The walk that went wrong.

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  • @louiseakbar1044
    @louiseakbar1044 Місяць тому +33

    Oh my , my heart was pounding! I think you are brave ,much braver than me x

  • @alexvlachoulis1409
    @alexvlachoulis1409 Місяць тому +37

    Good idea to abandon the walk though the woodland. You are right to trust your instinct and stay safe. Greetings and Best Wishes from South Australia

  • @PopsSinging
    @PopsSinging Місяць тому +20

    I am an ex-soldier, and I worked as a bodyguard for a while for baseball players. I live in Florida, and I will warn you-those sprays don't always work like you think they do. I have seen intoxicated and drugged-out people take those sprays and keep coming, like it's nothing. Even a gel spray can blow back into your eyes if the wind is strong enough. And a weapon in the wrong hands can be turned on you in an instant. The best thing to do is run and make a lot of noise if someone gets near you while you're alone. I would recommend a heavy walking stick or cane as an improvised weapon to create space between you and an attacker, but opening an umbrella and placing it between you and an attacker could give you a moment to get away.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +5

      Thanks for that. I like the idea of a walking stick ( one for the hill walkers not a cane) oo yes can do a bit with that, lol 😂

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou 29 днів тому +4

      @@travellingliteI have one- it’s above shoulder height, lightweight and solid. I take it when I’m walking a dog.
      There are videos about how to use for self defense. It’s useful also in case a strange dog is loose.
      There are also trekking poles that are extendable. Easier to pack along.
      I took a women’s self defense class- I recommend this.

  • @helengregor8589
    @helengregor8589 Місяць тому +38

    I'm a coward,I just wouldn't walk alone in places like that by myself. Do take lots of care n look after yourself 😢❤

    • @joebrennan.4389
      @joebrennan.4389 Місяць тому +6

      You are not a coward, you are a sensible woman.....👍

    • @minkgin3370
      @minkgin3370 Місяць тому +2

      I’m nearly 80 & although I still love to walk it would never enter my head to walk in places like this by myself. Please stay safe.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +5

      You had a good reply there. You could say I was a coward for not carrying on with the walk through the woods, but it's not cowardice its using your intelligence. So we are not cowards, we are intelligent. 😃

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +6

      @@minkgin3370 Its very sad when we have to think of our safety when we do these things. I try to pick places that give me quick escape routes or near roads or lots of walkers. As I get older I do have to think more about my locations. 😔

    • @bromptinowner763
      @bromptinowner763 29 днів тому +3

      ​@travellinglite unfortunately women in general have to constantly thinking about their safety, to the point of abandoning the plans, spacial awareness and listen to your gut !! Stay safe

  • @techtinkerin
    @techtinkerin Місяць тому +25

    This type of thing is why I bought an unnecessarily large mag lite (torch). The main thing is this, you could carry a banana, but when asked by police why, if you say for self defence they will do you for going equipped. So my large heavy torch is for seeing where im going and NOT for banjoing people who displease me! 👍😁

  • @dglady5168
    @dglady5168 Місяць тому +15

    Good for you trusting your instincts , you come across as significantly more resilient & upbeat than say a year ago❤

  • @ianhunkin5384
    @ianhunkin5384 27 днів тому +3

    Sign the petition people its now hit 2 million in less than 2 days ...you were wise to trust your gut instinct its there for a reason

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  26 днів тому +1

      Hi Ian. I couln't get the form signed quick enough. We won't get an election, but it does make the elites aware of how unhappy people are, because we are struggling!!

  • @biba350
    @biba350 25 днів тому +3

    Just come across your channel
    Fair play to you dear lady don't let ppl stop you living your life i need to get out of my comfort zone it might sound bit out there it's coming up to Christmas why not treat yourself to a st Christopher patron saint of travel I'm sure you know this just thought even if it's the key ring stay safe always vigilant yes trust you gut

  • @dbcooper7326
    @dbcooper7326 Місяць тому +18

    They say deep heat spray is great for a long walk

  • @rosenamarshall5502
    @rosenamarshall5502 Місяць тому +10

    I always carry a can of deep heat spray in my hand I used to walk down a dark unlit road at 5 in the morning when I was working .

  • @donnyetta
    @donnyetta 29 днів тому +11

    What a world we live in when seeing a solitary man about gives us the creeps and makes us change our plans. I am the same when jogging around the nature reserve lake. Enjoy your walks but take care!

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  26 днів тому +2

      Yes it is rough and seems to be getting worse these days. Remember gut instincts and being aware. But in saying that, there are lots and lots of wonderful people out there, we are a caring country in the main.😃

  • @joannedibben2352
    @joannedibben2352 Місяць тому +7

    Yes my dear lady you try and keep yourself safe I agree with you 🌈

  • @DT-rb7ro
    @DT-rb7ro Місяць тому +7

    Plot twist: He was a subscriber and was building up the courage to ask for a selfie lol

  • @michaelfirth1075
    @michaelfirth1075 26 днів тому +4

    Great video young lady I enjoyed it. Wise lady you keep safe.😊😊

  • @julieford6204
    @julieford6204 Місяць тому +9

    Nice to see you did right thing going back on the pathway and l am sorry you lost micphone but they was some nice views of the wood hope you enijoy your little walk

  • @stevesjobsUK
    @stevesjobsUK Місяць тому +7

    Even more funny is you then walked down Croft Avenue, past my parents house.

  • @TR1L.16
    @TR1L.16 Місяць тому +13

    Be careful out there. To many dodgy people out there now. Lee Northumberland 👍❤️

  • @marylynch951
    @marylynch951 Місяць тому +7

    Don't take risk regarding your safety

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +3

      Life is a risk whatever you do, risks are ok as long as you are aware. My walks across fields and dale are usually totally uneventful and if I get a whiff of anything worrying you will see me scurrying in the opposite direction.😉

  • @gardenroom65
    @gardenroom65 28 днів тому +3

    Too risky to walk alone…

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  26 днів тому +1

      It's just so incredibly sad to hear these comments. How long have you felt this way? I only started to be more aware of dodgy people over the last year.

  • @dandelionwishes9842
    @dandelionwishes9842 Місяць тому +5

    Yes Keep safe love,pink 🩷 in hair suits you 😀 pretty on you n head band ,ty video and look forward to seeing hearing you again in due course.

  • @johnboy4067
    @johnboy4067 Місяць тому +5

    You need guns , guns and more guns , English laws are pathetic your not even allowed to protect your own property, that guy was up to no good for sure

  • @JoannHruby
    @JoannHruby Місяць тому +9

    It's a little bit taking a chance out there. You should have a friend to have fun with. That way can enjoy your walk.

    • @JoannHruby
      @JoannHruby Місяць тому +3

      Thank You ! Traveling ! What a beautiful way to start my day ! To see my comment Heart ! You made my day ! You have a wonderful day. Enjoy every minute ! God Bless you always !!!

    • @JoannHruby
      @JoannHruby Місяць тому +2

      Have a Happy Thanksgiving ! LITE ! Be with someone share your love! Have somebody with you ! May God show his love ! The Angel is next to giving you his company ! His name is Michael !

  • @stellarhodes857
    @stellarhodes857 Місяць тому +13

    Please try not to put you're self in danger x

    • @DT-rb7ro
      @DT-rb7ro Місяць тому

      Some people enjoy living on the edge.

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 Місяць тому

      Nah women get raped and killed. Men can walk safely in woods

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +1

      I honestly don't see this as being a danger at the moment. The countryside is for walking. The routes I go on are walking routes, I can't not go out when we have such beautiful countryside. I do walk on more roads than I used to and maybe I will do that more when I feel nervous. But for the moment I am sticking to the fields and woodland that we have an abundance of.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +1

      @@DT-rb7ro Wow if this is the edge Heaven help me! I think its more like living on the hedge (or walking past it) lol. 😂

  • @annettewalter2273
    @annettewalter2273 Місяць тому +9

    I don’t think thst walk looks Al that safe. Good to trust your instincts.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому

      Yup. What I learnt is that I need to look at maps and work out what is around me before I start the walk. I think I was too near the start. I needed to walk some distance from the train or bus so people think I am just heading home or shoppping etc.

  • @donnabridges5858
    @donnabridges5858 Місяць тому +4

    Look up a birdie personal alarm . Not expensive and clips on your keys , can be heard kms away

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +2

      Yes I have one of those as well. It was in my pocket, trouble is out in the middle of nowhere there is the possibility that no one will hear, that's why I have my spray, spray and run!!!

  • @danceabout1
    @danceabout1 Місяць тому +9

    watch out for phone snatchers, u could cycle throu woods, best nor to walk them area's on your own anyway

  • @christinaplaisted9563
    @christinaplaisted9563 Місяць тому +4

    So glad you listened to your gut , so did you not get your train ? Take care love and hugs ❤

  • @christine2023
    @christine2023 Місяць тому +4

    You made a good decision to turn around, you just never know on a trail. I walked a trail recently myself, there is usually others walking it but that day it seemed sparse with people, so I turned around and headed back.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +3

      Yes I totally agree. I do look for more trails now that I think people will walk, which is a bit sad as I do love the peace of just being at one with the countryside.😏

  • @suzannetownsend1757
    @suzannetownsend1757 Місяць тому +8

    When I doubt ,do nowt !
    Surely you haven't enjoyed the walk , looking over your shoulder ? Quite worrying to watch

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +2

      Well I did enjoy the walk in the end, except for losing my mic, but you can always find soemthing interesting, even on street walks.

    • @suzannetownsend1757
      @suzannetownsend1757 Місяць тому +2

      @travellinglite yes indeed , there is always something to make it a positive x

  • @carolburke9153
    @carolburke9153 Місяць тому +3

    Would not be walking there anytime of day on my own .

  • @paoladimeo412
    @paoladimeo412 28 днів тому +3

    Be careful. ❤❤

  • @FishingtonBurpPuzzle
    @FishingtonBurpPuzzle 28 днів тому +2

    I’m sorry. I’ve been out of the UK a long time. Is it that bad now you can’t enjoy a walk?

    • @lepolhart3242
      @lepolhart3242 26 днів тому

      I`m living in the UK, and yes it is that bad and it`s like that EVERYWHERE, diversity is not strength. I`m scared to go out as a woman on my own now as it`s not only too much immigration that has ruined the UK and many other countries but also mental units have closed down so there are nutcases, drunks, junkies etc walking around. I`s not safe anywhere now.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  26 днів тому

      yes it's gotten a lot rougher to even walk in the streets. I don't know where you have been living, but if it was safe the I suggest you go back.😂

    • @FishingtonBurpPuzzle
      @FishingtonBurpPuzzle 26 днів тому

      @ in Japan. I’m coming back next year.

  • @Jack_Warner
    @Jack_Warner 29 днів тому +2

    Don't forget the Jif Lemons on Vic Dakin Day.

  • @GloriaHoulihan
    @GloriaHoulihan Місяць тому +6

    Best wishes to you. Maybe a small group would be a good idea for safety?. Bet other single people would be interested?

  • @Buckblacket
    @Buckblacket Місяць тому +5

    Sorry, but, it looked to me like you stood in HIS way. Then, we never see hm again!

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +6

      Yes it does look like that, but I knew when he got up behind me on the train that I was just going to stop when I got out and see what happened. If he had walked straight past me heading home I wouldn't have worried, but because he came to a slamming stop and then said something about this being my station, it set me on edge. He didn't even grump that I had stopped him!! I still think I was right.

  • @Karen-qx7jw
    @Karen-qx7jw Місяць тому +2

    I can so relate , scared of strange men , looking after myself financially , looking for a van but don't know what t look for 🤔🤔

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +3

      Vehicles are a struggle to buy. If you have a local mechanic you know maybe they can help you find a good one.

  • @trueloveingod2691
    @trueloveingod2691 28 днів тому +1

    You’re actively looking for a very bad encounter, and you will eventually find it, if you keep walking alone like that thinking a spray can save you from these maniacs out in the streets these days. Do not continue doing this, it’s not worth it. Please, listen to reason.

  • @Karen-qx7jw
    @Karen-qx7jw Місяць тому +2

    Please put " Buy me a coffee ' back on , it's 4 you !!!
    We appreciate you 😊

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому

      Thank you. I have done that today. Now that I am doing quite a few vids I do appreciate the gesture. 🥰

  • @stevesjobsUK
    @stevesjobsUK Місяць тому +5

    Wow, Bromborough Rake Station, this brought back memories! Used to get off here every day coming home from school.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +1

      Wow. Did you know about the woodwalk there? It was a nice village to walk through, lots of people chatting to neighbours.

    • @stevesjobsUK
      @stevesjobsUK Місяць тому +2

      @travellinglite yes I spent many school holidays there. You were right to turn around in the bit you did, it has a different owner and has never really been maintained (since the 70s when I started to explore it. If you'd gone in on the entrance from central avenue that is the end that is maintained a bit, although it is much wilder than the 80s when it was kept as quite a formal park.

  • @sarahstrong7174
    @sarahstrong7174 26 днів тому +1

    It is very important to listen to your instincts. Please share the details of that spray. I have been thinking something like that would be usefull. I don't want to injure anyone but want to have something in an emergency. I recommend learning Ki Aikido it can help with staying calm & balance & using your energy. It is not all young guys I know of several mature women teachers.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  26 днів тому

      The spray is called Farb Gel Spray. Its an identifier as it covers the person in red and is hard to remove. I think you can only get it on the internet. They last a good while if not used. It has to say approved in the UK

    • @sarahstrong7174
      @sarahstrong7174 25 днів тому

      @travellinglite Thankyou so much!

  • @Yvonneb_
    @Yvonneb_ Місяць тому +4

    Oh my goodness that was strange wasn't it, I felt sure he was up to no good but then again with how life was when I was a teenager, I was raped twice so I trust no man. ❤❤ xx

    • @alisonbongo3287
      @alisonbongo3287 Місяць тому

    • @dandelionwishes9842
      @dandelionwishes9842 Місяць тому +2

      Sorry 😐 to hear this happened to alot of females an males different ages even baby's and children before teenage, it's not just men woman too pedophiles .

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 Місяць тому

      It is mostly men ​@@dandelionwishes9842

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +1

      I am sorry, that is a tough thing to have happened. I bet your a tough bird now and know what to look for in dodgy humans. 😘

  • @sarahjane8949
    @sarahjane8949 Місяць тому +37

    So happy Trump is back in the White House it’s good for us brits too and hopefully Farage will be our PM next 🙏🏻🤗🌹

  • @iftikharhumayunandmariahus3413
    @iftikharhumayunandmariahus3413 Місяць тому +1

    Please. Be. Careful. Out. There....

  • @biba350
    @biba350 25 днів тому

    Subscribed

  • @LifeinLancashire
    @LifeinLancashire Місяць тому +1

    Maybe you could borrow someone's dog, and you'd feel much safer walking in areas like this with a dog.

  • @ameliabuckley3714
    @ameliabuckley3714 Місяць тому +4

    How can you blame Labour when they’ve only just got in power?

    • @seansmith445
      @seansmith445 Місяць тому +9

      Because of their past record and the things they have done already and plan to do.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому +1

      Oh politics, I shouldn't have said anything, sorry. I will zip my lips here.

  • @travellinglite
    @travellinglite  Місяць тому

    Well this trip started a few conversations didn't it!!! The story was about taking care of your self as an older person, not about violence. Time to move on from this one please

  • @williebobs3830
    @williebobs3830 Місяць тому

    Oh how wrong you were.

  • @janepearson5802
    @janepearson5802 Місяць тому

    Get a dog .

  • @carolestephenson8367
    @carolestephenson8367 29 днів тому

    Get our country back from who or where?

  • @kimd.7846
    @kimd.7846 Місяць тому +1

    I live in the US, and I’m very worried about Trump. We will see what happens. Be safe.

    • @travellinglite
      @travellinglite  Місяць тому

      Yes he is a controversial figure. We will see. At least it's only 4 years. 🙄

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou 29 днів тому

      I’m more worried about Biden approving the use of American missiles for Ukraine to shoot into Russia. That’s a declaration of war. I’m not sending my sons to fight in that.

    • @MyPronounIsGoddess
      @MyPronounIsGoddess 27 днів тому

      Why? Are you worried about him jumping out from behind a tree while you’re walking?

  • @eleanorkidd5840
    @eleanorkidd5840 Місяць тому +2

    Bad news for the world

  • @djdarksidejungle559
    @djdarksidejungle559 Місяць тому +4

    you wanna be careful spraying people with stuff it could be considered assult with a firearm and that my girl is prob about i reckon sprayign someone in face with something is probably a 2-3 on fact you had it and then discharged it in public and sprayed somone in face with could be quite heavy charges them so be careful what ya doing with that if anything id bin it and dont think about using that been deadly serious regardless of what the spray is its still considered a firearms thing and discharging it in public into someone is at best affray and discaharge of a firearm in a public place and at worst well just read up on what they say about firearms so i would watch myself with that spray could end up in a lot of trouble for it and sat in jail for it as well

    • @twinsgran
      @twinsgran Місяць тому +14

      That all sounds a load of rubbish. It wouldn't be available to buy in this country if that was the true. If it was a case of use it and save yourself, that's what i would do! She is sensible enough to know if and when it's needed.

    • @djdarksidejungle559
      @djdarksidejungle559 Місяць тому +1

      @@twinsgran THE fact you had it thats 2 yrs the fact you let it off in public well thats array 101 one then the discharge charge on top of that and ther assult theyd treat that as if it was a can of cs gas and if it is then ya looking at ten yrs if its cs gas or pepper spray

    • @annarthur6070
      @annarthur6070 Місяць тому

      @@djdarksidejungle559 you can't blame any female in this day and age for carrying a spray of some kind to defend themselves if need be. My friend carries a small can of hairspray when she walks her dog .... and I don't blame her. I'm guessing you're a man right?

    • @djdarksidejungle559
      @djdarksidejungle559 Місяць тому

      @@annarthur6070 nothing to do with that its a firearms thing and the cops would trreat it as a firearms offece sprayign someone in face with something its affray at best its assult with a firearm at worse and then you get into the charges 1 carrying a concealed weapon thats one discharge of a firarm in a public place thats a very heavy one fact you were carrying a firearm if they go down that road cause them sprays are considered firearms then the assult tith wihch is affgray again so could end up with some very heavy charges just from thinking ya protecting yaself with a spray when all ya doign really is makign it a ceretrainty if ya use it ya prob gonna go jail for it and it will be a heavy one

    • @annarthur6070
      @annarthur6070 Місяць тому

      @@djdarksidejungle559 discharging a firearm? sorry, not buying any of it I'm afraid.