Poor sister! She looks destroyed, can hardly speak because she is on the verge of crying. May Allah give her another husband, who will be the one who will keep her heart peaceful.
"Do you have a reason?" This statement itself solves alot of doubts for all our women out there fearing not entering paradise... Alhamdulillah for making it easy for us
The answer shold have been. Do you have a valid halal reason. She does not have a valid halal reason. She wants a divorce because he married a second ife and that is not a valid reason.
Your statement applies to everyone, not just men. I'm a Muslim man, and I will never get married again because my ex-wife destroyed my life and destroyed my trust in women. This is why you marry someone based on their deen and their character rather than their beauty and status. Nothing is more cruel or sinister in this world than a spouse taking advantage of another spouses trust and loyalty. Choose carefully.
@@Anti-Zionist777 Sorry to hear that, there are still good people in the world. Don’t give up, put your trust in Allah and inshallah he will compensate you. 🤲🏻
My heart breaks for this sister. We should blame the culprit, not the victim. Blaming her for trusting her husband seems unempathetic. May Allah swt grant her a better husband and ease the pain.
I feel for the sister! May Allah make it easy for her. Sister, if you are reading this, just remember that with hardship comes ease. Keep asking for help from Allah.
Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the ‘verse of the Throne/Ayatul Kursi’ after every prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and entry into Paradise but his death.” Source: al-Mu’jam al-Awsaṭ lil-Ṭabarānī 8068 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
My answer: To me this issue has crossed the religious boundary and entered into a social contract. She should get rid of him immediately, because if she is truthful about her situation then of course Allah would be aware of that. Religiously, this is my conviction that regardless of who said what, in the end Allah is the judge and He never does injustice and if He does then He is not Almighty which is impossible. Remember don’t follow cultural Islam follow Allah’s Deen which is full of ease.
So she’s been betrayed by her husband and her friend. Sheikh is right do not trust anyone that much, sounds like this lady doesn’t have good boundaries.
Hes right it is her fault for leting this happen for this long. That guy has no right to be even with her in that House. If I was that woman I would not even give him a cent. And the audacity of him still shting on her wife while he is using her money. this is completly unaccecptible.
🤷🏼♂️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏻 Women seems intelligent enough to be in employment. Sadly it seems like she's so desperate for her husband that she doesn't see how much she's behaving like a slave. Even if the wife is selflessly loving them, the feeling isn't mutual. Her husband has already told her several times that he doesn't love her and the in-laws 100% supports whatever her husband wants but she's still clinging on and refusing to leave. Her husband, in-laws and friend are beyond fed up of her behaviour but she's still deliberately ignoring reality. Her husband knows she's a push over, in-laws don't care and the friend hated her from the beginning hence why they're now manipulating her, using her for money and abusing her everytime she says or needs anything. If this women doesn't love, fear and believe in Allah then she should continue being in that relationship and prove that she can be the best loyal door mat of a slave to her husband, husband's other wife and in-laws. May Allah help this women to come to her senses and make a better, healthier and halal future for herself. Ameen 🤲🏽🕋
Not clinging* maybe she is trying to save her marriage that's it. She should know the limits too.....islam doesn’t force her to bear beyond her capacity. She is thinking such due to culture. May Allah ease her
Nothing was said about if they have any children. Maybe perhaps that's what's keeping her clinging and trying to fix the relationship. Most women become door mats due to culture and societal shame and children.
Toxic People! May Allah give her a good husband.I can feel the pain in her voice as same happened to me as my wife was a gold digger and wanted to get a divorce just cz she was bored and on top of it get half of my money!
I disagree with that. A man's money is HIS money - he doesn't go out and work all day to then come home and give all his hard earned money to her. What he is responsible for is providing her with food and clothing.
Actually, her money is her money, and your money is your money, but you should spend a portion of your money to care for your wife, the children, and the household with the all necessities they need.
She does not have a valid reason. She is not taking divroce for the story she told. She wants a divorce because Her husband took another wife and wants her to accept her. She had been living like that for so many years but did not want a divorce before but now she wants it because her husband has married a second wife.
its this deja vu ? i thought i heard her question before here ? she asked again ? edit, yes its a reupload with different tittle . make sure not to farm the sheikh's work, unless you get nothing and it gets donated, but still i always see heated videos that create infighting men vs women or so and so, let the people who have these issues look them up themselves or ask a scholar, no need to air out topic ( repeated topics ) again and again to generate comments agreeing disagreeing and start fighting taking sides. or at the very least , disable comments , what good do they do ? if this channel doesnt make money anyways, aha but it does, because you or another sheikh assim channel has that match making app ad at the end. is that app veted by the sheikh himself ? or you use his vids and promote that ap without his knowledge ? Allah s.w.t knows best.
What? Husband gets the money his wife earns. from where did he get that the husband does not have the right on the wife's salary? I am not talking about welath she got from her father/mother. I am talking about earning she makes by doing a job after marriage.
I want you next time to go to a place where there are so much flowers that its nearly impossible to count them all and everytime a girl doesnt want to Do nikkah with you you go to that place and take out one flower and you wont give up seaching until there Are no flowers anymore
@@HabibiDubaiAbdulKitty Only pain will bring you further i have trust in you i went through the same akhi but allah doesnt let you marry this girl you wanted for many reasons maybe they would do more damage than good to you allah knows what you go through but dont give up i know you will make it
I don't think it is very fair to expect a man to never ask his spouse of her income and savings, this is the person he will raise their children with and live the rest of his with, so of course he must know! Other than that I agree with everything Sheikh has said here.
Let’s be honest and truthful, shes not upset about the gold digging. It seems that she would have stayed with him if he didn’t secretly get married to her best friend. She is more upset about him getting a second wife. Which is ignored in sheikhs reply.
This is not a detective documentary this is a Q&A. The sheikh answered a question relating to fiqh knowledge and here you are being more focused about the story rather than the knowledge and the answer. Stop poking suspicion at people without any evidence, just so you can create doubt and confuse people. Seriously, get a life and stop trying to dig into other people's life who you don't even know. It's very embarrassing and pathetic! 🤢
More to the story?? To pry into the personal affairs of others is not good. These videos should not be entertainment to a muslim, but rather to learn from the sheikh's answers to the questions that are asked.
@@hubashaikh8248There are many girls like this , and I have personally gone through it myself. Now, it's become a business Filling fake cases against boys and then take ailimony 😮
I personally request to Muslims to stop worry about Jannah , Heaven and focus on Ummah’s problems , work on own development and leave peacefully with non Muslim people . How foolish way of thinking only about afterlife and forgot duniya . Duniya is the creaation of Allah ( SWT ) . So Muslims we need to grow up .
Poor sister! She looks destroyed, can hardly speak because she is on the verge of crying. May Allah give her another husband, who will be the one who will keep her heart peaceful.
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Aameen
"Do you have a reason?" This statement itself solves alot of doubts for all our women out there fearing not entering paradise... Alhamdulillah for making it easy for us
The answer shold have been. Do you have a valid halal reason.
She does not have a valid halal reason. She wants a divorce because he married a second ife and that is not a valid reason.
Every man should watch this video before marrying and destroying someone's life.
if a man is this bad then watching a video would be perfectly useless
Your statement applies to everyone, not just men.
I'm a Muslim man, and I will never get married again because my ex-wife destroyed my life and destroyed my trust in women.
This is why you marry someone based on their deen and their character rather than their beauty and status. Nothing is more cruel or sinister in this world than a spouse taking advantage of another spouses trust and loyalty. Choose carefully.
I dont think such a man would be here
@@Anti-Zionist777you should've chosen carefully too
@@Anti-Zionist777 Sorry to hear that, there are still good people in the world. Don’t give up, put your trust in Allah and inshallah he will compensate you. 🤲🏻
My heart breaks for this sister. We should blame the culprit, not the victim. Blaming her for trusting her husband seems unempathetic. May Allah swt grant her a better husband and ease the pain.
I feel for the sister! May Allah make it easy for her. Sister, if you are reading this, just remember that with hardship comes ease. Keep asking for help from Allah.
May Allah make things easy for this sister, let's remember her in our duaas..
AllahuAkbar Allah helped this woman
Alhamdulillah for Islam.
Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the ‘verse of the Throne/Ayatul Kursi’ after every prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and entry into Paradise but his death.”
Source: al-Mu’jam al-Awsaṭ lil-Ṭabarānī 8068
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
My answer:
To me this issue has crossed the religious boundary and entered into a social contract. She should get rid of him immediately, because if she is truthful about her situation then of course Allah would be aware of that. Religiously, this is my conviction that regardless of who said what, in the end Allah is the judge and He never does injustice and if He does then He is not Almighty which is impossible. Remember don’t follow cultural Islam follow Allah’s Deen which is full of ease.
Exactly, culture meddling into Islam is the cause of so much destruction in families now a days.
So she’s been betrayed by her husband and her friend. Sheikh is right do not trust anyone that much, sounds like this lady doesn’t have good boundaries.
Hes right it is her fault for leting this happen for this long. That guy has no right to be even with her in that House. If I was that woman I would not even give him a cent. And the audacity of him still shting on her wife while he is using her money. this is completly unaccecptible.
May Allah make it easy for her and bless her with the best.
Ameen
🤷🏼♂️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏻
Women seems intelligent enough to be in employment. Sadly it seems like she's so desperate for her husband that she doesn't see how much she's behaving like a slave. Even if the wife is selflessly loving them, the feeling isn't mutual.
Her husband has already told her several times that he doesn't love her and the in-laws 100% supports whatever her husband wants but she's still clinging on and refusing to leave. Her husband, in-laws and friend are beyond fed up of her behaviour but she's still deliberately ignoring reality.
Her husband knows she's a push over, in-laws don't care and the friend hated her from the beginning hence why they're now manipulating her, using her for money and abusing her everytime she says or needs anything.
If this women doesn't love, fear and believe in Allah then she should continue being in that relationship and prove that she can be the best loyal door mat of a slave to her husband, husband's other wife and in-laws.
May Allah help this women to come to her senses and make a better, healthier and halal future for herself. Ameen
🤲🏽🕋
Not clinging* maybe she is trying to save her marriage that's it. She should know the limits too.....islam doesn’t force her to bear beyond her capacity. She is thinking such due to culture. May Allah ease her
Nothing was said about if they have any children. Maybe perhaps that's what's keeping her clinging and trying to fix the relationship. Most women become door mats due to culture and societal shame and children.
Toxic People! May Allah give her a good husband.I can feel the pain in her voice as same happened to me as my wife was a gold digger and wanted to get a divorce just cz she was bored and on top of it get half of my money!
May your heart heal, my sister. You didnt deserve this loser. You are not at fault at all
PS: She is NOT your best friend
My wife’s money is her money and my money is her money.
I disagree with that. A man's money is HIS money - he doesn't go out and work all day to then come home and give all his hard earned money to her.
What he is responsible for is providing her with food and clothing.
Actually, her money is her money, and your money is your money, but you should spend a portion of your money to care for your wife, the children, and the household with the all necessities they need.
If you can justify your reasons to Allah if you think you can't then you should not.
Very unfortunate
The guy betrays all Muslim Men to say the least
MAY ALLAH TA'ALA GUIDE AND PROTECT US ALL
She needs stop working. Give him nothing
Abuse husband that want wives work, juggles n struggles all. Devorce.
She does not have a valid reason. She is not taking divroce for the story she told. She wants a divorce because Her husband took another wife and wants her to accept her. She had been living like that for so many years but did not want a divorce before but now she wants it because her husband has married a second wife.
its this deja vu ? i thought i heard her question before here ? she asked again ?
edit, yes its a reupload with different tittle .
make sure not to farm the sheikh's work, unless you get nothing and it gets donated, but still i always see heated videos that create infighting men vs women or so and so, let the people who have these issues look them up themselves or ask a scholar, no need to air out topic ( repeated topics ) again and again to generate comments agreeing disagreeing and start fighting taking sides. or at the very least , disable comments , what good do they do ? if this channel doesnt make money anyways, aha but it does, because you or another sheikh assim channel has that match making app ad at the end. is that app veted by the sheikh himself ? or you use his vids and promote that ap without his knowledge ?
Allah s.w.t knows best.
def a reupload!
Because this is reupload & not official channel 😅
Just because you seen it twice, does it mean everyone seen it twice?
What? Husband gets the money his wife earns. from where did he get that the husband does not have the right on the wife's salary? I am not talking about welath she got from her father/mother. I am talking about earning she makes by doing a job after marriage.
Love blinds people
As a man I only need woman to love and having affection to woman sadly I got dump but that's cool I can stay single forever lol BTW
Grow up. Dump? Are you Muslim? Get married
I want you next time to go to a place where there are so much flowers that its nearly impossible to count them all and everytime a girl doesnt want to Do nikkah with you you go to that place and take out one flower and you wont give up seaching until there Are no flowers anymore
Trust me and do it you wont regret it
@@Paletiii Sorry brother but I lose hope and have regret I suffering from a mental issues 😢
@@HabibiDubaiAbdulKitty Only pain will bring you further i have trust in you i went through the same akhi but allah doesnt let you marry this girl you wanted for many reasons maybe they would do more damage than good to you allah knows what you go through but dont give up i know you will make it
I don't think it is very fair to expect a man to never ask his spouse of her income and savings, this is the person he will raise their children with and live the rest of his with, so of course he must know!
Other than that I agree with everything Sheikh has said here.
Let’s be honest and truthful, shes not upset about the gold digging. It seems that she would have stayed with him if he didn’t secretly get married to her best friend. She is more upset about him getting a second wife. Which is ignored in sheikhs reply.
And I’m sure he used her money to marry the best friend🤦🏽♀️God
Too many red flags ⛳⛳⛳. Feel like there is more to the story tho.
Where is the red flag?
@@ebrahimi44 He must be the husband lmao
@@ebrahimi44 husband's a TERRIBLE man in every way
This is not a detective documentary this is a Q&A. The sheikh answered a question relating to fiqh knowledge and here you are being more focused about the story rather than the knowledge and the answer. Stop poking suspicion at people without any evidence, just so you can create doubt and confuse people. Seriously, get a life and stop trying to dig into other people's life who you don't even know. It's very embarrassing and pathetic! 🤢
More to the story?? To pry into the personal affairs of others is not good.
These videos should not be entertainment to a muslim, but rather to learn from the sheikh's answers to the questions that are asked.
How about gold digger woman ?
There is no such thing 😂
@@hubashaikh8248There are many Muslim girls like this, and I have personally gone through it myself. Now, it's become a business
@@hubashaikh8248There are many girls like this , and I have personally gone through it myself. Now, it's become a business
Filling fake cases against boys and then take ailimony 😮
@@hubashaikh8248 stop lying you sexist,gold diggers can be anyone🙄
I personally request to Muslims to stop worry about Jannah , Heaven and focus on Ummah’s problems , work on own development and leave peacefully with non Muslim people . How foolish way of thinking only about afterlife and forgot duniya . Duniya is the creaation of Allah ( SWT ) . So Muslims we need to grow up .
Lack of knowledge should be fixed with learning, not focusing on dunya.
Your words are in direct conflict with the quran..Muslims just ignore this guy
what are you yapping about