I will be stepping into my 30s next year, and I'm NOT playing about me anymore. I know what I want and deserve and I'm not accepting anything less! I'm celebrating me! I want to be surrounded by positive, successful and motivating people. No negativity! I write my goals down too💪🏾keeps me motivated and pushes me to accomplish my goals.
at this age im just wingin it😅. No matter how old we get no body will ever have this life figured out, just do what makes you happy and get the bills paid. There's too much pressure on us to hustle and "succeed" there's no one to impress but ourselves ❤
I’m 37 I have my own business 3 years been celibate for 3 years but I am also healing from something that was real ugly for me 2020 I am proud of me for so many reasons 1 never been to jail & I don’t have kids Sometimes I feel the the things I want in life isn’t obtainable I want to be successful & married I’m doing the things I need to do to succeed but I don’t go outside sis lol I definitely pray a lot more than I ever have I got baptized and i take my walk of faith serious I needed to hear this thank you for this Much love
I’m 36. And I definitely was doing the age thing, no kids, not married. Thank you, this video is so helpful. Family members I have are so toxic. I’m moving to a whole new state in a month to get away. Just me and my dog….❤
*also most people don't figure themselves out until they hit 30* . They did studies on this ... your teens are your teens...you 20s are your "jumped off the porch" era. But them 30s are definitely critical!
My 30s been decent so far. I'm in my early 30s. Started my LLC and started working on my career. Like everyday. BUT I do remember being in my 20s , just day dreaming. We ain't got time for that when you reach 30. It's time to actually start doing what you day dreaming about.
Thank you sis for this I needed this and its always needed. I got so much respect for u shinning light for melanated women and community and to the world
Yeah I need to hear this video. I am pushing 30 and am jobless and don’t know what I want to do with my life. I just got out of a depressive state and am working on myself trying to workout everyday and apply for jobs and improve my mood. Its hard. My friendship circle is pretty small but mighty - when they show up its quality. I thank God everyday for both of them. I dont get to see them everyday sadly. I journal too! I pray! But I need to be better about writing down goals and setting visions. My therapist says to set smart goals. Specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, time bound goals. Thats good! I gotta figure out whats gonna motivate me- I do know no one is gonna motivate me at the end of the day. Thank you for this video I am looking forward to the part 2 !!!
You're amazing, friends! Baby, I didn't know what career and what I wanted in life at the age of 30............ I'm 41 yrs. young now in a thriving career, and positive vibez are only allowed in my circles. I love feeding positivity back into people. Life be Ĺifen, friends. There will never l be a perfect time, so make this time Now perfection ! Love ❤ yall ❤
Some people just be stuck in negative mode and believe its the mood...You is 💯 percent right on everything, the people who need this the most shade the people who tell it to em!!!...Its mostly jealousy hate and becoming someone else besides themselves...Scared of acceptance because they so busy accepting everyone else and giving everyone else the green light... They think they be on go and really don't be, lol...I had to teach myself almost everything am i mad at it "Nope" im actually at peace Nice subject because no matter the day or moments someone need to wake up and hear this to take in so they can take it along with them 💯
I will be stepping into my 30s next year, and I'm NOT playing about me anymore. I know what I want and deserve and I'm not accepting anything less! I'm celebrating me! I want to be surrounded by positive, successful and motivating people. No negativity! I write my goals down too💪🏾keeps me motivated and pushes me to accomplish my goals.
I love it I am not playing about me anymore….that needs to be on a tshirt
30s is a critical period, because it's a time to start putting stuff into motion period. It's definitely a "don't talk about it, be about it" period.
Big facts
at this age im just wingin it😅. No matter how old we get no body will ever have this life figured out, just do what makes you happy and get the bills paid. There's too much pressure on us to hustle and "succeed" there's no one to impress but ourselves ❤
I feel like people look at social media or see what that person has and feel like they need that too and makes people feel like they life is not it……
Amen.
@tempesttnikole absolutely. It's just not normal and it's making ppl unhappy 😕
I’m 37 I have my own business 3 years been celibate for 3 years but I am also healing from something that was real ugly for me 2020
I am proud of me for so many reasons 1 never been to jail & I don’t have kids
Sometimes I feel the the things I want in life isn’t obtainable
I want to be successful & married
I’m doing the things I need to do to succeed but I don’t go outside sis lol
I definitely pray a lot more than I ever have
I got baptized and i take my walk of faith serious
I needed to hear this thank you for this
Much love
Awe you’re welcome hun I’m glad you are taking the time to heal for self. You are doing an amazing job babes
@tempesttnikole thank you it’s always good to hear that from a woman like u real talk
I’m 36. And I definitely was doing the age thing, no kids, not married. Thank you, this video is so helpful. Family members I have are so toxic. I’m moving to a whole new state in a month to get away. Just me and my dog….❤
Starting is over will be your break through 🤗
*also most people don't figure themselves out until they hit 30* . They did studies on this ... your teens are your teens...you 20s are your "jumped off the porch" era. But them 30s are definitely critical!
I like how this was worded
My 30s been decent so far. I'm in my early 30s. Started my LLC and started working on my career. Like everyday. BUT I do remember being in my 20s , just day dreaming. We ain't got time for that when you reach 30. It's time to actually start doing what you day dreaming about.
Agreed
Thank you sis for this I needed this and its always needed. I got so much respect for u shinning light for melanated women and community and to the world
Yeah I need to hear this video. I am pushing 30 and am jobless and don’t know what I want to do with my life. I just got out of a depressive state and am working on myself trying to workout everyday and apply for jobs and improve my mood. Its hard. My friendship circle is pretty small but mighty - when they show up its quality. I thank God everyday for both of them. I dont get to see them everyday sadly. I journal too! I pray! But I need to be better about writing down goals and setting visions. My therapist says to set smart goals. Specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, time bound goals. Thats good! I gotta figure out whats gonna motivate me- I do know no one is gonna motivate me at the end of the day. Thank you for this video I am looking forward to the part 2 !!!
Yasssssss I love to hear this, please do not give up on yourself babes everything is going to work out in your favor
I needed to hear this. I will be 30 in a few weeks. I'm not where i want to be, but I'm making major changes in life
You got this….and just remember consistency is key
You're amazing, friends! Baby, I didn't know what career and what I wanted in life at the age of 30............ I'm 41 yrs. young now in a thriving career, and positive vibez are only allowed in my circles. I love feeding positivity back into people. Life be Ĺifen, friends. There will never l be a perfect time, so make this time Now perfection ! Love ❤ yall ❤
Love it
Some people just be stuck in negative mode and believe its the mood...You is 💯 percent right on everything, the people who need this the most shade the people who tell it to em!!!...Its mostly jealousy hate and becoming someone else besides themselves...Scared of acceptance because they so busy accepting everyone else and giving everyone else the green light... They think they be on go and really don't be, lol...I had to teach myself almost everything am i mad at it "Nope" im actually at peace
Nice subject because no matter the day or moments someone need to wake up and hear this to take in so they can take it along with them 💯
Motivation & God 1st 🤞🙏💪
I’m not in my 30s yet, but I’m definitely taking notes. I love the hair btw. The color looks nice on you 💜
Awe thank you
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Thank you. ❤ you never know who you’re touching helping and changing for the better! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯💯💯🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾