This Is What Female Entitlement Looks Like
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@@Ounouh My comment about this topic keeps being deleted for some reason. But yes, look up your sponsor. A great video was made by Scott Shafer on this topic.
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@@skc9917 I saw this video too, and was disturbed by how blatant it was!
yeah, scam, watch out
Prince Charming isn't dead.... He never existed in the first place.
Nah. He just ran off with Prince Florian after Cinderella became a clone of her stepsisters….
He's on Epstein Island kissing on feet.
@@jonnaughton LOL THIS!
He only existed in a Disney fairytale. Unfortunately nobody told women about that tiny little detail.
Only in disney movies and women's deluded brains.
Top floor should just be a pet store with only cats.
Absolutely!
There are no men here only cats. May I interest you in a cat ? Do you have a color preference ? LOL
I've heard some women tell me that my career is a "privilege". They don't see the work, the time, the energy and focus required to reach a level of experience.
I know what it cost me. It kept me honest.
I smile at them and note which women are jealous. It's not so much me that they have an issue with and any perceived success, it's actually themselves that they have an issue with. Knowing how to identify saves you a lot of time.
Just a question - what career do you have?
Woman tend to have innate tendency to be jealous and resentful about anything you have: resilience, strength, gold bracelet, stunning girlfriend, some title, nice house, excellent husband, well behaved pet; and they have no qualms to steal and destroy absolutely everything you have achieved and worked for your whole life, just to feel a little bit better about themselves.
And yet they want men with these "privileges" 😂
I think it's rather sad, actually. People like this still percieve the world as if a young child: it's all black-and-white, and zero-sum, and everything is just a present that is simply supposed to appear under their tree by magic in the morning because that's being adored and cherished.
I cannot imagine how hollow life must be for them when they don't really know who they are, which at at least partly comes to us through a bunch of serious effort; work that doesn't always pay off fully as we might have hoped, either, but we know we gave it our best go anyway.
I'm a female and I just want to say thank you to you for your videos! They are so sobering, insightful, wise and really refreshing :)
i think the problem is that they objectify men. that's really what it amounts to.
we objectify each other , I think its a cultural thing effecting both genders
women objectify men as success objects. Men objectify women as sex objects
or something along those lines
Feminism really objectifies men by turning them into a mere cog of the machine called the all-powerful all-evil 'patriarchy'.
Women definitely objectify men. In fact they see us only as a utility and our entire value is in our utility. As soon as we stop being usefule, they stop loving us. While with men, we slightly objectify until we fall in LOVE! Once we fall in love that overcomes a fair amount of our objectification! As women grow old, they become far less the sex object that they were, but we still stay with them out of love & duty. Modern women have proven that too few will do this for us if we stop being useful! Women's objectification of men is FAR worse as there is no way to bypass it!
@@rolfjohansen5376 in part, but it also has alot to do with how each sexes brains are typically hardwired to think.
> Females tend to be object-oriented thinkers. (They "objectify" other women more than men do by a considerable margin, for example)
> Males tend to be function-oriented thinkers. (This to mean that males tend to be abstract/concept focused)
(guy who checks off the sixes) I actually compromised a little on my physical requirements for a girl with a great personality... until two years into the relationship when she adopted the exact same traits that caused me to leave my hotter ex (non-stop, 24/7 "You should worship me."). After trying to get her to change course, she refused, and I left her. The whole time, I'm thinking: "I compromised... and I wound up with the same outcome ANYWAYS. W... T... F...?" The compromise never happened a 2nd time.
Girls say "don't give an ugly guy a chance" sounds like you can't give an ugly girl a chance either
Compromise on your part is fine. It's just that you don't control them, and if they're being uncompromising, that's when you walk away.
In a book nobody reads or heeds anymore, I found something.
God told Eve (after the forbidden fruit)
"Your blood will still desire man, but will seek to rule over him".
Coincidence ? Maybe, but if true they really can't help it. So I NEVER give in.
Yeah, I understand that
Established Titles is a scam Alex, pull out
Let’s get this comment noticed.
It's not a scam. It's like adopting a tiger at the zoo for 15 a month. They preserve land in scotland with the money
@Commander Shepherd
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Do your research my guy
@@commandershepard9601 Yes it is. Watch Scott Shafers video on it
@@sl1ck64 it's a scam in the sense that you have no legal right to call yourself a lord. Its not a scam in the sense that they aren't just taking your money and doing nothing. Watch Mutahars video on it. They've donated to the charity they advertise and have planted 2 million plus trees and the money goes to preserving Scottish land
The other half of the joke is the Wife Store. Same rules apply . . . The first floor has women that have that "girl next door" look: quite cute, but not spectacular. They were raised with traditional values and will be good wives, mothers, and homemakers, and are loyal. The second floor women have the same qualities, but also have a high libido. No one has ever set foot on the other floors . . .
Yeahhhno, don't put men on the same entitlement. It's a women thing only maybe for some exceptions but men are in general more happy and know their value
@@cedricdellafaille1361 I would say men undervalue themselves. Outside of it, spot on 🎯
@@oscaraurelio8869 It's about the lies you're told when you're young. Men are told less overall. It's why most of them _can't_ overvalue themselves.
@@whenpigsfly8178 Exactly!
@@whenpigsfly8178 imagine how much of a mockery would an average man be if he proudly said "I DESERVE A HIGH VALUE WOMAN" absolute delusion
I always told my ex gf before we split up "I may never be your prince charming but you are far from a princess yourself "
I’m both happy for you and disappointed that I couldn’t get such a relationship. Both are true.
Relatable lol
@@bro4539 nice analogy. For me it’s more of a self esteem issue. I have enough self awareness to know that I’m not attractive to the opposite sex, and there’s nothing I can do about that. I can still improve myself and my life, but you can’t improve your genes or get a better personality. My triggers are when I see a fat/stupid/old/dickhead with a girlfriend. The challenge is to have a sense of self worth independent of external factors.
When I take an honest look at men who have success in career, friendship, and romance, I feel a ton of jealousy. But I don't feel resentment toward _them;_ I feel resentment toward myself for not having the tools to earn that success for myself and not having the knowledge or resources to acquire those tools. And a lot of that comes from trying, failing, and eventually giving up. I'm happy for someone when they've earned something, and I'll absolutely acknowledge that. But I'm still unhappy with my own life and situation and wish I could just follow a foolproof plan with all the doors ahead of me clearly marked and a guarantee that enough effort would lead to success.
This is why a high body count matters with women... they don't just move onto the next guy. They incorporate all his positive traits into a fantasy man who doesn't exist.
A lot of us men were lied to by society & didn't know much about female nature until we had multiple relationship failures so in that sense you were fortunate you got into the pua stuff early & learned how women operated.Personally I was a teen in the 80s & all I noticed was top tier women dating guys that were called yuppies that were around 30yrs old professionals with high paying jobs that drove BMW's & wore rolex watches ⌚️
A few years ago I was in my first ever relationship at 26. After a few months I began to suspect she was cheating but had no proof. I had a private consultation with Alexander. He questioned me and my beliefs quite thoroughly. In the end it came down to “What about this woman made her high quality?”.
Not right then but some time after I eventually saw that my relationship value system was naive. That relationship crashed and burned spectacularly as it became apparent she was living not just two but three lives…
Afterwards, I will admit I got a bit bitter as I had a non physical rebound with a toxic feminist. That said, the question of what made my ex a high quality woman lingered. Was she? No. Then what is a high quality woman? Alexander planted a seed that day in my head.
He also planted another one as I had told him that I would be going back to University at 27 to study Psychology. He pointed out that at University I would have a unique opportunity given my age giving me status and the opportunity to form female friendships. At the time I had told him I had no interest in dating or trying to befriend a college aged girl. (Feminist programming telling me that I should date older and not be a creep).
Long story short, I spent the first year and a half of Uni figuring out what a high quality woman was and what I wanted. I formed platonic friendships with women and learned how to have a friendship with them without expectations. And like Alexander said here, when I realised that one of my friends met my values and that I would regret it if I never tried, I worked for it and made it happen. I have never been happier and have found someone works to be worthy of me as I work to be worthy of her.
There were all kinds of obstacles. We have an age gap of 9 years for example. The point is that if you put the work in to figure out your values, improve yourself and find what is truly important to you, and also take those hard earned opportunities then you will be more than just happy with your relationship, you’ll be satisfied which is something that will help buffer the times when in life when things don’t go your way.
Thank you for sharing this. I truly appreciate it.
I don't think an age gap of just 9 years is that much of an obstacle... it might be, if she is 9 years older, but not the other way round 😅
So at 27 you decided to prey on younger women at university? Found the creep
9 years isn't much. One of my grandmother's married a guy that was 20 years younger than her. That's an age gap haha
The age gap was more an obstacle for me mentally because I was partially worried about how it would look for a 29 year old dating a 20 year old and I was also afraid of a maturity gap. I care a lot less about unimportant people’s judgments now. Meeting her family sorted that out! 😂 Also glad to report that a maturity gap is not a problem either 😅
Alexander is one of the first UA-camrs I discovered when I've entered the manosphere for the first time after my first and very hard breakup. That was more than 3 and a half years ago. And I am telling you, Alexander provided nothing but invaluable content in that time frame. His insights and research on evolutionary psychology, male & female dynamics, various statistics and Q&As is gold. Thank you.
I think that when those guys said you got "lucky" they didn't mean as in stumble upon a great girl randomly like finding $20 in the street. I think what they might have meant (not speaking for them) is that you were able to identify your personal strengths and shortcomings, the things you do or don't do enough to improve yourself at a young age to be able to work on them. And that once you found that girl you decided to stick with her and not continue searching for someone better because that's what most guys would do in their 20s.
You might have earned your success, but I think that there a so many guys who have worked hard and got very little out of it while seeing guys who don't work hard get all the success. I know I have.
A different example I would use is going to university, being top of your class and then seeing people who are at the bottom of your class getting the jobs you want simply because they have the rights contacts. I think that people are jealous of other people for being in the right place, at the right time, meeting the right people even though they didn't work as hard as you have.
But I'm mostly happy for people like you and somewhat jealous at the same time.
I'm not sure if you know too much about them, but you should look more into Established Titles.
Last week bought a "plot of land" with your code - it doesn't let you use BF + some other discount together.
That's the smallest problem tho.
As i meant this for a birthday gift for my father, but after finding out new details about this company, i don't think a 60eur paper is the thing i want to be gifting.
Really like your content and respect you so i hope you give this collaboration some further thought.
I think it was Optimus who brought it up. Mentioning the likes of Some Ordinary Gamer and The Quartering. Saying how Established Titles aren't selling anything but fancy paper.
The plots of land aren't even the title holder's. Nor is their title real. The reasons provided was that the land "sold" was too small to be given. And land ownership doesn't automatically grant you lord status.
You can’t usually use 2 discount codes on any site.
@@maidende8280 yes but he explicitly said that u can
@@LeonardLiiva Ahh that’s lame then. I skipped the ad.
@maidende8280 not sure if in this one but in the video from which i got the idea.
Women are not the price, Quality men are. The wall is still unbeaten.
I have no doubt that you have earned your success. But it is wrong and dangerous to suggest that luck has played no part - health, genes, intelligence and attractiveness are all wholly or largely down to luck, and we should all be humble enough to recognize this. What you have done is to play the cards you were fortuitously handed very well.
Height! Women prefer taller men and we have NO control over this! Which country one is born in, and one's race! We are engaging in all or nothing thinking by not acknowledging the role that luck has.
Acknowledging determinism has always been bad for business in the self help industry.
@@Sensorium19 , so true. There would be no business at all.
I mean, Alexander is short, and not muscular. So yeah.
@@inconnu4961 if you aren't wanted in the West because you can't compete with better males, don't breed. Or leave the West to other pastures. End of story
You’ve helped me tremendously Alexander, to understand all people, men, other women, & myself. All Aspergers people should watch your content.
I hope things are going well for you.
How are the things with your significant other?
Alex... you could evaluate changing the sponsor. Or do more research, new information has come to light
This joke never gets old. Love the acting. Now where is the second half. The wife store.
The Wife Store is interesting, you can either get a wife who does A or B, but not both. Maybe you want C or D, you can only get one that is able to do A or B.
Yes I am happy for your success and I think you can be proud of your work and achivements over the past 5 years!
I actually chuckled when you got sidetracked to your topic.
For now, my luck ran out because my “date” passed away recently.
Oh well, I’m back in the dating market.
Keep the videos coming; I sometimes share these videos and “test” them right then and there. Lol
Your journey sounds amazing alex....i did not take an interest in psychology and relationship knowledge until my own marriage folded. Similarly it seems that recognizing disfunctionality can be a real spur on to personal growth.
Had to work envy out of my system as a younger man and did come to realize that what falls my way is largely due to my own making and the condition of my mind and heart (doing weights also helps 😉).
Im 49 and i still get so much out of your channel.
God bless!
I’m glad Alexander has the acuity for this stuff. He’s helping me learn things I didn’t even think about.
After listening to your honesty and thoughtful unwrapping of all this I subscribed. You are rare Alex. I for one can so relate to this struggle.
Strongly disagree with your statement that there is no luck involved. Effort only increases your odds at getting something. The quality of the effort and the resulting increased odds are however a function of one's genetics and environment variables you have no control over. That is luck.
You win: when preparation meets with opportunity
The "Husband Store" is as old as the hills, but still very true. Standards are superficial when they include things like > 6' and blue eyes. It would be like a man demanding a certain bra size.
Bro, check out the controversy around Established Titles happening rn, you may wanna drop them as a sponsor.
Found my filipina soulmate thanks to your channel. You changed my mindset to the point where I could become the man I need to find a truly high quality woman. For her, I am the man on the fifth floor and she knows that there will not be another. She is grateful for me, I am grateful for her.
So many girls in my country and in the west have missed out on me and my girl is just mindblown that they wouldn't even realize what they lost.
Be careful, I've known many service members who were taken to the cleaners with pinoy brides. They know that 10 years of service equals half of their retirement and sought divorce as soon as they were eligible for benefits. "Little Manilla" were common enclaves in some military towns.
Missed out on you 🤣
I hope you’re Asian too. Or at least not White.
@@iSoldat Thanks, and yeah, I have put a lot of consideration into how to vet girls from a region which is so much poorer than my own. One of the main conclusions is to make sure she is already somewhat middle class, and has a serious job or is working on a serious education intending to be able to take care of herself, instead of having the attitude that a man will just come along and take care of her.
@@maidende8280 I'm as White as they get, being from Scandinavia.
I'm happy as hell for you man!
I think there s luck involved into everything, as world is inherently stochastic. However the skillsets we are cultivating play for sure a big role towards stacking the probabilities for the things we want to achieve ( whatever this is) in our favor
Exactly, it is a game of probabilities, improving your chances doesn't mean you will for certain win, but any shot at success requires maximizing them.
Why is perfection unhealthy? - Perfection is an illusion. Pursuing it can lead to mental ill health such as stress/anxiety/depression/etc - More realistically, we should strive for excellence. - As for conning others into striving for perfection for a woman's benefit, that's manipulation !
I love AG's channel. I'm sure it's saved many relationships and marriages.
And stopped many dysfunctional ones from being formed.
Not to discredit any work you put in but everything in life comes with an element of luck. There are many men who put in the same amount of work if not more and ended up empty handed.
As men we are happy when we see someone succeed. It shows that is possible and is great motivator!
Luck always has a role in everything in life. You were not born with disabilities that turn all women alway from you because of luck
Congratulations for your achievements.
My response to Alexander's story is a third option. It's passive approval. I don't admire his relationship because it's his relationship and partner, not mine.
I say that with no animosity. I don't want Alexander's fulfilling relationship, I want my own.
I can observe and take in his thoughts and apply what it useful to my own life (of which there has been much!) but I can't say I have any strong feelings when listening to his background.
I think Alexander agrees if he thinks about it, and is a big reason why he withheld his background as long as he did.
His own background is only so relevant to a UA-cam audience.
The top floor of the Husband Store is filled with cats and antidepressants.
She is the 2423423423th woman who copied this exact video. They are all so creative.
Yeah pretty sure I heard the joke maybe 10-15 years ago.
But on the bright side, at least they are getting the message! I imagine it would be too difficult to tell the joke, and not get the underlying message of it!
imagine the wife store: 1st floor - she is not obese. Men: thats it I found my wife.
This was very close to how i picked mine, as the pickings were slim for a guy like myself! But I had dated the obese chick before! And was shamed for not wanting to date an even MORE obese chick, by women, because she was a nice girl!
I am happy that you are happy with your choices, efforts and related sacrifices, it's indeed earned that you are reaping the rewards. However, I think you finding a 'unicorn' is indeed not a given, so in part it is luck. I think the work should not be done with a goal of a relationship in mind but with self-actualization in mind (self perceived high value). By being self-actualized and not relying on external validation from a woman/relationship is a path to happiness/freedom for me, but it's not for everyone - some men really desire a woman, and potentially sacrifice too much as for them without it life becomes lacking in directions, ergo meaningless. What are your thoughts, sometimes good things come especially when you don't run after them.
100% this, there's always a degree of luck involved.
They're all unicorns during the honeymoon..
You are very wise. I learnt so much from you. Thank you
I found my wife at 23, looking back I was incredibly lucky that she is a perfect match for me. Everything you tell on your channel is so glas clear to me today (almost 40). But at 23 I was just stupid and inexperienced.
Hopefully I can impart some wisdom to my son along the way so that he is less reliant on luck. I agree that Gen Z has a much harder time.
Differences make us unique. Chuuuch
And I just felt happy for you for your success, and grateful for your help with reaching mine.
Established titles is out as a scam business Alex
Honestly, Who cares? Many people complain about the ads on his videos. But Alexander himself said that he does not like to do them, but it is necessary for the channel. Why don't you just skip that part of the video if it bothers you so much?
(As other commenters have said...) Your original crossing of paths with this woman was at least a little bit lucky.
I completely respect your effort - both before meeting her and building the relationship into what it is today.
I love this message
On a whole, I agree with you, Alexander. But boy oh boy a have a couple of caveats. First, there is a difference between jealousy and envy. I know that modern English standards of speech are falling to the ground, but it is important.
You feel jealous of someone when he/she has something you don't have. It doesn't imply ill will. Just longing. You can feel both respect and jealousy at the same time.
Envy on the other hand wants to crush you and what you have. When you feel angry with jealousy. Then you are envious. And I wholly agree that envy is a sign of low quality.
There is also a third emotional response. And I would even argue the most appropriate one. Disinterest. For example, I am not prone to developing para-social relationships. We never meet, nor do we ever talk. For all cases and purposes as a YT influencer, you are just a voice that shares knowledge. And there is implied fakeness to this line of work. There is no reason to get emotionally involved. Besides, it is old news. People that watch your channel know that you worked hard on your skills. That you have a PUA background. That you found good women and work to make the best relationship possible out of it. But without a personal connection, these are just facts.
Then you argue about the value of struggling to men. But I would argue it is a point of the whole life. Life without struggles becomes meaningless. And many fail even when they put their all into success. The world is an uncaring place.
And lastly, luck is always involved :) Every study about success and survivor bias boils down to the fact that luck is a secret ingredient. For example, your luck in a relationship is the fact that you met your current wife. If you never met women of such quality you would never be in this good position. You could argue that it is a number game. And I can argue what is even the probability of finding free high-quality women. Or maybe even the fact that you were born in Australia with providing you with all those opportunities. Nevertheless, this doesn't devalue either your skills and hard work or your achievements.
The message is great. Keep up the good work.
If you have standards, you’ll be labeled a chauvinist, misogynist, or accused of fat shaming. No thanks, I’m out of the game, happy, fulfilled alone.
I look you content for the really smooth transitions for the sponsor 😂
Well said my brother!
I feel happy for you, but if the woman would say the same thing.
Some women would hate it, they would want to drag you down.
I think luck has some also to do, I think looks does open the door to a relationship, because if she doesn't find you attractive by looks I think it will go well.
Maybe it's me, but I tried keep it going trying to persuade women, even if they decline but i do still think looks is the entrance of a relationship
I commented before I watched your whole video.
It is true , inheritance is not the same as you earned thar money.
I do understand your way what ur saying and I think I should start to go out of my comfort zone
Good luck with that wife and child in about 8 years.
Well, in a sense, it is better to be alone than on a bad relationship - we are all looking after making our life better not worse. But passing on good relaitonships because of unreasonable standards and getting bitter because of it is another huge can of worms.
I love how her gag never once mentioned chemistry or personality, assuming that he a person means nothing to most women or is just a given if he's got material traits!?! Fascinating
Ive never once been jealous of another man, my brain cant comprehend the deeply selfish nature of that.
Please drop Established Titles
Hey Alexander really appreciate all the great content but you may want to check out your sponsor. Very recently (in the last few days) it was exposed that established titles is in fact a scam. Might want to reconsider promoting them if I were you.
I think you have captured a very important point about how men view other men's success. When we feel like people have legitimately earned their place then there isn't that much bitterness involved. Political commentators will at least acknowledge the effort of their cultural counterpart have put into getting their audience, it's about the only positive things they are willing to say about each other. But when we feel like people have cheated the system, gaining success through means that cheapen the broad struggle, it's not jealousy, it's us viewing these people as legitimate threats to a functional reward structure that will continue to encourage positive human behaviour. Now there is luck, nepotism and outside forces that leverage some undeserving people over others, but as long as they acknowledge it then we feel a lot more ok with their success. It's part of the reason certain pop stars ( despite being talented) become despised when they bend the truth to sell themselves as more disadvantaged.
EDIT: I think you need to reassess how you define luck. If you didn't meet you wife, how likely do you think you would have found someone that could have given you a similar level of happiness in life? Did your hardwork turn a 0% chance into a 100% or did you turn your 0% chance into a XX% chance and after that you got lucky. The next question is whether you think you maxxed out that non XX% chance or not. The XX% just represents a wide level of uncertainty since we cannot define the level of luck needed for the vent to occur.
I disagree: There was lots of luck involved. You where lucky to find exactly her. You where lucky that she staid loyal to you and did not fall for another guy early on. Both examples where not in your control. "It's pure luck" is completely wrong, but thinking that there was 0 luck involved is equally wrong.
Really enjoyed your work and find the investigative and demonstrably accurate theory and discussion really illuminating. Keep at it brother! That's a beautiful spirt and attitude. 🙏❤️
Here I knew nothing about Alexanders personal life. This video here is prime evidence of actual competency. He isn't just a coaching his audience, it isn't smoke and mirrors. Many of the personalities on UA-cam talk a big game, but they don't have the life that makes any of their points seem genuine. How can someone give clear and good advice that's actually worth a damn if they can't apply it to their own life?
Interesting topic. I agree 100% and I'm not the jealous type however it's a lot more complicated. for sure some work hard and give a tons of amount of his life and still not getting what he deserves. It can be many things why some barley get results, wrong mindset with the wrong purpose, tragic events, the not right people in his life etc. So no, it's not that simple but even with that you just have to keep it up and not blaming others uselessly.
Then to keep with the equality they open a wife store. Same six floors, same rules.
First floor- those woman can cook
second floor- Those woman can cook and are great in bed.
Third floor remains unvisited
Great video!
I think people should pay more attention to deal breakers rather than deal makers
The things that make the relationship can be achieved in the relationship
the things that will always destroy the relationship have this habit of staying
In other words it's harder to change a negative attitude then it is a job
From my point of view, the fact that no one will come and help is the real freedom.
16:20 okay so you were born financially confortable. I did not. I had to work to survive.
yo @Alexander Grace! just wanted yall to know the whole established titles thing maybe looking like a scam. I encourage yall to look into it.
Women’s expectations of men are not too high in general. However, their entrance to to the workforce shrank the horizon for male success in half.
This needs to be recognized, and I don’t think I’ve seen it discussed once.
Ufck, why haven’t I started my UA-cam channel yet 😖
I believe as men we should marry once we're good in all aspects we wanted that would help your version where you're a married dad.
No, we should never marry
The statistics are not in mens favour. Marriage is a losing game for men. Any man who marries now deserves no sympathy when it implodes. The evidence is all there. You can’t be hurt or shocked. It is now close to being inevitable. Those currently in the process of divorce didn’t have all this information and they are truly hard done to.
A man in a marriage can only control his side of things but the woman is always one ‘feeling’ or one ‘emotion’ from pulling the plug. When she does, a man can potentially lose everything and it’s hard for a man to move on when crippled financially and emotionally. It is not the same for the woman. She is financially ok and she has generally been planning her exit for a while and is in a better place emotionally. Often she is having an affair or has the man’s replacement ready to go.
It’s not worth the risk. Most women don’t even provide the bare minimum of respect and love. The man was only ever a resource for her to fund herself and her kids. Women see kids as theirs only. Men find this out when the divorce is settled.
I’m 57 every time I take a woman out to eat after we order she goes to restroom and she never comes back
I love the sixth floor.
Smack on as usual ... except that I would replace _"responsibility"_ with _"accomplishment"._ Men are far _FAR_ more addicted to _ACCOMPLISHING_ things: Building things that work, fixing things that don't, acquiring valuable things (including accolades and titles), and successfully conquering things (including Nature and themselves). Responsibility naturally derives from these accomplishments, but is not the primary driving motivation, I think.
10:56 - good for you.
I feel like a quality man is actually prespective of the woman. What is qualities to one woman. Means nothing to the other. Vice versa with men too.
Thanks & good job. How much does genetics play? Can you compete if your genetics are weak?
There is a difference between expectations, and UNREALISTIC expectations......
I worked in the care sector for decades as a carer. The days that we had an all men shift.( shouldn'thave been but..)..all on the same page , no bitching, everyone helping ....Great shift
Yes you have been duped by Established Titles, Alexander. The titles of nobility in the UK are established because they are not just for sale through some patch of land, they are granted by the authorities (that is, the crown). They are legal titles that are regulated by Scottish and British traditional law. One does not become a lord or lady by planting some trees (or have others plant some trees). I also wonder if Scottish law actually allows land to be sliced up and sold off like that. Usually land acquisition in Europe is a rather complicated affair that is strongly regulated.
The department store on the opposite side 😆...
WOMEN... A department store opened in New York City that sold men and a woman decides to visit it in search of a husband. At the store’s entrance, there’s a sign outlining the department store policy. The first rule states that you can only enter the store once. There are six floors and on each floor you can choose a husband or elect to move on to the next floor. You cannot visit a floor more than once other than to leave the building. The woman visits the first floor. The sign reads: · Men with jobs. She moves on to the second floor: · Men with jobs that adore children. She moves on the the third floor where the sign reads: · Wealthy men that adore children and are very handsome. She thinks to herself, "that's a very good deal" yet moves on to the fourth floor: · Wealthy men that adore children, are very handsome and help with the household chores. She decides to move on as things are constantly improving: · Wealthy men that adore childern, are very handsome, help with the household chores and are very romantic. The woman is about to make her purchase but can't resist moving on to the sixth floor. There the sign reads: · You are visitor number 31,456,012 on this floor. · There are no men here. · This floor exists as proof that it is impossible to please women.
& MEN… Opposite this department store, another department store opened that sold women. The sign on the first floor reads: · Women that love sex. On the second floor the sign reads: · Women that love sex and are wealthy. On the third floor the sign reads: · Women that love sex, are wealthy and have large breasts. Not a single man has visited the fourth floor.
The top floor should be a pet store. Cat lady is bitter and lonely.
Hey Alexander I don’t know if you’ll see this but what are those books and information that you read to grow and learn? Or could you do a video over it.
I still think it's partly luck, you have to meet the right person... its fate. And if you had been ugly she might not even have been interested in you
with best chicks luck is a real thing - you HAVE TO meet them when they are young
3D reality, you HAVE to be in certain place in certain time to meet her - thats the luck part
you can miss her by 10 minutes, and never known about her existence
That's not luck, it's called getting off your ass and putting yourself out there constantly with a positive mental attitude.
I see you, I admire you. Legend
What is an entitled woman? An entitled woman is free to sell herself and she is entitled to a receipt for services.
Woman now are no prize, not at all.
When it comes to stuff like success on youtube and really in general, from my perspective it usually seems to make a lot of sense why someone has the level of success they do. And you see people like sneako who got cancelled and then kind of fell off, or andrew tate who got cancelled and just kept on doing his thing. Each scenario, it makes sense the path it took, why they got to their peak, why they were cancelled, like all of it. I look at someone like you with a relatively humble amount of subs, and this also makes sense. While I see you as highly intelligent, I think your topics would be disliked by many women. Taking away a huge part of your audience potential. I also personally think your production has quite a bit to do with it, like if you got some fancy lights in your setup, boom.
Old soldier teaching young soldier as in Trainig day or All quiet on the western front movies is something you wont see in women. Men tend to cooperate that way
Having the motivation to study the dynamics between men and women is mostly luck. That certainly helped your financial and relationship success. That's not to say you didn't put in work, it's just that people have similar talent might have been pushed into something else, born at the wrong time or not achieved a similar level of success.
Wait Alexander. I thought you said they were running a black friday sale at the husband store! /lol
The attributes he mentions do not seem like extra ordinary. His situation could jave gone wildly sideways. I believe he is very lucky for it.
I wouldn't want him to not be lucky, I think more people who do try should be "lucky".
Intuitively, I think he missed the point.
There is still a lot of luck involved even when a lot of time, effort, and money is put into getting into a relationship. A man could be born with certain genetic dispositions which make it almost impossible for him to get into a relationship: autism, severe social anxiety, certain severe mental illnesses, etc. Such things will cripple a man's social skills and conversation skills, giving him an extremely unattractive personality, making it so that no woman wants to be in a relationships with him. Some people are just screwed over by their genetics.
Also, a man's environment will also play a huge role. If he grows up in a very small town, there just won't be many chances for him to get into a relationship. Finding the right person largely depends on being in the right place at the right time. Many men simply miss their chance to find the right woman. And so even when a man puts in a ton of hard work, he can still end up empty handed year after year. A large part of getting into a relationship truly is luck, as much as people don't want to admit it. Lots of people don't want to admit this because doing so would be admitting that life can be very cruel and unfair and often completely out of one's control.