All the points you hit and advice you gave was so relatable. On the part thinking about both your relationship is so important and the rest of your life's you both have to deal with together, family won't always be their to help you. Me and my husband had the same struggling with money but alhamdulilah in such a better place now. So glad I had a small nikkah didn't waste my money impressing my in laws, literally his house, a mesab and 2 witnesses. She ended up telling me to leave because I didn't wear a head scarf and she thought she could treat me however bec I didn't have my family's support. So greatful for having such a supportive husband💙. And he ended up taking me out of that toxic situation. Thanks for making these types of Videos, loving them hope to see more and such good advice too ❤️
I love these type of videos they make me feel like I’m not alone in situations that revolve around the same area and you should truly make more of these advice videos ❤️ would appreciate it a lot
Ah why are weddings so stressful 😣 should be such a happy and blessed time in two people's lives. That's why regardless of people's situation, a simple Nikkah is best as our religion advises in the first place! Really enjoyed the video guys x
If shes talking in islamic perspective. Both sides can contribute to the nikkah. However, the walima (reception) is only to be paid by the husband UNLESS the wife/her side wants to contribute. SO tbh i dont think she should worry too much
This is crazy why is the girl paying for the wedding?? Is that in Asian culture? In my culture the man pays for the wedding like you can help him out and stuff but ultimately it’s on his shoulders along with the Maher.
I actually really like your videos! I think you should make a video on money management and budgeting especially for young people who are looking to save
Even if I can afford a big wedding, I still don't want a wedding at all because I don't get along with any family member. Most of the guests who attend the wedding are kind of fake friends who backbite and give evil eyes. I don't think anyone deserves to attend my wedding.
500 People!!!! What???? Is this a wedding or a concert? Seriously, parents who invite so many people are just a BURDEN for their children, especially if you dont have any money.
I love watching you two so much, I mean you guys are so young but so mature, I mean I’m 26 but listening to you two is just so nice. Insha allah I just hope u guys are so successful Insha allah and may allah keep you away from nazar ameen. This wedding stf is so relatable, im Pakistan my bf is Bengali we both watch u and support you. Xx p.s I bet u think I always send u cheesy comments lol Sorry about that xx
Girl, i just want a simple nikkah in normal wear and walima with relatives and then i'll take them to a restaurant to eat, i will be wearing normal salwar kameez on walima . Moroever, no makeup, no jewellery
NEED AN OPINION OR ADVICE I have done a very small and simple wedding in our living room and i hated it after and regretted it, cause i didnt want so many people and my family neglected my wedding and its not important and it was horrible cause no want helped even buying me flowers even though my family is rich I still have a chance of doing a wedding since i still dont live with my husband yet but he doesnt want to and giving excuses that his family won't come again from uk to my country , WHAT SHOULD I DO
Don’t go against your husband as it will make situations in the future harder, if you want a big party throw one for your family in which YOUR family will cover the financial costs. He can choose to invite the family that are able to attend as there probably won’t be many since you’re saying his family won’t come from abroad. This way you get the party you want
there is a problem that people think that it's just our parent's who are from back home that want these big wedding's but it the parent's that are born here who want a big wedding too cause it's shameful if they don't and what would people say(that's the men cause the women are from back home and they are just thinking thank ALLAH I'm in ENGLAND) I know a family and cause of the lockdown they had to do in the home and not much money was spent (£2000) and he was well happy or he would of had to book hall,car's,cake,food, music and much munch more and he was dancing all the way to the bank. not worried that people are dieing around the world but he didn't have to spend soo munch money. so sad that people are scared of what will society and family think and not of ALLAH,being in the gave and the afterlife. I'm not saying how to do wedding's but people don't talk SHIT 🤥
I didn't even know bengali wedding's are like that, bro you need to come to pakistani wedding and see the shit everyone gets up to (absolutely mental people😂😂🤣)....
Simple wedding is better cuz no one will put evil eye on u. At a big wedding, 40 percent of the people gonna backbite about u guys and mention negative things
targaryenblood so should they just carry on having a haraam relationship? Allah forgives all since if you strive for halal. They should both ask for repentance and then get married or stop seeing each other until they can
Oh my god I KNOW. I hate how boring Bengali weddings are, everyone just sits there chatting shit about what so and so is wearing bla bla bla. I am definitely going to break the norm and have elephants n shit at my wedding idc
11BEATS 11 well I mean I don’t know whether you like fish or not but the first thing you’d be offered upon entering Jannah is fish so I’d be wary of the fish jokes.
CALI I a lot of Bengalis have hygiene standards than you’ll ever have. They have strong Islamic roots and focus on their deen and deen teaches purity so logically speaking they are cleaner than you all. And fish is an animal which self provides hence it’ll be firstly offered at Jannah. You seem pretty arrogant and full of stupidity so no point explaining anything to you.
CALI I and also these opinions are coming from non Bengalis so keep your negativity to your self 😂, fear God. Prophets last sermon specifically said no one has superiority over anyone.
Am I the only one who would just like a simple nikkah? 😂
Same and i regretted it so much i wish i can do a wedding
I can't wait to go all out you only get married big once have funn! I hate simple
But if you are less fortunate obviously it's okay to have a simple nikkah your still married on paper
I want a small wedding, but being Asian, I highly doubt that. 🤦🏾♀️
Randomm Personna you do a lot of things once. That’s part of life. Simplicity is the best option regardless of wealth.
All the points you hit and advice you gave was so relatable. On the part thinking about both your relationship is so important and the rest of your life's you both have to deal with together, family won't always be their to help you. Me and my husband had the same struggling with money but alhamdulilah in such a better place now. So glad I had a small nikkah didn't waste my money impressing my in laws, literally his house, a mesab and 2 witnesses. She ended up telling me to leave because I didn't wear a head scarf and she thought she could treat me however bec I didn't have my family's support. So greatful for having such a supportive husband💙. And he ended up taking me out of that toxic situation.
Thanks for making these types of Videos, loving them hope to see more and such good advice too ❤️
I love these type of videos they make me feel like I’m not alone in situations that revolve around the same area and you should truly make more of these advice videos ❤️ would appreciate it a lot
Sabah yea I agree sid and dina use to make videos like these but they stopped. So I’m glad she does it now
Tanya & Ryhan, you both addressed the situation from two angles which I absolutely loved! Keep up the great work!!
Follow the sunnah and keep it simple with blessings inshaAllah
Ah why are weddings so stressful 😣 should be such a happy and blessed time in two people's lives. That's why regardless of people's situation, a simple Nikkah is best as our religion advises in the first place! Really enjoyed the video guys x
No, don't have a wedding which is a waste of money. Saving up for the house is the best choice than having a Walima.
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This is how many people love Tanya’s makeup ❤️
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Guys remember, it's not about the wedding, it's about the marriage!!
If shes talking in islamic perspective. Both sides can contribute to the nikkah. However, the walima (reception) is only to be paid by the husband UNLESS the wife/her side wants to contribute. SO tbh i dont think she should worry too much
MJA yeah true but she's probably just a person that wants to give too because I'd feel so bad to know my husband would be paying for it all
@@al.345 yes definitely but that doesn't mean she needs to pay alot. She can contribute as much as she is capable of if she really wishes to
MJA yeah that's perfectly fine
I had a simple nikkah...I loved it ...less stress and no debts alhamdulilah
You guys r so real honest and humble😍😍😍.
Keep uo the good work.
This is crazy why is the girl paying for the wedding?? Is that in Asian culture? In my culture the man pays for the wedding like you can help him out and stuff but ultimately it’s on his shoulders along with the Maher.
For Walima men pay for it, baraat its the brides day
Yes it's a Asian thing. The Walima is the only day that is required in islam. It's just a cultural thing.
madi isn’t the nikkah required?
you can always save for an anniversary :) make it a big party and have fun.
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Make it a simple and cutes wedding please I am only 12 and this is my sisters channel I love to so ur wedding love you bro Ryan
this was so helpful even tho i’m not getting married, atleast now i know what i’m going to be getting myself into in the future, thank you xxx
So sweet .. switched on couples 😘💕😘💕🤪
YOU DON'T NEED MONEY TO GET MARRIED
ALL YOU NEED IS TRUE LOVE
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Tanya can u do a haul on clothes because I love the way u dress 😊❤️❤️❤️
You guys are so helpful may Allah bless you both x
I actually really like your videos! I think you should make a video on money management and budgeting especially for young people who are looking to save
Even if I can afford a big wedding, I still don't want a wedding at all because I don't get along with any family member. Most of the guests who attend the wedding are kind of fake friends who backbite and give evil eyes. I don't think anyone deserves to attend my wedding.
Tanya needs to stop saying basically within the first three seconds into the video😂😂😂😂
Great advice!
Like your channel
500 People!!!! What???? Is this a wedding or a concert? Seriously, parents who invite so many people are just a BURDEN for their children, especially if you dont have any money.
Yesss we need more of these vids 🥰
I love watching you two so much, I mean you guys are so young but so mature, I mean I’m 26 but listening to you two is just so nice. Insha allah I just hope u guys are so successful Insha allah and may allah keep you away from nazar ameen. This wedding stf is so relatable, im Pakistan my bf is Bengali we both watch u and support you. Xx p.s I bet u think I always send u cheesy comments lol Sorry about that xx
Love this xx
Love these type of videos, love you tanya💓💓💓
Girl, i just want a simple nikkah in normal wear and walima with relatives and then i'll take them to a restaurant to eat, i will be wearing normal salwar kameez on walima . Moroever, no makeup, no jewellery
Yeah with Indians (Muslim indian) there’s no dancing either. It’s pretty simple 🤷🏽♀️
Saff P Alhamdulilah because music is impermissible in Islam, unless Its an Islamic drum. I think it’s called a duff
Lä Dõlcê Vîtä yep alhumdulillah ♥️
NEED AN OPINION OR ADVICE I have done a very small and simple wedding in our living room and i hated it after and regretted it, cause i didnt want so many people and my family neglected my wedding and its not important and it was horrible cause no want helped even buying me flowers even though my family is rich I still have a chance of doing a wedding since i still dont live with my husband yet but he doesnt want to and giving excuses that his family won't come again from uk to my country , WHAT SHOULD I DO
Don’t go against your husband as it will make situations in the future harder, if you want a big party throw one for your family in which YOUR family will cover the financial costs. He can choose to invite the family that are able to attend as there probably won’t be many since you’re saying his family won’t come from abroad. This way you get the party you want
Nice video! Can yall pls do what I eat in a day I've been waiting😭❤❤
Luv ur makeup
I’m in this exact Situation
My love has got no money he’s got his own release
i hope you all the best xx
I clicked so fast!!
I just had an simple nikkah . I had the biggest wedding
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Lol their eyes are normal, they not that type to smoke weed
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there is a problem that people think that it's just our parent's who are from back home that want these big wedding's but it the parent's that are born here who want a big wedding too cause it's shameful if they don't and what would people say(that's the men cause the women are from back home and they are just thinking thank ALLAH I'm in ENGLAND) I know a family and cause of the lockdown they had to do in the home and not much money was spent (£2000) and he was well happy or he would of had to book hall,car's,cake,food, music and much munch more and he was dancing all the way to the bank.
not worried that people are dieing around the world but he didn't have to spend soo munch money.
so sad that people are scared of what will society and family think and not of ALLAH,being in the gave and the afterlife.
I'm not saying how to do wedding's but people don't talk SHIT 🤥
I didn't even know bengali wedding's are like that, bro you need to come to pakistani wedding and see the shit everyone gets up to (absolutely mental people😂😂🤣)....
Simple wedding is better cuz no one will put evil eye on u. At a big wedding, 40 percent of the people gonna backbite about u guys and mention negative things
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What if you don’t have a dagree and you are still studying what should you do then
Carry on with ur studies and get a degree get a job than get married or simple nikkah
R they Muslims
Had a haram relationship but yeah have a simple nikkah as our religion advises lol how hypocritical
targaryenblood so should they just carry on having a haraam relationship? Allah forgives all since if you strive for halal. They should both ask for repentance and then get married or stop seeing each other until they can
Nobody is perfect. And they stayed within their limits before marriage.
Oh my god I KNOW. I hate how boring Bengali weddings are, everyone just sits there chatting shit about what so and so is wearing bla bla bla. I am definitely going to break the norm and have elephants n shit at my wedding idc
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what are the white patches on the guys face
ananya g he might have some skin condition. That’s such a rude way to ask! You could be a little generous with your wording 😐
Spent all the money on fish
11BEATS 11 well I mean I don’t know whether you like fish or not but the first thing you’d be offered upon entering Jannah is fish so I’d be wary of the fish jokes.
CALI I a lot of Bengalis have hygiene standards than you’ll ever have. They have strong Islamic roots and focus on their deen and deen teaches purity so logically speaking they are cleaner than you all. And fish is an animal which self provides hence it’ll be firstly offered at Jannah. You seem pretty arrogant and full of stupidity so no point explaining anything to you.
CALI I and also these opinions are coming from non Bengalis so keep your negativity to your self 😂, fear God. Prophets last sermon specifically said no one has superiority over anyone.