MARRIAGE Q&A {OUR STORY} | BABIES, WORK, DATING AND DISAGREEMENTS | PART 2

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  • @rubyjewel134
    @rubyjewel134 7 років тому +394

    Allah has bought two beautiful souls together

    • @nilleyi2231
      @nilleyi2231 7 років тому +7

      rubyjewel134 brought* indeed Allahuma Barik

  • @Shakeel.Murtaza
    @Shakeel.Murtaza 7 років тому +309

    Man, I know everyone be saying "goals!!1!", but on a real note, you guys got some masha'Allah love

    • @fatimakhatun3506
      @fatimakhatun3506 7 років тому +8

      Shakeel Murtaza we all need a relationship like theirs 😂 the way they look at each other 😍

    • @sarax3835
      @sarax3835 7 років тому

      Looool

    • @1090shaz
      @1090shaz 7 років тому

      Haha! Love this comment - so true

    • @alibradford115
      @alibradford115 7 років тому +1

      Fatima Khatun im always available to start a relationship like that with a beautiful girl like you 😘

    • @faziraahmed6936
      @faziraahmed6936 7 років тому

      Too real

  • @MayaMaya-ei6ml
    @MayaMaya-ei6ml 7 років тому +115

    Why won't ur marriage be blessed? Because u fell in love before?? U made it halal that's the main thing don't listen to ppls crap.

    • @zamanraja9531
      @zamanraja9531 5 років тому +5

      Because the parents weren’t happy. Marriage won’t be blessed if you make your parent unhappy. I respect what he has done but the time and approach was incorrect

    • @maishabegum7602
      @maishabegum7602 5 років тому +2

      Innit dont let them put you down

  • @aneesabilal2530
    @aneesabilal2530 7 років тому +145

    My parents wanted me to get married to my cousin bilal but I didn't
    But still I got married to a bilal not my cousin though 😂

    • @ridwan149
      @ridwan149 7 років тому +6

      Aneesa Masood 😂😂😂

    • @kausarahmed4196
      @kausarahmed4196 5 років тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @aadil1706
      @aadil1706 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @humairaaayaz8081
      @humairaaayaz8081 5 років тому

      Aneesa Bilal 😂😅🤣😅

    • @haidershahid8810
      @haidershahid8810 5 років тому +9

      cousin marriages are just an excuse to manipulate the girl and ruin her life in essence its better that I girl marries a guy born in the UK not some waste of space from back home in Punjab or Azad Kashmir who is passport hungry at the discretion of the brides parents back in the UK

  • @anuja.150
    @anuja.150 7 років тому +27

    getchyuuu a man that smiles at u the way Rhyhan smiles at Tanya ❤️
    26:12

  • @zarax9546
    @zarax9546 7 років тому +127

    marriage is always a blessing snd you resolved the issue by making it halal so mashallah and well done for all your efforts😚

  • @Mawahhassan
    @Mawahhassan 7 років тому +163

    I love you guys. END OF STORY. May Allah bless your marriage

  • @SpagetsoIsHere
    @SpagetsoIsHere 7 років тому +130

    I literally found this channel today by seeing the other q&a 😂

  • @hinakhan818
    @hinakhan818 7 років тому +20

    Purely subscribed based on your views of the deen, may Allah swt continue to strengthen you in both the deen & dunya. I love the fact that you haven't glamorised your situation but gave a very realistic insight on what problems the youth face.

  • @naziah24
    @naziah24 7 років тому +79

    Love the way u guys think sensibly about putting away deposit for a house instead of spending it for that one day.... if u guys have this outlook u will deffo go far inshallah.....

  • @user-qb5fx3eo1z
    @user-qb5fx3eo1z 7 років тому +29

    Omds arrange marriage isn’t a religious thing! Stop confusing culture with religion!

  • @Zartasha
    @Zartasha 7 років тому +205

    Your love is so pure!!!!! MashAllah

    • @ayshasiddiqua7038
      @ayshasiddiqua7038 7 років тому +1

      Zartasha yeaaaa😍😍

    • @shahinaahad8883
      @shahinaahad8883 7 років тому +3

      Zartasha ikr it's amazing inshallah we find love like this one day and we make the right decision of getting married if we do get into a serious relationship

    • @anisapatel7076
      @anisapatel7076 7 років тому

      Aysha Siddiqua mashallah

  • @sadzx1070
    @sadzx1070 7 років тому +17

    I can't deal your videos are something else💖, i avoid watching long videos but with yours i don't mind at all, just love how you guys are so natural with each other, its so lovely to watch, also the fact you answer in detail and be so honest makes me want to watch you more! Xxxx

  • @TSPearly
    @TSPearly 6 років тому +12

    I usually get cringed out by young couples who are in love, but you two are soooo cute man! May you guys stay together forever

  • @butterfly-py2tx
    @butterfly-py2tx 7 років тому +38

    Arrange isn't a religious thing!!! U can have one if YOU want but if not then u can chose ur own spouse with ur parents permission same way the parents have to get your permission to look for someone on your behalf but at the end of the day the final decision is the person getting married. People confusing culture with religion as two different things a lot of the cultural practice goes against our religion anyway. Same way if you emotionally blackmail someone into marriage that's a major sin but in our culture happens a lot!!!!

    • @zxrx864
      @zxrx864 6 років тому +3

      butterfly3183 I think with arranged he doesn't mean forced marriage. He means when your parents introduce you to a potencial future spouse and then you get to know him or her with your mahram and stuff. No dating etc. At the end you can decide whether you want to marry or not. Forced marriage is just ,,Hey look, we found someone and you WILL him/ her". That's a difference. An arranged marriage like I explained (where you have the choice whether you want to marry or not) is the best way from an islamic point of view.

  • @afsanaakhtar2595
    @afsanaakhtar2595 7 років тому +44

    Lifetime subscription. Cutest thing ever.

  • @zarahsyed2508
    @zarahsyed2508 7 років тому +2

    I liked for the very reason when you talked about people showing off in weddings and spending so so much on them. COMPLETELY AGREE xx

  • @Aliiiciiaa
    @Aliiiciiaa 7 років тому +77

    What a charming couple with their heads screwed on! Please be careful with this social media thing in excess as nazar is a real thing, jealousy leads people to being unhappy for others. God bless you both xo

    • @ashleybombande504
      @ashleybombande504 7 років тому

      Alisha :) what is nazar?

    • @Soul_spiritual
      @Soul_spiritual 7 років тому +7

      Ashley Bombande evil eye. When someone sends strong emotions/vibrations towards something with their gaze and it ends up ruining it. It when people stare at something with either amazement or jealousy. It affects people's health, wealth, family and relationships/marriage etc sometimes it is done unintentionally out of amazement but more time out of jealousy. So we say ma sha Allah or allahumma barik to avoid giving evil eye by acknowledging that it was willed by god. Hope that has cleared it up for you.

    • @rkhan1
      @rkhan1 7 років тому

      Ashley Bombande
      Nazar is evil eye in Urdu

  • @shahina_9994
    @shahina_9994 7 років тому +18

    OMG! Seeing you two is making me fall in love all over again! Never have I seen love so young - yet genuine, innocent and pure 💕. Ps. 22:26 fave moment ❤️

  • @baserabahar7673
    @baserabahar7673 7 років тому +6

    My older brother was literally in your guys's situation. He's 21 and he's the oldest. It's him then my twin sister and I (we're 17) My parents and my brother's fiancée's parents didn't approve. But my brother and his fiancee wanted to get married to keep things halal. Once they met each others parents it was a little bit better. They're now happily engaged and will be getting married soon. (I'm half middle eastern and half Italian) My dads family is afghan and Lebanese and my moms family is Italian.

    • @rkhan1
      @rkhan1 7 років тому +1

      Afghanistan is in central Asia Btw...

  • @latishasingh4950
    @latishasingh4950 7 років тому +1

    Aww you two are so cute together, may you both have a long life relationship forever 😍😍 this video and the first part has actually really given me good advice although I’m not yet in a relationship and I’m a young teenager 💗 And I’m so thankful for watching these 🙏🏽💜

  • @lucyjames3625
    @lucyjames3625 7 років тому +1

    You've gone up 6K subscribers in a month that's madness! I've just found your channel, it's so nourishing to find young people who are so mature it's a rare occurrence, keep up with the videos :)

  • @amybeard9346
    @amybeard9346 7 років тому +2

    U guys make me feel so single but I adore the love you have for each other, looking forward to more content 💕

  • @nadiabegum5147
    @nadiabegum5147 7 років тому +3

    22:25 the cutest thing ever i cant mashallah😭😭❤️❤️❤️I actually couldnt stop smiling throughout this video

  • @mazb2070
    @mazb2070 7 років тому +20

    Of course if you repent with sincerity and Allah forgives you in sha Allah. Allah is Al Rahman all merciful . You will have a blessed marraige in sha Allah💗💗💗

  • @anesakhalid2342
    @anesakhalid2342 7 років тому +85

    Allah huma barik! MashaAllah MashaAllah MashaAllah!!! You two are the sweetest most adorable young couple i have ever seen! I pray Allah swt keeps all evil eye away from you AMEEN and gives you all the happiness and barakah in your marriage ameen. Ryhan your answer to 'how did you know you were the one' subhanAllah the answer you gave most men dont realise this till theyre in there late 30s. Just shows your maturity level. You are both in this together so young for reason. You have your head screwed on . Keep your deen close to your heart amd watch how you will live a fulfilling life together proving wrong all those that thought you wont. You are in my duahs. I adore you both so much!! Your new subscriber, liker and fan ❤

  • @umamah9054
    @umamah9054 6 років тому +12

    22:26 I cried 😭

  • @corib1843
    @corib1843 7 років тому

    You two are such a good couple! Very level headed and mature for being young and wedded. I am a few years older than my husband but he was 21 when we married! His family was very understanding and was very supportive of our wanting to get married. He is Parsi and well, I am not(raised loosely Catholic), lol. It's been wonderful being accepted into his family and his culture. He is the the third person in his(huge) family to marry outside of his faith. We had a Zoroastrian wedding ceremony and it was beautiful. My hubby is also still in school and I will be going back again once I move(Hubby is in Canada and we are currently going through immigration). It's easy to spend money recklessly but like you two, we are being smart and saving for our future home. We chose to live apart for a little while so we can both continue to work and save. If I were to move to Canada, I wouldn't be able to work for at the least 6 months.
    Anyway, it's good to see other couples that will prove other people wrong about getting married at this age. I can't tell you how many people have given us the same looks or have questioned us. Their jaws drop when my husband talks about having kids! It's kind of amusing. Best wishes to you both!!

  • @mazb2070
    @mazb2070 7 років тому +8

    Omg tanya😍😍😍😍😍 Allahumabarik you were so adorable when u were getting emotional 💗💗💗💗 you deserve nothing but abundant happiness🤗

  • @user-cm2hb5kq2k
    @user-cm2hb5kq2k 7 років тому +8

    iA your marriage will be blessed. just because y'all dated before doesn't make you bad people bc you fought to change it to halal. you got married, you did it the right way initially.

  • @ImogenRoseFitness
    @ImogenRoseFitness 7 років тому

    I've loved watching both parts to this marriage q&a. It's amazing to hear about your journey and how your situation worked out for you. Hearing and learning about how peoples culture and background differs from mine makes me realise why I LOVE UA-cam. Good luck on your marriage journey and I hope you have a loving and happy marriage (and those 9 babies haha!) xxx

  • @umaymahussain4219
    @umaymahussain4219 7 років тому +7

    Love their intro ❤️

  • @itsmeshereen8956
    @itsmeshereen8956 7 років тому +2

    The way she said I really love you! My favourite couple xxx

  • @Hxfsxl
    @Hxfsxl 7 років тому +1

    Allahumma barik ❤️Watching this makes me so happy. In today's day and age young marriages have become so taboo unfortunately and as a result many young people willingly are unable to get married.
    In islam as Muslims we are encouraged to marry young to protect us from evil sins and although you went through dating, you soon realised that somethings wasn't right, so you made the effort to change that and complete half your Deen, whilst there are many people out there who will find any excuse to avoid marriage in order to simply fulfill their desires and then move onto the next person.
    Yet parents fail to understand this and constantly bombard us with matters like studies and money, like come on you can still continue ur studies after marriage and money comes and goes, you only need what is sufficient for you and ur spouse to provide what is needed.
    If your child comes to you asking permission to get married we should be proud of them and encourage this, for this is the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet ﷺ and will protect us, and not become an obstacle in this matter.
    We need more young married couples like you to be an example for the youth to show them that this is the right way and it is possible once you have sincere intentions. May Allah ﷻ bless you both in your marriage and bestow His love and mercy in your marriage and grant you all the happiness and success in the future... Ameen

  • @inesjabir2971
    @inesjabir2971 7 років тому

    22.25 Your face when you said I really love is just adorable and he got sooo shy , love from Italy💙💙💙💙💙

  • @reirei9446
    @reirei9446 7 років тому +1

    Lmao 22:31 "Compose yourself compose yourself." ( _Me when I listen to Ha Hyun woo sing_ ~)

  • @tiax1975
    @tiax1975 7 років тому +2

    so so proud to know u guys are bengali and muslim like me alhamdulilah, may Allah bless your marriage and remove any nazr from you both x

  • @EmSoa-ur7tq
    @EmSoa-ur7tq 7 років тому +2

    You guys are so lovely allah huma batik ignore all the salty people. The prophet Muhammad saw did say to youngers to get married as soon as possible so idk why people wanna act like it's so bad to get married young, tbh it's better to get married young than to do haram (Zina etc) LOVE YOU GUYS ❤️❤️

  • @alyahlima258
    @alyahlima258 7 років тому +9

    This video made me smile and laugh omfgosh both of u love each other so much you can tell from ur experiences and the look you give each other MashAllah don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise guys 💕👏🏽

  • @Faiza-no3ov
    @Faiza-no3ov 7 років тому +7

    I cant seem to get over how adorable you two are everytime u put a video or pic up i just cant stop looking back at it nd thinking how cute you both are mashallah may allah keep you marriage blessed nd keep you both happy for aslong as you both live inshallah love you both 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤

  • @ndjdidbdbdh1332
    @ndjdidbdbdh1332 7 років тому +8

    Yasssss new video u guys are so cute

  • @bellabelle7535
    @bellabelle7535 7 років тому +2

    he always looks at her thats so cute

  • @maryworld7315
    @maryworld7315 7 років тому +3

    You guys literally inspired me. There is this nice guy in my English class and I really to talk to him but I don't know how

  • @tahminabegum8792
    @tahminabegum8792 7 років тому +8

    So the ad before this video was for Galaxy chocolate🤔

  • @kiss10100
    @kiss10100 7 років тому +2

    I subscribed and it turnt to 8k so whoooo I'm the 8000th. Also you remind me of a lot of my past and makes me very nostalgic and happy in some ways but I really love you both and relate and pray you live the best life xxxx

  • @bbhmclub268
    @bbhmclub268 7 років тому +7

    Yes💓

  • @nishathfatima6712
    @nishathfatima6712 7 років тому +2

    Allahuma Barik. Whoever said that ridiculous thing about your marriage not being blessed is a fool. In shaa Allah your marriage will have tons of blessings, love, success and a rock solid foundation, ameen. You two wanted to get married for the right reasons, and know the importance of repentance and at the end of the day, that's what matters. Wishing you two nothing but the best

  • @sucdi9068
    @sucdi9068 5 років тому +2

    I just found you guys channel today and I have been binge watching your channel such a cute couple mashallah 😂❤️

  • @sajidahdadabhoy6978
    @sajidahdadabhoy6978 7 років тому +4

    Mash'allah cute couple.. may Allah continue blessing you both with happiness and blessings. And in terms of going through struggles don't forget "Verily after hardship comes ease." 94:6 #StayBlessed

  • @fatimakhatun3506
    @fatimakhatun3506 7 років тому

    Last night I saw that you guys were on 7k now your on 8k . Girl your page is growing. But at least I can say I’ve been here since day 1 💗

  • @helinkarim9022
    @helinkarim9022 7 років тому

    At the end of the day the only thing that matters is that you do what you want and love your life what you want coz you only got this one life

  • @hanahaseeb6709
    @hanahaseeb6709 7 років тому +4

    You guys are goals mashallah

  • @jazzk3164
    @jazzk3164 7 років тому

    so much love for you guys. Only just saw your channel and your videos and I've fallen in love with your channel. ❤️

  • @sajeedahussain2584
    @sajeedahussain2584 7 років тому +1

    I love how honest they are👍🏽👍🏽

  • @PhoebeToh
    @PhoebeToh 7 років тому

    love how you guys allow each other to speak its just so cute💞love you guys bareeee! fuck those jealous haters man do your thing x

  • @shah6400
    @shah6400 7 років тому

    Just wanted to say honey, there is no harm in falling in love, finding your love, as long as you do it right and that's what you BOTH have done so you are blessed 💚 Allah grant you lots of blessing in this new blessed journey of yours, marriage is a blessing just as whole you've completed each other others deen and your both happy🌹❤️

  • @siidhraakiyaan4789
    @siidhraakiyaan4789 7 років тому +4

    My husband said the same thing about our marriage we just had a nikkah no big wedding even doe my husband is the only son he never wanted a big wedding, Alhamdulilah for everything, may Allah bless you both with everything xx

  • @sehrbhatti7811
    @sehrbhatti7811 6 років тому +3

    awwww mashallah your guys are so cute. may Allah shower his blessings on you both together ameen

  • @Saaraheee
    @Saaraheee 7 років тому +1

    Love your channel so far !
    You need to tell me what lipstick your using It looks so pretty !!!! 😘

  • @nazzyxc712
    @nazzyxc712 7 років тому +6

    Hey Tanya it's me Nazat I'm Aleen and zareen's littlest sister😉😘❤️

  • @true786
    @true786 7 років тому

    Perhaps it's a cultural thing... but there's certainly no Islamic grounding in saying your marriage isn't blessed if it's not arranged. There is enormous blessing in marriage. May you both thrive and be blessed together. X

  • @iqrakhan1691
    @iqrakhan1691 7 років тому

    Can't wait to see more of you in the future! By far one of my favourite you tubers already,honestly can't wait to see your channel grow❤️
    Many blessings your way lyy x

  • @ayesha7270
    @ayesha7270 7 років тому +4

    I thought this would be so cringy to watch lol.
    You guys are so sweet mashAllah. May Allah grant you both many years of happiness xx

  • @iamyasmine2717
    @iamyasmine2717 7 років тому

    You guys are so cute! Can't wait to see you grow together❤️

  • @belledenuit1802
    @belledenuit1802 7 років тому

    Dont worry about what people said. They are here to break our hearts. We are all humans and we should all learn and repent from our mistakes. May Allah bless you both and keep you both united forever.❤❤❤ sincerly love you both...wish young people were as strong as you both to get a halal nikkah instead of zina.

  • @moniyat
    @moniyat 7 років тому

    both of you are so pretty, your children would be gorgeous

  • @provahussain6417
    @provahussain6417 7 років тому +1

    Like before watching bc I love you guys

  • @jinsh7893
    @jinsh7893 7 років тому

    You two guys are meant to be like u really really love each other so much like the looks that u give each other is like ahh i cant handle😍😍😍😍😍

  • @aishanawaz1448
    @aishanawaz1448 7 років тому +30

    i saw that you guys had 7.3k at like 2 and now at 10 you at 7.7k subs

  • @maishehab3329
    @maishehab3329 7 років тому

    just came across your channel and I'm honestly so happy for you and hope everyone can find this connection one day!! You have the mist positive future ahead of you too and don't let anyone tell you otherwise

  • @deebrown2456
    @deebrown2456 6 років тому

    Mansh’Allah.. you both completed half of your Deen. You will be growing up with each other Insha’Allah. Wishing you many many more years of happiness, Ameen

  • @selinakauser3675
    @selinakauser3675 7 років тому +4

    You guys are 100% okay. I support the way you went about it. Love marriage is the best because there love before hand but if it was arranged marriage then there would always be doubt. Love you guys and wish you all the best for the future 😘😘😘😘❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ragdahabbas9731
    @ragdahabbas9731 7 років тому +1

    Couple goals right here❤❤

  • @surrayia2376
    @surrayia2376 6 років тому +1

    I cried omg 😭😭 alhumdulilah for this couple x

  • @mazb2070
    @mazb2070 7 років тому +3

    Mashallah Tabarakallah 💗this is so cute😍 you did the right thing getting married young💯💯💯💯

  • @EverydayDoll
    @EverydayDoll 7 років тому +11

    great video x

  • @ParsimoniousTV
    @ParsimoniousTV 7 років тому

    I love these videos. You guys are soooo cute together. I've always thought young marriage was better because you can grow together. It's so cute to me when I hear my grandparents talking about things that happened when they were teenagers together and it seems like they're more in love because they got together so young and they literarily don't know adult life without each other. I've always wished that I could get married young.

  • @nourel9767
    @nourel9767 7 років тому +5

    Mashallah.&inshallah you guys continue to be if not more close& happy within your marriage. The cutestt

  • @ibrahimmahmud2720
    @ibrahimmahmud2720 7 років тому

    LOOOL having children seems fun. Just experience your first child.

  • @husnax9452
    @husnax9452 5 років тому

    the way u both look at each other is cute

  • @laoslaos7752
    @laoslaos7752 7 років тому +1

    They’re so real 😭❤️

  • @kadijaibrahim1812
    @kadijaibrahim1812 7 років тому +3

    The amazing couples

  • @sim8430
    @sim8430 7 років тому

    You guys are so cute together! Your deffo gonna stay forever together ❤️❤️

  • @habibarezna3883
    @habibarezna3883 7 років тому +1

    Omg you guys are just so sweet, mashallah ❤

  • @misssafia98
    @misssafia98 7 років тому +4

    Mash Allah such a beautiful couple!! May Allah bless and protect your marriage always Insha Allah! u guys are honestly an inspiration for young Muslims like me keep up the amazing work

  • @safiyyahali5275
    @safiyyahali5275 7 років тому +1

    Inshallah you two will have a blessed marriage, ya'll are so cute!! xx

  • @zeen2840
    @zeen2840 7 років тому +2

    You guys are so cute💕 inshallah you guys will stay together for ever💕

  • @YourSolarSystem
    @YourSolarSystem 6 років тому

    I love their background x

  • @divishalal
    @divishalal 7 років тому +1

    Youse two are so fuckin CUTEEEEEEEE. Youse should put up your wedding video up pls

  • @aishak1185
    @aishak1185 7 років тому

    My favourite Couple Mash'allah keep doing what your doing and prove them wrong!

  • @qaaliqurux8088
    @qaaliqurux8088 7 років тому +4

    You too are so cute masha allah❤❤❤ insha Allah one day I'll find a relationship like you guys❤❤❤ Love you x

  • @kausarahmed4196
    @kausarahmed4196 5 років тому

    This is a great story and them appreciating the value of money, girls now day wants to marry guy with a new car, house and a full time job but they don't understand they are not loving the guy but his money. If you really love the guy then no matter if he is poor of what you would still be with him and succeed and fulfil your dreams.

  • @yusraa7915
    @yusraa7915 6 років тому

    This is the cutest thing ever omg

  • @queenmsp4435
    @queenmsp4435 7 років тому

    WHEN IS THE NEXT VIDEO?? Sorry just really interested xxx

  • @leylaabdullahi5624
    @leylaabdullahi5624 7 років тому +4

    Yasssss

  • @Jud_789
    @Jud_789 7 років тому +2

    Ma shaa Allah you both look so cute together🖤😭

  • @sajeedahussain2584
    @sajeedahussain2584 7 років тому

    THIS IS SO CUTE AHHH

  • @aishanuhaa
    @aishanuhaa 7 років тому +7

    U guys r soo cute mashaallah, u look like goals 👌👌👌

  • @Siimaaxo
    @Siimaaxo 6 років тому

    You guys are goals 😭❤️

  • @zahramoola4334
    @zahramoola4334 7 років тому +1

    This is such goals🔥🔥❤