True Crime Fan Committed A Murder "Out of Curiosity"
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I don’t think she is a killer because she watched true crime; I think she watched true crime because she’s a killer
ur so right
That makes so much sense.
Yup. That was all research. She would have murdered eventually regardless.
@@RayDayPlays
Don't underestimate the power of curiosity.
It's a big blend of things, she had to be a certain type of person to get carried away or to consent to such act in the first place. But the curiosity probably was a big motivating factor. I have been pushed to do things I on a certain level did not want to do due to curiosity.
Now, to reiterate, to get carried away in this sense or to want to do or especially to actually do something so terrible required a certain type of person.
agreed
Its scary to think that you can be murdered because a random stranger was “curious”. I hate humans sometimes.
Yeah I think that’s why people pretend to be animals, I don’t blame them
Funny. Some human are not really human , so..
@@a__asnow6402 huh🧍🏻♀️
i think she's a sociopath, or has some other sort of disorder, bc she showed no remorse and seemed happy that she was able to execute the murder.
@@Starcloud2421 Humans are animals though get ur biology right
"She was like super obsessed with true crime and murder documentaries." *The entire Mango fanbase shifts uncomfortably.*
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And I oop-
Hikikimori just sounds like severe depression. I had a "phase" where i didnt talk to anyone or leave my room for 6 months. it was awful. i felt like i was dying from inside out
i experienced this for 5 years of my life. i got out of it but unluckily, the pandemic happened.
that was me during the panedmic but i think its coming back😭
@@lvggldhow are you?
I think it’s like agoraphobia which is related to depression.
Not exactly, I don't think? Depression is definitely a factor, but to say that it's just depression sort of ignores many of the unique aspects of being a hikikomori. It also suggests that depression is a catch-all, when it can manifest in different forms.
I think that with being a hikikomori, there are many motivations and experiences. For some, being a hikikomori is a release, and others, an indulgence. There are some that feel happy not interacting with society, and others that feel happier to have others take care of them. For others it can be from crippling fear, while for others, it's a result or side-effect of having one obsession or another. It has many elements, and I think that differentiating it from the blanket diagnosis of depression allows society, and those responsible or invested in addressing this issue to tackle it more directly.
That said, that is my own opinion, and I don't intend to invalidate your opinion by any means!
The poor grandpa imagine how it would feel to raise your daughter for years and than being lied to from that daughter. Just walking into the police station must have been so heartbreaking.
My heart goes out to him, It can’t be easy to be hounded by the media and feel responsible for his granddaughter. I hope he knows he isn’t directly responsible, being related to creepy people happens to a lot of people without their control. :( This case is so scary.
poor thing. she should have killed him to save him from the pain
That would be great but he clearly was so ashamed that he let down his country.
My heart goes out to him.
and then taking the blame for it :< so sad.
I wouldn’t accuse the parents or grandfather of being abusive because there is no evidence but it’s not completely impossible. Something was clearly very wrong with this girl.
This case is so scary, props to that taxi driver for being so proactive
Indeed thanks to him 🚕
You're so right this case is just C-R-E-E-P-Y
@@Tina_tini for real for whole South Korea 🇰🇷
for real, he probably got a strong reminiscent vibe....creepy
Honestly it was so sweet of him to stick around when she went into the park, in case she was in danger and then it was so responsible of him to contact the police when it turned out she was the creep.
I work for the National Suicide and Crisis Prevention Lifeline and I take chat/text conversations. We get SOOOO many young people who are reclusive and do not socialize with anyone to the point where they can’t even call the life line and instead come to chat/text so they don’t have to vocally talk to another person. It’s a huge epidemic in the US as well and the ages are getting lower and lower. The youngest person I have spoken to like this was 9.
Yall need Jesus
@@aaz1992 its not like thats gonna fix it anyway
I do the same thing! Though I take calls!
@@Broadwaybutterfly21 thank you for your work! Chat/text is hard enough, I don’t think I could do calls so major props and thanks to you!
@@Amandavg thank you for your hard work!! I tried text/chat and it was WAY to much for me, I give you major props!
I am diagnosed with social anxiety but now I feel like a ✨ social butterfly✨
thats amazing!
😂
It’s horrifying to think that she could have gotten away if she would have decided to not take a taxi that night. May the victim rest in peace.
or if she replaced the body with a ton of rocks so that it would be a similar weight
@@jadelee0591Definitely! Ngl for a person who watches a lot of true crime videos, she wasn’t very smart or prepared :/
@@jannetf3006😂😂
Your last line got me .
@@jadelee0591 yeah I thought about that, and also she could have not been dropped off AT the park. She might have considered being dropped off some distance away and then walking the rest of the way, then getting another taxi. But also she was not very clean about it, didn't she leave the girl's ID at the park too?
@@Invalidationcoded yeah, she seemingly did a lot of research but she clearly had no idea what she was doing. didn't even pack a backpack of cleaning supplies. but hey, killers are stupid and impulsive anyways so it's no surprise.
The only thing stronger than fear is curiosity.
mhm
No its HOPE.
@@randompeople465 hope to find out the truth 😂 so, yeah, curiosity
@@dariamarkovskaya8611 "the only thing that stronger than fear is hope" By president Snow from hunger games 😂
Specifically *morbid* curiosity.
theres an update to this case! she was sentenced to life in prison, I do not know how the Korean justice system works but this is the first time I'm hearing someone get life in Korea and I hope she stays in there for the rest of her life
I hope they force her to socialize so she won’t have a comfortable life there.
Thanks for the update.
“Why should I care about you if you don’t care about human life?” Respect to this women
I really respect how you always show the victims side.
Ikr
Frr
Yes, it often changes my perspective about things.
it really brings these cases back down to earth
that's what I felt. thanks stephanie.
I completely understand the taxi driver hiding his identity. Not only could Jung Yoo-Jung come after him if she is released, but I’m sure there could be people out there praising her and idolizing her that it could lead to someone else going after him for calling the police on her. I’ve seen some people idolizing serial killers and it is very scary.
Why would someone idolize a killer. Disgusting.
@@leeroy2752i feel like it leads back to why creepypastas are popular, imo people who idolize killers and criminals dont realize how real it is and think of them as characters from a story
@@aurorii688or they don't realize how fucking horrible murder and crime actually is because of creepy pasta, desensitization, or aesthetic reasons
Fuck I saw THOUSANDS of people idolizing and editing a child murder bc she was "pretty" even though she looked like a teen who crawled out a sewer. Or when people were gushing over over that emo who also shot up a school? It's mostly children too it's so so weird
@@leeroy2752 ask the people that idolize Dahmer or Bundy
@@leeroy2752there are some truly sick people out there, that don‘t have the balls to actually kill someone but still like to fantasize about it, so they idolize killers / serial killers
Wait if she was that indifferent in middle school and in high school. Then it’s actually terrifying that she was happily skipping along when she was carrying the body.
There’s quite a bit of serial killers that start off because of curiosity. If she wasn’t caught I believe she would have continued. Very scary and I’m glad she was caught.
I used to be a taxi driver and once picked up a man very late at night that had two very big and very heavy bags with him. He could probably tell what I was thinking, cause he opened them and showed me it was just electronic equipment lol He was working for a music venue nearby.
😂
This cracked me tf up, I wonder what kind of face you made that made him so self-conscious. God that's so funny.
@raccoonchild its probably happened more than a couple times lmao
When I used to work as a background actor, one of my first jobs was in the middle of downtown LA at 5 am and I was carrying a small suitcase for my clothes and my uber drive was a bit concerned 😭 good thing the crew was already set up because she was so suspicious of a small woman traveling to an empty lot so early in the morning
Jeffrey Dahmer,an American killer, after he killed his first victim in a hotel room had his victim in a large duffel bag or suitcase.
It wasn’t the size that set the drive off, it was the smell. Taxi driver even jokingly asked “what’s in that bag? A dead body?”
Don’t know if taxi driver ever reported him because he went on to kill more.
the way i didn't look into this case because i knew Stephanie would cover this 😭
Same！
frrrrr omg 😅
same lol
yes same!
Nah cause the way I predicted that Stephanie was going to cover this case too😭
Four months planning a murder and you conclude that dropping the body off in the park is the intelligent thing to do? Just out there on the field.
Real and she even was a true crime fan like, everyone knows how fast a person can find who is the victim, and cctvs too...like 😭
My mom is a tutor and uses those apps, and this is my biggest fear for her. She interviews with the parents in public, but anything can happen once she goes to their house
I love that South Korean victims can't be named unless the family consents. That would keep so many of these things like serial killer documentaries that re-traumatize the families from even happening. I would like to see that law adopted by my country, and the world.
It would be amazing to see
the US should do that.
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@@xkatitiiif only HIPAA included this
I love that and their CCTV, or more so the British CCTV set up. Cops keep showing up right as the crimes happening, it's freakin brilliant!
Probably the biggest reason that I watch true crime is to learn on what to do and what not to do and what to look for to protect myself etc. I can't even hold a weapon and threaten someone with it let alone murder them. The planning and the effort to do all of that is just sickening.
Yep.
I completely agree! I like watching true crime because in a way, you can see how different situations play out and if it ever happens to you, you might know what to do. But I could never hurt an animal let alone a whole person just to see how it feels 😐
@@jojolovesmottathat's right
Unfortunately the law wants something to blame it on, not that it’s a mental health issue or the fact this person is clearly insane so the easiest this is saying oh well she was obsessed with true crime documentaries doesn’t mean it made her a killer. She was unstable before watching these shows
me too, problem now is I bacame super suspicious and aware of surroundings, even thinking who of my neighbours could be a murderer in the worst case 😅 it is time to have small breake from the topic I guess.,
My friend was also getting like this because she was a huge murder related crime fan. At 1st, she used to tell me the stories and at last she would add “I feel bad for the ones who are murdered” which was normal and I felt the same way! Now after a few months, when she told me the stories she was like “curious” to now about how it feels to murder. I thought it was normal until she was talking about it non stop! She was always into these, she was always looking at the knifes and forks or other stuffs like blades, razors and more. She would stare at them and smile. But when I asked her what was wrong, she would always deny something being wrong about her. She acted like she was normal! But I guess, she was not… Gladly I did notice all of it after 3 months passed and knew something was wrong. So I told her parents, our tutors and the people she is close with.her family got her into a good treatment and her friends including me helped her to get out of that phrase. She’s still my friend and she’s totally perfect and fine now! I’m glad she’s okay now.
When the grandpa apologized .. killed me. Honestly. He was innocently trusted her, when she went out and killed another innocent person. Out of “curiosity”.
I know EVERYBODY comments this on stephie’s channel but her speaking abilities are INSANE. No stutters, no mumbles, no pauses to remember what she has to say. Is she a superhuman??
Her speaking abilities and story telling are excellent. She uses a script that she can read from and there's multiple takes that are cut together tho (that's normal tho almost every UA-cam does that)
I know. It's like she's one of your close friends coming over or you going over to her house and she is just talking like normal conversation. She is such a natural conversationalist and her passion of reading/watching movies, news or books. She conversates so profound and natural... never seems scripted or contrived.
@@phython124even with a script her memorization is insane
Probobly because she enjoys what she does here
i know right
The taxi driver is so smart not only to have suspected her & acted quickly, but to also leave his job and stay anonymous to protect himself from her potential followers.
I think taxi driver was lucky that she did not stab him to not leave a witness. I guess he played very well as if he did not find her suspicious.
Yes.
Literally
she cannot escape..Korea is The City of CCTV
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I am learning so much about Korean culture and laws from your videos. It amazes me that criminals can remain anonymous after committing crimes.
Yup ,
30:00 when you started talking about this it hit me so hard because I've been struggling with this for years. I graduated in 2018 and told myself I would take a year break..well it's 2023 and I barely left my house. I would only go outside if my parents accompanied me but the few times I do go walk on my own anxiety eats me up making me go back home asap. I spent most of my time online since I'm always paranoid of the outside world and it's so suffocating.
i really appreciate the fact you don't refer to the person who died as a 'body' but rather 'the victim' (i.e. she took 'the victim' to the park rather than 'the body'). it feels like a really noteworthy and humane distinction that reminds us this is somebody who was taken advantage of and sadly murdered, rather than little more than a mannequin in the story
same
I think you should say ‘the victim’ if you’re talking about the person, but ‘the body’ if you’re literally talking about the dead body. The person is not in there anymore and it’s creepy to me to not make a clear distinction between a live person (has thoughts and feelings and potential) and a dead body (literally just some dead organic matter).
I also get creeped out when people use any pronoun but “it” to refer to a dead body. It seems disrespectful to the person the body used to belong to, and also just creepy in general to blur those lines.
@@emmanarotzky6565 how much death have you been around?
Thats why i also prefer when people say, the victim, the woman the man, the child in stead of like the "female". Like female what, female dog? Its a person
I really don't think it's that deep. That person is gone. They aren't there anymore. They are just a body.
I lived with a girl that behaved just like this, I went out of my way to ask her how she was doing every day because I felt bad... Once I moved out, she stalked me for a whole year afterwards, and went out of her way to tell whoever we knew in common (literally 3 people) how much she hated me, coming up with crazy stories anytime she could get them to pay attention. The stalking kept getting more vicious and obsessive, so I moved towns.
It seems outlandish, but these people are literally everywhere, they have no interest in fellow human beings, until they perceive someone to have something they do not, then they pounce. Mind you, this girl was a complete stranger, just a roomate, we never had a conversation outside of "How are you today?"
Creepy!! I'd be so uncomfortable thank god it didn't end like this!
im so glad you got away from that kind of situation! hope you are doing well now.
jealousy
Always keep distance from the creepy ones.
no...
I feel so bad for the taxi driver. I don't know what I would feel every day if that happened to me. I really hope he's fine.
I pray for the tax driver, the grandfather and Hannah's family.
May Hannah peacefully rest❤
Hikikiomori sounds a lot like Agoraphobia w/ Social phobia. I was diagnosed with it from ages 18-23 til I forced myself to move where I didn’t know anyone and I was forced to get out and socialize. It was a fear for me though… idk about others
My brother is the same way and he’s 22.
Same here.
The way Stephanie explained the Hikikomori's mindset is making me feel seen. Like, I feel understood. No one understands how terrifying it is to go out there and apply for a job, knowing you'll still get rejected because you've been unemployed for years.
But did u know Hikikomori not a real mental disorder. So i dont know how people actually able to explain it.
@@sarah3412 it's not a mental illness but hikikomori's probably do have mental illness/es that are undiagnosed
@@jasminericee get what u saying. But whatever disorder and condition it does exist in DSM book but not Hikikomori. Thats what i meant. Autism arent mental disorder but it was written in DSM. So basically it is allegedly made up name condition. Sad. But discussions made by professionals do come up that Hikikomori is autism but in Japanese form. So thats my point. How can it is we’ll describe when there is no actual written study about it. So there is no constant explanation for it. Basically is it by choice? Or is it u are push to behave that way?
@@jasminericeeto get diagnosed as a hikikomori, you have to have no other physical or mental problems. it's part of the diagnosis. if you have something else (anxiety, depression, blindness, mobility issues, etc.) that is your diagnosis instead of hikikomori.
some researchers & psychiatrists do make a distinction between "primary hikikomori" & "secondary hikikomori" - the primary being you have nothing but hikikomori & the secondary being you had an undiagnosed issue (usually autism, HPDD or lower mental congnitive functions) that was a catalyst for you to become a hikikomori (as in, the stresses of daily life were overwhelming, so a more active choice was made to become a hikikomori as it seemed more appealing)... but with "secondary hikikomori", once people get a correct diagnosis & a treatment plan it has been observed to be easier to re-integrate them back into the folds of society & their enjoyment of life rapidly improves, whereas "primary hikikomori" folks really struggle &/or have no interest to be part of society.
it's also common that psychiatrists will classify "secondary hikikomori" people as "reclusive" instead, i guess the nuance between those two is an important distinction for some professionals.
hikikomori is still relatively new though, so i imagine with time & more research more will be understood about it & could very well be an undiagnosed issue that is not yet even known to exist.
Me too…After I graduated i was afraid of start working so i went on study and study. Till i got stuck jobless oversea feeling useless and incompetent after unsuccessful interviews.
I just stepped out to look for a job recently.. i know i will never catch up with all my successful friends but at least i start something…
I was a hermit for most of my life. I'm 30 and just started talking normally to people this past year. I can barely hold onto my job, and I constantly want to go back to being a hermit. My dog has been saving me. And now I'm even trying to get my license 😊
I feel so much empathy for hikikomori ppl.
Good luck to you on your journey. It isn’t easy, but I hope little by little you adjust to the outside world for your own well-being.
I wish you all the best! You're doing a great job no matter how it seems now. Don't give up!
props to you!! keep going you're strong
Good luck with everything you're already so amazing for taking that first step. I struggle with social anxiety and agoraphobia so I know how hard it is to actually take that step and leave. I still have to force myself to leave my house at least twice a week because I know if I don't do that I will get stuck in my house again. The only reason I took that step was because I didn't have a choice. I had a health emergency and I had to have life saving surgery. I probably still wouldn't have been able to leave if it hadn't been for my guy really make me realize I wasn't just hurting myself but my family. I'm sending you positive thoughts and dude you're amazing.
Props to you and I have a question what is a good start to stop being a hikikomori?
Because I have been one for a few years now since around early 2019 due to personal reasons but I am trying to find a way to stop being a hikikomori/ hermit/Shut-in btw I'm 18 so I am asking for suggestions from someone older than me
At least she could have chosen a bad person to "know how it feels"... Poor Hana.
I had a very good friend who I stayed with for a visit. We've known each other for a very long time.
We would always sleep in the same bed & talk for hours. She is a true crime fan.
Back then I was more into music.
One night she would tell me all about these crazy cases of serial killers.
When we were getting more tired & the lights were off, I was drifting away & all of the sudden she says: "I would really like to know how it is to kill someone"
I didn't know how to answer & until today I'm spooked.
What if her goal was to live in prison where she doesn't have to interact with people much, have meals provided, etc. without working. Knowing you could get a high sentence and she could have also wanted to know what it felt to kill. Two birds, one stone. Just a thought
chilling to think abt…
I was thinking maybe she wanted that. She probably didn’t like putting efforts in talking to people
Makes sense… unfortunately 😟
That sadly makes sense
Reminds me of a story I read of an autistic man that constantly committed crimes because he enjoyed the stable environment of jail.
What’s scary is, living in jail doesn’t seem that scary in her perspective since she didn’t have any social life or bonds with anyone anyway.
At the very least it keeps her away from other people she could harm. Sometimes that's the best we can do.
Yea but she can't watch true crime videos or research seria killers which she was obessed with
@@averysspookshowspectacular6205. it’s really not
because it’s a place with other crazy ppl that have the potential to do something similar
@@averysspookshowspectacular6205That's actually the whole point. I mean, reforming her really isn't viable 😅
Psychopathy is scary. They can fake so much and be so genuine in their lies. It's terrifying.
True crime should have taught her that most people get caught.
Whats creepy about this is that she was only caught because she didn’t have a car… now imagine if she did.
Eh. She's not that bright considering she got easily caught.
She would have still been caught fairly easily. So..
They would have tracked down her and the victim's cell phone / texts. Also CCTV footages of the victim & the killer. Would have been an easy case for the police tbh
Well but then there would have been no suspicion in the first place
it might not be that easy to catch her, if she had a car.
I am honestly floored that she confessed when her grandpa asked. Like there was a small bit of loyalty there
Yeah with the man who raised her in her youth days
Least she could do
Rather than loyalty, it may have been that she felt gratification in explaining it to him. Like a sick way if hurting him more.
@@valrose6083 A form of rebellion in her head, maybe.
Or fear. That could've been a conditioned response to obey him without question. He could have been abusing her. It doesn't appear anyone took the time to do any more than a cursory look into her home life.
Now i got a word to discribe my current state, I'm like halfway into this hikikomori state. Its been 5 years since i locked myself into my home, rarely go outside(losing my mom affected me a lot). Many people have tried and adviced me to come out of my state but whenever I try my physical health affects badly and I go back into my shell. Its so bad i dont even recognise myself anymore, I'm a totally different person. I became what I used to dislike the most. Recently I started realising what I'm doing wrong and trying to come out of my comfort zone, meeting people, socializing, trying for jobs. I hope my health gets better. I dont want to live my whole life like this.
As someone with agoraphobia, hikkikomori kind of hit hard. It feels exactly like that, like everyone’s already moved on but you’re stuck in your house so you see no future.
Good job to the taxi driver for trusting his gut and reporting what happened, though I feel bad for the grandfather he had nothing to do with this but yet feels so guilty for this mess. Condolences to the Family and I hope they heal from this case as well as all those affected, I hope they can all get the help they need to heal
Steph missed a main point that the taxi driver called the police because his hands were covered with blood after helping her unload the bag
@@paijwhdkkfd Actually she did talk about that and its been confirmed that it didnt actually happen.
@@paijwhdkkfdthat didn’t happen
Here is another major new outlet talking to THE TAXI driver regarding it
ua-cam.com/video/41P8H6bT55o/v-deo.html
i feel bad for the grandfather too... he raised his grand daughter after his children got a divorce, and she became a criminal...
I think her being inspired by the murderers in true crime documentaries and true crime media/video games/movies NOT being to cause of people becoming murderers can both be true.
Of course documentaries, video games, etc., don't cause people to commit murder or be violent. But people who *already* having violent thoughts and tendencies can be inspired by stories of "successful" killers.
Huh?
This is actually something studied in psychology- violent games at worst desensitize people to violence and death, but people who already have violent thoughts seek these games out that make their behavior worse
it’s like the columbine shooters recreating their high school in DOOM before carrying out the murders. obviously the video game didn’t cause the tragedy, but everyone, including normal people, use fiction to revel in fantasy.
she definitely watched crime docs because she wanted to kill, not the other way around
there are no successful serial killers on true crime, they all got caught.
You can really tell a good story….your narration is spot on and even your voice is so pleasant….so glad I found your channel. Finally I’m learning about crimes from countries that usually don’t want the information out.
I just found your channel a couple weeks back... where have you been my whole life!!!?? I love this channel!!
I appreciate that she took the time to clarify that Yoojung isn’t a hikikomori and that they aren’t inherently dangerous people. Tbh they seem a bit more like people who have agoraphobia.
Undiagnosed agoraphobia, social fobia, and / or major depression in most cases.
@@katarinatibai8396also societal pressure and other stuff like the rupture of social links
As an extremely introverted person who hates socializing offline myself, and someone who it feels alien to (I'm autistic, so my rules on socializing aren't, quote-unquote, ""normal"", and normal people don't understand them), I really appreciate that she did this, too.
The difference between Yoojung and an average hikikomori is that Yoojung is a sociopath (scored higher than the guy who killed his mother and eight others) and a hikikomori is someone with possibly undiagnosed agoraphobia.
there's a possibility she was that too. isolation plus frustration can create a hate in people.
I think you hit on the head why true crime is so popular with women; a lot of us are 'proactive' and we're trying to see the warning signs. Because we're the most at risk of it being the victim.
I agree. Whats scary is the number of people in the comments who are insinuating and liking comments that the killer's curiosity was somehow perfectly normal. In more than 2 decades of watching true crime on and off, i've never once been curious about what it would feel like to off someone and I'm pretty unsentimental. Makes you realize the kind of sickos that are watching the same videos we are watching. I'm extremely curious about the world and how things work but taking a life is something only a psycho would be curious about.
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@@tropistan7735 I will admit, I've been curious offing someone but in the sense of how would you would get away with it. Sadly none of this has helped me win clue .
On a serious note, I'm fascinated with true crime but in the sense of how people even come to decision and rationalize murder as "This is right". I scares me and gives me shivers but I'm still so interested in the mental aspect of everything.
Depends on the exact crime. Women are obviously most at risk of being sa'd, but the majority of victims of non-sexual violent crimes are men. Men just don't think about it as much.
This is just not true. Most people murdered are men.
I'm just like you Stephanie, I started watching and listening to true crimes documentaries just to explore the real world, a serial killer or a sychp can be just 2 inches away from us and we wouldn't know, but knowing how evil the world can be I started to be over protective and pay more attention to small details as well.
The true hero is the Taxi Driver.
My heart aches for the Grandfather. 💔
“The cure for boredom is curiosity. Theres no cure for curiosity” - Dorothy Parker
The cure for curiosity is experience - but in this case, some things should have been left to her imagination.
@@mandalee2803 💯% ☹️
but this kind of curiosity.. you should at least try to stop your curiosity..
@@i.js.wanna.b.alone.you can’t stop that kind of curiosity you just have to find ways to deal with it🥲
love the quote
It's sad how much I resonate with the lonely withdrawn people. Once you stop talking to everyone it's impossible to go out there and speak to someone. You become content with being alone but there are times when you look at others and miss being normal. Anyone else with me ?
Edit: 2k of people resonate with my feelings. Yet I can't be happy because this also means that 2k of people feel lonely. Let's all be lonely together. Keep safe. Hugs for everyone !
sort of. I usually go out of my way to talk to my friends even if they don't respond immediately. I try to make plans ahead of time so they're free and we might do something fun even if it's been 3 months and I don't feel like going out.
but for the most part I am fine with being alone, and usually prefer it anyway
I sort of understand I've become more withdrawn from society recently to the point I have stopped doing things I would do a lot like arts and crafts and going outside and playing with friends on video games
it's so lonely but I am having trouble finding the first step due to family member deaths in the last few years and things btw I'm 18 ik that doesn't mean much but I feel like it is sort of good to know
Sorry for the lack of punctuation it is not on my mind when listening to things at 2 am when up due to thoughts of what I am going to do as a job
I sort of am too. Since high school I only really have one friend (which is enough for me) but there are many times where we go several weeks without texting. I don't talk to anyone online and I mainly stay with my family (I get along with them). Even then, there are many times where I sorta retreat to my room and am antisocial around them. I think it's become harder to talk. I have all my art supplies in my room so that's one reason why I prefer being there, though
Yeah. Staring down the difficulties of the life goal I've set for myself, in an age where having a home and/or moving out of the place you're born is more and more expensive . . . _It just makes me want to recoil into an endless sleep or hermitage, to cut everything off and become someone new._ I have enough willpower to fight the urge (I think that's where most of my will is directed these days), but I can't fool myself into thinking everyone has enough drive to fight it off for long.
being withdrawn from people is the worst. i realized how much happier and myself i was around people
Are police certain that there is only one victim? Her stale apology were to the families of multiple victims. Was it possible that she hid other victims in various locations, away from the one known crime scene.
It concerns me how much I relate to hikikomori. Ever since the stay at home orders, if it wasn’t for the fact I need to work to have a house, I’d never leave my house. I thought I was just lazy but maybe there’s a problem lol
Do u go outside for groceries?
@@manitamao6564 I mainly do curbside pick up. My car is an extension of my home so if I don’t have to get out I can get myself to leave. If I have to actually go into the store it’s a whole stressful process.
i could also cry for that taxi driver! he didn’t ask for this at all, and as much as he did the right thing, i’m sure there is so much guilt involved, especially with how the media is, and how many opinions there are. i just how he’s able to recover and has the ability to feel at ease, and happy. it’s what he deserves.
Poor guy :( also why didn’t he accept the prize? Would he become public if he accepted?
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Probably, he also probably didn’t want a prize at the expense of that girls death
Why guilt? He was not an accomplice to the murder and he is the reason she got caught.
Hahaha... Get out of here! Why would you cry for that taxi driver? I mean, there's no doubt anyone who have heard about this case will feel sorry for the taxi driver.. but to even cry for him? Yes, he didnt ask for this at all, no one would even think about being in such situation, but to cry for him is a bit much. He's a grown up adult, and a responsible one.. any normal person would do the same thing if they can sense any suspicious activity happening like this one. I feel sympathy for him, at the very least due to the fact that he was the one having to go through such a horrible and traumatizing experience but to cry for him, like how you're saying? Come on, you could at least say that to the victim or the victim's family... She was killed for no reason other than someone just acting out of curiosity. But, i dont see a point why you need to cry for the taxi driver.
@@brenchengbrencheng4794 i said ALSO* cry for him. ofc i have empathy for the victim and her family, u just only saw this one comment
I feel unsettled by the casual behavior of these murderers. It truly concerns me that any moment in time my life can be stolen from me.
Agreed! & with everything going on all over the world that feeling is always there.
'true fan' people are sick think its a posetive thing to you all the time..its like porn to much to long leaves traces...one dont need to put one self in that mental state what a waste of speace she were born...
This is why I stay home👍
I feel the same, I'm always watching my back 😢
Same 😥
i once heard someone explain true crime obsessions as a "controlled chaos". its where your so used to having a "messy" life/childhood, and by hearing about stuff happening, you feel close to your childhood. Where "controlled" comes in, is that every time you feel/get overwelmed or something, you can just turn it off.
I think the part about watching true Crime allows you to "feel close to your childhood" is a bit much. But more so *controlled chaos : It being someone else's chaos that you can turn off or on at anytime and be happy it isn't you this time. (At least that's one of the reasons I enjoy it... and definitely not to relive my childhood)
What if she had killed before without confessing since she lied a lot? Maybe she wanted to know what its like to kill a person; not just kill.
social skills are definitely called skills for a legitimate reason. i graduated college during the pandemic and spent so much time isolated with only a handful of friends, most of whom have since moved to other locations or settled down and started families. my social skills have nearly completely depleted, i have trouble reaching out and meeting new people (i have had social anxiety for over a decade), and being discouraged just enables me to stay being a hermit even though i really desire to have friends and do things
I suggested on my post maybe someone should make a website or app for people over there who have Hikikimori to social with each other. Maybe there should be something like that here too for Americans with social anxiety so people with these issues can socialize together online and help each other return to the world outside with confidence again.
I knew this is cliché to say but put yourself out there! Watch them way people interact with each other end keep moving forward. You got this! I believe in you friend.😁
This comment really touched me in my heart because I 💯 % know what you mean. I feel the same way every day 😢
if you have the resources and want to meet new people try starting a hobby that requires other people like a pottery or dance class, look up if there are any meet ups of different clubs in your area. that's how I started a few months ago when I got into K-Pop trivia nights that were hosted once a month in my town.
same. the jobs I want tend to require me getting up and talking in front of people, but I'm also pretty scared to try it bc I hate it 😭
The taxi driver is so sharp. Even if I suspected something, I would never have called the police. Incredible, this is a crazy case for sure.
Agreed!!
Watching this as a girl hikikomori for 2 years now cause i was depressed.... but her case is much more extreme than me, i still talk to my frd daily through text and talk to family members. i just feel like an alien in this world and dislike working/studying. The feeling of peers are lightyears ahead of me part really got me. I am slowly accepting myself is not a normal person like them, and will never be. I cant function in a society.
Listening to you story tell is like getting together with a good friend and listening to their passions/newest hyper fixation and it is what keeps me coming back to your channel over all other true crime channels
Also I think it is imperative you keep sharing stories from Asia because so many channels are focused on the US and UK it is too repetitive.
Thanks for your hard work and bringing light to these dark subjects.
I can’t tell you how happy I get when I hear “Badabing, Badaboom!” I heard this story already but I love Stephanie’s take and thoughts on everything!❤
Ikr she is the best i never look into something cause ik her and she is my new teller❤❤😂😂🎉🎉😅😅😊😊
I sure hope most of us ARE just fans and not planning a copycat murder
@@franciscolobo276 Sometimes I also refuse to watch other UA-camrs until I see her video first!😁
@@TheDramacist I’m certainly just an avid true crime watcher, I’m not trying to murder anyone😂😭
true
It’s kind of crazy how being non social effects you. I spent my 18-19 year old self being alone just with my sister, I was so scared to talk to people in general. It wasn’t until I got a job as a cashier and getting BASIC small conversations. Now when I walk around, I ask people things and I complement strangers. Being antisocial is so scary honestly. It effects your mentality.
Yeah I feel you, I think it’s because it’s
human to be social (in some sort of way) so it’s feels weird to be non-social for a long time
I'm more the opposite. After being In customer service for 15 years and the general state of seeing my country go to the shitter, I lost faith in humanity outside of my family and my girlfriend. I could go the rest of my life never talking to anyone outside of them again
@@rikimaru700you say that until you have to actually experience it
*asocial
I have and I still agree. I've been forced out of my cave and I want to go back so bad...@@soggycookie345
I love the way Stephanie says “yeah”
This is enlightening esp that tutoring is one of the busibess I'm considering doing after retirement. I haven't thought much about the importance of keeping our tutors' safety.
When I watch true crime, my mind always go to how the victim feels in those moments, and how awful I feel for them. I never thought there were people out there who think about what the killer feels, and puts themselves in their shoes. The thought of getting into the killer's shoes mentally is terrifying and disgusting to me.
On top of the obvious horror, I really don't get the fascination with "relating to the killer" bc the inside of a murderer's head seems to be so fucking lifeless and boring.
I understand trying to find a REASON, but glamourizing the psychology of murder is insane.
I agree, just not the way you phrased it. There’s nothing wrong with putting yourself in the killers shoes. What do you think the field of forensic psychology and criminal justice is all about? They do exactly that. How do I know? I’m studying to become just that. If we want to solve a crime (profiling, etc.) diagnose a criminal with a potential mental illness and give them the help they need, we HAVE to think from their perspective and get inside their head. Sometimes we even sympathize with them. Does that make me a murderer or a psychopath? I don’t think so.
I was basically a hikikomori for 12 months after high school and it was a struggle learning to talk to new people again. The only reason I got out of it was because I had to move into shared housing for college and had to function normally. I have a lot lf sympathy for hikikomori because I could very easily still be one
The only reason I’m not one is because of highschool which I’m grateful for….I’m going to get a job soon so I can socialize properly. I think in time both me and you will get there ! We have to take it one day at a time
I think my depression and anxiety play a part into why I’m like this. I’m tryna get out of it by working and socializing as much as I can handle.
I kind of am. it fluctuates but between the pandemic, job searching for a year after graduating in the pandemic, then searching for 16 months once that job ended. A social group that is getting more and more distant, especailly in 2023. I just havent been able to keep up with life. I just have no luck in life
Who asked?
@@alkebulanawah4242I asked bozo...
For a true crime fan, you think she would have known that her actions were incredibly traceable and she would be easily busted. It's almost as if she was wanting to be the star of a true crime show because she might as well have just turned herself in.
The social isolation thing is painful beyond words... it's improved greatly in the past 10 yrs but I'm... noticeably behind and I feel both grateful and deep regret every day
I'm a pure African, a Ghanaian for that matter and i heard about this case and was so disgusted. I mean most of us are true crime fans but don't go out killing people all in the name of knowing how it feels. Murder in itself is horrendous but my question is, don't people have regard for human life anymore?? So despicable!!! 😢
Yeah, its really sad. Not to be all like “back in my day” or “the internet is ruining this generation!” but it feels like people are so mean on the internet under anonymity that they forget there are real people with feelings on the other side of the screen, and then it stems into just forgetting how important other people’s feelings are.
I'm not sure it was necessary to include your race ,but whatever.
Ghanaian here too!!!!❤
this!! curiosity is normal but it’s like “i wonder what would happen if i put my spoon in the blender”
it’s a fleeting thought but you have enough common sense to not try
@@mysticloverfairy1Please learn to differentiate between race and nationality..
Some people are sick! My condolences to the victims family!
How do you comment a 52min video 30second after it was posted??
@@SalviAlmighty it’s a well known case?
One thing i definitely took away from my psychology class in college was the concept of "nature vs nurture." This one idk where it would stand
Stephanie you're so good in telling these stories it helps me get throught my work
chookitty5219, your comment soothes me every night . every day there’s not a moment where i don’t fantasize us together, happy, and away from all our troubles. i hope one day you, and i will finally be able to act on my dreams. just us, together.
I feel so bad for the victim's family and the killer's grandpa. She hurt them all. It's just so tragic.
The fact that she knew what she was doing, RESEARCHED WHERE TO STAB, and then after she had murdered that innocent victim, smiled?! Is sickening. I can’t believe there are actually people like that nowadays.
Thank you for the likes Lmaoo
This girl sounds like my ex
Let's just say it was really really bad
Can tell yeah I'm just grateful me and son got out when did .
Guess could go little more and state he probably would of killed us if he had more time like he killed our cat ( last time saw that cat he was literally smelling of death, blood everywhere and his jaw was hanging from his face, bastard said cat probably got hit by a car though the car never went outside and he killed cats before or a rumor of him doing so ) he once through me up against kitchen wall and said he wasn't done with me yet and I did nothing to cause his outburst all was doing was the dishes and I learned after left from a psychiatrist that he throw my autistic son with other special needs into our refrigerator till my child saw twetty bird. I can't say more without crying sorry but I suffer from PTSD and other things but it's over now and we've been trying to rebuild our lives it's been 7 years now but sometimes it feels like it happens yesterday the worst is that there's no justice system for us victims cuz this bastard admitted everything to police when they came and they still let him walk to this day I tried getting him served 4 times and they don't do anything but took me and my child away and put us in a even worst sernio but like said me and my child still together thank God and we've been doing fine though we're hermits and stay to ourselves for our own protection only one we hang with is my mother but we're healing and that's what we need. Plz stay a way from my ex if give name but that's probably not allowed on here he's pure evil .
But yes this girl and him seem so like the same it's scary.
Oh I can also state he is the reason I miscarried his child though looking at it now might of been a blessing in disguise though there shouldn't of been anyway reason to have lost it other than fact of the abuse he put us through and I swear spiritually attacked too like said my ex is pure evil incarcerated. I'd stay way unless you want bad things to happen that's where him and this girl seem so much the same no remorse no feelings just sick
what baffled me is how such a small woman was even able to subdue another adult woman. she was less than 5'2". for women. due to lack of muscles in comparison men, it's very hard to win a physical fight.
There are people worse than this.
I just started following your true or book crimes videos recently and it opens up my mind what really happens beyond our doors. At least, am informed and reminded what’s outside.
You are a great storyteller!! This is a gift! I love your channel.
This freaked me the hell out and had me questioning myself because when you were describing her school life, I kind of related. I’ve always been an introvert, i flew so under the radar at school I didn’t even get bullied, i don’t do well at interviews/first impressions at all, and I burnt out HARD after high school and haven’t been to college, or even applied anywhere when I was in my final year because I just couldn’t do it anymore (gifted kid burnout syndrome af). I grew up with my mom telling me she feels like she’s living with a stranger in her house because I’m very reclusive, and really do prefer to just stay in my room, but that’s because I’m just very introverted and need time to recharge after too much social interaction, like school, or work, and arguing with my mom. I’ve been doing a lot of introspection lately and slowly working through it all but I couldn’t help but cringe at the thought that if you described this girl to my mom, she would without hesitation say I’m just like her. Now I’ve never wondered what it was like to kill someone’s, I don’t even like being evil in video games! But it’s creepy just how similar our lives seem to parallel, even if only superficially, and I can’t help but wonder if other people would think I’m capable of this, and that really fucking scares me
im the same way. i did work in the pubic and that wore me down. i ended up gaining and a stalker.
I can relate, I’m not even able to kill the monsters in Minecraft. I literally freak out when they start attacking me and always end up dead bc I was unable to escape. At this point (after hearing all these murder horror stories) I would literally find it hard to trust anyone damn
I can kind of relate to that. Especially the gifted kid burns out syndrome thing (though mine was connected to being autistic). I think we should try to remember that as you said this is a VERY superficial view of this girl and we don’t know how she actually is or was perceived. I do think we all share certain similarities with each other unfortunately, that doesn’t mean we all kill people though…I hope you don’t feel too upset by the perceived similarities you share with this girl because I’m certain just having that worry is enough to ensure you’re not like her.
The scary thing is she isn't the first person to think like this and then carry it out!
Some people don’t like to talk that much and want to just enjoy life. Talking sometimes brings problems and takes all your energy if you are an introvert. You are totally normal and don’t have to worry or compare yourself to this monster.
I do believe that this girl has a problem where she is bored with literally everything in life. It could be a schizotypical disorder (which Dahmer had) or a psychopathy problem. Of course, she may envy to be Hannah, but she is also extremely unmotivated and does not have any long-term thinking abilities. The way she says "I want to kill to see how it felt" - my theory is - because she felt excited. Killing someone was so big it finally broke something in her that made her feel something, because people greeting and making friends was way too understimulating for whatever problem she had. When nothing is stimulating in life you chase what is stimulating. These types of people have very pet hobbies that make them feel thrilled and excited because otherwise they feel absolutely nothing (just like her favorite spot in the park or movie). And for this psychopath, this killing thing clicked for her.
Yeah. It's really sad, but I wish she had gotten help instead of killing someone.
Maybe don’t diagnose people you don’t know…
@@playdoh658what
@@playdoh658it's not a big deal she literally murdered someone
When she mentioned people can forget how to socialize, i feel that so deeply. I went from normal high school, to on campus college for one year, to online college for the past two years. My only social interaction is at my two jobs and at home/my partner. I interact with my coworkers just fine, i’ve known them for so long, its normal. But put me in a group if ppl my age that i don’t know??? I practically can’t speak at all my chest gets super tight and im suddenly so aware of everything im doing and saying. I literally don’t know how to make friends anymore. Its a weird thing that i never thought would happen to me and yet here i am now
things like this happen and we dont know we've become someone we never thought we'll be. I hope you are doing okay.
The way your segment on hikikomori resonated with me so well it made me so anxious. I dont wanna be one. I havent left my house in 3 years and only really go out for funerals when a family member dies. My neighbors constantly ask my family where i am and some have even forgotten what i look like. I even stopped going to school when in person started again because mg lack of social skills left me developing severe anxiety and on top of that im autistic. I dont wanna be a hikikomori but i dont thith i have a choice anymore.
Be strong, I hope you can take the steps you need to soon. I'll be cheering you on from my side of the world dear 🎉🎉🎉
How old are you?
the way her social life felt very similar to the experience of those with autism (including myself) is scary in a lot of ways. i hope people don’t start misconstruing everyone that might have some social anxiety/issues as a potential psychopath
Agreed. It's also important to note that psychopathy is not synonymous to murderer or a bad person. Sure it can make someone more susceptible due to the lack of empathy etc. But psychopaths can also be "regular" good people and even hold heroic professions which protect others.
She knows.....
To tell you the honest true I feel like neurodivergency leads to... should I say? Nevermind
To be honest my mom sent me this and said, "I'm afraid you'll end up the same"
It honestly made me upset because I don't even like crime novels lol, she doesn't even know what I watch/ read yet she judges me for it just for being on the Autistic side.
Not all loners are dangerous for society, some just don't feel comfortable with ignorant judgmental people.
I was thinking the exact same thing, her life sounds like mine (minus the killing obviously). I swear I’m just trying to live and gauge in a society not built with us in mind.
Ikr , I'm a person who has social anxiety but obviously I would've NEVER kill anyone , it makes me sick to my stomach
Stephanie is the thing that makes these stories seem less dark because she just brightens the room, idk why.
Agreed. I think it's because she tells these stories with such compassion for the victims.
She literally said that those interrogated should be denied medical attention and tossed support towards the idea that prisoners should be fed slop. “Brightens the room” homie she supports police brutality and abuse.
@@oppaloopa3698 I remember her quoting citizens who expressed such views as an outrage response to this case, but I don't remember her saying she shares these ideas. When did she agree with it?
@@oppaloopa3698 She was quoting people, You just want a scapegoat so you can smear her. Your trying to gaslight and scapegoat her by taking things she said out of context. Hopefully THAT brightened YOUR room.
true crime is suppose to be dark tho all these victims have through probably the darkest time of their life but then there's stephanie making it light like wtf?
I saw some doc specifically on Hikikomoro and was just in shock because I thought I was the only one that felt like that. I always thought it was depression that’s just progressively gotten worse as I’ve gotten older(just turned 41). Idk if what affects me is this, but I can totally understand how it can happen and it’s very easy.
Edit: Also I should mention that the doc did talk about how people would go in and try and be a friend to the son(most of those that were Hikikomoro were young boys)to try and pull them out of the depression and get them to socialize again. Though the boys were obsessed with video games, they weren’t just laying in bed all day.
What a scary case..thank you for explaining it so well.
the fact that the grandpa, a GOOD person, blamed himself for it is so sad... some people are just born wrong.
Edit: thanks for the likes and also chill in the comments, no one’s victimizing a murderer also I agree it was wrong to accuse someone of being born wrong, I think it’s more of everyone’s born the same but go down different paths in life and in this lifetime she chose the wrong one
I mean you really can’t label him a good/bad person based on one interview. You don’t know him. Also I think it’s a harmful mindset to say people are just born wrong. That is almost never the case. A lot of people with antisocial behavior are victims of abuse. And to write people off as just being “innately evil” or whatever makes it so we can ignore issues of mental health thinking that there’s no way to help people like this. More than likely this woman was a victim of abuse. The fact that her parents tossed her off to her grandparent screams neglect to me. Even if she just was born with antisocial behaviors with no abuse, this does not mean that people can’t be helped with therapy. In South Korea especially discussion of mental health is taboo and ignored. Not going to lie, if she had the proper support and access to therapy, this might have been prevented. :/
@@Ash-zm6rx EXACTLY. Thank you.
@@Ash-zm6rx not you defending a killer and victimising her 💀
@@Ash-zm6rx dude u are defending a killer that killed a random woman out of curiosity. Do u hear yourself rn?
@@sadcat9092That not defending a killer. That's explaining how this mindset creates killer.
Stephanie coming through with the most insane video titles ever.. YOU GO GIRL!
i feel bad for the taxi driver.. how traumatising looking back and realising what type of monster they have encountered 😢
I agree with you, I tend to easily think all people are reasonable and of good nature. So I need to watch this kind of content here and there to remind me I need to be alert and help me realize what some people are capable of doing. For me, it is a call back to the cruel side of reality!
I’ve never heard of the term hikikomori but I can relate. After highschool It’s like all progression stopped for me. I didn’t leave my room, didn’t socialize, go out, look into getting a job, or looked into any other options. I just stopped existing. Luckily I had a close friend. Basically family at this point. After a year of this, she had enough and dragged my ass back into living. Now I have a job, I’m in more contact with friends, and hang out with my family. It was pretty scary. It felt like I was in some timeless bubble, and outside of it time speed by
Might join a gym. Just to have something to do on my days off. Being kept active has improve my state.
Totally, she didn't kill because of True Crime, she was into TC due to her violent/psychopatic tendencies, like other serial killers/murderers were interested in other killers, violent books/movies or hobbies like hunting or torturing animals before their first kill. Anyways, thanks to the taxi driver she was stopped before she commited another crime. I hope he can restore his life and that these apps stop working like this, they are clearly too dangerous. Poor Hana 😞
The fact this crime is so recent, makes my skin almost crawl.
Love your channel, I've been binging you for almost a week now.
My sister introduced my Dad and I to your content and we are both hooked, you help him get through ridiculous construction hours and I can’t thank you enough!
'true fan' people are sick think its a posetive thing to you all the time..its like porn to much to long leaves traces...one dont need to put one self in that mental state what a waste of speace she were born...
I feel so much for the victim and her family 💔 that poor girl, she had a wonderful future ahead of her. I'm sorry for the taxi driver and the grandpa as well. So many people traumatized by an idiot.
This case was insane and you did an excellent job presenting it.
And yes, "true crime made her do it" is just the modern "video games made him do it" blame game because societies don't want to admit when they fail people.
this is the first video i'm seeing of yours, the intro is so cool!! :3