2 SYSTEMS GETTING MARRIED | What Are We Doing With Our Lives??
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- Опубліковано 6 жов 2024
- Since we’re so young, people may think that we’re a young couple suddenly jumping into a big commitment. Here’s a closer look into what we want our life together to be like.
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My partner system and us have been wanting to get married for a while. We’ve been together since we’ve been in middle school. Honestly there are so many people that have relationships between systems that if we were to break up a lot of things would be chaotic. We want to get married when we settle things and have moved in together.
On a different note we’re excited for you! Glad that you guys have found such a wonderful people in your lives.
My parents got married at 18+ 19... it’s nearly twenty years later and they’re still together
Corn flaek
Corn flake
Corn fleak
Corn fleek
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As someone who has three children... have one or two lol
as a middle child: two is perfect. three has a lot of room for conflict. dunno if that's just how it was for us but that's my input
then again u could have 4. the problem with uneven amnts of children is the exclusion
mivical oh yes. Very true. I am most def not doing pregnancy lmao.. I read three has been determined one of the most stressful number of kids to have. And I must say I agree lol
mivical i had NINE Siblings shit was wild lmao ten kids total I do NOT see how my mom did it
I got married four years ago when I was 21 and our relationship is great. When you know, you know! Don't let anyone question you decision just because of your age. But congratulations for the future!
I got married at 22....11 years later and we are still just as in love. Also we both came from toxic home lives, so while it may not be the best and only reason to get married...getting out of those toxic environments and starting a new life together was the best decision we ever made. Don't let anyone ever discourage you and follow your hearts.
It me and my other heart piece . Engaged to high school sweetheart. Before being engaged we were together 14 years. I am happy for you both. So congrats!!!
Can we know who is dating in the systems? I'm so curious about which alters are matched, and how they feel about the marriage, and how serious their relationships are...
Rylie Brown they went through at least a few of them but I forgot what video
I think it's great that you want to adopt :) I personally have decided that, if I ever wanted kids, I would want to adopt, especially a child that's already older. On one hand because those are the ones that have the smallest chance of getting a family, and on the other because I am not good with little kids but with teenagers and in-between lol
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Like the idea of after graduation wedding. Ya'll are a cute couple.
Do any parts of one system not accept parts of the other system? What is the best way to deal that type of conflict?
“This beautiful people” should be on a shirt! Goblin merch? 🌽
This was so beautiful to watch. Touched our heart deeply. Reassuring too for us being 40 & having been alone for most of it. Know ourselves well but even better since discovered we had DID 4 n bit yrs ago after seizures. Bless you both xxx NAMASTE
I always get that comment every now and then from strangers that I'm so young and why did I want to get married so young. I was 20 when I married my husband and now I'm 22 and he's 24 gonna be 25. I kinda understand where there coming from but at the same time I will get a touch annoyed because there's people that get married while their old and grey or have babies young or in their 40s so who's to say what young is when there is different standards around the world. Sorry for the rant but I think it's really cool that y'all chose to make a life long decision and will be getting a place of y'alls own. Best of wishes, can't wait for more video's.
Weddings are SO expensive, I totally feel, my fiance and I are the same age as your body ages and have been engaged for several years (we've been together since ever so it was just a matter of time) and are definitely planning on staying engaged for several more, we know we're getting married in the semi-near future so what's the rush of going bankrupt for it? Love seeing all the cuteness of your systems being so happy together💜
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I’ve been w my love for 12 yrs I just turned 32 been engaged for 4 yrs no rush here and we’re just as committed as any married couple don’t let society pressure you into weird time frames just live n love according to what works for you 🥰 congratulations!!!!
You're both such beautiful people & systems & I've had a blast getting to know you. Blessed Be as we Wiccans say.
OMG if you two move in together I will look forward to many awesome videos from the cornflake/goblin house - Holly
My Mom was 17 and my Dad was 19 when they got married and they were together until Mom passed. I don't think age has anything to do with it.🌽🌽 🌽🌽
We were adopted from a thing and it didn't go so well, and I was like "oh, maybe I should tell them it might be a bad idea unless you somehow know you're gonna be awesome parents" and then you were like "we wanna help trauma babies" and I was like "oh wait yeah, of course they're gonna be awesome parents, what am I thinking" lol
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Yeah, like they say, you'll be great, you'll actually know a lot of the weird stuff most adopting parents don't get to have a clue about or at least you'll be able to learn how to handle it. Most especially if you're adopting kids over 4. Adoption can go wrong in many ways, but you guys are gonna be well set to make some bright futures happen already. (esp. with the psych student therapist daddio - I forget what Acrylic are doing, sorry)
More than any couple I've ever known, you have my seal of approval to adopt. I don't ever give those - I consciously thought I never would be able to - and you got it.
-Mona
I hope this means something from the subject of an ultimately catastrophic adoption. Please adopt all the kids in the world that need a real home. I'll get to work on the time machine and finding the immortality potion for you - you guys focus on getting your child-rearing factory set up, OK?
-A right mess of Mona, Sim and other peeps
The Phoenix System
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Edit: Office hours is a good idea, recently implemented that at work (we're recently set up) and now things get done and we're not all dangerously exhausted all the time any more now that we've sort of organised our time.
And apology accepted! Honestly, I'm worse when I don't have a schedule. Plus, we're in the UK so times usually aren't gonna match up :') But we sleep weird, so... Just whatever's good with us, really, that's our two cents.
All love and thanks, guys 🧡
-Mona
(Also fixed language and hearts. Sorry, this comment is a mess 😅)
It’s really an honor to hear that from Mona ❤️❤️ you all are fantastic!
And it’s like our life goal to help struggling kids from traumatic backgrounds, and show them love and a safe place. We might try to do something in the adoption mental health area someday to try to help those kids really find safe homes where they’ll be truly loved and accepted
-Xavier
@@AcrylicAndAether Aaah, you fill me with hope and joooy!!!! 😁 Love you guys!
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Being someone who is constantly told that I'm very young for my age regarding everything (university, work, relationships, life choices, opinions) honestly if yall feel stable in the situation and fully trusting and loving and a good friendship then follow your system decisions! Also you guys could do a few photo shoots for different friends/partners between the systems!
You and the kitty shook your heads at the same time ... so attuned! 5:41
You made me very happy with your news - congrats!
The more I watch you all the more sad I get that I’ll most likely never meet you in real life. You guys are amazing, each and every one of you!
So happy for u guys can't wait for your future of vlogs together
I don't have a dissociative disorder, but I have been through many surgeries in my 24 years of life. I have been through the wringer as well
Camera always makes us dissociative haha 😂
Congratulations 💐👏🏼 this is old video, so we're not sure what is going on... But we would love to see a dissociative disorder wedding ! 💒💍👰♂️👰🏼♀️👰🏻♂️👰♀️👰🏽♂️👰🏾♀️👰🏻👰👰🏻
& YAAAY you are now both living under the same roof together! BIG UPS TO YOU.
CORN FLAKE
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'this beautiful people' is a great way to talk about a system hahaha love it!
sending my love for you guys from brazil!! ❤️
I got married at 22! Almost 10 years later we are still going strong 🙂 you 2 are amazing!
UGH I LOVE YOUR CAT!!!! the ending though 😭😭😭💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Have you got married now? I (Ell) got married at 22 (we had dated for 1 year before that) and we've been married for 17 years now. I don't think we married too early. Quite the opposite, it was easier to navigate life with a great partner. Having children, that's something which I would not do before 30, but on the other hand I regret waiting till 35, we should have started a bit earlier. Wish you best of luck guys.
Cornflakes
We have 3 biological kids, best thing ever, this was before we came forth as a system.. even after, it made no difference. We all love them and they all love us! It's so grounding and loving 🖤 the love of a child is like no other 💞🥰
We adore this. We also would love to adopt or foster trauma children or work in that Feild 🖤🐺⭐
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C o R n Fl ae k
Also Mikki I love your shirt
And congrats on 7k🎉
Song Bird AYE SOPHIE FOSTER I LOVED THOSE BOOKS
@@arianadidomenico5695 yayyyy me to!
Could you go to Britain some time? It’s really cool and I want to meet you guys ❤️
I married when I was 20 and all my friends were married in the frame of 18-23 years old
cornflaek
You all are a cute couple, Congratulations! This beautiful people wishes your beautiful people a lifetime of happiness ❤
The Amino seems to be most active between about 8-11pm Pacific, if you’d like to be available in real time during your virtual office hours. But honestly, whatever works best for y’all. Social media gets overwhelming quickly for us, so we get the importance of setting limits and think the virtual office hours are brilliant. We think as long as folks know you will get back to them and around what time, a lot of anxiety is taken off everyone’s shoulders.
hey I live in Oregon too!!!🤗 I'm so happy to hear your here as well, weather hasn't been much summer like these past few days around the Portland area where I am located. I smoke weed as well,obviously;) you are so super awesome and im glad I came across your channel.keep up the amazing work yall!!🥰❤💛💚😊
Hell yeah I FECKIN SHIP IT
I get so distracted but yeah. The wall in the background is amazing
so cool that you can find each other and grow together. i don't this n your too young. trauma matures us alright
Me: Watching old A&A videos
Them: We're going to be moving at the end of the year and everything is going to go alot easier
Me: You can't even imagine what's going to happen instead! (Thanks 2020, and good riddance!)
Yup. Dissociation is the sh!t! Sometimes its not so fun though
Corn flake (I don't have a corn emoji on my phone so just imagine a bunch of those here)
I'm sorry I don't know too much, but will the Testosterone be ok if yall have a bio child in the future? I'm learning slowly!
P.S. yall are so cute together!
Mandy Hernandez
The person who carries the child has to stop testosterone for a period of time before having a baby.
@@Meccarox thank you!
Can I just say that you guys are so cute together!
I want the “Stacey TM” sticker
I've always got time for you.
Have you figured how to include us in your wedding? Maybe doing it live? That would be cool!🌽🌽🌽
I don't think ? like its up to them of course but I feel like that would be kind of invasive and distracting during such a momentous for many people private and important event. maybe they can show pics if they want?
Corn flaek!!!!!🌽🌽🌽
You're just so darn cute!
I like virtual office hours Sunday afternoon.
So at what age is someone "marriage ready"? There's no answer. I think that because of your life experiences you are probably more in tune with yourselves than most other people twice your age. Congratulations on your engagement!! And your cat is beautiful 😻
What about 2.5 children
JESUS CHRIST LOVES YALL VERY MUCH 🙏😍❤️🌼🌻🌷
Save the trauma babies...yes...
you guys are hecking cute!!
Cornflaekkkkkkk
Hey, y'all, I used to be G.
HOLY FUCK OH MY GODS CONGRATULATIONS AGH JSDKHNGVYNUI
I was married at 18 i am now 33 and still married 15 years with 3 boys
Can you do a video on any tattoos you may have or plan to get.how would a system decide\vote on tattoo
Cornflake ;)
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I wish my cat was that sweet. My cat smacks me any chance he gets
Just curious, do any of the alters dislike the partner system or any particular people in the partner system? If so, how is that handled between the systems? Everyone I’ve seen seems happy and smitten with each other so I hope everyone is on board for your future together.
Cornflake 🌽
i was married at 22. we are married for 5 years now so...age is not important. how does it work with relationships what if one alter dates a singlet and another alter dates another system or singlet or whatever... what if the body has relationships with different people but can only get married once? often i see systems dating but what if several bodies are involved?
Corn on Fleek
Cornflake!!🌽
CORNFLAEK MY FRIENDS
I need a partner system no one else understands we are so trapped 😡😡😡😡😥😥😥😥😥😢😢
Cornflake please
- System Default
So, how does one handle a friend that has D.I.D? I know that I need to support them and know that I'm here for them but are there any key things I need to know? I want to learn as much as possible about D.I.D
I am a ordained online minister
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Corn flaek! 🌽
🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽 cornflaek for the beutiful people
Big wedding ? Small Ceremony? Court house? Or Vegas???
And when it comes to Micki carrying a child. It was mentioned in a resent episode that they were going to start testosterone. Will that disrupt the reproductive ability???
People can still carry children whilst on T, but they would just need to freeze their eggs beforehand.
Corn Flaek
Y’all are gonna be awesome parents! Frickety frack I wish u could adopt me lmao
Also c o r n f l a e k 🌽 🌽 🌽
sorry for my ignorance but Is it possible that one of your alters don't like the other ?
Absolutely lol. And some alters from opposite systems don’t like each other, but we’ve all learned how to coexist together, for the most part 😆
-Liberty
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Yes! Kôrnflâëk 🌽🤣
Cornflake 🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽
CorN FlaKe
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Corn flaek
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would you be able to speak about your traumas ?
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