Second year marriage review

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  • Опубліковано 9 лис 2024

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  • @iqranadeem6618
    @iqranadeem6618 3 роки тому +98

    The fact you guys are actually being so honest and open about the struggles of being young and getting married is actually so amazing. Marriage itself isn’t easy and it’s so easy to get lost in thinking it’s supposed to be perfect by looking at everyone else and you guys are showing the real side. Need more people like you xx

  • @erdingtongossips7524
    @erdingtongossips7524 3 роки тому +63

    I love Ryhans words in relation to visible efforts and how hidden efforts can go unnoticed 💯

  • @deleted1995
    @deleted1995 3 роки тому +111

    When ryhan said I got the hamster for £20😂

  • @MissR97
    @MissR97 3 роки тому +39

    Thank you so much for the most honest marriage review. Thank you for not showing us that marriage has been a fairy tale! This has helped me so much change my mindset about marriage when the time comes for me. May Allah keep your bond strong and shower you with blessings ameen!

  • @yas5584
    @yas5584 3 роки тому +26

    Watching this brought back memories of when I decided to tell my family I wanted to get married. Bearing in mind I was a lot older than you guys and I was 24... my life was made hell by my family and I will never ever forget the trauma (because yes it was definitely some form of abuse) I went through. I got married to a bengali so it wasn’t out of our culture and it wasn’t like he was a roadman. They couldn’t fault the partner I had picked they just couldn’t take that I had made my own choices and so with that they just became toxic “as it was unheard of in our family for a girl to choose her spouse ... lol”. Although it wasn’t physical abuse, the shit the did...it was most definitely emotional. And yes you are right, people definitely forget the shit they do to you after a while and expect you to forgive it, but just like you Tanya when I remember the shit my own family did to me, I get emotional. Seriously, have faith guys and keep that bond strong.. you guys can support and help each other grow and keep working on the little family unit you have created InShaAllah I pray Allah makes you stronger and stronger as the days go on and fills your life with happiness always.

    • @fluffypancakes9359
      @fluffypancakes9359 2 роки тому +1

      Asalamu alykum. I hope you are well. May Allah help you through moving through your trauma. Ameen. May Allah bless your marriage too. Ameen. Asalamu alykum

  • @lovehonestly8343
    @lovehonestly8343 3 роки тому +12

    I met my husband at 17 and what you have or going through is so natural, we're also a bengali couple which is significant because your balancing your spiritual journey, family, past conflicts, conflicts with yourself, financial stability, mental health, time, work commitments, kids, (once you have kids), culture and many other things. It may also be that you go through many other hurdles but once you crack working together. You can enjoy the good times and man does it feel good when your going through a crappy time to have one another to support each other though it. When your family have done you wrong first hand it is a struggle to work through your feelings but I'm so greatful for my partner were reaching the 10 year mark and it feel good looking back and what we have achieved together ❤️❤️ I pray your relationship gets stronger and your blessed with many many more years 💕 and one day to see alittle version of you both running around 😍🥰

  • @ramadanhajjmecca8725
    @ramadanhajjmecca8725 3 роки тому +43

    I'm sorry to hear your dad passed away, may Allah grant him janatul firdous, ameen

    • @shanjanamustari599
      @shanjanamustari599 3 роки тому +2

      Who's dad?

    • @ramadanhajjmecca8725
      @ramadanhajjmecca8725 3 роки тому +3

      @@shanjanamustari599 her dad passed sometime ago, I am a distance relative of her fathers who lived in biswanath sylhet

    • @shanjanamustari599
      @shanjanamustari599 3 роки тому +2

      @@ramadanhajjmecca8725 Inna lilla wa inna ilahi rajiun..
      I just saw her Instagram post too..
      May Allah grant him jannah

  • @rayhanali1041
    @rayhanali1041 3 роки тому +7

    Finance, family
    Business, health
    Personal development, spirituality.
    You gotta take care of all of this!

  • @sumaiya2266
    @sumaiya2266 3 роки тому +69

    I loved the video! Just one thing is that HOROSCOPES are SHIRK, even if its for fun. It's best to avoid and stay away from believing and seeking joy in horoscopes. shirk is the worst sin a human can commit so please please try have nothing to do with horoscopes. even if it's for fun it's still very haram and a dangerous thing and could still potentially be shirk. Allah knows best. seek the pleasure of Allah and repent before its too late🥺 Turn to Allah before you return to Allah

    • @sumaiya2266
      @sumaiya2266 3 роки тому +7

      May Allah guide us All to the straight path and forgive us for all our sins, minor and major. May Allah also bless your marriage
      Ameen

    • @sumaiyachowdhury1358
      @sumaiyachowdhury1358 3 роки тому

      @@sumaiya2266 Ameen

    • @ammanshah3613
      @ammanshah3613 3 роки тому +1

      She didn’t mention horoscopes, she said her zodiac sign. Horoscopes are those that predict your future and yes they can be listed under shirk, however a simple zodiac sign just entails your traits that were discovered by astrologers from the literal Babylon era. How is her saying a sign of a month that is entailed with generalised traits even close to shirk?

    • @sumaiya2266
      @sumaiya2266 3 роки тому +4

      @@ammanshah3613 "There is evidence that astrology is corrupt and prohibited. It is narrated that the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said that anyone who approaches an ’Arraaf and asks him about anything, his prayers will not be accepted for forty days. [Muslim]
      ‘Arraaf is a general noun referring to fortune tellers, soothsayers, astrologers and geomancers who talk about incidents in the future through these methods.
      It is incorrect to believe that a certain star or sign of the zodiac causes welfare or evil to anyone. Anyone who adopts this belief has rendered himself a Kaafir (disbeliever), if he believes that a star or a sign of the zodiac arranges his affairs (instead of Allaah The Almighty)."
      Allah knows best and we should all fear Allah.
      I hope that makes sense :)

    • @sumaiya2266
      @sumaiya2266 3 роки тому +4

      @@ammanshah3613 we should all stay away from zodiac signs nethertheless. We shouldn't risk Jannah for this temporary world

  • @Ghost-qr5vo
    @Ghost-qr5vo 3 роки тому +22

    The way she looked at him when he made the £20 joke ab the hamster lmaooo🤣🤣

  • @erdingtongossips7524
    @erdingtongossips7524 3 роки тому +60

    If you’re Muslims, you should embrace the almighty’s name as Allah when referring him to as God!!

  • @tiam4211
    @tiam4211 3 роки тому +11

    watching everything fall into place to you crying made me so emotional

  • @salmayasmin8755
    @salmayasmin8755 3 роки тому +5

    You guys have come so far in your marriage. If you both didn’t travel go places spend time maybe later in life when you rethink it will be sweet memories which am sure both you guys will be happy you did. Wish you guys the very best.

  • @emanresuto9357
    @emanresuto9357 3 роки тому +8

    i did it for God and God did it for me

  • @Tan-ns2hr
    @Tan-ns2hr 3 роки тому +9

    "Everyone deserves to know because you guys have us the platform in the first place." Raiyhan is so humble mashAllah. May Allah bless you guys' marriage

  • @Aalb1611
    @Aalb1611 3 роки тому +10

    It's not ambarazzingg it's the truth about marriage, it's never fairytale like but it's love

  • @haleemahussain8867
    @haleemahussain8867 3 роки тому +2

    Realist video ever!!!!!! Marriage is hard work but it’s worth it when it’s your soul mate ❤️

  • @SnappyS44
    @SnappyS44 3 роки тому +14

    Marriage is a long process, as long as you both try your best and take each day as it comes u can get through anything.. Also don’t worry too much about the future deal with what’s infront of you, obviously have goals but u will attain more happiness just taking things easy! Lots of Love 🥰 hey and I love your hair colour 😘

  • @amz3708
    @amz3708 3 роки тому +5

    Thankyou so much for being so open and honest... This has honestly helped me a lot. May Allah guide your marriage. Can't wait for episode 3 next year God willing!! ❤❤❤

  • @simplyfood.1016
    @simplyfood.1016 3 роки тому +2

    I like the authenticity and honesty these things happen and I think people don't talk about it I got in a relationship and didn't know that these things happen and I was just so confused subhanallah so thank you both for this video 💕

  • @nehaimran3961
    @nehaimran3961 3 роки тому +14

    "I'm a pisces" loooool girll😂😂 honestly same excuse 😂

  • @nayanajain4412
    @nayanajain4412 3 роки тому +14

    "He didn't call me it" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pendlelancashire
    @pendlelancashire 2 роки тому +1

    *Life tests marriage. Commitment and dedication is rudimentary to longevity.*

  • @Aisha-gl1vh
    @Aisha-gl1vh 3 роки тому +4

    There will be plenty more times in your married life that your relationship will be tested as it will when you end up having kids but you have to stick with it

  • @Mimi-nb9uf
    @Mimi-nb9uf 2 роки тому +2

    And now you are expecting a baby! MashAllah congratulations you two!💗

  • @gurcaycanel9130
    @gurcaycanel9130 3 роки тому +8

    Ryhan keep saying shit times 😂 but look at how far uve both come n how happy yous are now 💖

  • @BobSmith-wv5wt
    @BobSmith-wv5wt 3 роки тому +4

    When's the 3rd part of this coming out

  • @justanothersoul181
    @justanothersoul181 3 роки тому +7

    I love tanyas hair colour 🔥

  • @uzairdakri880
    @uzairdakri880 2 роки тому +3

    Where's the uploads at?

  • @aisha5491
    @aisha5491 3 роки тому +8

    Omg Tanyas hair is growin on me even more? This was so cutr

  • @cocopops8685
    @cocopops8685 3 роки тому +7

    Finallyyyy yayyy I was waiting for thiss , sooo excited ❤️❤️

  • @AB-pp3fe
    @AB-pp3fe 3 роки тому +1

    When are said Wales I can so relate. I have also been married 3 years and have had our rough patches but we would go Wales once a year and oh my because there is no signal u have no choice but talk to our partner and you connect ❤

  • @N26-06
    @N26-06 3 роки тому +3

    Loved the video! Please for the next video can you have no music in the background x

  • @tayabahansar9175
    @tayabahansar9175 3 роки тому +13

    love you tanya you are so beautifull love u lots may allah give you both a happy married life inshallah you two are the cutest couple ever wish you replied

  • @glowbeautiful9688
    @glowbeautiful9688 3 роки тому +3

    9.27- love that so much

  • @haidershahid8810
    @haidershahid8810 3 роки тому +3

    when ryhan had to court for his driving ban did he have to stand in front of a magistrate or the district judge ?

  • @solidn6
    @solidn6 2 роки тому +4

    No update in over a year? I guess they ended up with a divorce.

    • @szdigi
      @szdigi 2 роки тому

      nope they are still together as seen on their instagram

  • @rhb3794
    @rhb3794 3 роки тому +1

    Very sorry you had to go through a hard time.. but alhamdulilaah very happy you managed to save your marriage and rekindle your love.
    Marriage is hard and we have to make a lot of compromises. May Allah continue showering his blessings upon you both and bless you with all the happiness in the world, ameen. I pray you dont experience the lows again insha'Allah. You are a beautiful couple m'A. All the best x

  • @sara-qq5cl
    @sara-qq5cl 3 роки тому +14

    If i dont catch you all saying mashallah 👞👞👞

  • @al-aminhussain8052
    @al-aminhussain8052 3 роки тому +6

    Been waiting patiently 😊😉♥️💯👍😍😘

    • @TanyaSlays
      @TanyaSlays  3 роки тому +6

      Hope you enjoyed it!

    • @al-aminhussain8052
      @al-aminhussain8052 3 роки тому +3

      @@TanyaSlays really did. The montage is 😍😍😍 and just goals. Ma Shaa Allah and I've been following since the first video. 😊

  • @Lybsss.s
    @Lybsss.s 3 роки тому +1

    may allah guide you both to the right path and give you lots of happiness. Ameen

  • @rx737
    @rx737 3 роки тому +14

    the music is so distracting no need for it, couldn't hear a thing!!

    • @TanyaSlays
      @TanyaSlays  3 роки тому +18

      just rewatched and the music was not that loud, but noted

    • @hasnainhussain8890
      @hasnainhussain8890 3 роки тому +3

      @@TanyaSlays i didn’t even notice the music till now lol

  • @nileshpatel6983
    @nileshpatel6983 3 роки тому +1

    Guys. keep make video and upload. i knew you both are parent may be. but keep going on its strugle time need to make video but it is possible.i am from india, i think your husband face is familer with me , i think seen plenty of time our area .

  • @sonyabegum4084
    @sonyabegum4084 3 роки тому +2

    love all your videos babe but the background music in this just threw me off

  • @mahnoorburney2323
    @mahnoorburney2323 3 роки тому +4

    Amazing video, keep it up guys 💞

  • @fawziyahhussain3490
    @fawziyahhussain3490 3 роки тому +7

    Tanya!!!!! please do cooking ones

  • @itsbegum1987
    @itsbegum1987 3 роки тому

    Ending is 10/10

  • @ghost2nghost1n58
    @ghost2nghost1n58 3 роки тому +9

    Something different about Tanya's face and it's not the hair

    • @sr2018
      @sr2018 3 роки тому

      It's the contacts I think

    • @maiyax2367
      @maiyax2367 3 роки тому +5

      She looks really old like she’s aged

  • @nazishhussain6320
    @nazishhussain6320 3 роки тому

    love your hair colour!!

  • @nagawings
    @nagawings 3 роки тому +4

    Honestly speaking would you guys have got back together if you weren't married lol

    • @TanyaSlays
      @TanyaSlays  3 роки тому +2

      no but then i would have missed out being with my soul mate

  • @mehwishrani4649
    @mehwishrani4649 3 роки тому +1

    heyy Tanya can you do a noodles hair tutorial plzz I begg Remeber you did on but I think you deleted it 😭😭😭❤

  • @sumera_1017
    @sumera_1017 3 роки тому +1

    Rhyan skin is looking so good m.a

  • @shaminaomar4497
    @shaminaomar4497 3 роки тому

    Hey please can u tel me wer u gt ur contact lenses from

  • @Zainab-zz5kp
    @Zainab-zz5kp 3 роки тому

    Omggg you came to Blackburn😭😭😭

  • @quldibaloch34
    @quldibaloch34 3 роки тому +1

    Ahh her hair looks amazing, does anyone know what colour it is?

    • @muaazahp
      @muaazahp 3 роки тому +1

      It looks like grey and silver ombré hair

    • @quldibaloch34
      @quldibaloch34 3 роки тому

      @@muaazahp thanks

  • @globalshift8382
    @globalshift8382 3 роки тому +1

    G'day I'm your very loyal fan from Australia but why she looked like old young and old at the same time😂😂😂 I love them 2

  • @amirahhussain4000
    @amirahhussain4000 2 роки тому +1

    3rd year marriage review????

  • @anikavlogging735
    @anikavlogging735 3 роки тому +4

    love you tanya

  • @hafsaha5303
    @hafsaha5303 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely love ittt n love you guysss mashallah cx

  • @itsbegum1987
    @itsbegum1987 3 роки тому

    I like these real videos

  • @NathanMatthews.
    @NathanMatthews. 3 роки тому +1

    This puts me off from getting married

  • @zakiyahdua2049
    @zakiyahdua2049 3 роки тому

    Nice video

  • @Maryam-wj1ug
    @Maryam-wj1ug 3 роки тому +4

    Notification Gang🤪

  • @sairashabbir6143
    @sairashabbir6143 3 роки тому

    Canu pls react to zack noghts new melody 8

  • @nazab3587
    @nazab3587 3 роки тому

    ❤️❤️

  • @fazetaze4140
    @fazetaze4140 3 роки тому +6

    Dipped your head in makeup

  • @rangzebkhan342
    @rangzebkhan342 3 роки тому

    rashi flex

  • @hawasillah8807
    @hawasillah8807 3 роки тому

    hhhhhiiii

  • @anikavlogging735
    @anikavlogging735 3 роки тому +6

    first

  • @habibaj3509
    @habibaj3509 3 роки тому

    TANYA IS SO HOT