Victim Can't Believe His Internet Girlfriend Is A Romance Scammer!

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  • @okbutexplainthis
    @okbutexplainthis Рік тому +9928

    “She’s beautiful…she’s lightskinneded”. Took me out in the first 10 seconds 💀

    • @BudduredToast
      @BudduredToast Рік тому +1374

      The way I sighed so hard when I heard that

    • @emmasmith2136
      @emmasmith2136 Рік тому +790

      Was looking for this comment, lol. That drove me up the wall.

    • @Ambs540
      @Ambs540 Рік тому +161

      Lol right!

    • @jimschleich8753
      @jimschleich8753 Рік тому +1154

      She's light skinned, he's light wallet!!

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 Рік тому +551

      It's the incorporation of extra syllables for me. It is never NOT funny. 😂

  • @maryperry1773
    @maryperry1773 7 місяців тому +714

    Men fall in love with what they see, women fall in love with what they hear.
    Scammers know this.

    • @dd65093
      @dd65093 5 місяців тому +26

      Nope they also fall in love with what they see. Catfished older women by dudes with very good looking pictures but it’s the scenery and personality huh.

    • @blackluxury5585
      @blackluxury5585 5 місяців тому +30

      Smart women do not fall in love with words after we’ve learned not to

    • @appletaco2812
      @appletaco2812 4 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely

    • @librorum4
      @librorum4 4 місяці тому

      Yeah but you often get older women faling for romance scams with good looking (for their age) older guys - whereas it really is heavy on the young women for men. ​@dd65093

    • @archangel7987
      @archangel7987 4 місяці тому +9

      It’s heartbreaking that scammers use these peoples emotions-loneliness-etc to extract money.

  • @dimmere19
    @dimmere19 Рік тому +2367

    I pray I never become this delusional

    • @briia1882
      @briia1882 Рік тому +33

      me either !

    • @John316610
      @John316610 Рік тому +16

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ponchor.8949
      @ponchor.8949 Рік тому +10

      😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ariesboy41474
      @ariesboy41474 Рік тому

      seriously man...just take me out and shoot me if I am like this in my later years.

    • @rosie6
      @rosie6 Рік тому +16

      Me too. Amen

  • @babettesfeast6347
    @babettesfeast6347 6 місяців тому +145

    The beautiful heartwarming story of a middle aged man falling in love with a male teenage Nigerian scammer.

  • @consumerdebtchitchat
    @consumerdebtchitchat Рік тому +2031

    The one thing all these romance victims have in common, is they fall for people who are clearly visually out of their league. I'm not saying opposites can't attract. But if they're not hanging out with you physically .... That should be a red flag. BIG flag.

    • @kimcham9949
      @kimcham9949 Рік тому +35

      👍🏾 *Should* be.

    • @damongipson-dg8pc
      @damongipson-dg8pc Рік тому +30

      My lil girl attracted to a duck

    • @kimcham9949
      @kimcham9949 Рік тому +8

      @@gerrickhan: I agree.

    • @Andrew-zr1jt
      @Andrew-zr1jt Рік тому

      Very good point there@@gerrickhan

    • @chrischallis4348
      @chrischallis4348 Рік тому +101

      I agree. These people so much older, often overweight and not well groomed think the hot young one is into them? I am so glad I am not that delusional. THey ask for money I would be gone.

  • @SapienSafari
    @SapienSafari Рік тому +1666

    “You can’t send her any more money.”
    “WHY NOT?”
    Bruv 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @afanaobeba7876
      @afanaobeba7876 Рік тому +156

      Dude is an aggressive giver 😂😂😂.

    • @catman3953
      @catman3953 Рік тому +35

      Writing out a check to "her" gives him pleasure. It's like the pleasure you get when writing out a Xmas Wishlist:-)

    • @uuuultra
      @uuuultra Рік тому +43

      He paying for that attention (likely from another dude)

    • @beatndagutta
      @beatndagutta Рік тому +42

      Forest Whitaker’s little brothers got it bad lol he’s definitely getting played like a sucker. It’s some Nigerian dude calling him baby telling him he loves him.😂😂😂 send me more money baby. I love you.😂😂

    • @yonismo4098
      @yonismo4098 Рік тому +1

      😂

  • @nicylee
    @nicylee Рік тому +2859

    “She’s beautiful. She’s light-skinnded [sic], long hair…” Meanwhile there’s a dark-skinned man with short hair finessing you SMH

  • @fwd105
    @fwd105 Рік тому +818

    "You can't send her money".... WHY NOT!! some people deserve to get scammed

    • @roselanguste4120
      @roselanguste4120 11 місяців тому +22

      Nobody deserves to be scammed, - maybe some people do, but not because you're stupid...

    • @preciouslove1521
      @preciouslove1521 11 місяців тому +37

      If he’s stupid enough to send him more!

    • @Starscream2588
      @Starscream2588 11 місяців тому +19

      @@preciouslove1521 Exactly " he" I believe 100% it is a guy working that female profile behind her.

    • @MarciaHooley-fr7qj
      @MarciaHooley-fr7qj 10 місяців тому +10

      Some people obviously like it.

    • @fwd105
      @fwd105 10 місяців тому

      @roselanguste4120 you deserve it if you choose to ignore the evidence and continue to be stupid.

  • @sweetc1087
    @sweetc1087 8 місяців тому +971

    I need a Mike...never met, never talked...sending $ everyday without asking...what a win win😂😂😂😂

    • @HaramXL
      @HaramXL 8 місяців тому +56

      We all need a Uncle Mike 😅

    • @bribri0786
      @bribri0786 8 місяців тому +13

      Lmao same

    • @naturalbeauty4734
      @naturalbeauty4734 7 місяців тому +43

      Daddy Mike..I'll talk sweet to you all day long!! 😂🤣🏧

    • @daniellereid7576
      @daniellereid7576 7 місяців тому +14

      😂😂😂Ryte need more men like him

    • @Ohhhwehere
      @Ohhhwehere 7 місяців тому +8

      same😂😂

  • @InohiHsohba
    @InohiHsohba Рік тому +1713

    3 seconds in and I know EVERYTHING about this mans mindset “She’s beautiful…. She’s lightskinded” 😂😂

    • @theartistcherrypi6454
      @theartistcherrypi6454 Рік тому +241

      He got exactly what his feeble mind deserves

    • @Pugetwitch
      @Pugetwitch Рік тому +115

      out here looking like a swap meet Scarface lol he needs to go on and find somebody his own age

    • @Pugetwitch
      @Pugetwitch Рік тому +93

      ​@@theartistcherrypi6454thank you colorism is ugly, my children are light skin and my daughter knows to uplift the dark skin beauty that she sees around her, she even broke off one little boy who was darker skin than her for making fun of another little black girls hair and my daughter slammed him to the ground lol but that's because he's bold and it didn't fade him physically but he sure shut the hell up

    • @Originalman144
      @Originalman144 Рік тому +1

      Yep. A feeble minded woman worshipper.

    • @Cutestjpg
      @Cutestjpg Рік тому +144

      He was cheating, colorist and lacked accountability. Ngl he deserves it.

  • @Out_on_a_Limb_Life
    @Out_on_a_Limb_Life 5 місяців тому +137

    "Mike's in transportation."
    (He's an Uber driver.)
    😂😂🤣

  • @Mister_Jimmy
    @Mister_Jimmy Рік тому +394

    “I’m a kind person, and the hotter the girl looks, the more kind I become”.

    • @KatrinaMartinezStoutmire
      @KatrinaMartinezStoutmire 11 місяців тому +21

      😩😩😩😩

    • @ivanaandric5703
      @ivanaandric5703 11 місяців тому +3

      100% 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I hate when they start to brag how good they are, how kind, smart, intellligent, degrees... But not a word about common sence, egoisam, delusional disorder, narcissisam... and how THEY are the "victims". Yea, of your own mental "healt" and an over inflated ego..

    • @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions
      @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions 5 місяців тому +5

      And the more he will take._

    • @Nevermind1972
      @Nevermind1972 4 місяці тому +19

      Dirty old man

    • @sportsinthebay1603
      @sportsinthebay1603 3 місяці тому +3

      💀

  • @eddypaul8959
    @eddypaul8959 Рік тому +1150

    Women like that dont want grandads for boyfriends. Wake up guys!

    • @MsSilverTulip
      @MsSilverTulip Рік тому +88

      Yeah the real woman in the photos is married to a 30 year old.

    • @oleanderlove6113
      @oleanderlove6113 Рік тому +107

      They never do. They really truly think these women love them for them 😩 tragic comedy

    • @stephendacey8761
      @stephendacey8761 Рік тому +7

      I have no idea how old he is. She's obviously younger, but I have no idea how much younger. Maybe, 10 years.

    • @ileanamuntean7338
      @ileanamuntean7338 Рік тому +17

      Or granddads with very little money like him, he'll be some super rich guy if he is over 40.

    • @chance7312
      @chance7312 Рік тому +26

      Unless they have money

  • @mrgadget1485
    @mrgadget1485 Рік тому +750

    "We've been together for two years".
    You haven't been together one second!

  • @Carazon15
    @Carazon15 Місяць тому +344

    *Universal dispute* Very satisfying to see the good deeds you are doing
    I was thinking that it may be hard for some people to accept your help as some of what you to to help them is the same as the scammer did to steal from them.
    Keep up the fantastic work, I actually had a tear in my eye at the end, seeing my lost money been recover back to my account, You're the best man. Keep doing what you're doing sooner or later they're gonna stop scamming for good.

  • @TurboV8boi
    @TurboV8boi Рік тому +1510

    WEIRD! Why would someone that works in the military need to be supported? She literally has a job that comes with housing and everything else.

    • @chosenone5536
      @chosenone5536 Рік тому

      Because he’s dumb.

    • @monkeywrenchmoment7208
      @monkeywrenchmoment7208 Рік тому +136

      She should also have Health and vision and dental insurance….

    • @2thelimit
      @2thelimit Рік тому +109

      Plus they make BANK while on deployment.

    • @Sinsteel
      @Sinsteel Рік тому +107

      I saw one where the dude who claimed he was fighting in Syria for the US Army said he lost his gun in battle and if his (American) online gf/fish didn't send him money he'd have to go into battle without a weapon. Later she paid for his medical care at a hospital after he was shot in battle.

    • @CoolGobyFish
      @CoolGobyFish Рік тому +16

      @@JuliasHairJourney google will show you videos of US soldiers in Syria helping "moderate terrorists". look it up.

  • @Ms.Delphine1204
    @Ms.Delphine1204 Рік тому +1246

    This man is so proud of how much money he’s spent getting scammed 😂😂🤣 His delusion is palpable.

    • @AwarenessArc
      @AwarenessArc Рік тому +32

      He is doubling down on his misery this is not funny... have some compassion.

    • @jerrymylove1754
      @jerrymylove1754 Рік тому +29

      He’s probably got some serious mental health problems. The kind that he hides well. Tormented every day by his demons. Sad stuff.

    • @goodworks1852
      @goodworks1852 Рік тому +7

      Just like ah trick hahaha

    • @tommieluckett4596
      @tommieluckett4596 Рік тому

      Yeah he stupid af

    • @johnmanni227
      @johnmanni227 Рік тому +4

      @@AwarenessArc YOthis same shit was done to me by a much smarter scammer who used my kindness, but i tgink its funny now 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

  • @djs2182
    @djs2182 Рік тому +777

    “I’m sending way too much to let $200 affect anything”
    The only thing worse than sending a scammer 30,000 is sending 30,200. Each dollar is a waste my dude

    • @newjersey1029
      @newjersey1029 Рік тому +22

      such a shame, Mike need a wake call.

    • @Wildcat221
      @Wildcat221 Рік тому +50

      When he has to work till he’s 95, maybe he will understand then

    • @jeffdumpster1470
      @jeffdumpster1470 Рік тому

      I think he's mentally challenged

    • @majorronaldmandell7835
      @majorronaldmandell7835 Рік тому +6

      Well said! I wanted to make the same point but I could think of the words.

    • @djs2182
      @djs2182 Рік тому +28

      Yeah poor guy was stuck in the sunk-cost fallacy

  • @jennifervesques6327
    @jennifervesques6327 Місяць тому +166

    This scams a becoming more sophisticated, do not consider yourself stupid as i really admire your courage to speak out, this could literally happen to anyone this is why we need more awareness together online with the much help from Universal dispute , i was also victimized recently, i am one of the many you have brought out of bottom *UNIVERSAL DISPUTE !*

    • @changeyourenergy708
      @changeyourenergy708 10 днів тому +4

      It couldn't happen to anyone. Only loney, thirsty people fall for that bs. Ain't no way imma fall for an online meet without meeting in person. And then, you gotta get up early to try and get over on me. Dude is a suckable. Look at his 10 year relationship where he's now roommates with that woman. Ain't no way. She gotta go...or I am

    • @EricRobbins8987
      @EricRobbins8987 8 днів тому

      Happen to anyone? Are you kidding me? Every person in every video is a complete idiot. The people they’re talking to are always much younger,completely out of their league, and always need money. They will keep sending money even after not seeing the person in real life or at least over FaceTime. Speak for yourself most people wouldnt fall for this this guy is a moron.

  • @sherylmccormick
    @sherylmccormick Рік тому +378

    I'm glad Mike found out that "Mary" was a scammer before he gave "her" half of his settlement money. However, he needs to be aware that the scammers are going to try with other profiles knowing he is coming into money fairly soon.

    • @karmagal1796
      @karmagal1796 Рік тому +32

      I don’t know that he cares. Sending money EVERYDAY is a real issue. He will pay for attention again I fear. Can’t tell people who choose not to hear!

    • @Hexighost
      @Hexighost Рік тому +19

      @@karmagal1796 its an addiction like a gambler; they did a study on gambler brains and scam volunteer brains; the same parts light up when the gambler gets a feature and these scammers call these derps honey, love, i'm coming to see you

    • @HandbagDiva
      @HandbagDiva Рік тому +43

      That “ settlement “ money is another scam he’s been roped into. Probably a bitcoin investment scam!

    • @AFAskygoddess
      @AFAskygoddess Рік тому

      Mike's on the Nigerian scammers sucker list. They are going to keep targeting him with different "women" until he's so broke, he'll be living in a cardboard box in an alley.
      I don't think he learned a thing. Narcissists never do.

    • @karmagal1796
      @karmagal1796 Рік тому +2

      @@Hexighost makes perfect sense! They’ve turned on, stolen from, abandoned, etc. the REAL people in their lives. Devoted Loved ones…Including children!
      Hard to imagine!

  • @Kinmy0921
    @Kinmy0921 Рік тому +290

    I'm so glad that Sherry, the real person, was willing to do a video call with him. That was nice of her.

    • @katywild4777
      @katywild4777 Рік тому +34

      Right? Ladies, reverse image your profile pics from your socials. I found 8 fake accounts using one of my photos and 11 using another. I found out bec I got an angry message on fb that I owed some guy money. I felt so bad for him but he knows now. Only thing was, he actually tried to convince me to “send him his money back”- that I never received. 🙄. Some ppl are a brick wall.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Рік тому +11

      ​@@katywild4777Just scrub it all before it's too late. Voice theft is next.

    • @Earthbound369
      @Earthbound369 Рік тому +4

      ​@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      Yeah voice fakes are next.
      Don't leave a voicemail message if can possibly avoid it.

    • @SantinoWilliams3321
      @SantinoWilliams3321 Рік тому +1

      Very nice of her yes indeed and it would of been ever nicer if she said something about returning his money which she didn't sooooo!! so much for how nice she is.

    • @Kinmy0921
      @Kinmy0921 Рік тому +20

      @@SantinoWilliams3321 why would she return money she NEVER received?? The SCAMMER who was using this woman's photo got the money not her😳I mean, did you actually watch the whole video?

  • @bayareacutiepie
    @bayareacutiepie Місяць тому +19

    "she's beautiful, light "skinneded" long hair".... The self hate writes the jokes omg 😭

  • @zOYAlove215
    @zOYAlove215 Рік тому +370

    🤡 how you cheat on your girl with someone you've never met but then call HER a narcissist? delusion at it's finest.

    • @inactiveaccount6106
      @inactiveaccount6106 Рік тому +21

      You hit the nail on the head with that one!

    • @ThouArtOfWar0724
      @ThouArtOfWar0724 Рік тому

      He wasn't cheating pay attention. You weirdos love to cast baseless aspersions.

    • @ImThePrizeXY
      @ImThePrizeXY Рік тому

      All men cheat

    • @justmejm
      @justmejm Рік тому +2

      It's not nice to call names to people think about when people called you names Why Try to shame them with that.... he obviously needs work on them self and it seems from you calling him a clown so do you but his fantasy with maybe some of us have at times so with him he needs to understand what red flags are what his part was in this to play and how really that was too good to be true it didn't make sense well of course it made sense to him but really was a scammer you have to watch out for those kind of things people tend to be naive because they don't have healthy boundaries for themselves or others

    • @Bucephalus84
      @Bucephalus84 Рік тому +4

      Heartless. He stated they were broke up but he was letting her live there until she had her stuff together . Man seems like a solid good man who just wants a woman to cherish. Glad he found out while he wasn't independently wealthy.

  • @lenaccarlsson
    @lenaccarlsson Рік тому +368

    Please don't EVER tell people you don't know your financial status. And absolutely don't tell them you're coming into money. Don't even tell your friends.

    • @Sashazur
      @Sashazur Рік тому +6

      I get the last part, but what’s wrong with telling someone you don’t know what your financial status is? Unless they see other evidence you are rich, it seems harmless and they’ll just think you’re clueless.

    • @germyw
      @germyw Рік тому +31

      @@SashazurPeople are willing to do unexpected things for large amounts of money. You shouldn’t even tell most of your family, if your windfall is large enough.

    • @jessnalulila5552
      @jessnalulila5552 Рік тому +15

      @@Sashazur people would commit serious crimes to get your money

    • @lisaagyemangduah7336
      @lisaagyemangduah7336 Рік тому +6

      @@Sashazur none of their business

    • @RoIIingStoned
      @RoIIingStoned Рік тому +15

      I don't even tell myself!

  • @user-ct8my8rv9c
    @user-ct8my8rv9c Рік тому +904

    The common denominator with all these people is the inability to ask themselves truthfully why a woman 20 years younger who could be a model would be into them

    • @kimcham9949
      @kimcham9949 Рік тому +105

      That is just how *strong* some men's egos are... And, how absent their intelligence is. I'm getting whiplash over here just SMDH!!!

    • @he7is7at7hand
      @he7is7at7hand Рік тому

      Right, but it's even more ridiculous when an older woman is contacted by a man that's 25 years younger than her who is handsome and could get any woman around, why would he want to be within old lady? That is not going to happen. Looking back I know I've had many of these scammers contact me. One of their lines is, age is just a number. They say that when I tell them that I have a child their age.😂 no. Age is not just a number it's actual real thing. That should be the first red flag.
      The second red flag is when they start acting like they're so attracted to you when they don't even know you. You haven't had enough conversation to even know what the other person is it all about and then they start saying, you're so wonderful. That's ridiculous.

    • @whodoesntluvpapas
      @whodoesntluvpapas Рік тому +55

      also, if he is anticipating all this money then he should just look into sugar baby websites. At least with that there is less delusion: it's all up front, it's all out there. He would know that they just want money. Plus (this is the part that would make the most sense to me) he could actually SEE the person he is paying for companionship.

    • @nata3467
      @nata3467 Рік тому +63

      Those Nigerian men really are charmers

    • @Geewhizzy
      @Geewhizzy Рік тому +9

      If they do answer that question I think they would all fall into dépression

  • @GideonOscar-r5h
    @GideonOscar-r5h Місяць тому +228

    I'm working with them on something major right now, and I just wanted to tell you that you're a godsend to all the fraud victims out there, and that you're the hammer that will finally bring those con artists to justice. Internet's *Universaldispute* thanks for keeping up the war against the common folk.

    • @QuincyJacobs-i8h
      @QuincyJacobs-i8h Місяць тому +22

      Bet you this is an 18 year old boy in Pakistan or Nigeria

    • @liz3424
      @liz3424 Місяць тому

      ​@@QuincyJacobs-i8hyep, if I were the betting type, and I had a fortune to bet, I bet this is perhaps more than one person. I've heard they work in packs. Sometimes a whole family will all work together and most of these Internet predators are from Lagos Nigeria.

  • @Plxt0-bb
    @Plxt0-bb Рік тому +125

    “She accused me of cheating and was abusive” ….. as he’s cheating on her

    • @carolm.4623
      @carolm.4623 Рік тому +6

      This!!! My point exactly!

    • @tasmeenbaker9912
      @tasmeenbaker9912 Рік тому +17

      And her being "Abusive" was just her getting fed up with his shit

    • @carolm.4623
      @carolm.4623 Рік тому +14

      @@tasmeenbaker9912 she probably set boundaries and said I’m not tolerating cheating, step up! and he didn’t like that so he called it abusive.

    • @eclipsez0r
      @eclipsez0r 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@tasmeenbaker9912Didn't she hit him

    • @FreedomofSpeech865
      @FreedomofSpeech865 Місяць тому +4

      @@eclipsez0rwe have no idea what he did, that part is silent

  • @BardhokNdoji
    @BardhokNdoji Рік тому +244

    People like him are the "Jackpot" the scammers are always praying to win.

  • @Jpl-z7p
    @Jpl-z7p Рік тому +1907

    How do these men think they have a chance with these women in the first place? It’s totally delusional.

    • @kimcham9949
      @kimcham9949 Рік тому +61

      👍🏾 *TOTALLY* !!!

    • @nancymathew4253
      @nancymathew4253 Рік тому +41

      I agree . I just shake my head .😞

    • @syon600
      @syon600 Рік тому +29

      Online disinhibition effect?

    • @Mmtm1994
      @Mmtm1994 Рік тому +91

      It goes both ways from what I've seen. Women are falling for handsome scammers.

    • @TonyJayy
      @TonyJayy Рік тому +81

      ​@@Mmtm1994no it isn't about gender it is about someone younger and attractive falling for someone old and not so attractive or no longer attractive. Literally Instagram models most of the time half their age.

  • @deenad3562
    @deenad3562 6 місяців тому +50

    *My guy is walking around looking like his name is Forrest 'Orlando Brown' Whittaker, and he thinks he's pulling 10s.* 😩

    • @yadamorris
      @yadamorris 5 місяців тому +4

      I caught that's 😂😂😂😂

    • @robertjohnson6663
      @robertjohnson6663 4 місяці тому

      For real 😂😂😂

    • @changeyourenergy708
      @changeyourenergy708 10 днів тому

      ...well, honestly...she's not a 10. Maybe a 5. She's average asl.

  • @its_eli
    @its_eli Рік тому +1608

    After going on a binge watch of your vids, I've concluded:
    Loneliness and desperation is a catastrophic combination.

    • @carlahaiduk1878
      @carlahaiduk1878 Рік тому +120

      I bet you if the scammer used the photo of a woman his age, he wouldn't have exchanged more than 5 messages with her. So no, it's not loneliness doing this.

    • @melindak.21
      @melindak.21 Рік тому +113

      You left out EGO & DELUSION!

    • @briantbmoth6472
      @briantbmoth6472 Рік тому +12

      I listened while driving yesterday. These stories are amazing.

    • @catherinerogers8255
      @catherinerogers8255 Рік тому +17

      It can be….I can understand the Loneliness,…not the desperation.

    • @EmperorDionx
      @EmperorDionx Рік тому +20

      Loneliness on its own is deadly

  • @ChrisJobson313
    @ChrisJobson313 Рік тому +263

    I get the feeling he’s gonna get right back online and find a new person to dupe him.

    • @kiaw.9686
      @kiaw.9686 Рік тому +24

      Exactly 😂 That's why I don't feel bad for these types of ppl. They want to live in a realm of delusion instead of facing reality and dealing with it in a healthy manner.

    • @LauraJdogmom
      @LauraJdogmom Рік тому +19

      He will be getting plenty of offers from "recovery" agents, who are likely to be the original scammer.

    • @Jenny010132
      @Jenny010132 Рік тому +9

      Especially now that the scammers know he’s coming into a large sum of money. They’re refining the fake profiles as we speak!

    • @luvrule537
      @luvrule537 Рік тому +7

      Well I’m a real girl that will face time him where do I apply 🤣😛

    • @Sashazur
      @Sashazur Рік тому

      That “settlement” he mentioned is probably another scam, run by the same scammers that have been pretending to be his girlfriend.

  • @dariusx4829
    @dariusx4829 8 місяців тому +150

    Ray Charles, at night, with shades on, in a car with tinted windows, could see this scam from 10 miles away...

  • @ruggiec.ruggleby6511
    @ruggiec.ruggleby6511 Місяць тому +40

    I want to feel sorry for this guy but think of all the love he deprived himself of by not finding it in women who, like him, weren't beautiful, young and light skinned. He set himself to fail.

  • @awindaphilip
    @awindaphilip Рік тому +292

    Why would a girl like this go for an old man like this man.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight Рік тому +20

      Why would anyone?

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Рік тому +11

      Exactly 🎯

    • @kiaw.9686
      @kiaw.9686 Рік тому +31

      It seems like they never ask themselves that lol they just open up their pockets and let the money flow 😂😅😂😅

    • @juliewatson4314
      @juliewatson4314 Рік тому +7

      Not really a woman. More like someone in another country asking

    • @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529
      @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 Рік тому +22

      @@juliewatson4314 It's some Nigerian dude who is laughing all the way to the bank!!!

  • @X_EGY
    @X_EGY 9 місяців тому +312

    He’s so delusional, it’s so saddening

    • @sirpagandetyptoft6793
      @sirpagandetyptoft6793 8 місяців тому +10

      he was also deluding himself when he was saying how trustworthy he was as an uber driving whilst driving with no hands on the steering wheel

    • @Moon_Presence
      @Moon_Presence 6 місяців тому +7

      No it's not saddening.

    • @unknownkingdom
      @unknownkingdom 5 місяців тому +5

      He seems to be a likable person. But beat down and desparate.

    • @Dizinii
      @Dizinii 2 дні тому

      She sold him a fantasy. Thats what hes buying

    • @Dizinii
      @Dizinii 2 дні тому

      He got old n lonely . ..n was willing to be used for cash for a little love n attention

  • @_meags
    @_meags Рік тому +508

    After watching Mike be so deep in denial, I'm starting to wonder if he was the problem in his previous relationship because he sounds like a mess. The fact that the team was telling him not to send money and he's still insisting/asking like he wants to keep sending money just proves that he's just gonna keep doing what he wants to do. What's the point of these people reaching out but not wanting to make changes? Let him keep paying for his "light skinded" girl fantasy smh

    • @skruglinski
      @skruglinski Рік тому +69

      It's him, he. He's the problem, it's him! (My apologies to Taylor Swift)

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 Рік тому +10

      Exactly

    • @Sashazur
      @Sashazur Рік тому +24

      It is odd that so many people in these videos don’t seem to want to take the advice they should know they will get, so why seek it out? (Though I think this guy is less deluded than most). I have to believe that in a lot of cases it’s another way to get attention, same way they are paying to get attention from an imaginary fake girlfriend or boyfriend.

    • @holamad
      @holamad Рік тому +9

      Yes there are always 2 sides of a story

    • @Stormywaters13
      @Stormywaters13 Рік тому +27

      Light skinded 😂😂😂 Facts!!!

  • @DrRinggold
    @DrRinggold 3 місяці тому +12

    He said he’s was basically paying her rent? She’s “deployed” and on a military base. What rent? Why would she even need money every day? Makes NO sense 🙄

  • @susaninika7552
    @susaninika7552 Рік тому +306

    I actually know who the woman in the pictures is, Sherri served with my brother. She's married to a hot guy her own age and they live together with their labradoodle. This has been going on more than 5 years and even Stars & Stripes, the officialUS military publication, wrote about it back in 2019

    • @dovegoddess1100
      @dovegoddess1100 Рік тому +7

      How old is Sherri?

    • @TeddyLovesAxl
      @TeddyLovesAxl Рік тому +35

      I’m a 55 ur old female Navy veteran and have encountered pics of me when I was in the military and my pics are from the 80s! One of my “boyfriends” contacted me on FB and I’m like “who dis?” He said “it’s me Mike!” Im like “Mike who?” He was completely confused. He thought I was joking around . I’m like “I have no idea who you are! It was wild😂 Edit: I’m nowhere near as gorgeous as Sherri though😂❤

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight Рік тому +34

      It's nice to think of someone with a career, a peer-age husband, and a labradoodle. Seems like a lot to ask these days. Good for her!

    • @themudpit621
      @themudpit621 Рік тому +10

      @@JaimeMesChiens Exactly, why silence the ONLY page on the internet that can actually tell the truth? Keep the real profile with the PSA's up. Makes sense to me.

    • @suelawson7273
      @suelawson7273 Рік тому +11

      Must have been so weird to watch this, knowing the person who's pictures are stolen!

  • @carriefawcett9990
    @carriefawcett9990 Рік тому +1463

    He's as spiritual as a bootlace. He went entirely for her looks. Here's a tip folks: choose someone in your league who you meet in real life.

    • @elixier33
      @elixier33 Рік тому +22

      They wasnt even that good looking.

    • @echohunter4199
      @echohunter4199 Рік тому +71

      We all thought the cat same thing, who is he trying to fool? And what chick that looks like that would want to marry a guy in his condition? Yes, chicks often marry for money but he’d need a boatload of cash to reel her in.

    • @No-Name-f8p
      @No-Name-f8p Рік тому +83

      @@elixier33 He used a pic when he was in better shape and younger 🤣

    • @ninamatthews8747
      @ninamatthews8747 Рік тому +64

      @@No-Name-f8pyes, which is also kind of a catfish.

    • @No-Name-f8p
      @No-Name-f8p Рік тому +8

      @@ninamatthews8747 Wow! Well said! 😁

  • @queenmary301
    @queenmary301 Рік тому +1597

    As much as this old dude keeps telling us how wonderful and spiritual he is, he went completely for her looks. If she didnt look the way she does, he wouldnt have given her the time of day. Someone who is his physical equivalent, no matter how wonderful she is, would never get a second look from him.

    • @TinaBanee
      @TinaBanee Рік тому +300

      Right! He is spiritual but lived with a woman for 10 years and never married her. Spiritual but cheated on his partner for a light “skinned” woman.
      He got what he deserved.

    • @deekay1747
      @deekay1747 Рік тому +236

      @@TinaBanee”lightskindded” 🙄 he got exactly what he deserves for being a superficial fool.

    • @lisaagyemangduah7336
      @lisaagyemangduah7336 Рік тому +64

      Yeah light skin fed with long hair

    • @Whateves73
      @Whateves73 Рік тому +164

      Yup. And Catfish pointed out there wasn't even any meaningful conversation from "her". He is paying for the fantasy of a "young hot chick" actually liking him.

    • @Kontroversial84
      @Kontroversial84 Рік тому +65

      ​@@deekay1747This! He swear "lightskindded"😂😂😂

  • @KevinTalbotTV
    @KevinTalbotTV Рік тому +1477

    I really cant understand how these guys fall for it, its mad. Expensive lesson to learn.

    • @JustMe-fo4ev
      @JustMe-fo4ev Рік тому +192

      Because she's light skinded.

    • @DarlasusieLett
      @DarlasusieLett Рік тому +17

      @@JustMe-fo4ev 😂 hee her

    • @latasha195
      @latasha195 Рік тому +12

      @@JustMe-fo4ev 😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @StrifeSoul990
      @StrifeSoul990 Рік тому +94

      Because loneliness is a powerful hurt. These people crave attention and they are willing to give anything to keep the interaction

    • @Random_user_8472
      @Random_user_8472 Рік тому +38

      Those scammers are professionals and well trained by psychologists. People in Africa are not stupid you know.

  • @GanimeadMusic
    @GanimeadMusic 5 місяців тому +19

    "A fool and his money are soon parted" At least in this case it took a couple of years!

  • @RealTalkWithGaryM
    @RealTalkWithGaryM 11 місяців тому +488

    How in the hell can you send someone thousands of dollars over time. And you never seen her physically. That’s crazy. Mental illness is real.

    • @juliefreds4594
      @juliefreds4594 10 місяців тому

      I’m a Victoria’s Secret lingerie model. Will you please send me $5,000?! 😂😂😂

    • @Stealth-flash
      @Stealth-flash 10 місяців тому

      An OLD simp🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @tyrishasmith-grady703
      @tyrishasmith-grady703 9 місяців тому +5

      So true

    • @kaylafree1591
      @kaylafree1591 9 місяців тому +21

      I just want to love him and get my 50 to $200 a day tax free

    • @barbi3fr3sh06
      @barbi3fr3sh06 8 місяців тому +9

      Not mental illness, this is the result of thinking with the wrong head 😅

  • @OneShotww
    @OneShotww 11 місяців тому +177

    Do none of these people ever question why a young, good looking person would be contacting them out of the blue? They are so desperate it's very sad.

    • @durgaharidas5204
      @durgaharidas5204 7 місяців тому +6

      He's spiritual. The universe connected him to his soulmate.

    • @odunlamibukunmi4826
      @odunlamibukunmi4826 6 місяців тому

      😅​@@durgaharidas5204

    • @DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights
      @DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights 6 місяців тому +5

      I’m 35 and if someone in their 20s was contacting me for romance I’d be asking big questions. 😂
      (I’m happily taken but you get the point)
      How do these men think a woman under 30 would want them for anything other than their wallets?

    • @pb4life597
      @pb4life597 5 місяців тому

      @@durgaharidas5204 🤦😆

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 5 місяців тому

      Ikr, whether the victim is a man or a woman, they're never anywhere near the level of attractiveness of the scammer!
      Don't they stop to think for one single second?

  • @RustyGraffitiReviews
    @RustyGraffitiReviews Рік тому +665

    I like how he’s been in denial for over 2 year’s but it only took the girls a little over 2 minutes to find out there was multiple fake profiles of the same chick

    • @LedePat
      @LedePat Рік тому +17

      Exactly

    • @johnfulcher8448
      @johnfulcher8448 Рік тому +24

      This guy is one of the very few that I feel sorry for

    • @RustyGraffitiReviews
      @RustyGraffitiReviews Рік тому +7

      @@johnfulcher8448 go see the one labeled most delusional man. I won’t feel bad for him but probably for his sister 😂

    • @kevinmalone3210
      @kevinmalone3210 Рік тому +8

      Delusions can be a hard to break, if they become rooted in one's mind. These scammers know how to effect a person's emotions

    • @kevinmalone3210
      @kevinmalone3210 Рік тому +6

      ​@@johnfulcher8448I do too because he seems like a good man, who just wants to find someone to share his life with, but instead is getting scammed.

  • @sarahhaybron9894
    @sarahhaybron9894 2 місяці тому +12

    25:36 i’m ACTUALLY laughing rn. he’s saying he’s not texting her, but you can literally see him texting her in the reflection of his glasses😭😭 CLEAR AS DAY!

  • @shulamite33
    @shulamite33 7 місяців тому +133

    One thing I notice with every single one of these scams is that the female victims are so delusional and the male ones are so entitled that they actually believe that these super good looking, famous, well educated and successful people have fallen in love with them. No grounding what so ever...

  • @elainebmack
    @elainebmack Рік тому +278

    Regarding his fixation on light skin. Just because people "want" you because of your color doesn't mean that they see you as a human being with a brain, feelings, a personality, emotions, and more. To be sought after as an object of desire simply because you have light skin is not an assurance of happiness in a relationship. This Black man is pitifully old fashioned in his thinking, but there are many more like him, young and old.

    • @lwscijunkie
      @lwscijunkie Рік тому +12

      Was he "fixated" on light skin or did he mention her skin tone as just part of his description of how she looks? I know skin tone can be a divisive issue, but I'm not sure he was/is "fixated" on this aspect of the fake woman.

    • @nikkilove6283
      @nikkilove6283 Рік тому +48

      @@lwscijunkieHe was fixated enough to mention it, so it clearly matters to him.

    • @EMILY4DAYS
      @EMILY4DAYS Рік тому +41

      ​@@lwscijunkieno, he's firmly planted in his colorism.

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 Рік тому +7

      Yassssssssss

    • @cynthiaholland13
      @cynthiaholland13 Рік тому +35

      ​​@@lwscijunkie he was fixated and really thought that was one of the things that made her beautiful, actually the main thing. It's the first trait he named. That and long, straight hair. In other words, her non-black traits are what he wanted and he's a whole black man. That's sad and self hating.

  • @issofsar
    @issofsar 8 місяців тому +310

    So, your "crazy ex" WAS justified in thinking you were talking to another woman! 🤔

    • @EmyN
      @EmyN 7 місяців тому +46

      Yeah I’m not so sure his ex was as bad as he says, he surely only left when he found someone else, someone “better” 🤔

    • @bethanycordero8181
      @bethanycordero8181 6 місяців тому

      I keep seeing this trend too, these cheating dudes "leaving" the bitching wives for some fake ass people on the Internet. I'm the bitching wife.

    • @brianamichelle9024
      @brianamichelle9024 3 місяці тому +27

      That’s what they do lol. Use women as placeholders until the one they truly want comes along. Generally, that one ends up being their karma. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Camille-sm2ry
      @Camille-sm2ry 3 місяці тому +8

      Technically it isn’t a woman, it’s a man.

    • @FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT
      @FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT 20 днів тому

      ​@@EmyNas per usual

  • @clivesweeting4410
    @clivesweeting4410 5 місяців тому +21

    The delusion is off the scale .. how can this guy believe this is a relationship ?

  • @elw2827
    @elw2827 Рік тому +534

    If he works 12 hours a day, 7 days a week, what could he possibly have left for someone half his age..They are completely delusional.

    • @raizinboyz
      @raizinboyz Рік тому +73

      I know, it's insane. Especially because he's so shallow himself, how could he think someone that young and beautiful would really want to be with a guy his age/looks/etc?????

    • @TaelurAlexis
      @TaelurAlexis Рік тому +26

      Well tbh lol there’s women half his age that could work with a dude that works that hard. It’s not rare or uncommon lol. But yeah he should’ve clued in to the signs much earlier, I still feel bad for him tbh

    • @denastrong800
      @denastrong800 Рік тому +29

      I believe he was using work to escape going home to Janet.

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly Рік тому +33

      He is just like that other guy Martin from a few videos back 🤢. Remember him?? The one living in his ex wife’s basement or patio 😹??

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly Рік тому +49

      I hope this guy understands that he was just talking to a bunch of men 😿

  • @YaAllahswt
    @YaAllahswt 11 місяців тому +644

    “You can’t send her money”
    “WHY NOT 👁️👄👁️……………………………”

    • @shancellachance1184
      @shancellachance1184 9 місяців тому +43

      That got me screaming 😂😂😂😂

    • @Texas_ice
      @Texas_ice 8 місяців тому +23

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 the way I screamed! Stop!!

    • @jslaughterofthesoul4939
      @jslaughterofthesoul4939 8 місяців тому +9

      🤣

    • @sunbeam9222
      @sunbeam9222 8 місяців тому +8

      🤣🤣🤣 this people are something out of this world

    • @nancyromanchuk3865
      @nancyromanchuk3865 8 місяців тому +4

      Da! Da! Da!
      Thank God for Social Catfish!! U guys are amazing!!

  • @karen141257
    @karen141257 Рік тому +569

    Working 12 hours a day to finance a scammer, good on you man.

    • @bella3775
      @bella3775 Рік тому +58

      Not only that, but the scammer didn’t even have to work hard at all!

    • @mariahewitt9787
      @mariahewitt9787 Рік тому +42

      I can't for the life of me understand why you would send money to someone you've never met.

    • @ottmarmontes
      @ottmarmontes Рік тому +15

      Meh still can't beat the ones that come on here that get second jobs in order to send money to scammers.

    • @stallionstudios
      @stallionstudios Рік тому +7

      real Alpha male here

    • @bratzboyz
      @bratzboyz Рік тому +13

      Yeah...when I heard that I thought, nice...a living-breathing ATM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😄😁😆😅🤣😂🥳

  • @FaithDaniels-fz8nb
    @FaithDaniels-fz8nb Місяць тому +77

    It must be difficult to decide to help duped people get their money back. However, history and the help generated from such suffering must be remembered. I admire them. UNIVERSALDISPUTE these roles

  • @marilynvallance
    @marilynvallance Рік тому +68

    No fool like an old fool.

  • @MizzPrecious92
    @MizzPrecious92 8 місяців тому +327

    The scammer being in Nigeria was really the finishing blow to his fantasy 😂 It seemed like he was most disappointed that they were Nigerian 🤣

    • @mandesano
      @mandesano 7 місяців тому +6

      Down in Nigeria for sure. I pity this guy

    • @arobb2007
      @arobb2007 7 місяців тому +4

      As they say nice guys always finish last and he's one of them that fits the description.

    • @augustdelacreme
      @augustdelacreme 7 місяців тому +38

      He’s not a nice guy, he was cheating on his gf. I know this was a guy pimping him now.

    • @jw5275
      @jw5275 6 місяців тому +27

      Dark skinneded

    • @suehoult9062
      @suehoult9062 6 місяців тому +10

      And most likely a man.

  • @indo3052
    @indo3052 Рік тому +120

    Correction, you cant send HIM any more money !!!! Lol

    • @karmagal1796
      @karmagal1796 Рік тому +5

      Bingo! 👳🏾

    • @lovelikeness2108
      @lovelikeness2108 Рік тому +4

      WHY WOULD A YOUNG BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY LIKE THIS WORKING HARD IN THE MILITARY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU SUCH AN OLD MAN??????

    • @indo3052
      @indo3052 Рік тому +1

      @@lovelikeness2108 lol

  • @vidalsmith9160
    @vidalsmith9160 4 місяці тому +9

    She was doing what we call "dry begging" for money...not directly asking for it but telling the other person all your problems and expenses to the point that they offer to help!!

    • @DeeDeeKarol
      @DeeDeeKarol Місяць тому

      No she wasn’t, someone stole her photos and pretended to be her,

  • @jbsack
    @jbsack Рік тому +641

    Never ceases to amaze me how naive and gullible some people can be.

    • @atlasbonds6095
      @atlasbonds6095 Рік тому +28

      Probably only gullible when dealing with beautiful women, though. It's a delusion.

    • @ArtMusicLife15
      @ArtMusicLife15 Рік тому

      Google “love bombing” and what it does to your brain. Can happen to anyone, even the smartest of people.

    • @mista2621
      @mista2621 Рік тому +27

      Not really , look how many people fell for Trumps BS

    • @fivestarlimos
      @fivestarlimos Рік тому +5

      After what happened with Covid , it shouldn’t !!😂😂

    • @fivestarlimos
      @fivestarlimos Рік тому +6

      @@mista2621you mean all of GOVERNMENT 😂😂🤡🤡

  • @carolm.4623
    @carolm.4623 Рік тому +355

    Wow. He was in a relationship, started cheating with a woman from a random text (scammers are widening their net) who is young enough to be his daughter….. horny, old, delusional man.

    • @missconstruct6968
      @missconstruct6968 Рік тому +60

      And then says the ex was crazy and accused him of cheating

    • @Jenny010132
      @Jenny010132 Рік тому +45

      I’d love to hear his ex’s side of the story!

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 Рік тому +35

      Why on earth a young women is going to be interested in an old looking man smh 🤦‍♀️

    • @EMILY4DAYS
      @EMILY4DAYS Рік тому +16

      Yup! My neighbor tried to tell me he was getting a settlement, and since I'm his neighbor, I would be getting paid too. 🤔 Could be this man's twin. Has a wife at home as well. Disgusting! Makes me sick.

    • @cynthiaholland13
      @cynthiaholland13 Рік тому +2

      ​@@EMILY4DAYSthank you for not falling for it

  • @Honeybulldog
    @Honeybulldog Рік тому +2268

    Hes not a victim he is a paying customer . Sadly, he’s buying attention from a “light skinned” girl… so disappointing

    • @Readyplayer8
      @Readyplayer8 Рік тому +373

      You mean a light skinned Nigerian Man😅

    • @mauimedows
      @mauimedows Рік тому +71

      Yes!!! Yea!!! And yes!!!! Willing participant!!!

    • @Matt-xv2cp
      @Matt-xv2cp Рік тому +60

      @@Readyplayer8 lol, not many light skinned Nigerians.

    • @amyh9949
      @amyh9949 Рік тому +245

      No she’s “light skin-did” Gheesh

    • @Sunshine-rk5zl
      @Sunshine-rk5zl Рік тому +11

      YESSSS

  • @misty28882
    @misty28882 19 днів тому +8

    There's nothing like a OLD FOOL 🙄🙄🙄 SMH

  • @blessed3396
    @blessed3396 11 місяців тому +353

    Scam aside, should have been looking at her as a daughter, instead of out here embarrassing himself!

    • @NataliaMarquesa
      @NataliaMarquesa 8 місяців тому +18

      Facts. She is too young

    • @joliecarter1489
      @joliecarter1489 7 місяців тому +1

      💯

    • @saraman1231
      @saraman1231 6 місяців тому +1

      Why? Is she his daughter? Can't an old man fall in love with a younger person? Surely, this man went about it the wrong way, but there is nothing wrong with somebody his age falling in love with a younger person.

    • @cheriearcher6643
      @cheriearcher6643 6 місяців тому

      Stop sending her money and she wat she does and says. Just say that things not going the way you want

    • @cheriearcher6643
      @cheriearcher6643 6 місяців тому +1

      You two have nothing!!!!

  • @geekelly000
    @geekelly000 Рік тому +44

    I work in a store where we sell gift cards. An older man came in and asked to buy some gift cards and proudly showed me pictures of his young girlfriend in the military whom he was buying them for. I swear they were images from one of these profiles, might have been the same woman's image. I tried to gently warn him but he wasn't hearing it. We get older ladies do this too. We warn everybody.

  • @snowdust3657
    @snowdust3657 Рік тому +217

    I think the reason he refused to stop sending money was because he relies on that to keep “her” interested. I think he’s scared that if he stops, “she” will lose interest in him.

    • @hookasmokincaterpiller
      @hookasmokincaterpiller Рік тому +10

      There is no real her or she, there is no interest to be lost.

    • @thaismacedo8124
      @thaismacedo8124 Рік тому +7

      Exactly, and he knew it.

    • @queenmary301
      @queenmary301 Рік тому +8

      he is addicted to the attention from this beautiful, young, fantasy woman

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 Рік тому +7

      Yeah, that. And he figured that since he already sent about 40k then sending another $300 while waiting for the verdict was a relatively small price to pay to keep her interested in case she were real.

    • @MikeyzFoodieLair
      @MikeyzFoodieLair Рік тому +3

      It's a dude

  • @MsCatchingup
    @MsCatchingup 7 місяців тому +11

    These victims all become so indignant and angry that people don't believe their love is real......just so sad.

  • @Sunshine-rk5zl
    @Sunshine-rk5zl Рік тому +259

    He plays the victim real well. Blamed every bad thing on his ex-wife. Poor poor lil ole me. He's still playing the victim. "I'm a good guy, I'm a nice guy" He judged this female strictly on her outward appearance. That's what happens when you go for looks and then invent a whole person and relationship in your mind around that.

    • @hjames78
      @hjames78 Рік тому +7

      No, all men judge on looks first lol. Only man that dates an unattractive woman is one who thinks he can't get an attractive one. Women can look past looks men cannot, it's the way we are, nature did that lol. But to send money to a person you never meant is dumb. That's the problem. That's the only problem. Not what you say 😂

    • @cynthiaholland13
      @cynthiaholland13 Рік тому +2

      ​@@Junevalentino29is this a bot

    • @mohd_allearz8403
      @mohd_allearz8403 Рік тому +1

      What if he ex wife was to really blame? Who knows the conclusion to his marriage but to automatically stick for his wife not knowing the cause of their divorce is crazy

    • @melissaburris7606
      @melissaburris7606 Рік тому +12

      @@hjames78 Everybody judges on looks. What’s varies is what one finds attractive. Superficial men look for models who they can parade around and boost their ego. Deep, thoughtful men find attractiveness in less obvious ways. Those are the good ones.

    • @hjames78
      @hjames78 Рік тому

      @@melissaburris7606 im telling you all men are superficial. This is the truth lol. Looks are not all that's important but to men, all men it is one of the most important things and it wouldn't matter to a man if he could have this beautiful women if anyone knew or not lol. I'm telling you, he doesn't need to parade her around, trust me, if a man knew he could be with this beautiful women but no one could know you think that would make him want to be with her any less? Simply because he can't "parade her around" lol he's not going to care? As I said looks is more important to men than women. A big fat ugly dude can get a nice looking woman if he has something else going, or if he's rich lol. A big fat woman that's ugly cannot get any man she wants, being rich or even having something else going on doesn't make her more attractive to us lol like it would with women. This is all men! All men. Looks are not the only important thing by a longshot but to all men it's probably the most important thing. Sorry, this is truth. If a woman and me click with every thing else, and I mean everything but she's not physically attractive at all I cannot be with her. We can be friends but thsts it! The only time a man will be with a woman he doesn't find physically attractive is a man who believes he cannot do better. Again, this is all men. You will not find a man who disagrees with me, only women will because it sounds bad to them and they think men think like them and it's better. It's not better lol.

  • @cmiller415
    @cmiller415 Рік тому +105

    If he gave her his social security number and/or bank account info when he filled out the “fiancé documents” he may never see the settlement money he was counting on.

    • @CiaobellaAmour
      @CiaobellaAmour Рік тому +4

      Yikes😮

    • @LedePat
      @LedePat Рік тому +4

      I was thinking the same thing he gave up all hus info to have a fake fiance fake paperwork. He too old to be that slow. He need to deal with a woman on his level in looks and job description.....simple

    • @ninamatthews8747
      @ninamatthews8747 Рік тому

      @@LedePatand AGE!!

  • @justsayin1991
    @justsayin1991 Рік тому +100

    Eww I got so irritated when he could not put the damn phone down for TWO MINUTES while they were trying to talk to him. Like he comes to them, is super disrespectful about still sending the money and like arguing with them about it, can't put his phone down and pay attention, just is irritating. Some people make it basically impossible to feel bad for them in any sort of way . . . This guy is one of them.

    • @XavierBonapart
      @XavierBonapart Рік тому

      He is going to do what he wants and feels without reading the room. He has an iq of 70 probably, from a small town and never learned anything in life because he knows best..... he exhibited narc traits too.

    • @lynnehuff7059
      @lynnehuff7059 9 місяців тому +4

      That bugged me too.

    • @sharondavis3535
      @sharondavis3535 4 дні тому

      Does he just want attention and something to do 😮

  • @didja
    @didja 6 місяців тому +12

    I got the exact same pictures from a someone claiming to be stationed overseas and I knew from jump that she wasn’t real. Too perfect! Lol!

  • @patty1h
    @patty1h Рік тому +86

    I think he gets validation for himself with the fact that he has money that he can sling around. He's fooling himself - he thinks his value is that he can be a provider and he doles out money to keep the hook baited.

    • @nickimillennium
      @nickimillennium Рік тому +8

      Yes he was droning on about work and I was like “who cares.”😂

  • @LWilli65
    @LWilli65 Рік тому +144

    He is trying to minimize his cheating and ends up getting scammed. Karma comes to mind.

    • @gildamanu2585
      @gildamanu2585 Рік тому +3

      Exactly what I thought😭

    • @cucar8363
      @cucar8363 Рік тому +3

      Lol,he was a big fish that got hooked by her.

    • @ivanaandric5703
      @ivanaandric5703 Рік тому +1

      Exactly! He got what he deserved! Old and ugly delusional cheat. He's right Karma does come 😂🤣😂🤣😂!

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 Рік тому +5

      The hunter gets captured by the prey.

    • @granitemoss1451
      @granitemoss1451 Рік тому +5

      When he talked about how his woman always accuses him of looking at other women but then he cheats on her with 'Mary', it all made sense.

  • @sadib4782
    @sadib4782 7 місяців тому +98

    i actually feel so bad for this girl. i’ve literally seen her pictures multiple times on the internet over the years and i’ve never been scammed. i can’t imagine how frustrating that would be.

    • @unknownkingdom
      @unknownkingdom 5 місяців тому +4

      Yeah same. Her face is familiar.

    • @johnnyyuma4194
      @johnnyyuma4194 3 місяці тому +1

      Wonder how many Men love the illusion of actually being with Her the fantasy girl ?

    • @tmckee39
      @tmckee39 6 днів тому

      This is my daughter and yes her pictures have been used on multiple sites in and out uniform to scam people.For everyone we reported 3 more pop up.

  • @BleuReign13
    @BleuReign13 5 місяців тому +7

    "She's beautiful, she's lightskinded, i know all of that"...🤦🏽‍♀️ he's a willing fool

  • @Jenny010132
    @Jenny010132 Рік тому +452

    He’s sending her money despite the warnings because he wants to show that he CAN. He doesn’t want to be a “loser” who can’t pamper a woman. Gigantic ego on him.

    • @Daz912
      @Daz912 Рік тому +4

      What a horrible comment by a horrible person

    • @Jenny010132
      @Jenny010132 Рік тому +29

      @@Daz912 I’m sorry you weren’t hugged enough.

    • @chickedee1085
      @chickedee1085 Рік тому +27

      There is something slightly narcissistic about him. A case of ‘I suspect I am being scammed but I’ll send the money anyway”. “Oh noo, I was scammed, poor me”.

    • @Daz912
      @Daz912 Рік тому

      @@Jenny010132 not only are you an awful person, your comebacks are weak too.

    • @Oliviaandtrina
      @Oliviaandtrina Рік тому +11

      ​@@Daz912 are you currently being scammed or what?

  • @supposedhumanmars
    @supposedhumanmars Рік тому +570

    Every Wednesday is a new person completely ruining their own life for a catfish. It's sad and heartbreaking to watch most of these people get über duped by scammers but the mentality of most is the same: not living in reality, not believing anyone who tells them they're being scammed, bankrupting themselves, etc. Red flags will be furiously waving in their faces and they just smile and keep sending large quantities of money.
    This guy in particular is so blinded by his "fiance" that he's asking the guys why he can't send more money to this blatant catfish and asking how it is going to hurt him. Dude is either completely clueless or willfully ignorant . Either way, he's going to be not only wildly disappointed but probably completely broke.
    It's a shame.

    • @LoLYouSayWhat
      @LoLYouSayWhat Рік тому +29

      He deserves it.... Let him be in his dream.. Don't wake him up.

    • @imwithstupid086
      @imwithstupid086 Рік тому +32

      It's always easier to scam people than convince them they've been scammed.

    • @thebluntkunt4202
      @thebluntkunt4202 Рік тому +11

      Ahahahahahahah these people deserve no sympathy

    • @sakurakitana3087
      @sakurakitana3087 Рік тому +12

      No One Is Forcing These People!!

    • @char_B
      @char_B Рік тому +21

      These folks must have fun house mirrors in their homes. How on earth do they remotely think these catfish are in their league? Just watching him walk looks painful. The only thing he can do for a beautiful young woman is rob her or years and assure they'll be. miserable. He does not look like the picture of health. Ugh! Women his own age know. Ain't nothing happening down there. Nothing turns us on like a Tommy Copper knee brace! Look at his 15 year old profile picture. I agree... let him go! Scammers need to make a living too!

  • @Stealth-flash
    @Stealth-flash 10 місяців тому +1376

    This same kind of guy believes that the stripper in a club actually likes him🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @sharondavis3535
    @sharondavis3535 4 дні тому +2

    If you send someone money because they're lite skin good hair, find a fool ... 😂

  • @LauraWalkerSewell
    @LauraWalkerSewell Рік тому +532

    "I'm a good guy. I'm a nice guy. I'm a giving guy." Those are statements made by someone who lacks true confidence.He is a scammer's delight. Very sorry for his losses.

    • @mortanicus5871
      @mortanicus5871 Рік тому +17

      Nailed it, without being mean!

    • @briana14333
      @briana14333 Рік тому +8

      Exactly. Scammers prey on all of that!

    • @prettyevil6662000
      @prettyevil6662000 Рік тому +24

      Also a previous abuse victim. Sadly, being a prior victim makes you likely to be one again in the future. You'd think you know how to look for the red flags, but really all it means is you are easier to blind to slightly lighter colored red flags. As long as it never got as bad as the woman who was emotionally and physically abusive, he wouldn't ever notice it was bad.

    • @6Haunted-Days
      @6Haunted-Days Рік тому

      @@prettyevil6662000ummmm yea I just believe people that CLAIM that….he doesn’t want to seem that bad guy with millions watching….. so yea good motivation to lie! And no I don’t automatically believe a woman either so stfu

    • @Watchdog_McCoy_5.7x28
      @Watchdog_McCoy_5.7x28 Рік тому +9

      He deserves it.

  • @Asa...S
    @Asa...S Рік тому +133

    Guess before the show.
    His "internet girlfriend" is most likely his "internet boyfriend", and he's living in Lagos, and he's neither "light skinned" or "long haired".

  • @Sauce248
    @Sauce248 Рік тому +148

    It was the attitude for me, the defensive attitude was beyond me. You contacted them because your getting played and they tried to warn you to stop sending that person your money. I’m glad he was finally humbled.

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly Рік тому +5

      They should have said to him,”you see now why we were saying not to send money.”😂😂

    • @TheBeautifulOne_
      @TheBeautifulOne_ Рік тому +3

      This comment section is wild 😂😂😂😂😩😩😩🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ #ihateithere 😂😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @zackgalante4899
      @zackgalante4899 Рік тому

      @@Junevalentino29you’re a scammer

    • @karriemsharief
      @karriemsharief Рік тому +2

      I don’t think he was humbled.

  • @torktorker1590
    @torktorker1590 Місяць тому +310

    *UniversalDispute* The work he does is so earnest the world essentials more individuals like you l fundamentally love the web recording so you set up love hearing these scoundrels wriggle keep on doing glorious, uncommon hearted people the gutts to do this considering everything. There ought to be entire government office structures piled up with doing stuff like this to protect and serve its own interests tricked typical individuals. That would be charge cash particularly spent....

  • @sylviaguerrero9794
    @sylviaguerrero9794 8 місяців тому +206

    The most hilarious part about this is that he's chatting with other men. Nigerian men 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @beautifuljade4u
    @beautifuljade4u 8 місяців тому +457

    He’s talking about a catfish when he has a picture up from 20 years ago 🤦🏽‍♀️😩😂

    • @tumigameplays7149
      @tumigameplays7149 8 місяців тому +28

      🤣🤣🤣 Agefish

    • @nikiryan8648
      @nikiryan8648 8 місяців тому +24

      neither of them knows what the other looks like. his pic is ancient history, and hers is a total fake

    • @daniellereid7576
      @daniellereid7576 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂Ryte

    • @fixitchic
      @fixitchic 7 місяців тому +2

      I said the same thing! 😂

    • @ski740
      @ski740 7 місяців тому

      He was willing to face time... Listen, then think. Then communicate.

  • @indridcold3762
    @indridcold3762 11 місяців тому +329

    A day later he probably started talking to a new scammer.

  • @STÖs-Allerlei
    @STÖs-Allerlei Рік тому +384

    Respect to the people whose images are being used for scams and that take the time to speak with the victims. That should be the ultimate wake up call for those who get scammed.

    • @aislinnsexkitten18
      @aislinnsexkitten18 Рік тому +17

      You would think it would work but most of the time it doesn't, they still believe they are talking to the real person delusional can be hard to shake i guess😬

    • @inactiveaccount6106
      @inactiveaccount6106 Рік тому +5

      It has happened to me & I don't consider myself to be attractive at all. I can't believe it's so easy to trick people.

    • @Jsa460
      @Jsa460 Рік тому +22

      She's the one I feel really sorry for in this. Imagine finding your photos have been stolen and are using to run scams and there's little you can do about it. Poor lady.

    • @tubeyou-vx6nw
      @tubeyou-vx6nw Рік тому

      What "victims" this dumb ass did this to himself.

    • @clairegrim4369
      @clairegrim4369 Рік тому +4

      I wish I could somehow contact the victims that were fooled by scammers that used my pics:( I often have people tell me they come across tinder/dating profiles using my photos, so I know it happens a lot. Also someone posted my photos, taken when I was 15 years old and FULLY CLOTHED, on p*rn hun and other sites. I hate to think of all the people my photos have gone to

  • @susaninika7552
    @susaninika7552 Рік тому +322

    The sad thing is, he said he was in an abusive relationship with his ex. Then he leaves her to get into another financially and emotionally abusive relationship with this scammer. And he's going to do it again unless he gets some therapy

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight Рік тому +88

      Narcissists claim to be abused when they're not getting their way. All we really know about the marriage is that this guy spent it alone in a room talking to much younger 'women' online.

    • @Ginger-Ashley-Nicole
      @Ginger-Ashley-Nicole Рік тому +64

      @@nineteenfortyeight right. And he mentioned she would accuse him of wanting other women, and goes on to describe how he talked to this woman while in a relationship. She had reason to be suspicious!

    • @themudpit621
      @themudpit621 Рік тому +48

      was he though? She thought he was cheating on him. Turns out, he was. So....

    • @nikkicole3331
      @nikkicole3331 Рік тому +33

      This man was abused by his 10-year relationship??? I can't hear, but I can see body language and read captions and this guy is not at all what a long term abuse survivor is like. His self-esteem is through the roof and I don't believe him. He is GETTING SOMETHING FOR THE LAST 10 YEARS THAT MAKES IT WORTH STAYING.

    • @elw2827
      @elw2827 Рік тому +7

      ​@@nikkicole3331...And it's probably a place to live...smh

  • @CA-bw9vw
    @CA-bw9vw Рік тому +141

    "at the tail end of my relationship i met this woman" = i cheated but i have to justify it

    • @Tootsie806
      @Tootsie806 Рік тому +21

      Thank you! His real gf didn’t deserve this.

    • @Inked_Latina13
      @Inked_Latina13 Рік тому +28

      For real! I bet he lied about sleeping in separate rooms.

    • @Lizapendleton
      @Lizapendleton Рік тому +8

      Agree

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 Рік тому +24

      I am starting to think that everything he described about his ex was said about HIM.

    • @karmagal1796
      @karmagal1796 Рік тому +12

      Agree! He has enough money, so he loudly claims, why not leave his “Abusive” relationship. Something is fishy???

  • @faebrowne2537
    @faebrowne2537 Місяць тому +4

    🙋🏾‍♀️ Will you send me your surplus money if I am ‘mid-skinded?’ 😂😂

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris2225 Рік тому +172

    How less than smart do you have to be to tell a scammer you're getting a lump sum of money.

    • @Hexighost
      @Hexighost Рік тому +13

      he gonna be bombarded now

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 Рік тому

      😂

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 Рік тому +5

      ​@@Hexighostexactly, his face will go viral 🤣

    • @Hexighost
      @Hexighost Рік тому +9

      @@teresaevans4840 cant feel sorry for him, the way he and a lot of these crusty old grandpas describe these young women is nasty, like someone like that wants you, come on dude, wake up

    • @HandbagDiva
      @HandbagDiva Рік тому +8

      That’s a scam as well. He thinks he’s getting money from a bitcoin investment scam🙄

  • @nikmariealex
    @nikmariealex Рік тому +148

    Done at "she's light-skinned"
    You got it, my brother.

  • @germyw
    @germyw Рік тому +153

    He doesn’t want to miss a payment to her because he knows in his heart that only his money is keeping her coming. He was way too adamant about sending her more money.

  • @BarbiBeeTravel
    @BarbiBeeTravel 2 місяці тому +4

    The ex is watching this beaming with joy 🤣😅

  • @TheGhostOfCaroline
    @TheGhostOfCaroline Рік тому +313

    Let these people live in their delusions! One thing I’ve learned from watching this is that these people actually prefer being deceived. Paying for a fantasy…

    • @channelthree9424
      @channelthree9424 Рік тому +17

      Depend for the delusional fantasy and you’re paying for the phone sex they’re having with a scammer. Some of these people are spending the money that was meant for their children or grandchildren. They losing their homes that they could have passed on to their children instead they sell their home and give the proceeds to the scammers.

    • @susaninika7552
      @susaninika7552 Рік тому +14

      If they want to pay for a fantasy, it's cheaper to just go to a strip club. Or pay a cam girl. At least the women will actually talk and flirt with them in person or on live video chat and dance for him in exchange for his money.

    • @da__lang
      @da__lang Рік тому +3

      She may be fake, but she sounds like a step up from the relationship he had with a real woman.

    • @Maria-0017
      @Maria-0017 Рік тому +6

      @@channelthree9424
      Yep he’s getting off over another man, that’s as bad as losing your money!

    • @Maria-0017
      @Maria-0017 Рік тому +6

      @@da__lang
      Is that meant to be his consolation?!

  • @nikteezi
    @nikteezi Рік тому +399

    I think HE’S the narcissist. For all we know, he could have been the controlling, abusive one. He saw the opportunity to “upgrade” to a young, “light skinned” woman & jumped on it.

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 Рік тому +28

      Exactly

    • @Usernameemanr
      @Usernameemanr Рік тому +63

      Yup exactly. The minute he started talking about his ex I was like " he was the problem".

    • @amyeastman8764
      @amyeastman8764 Рік тому +9

      Yup

    • @Maki-00
      @Maki-00 Рік тому +49

      “Light-skin-ded” 😂😂😂😂

    • @bridgetxrose
      @bridgetxrose Рік тому +46

      I agree. I see a lot of narcissistic traits with a lot of the people who are scammed on this channel. They think these extremely attractive and successful people are attracted to them because of how special they are.

  • @JoseReyes-wn2ul
    @JoseReyes-wn2ul Рік тому +297

    It’s scary how many people have absolutely no BS detector in them. Almost makes me want to scam people as it seems all too easy.

    • @missinterpretation4984
      @missinterpretation4984 Рік тому +27

      New side hustle 😂

    • @caliglid
      @caliglid Рік тому +45

      i’m glad that thought has come up to someone else too, i feel like less of a terrible person now😭

    • @Nightmareman3
      @Nightmareman3 Рік тому +11

      I have 0 sympathy for these deluded individuals. This goes beyond not having common sense.

    • @DVD927
      @DVD927 Рік тому +11

      But you wouldn’t because you’re a good human. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should, and you know that.

    • @caliglid
      @caliglid Рік тому +25

      @@DVD927 it’s more so because i’m in America and would be convicted for fraud.

  • @PrettytruuEarth
    @PrettytruuEarth 5 місяців тому +3

    “WHY NOT ?!”…..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 took me out

  • @rcalabais
    @rcalabais Рік тому +55

    Why don't people know that
    1. You do NOT love someone you have not met.
    2. You do NOT send money to someone you have not met.
    PERIOD!

    • @SparklyDogs2
      @SparklyDogs2 Рік тому

      PERIOD!!

    • @Sumi_Ink9187
      @Sumi_Ink9187 Рік тому

      PERIOD! PERIOD!

    • @belladonnnaxox
      @belladonnnaxox 5 місяців тому +2

      I met my husband online 😭😭😭
      But we sent voice messages and video called and looked each other up and spoke to each other's families.. So we knew it was legit

  • @Generik_
    @Generik_ Рік тому +660

    Seeing a grown, older man talking about “compatible astrology signs” is absolutely ridiculous. Another willful victim. A victim to his own unresolved insecurities, and delusion.

    • @level2etmpractical665
      @level2etmpractical665 Рік тому +19

      Perfectly said.

    • @strictlynorton
      @strictlynorton Рік тому +15

      Well observed... as the old timers in AA say, "Denial isn't just a river in Egypt"

    • @Oakleaf700
      @Oakleaf700 Рік тому +17

      I didn't understand what he said ''she's beautiful, she's lyskindy''
      I had to subtitle...''Light skinned''...Jeez.

    • @Generik_
      @Generik_ Рік тому +6

      @@Oakleaf700 lmao yeah I caught it straight away since I came up in the Bronx. While most people I know have said it like that jokingly, there are plenty people that actually say it like that. As you already saw. 🤷‍♂️😂 “light skinnded”

    • @Oakleaf700
      @Oakleaf700 Рік тому +1

      @@Generik_ I'm from London U.K so obviously haven't got my ear tuned to American Accents..
      Sometimes I see Americans commenting on UK videos, and they can't understand the regional accents- which are easy for a 'Native' to pick up.
      Fred Dibnah, Steeplejack- very strong Yorkshire accent.