Hi im from Indonesia i was just having a relationship with a Indian men. He was 24 years old. So can i ask u that its right that he as a son always asking his parents for a money like i was giving advice him to have business so he can earn money by him self like for experience. But he say he doesnt want because his dad money is his money. Do india son like that? I was asking this because i just want him to experience earn money so he doesnt need asking money again to his dad
Cindy Beatrice yes that’s a very common thing in india, also in worldwide but in india parents want to give their parents everything but unfortunately a lot of kids lose ambition when mom and dad pay for it all, i do know many rich kids who also work hard though. in your case sounds like bored rich kid tho.
Yes my story is after a miserable 25 year arranged marriage , a divorce , two grown kids , he's 51 his parents are deceased but he still won't marry me because his sister doesn't approve because I'm white , never again will I put myself through the misery of loving an Indian man who never intended to marry me from day one
07:45 💡 Guys in India are often either clingy or emotionally stunted, which can make relationships difficult. 13:20 💡 It can be challenging for men to admit if a relationship is going somewhere or not. 16:10 💡 Men often think being boastful is a virtue, as they are taught to value success and status. 23:05 💡 The dating culture has changed with the rise of dating apps, leading to a more casual and hookup-oriented approach. 27:40 💡 Dating someone 11 years older can come with challenges, especially if they have been in a long-term marriage. 36:30 💡 Comparing a current partner to an ex is not healthy and may indicate emotional baggage. 41:20 💡 It's important to be direct and communicate your expectations in a relationship, especially when dating someone with a significant age difference.
@@SMASHTVLIVE1 Ok bro, I'm not trying to save a hoe or trying to get feminism pity points. I'm saying I see educated "woke" bros complain that their girl had ex boyfriends. There's no campaign here. But anyways, I appreciate you listening, so thanks for that.
@@BirdyNumNumPodcast I hear what you're saying. If a bro is woke then he should already know. This is true. Thanks for the reply, and I'm glad to view your content.
i have a long time indian lover for 15 yrs we lost contact and i got married then im on divorce process now we were able to reconnect again and he is a married man already but he said he never forgets about me he is a canadian citizen now and i’m a u.s citizen now also we are planning to meet here this yr i know its sounds wrong cause he is married now but the feelings for 15 yrs still in there.
I disagree with you. I am a woman and I think that people just don't talk to each other. Men are very romantic if you let them be a man and you care about more than what they make Listen to them, understanding goes both ways Be good to yourself
I recently met an Indian man and he’s been over twice. Now I’m not sure how to prepare for a third date I guess. Just want to let him know I’m ready fir a serious relationship. But, I don’t know if we have anything in common but sexually...
2:02 You spoke about possible reasons why Indian men are clingy, but not the part where they're emotionally stunted. I've only met emotionally immature indian men my whole life.
Do you know of any channels that are about American women or men dating Indian women or men. I’m an American woman dating a younger Indian guy and feel like there is a lot of issues and just wanted advice from other interracial relationships.
Birdy Num Num Podcast well one is, should I worry about him not wanting his family to know about me “yet” as he says? He tells me he wants me to go meet his parents in the future but here we tell our family about the person we are seeing before they meet them. Another one is he said early on in the relationship that he wanted to get married but then a few weeks after saying that said he didn’t want to get married yet but for a while still talked about “our” plans (his) of us getting married in india but then the other day we got in an argument and he did this mouthing thing he does acting like he’s me and making it out like I was the one who wanted all those future plans he talked about and like he wasn’t the one who brought those future plans up, so are a lot of Indians like that in their relationships? But a second part to that question is he is always saying we are married already that emotionally and mentally I’m already his wife so I told him if that was the case then why not go ahead and get married, any time I talk about it he changes the subject do indian men do that a lot? Because he changes the subject on a lot of things I try to talk to him about. Like I’ve asked him (begged him) to move in with me several times to help us save money for the future I thought he wanted and either he would change the subject or a fight would get started. So I guess my main one is why would an indian man hide his relationship with an American woman from his family if he’s really close to his family. I’ve tried telling him about all my feelings on everything but I feel like he don’t listen or care and me trying to tell him my feelings just starts a fight and ends up with him calling me negative and toxic and me telling him to get his stuff out of my apartment and leave but every time I never let him leave because I don’t want to loose him and love him with all my heart because I seen the good in him when we first got together I don’t know what has changed and made him start being hostile towards me he says he loves me but I’m scared it’s not true and I don’t want to go through all of this for nothing if he’s just going to dump me later.
Birdy Num Num Podcast sorry if none of this makes sense I have so much on my mind about him I don’t know where to begin and I don’t know what is ok talking about.
hey most indian men (myself included) are very protective of their family. also sadly many indian men in america (with family back in india) probably have no intention of letting their family know about their overseas relationships unless of course they are already skyping together and/or have met. it’s a cultural thing but also if he’s serious he should man up and tell his parents. otherwise he’s just wasting time. but to be fair (i don’t know him) i couldn’t wait for my family to meet my wife but that’s not to say complications with in laws don’t arise. i would simply say you want to chat and meet his family as step one, once that smooths ever (and rarely is it unless his family is cool as hell) and then see how that goes. there is no way you can get married without spending at least a few weeks or months getting to know them and another common problem is he may go home for a few weeks or month and then randomly get engaged a few weeks later. again maybe not him but just things i see all the time.
Birdy Num Num Podcast I felt all what you had said was true and have mentioned it to him before but every time he would say no my parents would kill me they would make me go back...for me all I wanted was to get to know his family and see if they are cool with it before I went to meet them...I was hoping that he wouldn’t just be playing me and any time he says he wants to see his family I tell him go ahead and go that I support it 100% because I love him and want him to see his family but every time I guess he does not go because the first time it came up I told him that since his family didn’t know about me I was scared he would end up with someone else while he was there and that I didn’t want that because it would crush me he is my everything my world I’ve never felt the way I do about him for anyone else I’ve ever dated....I know there are cultural differences but I’ve told him several times I am a very open minded person I accept everyone and their culture that I wanted to learn everything about his and learn hindi so I could speak to his family without a translator out of respect for them but he never really wants to try and teach me all he wants to do is try to teach me only the bad words so I get made and tell him he’s not teaching right so he gets mad and say no I just don’t want to learn then it turns into a fight and he ends up not teaching me anything so now I’ve turned to UA-cam to try and learn as much about the culture as I can because I want to be respectful to his family if I really do ever get to meet them...I feel he’s lying to me on them not being cool with it because his mom has been Facebook stalking me for a while and even went as far to like a lot of my pictures and sent me a friend request but he told me to not accept it and then he was on the phone with her one day and his mom talked about him dating here and mouthed that she liked some of his female friends and she mouthed especially that rosy girl (talking about me because my middle name is rose) and all he could do was look at me and smile...he told me what was said after the phone call which I ended up getting upset and told him that she clearly knows already so her saying she liked me was his time to tell her but he didn’t.
i few days back i reconnected with an old classmate. i called him and the moment he realized that i am not in datiing and just want to be friends he stopped talking. indian men keep searching for a girlfriend or wife in every woman they come across and dont want to befriend any girls.
arranged marriages are not as common anymore what are you talking about. dating is more and more common but nothing wrong with either. pls think a bit and be willing to question what society feeds you
@@BirdyNumNumPodcastas a ugly short indian 27 y o male..arrange marriage is my only hope..where salary and horoscope and family compatability takes preference....but in love marriages.. looks are everything..
American guy and yet keep cleaning your nose in every video?!?! Hygiene amongst Indian men is probably one of the first things which puts women off... as clean as your nose might be, brushing it every now and then in public and on video isn’t cute.
Birdy Num Num Podcast oof, my sympathies. Also I’m sorry for coming out rude. Pent up irritation from way too many guys thinking it’s completely acceptable to be sitting at their desk at work and casually with the help of a finger embark upon a treasure hunt up in the tunnels leading them to their brains...
Any stories dating Indian men?
Hi im from Indonesia i was just having a relationship with a Indian men. He was 24 years old. So can i ask u that its right that he as a son always asking his parents for a money like i was giving advice him to have business so he can earn money by him self like for experience. But he say he doesnt want because his dad money is his money. Do india son like that? I was asking this because i just want him to experience earn money so he doesnt need asking money again to his dad
Cindy Beatrice yes that’s a very common thing in india, also in worldwide but in india parents want to give their parents everything but unfortunately a lot of kids lose ambition when mom and dad pay for it all, i do know many rich kids who also work hard though. in your case sounds like bored rich kid tho.
Yes my story is after a miserable 25 year arranged marriage , a divorce , two grown kids , he's 51 his parents are deceased but he still won't marry me because his sister doesn't approve because I'm white , never again will I put myself through the misery of loving an Indian man who never intended to marry me from day one
i’m sorry to hear that i hope it works out with him or someone else who deserves ya then!
07:45 💡 Guys in India are often either clingy or emotionally stunted, which can make relationships difficult.
13:20 💡 It can be challenging for men to admit if a relationship is going somewhere or not.
16:10 💡 Men often think being boastful is a virtue, as they are taught to value success and status.
23:05 💡 The dating culture has changed with the rise of dating apps, leading to a more casual and hookup-oriented approach.
27:40 💡 Dating someone 11 years older can come with challenges, especially if they have been in a long-term marriage.
36:30 💡 Comparing a current partner to an ex is not healthy and may indicate emotional baggage.
41:20 💡 It's important to be direct and communicate your expectations in a relationship, especially when dating someone with a significant age difference.
Dating and relationships is something that men don't know much about. Understanding female behavior is the first step.
care to elaborate with examples?
@@SMASHTVLIVE1 Ok bro, I'm not trying to save a hoe or trying to get feminism pity points. I'm saying I see educated "woke" bros complain that their girl had ex boyfriends. There's no campaign here. But anyways, I appreciate you listening, so thanks for that.
@@BirdyNumNumPodcast I hear what you're saying. If a bro is woke then he should already know. This is true. Thanks for the reply, and I'm glad to view your content.
i have a long time indian lover for 15 yrs we lost contact and i got married then im on divorce process now we were able to reconnect again and he is a married man already but he said he never forgets about me he is a canadian citizen now and i’m a u.s citizen now also we are planning to meet here this yr i know its sounds wrong cause he is married now but the feelings for 15 yrs still in there.
I disagree with you. I am a woman and I think that people just don't talk to each other. Men are very romantic if you let them be a man and you care about more than what they make
Listen to them, understanding goes both ways Be good to yourself
I just came across your channel. You are awesome and hilarious 😂😂😂💜
I recently met an Indian man and he’s been over twice. Now I’m not sure how to prepare for a third date I guess. Just want to let him know I’m ready fir a serious relationship. But, I don’t know if we have anything in common but sexually...
What happen? Did you sleep with him right away?
@ PC are you guys in a relationship?
Lmao, I like how westoids when they reach their low power point suddenly want serious relationship 😂
The same
After 3 date's. Slow down and enjoy getting to know him and he you
U r very funni, adorable with lovely confidence. Nice listening you. Thxs luv/blessings
I really enjoyed this video. You are funny! Awesome advice.
2:02 You spoke about possible reasons why Indian men are clingy, but not the part where they're emotionally stunted.
I've only met emotionally immature indian men my whole life.
I'm dating an Indian man all I wanna know how to get him to marry me !!!!
propose to him?
Talk to his family
Did you marry him?
What happen girl?
That men should refrain from marrying.
No.4 why it so difficult to men to admit to going somewhere or its not .. Hahaha
Im in that situation. 😂
Anyway
Thanks for your advice 😊
Truthful words!
I don't know how I got here. Nevertheless enjoyed the video.
❤️
Do you know of any channels that are about American women or men dating Indian women or men. I’m an American woman dating a younger Indian guy and feel like there is a lot of issues and just wanted advice from other interracial relationships.
i don’t know but ask your question my wife and i can answer
Birdy Num Num Podcast well one is, should I worry about him not wanting his family to know about me “yet” as he says? He tells me he wants me to go meet his parents in the future but here we tell our family about the person we are seeing before they meet them. Another one is he said early on in the relationship that he wanted to get married but then a few weeks after saying that said he didn’t want to get married yet but for a while still talked about “our” plans (his) of us getting married in india but then the other day we got in an argument and he did this mouthing thing he does acting like he’s me and making it out like I was the one who wanted all those future plans he talked about and like he wasn’t the one who brought those future plans up, so are a lot of Indians like that in their relationships? But a second part to that question is he is always saying we are married already that emotionally and mentally I’m already his wife so I told him if that was the case then why not go ahead and get married, any time I talk about it he changes the subject do indian men do that a lot? Because he changes the subject on a lot of things I try to talk to him about. Like I’ve asked him (begged him) to move in with me several times to help us save money for the future I thought he wanted and either he would change the subject or a fight would get started. So I guess my main one is why would an indian man hide his relationship with an American woman from his family if he’s really close to his family. I’ve tried telling him about all my feelings on everything but I feel like he don’t listen or care and me trying to tell him my feelings just starts a fight and ends up with him calling me negative and toxic and me telling him to get his stuff out of my apartment and leave but every time I never let him leave because I don’t want to loose him and love him with all my heart because I seen the good in him when we first got together I don’t know what has changed and made him start being hostile towards me he says he loves me but I’m scared it’s not true and I don’t want to go through all of this for nothing if he’s just going to dump me later.
Birdy Num Num Podcast sorry if none of this makes sense I have so much on my mind about him I don’t know where to begin and I don’t know what is ok talking about.
hey most indian men (myself included) are very protective of their family. also sadly many indian men in america (with family back in india) probably have no intention of letting their family know about their overseas relationships unless of course they are already skyping together and/or have met. it’s a cultural thing but also if he’s serious he should man up and tell his parents. otherwise he’s just wasting time. but to be fair (i don’t know him) i couldn’t wait for my family to meet my wife but that’s not to say complications with in laws don’t arise. i would simply say you want to chat and meet his family as step one, once that smooths ever (and rarely is it unless his family is cool as hell) and then see how that goes. there is no way you can get married without spending at least a few weeks or months getting to know them and another common problem is he may go home for a few weeks or month and then randomly get engaged a few weeks later. again maybe not him but just things i see all the time.
Birdy Num Num Podcast I felt all what you had said was true and have mentioned it to him before but every time he would say no my parents would kill me they would make me go back...for me all I wanted was to get to know his family and see if they are cool with it before I went to meet them...I was hoping that he wouldn’t just be playing me and any time he says he wants to see his family I tell him go ahead and go that I support it 100% because I love him and want him to see his family but every time I guess he does not go because the first time it came up I told him that since his family didn’t know about me I was scared he would end up with someone else while he was there and that I didn’t want that because it would crush me he is my everything my world I’ve never felt the way I do about him for anyone else I’ve ever dated....I know there are cultural differences but I’ve told him several times I am a very open minded person I accept everyone and their culture that I wanted to learn everything about his and learn hindi so I could speak to his family without a translator out of respect for them but he never really wants to try and teach me all he wants to do is try to teach me only the bad words so I get made and tell him he’s not teaching right so he gets mad and say no I just don’t want to learn then it turns into a fight and he ends up not teaching me anything so now I’ve turned to UA-cam to try and learn as much about the culture as I can because I want to be respectful to his family if I really do ever get to meet them...I feel he’s lying to me on them not being cool with it because his mom has been Facebook stalking me for a while and even went as far to like a lot of my pictures and sent me a friend request but he told me to not accept it and then he was on the phone with her one day and his mom talked about him dating here and mouthed that she liked some of his female friends and she mouthed especially that rosy girl (talking about me because my middle name is rose) and all he could do was look at me and smile...he told me what was said after the phone call which I ended up getting upset and told him that she clearly knows already so her saying she liked me was his time to tell her but he didn’t.
Nice
Eleven years older and treating you weird, ditch him.
i few days back i reconnected with an old classmate. i called him and the moment he realized that i am not in datiing and just want to be friends he stopped talking. indian men keep searching for a girlfriend or wife in every woman they come across and dont want to befriend any girls.
Hi there
I break the 888 subscribers to 889
Sacrilegious haha
Education status and job title thats all
HAHAHAHA XD
That description of the Indian girls tho!
😂😂
Don't do it just say no 😂
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Your voice is making my ears ring...not healthy ..
Arent u supposed to have arranged marriage n have ur beliefs etc? Forget all that cus u want approval of other races? Sad. Very sad.
arranged marriages are not as common anymore what are you talking about. dating is more and more common but nothing wrong with either. pls think a bit and be willing to question what society feeds you
@@BirdyNumNumPodcast its crazy how low ur self esteems r chasing the approvals of other races abandoning urselves ur beliefs ur customs. Pitiful.
it’s crazy how you believe so much about your culture you can’t show your face behind it, dummy.
@@BirdyNumNumPodcast I agree this person has to be Indian and upset about the men dating white ladies or something like that.
@@BirdyNumNumPodcastas a ugly short indian 27 y o male..arrange marriage is my only hope..where salary and horoscope and family compatability takes preference....but in love marriages.. looks are everything..
Is your wife an American ? Like proper American chick not Indian American, just out of curiosity nothing else.
American guy and yet keep cleaning your nose in every video?!?! Hygiene amongst Indian men is probably one of the first things which puts women off... as clean as your nose might be, brushing it every now and then in public and on video isn’t cute.
i’m not used to this dust and allergies sorry
Birdy Num Num Podcast oof, my sympathies. Also I’m sorry for coming out rude. Pent up irritation from way too many guys thinking it’s completely acceptable to be sitting at their desk at work and casually with the help of a finger embark upon a treasure hunt up in the tunnels leading them to their brains...
Prachi Singh 😂😂😂
Prachi Singh oh yeaa?? Where do u work? Probably a sarkaari naukar surrounded with middle aged creeps.
@@samuraisom636 Big 4 Consulting IT dept... go figure.
Please Focus - going on tangent is NOT Interesting - ANSWER the QUESTION
Damn I enjoyed it. Chill out.
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