My relative recently came out of the closet, How do I keep ties with him? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem

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  • @musafirghayrmaeruf1
    @musafirghayrmaeruf1 17 днів тому +135

    This is one of the reasons I love Islam.
    We wont back down because of the times and politics.
    And this is also the reason many people are joining Islam because smart people believe not in things that always change.
    Smart people believe in things that never change no matter the pressure.
    Would you follow a guide that has no Idea where the right path is and changes his direction every so often or a confident guide that keeps on the right path no matter where and when you meet him?
    The latter is Islam.
    The former is anything outside of it.

    • @sarojam3360
      @sarojam3360 17 днів тому

      the so called right path, endorses and supports slavery, child marriage, wfie beating etc, just so you know

    • @MonstarAsher
      @MonstarAsher 17 днів тому +5

      you summed it up quite well. Thank you!

    • @Malik_Sajad
      @Malik_Sajad 17 днів тому +4

      💯

    • @athitayastirling8259
      @athitayastirling8259 17 днів тому +3

      I take it you've never lived in Saudi. I take it you've never driven over the Causeway to Bahrain and seen what takes place. Blind eyes are turned, it's swept under the carpet, nobody wants to talk about it. Gay people exist in all societies and countries.

    • @theonewhocomments367
      @theonewhocomments367 17 днів тому

      The guide who doesn't change sounds like a dick, what happens when they get something wrong? Do they just ignore it? Argue it isn't real? I'd much rather have a guide who adapts to the information presented to them, rather than one who clings to dogma.

  • @JoeE_01
    @JoeE_01 8 днів тому +11

    As a muslim, I agree with everything that is said except for the statement that homosexuality and its acceptance is a western concept. This claim is just historicaly inaccurate.

    • @Faracuda
      @Faracuda 3 дні тому

      It isn't a western concept but the fact that the west is openly promoting and encouraging this is. They publicize it and it is always being shoved in our faces

  • @Anonymous_56789
    @Anonymous_56789 16 днів тому +24

    Our Prophet ﷺ said “Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death."
    Dont forget to recite Ayatul kursi before sleep Our Prophet ﷺ said, When you go to your bed, recite Ayatul Kursi and you will be protected by Allah, and no devil will come near you until morning (5010) Narrated by al-Bukhari
    Take screenshot and share to earn reward (it allows you to copy and paste easily), and spread this message to also earn rewards by directing others towards good In’Sha’Allah, maybe Allah could make this a means to grant us Jannaht Ul Firdaus Ameen

    • @taspink01
      @taspink01 9 днів тому +1

      Aww thank you, beautiful reminder and AMEEN!🤲🏽😊🫶🏽
      But just random😅

  • @Haqqseeker40
    @Haqqseeker40 17 днів тому +60

    May him and your family make dua for him and he changes his ways. Inshallah.

    • @asimghaffar8148
      @asimghaffar8148 17 днів тому +1

      I've heard the way to type it is In Sha' Allah. I've heard the way you have typed it haa a different and bad meaning.
      I could be wrong.

  • @Hhhh22222-w
    @Hhhh22222-w 14 днів тому +12

    He can be gay but still be married to a woman and avoid any intimate interactions with men. It's a test fom Allah, will he choose his sexual preferences or follow the commandments of Allah?

    • @Afghan31
      @Afghan31 14 днів тому +1

      Not good advice to make someone live and have children with a woman they're not sexually/physically attracted to. The wife and children will suffer in the end.

    • @LEGEND_Gloomy
      @LEGEND_Gloomy 14 днів тому +5

      Tf

    • @Light-tc8xc
      @Light-tc8xc 13 днів тому +33

      He must fulfill his wife’s needs. If he can’t, he must remain single.

    • @suyaa7678
      @suyaa7678 12 днів тому

      You want a homosexual man to ruin the life of a believing woman?

    • @mnlight8308
      @mnlight8308 10 днів тому +6

      Only if the wife is okay without any sexual relationship

  • @kinGsaL1515
    @kinGsaL1515 17 днів тому +43

    0:37 Im dying 😂😂😂

    • @cheryl7095
      @cheryl7095 17 днів тому +5

      My thoughts exactly 😂

    • @Azothoth827
      @Azothoth827 17 днів тому +5

      where are the keys? 😂😂

  • @jzmill
    @jzmill 18 днів тому +23

    Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the ‘verse of the Throne/Ayatul Kursi’ after every prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and entry into Paradise but his death.”
    Source: al-Mu’jam al-Awsaṭ lil-Ṭabarānī 8068
    Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

    • @seagull6636
      @seagull6636 17 днів тому +1

      جزاك الله خيرا

    • @taspink01
      @taspink01 9 днів тому +1

      @@seagull6636 نعم صح😊💖😅

    • @taspink01
      @taspink01 9 днів тому +1

      Aww thank you, beautiful reminder😊🫶🏽
      But just random😅

  • @DanishTroll87
    @DanishTroll87 22 години тому +1

    It's actually a Hindu concept. It was brought to Europe by an Ashkenazi Jew (as always).

  • @MohamedHasan-l6y
    @MohamedHasan-l6y 15 днів тому +6

    I learned a new phrase here, but sadly it's a bad one.

    • @taspink01
      @taspink01 9 днів тому +1

      Yep! It’s used in the West a lot (to “spoil” or make the word more “delicate” if you understand what I mean and in Arabic it’s called دلع)😌😂❤

    • @hzskillz1721
      @hzskillz1721 4 дні тому

      😂😂😂

  • @avionyellow1712
    @avionyellow1712 17 днів тому +12

    I thought the question was a joke
    As in somebody physically leaves a wardrobe, where would you put the neck ties

    • @taspink01
      @taspink01 9 днів тому

      Aww really? Are you being serious rn😂😯

    • @anonyme9684
      @anonyme9684 8 днів тому

      Coming out of the closet is a way of expressing that you've been hiding (your so-called real identity) and now you're done hiding so you're coming out of the closet. Is a way of speaking and not literally.

  • @Levepalestina1
    @Levepalestina1 17 днів тому +3

    What ? I didn't understand what was the question ⁉️

    • @Oilive-n2r
      @Oilive-n2r 15 днів тому +4

      He asked how he should act around his relative who announced he was homosexual, meaning a man loving a man

    • @Levepalestina1
      @Levepalestina1 15 днів тому +4

      @Oilive-n2r ohhh okay thanks

  • @axe-q7d
    @axe-q7d 17 днів тому +13

    1:10 except hinduism

    • @sanjanamukherjee9540
      @sanjanamukherjee9540 17 днів тому

      Exactly.

    • @Maryam-ey2dy
      @Maryam-ey2dy 17 днів тому +2

      Trans is allowed but i think they also dont accept gay

    • @beast33G
      @beast33G 17 днів тому

      Also the earliest mentions of trans come from Judaism (Talmud). There are many genders described in that book, including what would nowadays be called being trans and another one that is nowadays known as non binary.

    • @Chillycloth
      @Chillycloth 17 днів тому +2

      Hinduism has no rules?

    • @theonewhocomments367
      @theonewhocomments367 17 днів тому +3

      And many others, just a totally incorrect claim all around.

  • @AkamAli-u3i
    @AkamAli-u3i 18 днів тому +1

    24: 30-31

  • @Xtine72
    @Xtine72 17 днів тому +42

    He came out of the closet. He’s gay. He didn’t say he’s trying to change anyone else or encourage them to be gay or join him. He’s just told them who he is. Does this answer still apply?

    • @AereForst
      @AereForst 17 днів тому +33

      Answered clearly in this talk.

    • @SohailKhan-wm6ec
      @SohailKhan-wm6ec 17 днів тому +14

      Watch the video again.

    • @Malik_Sajad
      @Malik_Sajad 17 днів тому +59

      Sheikh replied that. He said if anyone is like that he has to keep mouth shut, don't publicize it. It's between him and Allah swt and Allah swt knows best.

    • @kitt7477
      @kitt7477 17 днів тому +26

      No, bcuz people especially other children are easily influenced by others in their environment, whether it’s good or bad.

    • @Chillycloth
      @Chillycloth 17 днів тому

      Yes it still applies. Only if he kept his perversion a secret then it would be okay. We have 0 tolerance for people like this. Mitigate the risk of giving an inch taking a mile

  • @Pink.Butterfly
    @Pink.Butterfly 17 днів тому +2

    Can i go out without niqab using just sunscreen and face powder? coz my i have oily face

    • @haroon4330
      @haroon4330 17 днів тому +10

      strongest view is niqab is mandatory if there is fitnah, which there is in todays world, especially the west. Just wear the niqab sister

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 17 днів тому +21

      you don't have to wear niqab for any reason, it's not an obligation

    • @haroon4330
      @haroon4330 17 днів тому +3

      @@SoleilMagica Not according to majority of the great uilema including all 4 imams from the madhabs

    • @Spice2881
      @Spice2881 17 днів тому

      ​@@haroon4330you act like every woman has such a beautiful face, like a 10 or something lol. News flash most women actually have very average looking faces without any makeup.

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 17 днів тому +11

      @@haroon4330 just because it’s recommended, doesn’t make it an obligation

  • @SR-hu7qr
    @SR-hu7qr 10 днів тому

    Western concep?Sunan abu Dawud 5224.

  • @MsAaprill
    @MsAaprill 17 днів тому +9

    This is so sad! Being homosexual does not harm anyone or society…

    • @AsadKhan-ic9qi
      @AsadKhan-ic9qi 17 днів тому +1

      until you look at the school boards with lgbt board members and teachers who are trying to secretly indoctrinate children with their slop like pushing for 12 yr olds to be taught sex ed and reading story books to children in drag. If this doesn't harm society why are there so many parents fighting these school boards? Why are there videos of pride marches chanting, "we're coming for your children!" ?

    • @Asn101-zw7vs
      @Asn101-zw7vs 17 днів тому +1

      Please avoid commenting before thinking. Challenge what revelation says cause you think human laws are better. The world is a test for us. One has to control their emotions, anger issues with some, sexual inclination with others. LGBTQ is haram so of course it needs to be condemned and banished. What seems harsh is what liberals have done to destroy peoples faiths. The West failed and gave onto human law, don't make the same mistake. Don't presume you know better

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 17 днів тому

      it DOES harm society. the human race will DIE OUT.

    • @ibrahimqureshi2420
      @ibrahimqureshi2420 17 днів тому +47

      If that is what you actually believe then truly you need to be enlightened

    • @MsAaprill
      @MsAaprill 17 днів тому

      @ no I am enlightened already!

  • @greent16
    @greent16 17 днів тому +4

    If it was a woman coming out, sheikh would lose his mind

    • @Hamztz
      @Hamztz 17 днів тому +4

      what?

    • @gobah
      @gobah 17 днів тому +32

      His answer would’ve been exactly the same. Nice try

    • @Urodeprag
      @Urodeprag 16 днів тому +22

      Huh? No? It would've been the same. Stop trying to apply your clasical western "double standards" argument.

    • @NFTbrosTakingL
      @NFTbrosTakingL 16 днів тому +8

      Regardless, islam preaches to keep it low, even if you're straight couple, you can't be kissing/flirting around others and not be sinful!!!

    • @SuicidalSummerSnowWoman
      @SuicidalSummerSnowWoman 14 днів тому +2

      😂.. what?! clearly just a troll

  • @soroushdarvish9281
    @soroushdarvish9281 10 годин тому

    What a bad answer. Please don’t listen to this answer….

  • @user-nu4cu2io2e
    @user-nu4cu2io2e 9 днів тому +1

    From the thumbnail, I thought his relative was literally hiding in his closet and got caught. Me and my English proficiency 🥲😂 Gotta do more homework