see this video uploaded today. Thank you Einzelgänger for all of your good content and hard work, you should be proud of yourself :D

  • @patrickmchargue7122
    @patrickmchargue7122 Рік тому +4

    Well done! I hope that analyzing this from a non-Christian perspective will allow more people to watch and understand this: pride is the greatest sin. It blinds you to your mistakes and to others' accomplishments.

  • @ethaneleyinmi1223
    @ethaneleyinmi1223 Рік тому +30

    I recently found these videos and I'm very thankful for the inspiring and informational content. Keep it up 💪🔥

  • @800g_of_dinki_di7
    @800g_of_dinki_di7 Рік тому +35

    Thank you so much for all that you do and the effort you put into consistently providing such high value content

  • @deannal.newton9772
    @deannal.newton9772 Рік тому +6

    I don't really know because I keep hearing "take pride in your work" or "take pride in your appearance" when those things don't necessarily matter in the grand scheme of things. I don't make it a habit of saying that I'm smart because I know that there are people who are smarter than me in the world nor do I like the practice of "humble bragging" which is just vanity disguised as being humble in my opinion. I'm just a girl that likes to watch documentaries, play video games, cook, and be with my family. Does that make me anymore special than anyone, no. Should I be proud of doing things that literally every other person can do, no, because I should be grateful for the fact that I can do those things because I know that other people can't do what I can do. So I have a lot of gratitude even though I'm not in a place where I would like to be, but I also know that things could be a lot worse and I'm not better than anyone on this planet.

    • @iamdjaninfj1758
      @iamdjaninfj1758 Рік тому +2

      Gratitude is a powerful antidote, you are doing well. May you find peace as you journey through our upside down society!

    • @deannal.newton9772
      @deannal.newton9772 Рік тому

      @@iamdjaninfj1758 Thanks

  • @law_9840
    @law_9840 Рік тому +18

    This channel proves to be my best friend year after year. I come from a very poor family, the only thing I could actually be proud of is my excellent physical shape. Looking at other people though, I often feel a sense of envy towards them for their achievements. But it doesn't make sense, because just as the video says, success is conveyed by factors external to the person himself such as genetics, the environment, opportunities. we are NOT all the same and we have NOT had equal chances, therefore, always show respect and be understanding towards others. All time.

    • @Ash01010
      @Ash01010 Рік тому +3

      A human has nothing to be proud of. Be it physicall appearance or achievements. Talking about physical appearance. You are born with good looking face but what's your contribution in this? You got it and you have to loose it one day. And same for Worldly achievements. What is the use of this short term, temporary achievement when you have to leave this here only.

    • @liyahibrahim8809
      @liyahibrahim8809 Рік тому

      lol i'm sorry but what exacly is an excellent physical shape

    • @law_9840
      @law_9840 Рік тому +1

      @@liyahibrahim8809 I am a certified competitive athlete, and have high muscle mass

    • @user-or8ir2zq6m
      @user-or8ir2zq6m Рік тому

      @@Ash01010 It's enough to make the opposite sex feel good

    • @Ash01010
      @Ash01010 Рік тому

      @@user-or8ir2zq6m ok

  • @gathuawachira4901
    @gathuawachira4901 Рік тому +4

    It’s all but a matter of perspective on what too much is, of these sins we require in our lives. Keep up the good work!

  • @Gaspardrow
    @Gaspardrow Рік тому +5

    Thanks for the great lesson EINZELGÄNGER!
    Pride is a sin, we, the modern people, have put it in a pedestal and it have lead us astray, for me at least.
    One does not need "pride" to be happy of oneself or to hold your ground, one needs a correct self-worth, very different from pride, you have to be open to be mistaken and understand that you can learn something from everyone.

  • @VEN0VA
    @VEN0VA Рік тому +5

    I really like these in-depth look into sins. I hope you can cover more of them and even perhaps cover virtues.
    I'm not into Christianity or religion at all, but believe the concept of sins and virtues are like universal guides for humanity.

    • @mrfake675
      @mrfake675 Рік тому

      The fact you feel the need to distance yourself from Christianity shows the brainwashing

  • @a12i9
    @a12i9 Рік тому +7

    You have a beautiful mind, Einzelgänger! Thank you so much for sharing it with us. I wish I could talk to you in person from time to time.

  • @BT77778
    @BT77778 11 місяців тому +4

    Why hasn't this video gotten over a million views yet?

  • @sasagoro8783
    @sasagoro8783 Рік тому +9

    "Twice the pride, double the fall"

  • @lonimimeseko
    @lonimimeseko Рік тому +1

    I really needed to see this as someone who struggles with pride. Thanks a lot for sharing

  • @dr.gaosclassroom
    @dr.gaosclassroom Рік тому

    What a wonderful video!! Thank you so much for sharing this with the world!!

  • @michelleburkholder2547
    @michelleburkholder2547 Рік тому +3

    Contentment and gratitude are humility that elevates.

  • @leeboriack8054
    @leeboriack8054 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for the high quality of your videos.

  • @margaretlumley1648
    @margaretlumley1648 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this beautiful video 💖
    I find the unabashed displays of pride, which we so frequently see now, rather alarming. I grew up with the dictim 'discretion is the better part of valour', and try to have this inform my behaviour. I am happy 😊

  • @rmb5355
    @rmb5355 Рік тому +1

    extremely profounding. thanks for taking the time to do this

  • @heisenberg4134
    @heisenberg4134 11 місяців тому +16

    this video fits for pride month 💀

  • @cqllel5186
    @cqllel5186 Рік тому +26

    *Pride is the source of erry negative psychological aspect of us*
    Pride is the embodiment of insecurity. A false sense of superiority. It suggests perfection. Pride is Supremacy. A bias, blind loyalty. Pride is a coping mechanism. It's born out of low self worth or accomplishment
    Pride is the foundation in which we build our ego upon. It's an ego-driven impulse. It revolves around the self. It's centered on the self. It makes errything/one else about oneself via association. *It's absolute narcissism*
    To have Pride in others is pure selfishness. You do not 'give' Pride, you 'take' it. For yourself. Embellishment of the Ego. Megalomaniac
    There's 1 thing the Proud are absolutely terrified of, and it's Humility. Acknowledgement of imperfection. There's nothing the Proud won't say or do to avoid Humility. Even if it comes at the cost of others, especially at the cost of dissidents. Moral superiority. Self righteousness only blurs the line between Right and Wrong. Pure *Psychopathy*
    Pride is boastfulness. Gloat. When we create a Bias, we create an opposition: a vulnerability. We become the imbalance. Absolute self destruction. The only purpose of the Proud is to drag as many others down with them as possible
    Pride is the source of it all. It has no definition. There's not a language out there that can give it a definition for it is the source of erry negative psychological aspect of us. It's all negative things at once. Arrogance, Ignorance, and then Intolerance

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 7 місяців тому

      ​@@BOT-jx3lw Really? I'm just repeating what the guy said but under different context, a more relatable context
      It's really basic psychology and philosophy. I thought it was very self-explanitory

  • @anthonypraskin5187
    @anthonypraskin5187 Рік тому

    As with virtually all of your videos, this one is well thought out and clear. I read your book on stoicism, and found it quite illuminating. Thanks for your continued excellence.

  • @CodingWithTheForce
    @CodingWithTheForce Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for the videos you create and the work you put into them.

  • @damienkarney2251
    @damienkarney2251 Рік тому +3

    I really enjoyed this video and enjoyed reading the discussions it generated even more.

  • @josecabralferraro661
    @josecabralferraro661 11 місяців тому +3

    In truth, for Catholics, pride is always a sin, but it should not be confused with ADMIRATION, which is one of the cardinal virtues.
    In the last part of the video, he differentiates between the different types of pride, but the "good" one is admiration, not pride.

  • @kellyhawk6504
    @kellyhawk6504 Рік тому

    Lately, your videos are my favorite.I start my day watching your content! Thank you.

  • @Smatt1337
    @Smatt1337 15 днів тому

    Incredibly good video and topic. Thanks for making this.

  • @centfisk
    @centfisk Рік тому +4

    I feel proud to be subscribed to this channel and this fact makes me better than anyone else!

  • @GioDrago
    @GioDrago Рік тому +5

    Yet another great video, Here's to many more to come.

  • @gtrnavci
    @gtrnavci 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sheding light on distinction between pride (arrogance and self-adulation--flattery for one-self--a form of idolatry) and self-dignity (that I would define in this context: the moral requirement to be treated equally).

  • @kuibeiguahua
    @kuibeiguahua 11 місяців тому

    Your use of art in your videos really tie everything up

  • @nekaylasmith
    @nekaylasmith Рік тому +6

    I enjoyed this. Thank you ❤️

  • @gdeamonlord
    @gdeamonlord Рік тому +7

    As with most things if they are excessive they will have a negative effect on us, it's the same with pride and as you well said if you take pride in your accomplishments without having the need to be validated by others, pride shouldn't be a sin but in my opinion the thin line between "safe" pride and sinful pride is what makes it the worst of the sins. Also i think its much harder to acknowledge yourself if you are a proud person and even harder to change into a more humble one.

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому

      Pride is Pride, excessive or not. "ful', 'ness', they're just exaggerations. I simply refer to them as the Proud
      Pride is the foundation in which we build our Ego upon
      Pride has nothing to do with anyone but oneself. It revolves around the self. It glorifies the self. It makes errything else about oneself via association. Boastfulness
      Pride in oneself or others is just selfish. You do not 'give' Pride, you 'take' it. For yourself. Embellishment of the Ego. Absolute narcissism
      Pride is an Ego-Driven impulse. It's a reaction to reality when nothing goes our way. Envy, Greed, Wrath, etc | Hatred, sadness, discontentment, dysphoria, despair, depression, etc. They're just symptoms

  • @oscarsacco648
    @oscarsacco648 Рік тому

    Amazing video like always!!
    Please keep going with this series🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @lopwidth7343
    @lopwidth7343 Рік тому

    On the path to enlightenment. Thank you for making this video. Very nicely made

  • @noidreculse8906
    @noidreculse8906 Рік тому +2

    Well written and excellent food for thought 😊

  • @jovandavidovic1
    @jovandavidovic1 Рік тому +16

    There are two kinds of pride, and it is wise not to confuse them.
    There is pride that shows as arrogance, which says that you are less than I am. This pride shows pain and chaos in our relationships.
    There is pride that sows dignity and satisfaction in myself and others. This pride serves as message to others that they are also dignified and capable of doing things well.

    • @GlobalBricks1
      @GlobalBricks1 Рік тому +5

      There is just one pride, not many.

    • @Seraphim190.
      @Seraphim190. Рік тому +2

      pride is just pride. believe it or not.

    • @GlobalBricks1
      @GlobalBricks1 Рік тому +2

      @@Seraphim190. 👍 yep
      🤮

    • @yamataichul
      @yamataichul 11 місяців тому +2

      The "2nd pride" still sneaking it's ugly head to mean the initial version. What you're looking for is being happy for someone's achievement and having self-respect. When you tell someone you're proud of them evokes some level of dismissive/ avoidant attachment to who they are as opposed to what they achieved

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому

      Your 2nd definition doesn't speak of Pride, it speaks of Gratitude: Pride's exact opposite
      Pride is the foundation in which we build our Ego upon. It is driven entirely by the Ego
      Pride has nothing to do with anyone but oneself. It revolves around the self. It glorifies the self. It makes errything else about oneself via association. Boastfulness. Megalomaniac
      Pride in oneself/others is just selfishness. You do not 'give' Pride, you 'take' it. For yourself. Embellishment of the Ego. Absolute narcissism
      Pride is Supremacy, the embodiment of insecurity. A coping mechanism born from low self worth and/or accomplishment. It suggests perfection. The false sense of Superiority and Security. 100% delusional
      There's nothing the Proud won't say or do to avoid Humility, even if it comes at the cost of others. It's an Ego-Driven impulse
      Pride is simply a reaction to reality when nothing goes our way. Pride is insatiable. Nothing will ever be enough
      *Pride is the source of erry negative psychological aspect of us*
      [SELFISHNESS. Discontentment, dysphoria, disatisfaction, despair, depression, sadness, hatred, jealousy, Fear, rejection, denial, insecurity, etc] An ingrate
      *Gratitude is the source of erry positive psychological aspect of us*
      [SELFLESSNESS. Humbleness, humility, dignity, satisfaction, contentment, inner peace, true acceptance, fearlessness, confidence, Love, etc. Faith is certainty]
      Never take Pride, only give Gratitude

  • @AbePelay0
    @AbePelay0 Рік тому

    Wow 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 incredibly powerful video. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @Erika2K
    @Erika2K 9 місяців тому

    Amazing discussion, thank you for the knowledge.

  • @kasturikangkanasaikia4407
    @kasturikangkanasaikia4407 Рік тому +10

    This is one of my favorite channel. Thank you. ❤

  • @plastick7146
    @plastick7146 Рік тому +3

    And now we celebrate this sin in the street and Ironcally we do it with Pride…

  • @bjbalva
    @bjbalva Рік тому

    I needed to hear this today. Hope everyone gets a having a great day.

  • @rubenp307
    @rubenp307 Рік тому +1

    Excellent videos, you are doing humanity a great service

  • @LifeLikeSage
    @LifeLikeSage 11 місяців тому +4

    Perfect recommendation timing.

  • @-Retired-
    @-Retired- Рік тому +4

    Nice recommendation UA-cam

  • @aivarasabromaitis3870
    @aivarasabromaitis3870 3 місяці тому

    This video hit me right on spot. Thank you.

  • @austinkanneth7456
    @austinkanneth7456 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for making this video.❤️

  • @shinonkim4814
    @shinonkim4814 Рік тому +2

    My most unhappy periods of time in my life are directly correlated to those times when I have the most amount of pride and ego.

  • @peacegirl1215
    @peacegirl1215 Рік тому +9

    This is such an important message, but for many it is very hard to accept. Thank you for breaking this idea of @ I’m better than you”. We are all one under God. Thank God humanity is evolving and hopefully we will be able to love all people without pride which comes down to fear. Love cancels fear. Let’s keep loving and see miracles!! ❤️

    • @nekaylasmith
      @nekaylasmith Рік тому

      God bless you. I agree.

    • @Damesanglante
      @Damesanglante Рік тому +1

      Religious people have pride over their fairy tale. 🙃

  • @captainnima
    @captainnima Рік тому

    This was truly excellent. Thank you

  • @egaliterrevolt
    @egaliterrevolt 4 місяці тому

    tq for making and upload this video🙏this is so enlighten

  • @vitatover2449
    @vitatover2449 11 місяців тому +3

    I like that you addressed the complexity. I think im a prideful person, but i also feel proud when i act right (not always, and not consistently lately) but when i do , i feel it strongly, especially when i do something for my parents or loved ones that doesnt advantage me, or when i choose the right thing even though i really dont want to. I feel something that i think is pride, but is that a good form of pride? I feel it sort of marrs the moment and I cringe. But maybe at some point, especially if you have a life to live an people who need you, you have to give up the ideal and cede a little to pragmatism. You have to keep pride in perspective I guess, in check, and pray to be able to do good deeds and not feel proud for them, for doing the right thing to be your essence. But i guess when your mired in a lot of sin it might be useful to cautiously use pride to start to do the right things.

  • @alessandrobenvenuti6551
    @alessandrobenvenuti6551 Рік тому +4

    When you care very little about what others think about you, the act of bringing one down from it’s pedestal of lies is not about wanting to feel better about yourself. It’s about defending yourself from someone else believing to be above you, acting on that self absorbed conviction.

    • @johnmpandaguta3289
      @johnmpandaguta3289 Рік тому +1

      Interesting

    • @razorboii864
      @razorboii864 Рік тому +1

      Can you actually defend yourself from what people think?

    • @alessandrobenvenuti6551
      @alessandrobenvenuti6551 Рік тому +2

      @@razorboii864 no, but I specified “and acting upon”. As a prerequisite I said “when you don’t care”, so it’s irrelevant if you can defend against a thought or not.
      People will always grasp very little, but fantasize a lot, so why bother?

  • @anntrope491
    @anntrope491 11 місяців тому +1

    Having good self esteem protects a person from allowing themselves from being abused. If one has no self esteem...they are easily beaten down, & susceptible to abuse from others, self abuse, & an ineffective life. 3 things all children should be given freely is...1) Acceptance...i.e. unconditional love. I love you as you are. 2)Validation...acknowledging effort, or accomplishment. A pat on the back for positive actions. 3) Encouragement...What do you want to do with your life ? I will help you get there. One needs to be able to carry ones self confidently...be a leader, not a follower. I was abused as a child. I was stripped of my self worth. I almost died from self abuse from having not been assigned any value. I put myself in dangerous situations, & could have had my life taken. I worked very hard, & took pride in my work, which gave me my self esteem back, which stopped the self abuse, & gave me value as a human being. I stopped following, & stand up for myself, & others. This has literally saved my life from becoming an addict, a victim. ..& dead from murder, or suicide. To have no value...sets one up for failure, waste, & an early death. I don't put myself above, or below anyone now...except for that which created me, & nurtured me. MY GREATFUL THANKS TO THE GREAT MYSTERY, I.E. GOD, ( WHO AM I TO DEFINE GOD? & THE GREAT MOTHER EARTH FOR MY CREATION, & SUSTENANCE. I AM A CHILD OF THE UNIVERSE, NO LESS THAN THE TREES & THE STARS. ..I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE....HERE.

  • @shashwatsingh6319
    @shashwatsingh6319 Рік тому +2

    Vegeta : A Saiyan never loses his pride until he watches Einzelgänger.

  • @MikeyfromBOS
    @MikeyfromBOS Рік тому +4

    Wow, an actual explanation of the reality in current life! I think this is the best explanation of the rational of many people with nationalist pride. I was struggling to make sense of why for a bit now.

  • @thaihm
    @thaihm Рік тому +3

    Very nice. I am interested to hear a discussion about the excessive fear of pride.

    • @Seraphim190.
      @Seraphim190. Рік тому +1

      no different to the fear of being wrong

  • @85AngelRogue
    @85AngelRogue Рік тому +1

    This has been a great episode ❤
    Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @curtisbryce5096
    @curtisbryce5096 11 місяців тому +2

    Now I get how Pride comes before the fall.

  • @watcherworld5873
    @watcherworld5873 Рік тому +5

    This video explains what "Holier than Thou" means.

  • @mraidin321
    @mraidin321 Рік тому +2

    Love is the realization that there is no difference between anything

  • @marcoventura9451
    @marcoventura9451 9 місяців тому +1

    Pride is good as long as is not self centered and is the result of achievements obtained with work, fairness and gratitude. Our society more often than not goes in the opposite direction and encourages a mere individualistic pride, envy and success, i.e. money, no matter the prices to be paid. Be a good and a wise person, courageous, and be proud, with dignity, to accomplish and achieve things (even "small thing" of everyday life) that can improve your as well as others lives. I know it sounds as a kind of"utopia" but I think that it's possible and actually it has been in many cases. Thank you for another great video!

  • @SirPlutoUnruly
    @SirPlutoUnruly 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for making this video.

  • @aleksimoose
    @aleksimoose Рік тому +4

    I think pride motivates you to become better then everyone else gives you a desire to win and rule. But I think it becomes a problems when it's obsession.

    • @cqllel5186
      @cqllel5186 5 місяців тому

      Pride is the foundation in which we build our Ego upon
      Pride has nothing to do with anyone but oneself. It revolves around the self. It gorifies the self. It makes errything else about oneself via association
      Pride in oneself or others is just pure selfishness. You do no 'give' Pride, you 'take' it. For yourself. Embellishment of the Ego. Absolute narcissism
      That's the 'motivation' you speak of
      It becomes obsession bcuz Pride is insatiable. It's supremacy, the false sense of superiority and security. The desire to remain superior, whatever the cost
      What the Proud have is never enough. Insatiable. Discontent. Dysphoric. An Ingrate
      Gratitude is the true opposite to Pride

  • @emiliog.4432
    @emiliog.4432 Рік тому +12

    Today, pride shows itself through the Dunning-Krueger effect. If we can’t recognize our own flaws it is easy to fall into these 7 characteristics. We must all help, love and teach each other.

    • @Smyrna37
      @Smyrna37 Рік тому +1

      Some people don't want to be teached unfortunately, and don't want to change. Put the energy into those who are receptive

    • @emiliog.4432
      @emiliog.4432 Рік тому +1

      @@Smyrna37 I agree. There’s a saying, people want to learn, they just don’t like being taught.

    • @justachannel8600
      @justachannel8600 Рік тому +1

      May I say I kind of hate that term? The idea of dumb overconfidence has been around for 1000s of years. Yet somehow these modern people have managed to get their names attached to it which ironically is quite hubristic.

    • @Trancymind
      @Trancymind Рік тому

      The ones who needs the help the most are the arrogant ones. Oh wait... That's pride! Good luck helping those people. I heard most of them are deaf for some reason. Lucifers ear wax they call it, it sticks like gum gum.

  • @njieenowjonathan976
    @njieenowjonathan976 Рік тому

    Really interesting video
    I love the way it was documented

  • @johnmorse8434
    @johnmorse8434 Рік тому

    Really good video, got me thinking about how I see my world.