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@@advikadhingra9136 what... Really, which character... How did it happen... How could this kind of obsession I mean for someone who doesn't exist, how could it reach that far...
You were probably right about me falling for a version of him that was probably not the real him. He sweet-talked me for a few months (everyday) and pictured this wonderful life with me and constantly told me how he’d be there for me. Then, unexpectedly, he gave me the cold shoulder and stopped talking to me. I couldn’t figure out why I keep thinking about him. You were right that I probably fell for that imagined man he portrayed for me instead of the real him who ghosted on me without putting any closure.
Don't stress love is a second hand emtion, it will happen again and again and again, until you find the right one, allow yourself to go through the process, until healing comes, and it will
Soo true. I feel like I've been tearing out pieces of myself and handing them to him. I have this great imagination of who I think he is that isn't even a reality. He ignores me, while I pour my heart out with serious concerns. I guess they are trivial to him. I've tried again with blocking him today. I've tried this many times brfore but ended up unblocking over n over. I am determined to master this and not feel defeated. Thanks for your help.
Cart T I understand your pain like sometimes I usually try to block the person, so I wouldn’t be scrolling through that account. But I end up unlocking him anyway, because I want to see how he’s doing without that feeling of him and his company. It’s tough honestly, but one day it’ll all just be a picture hung up on the wall as a memory cherished and not forgotten, and perhaps we can move forward with our life to someone new for our benefits.
I suffured for 3 years doing what you are doing i completly understand and one day he did something that made me realise that he is full of shit i loved this man like crazy over 3 years and in a second he was out of my head for ever it just striked me i was so obsessed with him i build a beautiful image about him in my head that he dosen't deserve and seemed to not get over it till i knew the real him trust me you will wake up someday it's all in your head i again did the same mistake with someone but it wasen't that long i won't do the same mistake now there is a man i like but ill never give a good image to someone i don't know fully again he is just a human being and i realise that being single all my life and waiting for that perfect person to me make me projet his image in the men i meet
I have a great idea and it works everytime. when feeling like you are going to think about someone, just look around you and start talking loudly if you can about what you see. Like there is rectangular building infron of you, Start describing it with like it has 4 corners and it is made of glass and so on. I hope it helps.
She is spot on about thinking a person is who I perceive him to be. When in actuality he is totally something else.....thank you for that ah ha! Moment.
I’ve been experiencing this at the moment. What i do is i stop looking at his profile stop thinking about him because it will only make me sad and i pray to God to make me strong.Thank you.
I agree with the 3rd point. When we are in love our mind think the other person is perfect version of your dream person, when in reality most of the cases it will be not.
I'm so obsessed I got distracted 3 times thinking about him during the video. Bur the third advice is really effective. I noticed I'm always obsesses with something and replacing it every now and then, and when I'm not I feel empty.
luis alfredo valladares torres Please tell me it got better really soon for you, Because I'm going through the same thing with a guy I work with and it feels like the worst depression ever.
I feel your pain. Sometimes, you have to just delve into another relationship. got to helped me in the past, but I am too old and I don't bounce back so quickly.
This is terrifying. Everything she has said applies to my situation, although I am a man. Not sure if this is more prevalent in women but we men definitely go through this as well. I feel like this video found me randomly in a time of need! I was recovering but these thoughts started to invade my mind again. I'll be putting this advice into practice, thank you so much!
I have ever loved someone and couldn't stop thinking about him even though I knew he never Loved me but when I deleted his number, it took me a week and I start seen how ugly he's but he's not actually ugly
here's a few tips for how to get any man you want don't be impatient Use fewer words and choose them carefully Communicate with behaviour as well as words
I been obsessed with this guy since he was in my English class when I was 16-17. Last time I seen him was 2yrs ago but i found his instagram.....I'm coincidentally friends with his cousin which made me feel kinda more closer to him than before.....But I keep thinking about more and more since I don't really see him anymore. I noticed I have fallin for him last yr but it turned into an obsession...I want to move on since it doesn't seem healthy at all. I don't want to end up being his stalker...Why does he have to be too special compared to anyone in my life?
I am a man going through this. For 12 years I was living a double life and was browbeaten to finally leave my wife. Now, the love interest is not interested in me and I am completely devastated. I have beat myself up and don't really have the will to live. This video has giving me hope and I appreciate people out there like you.
I am so sorry! So often I hear it from the women's side of the story, with the anger and outrage, etc...but in reading your words and what you are going through...it must have been very difficult to be in the situation you were in for 12 years, and now this. I hope you are able to heal, and forgive yourself, and move forward. Sending you so much love and light!!!
Thank you! I’ve been thinking about him none stop. I’ve had dreams about him and I was getting dreams about him every day and I’ve been getting really annoyed I was planning on telling him but no, I can’t thank you so much! 😊
So glad to see I’m not the only one crazy in the head. I’ve been marinating for five years now, seems it will never get better, I’m addicted in the worst way
I can’t even breath without thinking of him. I miss him so much I force myself to make any activity . I’m scared that i will have depression. I’ m forcing myself to eat something, to get up from bed...it’s been a month since the break up...and I feel like my life stopped when he left me. I know it’s wrong but i can’t take so much pain..
havent been in a relationship with him but basically my crush started to ignore me after we had a pretty good conntection... and im close to fall into depression because of it
I am so grateful 😙 you touched a matter that it was dormant in my mind. Now I have a new skill to keep his hurtful memory away from me. Wish you blessings and success 💖👍
As an overthinker I made sceneries in head for complete childhood about a boy who I used to have crush on it lead me to this obsessivness , now I'm understanding this pattern it's drowning so it's not correct it's way too unhealthy for productivity .
It's so difficult to believe, that he is not what my mind tells me that he is. He ignores me, and I'm still there, he don't care about me, and I care about him. He is on my mind 24/7., And I'm probably the last thing on his mind. Why do I want him? I'm trying to understand. Thank you for this Great video.
Men go through it to, I had a girl who knew if she half assed me all the time and left me wondering I would obsess over her. She manipulated my feelings for her until I caught on and got out of it.
I am so sorry that happened to you! And while the whole thing sucks it helps to know guys go through it too. When I made the Get Him Off Your Mind program it was because all women were coming to me with this...now I'm seeing it's universal. Thanks for your comment and I'm glad you caught on!
@@Krishanti thank you. These videos do help when feeling in a state of obsession and anxiety. I applaud people like yourself who make them. Can use these videos to help gain slight control over a feelings. Love sickness works just like a virus, it has its stages and informative videos are the medication.
How about when you work with that person closely? Things were starting to develope but after our first kiss he became concerned that I might want something serious, and because he just got out of a long relationship he doesn't want a relationship right now. So he said it was best to put a stop to this, I pretended to be ok with that, and said I understood. But I work with him everyday and I've been obsessively thinking and missing our romantic flirty behavior when we were together at work. Now we pretend to just be friends when in reality I thought I was falling in love. When we're alone together it almost physically hurts to not reach over and touch him. I've been in serious pain for two weeks now, and it feels like a horrible depression.
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry...it's very, very hard when you work with the person and see them daily. I don't know what to say other than to try the best you can to just get through it one step at a time. :(
Kay2be2mr: Same situation here. I knew it was a mistake to get involved w/ someone I work with. He used me and I know he's no good yet I can't stop thinking about him & being attracted to him. Seeing him at work and sometimes having to work alongside him doesn't help. I totally understand what you are saying. Being near him, smelling him, sometimes he's wearing this shirt that looks really good on him....It's so damn hard. BUT I will try these steps anyway to redirect my thoughts. Also when at work I try to not think about things we did together or the fact he's not just some coworker. It's really difficult but I'm tired of this. Can't waste anymore time of someone who clearly never cared about me.
I totally understand what you are saying. Omg, 3 years...that is too long to be feeling miserable. That is what i'm afraid of. This situation has already gone on long enough.
I’m hitting my self, punching my self because I messed up badly. I knew better. I always know better and I failed my self. I don’t understand how I got cought up in catching feeling for someone who I’m not even dating. It’s so stupid! I’m going to try to picture him as a bad person and think of him of how horrible he is because this is just too much to be dealing with on top of everything I’m going through- rock bottom.
Don't be so hard on yourself! It's not your fault! This kind of situation happens to millions of people, they just don't talk about it openly. You are not alone and you are not to blame. It's kind of a form of silent self-sabotage and there are so many factors behind it. I hope everything starts getting better. Sometimes when things are hard it's easier to focus on the other person, as a way to cope, I've seen that a lot. Onward and upward!
hey so i like this man and i thought he liked me back but recently he started to avoid me and leave me on open so i don’t know what this means but i really like this man and can’t get him outta my head and i feel like i’m going way to fast and i can’t stop because this might be my first boyfriend so idk i needa take it slow bc i feel like he doesn’t like it
I'm 22 and I have a crush on one of my bestfriends (F). We always hangout with our other bestfriends each week. I really wanna get this person out of my mind. But the thing is that, if I wanna get (F) out of my mind I have to stop hangout with (F), meaning that I also have to stop hangout with my other bestfriends, Since my other bestfriends are (F)'s childhood friends, So, obviously, if I wanna stop hangout with (F) they would stick with (F) instead of me.. And it hurts.. I don't wanna lose my other bestfriends.. telling the truth to them is like destroying our friendship
I feel better knowing that my obsessing was not just me!! It is so difficult not to obsess about him. We work together, spent time together after work. And yes we have had sex twice. I obsess. I see so many things wrong yet I can’t stay away.
Omg I’m only 12 and I’m so confused and when I think of my boyfriend MY STOMACH FEELS WEIRD 😣I can’t get over him and I only have that feeling when I think about him
sweety at age twelve I didn't know what a boyfriend was lol. You are in your childhood, you only get it once. Make it count! this is not something you should be even worried about.❤
Warrior Princess thanks ,:/ but I don’t even remember how I learnt it but I knew him since 11 and he is taken with my friend and now I don’t know what to do
@@boo-9348 This is a part of life dear. We love and lose people. Trust me when you grow up you will realise this and learn not to give a damn about somethings. I know it will feel like you lost something,I have felt that too many times. I still do. But one day you will come to know there is more to life than chasing someone for the sake of butterflies in your stomach. I have sisters older than you and younger than you. I can only imagine if one of them goes through a situation like this. I will advice them the same.❤Just focus on being happyy, at the age 12 happiness should come easy,u shouldn't have to worry about a 3rd person. Tc luv.
I don't want him at all anymore....l never check on him but he keeps coming back to my house..... just want to not feel guilty when l don't respond.....and when l respond l always end up allowing the communication to open up.....and get sucked back into his insanity. He's not only a drug addict he's a cheater and an all around shitty human being but he refuseds to leave me alone.
Its almost a month but i think of him like it's the first day. Its getting worse every day , thinking of him, i have tried forgetting about him but i can't. 😭
Knowing i'm not alone... the 3rd one is a discovery that i am going through... I thought he was a better person turns out he's not ... when i stepped away from him ... but i cant forget about him ... he's narcissistic and its all about him... he pulls me back in and i hate myself for that... I've tryed the 3 steps but my brain and heart can't let go... i know that it sounds so stupid...
I don't miss the friendship, I miss the help, his absence scares me. He's not talking to me anymore after he ticked me off and I voiced my annoyance. Now, I'm stressing about a time in the future where might need him but he won't be there. Even though I am supposed to be perfectly capable of handling everything myself yet I'm constantly thinking of him. I just can't get off my mind. He's a crappy person but all I can remember is the way he used to help me out.
I’ve been obsessing over my ex fiancé less and less but it’s still hard on me every now and again. I want to erase him from my mind and all the things he’s done to me. I had seen this guy as holding all the answers I always wanted from a partner but everything changed. I found out he was a pathological liar and lied since day one about everything. I can’t help but feel our whole relationship was a lie in itself. Your video helped put things in a new perspective for me. Thank you.
I just hate this longing feeling for him, I was just one second away of texting him again, I can't text him, he doesn't even care about me, probably busy and here I am checking phone again and again, can't sleep well
I love him but one thing that i know is that i have to wait for this coz it's not the right time but I'm so obsessed and always day dreaming about it. So if i really want to be in relationship with him or i want manifest him the one thing is for sure i need to let go. Tq for your information
I have a person in my life who I just can’t get out of my head. It’s not a healthy thing because I think of him all the time and it’s not good thinking. I get terrible feelings when I’m near this person and the worst thing is, is that I don’t know what he did to anger me. I try to avoid him but he always ends up near me. Just a couple days ago he expressed his feelings to me and I was dumb and sort of played along. Now he won’t stop staring or trying to be near me. I just want him OUT of my head, out of my life but every time I see something that reminds me of him I can’t stop thinking about it. I need to get rid of this stupid feeling and I need to clear my mind. I just need to tell him to get out of my life but I don’t know how. Sorry if this was confusing I just really need help on what to do.
Do you think about someone so much you swear you conjure them up.Or are they doing it to you.Also when you think about someone are they thinking about you?
*heres a story for comment readers,HES not my crush he’s my boyfriend and he doesn’t have phone at the moment for a readon(lost in ocean)and we’re outta school so it’s rlly a long distance relationship and I can’t stop thinking about him I miss him a lot until we go back to school so hopefully this helps but I don’t want to forget him though*
There is a guy who is so PERSISTANT and keeps following me and I tell him I don't like you . But he keeps being so uuugh I have him I want to get rid of him he has the creepy vibe and yeah
I feel like a horrible person :( I've known this guy for the same amount of time I dated his friend for (4 and a half year) but I've always had this weird connection with this guy more so than my boyfriend but I constantly ignored it. The feelings never went away and then my relationship fell apart and now they're even stronger than they were before I don't know how to stop thinking about him because I know it cant happen. It's just we have such a good connection .... Frig .
1, break the habit of thinking him constantly; 2, focus on the present; 3, he is not as perfect as you think
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Zoey Zhang he is not as perfect as you think
How do I stop thinking of him though?! 🙃😞 ugh
Correct especially the 3rd one is eye opening
@bee sanchez thanks, your comment lets me know that the answer is not in this video
The fact that we had to look this up to get someone off of our mind-
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i just cant but i want to..
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This!! 🤣
Yes 😅
I thought I was alone. The process of getting over someone you've never dated. It feels like a drug. 🤦♀️
You’re definitely not alone.
You're not alone,
I'm in the same situation. We never dated yet I'm hurt
I am obsessed with a fictional character and it is not fun anymore
@@advikadhingra9136 what... Really, which character... How did it happen... How could this kind of obsession I mean for someone who doesn't exist, how could it reach that far...
You were probably right about me falling for a version of him that was probably not the real him. He sweet-talked me for a few months (everyday) and pictured this wonderful life with me and constantly told me how he’d be there for me. Then, unexpectedly, he gave me the cold shoulder and stopped talking to me. I couldn’t figure out why I keep thinking about him. You were right that I probably fell for that imagined man he portrayed for me instead of the real him who ghosted on me without putting any closure.
That just happened with a friend of mine, too - it's so awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that!!!!
This is happening 2 me and i cant stop thinkimg bout him and i cry all the time😭😭
sounds similar to my situation
Same girl same..
I was in a similar situation except it was 6 years of fake him
Don't stress love is a second hand emtion, it will happen again and again and again,
until you find the right one, allow yourself to go through the process, until healing comes, and it will
😌yup
That’s excellent advice Jennifer! Thanks. I needed that.
Thankyou for this ❤️
Thank you it just sucks every time I want the person to be the one they never are! It’s tough going through this process….I’m hurting 😢
Soo true. I feel like I've been tearing out pieces of myself and handing them to him. I have this great imagination of who I think he is that isn't even a reality. He ignores me, while I pour my heart out with serious concerns. I guess they are trivial to him. I've tried again with blocking him today. I've tried this many times brfore but ended up unblocking over n over. I am determined to master this and not feel defeated. Thanks for your help.
Cart T I understand your pain like sometimes I usually try to block the person, so I wouldn’t be scrolling through that account. But I end up unlocking him anyway, because I want to see how he’s doing without that feeling of him and his company. It’s tough honestly, but one day it’ll all just be a picture hung up on the wall as a memory cherished and not forgotten, and perhaps we can move forward with our life to someone new for our benefits.
dorky emili you too? I've done the same thing like an addiction. I'm soo sorry that happened to you 💖
I suffured for 3 years doing what you are doing i completly understand and one day he did something that made me realise that he is full of shit i loved this man like crazy over 3 years and in a second he was out of my head for ever it just striked me i was so obsessed with him i build a beautiful image about him in my head that he dosen't deserve and seemed to not get over it till i knew the real him trust me you will wake up someday it's all in your head i again did the same mistake with someone but it wasen't that long i won't do the same mistake now there is a man i like but ill never give a good image to someone i don't know fully again he is just a human being and i realise that being single all my life and waiting for that perfect person to me make me projet his image in the men i meet
How are you doing today?
Lmao, wtf just talk to him and ask him about it like be direct, don't just block him out of the blue and expect that to solve it all..
Whenever I catch myself thinking of him I'm going to do one minute of vigorous exercise!
Oh shit that might help me thank you
I’m trying this
I'll try this.
girl I won‘t do anything else all day long😂
@@lw3559so trueee!! I'll be exercising whole day 🙂
I have a great idea and it works everytime. when feeling like you are going to think about someone, just look around you and start talking loudly if you can about what you see. Like there is rectangular building infron of you, Start describing it with like it has 4 corners and it is made of glass and so on. I hope it helps.
That's a great tip, thank you!! That practice is so powerful - it's mindfulness, and it works!
Sounds like course of miracles.
She is spot on about thinking a person is who I perceive him to be. When in actuality he is totally something else.....thank you for that ah ha! Moment.
That is so ture... The picture u create in ur mind is not who the person really is. The mental picture is what keeps u stuck in that bad relationship.
I’ve been experiencing this at the moment. What i do is i stop looking at his profile stop thinking about him because it will only make me sad and i pray to God to make me strong.Thank you.
Block his profile and phone number....
@@KandyKoatedKrafts 😂😂
It’s soooooo hard for me I litterly have to watch these type of things 😭😭
sameee
Yes it is terrible
Same girl same
Why can't I stop thinking about him and dreaming off him
UrMom •-• i guess you control your own dreams is what they say so 🤷♀️but I feel you it’s annoying you just wanna get them outta your brain 🥺
I agree with the 3rd point. When we are in love our mind think the other person is perfect version of your dream person, when in reality most of the cases it will be not.
Thanks a lot mam.. I really needed this.. Coz my studies were badly hampered due to this stupid emotions.. I'll surely apply this 🤘
Assamese ????
Are you r here cuz of obsessing with bts , if yes I'm here 😔😔😟😓😥... I'm not toxic but I'm thinking so much !!
@@tomato._.3621 yes
Mangso bhat khuwa bhonti soob thik hoi jabo
Ugh me .. I just need to meet someone new I guess it's been 2 yrs I'm so annoyed
#Savage Movement it's almost 2 years for me too. Thank you for sharing this
Me too
4 years for me ugh
2 years?? HA! I've been single 13 lol. I refuse to settle for the wrong person. Know your worth and be patient. He'll come :)
I hope your doing fine now sister
Like I said My Lord and Savior is the only one on my mind at this time! I do meditate on Him day and night!!!
I'm so obsessed I got distracted 3 times thinking about him during the video. Bur the third advice is really effective. I noticed I'm always obsesses with something and replacing it every now and then, and when I'm not I feel empty.
PLEASE HELP? It is very hard for me to stop thinking about her and this obsession scares me
i can hardly change my mindset concerning her.
luis alfredo valladares torres Please tell me it got better really soon for you, Because I'm going through the same thing with a guy I work with and it feels like the worst depression ever.
I feel your pain. Sometimes, you have to just delve into another relationship. got to helped me in the past, but I am too old and I don't bounce back so quickly.
Me too
Me also Im soo depressed over thinking that woman. But he's ignoring me.
This is terrifying.
Everything she has said applies to my situation, although I am a man. Not sure if this is more prevalent in women but we men definitely go through this as well. I feel like this video found me randomly in a time of need! I was recovering but these thoughts started to invade my mind again. I'll be putting this advice into practice, thank you so much!
I feel you bro, this was really helpful for me as a man
I have ever loved someone and couldn't stop thinking about him even though I knew he never Loved me but when I deleted his number, it took me a week and I start seen how ugly he's but he's not actually ugly
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Thank you for validating my pain.
Met this man a month ago and things became toxic quickly and now I can’t stop thinking about him 😳
here's a few tips for how to get any man you want
don't be impatient
Use fewer words and choose them carefully
Communicate with behaviour as well as words
Thats true
I been obsessed with this guy since he was in my English class when I was 16-17. Last time I seen him was 2yrs ago but i found his instagram.....I'm coincidentally friends with his cousin which made me feel kinda more closer to him than before.....But I keep thinking about more and more since I don't really see him anymore. I noticed I have fallin for him last yr but it turned into an obsession...I want to move on since it doesn't seem healthy at all. I don't want to end up being his stalker...Why does he have to be too special compared to anyone in my life?
I am a man going through this. For 12 years I was living a double life and was browbeaten to finally leave my wife. Now, the love interest is not interested in me and I am completely devastated. I have beat myself up and don't really have the will to live. This video has giving me hope and I appreciate people out there like you.
I am so sorry! So often I hear it from the women's side of the story, with the anger and outrage, etc...but in reading your words and what you are going through...it must have been very difficult to be in the situation you were in for 12 years, and now this. I hope you are able to heal, and forgive yourself, and move forward. Sending you so much love and light!!!
Oh my gosh. This video was totally spot on... So lucky to have found it, thanks :)
Ok, so every time I think of him.....I’m gonna train my thought pattern to think of something more productive!
I did that and it helps, a lot. I do have some bad days.
By just understanding this is such a relief
Thank you! I’ve been thinking about him none stop. I’ve had dreams about him and I was getting dreams about him every day and I’ve been getting really annoyed I was planning on telling him but no, I can’t thank you so much! 😊
Irene艾琳 how are you know? I had dreams too ... it s exhausting ...
So glad to see I’m not the only one crazy in the head. I’ve been marinating for five years now, seems it will never get better, I’m addicted in the worst way
I can’t even breath without thinking of him. I miss him so much I force myself to make any activity . I’m scared that i will have depression. I’ m forcing myself to eat something, to get up from bed...it’s been a month since the break up...and I feel like my life stopped when he left me. I know it’s wrong but i can’t take so much pain..
havent been in a relationship with him but basically my crush started to ignore me after we had a pretty good conntection... and im close to fall into depression because of it
How are you doing after 9 months?
How're you doing after 2 years?
This lady is point with what she has presented!
When I started watching this video, his text message just popped on my screen..I saw his message.and my heart skipped
I am so grateful 😙 you touched a matter that it was dormant in my mind. Now I have a new skill to keep his hurtful memory away from me. Wish you blessings and success 💖👍
Thanks Krishanti, very helpful. Men should from you too
As an overthinker I made sceneries in head for complete childhood about a boy who I used to have crush on it lead me to this obsessivness , now I'm understanding this pattern it's drowning so it's not correct it's way too unhealthy for productivity .
3:33 to 4:15!Absolutely true!
Thank you for telling me that,and know I am going to try it
It's so difficult to believe, that he is not what my mind tells me that he is. He ignores me, and I'm still there, he don't care about me, and I care about him. He is on my mind 24/7., And I'm probably the last thing on his mind. Why do I want him? I'm trying to understand. Thank you for this Great video.
Its the same situation m facing now ....I know all.the facts that ..m not that imp for him.but my mind don't want to hear it .don't want to accept it
it's hard cause I'll finally gain focus and then I'll see him at work and it all goes back to square one all over again.
Men go through it to, I had a girl who knew if she half assed me all the time and left me wondering I would obsess over her. She manipulated my feelings for her until I caught on and got out of it.
I am so sorry that happened to you! And while the whole thing sucks it helps to know guys go through it too. When I made the Get Him Off Your Mind program it was because all women were coming to me with this...now I'm seeing it's universal. Thanks for your comment and I'm glad you caught on!
@@Krishanti thank you. These videos do help when feeling in a state of obsession and anxiety. I applaud people like yourself who make them. Can use these videos to help gain slight control over a feelings. Love sickness works just like a virus, it has its stages and informative videos are the medication.
How can I contact you! Bcz I'm also facing the same problem
How about when you work with that person closely? Things were starting to develope but after our first kiss he became concerned that I might want something serious, and because he just got out of a long relationship he doesn't want a relationship right now. So he said it was best to put a stop to this, I pretended to be ok with that, and said I understood. But I work with him everyday and I've been obsessively thinking and missing our romantic flirty behavior when we were together at work. Now we pretend to just be friends when in reality I thought I was falling in love. When we're alone together it almost physically hurts to not reach over and touch him. I've been in serious pain for two weeks now, and it feels like a horrible depression.
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry...it's very, very hard when you work with the person and see them daily. I don't know what to say other than to try the best you can to just get through it one step at a time. :(
Similar situation, I feel you
Kay2be2mr: Same situation here. I knew it was a mistake to get involved w/ someone I work with. He used me and I know he's no good yet I can't stop thinking about him & being attracted to him. Seeing him at work and sometimes having to work alongside him doesn't help. I totally understand what you are saying. Being near him, smelling him, sometimes he's wearing this shirt that looks really good on him....It's so damn hard. BUT I will try these steps anyway to redirect my thoughts. Also when at work I try to not think about things we did together or the fact he's not just some coworker. It's really difficult but I'm tired of this. Can't waste anymore time of someone who clearly never cared about me.
I totally understand what you are saying. Omg, 3 years...that is too long to be feeling miserable. That is what i'm afraid of. This situation has already gone on long enough.
@@catlady715 i hope the best for you. Wished all happiest u deserve
I’m hitting my self, punching my self because I messed up badly. I knew better. I always know better and I failed my self. I don’t understand how I got cought up in catching feeling for someone who I’m not even dating. It’s so stupid! I’m going to try to picture him as a bad person and think of him of how horrible he is because this is just too much to be dealing with on top of everything I’m going through- rock bottom.
Don't be so hard on yourself! It's not your fault! This kind of situation happens to millions of people, they just don't talk about it openly. You are not alone and you are not to blame. It's kind of a form of silent self-sabotage and there are so many factors behind it. I hope everything starts getting better. Sometimes when things are hard it's easier to focus on the other person, as a way to cope, I've seen that a lot. Onward and upward!
hey so i like this man and i thought he liked me back but recently he started to avoid me and leave me on open so i don’t know what this means but i really like this man and can’t get him outta my head and i feel like i’m going way to fast and i can’t stop because this might be my first boyfriend so idk i needa take it slow bc i feel like he doesn’t like it
Thank you very much for those words 😌💜
Thank you, your words are very wise & comforting...please do more videos on this topic!
Thank you! I will!
I think I need someone with the same pain we will understand each other better
As I’m being in a relationship with that type of person ?
That's trauma bonding, probably not healthy
Just what I need I was going out of my head over a guy and fighting not to keep texting him emotions duck 😀
Most of us need therapy and a cure for daddy issues lol
This is really really helpful and great!! Thank you amazing woman 🙏🏽♥️🙌🏽
You're so welcome!
I love this. It really is game with your mind.
I was just making a version of him in my mind for fun, but it turns out that it's something that can destroy me in the end. :((
It's been 4 years !!! And yet I'm trying to get over it ! This year he moved away and imm again tryna get over it
Me too suffuring with same problem from 18 to 20 years, still every sec. I am thinking abt him.
thank you... i am trying...
S. M. Sanzana Rahman hi
Me too!
I'm 22 and I have a crush on one of my bestfriends (F). We always hangout with our other bestfriends each week. I really wanna get this person out of my mind. But the thing is that, if I wanna get (F) out of my mind I have to stop hangout with (F), meaning that I also have to stop hangout with my other bestfriends, Since my other bestfriends are (F)'s childhood friends, So, obviously, if I wanna stop hangout with (F) they would stick with (F) instead of me..
And it hurts.. I don't wanna lose my other bestfriends.. telling the truth to them is like destroying our friendship
28 days!!!!In less then 28 days I have to go back to school and he sits next to me in a few classes
I feel better knowing that my obsessing was not just me!! It is so difficult not to obsess about him. We work together, spent time together after work. And yes we have had sex twice. I obsess. I see so many things wrong yet I can’t stay away.
Omg I’m only 12 and I’m so confused and when I think of my boyfriend MY STOMACH FEELS WEIRD 😣I can’t get over him and I only have that feeling when I think about him
same here , :( I can’t even focus or anything he broke up with me yesterday and I am still feeling sad and idk.....:(😔
sweety at age twelve I didn't know what a boyfriend was lol. You are in your childhood, you only get it once. Make it count! this is not something you should be even worried about.❤
Warrior Princess thanks ,:/ but I don’t even remember how I learnt it but I knew him since 11 and he is taken with my friend and now I don’t know what to do
@@boo-9348 This is a part of life dear. We love and lose people. Trust me when you grow up you will realise this and learn not to give a damn about somethings. I know it will feel like you lost something,I have felt that too many times. I still do. But one day you will come to know there is more to life than chasing someone for the sake of butterflies in your stomach. I have sisters older than you and younger than you. I can only imagine if one of them goes through a situation like this. I will advice them the same.❤Just focus on being happyy, at the age 12 happiness should come easy,u shouldn't have to worry about a 3rd person. Tc luv.
Thank you. Really needed to hear this.
@thomas jones what xD?
The last tip is what I need to start doing.
A bit frustrating here... I so much love him and pregnant for him but, no attention, no love only depression but, I gonna get over it
This is all i needed. Thanks a lot for makin this vid😊
Thank you very much.....it worked out!
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I don't want him at all anymore....l never check on him but he keeps coming back to my house..... just want to not feel guilty when l don't respond.....and when l respond l always end up allowing the communication to open up.....and get sucked back into his insanity. He's not only a drug addict he's a cheater and an all around shitty human being but he refuseds to leave me alone.
Its almost a month but i think of him like it's the first day.
Its getting worse every day , thinking of him, i have tried forgetting about him but i can't. 😭
You understand completely
we romanticize them so much..that we forget they r not perfect...btw Thankssss 🦋
Knowing i'm not alone... the 3rd one is a discovery that i am going through... I thought he was a better person turns out he's not ... when i stepped away from him ... but i cant forget about him ... he's narcissistic and its all about him... he pulls me back in and i hate myself for that... I've tryed the 3 steps but my brain and heart can't let go... i know that it sounds so stupid...
Bro I was watching this video and straight after I got a text from the guy I’m trying to get over Ahahah
Lifestyle of Jerene he blocked me 😩
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the last point is soo sooo important!!!!!! and TRUE
I don't miss the friendship, I miss the help, his absence scares me. He's not talking to me anymore after he ticked me off and I voiced my annoyance. Now, I'm stressing about a time in the future where might need him but he won't be there. Even though I am supposed to be perfectly capable of handling everything myself yet I'm constantly thinking of him. I just can't get off my mind. He's a crappy person but all I can remember is the way he used to help me out.
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Very good advice. Don't limit it to women. Men often have this problem too.
14years ago i had mess with this guy out the blue he been on my mind i say about two weeks everyday but thanks
I’ve been obsessing over my ex fiancé less and less but it’s still hard on me every now and again. I want to erase him from my mind and all the things he’s done to me. I had seen this guy as holding all the answers I always wanted from a partner but everything changed. I found out he was a pathological liar and lied since day one about everything. I can’t help but feel our whole relationship was a lie in itself. Your video helped put things in a new perspective for me. Thank you.
I just hate this longing feeling for him, I was just one second away of texting him again, I can't text him, he doesn't even care about me, probably busy and here I am checking phone again and again, can't sleep well
Nice brows 💕
I love him but one thing that i know is that i have to wait for this coz it's not the right time but I'm so obsessed and always day dreaming about it. So if i really want to be in relationship with him or i want manifest him the one thing is for sure i need to let go. Tq for your information
thank you so much. needed this
So glad!
Thank you moving forward
Thank you krashanti 💗
Does this work if your obsessed with a celebrity crush?
I don't think he is perfect. I think he is my type and I love his face.
Actually affecting my mental health
Your voice is so soothing🥰🥰
Thank you!
I CANT STOP HELP ME
Its hard tho,but thank you so much atleast I know what I need to work with,this really helps. Again,thank you.
Okay this is weird. From now on I will keep my phone away even when I am just thinking about something.
I have a person in my life who I just can’t get out of my head. It’s not a healthy thing because I think of him all the time and it’s not good thinking. I get terrible feelings when I’m near this person and the worst thing is, is that I don’t know what he did to anger me. I try to avoid him but he always ends up near me.
Just a couple days ago he expressed his feelings to me and I was dumb and sort of played along. Now he won’t stop staring or trying to be near me. I just want him OUT of my head, out of my life but every time I see something that reminds me of him I can’t stop thinking about it. I need to get rid of this stupid feeling and I need to clear my mind. I just need to tell him to get out of my life but I don’t know how.
Sorry if this was confusing I just really need help on what to do.
I have this FOMO and that’s when I start to obsess over someone. I make up different scenarios in my head and get anxiety then. it’s horrible
Do you think about someone so much you swear you conjure them up.Or are they doing it to you.Also when you think about someone are they thinking about you?
It can go both ways!
Thank you! Very good!
Thank you so much for this!
*heres a story for comment readers,HES not my crush he’s my boyfriend and he doesn’t have phone at the moment for a readon(lost in ocean)and we’re outta school so it’s rlly a long distance relationship and I can’t stop thinking about him I miss him a lot until we go back to school so hopefully this helps but I don’t want to forget him though*
There is a guy who is so PERSISTANT and keeps following me and I tell him I don't like you . But he keeps being so uuugh I have him I want to get rid of him he has the creepy vibe and yeah
Thank you very much Krishanti.
Her voice so soothing 😴😴
I feel like a horrible person :( I've known this guy for the same amount of time I dated his friend for (4 and a half year) but I've always had this weird connection with this guy more so than my boyfriend but I constantly ignored it. The feelings never went away and then my relationship fell apart and now they're even stronger than they were before I don't know how to stop thinking about him because I know it cant happen. It's just we have such a good connection .... Frig .
how are u nowww
There's a guy i saw earlier, he's just so ugh! I cant take him off my mind, but im not that obssessed wjth him.
pariss same