Why beauty is NO MATCH for a man’s detachment | clip

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  • Опубліковано 18 кві 2024
  • When a man is genuinely interested in you a prioritizes this. Women often confuse attraction with the genuine interest. They think that they are talking to them when they are only interested in being physical. They often don’t know what genuine looks. they think attention is interest. It is not. If you want a healthy relationship and you want to find someone who has genuine interest in you pay attention to a man’s priorities when engaging with you.
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  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  2 місяці тому +9

    Book at call to get real, honest, applicable advice about your love life www.kevhick.com

    • @mandic4998
      @mandic4998 2 місяці тому

      I appreciate your honesty however, you couldn't be above Lust if you were a Christian and seeking deliverance.

  • @Pheonix1111
    @Pheonix1111 2 місяці тому +15

    Thank you very much Kevin for displaying a typical man’s mind transparently. Perhaps this will finally be what wakes women up to realize giving away sex freely hoping to have commitment/marriage with a man in exchange is NOT the correct strategy. Free sex does NOT lead to marriage. A man marries the woman he genuinely makes the time to get to know her, respects her, and who makes his life peaceful.

    • @Kat3111
      @Kat3111 2 місяці тому +1

      The truth!

  • @BooDotBoo
    @BooDotBoo 2 місяці тому +44

    And this is why I don't really understand women who try to sex a man into a relationship. Yes, of course, he will have sex with you, may even hang out with you before or after, BUT it doesn't mean he wants you in a way BEYOND your body. He doesn't love you, he barely knows you. I don't understand sleeping with someone on a first date because of this same reason; a date is supposed to be about getting know each other, and while sex is part of that, when you barely know someone, that isn't the part you should be most worried about. Get to know him slowly, so he will want to invest in you. And Kev your wife sounds like me when I'm in a relationship; I want to now all about that person and how their answers from a couple of months ago might be different now, maybe an experience has given them more information on a subject. I think a healthy curiosity, and wanting to know and learn your partner, keeps a relationship/marriage going. Because we are constantly changing, even if only in little ways.
    And women thinking men wouldn't sleep with a women because she's "uglier" than you or fatter or skinnier or taller or shorter or whatever than you, you're wrong. I hate bringing it up, but some of the most beautiful women in the world have been cheated on, so thinking you're looking so good will keep a man at home, well, LOL. A man will only stay where he wants to stay and has invested, and that is just the simple truth. If you've given him all he would normally need to spend time for and invest in, then why would he be worried about continuing to get to know you? Which is why many men will ghost after sex. And then they end up in the relationship with the woman who went slow and got him invested. And, yes, even good men will sleep with women if they make themselves available, but I would believe a good man would not cheat on a woman he loves and has deeply invested in, and that is the big difference.

    • @mandic4998
      @mandic4998 2 місяці тому

      So the woman is supposed to be the only one with self respect and self control etc right? Noooo accountability for the men right? Why lol because we have to simply accept that men are really just weak grown boys with no other real morals? Once again with the boys will be boys mentality. No we need real men to rise up and take responsibility. And nobody man or woman should freely have sex right away....

    • @thelovelylife7451
      @thelovelylife7451 2 місяці тому

      A good man won’t try to lie and manipulate a woman to get sex though. If a man proposes false promises to get sex, that woman shouldn’t want that man anyways. He’s a liar

  • @kristabland1657
    @kristabland1657 2 місяці тому +7

    Your honesty is appreciated. Thank you!

  • @MissJJoan
    @MissJJoan 2 місяці тому +12

    The title is so pessimistic though. You could just say “it’s what’s inside that counts.” And it’s still synonymous but more hopeful. It’s always good to take some time now and then to remind ourselves that looks aren’t everything and we should strive to be better, kinder, more well-rounded versions of ourselves.

    • @Reshme77
      @Reshme77 2 місяці тому +7

      That's utter nonsense.
      that wouldn't catch any one's attention.
      Study business a little.

    • @halleyjimenez7485
      @halleyjimenez7485 2 місяці тому

      Keep lying to yourself. Looks are everything if you're a women

  • @Krissy-Amber
    @Krissy-Amber 2 місяці тому +5

    Miss This format and your funny comments... 👍

  • @JenniferOakes
    @JenniferOakes 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for honesty. It explains a lot in regards to the Old testament, especially the Rachel and Leah situation.

  • @user-wy8tm9jk9w
    @user-wy8tm9jk9w 2 місяці тому +4

    Really refreshing mind set and outlook on relationship 😃🙏💯.

  • @andyg9610
    @andyg9610 2 місяці тому +3

    Let's Go Mrs Pretty Girl Hick 💯🙌🏾👏🏾..💚 this

  • @user-su1kj6bh3x
    @user-su1kj6bh3x 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you.

  • @echecroi
    @echecroi 2 місяці тому

    Real Talk 100 %

  • @lyndamcmullen5506
    @lyndamcmullen5506 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @AmandaMG6
    @AmandaMG6 2 місяці тому +1

    Spreading your *fertilizer

  • @Cutiejuliya
    @Cutiejuliya 2 місяці тому +4

    😂

  • @JOEYDEEZ369
    @JOEYDEEZ369 2 місяці тому +1

    Good for you mister hahahah.. and yep… for a lady both the things you mentioned here are of mega importance but we do not need any validation from the likes of you menfolk.. just sayin…
    Cheers & Ciao ;)’

  • @sexymama1966
    @sexymama1966 2 місяці тому

    The last statement stuck with me.