This really hurts me. I`ve had a brother who was 9 years older than me. We didn`t see echother often because he lived far away and due to his studies we didn`t get to talk to eachother very often either. 2 Years ago, he then suddenly had a brain Hemmorhage and passed away at age 25. I didn`t get to say goodbye or anything in that way. We hadn`t seen eachother in Months then and nobody knew why it happened to him. I still have many regrets to this day because i feel like we wasted so much time by not talking to eachother. If i`d knew something like that would happen to him, i would`ve used every free minute to be with him but we can`t turn back time and what happend can`t be undone. I really hope these two will talk more and treasure the time they have together. you never know what will happen in Life...
What do you do when this sibling turns out to be an ahole in life and you just dont care much about them or their life because they are just awful to be around or get to know? I'm sure your brother was a great person and I can see why you regretted it but I have a sister who I don''t care much for because she's a type of person who, if we were not related, would not be caught with no time of the day. She tried to reach out to me but I just honestly don't care for her. What do I do about that? ;/
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost a friend and we had a fight the night before he passed and it kills me. I just have this hope that somehow he knows my regrets and I will even talk to him out loud... just to feel like a weight has been lifted, like he's listening or something. Theres no right or wrong way to grieve but I feel like you should go easier on yourself. (hug)
Michelle Hawk i understand. .. i was sent to a boarding school and my brother ( 4 years older) stayed with my parents... i used to hate him as in he used to be with mom and dad ... he died last year and i couldn't even see him...! I was told when i came back home...! Regrets are worse...
i think the younger really adore his hyung, he smile brightly when he sees his brother, but the older, say that he doesn't really care the younger, although i'm sure the older just as curious as the younger, i hope they can be close from now on.
Cindy T well he got used to it and it would be awkward for him to claim he is curiois suddebly moreover he gets all news out of his mom and bcs he is older it was harder for him to express affection and keep eye contact bcs he knows he hurted his mom with this problem but people are saying he is pridefull and didn't want to reconcil as much as the younger one but he got so used to it it's been 9 years you know and once he tried to get close he was brushed off and he thought that the other hated him so it got more severe so such missunderstandings made it hard to start again
well the older brother wrote in, so it's not like he doesn't care or is not willing to try. It's just that being around his brother intimidates him greatly because I think he still feels guilty over what happened 9 years ago.
@@jessijess8806 no actually nothing changed on the relationship between us. I tried talking once a week like they said, then more. She never hang up on me, but she never called back and she spoke with one-word answers or not at all. Then I tried texting too. I invited her many times to my home she never came once. It came to the point I asked why and she told me she doesn't want me, she said I'm too much and she thinks I think less of her somehow as a person. I of course explained that I never thought like that about her and I love her, I loved her since birth and I took care of her. she said that she knows that, then she was dismissive I tried to confront the situation again she told me I'm too emotional,she started making fun of my feelings. After taking, it came down to the point where she has resentment, jealousy, unreasonable competitiveness, I think because of her so low self esteem. And maybe I'd think It's my fault, if I were here with her all these years or done anything, but I actually was abroad working for 10years. And before I leave we didn't have any issues, she loved me just fine and our fights would be normal like who gets to sit on the tv or don't touch my makeup type of fights and not often. So I don't know where this is coming from at all. So all the effort help with nothing but making me more sad and feel rejected again for nothing that's my fault anyway.because I'm the oldest I thought it should be me who should try to amend the relationship and I tried for about 2 years. Plus the time I was abroad I tried to have contact. But after that I find it pointless. So I told her that I love her and she knows where I live she has my number and it's up to her. I thought if she has issues she's an adult now and she can address them herself. She has the right to not want me in her life for her reasons. I can't do anything about low self esteem and her other issues and I definitely won't be needy and begging for my sister to like me love me etc. If she doesn't well she doesn't. It is what it is I've done my part I tried. It's over. I'm thinking why would I want someone who dismisses me, hates me and disrespects me and doesn't want me or love me in my life? Why should I be the one who tries? And for what? We are practically strangers. Truth is I no longer miss her. I don't think of her anymore for the past year. I never hated her or jealous her or done anything to deserve such behavior. So why would I feel like I have to fix it? No, It's is what it is she made her choice. I made mine a year ago, today I feel like I never had a sister and it feels good actually all the stress is gone. I made more progress on life in one year not dealing with her, thinking or talking with her than I made in 4 years. I am able to focus on me instead of begging for my sister to accept me I realized I lost all that energy on her feeling down. Especially when she'd give me attention show she loved me sometimes when she wanted stuff and then ghosting me again. No thanks. If I had to go back in time, what I'd I do different is I'd try once or twice to amend the relationship and then stop. Not wondering why, what did I do wrong,how is this my fault etc. Now I see her like the distant relative who you never see or talk in your life unless you meet on a wedding or a funeral and say hi and walk away, never think of her again. If she texts or calls on some occasion then again I feel like that random relative texted so it's not a big deal anymore. I really recommend it to anyone who's reading this and going through a similar thing, to just ignore them and move on. No resentment, no hard feelings just don't care 💅 move on and forget about it.
Ah this made me cry so much because I just lost my older sister 6-7 months ago and it hurts me seeing this because we weren't that close but we started getting closer as we grew up. Talk to each other because if you dont, you might lose them and it'll be too late to go back. I just had memories of my sister and I miss her so much..
It’s prob because the older one feels embarrassed and like he messed up when he hit his younger brother. It’s really hard to own up to it all and he felt like he tried and got shut down by his little brother. Turns out the little brother was always looking up to his older brother and waiting on him to notice him
But if you listened well the older brother tried to make up with him a few times and he refused. He was the one who walked away when they were supposed to take a photo together! So it's unfair to judge his hyeong based on how he acted in front of the camera surrounded by celebrities! Most people would feel awkward
True, but i think the older brother is much more shy or maybe introvert so it must be difficult for him to ask the help of the program. I say it is a big effort on his part too. The younger brother, I can see it came easy on him since it seems like he is much more confident and outgoing he was just waiting for his brother to make the first move. The effort will depend on the personality of an a person, I am an introvert so I can recognize that the older brother is a little bit like it. If not he must be a very private person and does not enjoy being in the limelight.
Is no one gonna talk about Chang Mo and his cousin’s call?? BECAUSE IT WAS SO CUTE AND THE COUSIN’s LITTLE LAUGHS ARE SO HAPPY AND SOOTHING. GLAD THAT THEY MANAGED TO SOLVE ANOTHER MINOR MISUNDERSTANDING IN THIS EPISODE
The call with the Guest MC/guest star had me in tears!!! When he said 'why would I be awkward?' my heart just went 'that's how people should behave! Don't hold grudges and just get over it'...
I really hope they change their relationship. You could tell the younger brother was just so happy to see his hyung like this. And the fact that KCM also got to cross that bridge with his cousin is an added bonus
22:36 this made me emotional because that was the exact advice my late grandma would give my little brother and i whenever we fought and now although him and i are much older, we don’t fight much these days and even without communicating for a few days, we always manage to end up in the kitchen and talk for hours and hours to catch up. we’d also do little acts of service for each other and my brother would often ask me to join if my parents and him go for a drive to get food. this is a really important piece of advice for siblings, you only have each other once everyone else is gone and the sibling bond can’t be replaced. love ur siblings, everyone !!! 💞💞
This weirdly reminds me of how my brother didn’t talk to me and really didn’t care at all he still doesn’t today... People be grateful your siblings take care of you and actually care
Omg I loved this episode! I've been wanting an update on the episode were the brothers were fighting and i finally got it, So happy that they're getting a long. It was good that he came on to show again to tell them it's just a waste of time not talking to your siblings because life is already hard, why make it harder.I can already tell that their relationship will get better. The younger one seems like he wants to and the older one just doesn't know how since he's awkward. *** Also D.O's doppleganger! lmao He is literally D.O if he smiled
I can relate, haven't spoken to my sis in 9 yrs. I'm in my 20's now, she's 19. I've tried to reconcile with her but she makes it clear she has no interest.
Celeste I’ll recommend you to keep trying even though she might insult you but after all she is your sister it might get worse once both of you get married or goes apart to pursue your dreams and you might regret it latter so just keep trying to talk to her, offer her food or ask for her opinion and try to talk about the issue that is the cause of this fight
Aww thank ya'll for your comments & advice 😢 You'd think my sister or I am the ones suffering, but trust me when I say that those 9 yrs of not speaking to each other have been 9 yrs of a parent's broken heart. My dad even said that before he dies he wishes to see my sister & I reconciled 😢
I give my respect to the older brother who actually sent this in as a concern, from experience this really isn't a easy thing to do, me and most of my brothers are like this we rarely talk so for these two to actually try fixing thing I'm quite jealous!!
If me and my brother was at the waiting room there will be a mess 9 years? Me and my brother cant even spend a day without talking . Are any sibilings that are like me?
im crying. this story make me miss my late brother. he is only a year older from me we dont actually speak a lot. but before he passed away he hug me and speak a lot to me. unfortunately he passed after that. i hope the brothers on this story will make up.
You know...you never know when time runs out... please be good to everyone. .. siblings ..parents.. i spent all my 19 years hating my brother and now that his gone .. i feel worse..! Worse.. as in i dont even have a proper memory of us being happy..! I hurts.. ! Please try to reconcile!
Diksha Chakraborti I’ve lost contact of my sister , I’ve never talked to her for three months ever since she hit me , my older brother the last time I talk to him 13 years ago when I had enough of him molsting and raping me
This was actually one of the best episodes and most emotional that I watched I'm kinda having the same concern with three of my siblings where we had a fight and never talked again unless it's necessary.. I used to cry alot by myself because I missed talking to them but with days going we just got used to it which is very sad. It's very true the ones mostly affected by this are our parents. I hope one day we will speak out and make up with each other. 사랑해요 내 언니랑 여동생이랑 남동생.
The question of the nose job. Yes, when I first saw the older brother I thought his nose was also suspicious HOWEVER! Looking at his childhood photo (non-smiling) here at 20:22 I'm not so sure. Also, looking at his nose in profile at 23:35, his bridge is quite low and natural looking.
Hi. We are 5 siblings. I'm the youngest and my brother who's a year older than me doesn't talk to us. I remember how we were so close when we were younger then something changed in him. He became defiant, hateful and aggressive. I think I know the reason but I'm not sure if it really is. He doesn't talk to me, my siblings and even my parents. He caused so much trouble in school until college. There were guidance counselor, dean, abused girlfriend, illegal drugs and failed classes. He stopped college when he was 3rd year. My parents were so devastated. I realized one thing our family lacks communication. After that they acted as if nothing happened. As if there was no problem. Until today, we were stuck to the same old routine. Act as if everything is normal, when in reality we are a dysfunctional family. Sorry I just have to share this to let it out. Thanks. ☺
VIPEACH maybe u should try to talk to them about how u really feel, like u wrote there. Or at least show them the show. I don't really know, but i'm sure of something. Just tell them, just try. This is really important.
Same here🙌 lacks of communication and dysfunctional family, that's just how my family is. Idk... i don't think i can change it, my family condition. I just promise to myself if i ever get married later, i will make a family how it should be, warm and home sweet home, so there is no another me again🙄
VIPEACH omg we are 5siblings too and im the youngest as well but for me its my oldest brother he talks to everyone but me and idk why i havent talked to him in like 4 years
I am sorry to jump into conclusions without knowing them better but It looks like the big brother is trying to fix their relationship but the younger brother is still holding some resentment... I hope they can really work it out :(
This is what I thought too at first but if you watch all of it, you start to notice that the younger brother isn't the one with resentment. I thought the same thing but later in the show they ask the old brother if he cares how the younger is doing or what he's been up to and he says not really or something like that. Then after they try to do the eye contact thing the older is the one that won't look at him in the eye. Wow how it all changed once you get to know them a little better from the questions they get asked. Old brother says he manages an idol and you start figuring out that the young one is the one that has been pushed away and ignored by his older brother and that's probably why he dislikes him but seems to want to make up but the older just seems starts to look bad so he starts to 'pretend' (my opinion) after he starts to look bad.
Frank Narf well I think both of them want to make up again but his older brother looks like a person who has a lot of pride. That's why he's like that I guess. If he never want to make up, then why bother come to hello counsellor at the first place. And looking at the last moment when they ask him to say love you to his mom, he wouldn't do it, I think it's true that he is a person with a lot of pride
@kira I personally know what they going through. I honestly think one of them just doesn't like the type of person the other one is. I have a sister who is 5 years younger then me and at one point she started drinking a lot and became a totally different person and would refuse to pick up my phone calls and even talk to me. As we grew up, our parents would punish us with belts and such, you know how parents can be in the 1980's. Our parents are religious and of course I would pick and hit my little sister when I would get in trouble and she resented me for that. Once I hit 15 years I realized that hitting others was wrong and I started to 'make up' for it but she hated me for it even though we were kids back then. When she got drunk she would tell her friends how awful of a brother I was and such. Anyway in short I also ended up hating her personality. She'd become very arrogant and selfish and I had to help my parents out when they would get sick and she wouldn't come home at all for nothing. After a few years went by she became religious and started to seek forgiveness we sort of made up but I honestly don't miss her because I got used to it and she hadd turned into a person who I didn't like. So I don't even call her or miss her only because I just don't like her personality. It's sad I know but sometimes you just don't like the typpe of person other people are and be it blood related or not, you just don't care much for them. I personally had an uncle on my mother's side who would beat us both with a belt, until this day I resent him because even now after he got married and had his own kids he beats them because 'God' says so to do it in the Bible...hate religious people that follow a book blindly. Anyway I just think the brothers just don't care for the other because they know how shitty they probably are. And I think thats fine. Stay away from awful people and live your life. No one going to die for it. xD
Frank Narf Frank Narf awwww 😭 I'm so sad that this actually happen to you but I hope the best for all of you. It's true that when you're sick or had problems the only one you can hope for is your family. So I hope things will be better for you and your sister somehow. I myself have one brother that I hate his personality a lot but then as time goes by I think we're better nowadays. I still kinda dislike him but not to the point where I would totally despised him. I feel bad as well for my mother who keep trying to make us up. I know what you're saying as well, but I hoe things will go well with you two someday. Fighting 😁
I'm really glad they sent this concern. Glad that the younger brother from before had also been in a better term with his older brother. They are such a cute siblings. Hope if there is more concern about siblings/family not talking, they can also sent the concern here. If its difficult to start by own self or family, I think it'll be easier with 'Hello Counsellor' helping them to start like this. I'm pretty sure if in each country there is "Hello Counsellor", there might be less family being like this. Cause this will help a lot in making us try to talk.
I can relate to this so much, when my sister comes to visit I just hide in the bathroom because I feel so awkward around her so watching this felt nice, it was good to know I'm not the only one feeling like this
This is kind of redundant but I can't stop looking at the older brother's nose because it looks so unnatural.. Edit: I saw his childhood photos.. yup got his nose done... Hope they continue to talk in the future..
I laughed so hard before that because of the way the mum did the hand thing instead of actually taking out her phone and then I just can’t stop when I heard that laughter HAHAHAHAH. Nice to see somebody else noticing the things I enjoyed laughing at! 😂
thestrawberrigrl15 I also wondered about it the first time but when I went to the time mark again after seeing the original comment, I think it was the mom? Hahahaha
The older brother cares, but he just seems to have difficulty expressing his true feelings while the younger brother seems less shy about it. I hope this has helped them grow close.
my brother and I would probably be on this show, we are so aggressive, we get in physically fights, someone ends up getting hurt and crying and the other gets neglected for the whole day after some yelling, we push each other in the hallway, try to argue on any topic, etc.
omg this made me cry. i’ve had a lot of fights with my sister and the longest time we didn’t talk to each other was one week, and then one day I just found mysef talking to her and teasing her as usual. I can’t imagine myself not talking to my siblings for 9 years since. I always talk to them and we’ve created a relationship with each other and shared a lot of things together (including clothes😂). They were there to listen to my concerns that I can’t tell to anyone else, even my parents.
i think it's sad that they're like this. i have two brothers and although they make me so fucking mad sometimes i still love them. they're the closest relations to me and i grew up with them. my brother's have hit me but i forgive and move on
I hope you guys make up. I hate my brother but the only thing stopping me from leaving him in a fucking arcade in Australia is that I really fucking love him too and money.
this comment section is really scary...why you want to see someone else appereance...just let him be...he still handsome...i almost falling in love...the surgery is not the problem ...is about siblings problem....
This makes me feel apologetic to my mom. I'm seeing how real her fears of my sisters and I falling out were. When we would get in fights, she would come up with all kinds of things-- make us hug, hold hands, live as inseparable twins until we had "worked it out..." Sometimes she got upset and said, "Someday, you are going to be the only thing each other have." Our relationship isn't perfect, but we know we have to maintain a relationship.
Everybody shame to people's who are rude with the apparence of someone but here everybody is joking about the nose of the handsome man and this is absurd and quite of rude :/ (sorry I m not really good in English but I do my best)
For real, whenever a bully comes on the show everyone attacks him for being mean but here they are cyber bullying/talking crap. Just becuz he won’t see the comments doesn’t make it okay😤
The younger brother seemed to be very happy to see his brother he really wanted talk to him but what do we do to awkwardness elder brother was shy he was cute when he said “sarange “
they both seem to be handsome and independent people with an underlying kindness to each other that hasn't been able to surface due to the awkwardness ( ´∀｀) i hope that they will speak more and be brotherly to each other from now on!
My older brother did hit me maybe more than 1000 times ,,there were days that i could not breathe, because he was hitting me for 30 minutes ,,,but I do live 8 years far away from my family, ,,when I think about those days my heart has pain, ,but I talk to him,,,and don't break our relationship
people out here saying that the older brother's nose is annoying or that he got bad plastic surgery are so disrespectful if you look close 20:24 you can clearly see its not plastic and just dont judge peoples looks honestly it frustrates people.
My little sister and I were never on good terms since childhood and I was never a good brother to her. She went abroad for her studies 12 years ago and came back in 2016. By that time both her physical and mental health had been in a steady decline. Still I ignored her and went about with my daily life. Just two weeks ago she had to be rushed to the hospital when she vomited blood. Forty-eight hours later she passed away in the ICU. I regret never having the chance to reconcile with her and care for her like other good brothers. But what's the use of tears when everything has already ended? I believe I will bear this pain to the last of my days. So I beg those siblings out there, please don't turn away from each other. You don't want to live in regret for the rest of your lives. I just want you to know how valuable the bonds that tie a family together are.
I have a concern too cuz my younger brother who is 23 and sis who is 20 years they haven't talk for 2years m afraid it will be like them.I tried my best to convince my bro but he is not ready to forgive my sis. My sis actually hurt him cuz of her x bf. I should fly to Korea with my concern.😢
I can't even imagine me and my big brother not talking to each other. I even cry sometimes thinking about how he will marry someone (probably his GF) someday and we won't be able to talk to each other as much as before. He even calls me his Princess 😂😂 I love having a big brother, it's like a free bodyguard/help center/servant 😂😂
Zath B bro same here, like i dread the day my brother gets married cause i wanna chill wil him and my little brothers, but too late my brother got married few months ago .now I'm sitting here hoping my little brothers dont get married lol
Omg when I saw yongju from a similar concern in a previous episode came as a guest appearance I screamed I'm so happy that him and his brother are talking now ♥
My older sisters never talk to me for 3 years now. They always ignore me and avoid me. Sometimes I try to talk to them they tell me to go away. I can feel it. Sorry for my bad English.
I think people don't realize just how important your siblings are to you. When you grow old and think of the past, it becomes a regret, time that can't be given back. No matter how much I hate my sisters, after 3 days of fighting, I'm always like, get your stupid ass over here, we're done fighting. Appreciate them~
I'm scared that this will happen to me and my second sister. We haven't spoken to each other, not even a word, for almost a month because of a physical fight and I ended up scarring her face. It's been really awkward and we've been avoiding each other. I really don't know what to do. I need some advice other than telling me to say "I'm sorry" or something like that to her since it's not that easy to address for a socially-awkward person like me. How can I fix this?
you just have to force yourself to have an honest conversation with her. even if she doesn't want to do it at first, keep trying to approach her about it (in a concerned way, not an aggressive way) until she says yes. even if you end up fighting or feeling sad when you talk, it's okay. you just have to keep talking over time to work it out. if you never say anything because you're scared, then you'll end up like these brothers. it will just fester for years. as for exactly how to approach her, that's not something anyone can tell you how to do. all I can say, as one socially awkward person talking to another, is this: speaking from experience, ignoring or avoiding things due to fear or awkwardness does not make them go away. however difficult it is to start this conversation with your sister, things will be ten, fifty, a hundred times worse the longer and longer you wait. I know this comment is 3 months old so maybe this problem is already solved. but I just wanted to reply because I've been guilty of problem-avoidance in my life, and it's not the answer. good luck!
how do you "end up scarring someone's face"? own up to your mistake please.and being who are socially awkward sounds like an excuse , for your pride.if you want your relationship to be better my advice is be honest with yourself and her,and admit your mistake.
just talk to her as soon as possible, this happened to me and my younger brother due to a physical fight as well and we didn't talk for 4 days but i saw him walk into his room and i talked to him. I just said hi. The more time goes the harder it gets to get over it. Just one word can make it easier so do it now.
this really brought tears to my as it made me realise its still not too late to change things around in my relastionship with my brother. Though we haven't been on good terms for almost 6 years despite the fact that we live in the same house! just like these brothers, we used to be so so close when we were a child as our age gap was only a year... at first as we are both August babies, we loved the fact that we shared birthdays and always had one birthday together. Slowly, things just started to get awkward and we hated sharing birthdays.. after the age of 12 we almost became strangers and to this day we barely talk together.. but seeing this made me realise that one of us has to make the effort and i think i will as the older one
I’m honestly the person who always stop talking to my siblings after they have done something bad to me. But then after some days of not talking at all, I just apologize because this is ridiculous. I almost didnt talk to my sister for 4 years because she was kind of a bully but other people would say ”Its just how sisters treat each other”, making me feel bad all the time when i havent done anything is not sister love but kind of a bully. So I stopped talking to her, ignored her like she didnt exist..but after some years when she matured up i apologize for nothing because this shouldnt continue, now we are closer than I thought. Yes sometimes we argue but then it gets back to normal. my point=>>>>> Its sometimes good to not talk to each other but as you grow up, you should forget about the past and mature up and talk to each other y’know.
I wonder why he decided to get his nose done. His brother and mom have the same nose and it looks fine but the older brother looks a bit scary. You can tell he’s handsome tho.
I dont talk to my younger brother (1 year gap) and its been three years, tbh I takes alot of courage and I honestly feel so proud of this dude for having the courage.
The older brother seems familiar tho 😦 Ive seen him somewhere in tv or ig ? 😂 Make me so curious 😂 Anyway, Kassy is my fav idol tho, was suprised to know he is Kassy's manager!
Ha, I’d be lucky if I could go more than a few days without speaking to my brother or sister. I wish I could speak to my youngest siblings everyday but I only see them twice a month. :’(
This reminded me (even tho it’s completely different situation for me) that I’m so grateful for not having to meet my older brother anymore. It’s such a relief.
The little brother is so cute. I feel like he wanted to fix their relationship more than the older brother. He was smling at him and looked like he adores his older brother.
This reminds me of my relationship with my older brother. I grew up always interested in what he was doing but he never took an interest in me. Eventually I stopped putting effort into the relationship and only now he wonders why I stopped talking to him. relationships go both ways. Also being the younger sibling, I always felt second best to my brother. Hopefully one day we can repair our relationship : I
I'm always jealous of all the siblings in the world, I'm an only child in my family. I'm always alone every time and when I do something. this is very sad every time seeing a sibling that is not familiar to each other. they need to know to be an only child is much more sad. 😔😭🔫
When my brother and I were younger we hated each other (we are 2 years apart as well). Slowly thing resolved themselves. I will admit I was the one who started it all, but as years went by everything mellowed out and I changed. Today we are cool with each and act like a normal brother and sister relationship. The older you are the harder it is for these things to resolve. Ultimately (in my opinion) someone has to changed making the other person change as well.
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the older brother has such nice skin... drop ur routine sir
Drop it coward
Your comment is so funny i just laughed so hard 😂😂😂
Older brother: WATER 🤣 JKS
I was thinking the same😂😂
Plastic surgery lmao
This really hurts me. I`ve had a brother who was 9 years older than me. We didn`t see echother often because he lived far away and due to his studies we didn`t get to talk to eachother very often either. 2 Years ago, he then suddenly had a brain Hemmorhage and passed away at age 25. I didn`t get to say goodbye or anything in that way. We hadn`t seen eachother in Months then and nobody knew why it happened to him. I still have many regrets to this day because i feel like we wasted so much time by not talking to eachother. If i`d knew something like that would happen to him, i would`ve used every free minute to be with him but we can`t turn back time and what happend can`t be undone. I really hope these two will talk more and treasure the time they have together. you never know what will happen in Life...
What do you do when this sibling turns out to be an ahole in life and you just dont care much about them or their life because they are just awful to be around or get to know?
I'm sure your brother was a great person and I can see why you regretted it but I have a sister who I don''t care much for because she's a type of person who, if we were not related, would not be caught with no time of the day. She tried to reach out to me but I just honestly don't care for her. What do I do about that? ;/
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost a friend and we had a fight the night before he passed and it kills me. I just have this hope that somehow he knows my regrets and I will even talk to him out loud... just to feel like a weight has been lifted, like he's listening or something. Theres no right or wrong way to grieve but I feel like you should go easier on yourself. (hug)
Frank Narf same.
Michelle Hawk same here, my brother has schizophrenia and he stays in mental homes all the time.
Michelle Hawk i understand. .. i was sent to a boarding school and my brother ( 4 years older) stayed with my parents... i used to hate him as in he used to be with mom and dad ... he died last year and i couldn't even see him...! I was told when i came back home...! Regrets are worse...
I DON'T KNOW WHY BUT THE YOUNGER BROTHER REMINDS ME OF KYUNGSOO; ;;
YASSSSSSSSSSSS
• Mochi Tokki • I AGREEEE
Agreeeee
• Mochi Tokki • I can see some resemblance between the 2
shit, I thought I was the only one who thought so too
i think the younger really adore his hyung, he smile brightly when he sees his brother, but the older, say that he doesn't really care the younger, although i'm sure the older just as curious as the younger, i hope they can be close from now on.
Cindy T well he got used to it and it would be awkward for him to claim he is curiois suddebly moreover he gets all news out of his mom and bcs he is older it was harder for him to express affection and keep eye contact bcs he knows he hurted his mom with this problem but people are saying he is pridefull and didn't want to reconcil as much as the younger one but he got so used to it it's been 9 years you know and once he tried to get close he was brushed off and he thought that the other hated him so it got more severe so such missunderstandings made it hard to start again
well the older brother wrote in, so it's not like he doesn't care or is not willing to try. It's just that being around his brother intimidates him greatly because I think he still feels guilty over what happened 9 years ago.
If he didn't care why would he go on the show?
when he called out his younger brother and the younger one was ready to reply that made my heart so warm i cried lmaoo
You can tell that the younger brother wanted to hug him for a very long time, MY HEART!!! UGH he is so cute
The younger brother was trying so much urgh he's so cute it melts my heart 💓
Ikon Bobby vibes from the older brother
Exo Kyungsoo vibes from the younger brother
i dont ship blackpink and bts yeah😂😂😂
icarat 7
Whats wrong with you and your existence?
icarat 7 Umm......ahem......cause its stupid af
icarat 7 thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard? If everyone in the fandom was junping off a cliff would you jump too?
icarat 7 what's wrong? It's her choice whether she ship them or not isn't it everyone has diff opinion so nothing's wrong in it
When the girlfriend got embarrassed was so cute
I called my sister too after seeing this, we talked after 6 years. It felt so nice I'm so happy!
Everything is still ok between you?
@@jessijess8806 no actually nothing changed on the relationship between us. I tried talking once a week like they said, then more. She never hang up on me, but she never called back and she spoke with one-word answers or not at all. Then I tried texting too. I invited her many times to my home she never came once.
It came to the point I asked why and she told me she doesn't want me, she said I'm too much and she thinks I think less of her somehow as a person. I of course explained that I never thought like that about her and I love her, I loved her since birth and I took care of her. she said that she knows that, then she was dismissive I tried to confront the situation again she told me I'm too emotional,she started making fun of my feelings. After taking, it came down to the point where she has resentment, jealousy, unreasonable competitiveness, I think because of her so low self esteem. And maybe I'd think It's my fault, if I were here with her all these years or done anything, but I actually was abroad working for 10years. And before I leave we didn't have any issues, she loved me just fine and our fights would be normal like who gets to sit on the tv or don't touch my makeup type of fights and not often. So I don't know where this is coming from at all. So all the effort help with nothing but making me more sad and feel rejected again for nothing that's my fault anyway.because I'm the oldest I thought it should be me who should try to amend the relationship and I tried for about 2 years. Plus the time I was abroad I tried to have contact. But after that I find it pointless. So I told her that I love her and she knows where I live she has my number and it's up to her.
I thought if she has issues she's an adult now and she can address them herself. She has the right to not want me in her life for her reasons. I can't do anything about low self esteem and her other issues and I definitely won't be needy and begging for my sister to like me love me etc. If she doesn't well she doesn't. It is what it is I've done my part I tried. It's over. I'm thinking why would I want someone who dismisses me, hates me and disrespects me and doesn't want me or love me in my life? Why should I be the one who tries? And for what? We are practically strangers. Truth is I no longer miss her. I don't think of her anymore for the past year. I never hated her or jealous her or done anything to deserve such behavior. So why would I feel like I have to fix it? No, It's is what it is she made her choice. I made mine a year ago, today I feel like I never had a sister and it feels good actually all the stress is gone. I made more progress on life in one year not dealing with her, thinking or talking with her than I made in 4 years. I am able to focus on me instead of begging for my sister to accept me I realized I lost all that energy on her feeling down. Especially when she'd give me attention show she loved me sometimes when she wanted stuff and then ghosting me again. No thanks. If I had to go back in time, what I'd I do different is I'd try once or twice to amend the relationship and then stop. Not wondering why, what did I do wrong,how is this my fault etc. Now I see her like the distant relative who you never see or talk in your life unless you meet on a wedding or a funeral and say hi and walk away, never think of her again. If she texts or calls on some occasion then again I feel like that random relative texted so it's not a big deal anymore. I really recommend it to anyone who's reading this and going through a similar thing, to just ignore them and move on. No resentment, no hard feelings just don't care 💅 move on and forget about it.
The mom is so pretty
이지Izzy she's such a cutie mom =3
I noticed that too. She looks so sweet.
Ah this made me cry so much because I just lost my older sister 6-7 months ago and it hurts me seeing this because we weren't that close but we started getting closer as we grew up. Talk to each other because if you dont, you might lose them and it'll be too late to go back. I just had memories of my sister and I miss her so much..
Nancy Xiong omg be strong 😭 it’s so sad hearing someone who lost their close family. My friend also lost her mom today. My condolence to you 😢
Nancy Xiong it's ok dear
Ik we don’t know each other but stay strong! ❤️❤️❤️ I wish you the best :)
Nancy Xiong I’m sorry for your loss.
Stay strong girl, she will always watching you from heaven.
My condolences. Stay grateful for the memories 💛
I feel like in the end the younger brother was the one that was trying more when it came to the part where they were looking at each other and talking
i think the older brother is just more shy, and the awkwardness is more intense for him.
It’s prob because the older one feels embarrassed and like he messed up when he hit his younger brother. It’s really hard to own up to it all and he felt like he tried and got shut down by his little brother. Turns out the little brother was always looking up to his older brother and waiting on him to notice him
But if you listened well the older brother tried to make up with him a few times and he refused. He was the one who walked away when they were supposed to take a photo together! So it's unfair to judge his hyeong based on how he acted in front of the camera surrounded by celebrities! Most people would feel awkward
True, but i think the older brother is much more shy or maybe introvert so it must be difficult for him to ask the help of the program.
I say it is a big effort on his part too. The younger brother, I can see it came easy on him since it seems like he is much more confident and outgoing he was just waiting for his brother to make the first move.
The effort will depend on the personality of an a person, I am an introvert so I can recognize that the older brother is a little bit like it. If not he must be a very private person and does not enjoy being in the limelight.
Is no one gonna talk about Chang Mo and his cousin’s call?? BECAUSE IT WAS SO CUTE AND THE COUSIN’s LITTLE LAUGHS ARE SO HAPPY AND SOOTHING. GLAD THAT THEY MANAGED TO SOLVE ANOTHER MINOR MISUNDERSTANDING IN THIS EPISODE
The call with the Guest MC/guest star had me in tears!!! When he said 'why would I be awkward?' my heart just went 'that's how people should behave! Don't hold grudges and just get over it'...
I really hope they change their relationship. You could tell the younger brother was just so happy to see his hyung like this. And the fact that KCM also got to cross that bridge with his cousin is an added bonus
22:36 this made me emotional because that was the exact advice my late grandma would give my little brother and i whenever we fought and now although him and i are much older, we don’t fight much these days and even without communicating for a few days, we always manage to end up in the kitchen and talk for hours and hours to catch up. we’d also do little acts of service for each other and my brother would often ask me to join if my parents and him go for a drive to get food. this is a really important piece of advice for siblings, you only have each other once everyone else is gone and the sibling bond can’t be replaced. love ur siblings, everyone !!! 💞💞
THIS ALMOST MADE ME CRY.
They seem on a really good track, and they it really feels like the desire to bond again is there. Best wishes to these two!
This weirdly reminds me of how my brother didn’t talk to me and really didn’t care at all he still doesn’t today... People be grateful your siblings take care of you and actually care
Wasn't there a concern exactly like this between brothers?
Shiny_22_15 yea they didn't speak for 8yrs
The dude in grey who spoke, was the youngest brother
Shiny_22_15 exactly my thought.. but its quite frightening that something like this occurs between family.. 9 yrs w/o talking?
Shiny_22_15 hmm yup
Shiny_22_15 there were many concerns like this, not only brothers but between brothers and sisters too.
If all you can do is focus on his nose....
eireealasaid same
afnan01 markz 😂😂😂
WTF SAME AHAHA
I can't.
It's super close to being voldemort's 😂😂
I'm sorry i had to-✌🏻✌🏻
Omg I loved this episode! I've been wanting an update on the episode were the brothers were fighting and i finally got it, So happy that they're getting a long. It was good that he came on to show again to tell them it's just a waste of time not talking to your siblings because life is already hard, why make it harder.I can already tell that their relationship will get better. The younger one seems like he wants to and the older one just doesn't know how since he's awkward.
*** Also D.O's doppleganger! lmao He is literally D.O if he smiled
oh which one was the one for the fighting brothers?
the little brother looks like kyungsoo he is so adorable!!
I can relate, haven't spoken to my sis in 9 yrs. I'm in my 20's now, she's 19. I've tried to reconcile with her but she makes it clear she has no interest.
I hope things get better for you two.
Celeste I’ll recommend you to keep trying even though she might insult you but after all she is your sister it might get worse once both of you get married or goes apart to pursue your dreams and you might regret it latter so just keep trying to talk to her, offer her food or ask for her opinion and try to talk about the issue that is the cause of this fight
she has interest ofc but she doesn’t want to say it for sure
Aww thank ya'll for your comments & advice 😢 You'd think my sister or I am the ones suffering, but trust me when I say that those 9 yrs of not speaking to each other have been 9 yrs of a parent's broken heart. My dad even said that before he dies he wishes to see my sister & I reconciled 😢
Wait when she has kids she will understand meaning of family of her own, lose family member close . Realize life too short.
I give my respect to the older brother who actually sent this in as a concern, from experience this really isn't a easy thing to do, me and most of my brothers are like this we rarely talk so for these two to actually try fixing thing I'm quite jealous!!
am i the only one that think his younger brother looks like d.o at a first glance?
If me and my brother was at the waiting room there will be a mess
9 years?
Me and my brother cant even spend a day without talking .
Are any sibilings that are like me?
@@meow-xn8mt duh I know I was talking about my life
I have two younger brothers and we talk daily.
im crying. this story make me miss my late brother. he is only a year older from me we dont actually speak a lot. but before he passed away he hug me and speak a lot to me. unfortunately he passed after that. i hope the brothers on this story will make up.
The older brother’s nose is really distracting me
Suni Yee same omg
Yup
NCT_TYtrack you can tell by the nostrils it’s from a tip lift
@@CosimasNiehaus Yeah like MJ
Bullies
This was lovely to watch. I hope they will now start to make beautiful memories with each other and their parents.
You know...you never know when time runs out... please be good to everyone. .. siblings ..parents.. i spent all my 19 years hating my brother and now that his gone .. i feel worse..! Worse.. as in i dont even have a proper memory of us being happy..! I hurts.. ! Please try to reconcile!
Diksha Chakraborti exactly. Many assume those around be around forever. Not always true.
Katherine Canon we dont value them when they are near... but we understand when they are gone
Diksha Chakraborti I’ve lost contact of my sister , I’ve never talked to her for three months ever since she hit me , my older brother the last time I talk to him 13 years ago when I had enough of him molsting and raping me
i need to sleep- but- hello counselor
This was actually one of the best episodes and most emotional that I watched I'm kinda having the same concern with three of my siblings where we had a fight and never talked again unless it's necessary.. I used to cry alot by myself because I missed talking to them but with days going we just got used to it which is very sad. It's very true the ones mostly affected by this are our parents. I hope one day we will speak out and make up with each other.
사랑해요 내 언니랑 여동생이랑 남동생.
The question of the nose job. Yes, when I first saw the older brother I thought his nose was also suspicious
HOWEVER! Looking at his childhood photo (non-smiling) here at 20:22 I'm not so sure. Also, looking at his nose in profile at 23:35, his bridge is quite low and natural looking.
Hi. We are 5 siblings. I'm the youngest and my brother who's a year older than me doesn't talk to us. I remember how we were so close when we were younger then something changed in him. He became defiant, hateful and aggressive. I think I know the reason but I'm not sure if it really is. He doesn't talk to me, my siblings and even my parents.
He caused so much trouble in school until college. There were guidance counselor, dean, abused girlfriend, illegal drugs and failed classes. He stopped college when he was 3rd year. My parents were so devastated.
I realized one thing our family lacks communication. After that they acted as if nothing happened. As if there was no problem. Until today, we were stuck to the same old routine. Act as if everything is normal, when in reality we are a dysfunctional family.
Sorry I just have to share this to let it out. Thanks. ☺
VIPEACH maybe u should try to talk to them about how u really feel, like u wrote there. Or at least show them the show. I don't really know, but i'm sure of something. Just tell them, just try. This is really important.
Kunoko Aeri I tried. I suggested family counseling. I think they're still in ignore or deny how we are a dysfunctional family.
Same here🙌 lacks of communication and dysfunctional family, that's just how my family is. Idk... i don't think i can change it, my family condition. I just promise to myself if i ever get married later, i will make a family how it should be, warm and home sweet home, so there is no another me again🙄
VIPEACH omg we are 5siblings too and im the youngest as well but for me its my oldest brother he talks to everyone but me and idk why i havent talked to him in like 4 years
I hope u r doing okay? 😀
I am sorry to jump into conclusions without knowing them better but It looks like the big brother is trying to fix their relationship but the younger brother is still holding some resentment... I hope they can really work it out :(
This is what I thought too at first but if you watch all of it, you start to notice that the younger brother isn't the one with resentment. I thought the same thing but later in the show they ask the old brother if he cares how the younger is doing or what he's been up to and he says not really or something like that. Then after they try to do the eye contact thing the older is the one that won't look at him in the eye. Wow how it all changed once you get to know them a little better from the questions they get asked. Old brother says he manages an idol and you start figuring out that the young one is the one that has been pushed away and ignored by his older brother and that's probably why he dislikes him but seems to want to make up but the older just seems starts to look bad so he starts to 'pretend' (my opinion) after he starts to look bad.
If you watch the whole thing it's actually the opposite.
Frank Narf well I think both of them want to make up again but his older brother looks like a person who has a lot of pride. That's why he's like that I guess. If he never want to make up, then why bother come to hello counsellor at the first place. And looking at the last moment when they ask him to say love you to his mom, he wouldn't do it, I think it's true that he is a person with a lot of pride
@kira I personally know what they going through. I honestly think one of them just doesn't like the type of person the other one is. I have a sister who is 5 years younger then me and at one point she started drinking a lot and became a totally different person and would refuse to pick up my phone calls and even talk to me. As we grew up, our parents would punish us with belts and such, you know how parents can be in the 1980's. Our parents are religious and of course I would pick and hit my little sister when I would get in trouble and she resented me for that. Once I hit 15 years I realized that hitting others was wrong and I started to 'make up' for it but she hated me for it even though we were kids back then. When she got drunk she would tell her friends how awful of a brother I was and such.
Anyway in short I also ended up hating her personality. She'd become very arrogant and selfish and I had to help my parents out when they would get sick and she wouldn't come home at all for nothing. After a few years went by she became religious and started to seek forgiveness we sort of made up but I honestly don't miss her because I got used to it and she hadd turned into a person who I didn't like. So I don't even call her or miss her only because I just don't like her personality. It's sad I know but sometimes you just don't like the typpe of person other people are and be it blood related or not, you just don't care much for them.
I personally had an uncle on my mother's side who would beat us both with a belt, until this day I resent him because even now after he got married and had his own kids he beats them because 'God' says so to do it in the Bible...hate religious people that follow a book blindly.
Anyway I just think the brothers just don't care for the other because they know how shitty they probably are. And I think thats fine. Stay away from awful people and live your life. No one going to die for it. xD
Frank Narf Frank Narf awwww 😭 I'm so sad that this actually happen to you but I hope the best for all of you. It's true that when you're sick or had problems the only one you can hope for is your family. So I hope things will be better for you and your sister somehow. I myself have one brother that I hate his personality a lot but then as time goes by I think we're better nowadays. I still kinda dislike him but not to the point where I would totally despised him. I feel bad as well for my mother who keep trying to make us up. I know what you're saying as well, but I hoe things will go well with you two someday. Fighting 😁
the younger brother reminds me of kyungsoo when he smiles
I'm really glad they sent this concern. Glad that the younger brother from before had also been in a better term with his older brother. They are such a cute siblings.
Hope if there is more concern about siblings/family not talking, they can also sent the concern here. If its difficult to start by own self or family, I think it'll be easier with 'Hello Counsellor' helping them to start like this.
I'm pretty sure if in each country there is "Hello Counsellor", there might be less family being like this. Cause this will help a lot in making us try to talk.
I can relate to this so much, when my sister comes to visit I just hide in the bathroom because I feel so awkward around her so watching this felt nice, it was good to know I'm not the only one feeling like this
This is kind of redundant but I can't stop looking at the older brother's nose because it looks so unnatural.. Edit: I saw his childhood photos.. yup got his nose done... Hope they continue to talk in the future..
blueraineee omg yes me too 😅
same 😮
I got reminded slightly of voldemort xD
it's a bad nose job...too much of his nostrils(upturned) are showing and too narrow for his face which is why it's so noticeable
yess,me too😂
Go to 24:29 and listen to that laugh😂😂
Tava Laulu Omg i didnt notice that 😂😂 thanks to you 😂😂
I know! Who was that lol 😂
I laughed so hard before that because of the way the mum did the hand thing instead of actually taking out her phone and then I just can’t stop when I heard that laughter HAHAHAHAH.
Nice to see somebody else noticing the things I enjoyed laughing at! 😂
thestrawberrigrl15 I also wondered about it the first time but when I went to the time mark again after seeing the original comment, I think it was the mom? Hahahaha
The younger brother looks a lot like D.O. :D
Yeah I noticed that too :D
Me when I watch this on my TV: "Is that D.O? He sure looks like D.O a lot...."
Natasha Prameswari he looks nothing like do
N In my opinion, he resembles D.O and apparently a lot of people agree with me in this comment section hehe It's okay if you say so
Natasha Prameswari I thought the same xd
Yes, he does kinda look like DO because of his smiles resembles his
Same and he is my bias..😅
The older brother cares, but he just seems to have difficulty expressing his true feelings while the younger brother seems less shy about it. I hope this has helped them grow close.
it's kind of awkward when someone gets surgery and the surgeon does a bad job.
LOL!!!!
SKSKSK
i'm sorry but my eyes cant stop looking at 'that' part. whoever did the surgery should be sued, really.
his nose
What do you mean?
I don't know why but I'm smilling all the time they have interaction 😄
my brother and I would probably be on this show, we are so aggressive, we get in physically fights, someone ends up getting hurt and crying and the other gets neglected for the whole day after some yelling, we push each other in the hallway, try to argue on any topic, etc.
This is indeed a very marvellous show.Hope they grow more helping out more people.I wish the brothers good luck✌
"They ghosted on us" 😂😂😂😂
omg this made me cry. i’ve had a lot of fights with my sister and the longest time we didn’t talk to each other was one week, and then one day I just found mysef talking to her and teasing her as usual. I can’t imagine myself not talking to my siblings for 9 years since. I always talk to them and we’ve created a relationship with each other and shared a lot of things together (including clothes😂). They were there to listen to my concerns that I can’t tell to anyone else, even my parents.
i think it's sad that they're like this. i have two brothers and although they make me so fucking mad sometimes i still love them. they're the closest relations to me and i grew up with them. my brother's have hit me but i forgive and move on
That's how me and my brother are and I'm only 13 and I haven't talked to him since I was in 1st grade.
i urge you to talk to him today, it will make life much better for both of you
I could never stop talking to my sister, even when we fight and don't speak to each other for 20min we end up laughing and talking.
Aw they are both so lovely and their mother is adorable shame some kids can’t talk with each other
I hope you guys make up. I hate my brother but the only thing stopping me from leaving him in a fucking arcade in Australia is that I really fucking love him too and money.
this comment section is really scary...why you want to see someone else appereance...just let him be...he still handsome...i almost falling in love...the surgery is not the problem ...is about siblings problem....
This makes me feel apologetic to my mom. I'm seeing how real her fears of my sisters and I falling out were.
When we would get in fights, she would come up with all kinds of things-- make us hug, hold hands, live as inseparable twins until we had "worked it out..." Sometimes she got upset and said, "Someday, you are going to be the only thing each other have." Our relationship isn't perfect, but we know we have to maintain a relationship.
Everybody shame to people's who are rude with the apparence of someone but here everybody is joking about the nose of the handsome man and this is absurd and quite of rude :/ (sorry I m not really good in English but I do my best)
For real, whenever a bully comes on the show everyone attacks him for being mean but here they are cyber bullying/talking crap. Just becuz he won’t see the comments doesn’t make it okay😤
The younger brother seemed to be very happy to see his brother he really wanted talk to him but what do we do to awkwardness elder brother was shy he was cute when he said “sarange “
they both seem to be handsome and independent people with an underlying kindness to each other that hasn't been able to surface due to the awkwardness ( ´∀｀) i hope that they will speak more and be brotherly to each other from now on!
My older brother did hit me maybe more than 1000 times ,,there were days that i could not breathe, because he was hitting me for 30 minutes ,,,but I do live 8 years far away from my family, ,,when I think about those days my heart has pain, ,but I talk to him,,,and don't break our relationship
Hey,we can talk about this to each other when you felt alone
people out here saying that the older brother's nose is annoying or that he got bad plastic surgery are so disrespectful if you look close 20:24 you can clearly see its not plastic and just dont judge peoples looks honestly it frustrates people.
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My little sister and I were never on good terms since childhood and I was never a good brother to her. She went abroad for her studies 12 years ago and came back in 2016. By that time both her physical and mental health had been in a steady decline. Still I ignored her and went about with my daily life. Just two weeks ago she had to be rushed to the hospital when she vomited blood. Forty-eight hours later she passed away in the ICU. I regret never having the chance to reconcile with her and care for her like other good brothers. But what's the use of tears when everything has already ended? I believe I will bear this pain to the last of my days. So I beg those siblings out there, please don't turn away from each other. You don't want to live in regret for the rest of your lives. I just want you to know how valuable the bonds that tie a family together are.
Oh my god the younger brother looks like Kyungsoo😳😮
That's why the older brother looking good he a manager of an idol
I have a concern too cuz my younger brother who is 23 and sis who is 20 years they haven't talk for 2years m afraid it will be like them.I tried my best to convince my bro but he is not ready to forgive my sis. My sis actually hurt him cuz of her x bf.
I should fly to Korea with my concern.😢
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I can't even imagine me and my big brother not talking to each other. I even cry sometimes thinking about how he will marry someone (probably his GF) someday and we won't be able to talk to each other as much as before. He even calls me his Princess 😂😂 I love having a big brother, it's like a free bodyguard/help center/servant 😂😂
Zath B bro same here, like i dread the day my brother gets married cause i wanna chill wil him and my little brothers, but too late my brother got married few months ago .now I'm sitting here hoping my little brothers dont get married lol
lanilani Yehet I feel you bro. But think about as if you got a sister and didn't lose your brother. That's what I try to do 😭
Omg when I saw yongju from a similar concern in a previous episode came as a guest appearance I screamed I'm so happy that him and his brother are talking now ♥
My older sisters never talk to me for 3 years now. They always ignore me and avoid me. Sometimes I try to talk to them they tell me to go away. I can feel it. Sorry for my bad English.
Elisa Alison u can talk with me instead..heh
Afiq Muhauyidin thank you
My english not so good and very bad we can become friend here elisa
Tias Mukti Hi
Hi too have nice day my friend elisa
I think people don't realize just how important your siblings are to you. When you grow old and think of the past, it becomes a regret, time that can't be given back. No matter how much I hate my sisters, after 3 days of fighting, I'm always like, get your stupid ass over here, we're done fighting. Appreciate them~
I'm scared that this will happen to me and my second sister. We haven't spoken to each other, not even a word, for almost a month because of a physical fight and I ended up scarring her face. It's been really awkward and we've been avoiding each other. I really don't know what to do. I need some advice other than telling me to say "I'm sorry" or something like that to her since it's not that easy to address for a socially-awkward person like me. How can I fix this?
you just have to force yourself to have an honest conversation with her. even if she doesn't want to do it at first, keep trying to approach her about it (in a concerned way, not an aggressive way) until she says yes. even if you end up fighting or feeling sad when you talk, it's okay. you just have to keep talking over time to work it out. if you never say anything because you're scared, then you'll end up like these brothers. it will just fester for years.
as for exactly how to approach her, that's not something anyone can tell you how to do. all I can say, as one socially awkward person talking to another, is this: speaking from experience, ignoring or avoiding things due to fear or awkwardness does not make them go away. however difficult it is to start this conversation with your sister, things will be ten, fifty, a hundred times worse the longer and longer you wait.
I know this comment is 3 months old so maybe this problem is already solved. but I just wanted to reply because I've been guilty of problem-avoidance in my life, and it's not the answer. good luck!
how do you "end up scarring someone's face"? own up to your mistake please.and being who are socially awkward sounds like an excuse , for your pride.if you want your relationship to be better my advice is be honest with yourself and her,and admit your mistake.
just talk to her as soon as possible, this happened to me and my younger brother due to a physical fight as well and we didn't talk for 4 days but i saw him walk into his room and i talked to him. I just said hi. The more time goes the harder it gets to get over it. Just one word can make it easier so do it now.
It's been 3 years how was your relationship?
this really brought tears to my as it made me realise its still not too late to change things around in my relastionship with my brother. Though we haven't been on good terms for almost 6 years despite the fact that we live in the same house! just like these brothers, we used to be so so close when we were a child as our age gap was only a year... at first as we are both August babies, we loved the fact that we shared birthdays and always had one birthday together. Slowly, things just started to get awkward and we hated sharing birthdays.. after the age of 12 we almost became strangers and to this day we barely talk together.. but seeing this made me realise that one of us has to make the effort and i think i will as the older one
I’m honestly the person who always stop talking to my siblings after they have done something bad to me. But then after some days of not talking at all, I just apologize because this is ridiculous. I almost didnt talk to my sister for 4 years because she was kind of a bully but other people would say ”Its just how sisters treat each other”, making me feel bad all the time when i havent done anything is not sister love but kind of a bully. So I stopped talking to her, ignored her like she didnt exist..but after some years when she matured up i apologize for nothing because this shouldnt continue, now we are closer than I thought. Yes sometimes we argue but then it gets back to normal.
my point=>>>>> Its sometimes good to not talk to each other but as you grow up, you should forget about the past and mature up and talk to each other y’know.
the younger brother is so sweet
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You should search up hello counselor brothers dont talk for 8 years. That episode is similar but better in my opinion.
The fact tht you can see the older brother smiling when he said he wanted to be good brother to him
Can ppl stop pinpoint the brother ps? He can do anything he want.
i havent talked with my sister for a loooooong time and i never regret
I wonder why he decided to get his nose done. His brother and mom have the same nose and it looks fine but the older brother looks a bit scary. You can tell he’s handsome tho.
I dont talk to my younger brother (1 year gap) and its been three years, tbh I takes alot of courage and I honestly feel so proud of this dude for having the courage.
The older brother seems familiar tho 😦 Ive seen him somewhere in tv or ig ? 😂 Make me so curious 😂 Anyway, Kassy is my fav idol tho, was suprised to know he is Kassy's manager!
VIXXDOTCOM_ he kinda looks like the actor of Man to man on Netflix the actor’s name is hae jin park
Aria Avilez Yeap and he look alike Park Min Woo whom in Roommate S2 . They really look the same for me xD
VIXXDOTCOM_ Yes! Lord he’s a mix of both lol
Aria Avilez Omg yes yes D
now wannaone manager.....
Just thinking about not talking to one of my siblings for such a long time makes me so sad. I'm glad they took this step.
Where is the full ep? Where can I watch it🤔
They're so handsome in their own way. Like, the older brother is very stylish and the younger bro is very innocent-like nice type of guy.
The Older brother is handsome and the Youngest brother looks like D.O. daebak!! Handsome Brothers 😍😍
Ha, I’d be lucky if I could go more than a few days without speaking to my brother or sister. I wish I could speak to my youngest siblings everyday but I only see them twice a month. :’(
This reminded me (even tho it’s completely different situation for me) that I’m so grateful for not having to meet my older brother anymore.
It’s such a relief.
Imagine the plot twist:
I am actually Red Velvet's manager
The little brother is so cute. I feel like he wanted to fix their relationship more than the older brother. He was smling at him and looked like he adores his older brother.
Is it me or the younger brother looks like D.O.? Except for the hair, his face and gestures remind me of D.O. lol
It can work... with time and effort!!
I hope for the best 🥰🥰
The older brothers nose looks unnaturally small for his face, it kinda creeps me out. This is not natural, bad example of plastic surgery probably.
Unicorn Bertha it is
I kinda feel sorry for him
you cant mess with the nostril area. Just the bridge.
Indeed, less chances of messing the whole face up
This reminds me of my relationship with my older brother. I grew up always interested in what he was doing but he never took an interest in me. Eventually I stopped putting effort into the relationship and only now he wonders why I stopped talking to him. relationships go both ways. Also being the younger sibling, I always felt second best to my brother. Hopefully one day we can repair our relationship : I
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The younger brother really does look like Kyungsoo but he also looks just like his mum.
I'm always jealous of all the siblings in the world, I'm an only child in my family. I'm always alone every time and when I do something. this is very sad every time seeing a sibling that is not familiar to each other. they need to know to be an only child is much more sad. 😔😭🔫
When my brother and I were younger we hated each other (we are 2 years apart as well). Slowly thing resolved themselves. I will admit I was the one who started it all, but as years went by everything mellowed out and I changed. Today we are cool with each and act like a normal brother and sister relationship. The older you are the harder it is for these things to resolve. Ultimately (in my opinion) someone has to changed making the other person change as well.