Only strict to older daughter."You should do it Because You're a Girl"[Hello Counselor /2018.06.11]
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Hello Counselor EP.367
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And she doesnt treat you as her older brother is because you dont act like one
Ooooooooooh
yessss omg this is so true
i’ve a brother too
he’s pretty abusive , i must say he’s better now not as abusive than last time , but he still is . and that is why i don’t treat him as a older brother . because he scolds me , beats me , call me mean names , bring down my self esteem and everything :(
Yes, so true. 😟
yesss you have to do something to respect to be respected
I have a abusive brother too ....And i dont want my life
The brother doesnt care at all with this problem. With his legs crossed i dont think he even take this seriously.
cocky bastard
He didnt even respect the councelors . Look at his face and body language
eh eh 😂 english kau bagus bhai 😂
@@myaaoml hahahahah...
@@nasilemak2686 tibe je nasi lemak 😂
Period cramps hurts like hell, her father and brother should try the period cramps simulator.
No just fucking kill them
men who are jerks* should.
omg I am a girl,and the cramps hurt like you wouldn’t be able to walk it would be so hard and you would feel like just sitting down and doing nothing. It hurts to death but us girls we hold our pain in. I wish the brother and father just understood her pain.
My cramps got so bad one time that I was vomiting and I even fainted. So I hate when people(especially the people who don’t experience it) says that it doesn’t hurt
dont blame brother hes grown up thinking like that
11:00 "He's so handsome!" No he's not he's ugly both outside and inside stop lying like that 💀💀💀
fvsko fax lmafo💀
Fr fr
Ikr
I agree
Ok maybe inside but pls dont joke about his face it’s unprofessional
God bless her uncle for unleashing some truth and sympathy
it would be even better if the uncle adopted her since her brother abuses her and her own dad doesn't give a f
it would be even better if he beats both her brothers and her dads butts before adopting her
@@nadia2883 😆😆😆😆... 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽. One for the road
Wow Was I the only one that got shocked to know that the brother punched her and grabbed her hair until she falls on the floor ? This is totally abusive and wrong , I feel bad for his future wife ( like my mom said , the way the man treats his mom and sister is the same way he will treat his wife).
Right?, it frustated me so much! I hope she does well because I dont think they´re really going to chance much. It frustates me so much!
Yeahh so sad , because they are a family that is trying to surpass the loss of the mother , but instead of help each other they are just hurtig each other ( and it looks like the father and the brother are abusive with her ).
Hunti he ain't getting a wife after this show
Still there are some men who are super good with their sisters,mother but so abusive toward their own wives and kids sometimes their moms order them to abuse their wives and they full fill that wish!!!! My dad was one of them!!!!
Sigh My brother is the same tbh. I alrdy notice that my other bros are thinking it's normal to be that toxic. I remember a metal sharpener being thrown at my head then having my head hit the wall. He even thought "that" was normal but I feel like me n my siblings are a bit used to it now n we get over it more easily.
"She doesn't treat/talk to me like I'm her older brother"
Me: *"because you don't DESERVE to be treated like an older brother"*
I want hello counselor to bring back everyone that comes on the show after a year to see how things are going. I highly doubt all of them go home and say yeah we'll change cuz we went on the show LMAO
Exactly my thoughts
Yes that's what I'm thinking also
SAMEEEE I BE THINKING AB HOW I WANNA SEE HOW THEY ARE NOW
The brother has some *serious* problems. This family looks like it's gonna fall apart at some point.
I hope it does. It'll be better
Yeah he gave off some weird vibes to me. He's probably gonna end up like his father
I want to punch the brother so bad. So fkn rude and thinks he doesn’t have to do anything because he is older and male
Me too. I Hope the middle child
Grows up and find someone good. I hoe she does not bring her familial issues to the next generation
I hope she gets a good job and gets out of that hell of a family
Girl that brother...I see through him -.- he’s abusive
The Ship That Carries Taeny And the fact that the anchors sided with him makes me furious. This is really a sad situation. 😢😢
I don't think he's abusive because she said they get into fights, not that only he hits her. I used to fight like that with my brothers too (I'm also a girl, and we would punch, kick and grab by the hairs too), and it's a pretty common thing between siblings where I live.
But, he is relying on her to do every chore by herself and has the audacity to nag her about it too. He's an asshole, but I don't think the fighting is abuse.
The Ship That Carries Taeny
I feel bad for his future gf
I wouldn't treat him as a older brother he look like a whole bowl
I feel like his future wife is gonna be on this show too👀
The brother couldn't mask his aggressive nature even while on TV when he said: "am i your friend or what?!" You can tell how fierce and domineering he must be in the intimacy of their home too.
I honestly think that the children should live under the roof of the uncle for a while because he seems to understand more and would most likely make it more even and make everyone appreciate her for what she does
Mocha Choca EXACTLY
He seemed to learn of the misbehavior of their parents, too bad his brother didn't and now the girl has to suffer
childREN nah just the two sister. let that disgusting filth the brother and the father fend themselves and cook and clean after their own shet
@@dw-oc7uj NICE IDEA!
I feel like this wasn't took seriously.. Like when she said how her brother punched her and threw her on the floor, they said ``if you call him oppa, he sad he will treat you better`` then talked about other things...For real, i'm still worried for this girl..I hope she'll be okay
Jimin's penicillium Me too, and the fact that he complains about her not cleaning it good enough, when he can’t even hang up his wet clothes, and she does it for him!
Same. Her adolescence is similar to mine. Although, my mother was living. She had horrible spats of depression, anxiety, and uncontrollable rage. So, it didn't feel like she was my mother. But I always got scapegoated with the housework. I did everything from watching my sisters kids, to the daily chores, cooking, and taking my grandmother to radiation therapy after she had brain surgery. I also cared for her after she had a stroke. No one ever cared or complimented me but my grandmother. This continued into adulthood, into my pregnancy, and well after I gave birth. My older sister and I always fought as teens and young adults. I am the youngest of three girls. But my parents favored the eldest and middle daughters. The second oldest would accuse me of taking her things, we would fight (physically too), and then she would find her belongings later. Never apologized. I didn't really have a relationship with my oldest sister until I was at the older end of my teen years. We are 14 years apart in age. So, she was grown and moved out before I could even walk in a totally straight line. My father grew up in a turbulent home and tried to avoid all the hysterics at any cost. He thinks silence and distance in tense situations would keep him from being like HIS father. Which leads to me lacking my father's love in times when I really needed it. I tried to run away several times. I self-harmed. My mother even kicked me out during one of her fits of anger. There were times when I wanted to die. So, they definitely should take this more seriously.
Time Bomb Terry I'm not sure if there are any words to comfort you but I'm so glad you grew up well in such circumstances...you are really strong and I'm sure your gonna be a great parent whom your kids will look up to 😀
I hope you're living a better life now and I wish you all the best...stay strong 😊😊
Thank you so much! I overcame. Given my circumstances, it wasn't easy. I am thankful for my upbringing, in a way. I learned a lot about myself in those tough times. And I never want to put my son in a position like I was. I tell him I love him every day. Make sure to hug him everyday while he still lets me. Lol. And I always thank him when he does things for me on his own and when I ask him. He's the reason I stay strong.
Time Bomb Terry you're amazing❤I'm sure your son loves you so much and he must be so proud to have a someone like you in his life...someone to look up to😊
she holds her tears too well....that's...so sad
some people have suffered emotionally so much and cried so much that they can't cry anymore
Maybe she is being used to hold her tears..
Ikr
inspiritaroha 17carrots I cant hold mine in
Same...me too, I can do it too, it's sad😢, I have suffered a,most the Sam thing as hers but...still
I have depression too..
I feel so bad for her 😭 I just wanna slap all those men in the family
I live in S.Korea. It's so a child abuse.. They should go to the police and see an actual counselor. This program has been issued on the news every week cuz every concern on this show is so abnormal and savage. Common opinion in S Korea now is the guests should go to police instead going to that stupid show and laughing about it.
Weird thing about shows on TV is it's suppose to be entertainment. Not just the happy-go-lucky kind but also the maybe-this-is-interesting.
The concept of the show is amazing to show a wide audience that these issues exist, as some might not know or think they're the only ones.
But also, that these issues are desensitised by being filtered through TV and in a semi-casual setting when a lot of things about some concerns are super serious.
A lot of things do get brushed over when it shouldn't but there isn't a right way to go about it. The show will change when they would address everything and people can be afraid to share if it makes them very vulnerable and exposed.
I hope this case is reported
Wow, really? Even the S. Korean newspapers are saying this? That's huge. Can you tell me which newspapers have talked about this?
I'm so worried, I have a feeling that she'll got more work to do than before. I just want to hug her :(
What the hell!!! The girl is suffering from domestic violence, and the anchors told her that she has to be good to her brother who beats her and that is her fault?????
I can't believe this. I am really too shocked of how inhuman and ignorant human beings can be.
A lot of siblings fight physically.
The_Real_Dudix Yes, they do, I am the same with my brother. But this isn’t a small petty fight over chocolate, it’s full-blown abuse that may damage her mentally and physically if he continues to do so. There is a difference.
@@aaa000aaaa I don't know about the hosts' intentions. I love them as comedians. But sometimes I get the feeling that they are still affected by the Korean patriarchal culture. Men are always right and women have to bow. The girl needs help for sure, but sadly as long as she is under the same treatment from her family, nothing can help her. Unless she gets the chance to leave them behind one day.
I wouldn't go so far to the extreme and say this is domestic abuse, many siblings fight physically with punches and kicks. My siblings and I have gotten into some pretty heated fights ourselves, nothing where we bled or anything, but I mean it's just how siblings are. You make it sound like she's being bashed over the head and kicked around all the time or something.
Society and culture issues 🤭☹️
Tsk. Everything they said is excuse. I felt sorry for the girl
Yalou Zib “tsk” it’s not necessarily a word it’s like a sound of annoyance
lemon tea hellyeh i'm angry for her listening to all the shet excuses from the dad and brother
they should get a maid
kim seok jin They might not have enough money to get a maid though
@@arandomhuman7875 maybe
She should leave as soon as possible.. Brother and Father are the epitome of toxic male.
As someone who also comes from a conservative and poor family, I understand her feeling.
I am the oldest daughter and my only brother is 9 years younger than me. Since I enter middle school, my parents have told me that I can't go to college cause they don't have money, I am a girl anyway so they'll invest their money to my brother.
I was a strong and stubborn girl, I was looking for scholarships from my schools and many organizations. I ended up support myself from middle school until I got my bachelor degree thanks to those scholarships.
I had to go to schools, join the student committee since I got the scholarship from the school, join many volunteer jobs with the organizations that support me. Even with that, I still have to do the house chores. Mind you that I had no laundry machine so I do the laundry at 5.30 am by hands. Then I have to clean the house, well, my house was small so that's okay. Yet they still complain why I didn't do the job properly (forget about the compliment!)
I usually sleep 4 hours or 5 hours max a day, and back then if someone asked me what'll you do if you get a day off, I'd say sleep all day.
I start became tutor when I was in high school and became a freelance writer when I enter university. Now, 3 years after my graduation, I can rent a better house for my family and support them financially. This is the moment where finally I had a say in the family.
It took years before they can accept the fact that I can work and be an independent woman.
Girl, with that kind of family, you need to be strong!
The only thing that can shut them down is to prove that you can be a success even though you are a woman and poor!
I don't have the heart to dump my family, so my plan is to save more money, move out and live my life while still supporting them financially.
I promise to my future daughter that I won't let her face the same situation as I was.
fighting!
i literally started crying reading your comment!! fighting!!! i hope the best for you strong girl!!!
RESPECT!!
😭😭 stay strong and may God bless you
The most annoying part is that they force her to do all that work by herself yet they still complain about everything she does even though she tried her hardest. It's like their never satisfied but they don't actually bother to help either. If I was in her shoes I'd be so frustrated.
if he forgot the laundry then why when she tells him he doesnt do t.he takes her for granted,he is manipulating the fact that his father always takes his side
@@iamfighterman9646what?
@@iamfighterman9646 what's the point men having more strength than women if they can't simply help taking care a bit of their Own stuff even so
No ? He has more strenght so man can do more work at home
@@iamfighterman9646No, men and women both should do the housework
This situation is so hard to watch. Both the brother and the father are determined that she doesn't do most of the work and the stuff she does do, she doesn't do well. They don't seem to give a shit about what she's going through. The only one that took her side was the younger sister and it's sad to see. I hope her circumstances improve.
ultchanyeolpark if her brother wants to bt threat like oldest brother or oppa the he should act like his role in the family as oldest son or oppa
What’s even crazier is that they low key admitted to uneven distribution of the chores. Like when the dad was saying what everyone is assigned to do, then again when he and the brother admitted that the daughter sometimes does their chores too. It’s like they don’t even hear themselves.
For real , i just wanna slap all those men in the family
@@clarissaaurella9324 ikr
It’s the dads fault, he raised his son with outdated views on women.
That brother said coldly to his sister "You are crossing the line !". Did he ever stop and think that when he throw his sister to the floor? Girl move forward with your life and leave that house ! For God's sake...
She's 15, she really can't tho
I can tell that the brother is gonna be very agressive in the future.
The father is a pathetic excuse of an example to his family.
He son who is looking up to him will feel it's okay to abuse/beat up women because he dad's justify it as having "good Intentions".
The girl will have issues with men because of her father. I hope she never marries a guy like that
ikr. I hope she marries a gentlemen who cherish her and appreciate her😭😭
You can't be to hard on her father.. him and his entire family lost someone very important to them and some people don't how to handle it. It seems like he tries his best as a father, but thats still no excuse to treat her like that. I think you're being a bit harsh but i do agree with u to an extent.
@@relevant207 I understand thay he lost someone important to him. but so does the daughter. she lost her mom too.
and being sad doesnt giv him permission to bully another person, especially when that other person are on the same boat.
and maybe its acceptable if he became emotionally unstable and became a shutty father for awhile. but if its been years, then there is no excuse..
@@anonymousneko7908 i understand but That's not what i was trying to say.. as i said 'there is no excuse for him to treat her like that' im just trying to say that i think everyone is being a bit harsh
In most cases, women who are abused as a child, will sadly be with someone the same as the abuser because they have negative self esteem. At least that was what I read about. I feel like she's trapped and it's so frustrating damn it.
I feel so sorry for her like this problem definitely won't be solved here because the father and brother clearly are far more comfy with nagging her and taking her cleaning for granted
Yusra M I would just take my brothers clothes he left in the washing machine and dump it on his bed, wet and all. Same as the dirty dishes. If they all clean their own plate, its done in five minutes.
yeah sad to see
Looking his personality any relationship of his is going to make Kevin Heart feel 10 feet tall
In a dumb country like urs maybe but in devolped countys women work i also work 13 hours a day so my boyfriend and i do both house work u are underdeveloped
the fact that they are so willing to admit to abusive behaviour (pulling her hair and throwing her to the ground when she didnt call him her big brother) and the hosts werent willing to call that out is the biggest sign that she probably is still suffering until this day tbh, hope she finds a good job or a husband and runs from this family, the sister is the least worst out of all of them tbh
Honestly I don't know how she didn't cry, as they were talking I couldn't hold it in
She should leave the house and stay with a friend or someone for a while and let them see just how much she actually does for them!
I can’t imagine what the brother will be like if he ever marries a woman.... he’ll probably treat her the same way and maybe even worse.
Brianna Rascoe he will be abusive physically, verbally and even emotionally and perhaps even try to kill the woman
hopefully not
Good luck finding a woman if she sees this... in a few years when he actually reaches the age to marry, hopefully Korean society will start seeing things like this as a bigger issue and he wont find a woman who wants to marry him.
Kai Kim not in a rude way but a lot of Korean women like men like that who have them clean the house and are possessive
LoveYourselfAsMuchAsJinLovesHimself SugaKookie
Not in this day and age lol
“why do all highschool students have the same haircut?”
“the bowl cut”
“everyone uses the same bowl.”
lmaoo
Haha true
The only comment I laughed at this vid's comment section
I’m pretty sure we’ve all at least once had the bowl cut as a kid
Lmfao
15:52 "Gyeongseon can't rely on anyone" dude that hurt so much! My tears won't stop...
I won't lie, this had me tearing up and I don't cry this much. I feel so bad for her. I feel everything that was just exchange here that day is just that...that one day. I feel like they'll go back to how it was and she'll continue to suffer. I honestly wish the best for her
What is wrong with those men in the family?!!! I wonder why is their mom is passed away. It must be stress is one of the reason of her passing. Sigh. Poor girl. Ive rather run away from the house than living in hellhouse
she lives a better life then most girls do in this world. i understand that she can get tired of it but it's only cleaning,it's not life she gets less money or less love or abused by her dad, she is just complaining about the work how is that a reason yo leave your family?
Cloudy me You can't tell somebody their problem is worthless because is less than someone else's, you dont know what they've been through. Yes, other people have it worst but to her, this situation hits close to home for her.
don't putt words in my mouth please, i never said her problems are worthless i'm saying she is only complaining about the chores and the fact that they aren't praising her for it, and that that is not that bad to call it a hellhouse or to run away and to blame the dad and the brother for it and making it so big when it's nothing compared to a bunch of things. And she's 15 let's not act like she's been through that much, since she herself can laugh a lot in the video
Cloudy me There are people younger than her who witness way worse; she lost her mother and that says a lot, it doesn't matter what age you're at, you can still have it way worse than most. Have you been in her situation? If not, please do not say such things.
please don't act like you know me, don't say such reckless things like have you been in her situation, since those words aren't meant to be said blindly, yeah there are a lot of people that experienced way worse then her that's what i said , and age does matter a lot since a 15 year old and a 30 year old are going to cope with it way different and by age you'll learn more so ofcourse age matters but , i'll stop here since i can already see how ignorant you are by saying "have you been in her situation" think before you say such stuff.
Why would she talk to him properly when he punches her, pop pull her by the hair?
That was my thought! "Call him oppa." and I was like ´but hes not acting like one, why should the call him something he isnt?´
they went over the physical fighting wayyy too easily. He said "I'll stop hitting you if you're more respectful" which is... ridiculous. You should never hit someone
If you're not acting like an older brother then you shouldn't be called an older brother. I hate these entitled men, her and her little sister should just move with the kinder uncle and let those guys rot in their own filth.
He says his sister doesn't clean the house well enough but he's worse.His chore is to do the laundry he falls asleep when clothes are still in the machine leaving his poor sister to have to rewash the clothes 2-3 times. Without the help of the eldest sister the family would be so lost. The father and son have a heaping case of toxic masculinity which they need to fix asap and the sister needs so much more appreciation.
Right? Why is it only her that her dad gets angry with when she once in a while does it sloppy? Its so frustating. .-.
As a brother, that brother needs to be a better brother. Also as a brother, it is honestly so hard to hit a sibling. Being physically violent with my sister has never crossed my mind. Whenever I hear brothers and sisters physically fighting is just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
If only her brother thought like that
Exactly. I never fought physically with my brother and I would never forgive him.
Given my experience, I would say I have to agree. Both my brother and I have anger issues (my whole family does) and there have been cases where my brother and I have physically fought each other, though that has only happened a handful of times. After such events we could only see disgust in ourselves in the end. We try to not get in eachother's throats often but we all know we love each other and so make a conscious effort to remain calm in escelated situations; it takes something really awful to lead to physical violence. For him to so easily hit a sibling and also have little shame absolutely leaves a bad taste in my mouth. The same applies for the girl too as she also mentioned hitting her brother however it seems that the case of her brother doing so is much more.
Lol i would always get into physical fights with my brother. He always started to get violent. I was the one beaten up even in front of his friends and I always ended up crying.
I believe that he grew up seeing his father being abusive to his mother
Rest in peace Park JIsun 💔
what happened)?
@@ujung-ahujung-hae7503 she committed suicide
@@scarlett_e4406 oh rip🤍
Where did you get that from
I cried when she mentioned she was jealous of her friends and didn’t have a mum to talk to. Even though I have a mother I feel like some things she wouldn’t understand, so I felt that.
lol, father caught lying through his teeth. Even if he says that he does most of the dishes in a week, who gets to wash them if he decides he doesn't feel like doing them? The older daughter. And the son coming home late or doing a half-assed job of doing his supposedly share of the chores because he knows his sister will end of doing them or risk getting yelled at by their father.
ikrrr
Why is the dad lying like that seriously that’s your daughter ugh 😑 calling him bro isn’t gonna resolve anything he doesn’t respect her so why should she? like wowwwwwww seems like yeonja understands what’s going on....poor girl
I wonder how the people “causing the problem” are convinced to come on the show
To probably convince the audience and the host that they are correct
I could see tears in her eyes but she didn’t cry once, such a strong girl! 🤧 Hope it’s gotten better by now, it’s hard to struggle by yourself and keep everything bottled up..she should find someone to talk to ☹️
For me its like her family took advantage of her kindness, as the eldest daughter, she must feel responsible to take care of her family when her mother dies. But then, its became a habit. House chores is a heavy task, like a work labor. Everyone in the house should participate. Give work that appropriate to the kid's age. Being young doesnt mean that they could just sit and do nothing.
Exactly!
I just wish the girls live with their uncle or grandparents house
That "oh my God" sound effect is such a mood
"she does not do it properly" is their only excuse
The dad and brother is really sexist
The brother should have to earn being called oppa instead of deserving it.
So they are abusing her on the basis that they shouldn't do anything in the household because they are men plus she is younger. The son is going to be a terrible husband/partner with this behavior normalized for him. He should be actively assisting with chores as well. It's hard but her best bet is doing very well in school so when the time comes she can get as far away from them as possible.
Imagine if they had Jessi as a guest on the show.
I feel so bad for her, i relate to her so much growing up. So glad my life has changed since then.
Only those who have done chores before know how hard it is and how lots of efforts can seem like we didn't do anything. For the dad and the bro to say that they've done it and still judge the sister, that means they don't actually do the work. One who knows how hard it is, knows how to appreciate another who does it for them. Everyone's schedule in the family is long and they are barely living together, that's why they can't get along, they are only busy doing their own thing.
On another note, her eyes are sooooo beautiful. The eyes that mask her feelings.
i wanna like your comment but your like is 69... hehhehehehhe
Omo, please ruin it 😂😂
@@rno952 alright 😂
Mission, complete! Thank you for your cooperation 😂
"oh he meant well"
well god bless you i love you so much imma bout to pummel your face in
Shows like this just make me think, every family should visit a counsellor once a year 😂😅😅😅
If the brother keeps growing with that mentality of girls then he’s going to be looking down on women for the rest of his life. The thinking of the men in the family is so unthinkable and so old, it’s 2018 grow up. It really looks like the daughter has no one on her side. I hope the whole family starts to appreciate her more and see how truly kind and strong minded she is.
bish I'd runaway
Bish me too, take me with xD))
taehyung thirteen you know what its easier said than done especially in her age
maribel arboleda she should sleepover at a friends house without telling anyone one day and then we’ll see if they still think she doesn’t do anything
i just wouldn't do them and let them suffer and if they yell at me i'd yell back. till someone calls the cops and then i'm going to report to the police domestic and physical ABUSE
Her uncle would do a better job of taking care of her.
That poor girl there...her family is so unreasonable towards her...God bless her and I hope that her situation can improve
I cried in this episode , I’m going through the same thing and it’s a relief that I’m not the only one who feels this way
A standing ovation for the Father for lying on national TV!!! And a plus for the dongseng for supporting her unni even if means making her a lazy maknea!! And I totally feel bad for this girl, for having a close minded father and an abusive brother.. I hope after this show the brother won't hurt her.. I just hope she's fine somehow..
You sound like a weeb using random korean words in the english. Just say big sister and little sister. If you did that in korea, you'd be shunned.
I want to give this girl a hug so badly right now you don’t even know omg 😭😫
she doesn't need a hug she needs to get the heck out of that abusive home
20:47 if you notice, what the brother were saying was not genuine, it almost seems like he was cringing inside. He said those without looking at her, and even close his eyes, unlike her father and the sister who said their words looking at her.
Gosh... His uncle is understanding. I would be lucky to have a person like him in my life
Are honorifics in Korea so important, that the brother pulls his sister's hair and throws her to the ground because she doesn't call him 'Oppa'? Seriously?
depends on how traditional the family is, I get scolded really bad if I drop honorifics so I can imagine some families being worse
Desolate RainFørest It's the culture. I don't know if this goes for every asian country but, from where I was born (Philippines), everyone has a title - you can't just call them by their name because it's considered rude.
Also if you're talking to a stranger, you call them 'older sister','older brother', 'auntie' etc.
I think it's just asian things. I'm an asian myself, so I call my brother not by his name but "koko" which means older brother in hokkien. but all of this depends on the family. some families dont really care about honorifics. sometimes I call my bro by his name (just to tease him) but he doesn't really care😂
i get in trouble with honorifics all the time
dude it depends i guess!! this guy grosses me out! I have 2 elder brothers and they told me never to call them oppa (big brother) coz calling them like that might cause a barrier between us and they dont want it and wants us three to be like friends. so i cant imagine any brother to be so abusive.. omg, i m thankful for having such amazing brothers (96' & 98' liners)
This is one of the most frustrating concerns I've ever watched from this show
rest in peace Ji sun-nim🙏💙
Just by seeing how her father and brother stare to her, they look so mean. The gaze, looks like they doesn't like her to speak in the show. Respect for you girl, i know what u feel❤
my mom passed away when i was 9 years old and my brother is 4,my dad has to go to work,and i have to take care of my brother,cook,wash the cloths and clean the house,i try not to complain because i know it's hard for my father too.after a few month my aunty asked her boss to allow her to work half day only,so in the morning i do all the chores,by 12 am my aunty come home from work and i go to school.
titin buawel ae stay strong sweetheart💜I can tell you for sure you have grow up more mature than ppl your age so stay happy 😁and it's really very sweet of your aunty to think about you 💜💜
Sarah Elizabeth thank you,after years of hardwork i finally own some land,build a house,but too bad 😭😭my dad and my brother passed away before i asked them to move in,sometime i think that everything i own is useless without my family.but all that happened is make me stronger than before.
titin buawel ae it must have been really hard for you😯stay positive and I am sure you will meet many nice ppl in future 💜
Sarah Elizabeth thank you.thank god,there's always someone who is willing to help me in hard time.
titin buawel ae welcomeee💜stay happy and blessed💜💜
Bruh this made me cry
It made me cry when she said she miss her mom i have my mom but looking at her im thankfull and im sorry to her she is same as my age but i can feel her i hope she is ok now♥
Watching this hurts me so much just by looking at the way she holds her tears in so well😢☹️
The hosts never take concerns seriously it’s annoying they do it because if they dont keep up the comedic effect ppl won’t like it
Ciara T its also the culture. If you look at how easily mental health isues are being pushed aside. Its a miracle they even have a program like this.
What you mean the don’t take it seriously? If a concern is bad they express it too the guest.
Agreed I'm kinda mad at host. The way they handle it ergh
I don’t get it, i’m the youngest in our family and I’m also a girl but I do most of the chores, I can at least understand because i know my older brothers and sisters have also done this when they we’re my age buuuut they’ve never been as rude as that older brother and their dad. I think the dad favours the brother more that he grew up being a brat or something like that. It’s really different with a mom cause you know if their mom’s still with them and heard about this, she would’ve disciplined them both and not just shrug it off. That father and his brother irritates me. So frustrating.
you know that in korea when you're in 10th grade it's the year you start doing more all nighters and extra classes till midnight almost everyday right ? and the brother stated that he did the same things before as well. so you should know how he has no time, and i tired most of the time right ? i'm a male and i do most of the chores in the house including cooking for the wholle family. But i don't complain since i know my father works his ass of and my mother does the same, and my brother has to study his ass off so ofcourse it's my duty to do some chores. since if i complained and didn't do shit who would?
Cloudy me okay I get your point, of course he also did those chores before and now he’s focusing with his studies buuut since everybody in their family is too busy to do the chores, shouldn’t they at least treat be nice to her and treat her better? I know it’s normal for siblings to fight but hell I have two brother but we’ve NEVER been engaged into physical fights, and to think that their dad never said something about it jeez. And also, they could’ve at least let her rest when she’s having cramps cause that is really painful. And she’s going through puberty, they should be considerate about that fact, too.
True but a lot of families in asian countries brother sister can have physical fights but it's not that hardcore where you throw fists in her or his face just so pulling on the hair or pushing the back or a little hit on the head , They should treat the girl better that's true but it seems like the family isn't that bad since they were so open to talk and not mysterious
Cloudy me
They were being super disingenuous though. They could’ve defended themselves like how you defended them and then apologized for mistreating the daughter. That would’ve been the end of it. Instead they tried to lie then got exposed by the uncle and little sister, then went on to further prove the girls point about them belittling her.
true, but you should know saying it behind my macbook is easier then saying it in front a camera that the whole world could see and as a family you don't want people to look at you and talk bad about your family. Since i'm sure of that some of hello counselor's people that came to talk about their problem got harassed outside.
I'm shocked. Like how can she not cry from so long..,,,,..I would've took out rivers of tears.....aw
If you want to be treated like an older brother you have to be an older brother not only in ages. You have your two own hands do your own chores
this is so heartbreaking, I would adopt her and her sister in heartbeat if I could
I would too! but the fact that I'm still a teenager just blocks me and this was years ago and I don't know how to speak Korean🤧
This is Korean culture. They always say that girls MUST do these kind of things. And as if boys should just stay there and eat what the girl cook. That's disgusting. My ex bf used to be like that too. He always told me how his mother does everything for him,like dishes or laundry or cook for them whenever they are hungry he told me I should be just like his mother. Thanks to God I know my rights and just broke up with him. They are seriously doing this and I know not only this one is suffering from this.
It is not just Korean culture, there are a lot of people in the West who are still very sexist.
I live in England & when people have a lot of children it is nearly always the girls who have to care for the rest of them, even when the girl is not the oldest.
If a mother dies people say to the daughter they will have to take over housework, cooking etc to help the father. If a father dies people say the son will just have to lift heavy things, fix a light etc.
Even if they are a traveler so the sons go to work, they only lay some tarmac for a couple of hours & then play the rest of the day! Meanwhile the girls are babysitting their siblings & cousins all day & taking care of the house.
It is getting better but the girls nearly always get the most work to do.
A problem of lazy parents & not ensuring children get enough sleep & relaxation time is a worldwide problem.
I live in Malaysia we also have this problem as well
This is Indian culture too, except here the women are much more sexist than men. While the men just say “show bobs and vagene” crap the ones actually enforcing misogynistic crap are women (usually mothers in law)
@@someoneintheshadow45 actually in India men and women are equally misogynist. its just the mother in laws show it/express it more and guess why the women show disgust towards women? its coz they were also raised like that/ abused and they have this mindset that if i went through something like this... you must to.. to their daughter in law. Indian Hindus consider women as GOD and prays to them yet they cant respect women and feels like women are disgrace to their family. I have ther entire south asia becoz this isnt only taking place in India but in alot of other countries!!
I live in Italy and Is the same,but at least new generation are better, but the older people think the same thing 😣😣
I just like the fact that this show helps this family to atleast change a bit and show love and affection, say something they have'nt said to each other. Hope this family will get along with one another and try to be understanding.
Every time I watch a episode I have never made it without crying
The father and son. Ugh.
I wanna slap the dad so bad
U can tell the dad is lying about doing work
I felt like crying so hard I'm in the same boat its been two years as well. Maybe if things were different and my father and siblings understood I wouldn't be like this.
This case was handled so so poorly. They made it into a joke. The abuse with her brother especially was treated like a small spat. The counsellors addressed the sexism, but didn't realize how deep rooted it was, and how learned behaviours like those are difficult to change. The father learnt it from his father, and the brother from him. They won't change. The only thing that might improve is when the sister grows up a little and helps out; which is not a good solution in the slightest, but that's the only feasible answer I can think of for her.
I hope they will all be good to each other
Yoojung is so understanding 💕 thats why i love her
When the brother said "am i your friend or something?" I internally scream "is she your sister or your maid?!!!"
This is Like father, like son. So real
poor thing. I'm so fucking heated right now. I'm laughing from rage & getting teary eyed at the same time. That whole family is verbally & physically abusive & extremely manipulative. I'm really starting to detest this show because it makes situations like this seem okay & that makes the viewers think it's okay. I hate that POCs (people of colour) turn a blind eye to everything instead of trying to understand and make a difference. We can do better than this!!! If you are constantly feeling scared or uneasy something is not right!!! It might seem normal to you because this is your life but it isn't!! You shouldn't feel this way!! people just brush it off because 'It's a part of the culture' It's really fucking traumatising is what it is!! why do you think POCs have the highest suicide rate?? I hope she makes it out alive or with half a brain.
They are not POC. They are Korean. KOREAN.
Lowkey feel bad for all the siblings tho even the brother because we gotta think he probley acts like this because his mom died right when he became a teenager, i hope this family gets better because to be honest they seem like they can get better.
아버지도 힘들고 아이들도 힘들고... 지금 많이 힘들죠? 힘들었던 만큼 더 좋은 날들이 올꺼에요! 너무 예쁘고 잘생겼네요. 힘내요!
100% nothing is going to change
너무 안쓰럽고…… 눈물이 난다… 저런 집에서 어떻게 견뎠을까 기댈곳 하나 없이…
"Why do all high school students have that hair? *It's a bowl cut!*" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
MySmolBun IsSoShook bcuz of Jungkook😂😂😂
shes so pretty omg
Why do I keep on tearing up while watching this?
Dad: You're sister is 12 years old she still too young
BOI I STARTED DOING THE DISHES WHEN I WAS 9 YEARS OLD
Lol I missed the part where they she said she 12. I thought she was 9 by looking at her
@@Kelly-mn8fd actually she's 10 or 11 , cuz the Korean age make u older
@@nolikaja that makes a lot more sense
This is hard for me to watch because I am in the exact same position and I feel like no one cares about me. Sometimes I feel like I am not part of this family
My husbnd is very nice to me.he helps me alot and cares fr me.i thnk helping each other out is the true meaning of care and love which every family member wants from other
I feel like a lot was cut from this show, like the transition between the dad being so adamant that he's right to them understanding of each other.