I am a 33 year old virgin too. 34 in December. I don't call myself incel because i don't really care anymore, i know it will never happen so why bother obsessing over it
@@justwork10hadaytheory96 I've got no money for that, my monthly salary is not even 300 dollars. Everything I earn goes on food and bills and debts. I am barely surviving as it is, sex is a luxury I can't afford.
@@mouski4731 my advice would be. If you know you will never have sex, if that is a certainty and there is nothing you can do about it, than just forgot it, don't even think about it, find something else to occupy your mind. If you obsess over your lack of sex, if it's constantly on your mind, it can drive you to depression and even suicide. So that's my advice, if you can't do anything, your life will be easier if you don't think about it.
the woman you lost your virginity to, if i remember correctly, she was the one who reached out to you first? she was the one who contacted you first? because women normally don't do that unfortuneately, thats often a major argument or reason as to why most people agree that women can access sex a lot more easily than men can, is because women are normally the ones that get pursued and hit on, it has always been and always will be for a role reversal like that to occur
Hi king of aspies i would really appreciate if you took the time to read this and give me your input on what i should or shouldn't do : a girl has been crazy in love with me for 6 years but i am not , i think it will be the only opportunity in my life to be with a woman and have sex , should i settle and force myself to try to be her boyfriend when i am not attracted by her and hate the way she is and acts (She's insane and has an attitude) ? I am an introvert,love my alone time and the simple thought of having obligations gives me anxiety, however i recognize that a woman should at some point be a part of my life. Thanks for reading
It's up to you, I don't have enough information about you or the girl. You are still young, it's possible that you could have other opportunities in the future. If you absolutely cannot stand her and don't want to be her boyfriend, do you think that you could want to at least have sex with her to gain some experience?
@@TheKingofAspies Merci pour ta réponse . Je vais parler en francais parce que je viens de voir que tu étais Québecois et je suis francais moi-même. En effet je n'ai que 19 ans et je lui ai déjà proposé un plan cul ( friends with benefits ) mais elle a dit non et qu'elle voulait une vraie histoire d'amour. De mon côté en me connaissant je suis persuadé qu'aucune fille de voudra de moi hormis elle. Je suis introverti et ma façon d'être est généralement incompatible avec la gente féminine car je suis contre le féminisme et certains diraient même machiste. Elle le sait et cela ne la dérange pas elle m'a même dit que mon machisme l'attirait. J'ai essayé d'apprendre à la connaitre lors d'un date il y a 3 mois mais elle est tout simplement insupportable malpolie et méchante, je n'apprécie pas sa présence. je ne me languissais que d'une chose : revenir chez moi. En sachant cela que dois-je faire ? Je voudrais l'avoir en tant que fwb mais elle ne veut pas et je n'arrive pas à la supporter. En sachant que ma façon d'être ne pourra jamais me permettre d'avoir une copine j'en suis sur et certain. Merci d'avoir pris du temps pour lire
@@syntaxside i was in the same class as her i asked her out but quickly realized she was crazy and i cut her off, she's been in love and hitting me up every 3 months ever since she even pulled up to my house without me giving her my adress
@@mouski4731 is she hot? If yes then go for it be in a casual relationship 💏 and if she don't agree for casual say her it's serious relationship and then make some things happen which can lead to breakup and if she's not hot then why to go for her find some hot chicks
33 year old virgin here. I had my incel period when I was in my late 20's. Today I don't really care that much, maybe because my sex drive has gone so much down. I would be highly uncomfortable talking about it though.
@@TheKingofAspies you're an outlier. you couldn't even get accepted to the main incel forums because you do not fit the most common definition of an incel
Yes I think that a woman can be an incel in different ways but I think that it's pretty rare, especially if it's only about sex. It's a lot easier for women to have sex than men if they want to.
I am a 33 year old virgin too. 34 in December. I don't call myself incel because i don't really care anymore, i know it will never happen so why bother obsessing over it
that's crazy how does that happen ?
@@mouski4731 social anxiety and awkwardness, severe stuttering problem, wage slaving for 2 Euro per hour, no car, no friends... The list goes on.
@@nikolapetrovic4814Thanks for your answer what advice would you give to a 19 year old virgin like me ?
@@justwork10hadaytheory96 I've got no money for that, my monthly salary is not even 300 dollars. Everything I earn goes on food and bills and debts. I am barely surviving as it is, sex is a luxury I can't afford.
@@mouski4731 my advice would be. If you know you will never have sex, if that is a certainty and there is nothing you can do about it, than just forgot it, don't even think about it, find something else to occupy your mind. If you obsess over your lack of sex, if it's constantly on your mind, it can drive you to depression and even suicide. So that's my advice, if you can't do anything, your life will be easier if you don't think about it.
Thanks for blessing me with this wonderful sermon
the woman you lost your virginity to, if i remember correctly, she was the one who reached out to you first? she was the one who contacted you first? because women normally don't do that unfortuneately, thats often a major argument or reason as to why most people agree that women can access sex a lot more easily than men can, is because women are normally the ones that get pursued and hit on, it has always been and always will be for a role reversal like that to occur
Yes she contacted me first and I don't expect many women to do that so it's going to be pretty hard for me.
@@TheKingofAspies are you and that women still in any kind of contact with each other?
@@initiatorhater0688 No I am not and I don't know if I will talk to her again.
@@TheKingofAspies how do you feel your self-esteem is now since losing your virginity to that woman?
@@TheKingofAspies Ok now im curious.. What happened? I went here randomly, i'm no virgin just curious
Hi king of aspies i would really appreciate if you took the time to read this and give me your input on what i should or shouldn't do :
a girl has been crazy in love with me for 6 years but i am not , i think it will be the only opportunity in my life to be with a woman and have sex , should i settle and force myself to try to be her boyfriend when i am not attracted by her and hate the way she is and acts (She's insane and has an attitude) ?
I am an introvert,love my alone time and the simple thought of having obligations gives me anxiety, however i recognize that a woman should at some point be a part of my life.
Thanks for reading
It's up to you, I don't have enough information about you or the girl. You are still young, it's possible that you could have other opportunities in the future. If you absolutely cannot stand her and don't want to be her boyfriend, do you think that you could want to at least have sex with her to gain some experience?
@@TheKingofAspies
Merci pour ta réponse .
Je vais parler en francais parce que je viens de voir que tu étais Québecois et je suis francais moi-même.
En effet je n'ai que 19 ans et je lui ai déjà proposé un plan cul ( friends with benefits ) mais elle a dit non et qu'elle voulait une vraie histoire d'amour.
De mon côté en me connaissant je suis persuadé qu'aucune fille de voudra de moi hormis elle. Je suis introverti et ma façon d'être est généralement incompatible avec la gente féminine car je suis contre le féminisme et certains diraient même machiste.
Elle le sait et cela ne la dérange pas elle m'a même dit que mon machisme l'attirait.
J'ai essayé d'apprendre à la connaitre lors d'un date il y a 3 mois mais elle est tout simplement insupportable malpolie et méchante, je n'apprécie pas sa présence. je ne me languissais que d'une chose : revenir chez moi.
En sachant cela que dois-je faire ?
Je voudrais l'avoir en tant que fwb mais elle ne veut pas et je n'arrive pas à la supporter.
En sachant que ma façon d'être ne pourra jamais me permettre d'avoir une copine j'en suis sur et certain.
Merci d'avoir pris du temps pour lire
@@mouski4731 wait you said you are only 19 yrs that means she is in love 💏 with you from when you were only 13 but how?
@@syntaxside i was in the same class as her i asked her out but quickly realized she was crazy and i cut her off, she's been in love and hitting me up every 3 months ever since she even pulled up to my house without me giving her my adress
@@mouski4731 is she hot? If yes then go for it be in a casual relationship 💏 and if she don't agree for casual say her it's serious relationship and then make some things happen which can lead to breakup and if she's not hot then why to go for her find some hot chicks
33 year old virgin here. I had my incel period when I was in my late 20's. Today I don't really care that much, maybe because my sex drive has gone so much down. I would be highly uncomfortable talking about it though.
make video about it bro. you might become lucky as him.
You’re so cute!!! 🤍🤍🤍 handsome !!! 🥺
thank you
@@TheKingofAspies I'm 29 and never had a gf could be worse u could have a miniature version of yourself running about and 28 years of jail time 2 do
unfortunately if someone identifies as an incel they are already too far gone and will already lean towards extremist views
I already called myself an incel and I didn't lean towards extremist views.
No, that's total BS and you know it. Being Incel is just something that happens to a lot of men, expecially now in this feminist society.
@@TheKingofAspies you're an outlier. you couldn't even get accepted to the main incel forums because you do not fit the most common definition of an incel
@@johnmilius3031 there we go, blaming women for the problems in society. you are 100% an incel
@@johnmilius3031 Feminist Society? From the looks of it we are still living in a patriarchal society. Patriarchy is the culprit !
I know it’s common for male incels to think it can’t happen to women.
I’m not an incel but I’m just curious: do you think a woman can be an incel ?
Yes I think that a woman can be an incel in different ways but I think that it's pretty rare, especially if it's only about sex. It's a lot easier for women to have sex than men if they want to.
@@TheKingofAspies Thanks for answering. Btw I’m in the same city as you I think. Small
World 🌎🌿
Womam can be incel for chads.