Women: Your body language says a lot! Do you look submissive?
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Your body language speaks volumes! Be sure you're saying the right thing.
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Im not sure why but crossed legs and hands looks more dominant to me.
I cross my angles, but never my knees. I find it awkward to do the latter. The latter is thought to interfere with blood circulation. That is what I was told decades.
Stand-offish, defensive. Not confident, self assured and centred. The term submissive is not used here as an opposite to dominant. Neither of those are centred.
@@peitajean 🤔.. but she says "like this & not like that" thing, kinda implying opposites, as-in promoting one by preventing the other, in order to express a certain way that the other would neglect by nature of not being in said way.
Finally i found something usefulll to me
This is great!!!! 💗💗💗💗
Fab, thank you
Whatspreading?
But I can't stop sitting when I go to meeting I will always cross automatically
So you condemn men for taking the space that they need, calling it 'manspreading' while also teaching women how to take up more space? Hmm...
Who is ‘you’? What the fuck are you talking about lmao go touch grass
I always look up and keep my chin up. How to correct it.
basically it boils down to this: if you want to get a man, you need to look submissive and men loveeee submissive women . If you want to be a feminist, get yourself a high end posture, wide upper back etc
lol
Yes..man loves the feeling of being guardian of their woman..that's different.. woman can act submissive to make feel their man superior and also be confident for the rest of the world
I've always wondered if men think like this, now I know and don't have to feel guilty about wanting a man that protects me.😊
@Ana Chantal Exactly! That's probably why so many women attract a faux protective man who end up being narcissistic and using them. Look at all the women with womderful men. They don't have bad or "submissive" posture at all. Rihanna, JJ, etc.
Excuse my language, but..the f**k is “man spreading”?!
It’s another phrase that feminists use to denigrate men. They posit that men are rude and self-centered and controlling if the spread out and take up “too much” space.
Men, don’t give credence to these feminist code words. Be a man PROUDLY.
It's a term that angry feminists came up with for men who like to sit comfortably. The woman is this video is lovely, no offense to her at all. It's just a silly term that caught on. Men have every right to sit relaxed, as do women.
I can;t cross my legs, my legs are too fat. lol
You are not alone, I have the same problem
I wanna cross my legs sooo bad 😔
Same, I am a trans woman and I am learning how to sit as a woman would, but my legs are super fat. I need to exercise more.
Crossing my ankles was my church posture , taught by my grammie, I still use it in social, professional situations,. Good advice stlil, lthank you
🙂Im curious: who taught your grandmother about leg crossing? Im looking for the cultural origin of leg crossing (peculiarly in women) upbringings & traditions.
Thanks so much! I'm sending this to my granddaughters and my goddaughter and I'm going to pay attention myself God bless you! Could you do one that speaks to the body language when they're out in public that doesn't make them look like victims?
I try to hold this open position and it's really hard... how long does it take to train yourself so this isn't difficult or even uncomfortable (years of slouching due to larger chest)
It depends on how tight your chest muscles are. If you have been closing off your chest for years, you will need to do some stretches and exercises to strengthen your upper back and stretch your your chest. Plus, a lot of women find the process of learning to take up more space very uncomfortable. If you’ve been hiding your chest for a long time it might feel like you’re showing off if you have healthy, neutral posture Plus, a lot of women find the process of learning to take up more space very uncomfortable. If you’ve been hiding your chest for a long time it might feel like you’re showing off if you have healthy, neutral posture.
Be sure to look at the other videos on this channel, there are tons of chest opening routines and tips about how to change your habits. Also, if you want a more detailed description, I have written a book called Posture Makeover.
It's ok baby girl just be you
These comments are so stupid, thank you for this video, very informative
@CK ok boomer
@@sterscrem i think the word your looking for is matured
Ok
The title is honeslty so cringe
The sexism in this video is definitely unnecessary..
What do you mean
Whereas I agree that body language is a good indicator of how you're feeling, this stuff shouldn't be trained and should be instead used to be made aware of how others, and yourself look, so you can gauge how you, and how they're feeling. Your body language should always be congruent to how you're feeling inside, so you can't force yourself to look confident when you don't really feel that way. Otherwise you'll be a robot - And you'll be stuck in your head forever with how you look, without letting stuff flow naturally. This induces stress like states, which generates more stuff like cortisol which causes inflammation to the body.
Instead on work on your internal confidence by finding your trigger points from the past and what makes you feel the way you do. Your body language will then display a more confident, and assured on the outer naturally. Anyone can do this. Also remember one way of body language is not an all encompassing thing. What will mean one thing, will mean completely a different thing to others.
I like to change up my body language on a regular basis because I enjoy it, and I find it keeps people on their toes (entertained somewhat), and makes people feel certain states (mostly good depending on their own level of self awareness, and if they can handle me being the way I am - believe me, it wasn't always this way).
I can do this because I am super aware of what is going on in the conversation, and surroundings, and most importantly how I am feeling. It is all genuine, and congruent to how I am feeling though, and this is the important thing overall out of anything. Anyone can get there - its about working from your basis/ core upwards.
What posture should i be in if a gentleman is staring at me?
the "walking away" posture, if he looks creepy. LOL
@@chloebelle4923 🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭🤭😜😜💟💟💟agree 👍 🤣🤣🤭😜😜💜💜💜💜💜
Love your channel
You look beautiful
Guess what..billions of people don't sit in wrong posture
I was actually quite into this video. But 1:15 caught me off guard TOTALLY got me off it!! Like what the hell?? The sexism is just completely unnecessary. Not that it matters to anyone but downvoting for that one. Smh
She was only saying the truth. This happens not always but a lot.
@@bintzubair What happens a lot??
@@bintzubair Maybe we should take basic biology into account here and combine it with some common sense. Just imagine having a d*** hanging between your legs and having to squeeze them everytime you sit just because some sexist ass accuses you of "mansplaining".
@@ishitabose1741 it's manspreading but thanks for your opinion :) made me think of it.
Thank alot for this rewarding tips!
"We're taught to cross our legs"
🤔im curious: who taught who taught you? As-in, when did leg crossing originated. Im looking for leg crossing origin (peculiarly in women) culture & its tradition.
Because in dresses it’s to prevent flashing people. It’s awkward to sit in a skirt or dress spread eagle like a guy 😂
As a Christian, I don't see "submission" as some degrading thing to be avoided --- it depends on who / what one is submitting to. Christ Himself submitted to His Father, even to the point of death on the cross. We all need to submit to God's order, and to what is right; while at the same time not submit to evil, pride, selfishness, etc. I would like my posture to convey self-respect and being comfortable in my own skin, but not pride. Having said that, I am really getting a lot out of your posture videos so far and plan to watch more of them --- thank you so much for sharing these tips! I am definitely going to try these out, and hopefully get my husband to try them too.
Wow.. Thank you ❤
Hi
Damm I love a strong woman
Once, my college teacher told the class, that politics was in everything in life. Even in How se occupate spaces. So If we sit on a bus, specially, us woman, and some Man takes ALL the leg space, Just moving our legs back to the centre, giving a little push If needed, It ia a political decision, to occupy pra own space, instead of giving It up. Because If don't stand for ourselfs in tinta things like that, than never the less about major stuff.
I hear 'manspreading' I downvote sexism
Yep
very good and useful for women, success always and beautiful greetings to you
i wish i could old be as confident as her one day
Thank you
Nice video
I am fendom
Female sexism is so unnecessary...
I disagree that submissive women look insecure. There's something to be said for attracting a mate who wants to protect.
Now I'm confused because it's also known that's femininity is expressed through an "open" body language
@@everything5066 It's true about open body language. I should've clarified my point better- I think what she's showing as "insecure" body language for females is normal and attracts men. I don't think it's usually necessary to project masculine confidence in body language for females. Most men are not attracted to masculine women.
You can be a submissive woman, sure. But you should still mind your posture as it will protect you from back pain ( no matter how badly your mate wants to protect you, they cannot protect you from the ill effects of bad posture )
@@posturemakeover7165 Posture is very important for sure. I was speaking more along the lines of subliminal body language. Very informative video, thank you for taking the time to respond.
Maybe that's why a lot of women attract narcissists
Manspreading , really? Did you ever counted the shopping and handbags versus manspreader in ever given train.
And this men do not "take up space", they do have testicles.
Otherwise a good video!
MizeeKazee they take up space
Trains in Madrid recently put up “no man spreading” signs. www.nytimes.com/2017/06/19/world/europe/manspreading-madrid.html
@@posturemakeover7165 Yes.. i noticed that in the news. and i thought that not right.
Please allow me an other question.. I often see writer and philosopher sit like --lean back and one leg over the other.. they look very confident to me..does the pose only applie to men?
(my native language is german, sorry for the bad gramma and such)
So nice to know that someone all the way in Germany is watching my videos :-) It is an interesting question. I believe that some postures do read differently on men and women. I also think that legs crossed looks very differently depending on what is happening with your upper body. In general, I think that open and relaxed posture looks much more confident on everyone.
Awfully bold of you to tell women how they should look and act, not very “feminist” of you.
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She did? Nah she's just teaching confident healthy posture
She s talking about job
She's a feminine woman not a feminist!