Stop Trying To Fix Other People: Julie Piatt | Rich Roll Podcast

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  • Опубліковано 3 вер 2019
  • Thanks for watching! Read all about Julie Piatt here 👉🏼bit.ly/richroll465
    Julie Piatt (a.k.a. SriMati) is a yogi, healer, musician, podcast host, mother of four and the bestselling author of three plant-based cookbooks. She's also my wife. Today we talk about our relationship, creativity, navigating financial hardship, grief, and her latest culinary endeavor - SriMu plant-based "NOT" cheeses.
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    EPISODE 465 AUDIO PODCAST
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 287

  • @kristenoels5383
    @kristenoels5383 4 роки тому +35

    This is changing so much for me. I'm a plant based, total addict in recovery. my partner is also an addict and recovering. When I think of the most beautiful couple for manifestation. It always go back to you two. Thank you .

  • @bethanyhagensen4005
    @bethanyhagensen4005 4 роки тому +119

    As a Midwesterner, I find new age language/branding difficult to relate with- and I hate to admit it but I hear a few new age phrases and my eyes start to roll. However, I really think my prejudice turned upside down when I got a few minutes in to this. Hearing Julie talk about her life experiences, the loss of the kid's dad and the impact of relapse- that's real life and it is so refreshing to hear people talk about their experiences as a family, a couple and as individual. The vulnerability here is just beautiful, thanks for sharing this.

    • @denny3161
      @denny3161 4 роки тому +3

      Same for me...eyerolls etc...

    • @evelynbaron2004
      @evelynbaron2004 4 роки тому +11

      Well as a Torontonian (Canada) Rich's speech inflexions are purely California; he's vital, he knows what he thinks; he's opened minded and lives with a woman I find very hard to like, I would also sleep in a tent but history is vr powerful. I will post above but I've had some time since watching this podcast and am currently working on the videos of Tom Petty whose 1st wife almost destroyed him. She was his abusive father re-incarnated; he never fought back; she could hit him, sleep with other people because he had no right to a life without her when on tour … is anyone seeing a pattern here? Also, post-Oprah, yes it's great to have couples counselling on the internet (not) but there are some serious boundaries that this woman crossed … and he let her do it.

    • @evelynbaron2004
      @evelynbaron2004 4 роки тому +6

      ok This is an abusive relationship and the cow goddess is to blame. He won't fight back because of his history of alcohism and banrkupcy sorry about spelling this is a BAD |WOMAN

    • @billbradleymusic
      @billbradleymusic 4 роки тому +2

      Same. They're too kind. It's a ball buster. I'm unhappy they're perfect.

    • @billbradleymusic
      @billbradleymusic 4 роки тому +1

      @@evelynbaron2004 you have nailed that coffin shut.

  • @sarakelly4641
    @sarakelly4641 4 роки тому +14

    This woman is beyond beyond. She is making connections and adding meaning to life.

  • @shvonned.burkemsncrnpagpcn619
    @shvonned.burkemsncrnpagpcn619 3 роки тому +20

    I love that. “We find freedom in commitment.”

  • @ssharp8900
    @ssharp8900 4 роки тому +10

    Julie is by far always my favorite guest! Always learn so much and so inspired to walk a higher path. Thank you Rich and Julie!!

  • @holliebingham1311
    @holliebingham1311 3 роки тому +11

    What a beautifully raw and devotional marriage, I'm in complete awe of the two of you. Julie, thank you for being unapologetically you and shining your light and wisdom on the world, I'm so inspired by your journey and strength! 💕

  • @markj7612
    @markj7612 4 роки тому +52

    Simply one of a few best conversations that I've heard in my lifetime. Thank you.

  • @used2bmorals
    @used2bmorals 4 роки тому +13

    Beautiful! Julie has awe inspiring wisdom and perspective. This conversation was so raw and so vulnerable thank you for going there and sharing the inside of your relationship so freely.

  • @malgorzatadaniel6061
    @malgorzatadaniel6061 4 роки тому +5

    Rich, Julie, what a beautiful episode! I love seeing the amazing flow and connection guys you have! thank you.

  • @wephotogal
    @wephotogal 4 роки тому +8

    Wow! Talk about an honest, candid and vulnerable beautiful conversation. Thank you for this.

  • @Ecotrekbistro
    @Ecotrekbistro 4 роки тому +4

    Wow! Thank you Rich for this wonderful conversation. Julie you are truly amazing and even though this is the first time I have heard you, I felt connected and enlightened! I look forward to seeing more of you and all your works! Rich still love your work and you!

  • @cinthyalc1162
    @cinthyalc1162 4 роки тому +1

    Julie thank you! Hearing you gives me faith and I will forever keep fighting against the dying of the light ❤️

  • @jbt6007
    @jbt6007 4 роки тому +3

    Love watching you two interact on video. So much to watch in the communication with your facial expressions and eye contact.

  • @jjbenna
    @jjbenna 4 роки тому +21

    Yes more Julie!!!! 🙏👍

  • @shartmann2008
    @shartmann2008 4 роки тому +2

    can't imagine finding someone who cares, truly. you are both so fortunate.

  • @sabinabeinish2711
    @sabinabeinish2711 4 роки тому +6

    Julie
    You are so vulnerable yet so strong
    The very best combination for a wonderful being and soul 🌗

  • @J.Moyine
    @J.Moyine 4 роки тому +2

    Im glad Julie is getting the recognition she deserves with all her many gifts and wisdom and beauty. I can completely relate to how frustrating it is to have to wait for your gifts to be recognised or shared with the world due to constant adversity . We really appreciate the strength and devotion that you both show towards one another and your various art forms and businesses. And thank you Rich for always being prepared to show up and share the more vulnerable and raw aspects of yourself. The earth is a better place because both of you are alive and giving so generously to your community 💜

  • @ginahamlyn2569
    @ginahamlyn2569 4 роки тому +2

    The most profound podcast I’ve ever listen to. Thank you for your honesty and openness.

  • @bridgetc.marinaccio8024
    @bridgetc.marinaccio8024 Рік тому +1

    Julie-Thank you for your life’s work! You gave me a courage to step towards facing deep grief.

  • @klaudialatkowska4945
    @klaudialatkowska4945 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for being there and sharing this! Wonderful and wise. Magical too

  • @jenniferh8241
    @jenniferh8241 4 роки тому +3

    Love this beautiful soul! What a great relationship and connection!

  • @chazmcculloch9487
    @chazmcculloch9487 4 роки тому +26

    Absolutely love the conversations with Julie! The dynamic between you guys is really beautiful. Thank you! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @paullemay3218
    @paullemay3218 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for sharing another wonderful podcast. I actually bought Julie’s book way before started following Rich took me a while to put the connection together. Doh!!🤦🏼‍♂️. Awesome plant based cheese recipes for sure. 🇨🇦😎

  • @hivolco151
    @hivolco151 Рік тому +3

    Rich, Thank you for mentioning the resistance to Calendar prescribed celebrations. For some reason I have always resisted Birthdays ( my own) Valentines day, Christmas, New years... whatever! LOL... SO I feel like we are kindreds in this regard! The two of you are GREAT together! Love this! Thanks for everything you share here!

  • @sumaclane8020
    @sumaclane8020 4 роки тому +3

    what an amazing relationship.... real people real love ... thank you

  • @JenniferJohnson-jt8eb
    @JenniferJohnson-jt8eb 4 роки тому +2

    Love you guys! Appreciated this interview! Keep Evolving!!😃
    Many many blessings to you and your family 💓💖

  • @lesleyhurst3890
    @lesleyhurst3890 4 роки тому +1

    I just love you both so much xxxx thank you for the spectrum of awesome that you rain down on the earth

  • @joanndehnert2933
    @joanndehnert2933 4 роки тому +5

    Great conversation. Julie’s opinions about mixed families and past relationships really resonated with me. Gave me food for thought. She is beautiful inside and out! Xo from Canada. Too bad I won’t be able to order her ‘cheese’

  • @janelbert7887
    @janelbert7887 2 роки тому +1

    I love this! Thanks for sharing your vulnerabilities and path in your relationship!

  • @ioanacrisan603
    @ioanacrisan603 4 роки тому +3

    I love how SriMati explains her conscious living. MAde me realize a lot... Thank you

  • @kimberlylacroix953
    @kimberlylacroix953 3 роки тому +1

    Julie, you are an inspiration and this interview touched my soul. Thank you ❤

  • @joelkryeziu4095
    @joelkryeziu4095 4 роки тому +9

    Thank you so much for sharing this. I love what you said about how we should talk about our older partners. It's very profound to see that you two are so different and such a good match. Connected very deep with this one

  • @vaishalivaidya7978
    @vaishalivaidya7978 3 роки тому +2

    Just loved this entire conversation. Every conversation through every talk, every book, every movie, every interaction is only a process for self evolution.
    Thank you for such an honest, accountable, open conversation.
    I'm looking forward to share my experience with someone in similar ways and I had just said it aloud today to someone today.
    Universe listens when you are willing to talk through your whole undivided self...I guess it might be equally true it presents exactly itself through its representatives even when we walk in divided, unwhole to make us whole and realise our wholesomeness, our holiness😊. Stay blessed

  • @stac3426
    @stac3426 2 роки тому +3

    Impressive person, thoughtful, seems honest, intelligent. Love to see women like her.

  • @bing_cct8984
    @bing_cct8984 4 роки тому

    Love it. Love hearing from a woman her age to be so fierce and calming, so self assured. Love love

  • @Doaa333
    @Doaa333 4 роки тому +2

    Grow wiser together, or run away from the challenge separately! it's beautiful and inspiring to see that some people like you two stick to the first choice. keep it up even though i felt that you're trying to prepare everyone including yourselves, for a "cool" DIVORCE! I liked the interaction, even though it was too much personal.

  • @PaulCarterArt
    @PaulCarterArt 4 роки тому +1

    The reality and truth of your journey and life itself.
    To know thyself and grow through and breaking through the conditioned layers of lies is empowering.
    Thank you each for sharing this inspiring time capsule.
    To be continued 🗝🙏🏽no validation required

  • @danp3677
    @danp3677 3 роки тому +1

    As is with most of Rich Rolls podcast, there are many pearls to be plucked from this conversation.

  • @jenniferbutler8057
    @jenniferbutler8057 4 роки тому +11

    You just made me Love You more. You are so REAL and I appreciate that.

  • @3mily814
    @3mily814 4 роки тому

    I just signed up/bought a subscription box for SriMu! Rich Roll I started to follow you because you were a vegan ultrarunner or so I thought - it was really because I needed to find out about your wife! What an inspiration thank you for sharing!

  • @shirleyeggenschwiler9482
    @shirleyeggenschwiler9482 3 роки тому +1

    I appreciate the truth of all of these feelings... it has nothing to do with whether I agree or not or really whether they are married or not or even any judgement in the relationship ... just that it was one of those deeply true discussions. You are both sound different but I think that’s what makes this conversation therapeutic 🌸

  • @ida5232
    @ida5232 4 роки тому +1

    💖💜♥️💙💚❤️💛💖💜♥️💙💚❤️💛💖 The Julie episodes are my very favorite! It’s always such a treat to hear Srimati! 💖💜♥️💛❤️💚💙💖💜♥️💛❤️💚💙💖

  • @wellnessjunkie2564
    @wellnessjunkie2564 2 роки тому +1

    The depth of this made me uncomfortable in the beginning, but as the discussion evolved the sheer raw power of truth is breath taking. Mind opening. Loved it.

  • @constanceneal3717
    @constanceneal3717 4 роки тому +2

    Yes to more ritual and ceremony! Doing together what is beyond convention!

  • @FountainBeee
    @FountainBeee 4 роки тому +1

    Waited a long time for this podcast. Thank you for sharing.

  • @langolier9
    @langolier9 3 роки тому

    I never know what lessons I’m gonna learn from your guests but the one lesson I know I learned is that I will absolutely learn some thing that will allow me to live my best possible life or encourage me to do so

  • @89CIH
    @89CIH 3 роки тому +2

    I came to this episode of the podcast by chance. The way Julie talked about her divorce to hers children's father and describing the end of a (romantic) relationship as "completed" (and not as a failure) gave me a fresh perspective on my own breakup and makes me think that maybe I can have a new and different relationship with this person.

  • @Caitlinsway
    @Caitlinsway 3 роки тому

    This conversation was very inspiring. I'm really in awe of Julie and their relationship

  • @sherylhokianga6075
    @sherylhokianga6075 Рік тому

    Beautiful!..ThankU Julie & Rich!

  • @winsomecohall2250
    @winsomecohall2250 3 роки тому +1

    Yes I love that ,separate the action from the man and still hold him/ her up to the spiritual light ...You have a beautiful soul woman born out of life experience they all came to teach us something about ourselves these experiences is to shine light on the darkness within us our ego !! Rich is a patient man he gave her the space to talk about the past his love supports her and she can shine and it reflects on him .. this man is so beautiful.. awesome 👏 🙏

  • @maddymcloughlin9753
    @maddymcloughlin9753 4 роки тому +2

    Loved this!!

  • @doyouevennaturebro4593
    @doyouevennaturebro4593 4 роки тому +9

    Dude, about freakin time! Need me some Julie.

  • @myc483
    @myc483 3 роки тому

    My favorite podcast so far!

  • @loveofinquiry3839
    @loveofinquiry3839 4 роки тому +2

    Very powerful conversation. 💗🙏💗

  • @julie_273
    @julie_273 4 роки тому +9

    Great conversation! I'm so excited for Smrimu. It would be great if you could buy one box-- to try it as well as to make it accessible for people living on a budget.

  • @Rainbowday369
    @Rainbowday369 2 роки тому

    I enjoy watching couples express their honest opinions to each other…I can relate to the missus due to past relationship knowledge..We’re humans we’re always going to make mistakes but unconditional love should be able to do the, for sickness and in health, the good and the bad etc and riding it out to the end…and what I know of trying to fix other people is a way to try to fix oneself and when you reach the point you no longer feel the need to continue to do that you have fixed yourself…

  • @lilianagriseldaszachury1843
    @lilianagriseldaszachury1843 4 роки тому +6

    Rich, congratulations 🥳 you have a great woman in your life!! I love her and she has been the best guest!!! She is the best 💐

  • @daramiguel8217
    @daramiguel8217 4 роки тому +1

    i hope I find a love/companionship/spiritual connection with someone like this. ***MANIFEST!** THANK YOU for sharing such an intimate conversation. I cried.

  • @fabfabi70
    @fabfabi70 2 роки тому

    this was a really insightful and honest conversation, thank you both.

  • @eve2929
    @eve2929 4 роки тому

    So exciting to hear about the long range view of the cheese!!!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @agniukaz10
    @agniukaz10 4 роки тому +5

    Well done, Rich! Couple dynamics are always WIP - you two are a beautiful couple :)

  • @Ribesuvacrispa
    @Ribesuvacrispa 4 роки тому

    So good! Thank you!

  • @nimy3071
    @nimy3071 2 роки тому

    This is a very revealing and self-learning Interview. Thank you

  • @katiie7
    @katiie7 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoy your episodes with your wife. Great conversations

  • @velocitygirl8551
    @velocitygirl8551 3 роки тому +8

    I come back to this every few months because I can’t quite figure out the bottom line. The closest I get is ... SHES moving on. She evolving. With or without you. Every time I watch, it’s exhausting. But I keep trying. I do find beauty in everything Srimati says lol ... so I’m trying. But I struggle with this ...

  • @cthornton523
    @cthornton523 4 роки тому +1

    At 28:00 when she talks about the children's father's passing...
    Thank you.
    My husband's ex-wife, mother of their children completed her suicide in 2016.
    I made it a point to find the good in her. Thanks for talking about your why, Julie. Useful stuff.

  • @langolier9
    @langolier9 3 роки тому +1

    If anyone deserves such a wonderful beautiful inside and out wife it’s you rich roll

  • @barbarastadler9773
    @barbarastadler9773 4 роки тому +1

    I really love you both!!!

  • @sabinabeinish2711
    @sabinabeinish2711 4 роки тому +3

    Julie
    Amazing spirit 🌿🍂🌾💐

  • @CafeCreativeYT
    @CafeCreativeYT 4 роки тому +28

    Thank you for this episode, Definitely helped me enormously coming out of a toxic relationship.

    • @jenniferh8241
      @jenniferh8241 4 роки тому +5

      Same here. It's really enlightening and refreshing to see what a healthy, strong relationship is.

  • @Jess1928
    @Jess1928 4 роки тому +2

    So beautiful! Thank you for sharing. Do you or Julie have any recommended reading for increasing ritual and ceremony in our day to day lives?

  • @markchrysanthou9543
    @markchrysanthou9543 4 роки тому +2

    I LOVE BOTH OF YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!!!! MISSED YOU BOTH DOING PC

  • @modusmidwest
    @modusmidwest 4 роки тому

    Love it!

  • @tedvangageldonk7698
    @tedvangageldonk7698 4 роки тому

    This was lovely. Thanks!

  • @lealea6020
    @lealea6020 4 роки тому +8

    I cried when Julie talked about the kids dad dying... It's just soo sad to hear. On the happy note Rich loves to use the verb 'navigate' 😂😂😂😂

  • @davebyrne0
    @davebyrne0 4 роки тому

    Love this

  • @stevengotts
    @stevengotts 4 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @zoetele123
    @zoetele123 4 роки тому +2

    Great communication

  • @The72Nana
    @The72Nana 3 роки тому

    Do they laugh hysterically together I wonder. Anyhow, congrats for being able to keep your marriage happy, supportive and loving.

  • @mynameisana09
    @mynameisana09 4 роки тому +11

    I was crying for half of the podcast. Julie is such a beautiful soul. I never watched her before..but listening to her touches me deeply.

    • @daramiguel8217
      @daramiguel8217 4 роки тому +1

      me too! im so moved.... i want to just sit in her presence.... I thought I loved Rich's presence... but hes been topped! LOL

  • @lindaw140
    @lindaw140 4 роки тому

    🌹👍❤️😊🙏🙏🙏so beautiful these two articulate individuals. I listened for the third times

  • @adrianwalsh7344
    @adrianwalsh7344 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing

  • @tracybrusman9538
    @tracybrusman9538 4 роки тому +1

    I love Julie; one wise woman

  • @peayen5008
    @peayen5008 3 роки тому

    What a beautiful open relationship they seem to have.

  • @noellerizzato3914
    @noellerizzato3914 2 роки тому +1

    I so relate guys !!! And do celebrate love ❤️ and life everyday!!! Cheers 🥂

  • @brandoningersoll5034
    @brandoningersoll5034 4 роки тому +11

    I love her perspective on relationships...tough lessons learn from experience. But knowing your death date?? I am recovering from a fundamentalist religious upbringing...my alarm bells were going off....it sounded so familiar but just cloaked in new lingo. Isn’t the whole point meditation is we don’t know what tomorrow will bring...we embrace the now and live there? The lust to have certainty leaves us prey for the mind to invent dogma to comply...in my experience. But she is otherwise and bright light and amazing human!

  • @lindaw140
    @lindaw140 4 роки тому

    I’d like to check out what Julie do day to day, such as getting up early and meditating and living in a monk’s like place...will check out her website!!!

  • @lindaw140
    @lindaw140 4 роки тому

    Instead of Netflix and phone and social media, lit a candle and ask for the divine force to guide and direct me. Julie
    Julie asked and negotiated and be assertive in her ideas and ceremonies are what she wanted. Very spiritual. Pay attention to spiritual world as we live day to day.
    Beautiful lady!

  • @gemmabelfrage6691
    @gemmabelfrage6691 3 роки тому

    You guys are AMAZING!!! Marriage goals.

  • @anako1976
    @anako1976 2 роки тому

    This is incredible.

  • @TheDorfan
    @TheDorfan 2 роки тому

    You both are amazing

  • @paccarcrap
    @paccarcrap 3 роки тому +10

    If this was one of my insecure jerk exes, it'd be...What?!! You're grieving about your ex? Were you still seeing him? Are you still in love with him? You're crying, why it's been 14 years??!! 🙄 ( That'd be my situation)
    Cheers to Rich for being secure.

  • @nicolagrimmer100
    @nicolagrimmer100 4 роки тому

    BRILLIANT AND BEAUTIFUL SCOTLAND

  • @lindaw7502
    @lindaw7502 4 роки тому

    Could a couple have so much fun talking joking to each other with honesty to their own true feelings and laugh from the heart? Amazing ! I want to be that with my husband:). These two are so talented communicaters

    • @braflynn
      @braflynn 4 роки тому

      I'm over an hour in and I am not sure there's been laughing ?

  • @kaity923
    @kaity923 4 роки тому +5

    Just re affirming my belief that all the best people are either Canadian or in a 12step program!! 😂 What a beautiful relationship! Thank you for sharing it with us. ❤️

  • @MrGeekUSA
    @MrGeekUSA 4 роки тому +25

    "We can't even go to a hotel, because you sleep in a tent" 😂

  • @chlosuzanne
    @chlosuzanne 3 роки тому

    Rich, Julie, whoever may receive these messages... I am asking for more vulnerable, honest conversations about your relationships, and allowing spirituality and divinity to play a part in these human “role-like” relationships. As a 20 year old woman, deeply invested in my divinity and spiritual practice, I am finding myself trying to navigate my long-term romantic relationship with my partner. Any insight from experts or wiser guides is so appreciated. I listen to this podcast often, just for reflection purposes. I would be so honored to hear more.

  • @lindaw140
    @lindaw140 4 роки тому

    Infuse love into the beautiful creation such as plant based cheese
    To shift the consciousness of the world
    Julie has the vision and put heart into the creation wow

  • @m_c_d
    @m_c_d 3 роки тому +2

    I will internally replay the days following my daughters fathers death. Her words, my words. Thanks for sharing.

    • @xandricoetzee6698
      @xandricoetzee6698 2 роки тому +1

      So sorry for you and your daughter's loss.

    • @m_c_d
      @m_c_d 2 роки тому +1

      @@xandricoetzee6698 thank you for taking a moment to write that, means more than you'll know x

    • @xandricoetzee6698
      @xandricoetzee6698 2 роки тому

      @@m_c_d You are sincerely welcome. Sending you and your daughter lots of positive energy. I hope that Julie's words and insights helped you somewhat in the grieving/accepting/healing process ❤️

  • @mirella8733
    @mirella8733 4 роки тому +2

    Love this woman, great interview.