I feel really bad for his mother. Working as a janitor at 70 years old to take care of her husband and help her 40 year old son because they both won't work.
She reaps what she sowed. I have no sympathy for her. She favored him, spoilt him rotten because he's a son and the first. I'm so sick and tired of the whole boy over girl bullshit, I have a favorite child bullshit. All these mothers do the same, then what you get it a nasty, selfish, patriarcal shitty husband raised to be so.
@@AmanishaketoMeroe I totally agree with you. The mother made th worst decision by clearly favoring and giving everything to her son while her son was simply takin advantage The worst part of the video tho is the fact that the son is simply selfish. It's the first time I ever saw a person like him. He has no mental issue, no narcisism, no adhd. He is pure selfish He preferred makin his wife and daughters be shamed online, he used his brothers money, he used his parents but...his parents are the ones to blame for the most part. They spoilt him and never showed him what was wrong. It's even visible in the show that the father has no idea about what the son is doing cause obviously he doesn't care. The only person here I felt bad for is the son. He is trapped in a thing called family and can't escape of it that easy. At least the wife and the daughters found their way out, but the brother is so unlucky.
I’ve never seen a man so confidently selfish before. The fact that he wanted to exploit his wife and daughters so that he would “attract viewers” is so disgusting to me. I feel so bad for his family. He honestly needs to be cut off from the rest of the family.
@@inayahfatihahr yes i was thinking the same like even though it's her wife but still, he is so... like I just want him to regret what all he is doing right now and when he will feel helpless then he would know what shit he has done.
I think the other host is right about it, the brother should let go. It was clear the parents never really teach the eldest responsibility, it’s too late to try and change him now. It might be their responsibility as parents to care for the eldest but definitely not him. He is also their son. I understand he is the type who likes to provide and fix. But some people are a lost cause. Just let go and don’t help the brother at all. Also giving some pocket money to his parents is okay, but only to level that it doesn’t burden him. He has his own family and should focus more on that. From what I see that elder son will lost his house and live with his parents again. And after the mom gone, the other 2 guys who hated working will ask for help from the brother. At this point I hope he just ignore it. They are family only when the slackers need help.
Good for his wife on divorcing his irresponsible behind. As for the mom, I feel bad for her for working at that age to support her favored eldest son, but at the same time, she enabled him to be this way.
That's what over pampering leads to. Both father and son are leeching off the mother. Both should be left alone. Its the support from the younger son and mother that made them so ungrateful.
No remorse, shame or guilt, crave attention and notoriety, view people more as tools to achieve his goals and sustain him, mmh...I dont wanna diagnose a stranger but...
Sadly, the parents might end up pushing him to help if they both cannot support the older brother, or if something bad happens to the mother, he will be forced to provide for all of them.
I respect what youre saying, but in asian culture, generally people try to help their family, even if they're making mistakes. Plus the parents are obviously supporting the older brother out of love, its hard to deny your own kin.
It's better that you forget about your brother he is least bothered about his children he will never change or understand he is in his own world!!! If he was brother I would left him long back!!!🤬🤬🤬
oh maii.. I love yeongja so much.. When all the other host was like its his own life.. Yeongja talk and made everyone understand the younger brother's concern. She is sooo understanding❤❤❤
Honestly tho, his 70 yr old mom is working as a Janitor at THAT age, his brother had to give up college education and work his butt off for the sake of family And the older one just cares about VloGgINg AnD HavINg FuN ... Smh just let me slap him across his damn face
This show suddenly became much better and deeper ? Lately they really try to help and ask questions which are relevant and serious instead of just laughing about an issue. I think this is a great improvement since I really enjoy this show for a long time. Anyway, his brother is just a moron and I really feel bad for his family and everyone around him. This must be so frustrating ... He destroyed his family with PURE NONESENSE !!!!
The younger son and the mother should just leave, Idk how they kept it for that long. I hate when people say it's family, you should care and whatever, well why the hell doesn't it feel like a family? why it is only one-sided support?
Honestly watching this concern reminded me a lot of my older bro. My older bro had a gap year just because he didn't want to go to school and developed some weird anger issues. So he started beating the shit out of everyone in our family and I couldn't do anything because despite my parents being physically abused they tried protecting him at all costs. Heck my parents developed depression and would lash out on me and overall it was a bad situation. Ever since then he's remained the same and my parents don't do anything about it because they will forever protect and give unlimited benefits to the "eldest son". And all I can do is just struggle and get shit from everyone. I think the main fault in both my bro and the selfish brother in this show is that just their birth order (being the eldest son) gives them a lot of advantages and parents are willing to break their backs for them. All I can really say to the concerned brother and myself is "Hang in there". I'll probably cut everyone off once I graduate and can support myself so until then I'll just bear it.
Please do. Sadly, you really shouldn't have to suffer this so please cut such negative people out of your life. For someone I know, it is the opposite. He is the older brother and the younger sister is the favored one, so much that even I could tell she is very spoilt. Her friends and family don't see it because they feel how can someone who does volunteer work and live frugally be spoilt? But she feels entitled for everything to go her way, and everyone to help her do it her way. Her anger issues are bad too, but not in a physical way, but mentally and verbally, both to the parents and her older brother. I seriously hope that you are able to have a healthy relationship with others in the future, whether with your friends or you decide to have a family in the future. All the best to you.
@@meynari Nah lmao things are the same and I've secretly been working so I can save up to move out but considering I'm graduating in a few months the saved up money will mostly go to paying off my loans :(
@@clownvibes I hope you will be able to move out and not suffer abuse. For your mental health, you will need to disconnect from them and set your boundaries. Please don't feel that you are obligated to be in contact with them just because they are your family. Toxic people will destroy you and manipulate you if you allow them. Good luck.
He wants to be youtube famous.... many youtubers start out making little but eventually they start making more and supplement the income with some streaming with fans. This guy does not have any charisma
I so badly wanna yell at this man. His kids well being should be his TOP PRIORITY!! It's nice he's chasing his dream, but not at the cost of his kids. His parents shouldn't be providing for him when he is 40 years old. By now he should be financially stable and be worried about them. I can't say how frustrated I am with this man. It's beyond my comprehension of how he can do this and not feel any kind of remorse or regret.
Is it just me who think the brother with dark hair looks like one of the celebrities on stage? Like even the way he speaks is so confident and like he's done it a million times before XD
I have a brother like this. He works but spend his money as he wishes. When he needs money, he doesnt have any so he asks for my father's help. From my viewpoint, it is so frustrated. Why he needs to trouble my father? Why my father continue to support him eventhough he's approaching 40 years old? Old enough to stand on your own feet. I dont care about my brother. I know that whatever i say would be pointless to him but i care about my father. I dont want him to stress over my brother's living situation. I want my brother to change because only that way, my father wont be troubled anymore but it seems like i am the only one who stressed for them. That's why i understood the man who sent his concern so well. Honestly, at this point he should just give up like me. Do your own part as a son and dont try to cover for your brother anymore.
@@TH-sy4vk My father did try to find someone for him in case that could make him to be more responsible but i against the idea. people wont change overnight just because they got married. So thankfully until now he is still single or else my father's burden would increase. My father is very lenient on us. He's always a friendly and supportive father so he just think that it is his responsibility to help us in any way he can. Unfortunately, my brother took advantage of that😔..Thanks for the wish. Hopefully he change for the better somehow because none of us siblings will cover his ass anymore when our father's gone.
Anybody notice how over time the concerns are more and more serious and how the panel isn't changing accordingly or bringing professionals ? I've been watching since 2013 and this is getting a little too serious for celebrities and comedians to disscuss i think anyway
amal ahmed ...maybe they provide that behind scenes. We don’t want another Dr. Phil show. I’ve been watching since same time as you and I don’t see why they have to bring shrinks on the show. 🤷🏻♀️
And you're just as entitled to your opinion as I am! But some people come here saying their marriage or relationship rides on the outcome of the conversation I dont think its a very light topic
amal ahmed , and I did not think that it is a light topic either. I’m just saying that the show doesn’t need to bring pros on the show or during the show.They’ve been doing a great job this whole time, why change it. I have seen follow ups with some of their guest before and they are doing great, proves that they probably have pros but just not during the show and maybe it’s happening in the back scenes. I’ve heard the host mentioned many times that they do seek and speak to pros prior to meeting the guest and severity of the situation. So yes they do have pros opinions. Again, I did not think any of the cases they have are light topic, but I like that they don’t have the show to be like Dr. Phil show.
I've seen those changes as well and don't want to down size their achievements at all. But I still stand by what I said , and once again your very much entitled to your opinion I think I'll just agree to disagree for now thanks for your insight though! it was nice hearing your side
This is by far my most frustrating episode along with the one in which the husband has 5 virtues for women. This man really had no worries about his family. I wonder what happened to them
Even I’m still on my mid tweenties, I think I like a man like Kim Jong Min. He looks like a man that has no temper and a patient one. I love someone who smiles a lot, just like Kang Daniel actually 🥰
*I bet Everyone who’s watched this, ALL felt angry & annoyed with the biological dad! He’s a big baby, that helped conceive children - that’s it! 🤦🏻♀️🙏♥️🇬🇧*
This is the most frutating concern i've ever watch. Making his mom work as janitor AT THAT AGE, his lil bro cant attend the college anymore and start to get a job for the sake of his family and all he did is having fun with his vlog??? Seriously dude i want to know which one is his video channel. Im just curious what kind video he like to made every week. I cant do anything but just keep swearing all bad words in ma head everytime he answered the question all video long. And im upset because i even couldnt punch at him, but i want so bad to do that. Oh God please change him, at least for the sake of his mom and his brother
i feel bad for whoever coming to this show and having hopes that their concern could be resolved even not much..just like this guy who worried about his selfish brother. His brother clearly didn't give a shit nor have plan to change despite being a burden to the family. My blood pressure keep on rising hearing his thoughtless comment
I wonder, why they didn't bring his daughters? Because in some concerns about bad father, they usually bring the children so the father will give in for the sake of his children
i have similar concern like this. its about my own eldest brother. and he is now almost 40 y/o and my parents did everything to make things right, to educate him but after few decades, we are now kind of give up. me and my sister had stopped talking to him, not because we hate him so much, but because of the pain that he caused us. he is still our brother anyway, but to be more friendly with him, i just can't.
Usually youtubers can work full time in the industry only when they have a higher income from doing it, if not most of them still have a full time job on the side and only vlog as a hobby. Also, most of them have to work extra hard to get new contents out and not just "doing whatever they want" that does not entertain the viewers.
does he really think that people would watch his program after this? :(( he's so self-centered and his ego is at its finest. Hope you will see the reality before it's too late and please help your parents.
Honestly he should just be left alone and forgotten about, he doesn’t deserve his family’s pity money. I do feel bad for the kids though, but one day he’ll snap out of it and regret everything and have no one left to help him out.
What our child like in the future is our responsible as parents in how we educate them since born... Thats why, i can see that the 40 y.o son can be a person like this, so sellfish it was because of the parents. They were to spoiled their first son. So for parents, u must educate ur son or daughter better than u were.
I think he needs to go to a counselor, I'm sure this is more than just being "irresponsible" and "ungrateful".. this is a more serious problem than it seems
this is the most frustrating concern on *hello counselor* I hope he will come to his senses and I'm sorry to say this but I wish his vlogging channel will flop.
I recently watched a murder case. Just like his life. They married and had 3 kids. She started vlogging to get money for her kids. But she didn't. Her vlogging got her addicted to it. Her husband didn't want it. And told her not to Film him nor the kids. But she didn't listen and even talked about her family problems in vlogs. He told her to stop it or he will take the kids and leave. But what happened? The wife killed the husband and acted as the victim.
I just realized that he said he is happy with just earning 200,000₩, that just meant that it is only sufficient for him to spend for his filming... obviously he would not provide alimony to his wife but on top of that, he is not planning to be the one to pay back the loans he took out, or pay for his daughters' expenses, or give his parents any allowance...
Omg. Im speechless. How can he not care about his parent not even his own family bfore. I hope no one would support his vlogging after watch this because he is not responsible at all. Just want to slack playing game? Making his own brother support the family. Not helping at all??? Omg
I press button..lol that's a very serious concerns for the families his parents and himself as well .wow he is really not gonna change.omo. Yes frustrated TV might sound right hahahahah
The only way he would be forced to face up to reality is if the mother and brother totally stop paying for him and helping him out. When they stop helping, he has to work in order to live.
I really hope you see the hurt you are causing by your act of respect for your wife, children, mother and brother. Please find some integrity and responsibility of your own before you crash and burn and are totally dismissed by the family that you have so coldheartedly dismissed.
What is wrong with this guy!! He lost his wife and 2 daughters over his “dream” and yet he still only thinks of himself. He didn’t once mention his daughters and how this is effecting them, he should get himself out of the clouds and bloomin grow up!! He is a grown man who doesn’t support his daughters and is proud to watch his mother of 70yrs of age work and take money and food from her...Disgusting man...he should be ashamed of himself, I totally feel sorry for his brother who just wants him to wake up and take responsibility for his parents and his daughters, ....but seems like the people who support his vlogs are not blameless here too...
If he doesn't care about fail his own marriage and children, his family, specially his mom, why do you expect from him? He is so selfish thinking and worried about himself and his stupid vlog..SO IMMATURE!!! His young brother needs to stop worrying about him because is a lost case and probably because of this it may take problems with his wife..
My guess on why he's hung up on the vlogging is that he craves the recognition from his viewers. I think he has a pretty low self esteem and that's why he needs positive attention of others. I'm just hoping he'll view this video, read the comments (and understand them) to know that he's getting a lot of scorn instead.
Why they keep telling the brother to stop worriying bout him? This man already make a mess!! He doesnt care bout his Childs, his ex-wife, even his parents!! And they still sayin to stop worriying bout him??
I think that they are not saying it because he is doing well in life. They are trying to mean that the older brother is too selfish and stubborn, and he chose his own path, so the younger brother should just stop worrying about him (don't bother, care or help him) and just concentrate on his own life.
@@linger368 but, i mean its still his brother. How can he doesnt care? And the brother already makes so many people sad! And it keeps goin on... Maybe hes not really worried bout his brother, but his parent tho...
STOP SUPPORTING His life and needs ... let him do whatever he wants, one day he will live alone without anyone can take care of him. He is 40 yo but childish and selfish!!!! ... guess his wife smart to live him quickly!!!!
Can I ask koreans this question, does korean parents always lenient and prefer older child more? Coz most family i watch here, seems always siding with their oldee child just because they are OLDER. I think shinji was ready to kick his ass if she's not doing a show here
Not necessarily, it might be the youngest at times too. But many of the time, the oldest son. Or at times, the parents side the younger, and the grandparents side the older, or vice versa.
i don't normally wish for bad things to happen to people, but i kinda hope that knetz are bugging him on his channel lol i hope after seeing this, his "fans" unfollow and stop giving him money. he needs to realize how immature he's being
This is the first time I give my opinion on someone's life problem. I can feel the pressure that he has for his family since he has such an irresponsible brother that makes himself and his mother even have to double work. Even his father cannot help too by the way. Nothing more than I can say beside praying that he with his family and his own parents will be blessed by God in all aspects and watching what will be happened with his brother and his broadcast as life cycle keeps going on.
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I feel really bad for his mother. Working as a janitor at 70 years old to take care of her husband and help her 40 year old son because they both won't work.
so sad. I would hate to see my mother work at that age. I hope the money they won from that concerns goes to her. Her selfish son doesn't deserve it.
She reaps what she sowed. I have no sympathy for her. She favored him, spoilt him rotten because he's a son and the first. I'm so sick and tired of the whole boy over girl bullshit, I have a favorite child bullshit. All these mothers do the same, then what you get it a nasty, selfish, patriarcal shitty husband raised to be so.
@@AmanishaketoMeroe I totally agree with you. The mother made th worst decision by clearly favoring and giving everything to her son while her son was simply takin advantage
The worst part of the video tho is the fact that the son is simply selfish. It's the first time I ever saw a person like him. He has no mental issue, no narcisism, no adhd. He is pure selfish
He preferred makin his wife and daughters be shamed online, he used his brothers money, he used his parents but...his parents are the ones to blame for the most part. They spoilt him and never showed him what was wrong. It's even visible in the show that the father has no idea about what the son is doing cause obviously he doesn't care.
The only person here I felt bad for is the son. He is trapped in a thing called family and can't escape of it that easy. At least the wife and the daughters found their way out, but the brother is so unlucky.
I’ve never seen a man so confidently selfish before. The fact that he wanted to exploit his wife and daughters so that he would “attract viewers” is so disgusting to me. I feel so bad for his family. He honestly needs to be cut off from the rest of the family.
He has never been any thought to support his child, then supporting his parents ? nope.
And i was thinking like "this guy must be thinking that woman as object to attract others attention" this arrogant human makes me sick :(
@@inayahfatihahr yes i was thinking the same like even though it's her wife but still, he is so... like I just want him to regret what all he is doing right now and when he will feel helpless then he would know what shit he has done.
I think the other host is right about it, the brother should let go. It was clear the parents never really teach the eldest responsibility, it’s too late to try and change him now. It might be their responsibility as parents to care for the eldest but definitely not him. He is also their son.
I understand he is the type who likes to provide and fix. But some people are a lost cause. Just let go and don’t help the brother at all. Also giving some pocket money to his parents is okay, but only to level that it doesn’t burden him. He has his own family and should focus more on that.
From what I see that elder son will lost his house and live with his parents again. And after the mom gone, the other 2 guys who hated working will ask for help from the brother. At this point I hope he just ignore it. They are family only when the slackers need help.
Good for his wife on divorcing his irresponsible behind. As for the mom, I feel bad for her for working at that age to support her favored eldest son, but at the same time, she enabled him to be this way.
This is by far the most frustrating concern i’ve ever watched. I hope his channel flop and may he gain back his brain and start supporting his family.
I was kinda hoping that too. But on the flip side, he might wind up asking his mom for money and she won't turn him away.
Have you seen blood draining concern ? That's pretty interesting too
You mean the woman with the love of leaches?
same wish...he think his channel will b boasted after this 😡
@@pchen88 yes
the younger bro and his mom should leave them behind. its so sad to watch
That's what over pampering leads to. Both father and son are leeching off the mother. Both should be left alone. Its the support from the younger son and mother that made them so ungrateful.
No remorse, shame or guilt, crave attention and notoriety, view people more as tools to achieve his goals and sustain him, mmh...I dont wanna diagnose a stranger but...
Honestly the youngest should
Focus on his own life his parents and brother have made their choice there’s nothing he can do to change it.
Exactly. I feel like he is putting way too much effort into his brother when he has his own family to take care of.
Sadly, the parents might end up pushing him to help if they both cannot support the older brother, or if something bad happens to the mother, he will be forced to provide for all of them.
I respect what youre saying, but in asian culture, generally people try to help their family, even if they're making mistakes. Plus the parents are obviously supporting the older brother out of love, its hard to deny your own kin.
Basically, this is common thing in Asia.
Basically, this is common thing in Asia.
It's better that you forget about your brother he is least bothered about his children he will never change or understand he is in his own world!!! If he was brother I would left him long back!!!🤬🤬🤬
oh maii.. I love yeongja so much.. When all the other host was like its his own life.. Yeongja talk and made everyone understand the younger brother's concern. She is sooo understanding❤❤❤
16:39 my dude on the upper left is so pissed he fell asleep instead
He looks so peaceful 😂
Lol Tru got me wheezing
THE WAY I CHOKED 😂😂😂😂
I love how yong ja was proving the brother's point when dong yup said to leave him alone
Honestly tho, his 70 yr old mom is working as a Janitor at THAT age, his brother had to give up college education and work his butt off for the sake of family
And the older one just cares about VloGgINg AnD HavINg FuN ...
Smh just let me slap him across his damn face
I hope his kids don't live with him because if so then his ex-wife needs to take them or child protective services need to take his kids away.
This show suddenly became much better and deeper ? Lately they really try to help and ask questions which are relevant and serious instead of just laughing about an issue. I think this is a great improvement since I really enjoy this show for a long time.
Anyway, his brother is just a moron and I really feel bad for his family and everyone around him. This must be so frustrating ... He destroyed his family with PURE NONESENSE !!!!
168 votes....hmmmm y not all 200?? the remaining 32 actually can put up wif him then?
The younger son and the mother should just leave, Idk how they kept it for that long. I hate when people say it's family, you should care and whatever, well why the hell doesn't it feel like a family? why it is only one-sided support?
I would have just got up, went straight to him and knocked his teeth off. Selfish, arrogant, ignorant, irresponsible dog.
Honestly watching this concern reminded me a lot of my older bro. My older bro had a gap year just because he didn't want to go to school and developed some weird anger issues. So he started beating the shit out of everyone in our family and I couldn't do anything because despite my parents being physically abused they tried protecting him at all costs. Heck my parents developed depression and would lash out on me and overall it was a bad situation. Ever since then he's remained the same and my parents don't do anything about it because they will forever protect and give unlimited benefits to the "eldest son". And all I can do is just struggle and get shit from everyone. I think the main fault in both my bro and the selfish brother in this show is that just their birth order (being the eldest son) gives them a lot of advantages and parents are willing to break their backs for them. All I can really say to the concerned brother and myself is "Hang in there". I'll probably cut everyone off once I graduate and can support myself so until then I'll just bear it.
Please do. Sadly, you really shouldn't have to suffer this so please cut such negative people out of your life. For someone I know, it is the opposite. He is the older brother and the younger sister is the favored one, so much that even I could tell she is very spoilt. Her friends and family don't see it because they feel how can someone who does volunteer work and live frugally be spoilt? But she feels entitled for everything to go her way, and everyone to help her do it her way. Her anger issues are bad too, but not in a physical way, but mentally and verbally, both to the parents and her older brother. I seriously hope that you are able to have a healthy relationship with others in the future, whether with your friends or you decide to have a family in the future. All the best to you.
It's been one whole year, but I kept wondering, are you alright now? :/
@@meynari Nah lmao things are the same and I've secretly been working so I can save up to move out but considering I'm graduating in a few months the saved up money will mostly go to paying off my loans :(
@@clownvibes I hope you will be able to move out and not suffer abuse. For your mental health, you will need to disconnect from them and set your boundaries. Please don't feel that you are obligated to be in contact with them just because they are your family. Toxic people will destroy you and manipulate you if you allow them. Good luck.
@@clownvibes hello there!!!
I wonder are you fine now? I hold you achieved what you wished for 💛
He wants to be youtube famous.... many youtubers start out making little but eventually they start making more and supplement the income with some streaming with fans. This guy does not have any charisma
brutal. say it like it is haha
I so badly wanna yell at this man. His kids well being should be his TOP PRIORITY!! It's nice he's chasing his dream, but not at the cost of his kids. His parents shouldn't be providing for him when he is 40 years old. By now he should be financially stable and be worried about them. I can't say how frustrated I am with this man. It's beyond my comprehension of how he can do this and not feel any kind of remorse or regret.
Is it just me who think the brother with dark hair looks like one of the celebrities on stage? Like even the way he speaks is so confident and like he's done it a million times before XD
This has JJY feelings all over it. You need women on your volgs for more viewership, taking videos without peoples consent. Jesus take the wheel
you put my thought into words. straight facts!
I feel so bad for his kids having him as a father.
I feel so bad for his children... Poor kids :(
I hope his bro and mom will stop care bout him, waste of time, the time he realized it, it'll too late...
Such Egoist Man...
Hello Counselor is my fav tv program but i regret watching this one concern..🔥
I have a brother like this. He works but spend his money as he wishes. When he needs money, he doesnt have any so he asks for my father's help. From my viewpoint, it is so frustrated. Why he needs to trouble my father? Why my father continue to support him eventhough he's approaching 40 years old? Old enough to stand on your own feet. I dont care about my brother. I know that whatever i say would be pointless to him but i care about my father. I dont want him to stress over my brother's living situation. I want my brother to change because only that way, my father wont be troubled anymore but it seems like i am the only one who stressed for them. That's why i understood the man who sent his concern so well. Honestly, at this point he should just give up like me. Do your own part as a son and dont try to cover for your brother anymore.
Did he already get married too? And can't your father get mad at him?
Hope everything turn out good in your family
@@TH-sy4vk My father did try to find someone for him in case that could make him to be more responsible but i against the idea. people wont change overnight just because they got married. So thankfully until now he is still single or else my father's burden would increase. My father is very lenient on us. He's always a friendly and supportive father so he just think that it is his responsibility to help us in any way he can. Unfortunately, my brother took advantage of that😔..Thanks for the wish. Hopefully he change for the better somehow because none of us siblings will cover his ass anymore when our father's gone.
Anybody notice how over time the concerns are more and more serious and how the panel isn't changing accordingly or bringing professionals ? I've been watching since 2013 and this is getting a little too serious for celebrities and comedians to disscuss i think anyway
amal ahmed ...maybe they provide that behind scenes. We don’t want another Dr. Phil show. I’ve been watching since same time as you and I don’t see why they have to bring shrinks on the show. 🤷🏻♀️
And you're just as entitled to your opinion as I am! But some people come here saying their marriage or relationship rides on the outcome of the conversation I dont think its a very light topic
amal ahmed , and I did not think that it is a light topic either. I’m just saying that the show doesn’t need to bring pros on the show or during the show.They’ve been doing a great job this whole time, why change it. I have seen follow ups with some of their guest before and they are doing great, proves that they probably have pros but just not during the show and maybe it’s happening in the back scenes. I’ve heard the host mentioned many times that they do seek and speak to pros prior to meeting the guest and severity of the situation. So yes they do have pros opinions. Again, I did not think any of the cases they have are light topic, but I like that they don’t have the show to be like Dr. Phil show.
I've seen those changes as well and don't want to down size their achievements at all. But I still stand by what I said , and once again your very much entitled to your opinion I think I'll just agree to disagree for now thanks for your insight though! it was nice hearing your side
@@pryzylla7017 clearly lol i just had my own opinion
All 200 people should've pressed that button.
I'm boggled at his sense of entitlement!
Holy shit I've never been so frustrated and second hand ashamed in my life. The younger brother is a saint bless him.
This the most frustrated concern ever and i really can hold my anger
This is by far my most frustrating episode along with the one in which the husband has 5 virtues for women.
This man really had no worries about his family. I wonder what happened to them
this was literally the most frustrating episode but 19:38 made me laugh so hard
same lmao i was angry and then THAT
Even I’m still on my mid tweenties, I think I like a man like Kim Jong Min.
He looks like a man that has no temper and a patient one.
I love someone who smiles a lot, just like Kang Daniel actually 🥰
Just leave him alone, and one day he will regret that he was wrong.
I'm so mad with his selfish think. 😡😡😡
11:13 say if I was him, I wouldve sued his older brother for invasion of privacy.
if I were his viewers I wouldn't watch his videos again after this😂
*I bet Everyone who’s watched this, ALL felt angry & annoyed with the biological dad! He’s a big baby, that helped conceive children - that’s it! 🤦🏻♀️🙏♥️🇬🇧*
Wah the most selfish person in the world i had ever met. Even not directly. Yah geunyang chugo. Then everybody will be happy. Trust me.
This is the most frutating concern i've ever watch. Making his mom work as janitor AT THAT AGE, his lil bro cant attend the college anymore and start to get a job for the sake of his family and all he did is having fun with his vlog??? Seriously dude i want to know which one is his video channel. Im just curious what kind video he like to made every week.
I cant do anything but just keep swearing all bad words in ma head everytime he answered the question all video long. And im upset because i even couldnt punch at him, but i want so bad to do that. Oh God please change him, at least for the sake of his mom and his brother
I wonder whatever happened to this family. I pray that the younger brother took the mother to live with him. She is suffering too much.
What a selfish man, 😤😤
Oh my goodness... this is why marriage scares me!
boredbeingbored just marry someone you know isn’t a psycho. Marriage isn’t the problem but the people
Why isn't it 200 omg
He's a legit sociopath he has no idea of the impact of his actions and sayings on others :')
Why did the brother get custody when it is clear that he is not fit to be a father?
i feel bad for whoever coming to this show and having hopes that their concern could be resolved even not much..just like this guy who worried about his selfish brother. His brother clearly didn't give a shit nor have plan to change despite being a burden to the family. My blood pressure keep on rising hearing his thoughtless comment
If someone know his channel, pls tell me 🤧😂
Nurafiqah Najwa I think they said something name Afreeca
Jasmine Rios no that’s the name of the app “AfreecaTV” a popular streaming app in Korea like youtube
He streams on AfreecaTV. It's like a korean twitch but mostly IRL and some gaming.
I wonder, why they didn't bring his daughters? Because in some concerns about bad father, they usually bring the children so the father will give in for the sake of his children
Maybe the mom/ex-wife wants nothing to do with him and wants her daughters to have nothing to do with his issues.
i have similar concern like this. its about my own eldest brother. and he is now almost 40 y/o and my parents did everything to make things right, to educate him but after few decades, we are now kind of give up. me and my sister had stopped talking to him, not because we hate him so much, but because of the pain that he caused us. he is still our brother anyway, but to be more friendly with him, i just can't.
So frustrating..he will never gonna make it
poor mother, she deserve better
Usually youtubers can work full time in the industry only when they have a higher income from doing it, if not most of them still have a full time job on the side and only vlog as a hobby. Also, most of them have to work extra hard to get new contents out and not just "doing whatever they want" that does not entertain the viewers.
I'm sorry, but the "No No" part at 19:39 took me smooth out. I was pissed listening to him talk and then this came in and saved me.
this show must haVe psychological adviser to know the emotional and mental condition of those people seeking advise
does he really think that people would watch his program after this? :(( he's so self-centered and his ego is at its finest. Hope you will see the reality before it's too late and please help your parents.
Honestly he should just be left alone and forgotten about, he doesn’t deserve his family’s pity money. I do feel bad for the kids though, but one day he’ll snap out of it and regret everything and have no one left to help him out.
What our child like in the future is our responsible as parents in how we educate them since born... Thats why, i can see that the 40 y.o son can be a person like this, so sellfish it was because of the parents. They were to spoiled their first son. So for parents, u must educate ur son or daughter better than u were.
I think he needs to go to a counselor, I'm sure this is more than just being "irresponsible" and "ungrateful".. this is a more serious problem than it seems
This is too close for comfort, somebody related to me is exactly like this 😑 Good luck trying to change this sort of person.
this is the most frustrating concern on *hello counselor* I hope he will come to his senses and I'm sorry to say this but I wish his vlogging channel will flop.
I recently watched a murder case. Just like his life. They married and had 3 kids. She started vlogging to get money for her kids. But she didn't. Her vlogging got her addicted to it. Her husband didn't want it. And told her not to Film him nor the kids. But she didn't listen and even talked about her family problems in vlogs. He told her to stop it or he will take the kids and leave. But what happened? The wife killed the husband and acted as the victim.
Abandon him. That's the way to solve it.
I just realized that he said he is happy with just earning 200,000₩, that just meant that it is only sufficient for him to spend for his filming... obviously he would not provide alimony to his wife but on top of that, he is not planning to be the one to pay back the loans he took out, or pay for his daughters' expenses, or give his parents any allowance...
This is the kind of person who I'm ok if his life ends
Omg. Im speechless. How can he not care about his parent not even his own family bfore. I hope no one would support his vlogging after watch this because he is not responsible at all. Just want to slack playing game? Making his own brother support the family. Not helping at all??? Omg
I press button..lol that's a very serious concerns for the families his parents and himself as well .wow he is really not gonna change.omo. Yes frustrated TV might sound right hahahahah
hasrat ingin memaki naik 200% setelah nonton ini
The only way he would be forced to face up to reality is if the mother and brother totally stop paying for him and helping him out. When they stop helping, he has to work in order to live.
Damnnn!!! I really want to smack this guy in the face now 😤 selfish
His mindset must be like yolo.
제가 봤을 때는 여기 사연의 형님이 너무 이기적이어서 정신과 치료나 심리 치료가 시급해 보입니다.
경제적인 보탬에 도움이 안 되면 하지 말아야죠~! 그럼 다른 일을 찾아보려고 노력해야죠~!!
If his father helps him in the video think he will do better....Let him be until he realise.
man, if he's my brother, i would've left his ass loooong time ago. doesn't worth my time at all.
They missed a lot of important things to emphasise. His children
the older bro should juz cut of ties with the family since he prefer living his own life/world.
The mom should of left the husband, he gave his son a terrible example of being shameless and selfish.
I really hope you see the hurt you are causing by your act of respect for your wife, children, mother and brother. Please find some integrity and responsibility of your own before you crash and burn and are totally dismissed by the family that you have so coldheartedly dismissed.
I feel bad for the mom and i love yeongja so much yk what i mean right:( but the sounds making me dying😭😂
What is wrong with this guy!! He lost his wife and 2 daughters over his “dream” and yet he still only thinks of himself. He didn’t once mention his daughters and how this is effecting them, he should get himself out of the clouds and bloomin grow up!! He is a grown man who doesn’t support his daughters and is proud to watch his mother of 70yrs of age work and take money and food from her...Disgusting man...he should be ashamed of himself, I totally feel sorry for his brother who just wants him to wake up and take responsibility for his parents and his daughters,
....but seems like the people who support his vlogs are not blameless here too...
He frustrates me
If he doesn't care about fail his own marriage and children, his family, specially his mom, why do you expect from him? He is so selfish thinking and worried about himself and his stupid vlog..SO IMMATURE!!! His young brother needs to stop worrying about him because is a lost case and probably because of this it may take problems with his wife..
I will surely kicked out my future kids if they ever turn out like this..! I think his father is the one who let that happened..!
The mom is also to blame for indulging him
He thinks everyone can be famous. Well, know this ... Your brother will not get famous until he is 80's.
My guess on why he's hung up on the vlogging is that he craves the recognition from his viewers. I think he has a pretty low self esteem and that's why he needs positive attention of others. I'm just hoping he'll view this video, read the comments (and understand them) to know that he's getting a lot of scorn instead.
I feel really sad for his child
Such a ungrateful and selfish man...his family should divorce him too and let him suffer in debt in old age then maybe he will come to his senses
Bruv, this ain't it.
각자 인생 살아라 그게 답이다
Why they keep telling the brother to stop worriying bout him?
This man already make a mess!!
He doesnt care bout his Childs, his ex-wife, even his parents!!
And they still sayin to stop worriying bout him??
I think that they are not saying it because he is doing well in life. They are trying to mean that the older brother is too selfish and stubborn, and he chose his own path, so the younger brother should just stop worrying about him (don't bother, care or help him) and just concentrate on his own life.
@@linger368 but, i mean its still his brother. How can he doesnt care? And the brother already makes so many people sad! And it keeps goin on... Maybe hes not really worried bout his brother, but his parent tho...
STOP SUPPORTING His life and needs ... let him do whatever he wants, one day he will live alone without anyone can take care of him. He is 40 yo but childish and selfish!!!! ... guess his wife smart to live him quickly!!!!
Can I ask koreans this question, does korean parents always lenient and prefer older child more? Coz most family i watch here, seems always siding with their oldee child just because they are OLDER.
I think shinji was ready to kick his ass if she's not doing a show here
Usually. It’s one of those cultural things
Not necessarily, it might be the youngest at times too. But many of the time, the oldest son. Or at times, the parents side the younger, and the grandparents side the older, or vice versa.
i don't normally wish for bad things to happen to people, but i kinda hope that knetz are bugging him on his channel lol i hope after seeing this, his "fans" unfollow and stop giving him money. he needs to realize how immature he's being
I hope people stop watching him after this
Pain in the ass~! My stress as a volcano erupting all over the place!
Pity the brother who has been putting up with all his nonsense/stubborn-ness for several years. I believe he 'll vomit blood once this show ends.
This is the first time I give my opinion on someone's life problem. I can feel the pressure that he has for his family since he has such an irresponsible brother that makes himself and his mother even have to double work. Even his father cannot help too by the way. Nothing more than I can say beside praying that he with his family and his own parents will be blessed by God in all aspects and watching what will be happened with his brother and his broadcast as life cycle keeps going on.