How To Stop Going BLANK In Important Conversations
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2023
- Ever freeze up when put on the spot? You're not alone.
The issue often isn't a lack of knowledge but a surge of self-doubt and fear of judgment.
Here's the thing: Confidence isn't built overnight. It's about making the unfamiliar familiar. Start engaging more with people who intimidate you. The more you do it, the less scary it becomes.
So, how do you deal with moments of self-doubt?
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Vinh, I am mutually "enamored" with communication and all of its constituents. You and I are "profoundly" synchronized in thought as communication experts who unapologetically embrace uniqueness. It would be a gift to exchange stories given our kindred spirits. I'm embarking upon a certified trade mission to Hong Kong this December, and my communication vertical will be at the forefront among fellow professionals. Is it possible to converse offline at some juncture?
I warmly embrace your reply and wish you a "Winning Wednesday" in the interim, Vinh.
Humbly and Authentically,
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Imo, lack of confidence is partly down to childhood emotional damages a person receives. Any trauma can be overcome with the right mindset. Vinh is presenting ways to start that journey. Thank you kindly sir!
hm, any trauma is quite exagerated, especially when we consider mental alterations ''uncurable'' (unable to dissapear), but true for the lack of confidence part. It might be yet another consequence of education/growing up with fear
Face your fear, you don’t stop being scared you just learn to work through it.
Make the unfamiliar familiar. That will stick on my mind. Thanks, Vihn.
The biggest one for me was always a lack of knowledge about the topic itself. I experienced this for years and the only thing that helped me was become extremely knowledgable about the subject, lots of study and learning, to the point where you should be able to talk about what you do for hours on end. With that, confidence comes naturally.
Now I'll happily talk to anyone about my work and the processes behind it etc. because I know everything about it down to a t.
Obviously this would vary depending on the job and the type of knowledge you need to acquire and know, maybe it's more general than being specific answers to questions.
Spot on!
This was never the case for me and what really helped me was my general curiosity in everything. Like a Jack of all trades. The best way to gain surface knowledge abt everything is basically watching yt vids on ur recommendations page that interest you or if it is something you dont know. This really helped me carry numerous conversations with so many types of people. I feel that in a conversation, Surface knowledge about the listener's interest might make or break the conversation.
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00:14 🤔 Doubting oneself is common, even when knowing the answer. This doubt often stems from a fear of judgment from others who seem more knowledgeable.
00:28 😨 Going blank is just the surface issue. Fear of judgment from those around you can exacerbate the anxiety. Addressing confidence and caring less about others' opinions is crucial.
00:55 🗣️ Building confidence involves making unfamiliar situations, like speaking to authoritative figures, more familiar. Engage in dialogues with them regularly to reduce anxiety and establish rapport.
01:23 🧠 Remember Mark Twain's quote: "You worry less about what people think about you when you realize how seldom they do." People are often more focused on themselves than judgingyou.
This is a very applicable example, thanks!! 🙌🙌
Make the unfamiliar familiar. Courage is a muscle.
Thank you so much for boosting my confidence
So so so much correct ,I did the same to resolve this problem and it worked like knuckle punch with claws
Fear of judgment is just my own pain in my head I create with my own thoughts. I don't believe them anymore. 😊
This is so helpful, thank you!
Thank you for this
The right video for me thanks
i trust this man with my life
Thanks vinh
❤the last words were words of wisdom
Thanks alot my guru
I really love your great skills Vinh...So am requesting to know how I can practice my communication skills if am in an place that doesn't have the platform for me
People often think about themself, than others, though we think fhe opposite
Wise. ❤
Being an Introvert is so painful, i remember once my father told me to tell the waiter for 2 water bottles, i was nervous so i was kinda stuttering and my voice was kinda low as well and i got more nervous, when my dad saw me like this, he just ordered 2 bottles of water himself and then when the waiter left to bring the bottles , dad looked at me and said "how pathetic!" .. As a introvert i know its hard to go with the world, after that day i really promised myself to be an extrovert, NO MATTER WHAT.
It's not an "introvert" trait, it's social anxiety. Introverts have no problem with talking, they just don't talk because it drains their energy. No introvert would stutter like that, you're just experiencing anxiety.
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another way to build confidence is to gain experience. once you gain experience you'll never doubt yourself because you've actually put in the work. learned this from hormozi
Thank god I live in a world where I can listen to wisdom that I may not have in the moment but someone else does🩷ugh this literally took so much edge off of me and it literally only took a minute of my time to completely change the way I view and interact with people. Thank you so much.