me and my husband where married at 19 and people said we where to young and we wouldnt work but valentines day we are celebrating our 20 years and we proved everyone wrong
It's sunnah to get married young, so don't feel discouraged about it. Mashallah you guys are so gorgeous, May Allah continue to bless you and your families ❤️
It may be Sunnah but its not easy finding the right partner and Ive seen many youth marrying and they dont know or even take care of themselves, I feel one needs to grow in maturity and life leaning to stand on their own two feet before settling down with a spouse.
I also agree that maturity is a factor, but if someone is trying to avoid fitnah for the sake of Allah then surely the process will be blessed by Allah.
There's a hadith that states that the Prophet (saw) said to the young people "whoever of you that can get marry young should get married young, because it helps them lower their gaze and guard their private parts. And who isn't able to get married young should fast because it diminishes their desires" {Al-Bukhari, Book 62, Hadith 4}
When they look at each others lips and start smiling it makes me wonder why my relationship is so ffffff'd up 😂 I look at my partner and wanna punch him...
They seem very happy. I got married just before I turned 19 and my husband was 21 we are still together after 44 yrs. I wish this young couple all the very best and may they be happy together always.
U did the right thing to get married and make it halal, sad that people don't understand. As long as ur mature and can provide for ur wife why not marry it's all cool thn
Really good that you fought for things to be halal. It's a shame that people make it so hard to be halal. Hopefully things can change in the future. Really nice to see how you did the right thing, MashAllah
The society pushes young ppl to never ending schooling and education and now its even tabu to get married young. Family institution is being destroyed. I wish u best luck and may Allah bless your marriage.
you two are telling us{ younger generation} something so important, like its not crazy to get married at a young age. i love you guys so much. please keep you life a little private, evil eye is true. and thank you may allah bring you two together in the hereafter.
Well done on making it halal. A nikkah is so simple. Its a shame when family makes it difficult. Anyone else going through the same thing should just buck up and be honest with their parents. Doing the right thing shoulnt have to be so hard. Its also vital for parents to have a close relationship with their kids. Well look at it this way, you had it tough but any kids you have wont have to go through it 👍
My parents would have the problem with the fact I had a boyfriend in the first place and literally never speak to me again because of that grave sin 😭😭😭
Love how open you both were with answering these questions. Great example to the youngsters dating -definitely make it halal asap but be aware it's far from easy!💗
On religious pasperpective I like how u guys dint want to get into haram relationship That's something to admire really And it's sad when families don't understand that
I told my mum about his guy once and she was so understandable about it , she agreed and everything. but at the end the guy ended up only wanting me for papers to stay in the USA .. and when I said I didn’t want to marry yet and that I wanted to finish school.. he broke up with me to get married with another girl who was a citizen ,LOL ... so moral of the story I really gotta watch out on who to trust and understand who actually loves me. I’m not lucky like Tanya 😂😂😭❤️
ya allah I'm so sorry for your experience. may this experience make you the woman you are today and stronger. pls make sis for me and keep me in your well wishers. I feel I've fallen dad and only duas will keep me steadfast.
I got married young too. Muslim as well. My hubby is a british revert and I’m Fijian Indian. And my parents were really supportive. Perhaps the only thing was they thought it was rushed but really when you know, you know. And it’s now been 4 months since our marriage ! It always works out in the end. :)
So glad to see a young couple with a wise mind. Ma’sha’Allah The struggles you went through, you will be rewarded for... so watch this space. And hats off to you for staying strong through all the hardship.
MashaAllah you guys are so cute❤️ May Allah protect you both from evil eyes and I'm glad everything worked out in the end. I lovee the honesty in this video!! ❤️ Love from Australia.
so happy you made this vid finally😭😍! got to know you both properly& mashallah you are an amazing couple, who are so strong😰! May allah bless you with tons of happiness!😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ Loveyou tan! xxxxxx
Aww bless you both😚...it is hard when it comes to telling your parents some take it well and others don't but least you guys got married in the end Alhamdulillah xx
I recently came across your channel. Honestly I just want to say MA SHA ALLAH you guys are just goals for eachother. I also loved the Q&A and get to knkw you guys a little better.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 love u guys xxxxxxx P.S. can you guys do ethnicity tag please?.
First of all I have incredible respect for you both for getting married out of respect for each other, your families and Allah SWT. And you guys are absolutely adorable mashallah god bless you both!
You both are so cute mashallah keep up the videos and getting married at young age is a big step I'm happy for you both that you was strong enough to go through x I'm 21 next month thinking what to do finding it hard anyways Tanya your really beautiful mashallah xx #Snapfam #Bengali ❤❤😙😙
You guys are so cute. She is gorgeous! It's crazy how people of the same race go through so much crap. You guys seem very mature and into eachother for the right reasons. I'm dating someone outside my race but of course respecting my culture but it's definitely very hard. The fact your families even met and not banning you totally off is good.
me and my husband where married at 19 and people said we where to young and we wouldnt work but valentines day we are celebrating our 20 years and we proved everyone wrong
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
I’m so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️
It's sunnah to get married young, so don't feel discouraged about it. Mashallah you guys are so gorgeous, May Allah continue to bless you and your families ❤️
It may be Sunnah but its not easy finding the right partner and Ive seen many youth marrying and they dont know or even take care of themselves, I feel one needs to grow in maturity and life leaning to stand on their own two feet before settling down with a spouse.
Why is it sunnah?
Madi something that is said or done by the holy prophet(pbuh). For example using miswak to brush your teeth is sunnah as the prophet did it.
I also agree that maturity is a factor, but if someone is trying to avoid fitnah for the sake of Allah then surely the process will be blessed by Allah.
There's a hadith that states that the Prophet (saw) said to the young people "whoever of you that can get marry young should get married young, because it helps them lower their gaze and guard their private parts. And who isn't able to get married young should fast because it diminishes their desires" {Al-Bukhari, Book 62, Hadith 4}
6:12 "so you loved me?😏"
"Just shushhhh"
AWEEEEE
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Lol
I was fan girling tooo much
imagine_afsana awwwwe that was so cute.
When they look at each others lips and start smiling it makes me wonder why my relationship is so ffffff'd up 😂 I look at my partner and wanna punch him...
Looool
😂😂😂
Ikr tell me about it
lmaooooo
I know how u feel.
Love the honesty in this video need more youtubers that are just purely honest and real.
Innit
They seem very happy. I got married just before I turned 19 and my husband was 21 we are still together after 44 yrs. I wish this young couple all the very best and may they be happy together always.
tanya please do a series about how you prepared for your wedding on such short notice, your outfit ,the planning, everything!
U did the right thing to get married and make it halal, sad that people don't understand. As long as ur mature and can provide for ur wife why not marry it's all cool thn
awwww mashallah you can tell he loves you by the way he stares deeply at you
samlvs Masha Allah
MashaAllah I noticed that too
The way he looks at her 😍🤗
WASH POPPIN jiminnnn ayeee
Armyy
Yeah they are so cute
Your husbands eyes are STUNNING. Omg so almond shaped
Bruh same i thought i was the only one
While im 23 and mum still think im too young for marriage.
Lol my mum wants me married by 22
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Just came across your channel. This was too cute!! May Allah SWT bless your marriage
Fictionally Flawless omg saba I love your videos X
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R u Saba, I love ur videos and vlogs!!
I'm suscribed to your chanel xx
omgggg your here
Inshallah
HIIIIII! x
Really good that you fought for things to be halal. It's a shame that people make it so hard to be halal. Hopefully things can change in the future. Really nice to see how you did the right thing, MashAllah
oh I'm single and 23.... we're not all bitter Ry 😂
The society pushes young ppl to never ending schooling and education and now its even tabu to get married young. Family institution is being destroyed. I wish u best luck and may Allah bless your marriage.
you two are telling us{ younger generation} something so important, like its not crazy to get married at a young age. i love you guys so much. please keep you life a little private, evil eye is true. and thank you may allah bring you two together in the hereafter.
Well done on making it halal. A nikkah is so simple. Its a shame when family makes it difficult. Anyone else going through the same thing should just buck up and be honest with their parents. Doing the right thing shoulnt have to be so hard. Its also vital for parents to have a close relationship with their kids. Well look at it this way, you had it tough but any kids you have wont have to go through it 👍
Married at the young age is not a big issue if you’re matured enough and each of you are committed with each other.
My parents would have the problem with the fact I had a boyfriend in the first place and literally never speak to me again because of that grave sin 😭😭😭
Misaki not even your brothers
"Opinions from over seas"😂😂😂😂😂 honestly this is normal in an asian family 😂 may Allah keep you both happy
Maria Rafiq true, the way they can influence your lives from overseas is ridiculous
Maria Rafiq true happens in most families
Maria Rafiq this is common for many cultures - I am Mediterranean and it's the same thing x
lol im from tokyo and no it is not common parents do not allow marriage before 21. please dont make facts, to justify your point.
It may be common among Muslims, but I'm Asian and this is not common among my religion or culture... JS
You two both are so cute! In'sha'allah everything goes well for you both😚💕
Rabiah Aziz lo
Rabiah Aziz i agree!xx
Rabiah Aziz Allah ***
I see u everywhere
Love how open you both were with answering these questions. Great example to the youngsters dating -definitely make it halal asap but be aware it's far from easy!💗
LOVE YOU GUYSSSSSSS ❤️ gonna watch the video now ♥️
I'm in too deep to this video. Why do I find myself nodding 😂
On religious pasperpective I like how u guys dint want to get into haram relationship
That's something to admire really
And it's sad when families don't understand that
Zenen Issa pasperpective
Zenen Issa EXACTLY! I AGREE!
but get mad when they get in haram relationship when they couldn’t do it in a halal way
I feel he is just introvert and you are extrovert more than a confident thing
What are you guys studying. Would love to know how you guys manage uni and marriage and stuff! ❤️
Ugh ur so lucky Tanya ur mom was totally okay with it 😭
I'm glad you guys took the right route ☺
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I told my mum about his guy once and she was so understandable about it , she agreed and everything. but at the end the guy ended up only wanting me for papers to stay in the USA .. and when I said I didn’t want to marry yet and that I wanted to finish school.. he broke up with me to get married with another girl who was a citizen ,LOL ... so moral of the story I really gotta watch out on who to trust and understand who actually loves me. I’m not lucky like Tanya 😂😂😭❤️
Suma Ferdausi aw sister , after the bad the good will eventually come ❤️❤️❤️
Teanna Woods insha allah, you will find someone better. Sis ❤️
ya allah I'm so sorry for your experience. may this experience make you the woman you are today and stronger. pls make sis for me and keep me in your well wishers. I feel I've fallen dad and only duas will keep me steadfast.
May Allah forgive you both for everything and bless your marriage abundantly. Ameen
"I probably just said it as a joke" LOLOLOL awww but Allah keep u both happy insha'allah and thank you for the advice x
I got married young too. Muslim as well. My hubby is a british revert and I’m Fijian Indian. And my parents were really supportive. Perhaps the only thing was they thought it was rushed but really when you know, you know. And it’s now been 4 months since our marriage ! It always works out in the end. :)
Aasimah Sharif culture means nothing when it comes ❤️ live happy
Could you message me please. In relation to your reply I would like some advice xx
Just what I needed. A little reassurance that it'll work out in the end ❤️
They're gonna have some nice looking kids😂
He fixed her lashes that's so cute!
So glad to see a young couple with a wise mind.
Ma’sha’Allah
The struggles you went through, you will be rewarded for... so watch this space.
And hats off to you for staying strong through all the hardship.
You two are so understandable 💗
Rabiah Aziz agree x
I wish i can fin someone who looks at me the same way he looks at her ♡ ♡ mashallaah
MashaAllah you guys are so cute❤️ May Allah protect you both from evil eyes and I'm glad everything worked out in the end. I lovee the honesty in this video!! ❤️ Love from Australia.
SHE'S SOO LICKEY TO HAVE SUCH A GOOD LOOKING HUSBAND!!! HOPE YOU TWO STAY TOGETHER FOREVER. X
Mashallah u guys slay n I hope u have a blessed married life boo 💯
Ma aha Allah I'm so happy everything worked out, seeing this in today's day and age is relieving
Aw guys, i'm so glad you did end up getting married. May God bless your marriage x
I love how she says "Bhabi"😍😍😍
so happy you made this vid finally😭😍! got to know you both properly& mashallah you are an amazing couple, who are so strong😰! May allah bless you with tons of happiness!😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ Loveyou tan! xxxxxx
You cuties!! Love it❤️❤️❤️
Love that you're so honest! ❤️
LOVE YOU GUYS SOOO MUCH! You guys are goals. Mashallah such a cute couple. Glad you guys could work it out. Please keep making videos!❤️❤️
Off topic but what lipstick is tanya wearing?? It's so pretty
I have so much respect for you guys🙏 there's this girl I'm going out with but she's scared to tell her parents
This video made me smile so much, I can’t wait for part 2, may Allah SWT keep you both blessed and happy always😭😭❤️
Love this!
Aww bless you both😚...it is hard when it comes to telling your parents some take it well and others don't but least you guys got married in the end Alhamdulillah xx
How do you balance uni and work when you're living alone? Is it expensive?
probably is
UA-cam’s paying them off now
Tasmia Tahsin rich parents
these guys are a down to earth, realist couple.stay that way.
I liked before watching looool
are they both half?! she’s beautiful😳 like her accent her smile her voice such a perfect match!
you look so pretty 💖
i wish ya'll the happiest life together , honestly such an amazing story XX
I'm Christian but I actually have the same opinions about getting married first even if others believe i'm wierd. lovee youu ❤
You guys are so cute!!! MashaAllah
Just MASHAALLAH! ❤
proud of you!
Tanya is so cute MASHAALLAH!
You guys make me smile! Thank you!
Look at your here xx and now your going to be parents amazing journey mashallah xx
How did you find time to save up for your wedding
Lol i got married on my 20th birthday. 😂 i had my first child when i was 22. It wasn't to bad. 😅 to get married young 💝love the video
Who noticed the part when he fixed her lashes though now thats true love 😭
actually goals mashallah ❤
watched the intro and liked straight away lol u guys are hella funny x
I recently came across your channel. Honestly I just want to say MA SHA ALLAH you guys are just goals for eachother. I also loved the Q&A and get to knkw you guys a little better.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 love u guys xxxxxxx
P.S. can you guys do ethnicity tag please?.
I loveeeee the rawness of the video, please don't ever change
First of all I have incredible respect for you both for getting married out of respect for each other, your families and Allah SWT. And you guys are absolutely adorable mashallah god bless you both!
Bruh your both are so lucky, every girl I meet don't wanna get married for another 6 years :/ (not about the sinning life so I move on 😂)
anonymous s tell ur parents to set up the ting
Aww, have sabr, inshallah you will get the wife of your dreams.
Mashallah stay like that brother
I'm in the same situation but a girl.
Me too lol
"It was one night, the clouds were white and the sky was blue" wow okay
Omg you guys are cute mashallah 😍💓
This was on my recommended an I so glad because I enjoyed this so much. You have a new subscriber, I admire you guys so much.
Love how real you guys are, may Allah keep your marriage strong ameen 🙏
I lovvveeee these kinds of videos , I love these long talks and stuff y'all should continue 😍😂😂♥️♥️♥️♥️
You both are so cute mashallah keep up the videos and getting married at young age is a big step I'm happy for you both that you was strong enough to go through x I'm 21 next month thinking what to do finding it hard anyways Tanya your really beautiful mashallah xx #Snapfam #Bengali ❤❤😙😙
SHAZZY RAHMAN Masha Allah
SHAZZY RAHMAN this is so inspiring :') Maa Shaa Allah ❤️ #Bengali
love you both!!💗
ETHNICITY TAG❣️❣️💖💖
I’m going through the exact same thing my boyfriend is going through what he did and I’m going through what you did help😫😫😫😫
I Just Wanted To See 1 Video make it halal
Boyfriend is haram fear Allah
You're hair is so beautiful mash ' Allah and I hope Allah gives you guys a happy marriage with no hardships....awwwwh so cuteeee
I love this video so much I'm so glad you guys were able to fight through this and are married to each other 👏🏽🤗💕
20 second ads should be a crime 😭
Omg!! This was too cute. And you guys did the right thing, it makes me so happy. May Allah swt keep you both happened Ameen!!💞💞💞
You two have too be relationship goals, you go girl.
Interesting story. The delivery was all over the place tho, kinda hard to follow.
having to rewatch the whole thing cause I am so gobsmacked at how beautiful and cute they are!!
Lol "I mean we were going out...." pause.... that was so funny 😂😂
You guys are so cute. She is gorgeous! It's crazy how people of the same race go through so much crap. You guys seem very mature and into eachother for the right reasons. I'm dating someone outside my race but of course respecting my culture but it's definitely very hard. The fact your families even met and not banning you totally off is good.
My husband was 19 when we got married and I was 22. Yes he's younger than me. Yes we married young and yes we are extremely happy!
You guys are the cutest 😩😍 Ma'sha'allah 💕
You guys are the cutest couple have ever seen😍😘😍😍😍😘, I'm inlove with your British accent....I wanna have a British husband#feeling #hopeful
He's so sweet to her ❤❤
As a guy I can relate. Parents, listen to the small things early on or they won't tell you the big things later.
The cutest couple ever ❤️✨
This is so clickbait (disowning our child) but I’m glad I watched all of it 😂❤️
Shannon Swift it says 'disowning and our child' unless it said that before but they changed it now lol
Shannon Swift dude it says disowned AND our child
Lmao that intro😂
Are u both Bengali ?