The sister that men need but most don’t have. Thanks for the content and healthy perspective. 0:42 Take care of yourself 2:05 Notice details 3:23 Be a leader 4:10 Be a gentleman 5:55 Teach something you know, or learn something new together 7:45 humor
Nice summary - mango 305! Great tips - by Courtney! And Speaking of “How to be Impressive to Women - Without Actually Impressing…” Become a High Value Man on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of man that women are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand! Women are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality women that is! - women that have their lives together. And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
The cardinal rule that men should always make sure to follow when it comes to women is "less is more." Sometimes just being in your own world is enough to get a woman interested in you, and letting her find out things about you without giving her your whole life story is what gets a woman attracted. A bit of mystery stimulates the mind.
There was a 2000 film called the Tao of Steve, and it was built around impressing without showing off. The taoist approach to dating is you figure out what the lady is into; demonstrate your competence/merit in that indirectly -- where it can be seen, but make the show incidental, not an overt display. Then retreat and wait. Eventually, she comes to you ✊ It really does work, in terms of drawing interest from specific ladies you wish to pursue and sorting out who should even be pursued in the first place. The main drawback is it isn't applicable at all to online dating, because of how impersonal that is.
@@CourtneyRyan You're a breath of fresh air 😭😇 Been binging your videos & rewatching them all night. I guess it was just your turn this time lol. Please never stop x')
Confidence, respect others like the waiter or waitress. Don't try too hard to impress. Make it look causal when you treat your woman well. Treat everyone as an equal and don't be nice to a person because you want something them from them or you just like them.
@Lukey boy I'm aware of how you want to be treated as an equal. But we can't expect others to act or treat us as an equal because it won't happened. These people aren't worth your time. FO are very strong words. I think the less you expect from people the better you'll feel. Stay positive. There are some positive people out there and spend time with them.
It's 95% about taking care of yourself, doing things to better yourself physically and mentally; becoming a better man, and being a leader. Then 5% notice details, be a gentleman, learn something new together. Too much of these things and she will think you are desperate. Show small hints of being interested.... then go back to focusing on yourself (even be stoic).
Yes to all of these! So this one girl I had been emailing back and forth we were talking about karaoke and I mentioned that my stage name is Major Tom because my go to is Space Oddity by David Bowie. She told me it makes her cry, I asked why. She then tells me how moving it is to her. When we finally met up at an event, I sang it and she loved it! For her birthday, I played it on my guitar and put a personal spin on it! As far as taking care of me, I'm just recovering from covid and I'm almost have my full strength back! Great video!!
Everyone strives to be the best they can be. Like myself I intend to challenge myself to do better everyday from the tips you've shared Courtney. As I continue to view content like this, I benefit from great lessons being taught from great coaches like you who is willing to put your time to help males to improve their lifestyles. Keep up the great work.
It's so nice to hear someone talk about dating that actually KNOWS what they're talking about. So many other's just speak from their own insecurities and fears and bad or traumatic experiences. You have a healthy perspective and you speak the truth. You're like a light shining through all the darkness out there.
@@Wilbilu yo can you please sh*t up with this bs "Go get a shower bro" *spray some deodorant bro* 🤡, Shit ain't gona work like that Here's what you want 1.you need to be 6'2+ 2.chiseled jawline that can cut diamonds 3.6 + digit income 4. God like figure If you doesn't have these it's over for you doomer , Personality?? Whats that shit Damn i bath twice a day and dress modestly lmao
I love how you brought up manners, and some may say women don't act in a way that warrants chivalry. The old saying "2 wrongs don't make a right." Just because someone's manners are on a lower level does not mean lowering yourself and your standards. Chivalry is not dead if we uphold ourselves
Good point. We shouldn’t allow the times we’re in to change who we are, or how we were raised. I have held doors for women, and sure some don’t even say anything. But I’ve had some that were extremely grateful. I always exercise manners and respect. I don’t even participate in the market, but even I have manners, because it shows who I am as a person.
I recently did the walk away. Took a girl on 4 fun dates, we had a great time. She said she wanted to see me more but made very little effort. I remembered small things about her and it felt like she wasn't making any effort at all. Moved on and have since had 5 other nice girls interested in me, have taken 3 out so far and am learning what I'm actually looking for in a woman now. Having standards and knowing when to walk away is a great way to save yourself hassle and misery a few years down the line.
Good man. A guy who can walk away from a girl, as long as he does it with grace, communicates to those around him that he has options and boundaries and therefore it BOOSTS his attractiveness to other girls looking on. Women want men who can get other women and who live in such abundance that they can even reject girls who aren't up to standard. If she knows she has to fly right to be with you she'll either dip or fly right - and both are blessings to you.
@@jleano609 thank you. Yes I did it on good terms, even messaged her once more with the intention of it being the last time unless she made some effort, which she didn't so I left it there, politely. I'm currently experiencing the most abundance I've ever had in my life. I just don't have time to fit in anything other than a genuine nice girl who makes an effort and pays an interest in me. Still prioritising gym, football and other aspects of life such as my house and I keep one night a week free for a date. Thus I've had to say no to 3 girls in the last week in favour of a first date with a new one who I think has a lot of potential. I want to say this just didn't happen all at once, I had months of zero interest where I was just working on myself and getting on. Swings and roundabouts they call it here. Prioritise yourself and what you need to maintain and achieve in life and the other things like women happen as a bi-product of that.
@@ben_dixon Sounds like you've got plenty going on and that's the way too. If you can't have a woman compete against other women for your attention directly, you can have her compete against your purpose. Either way it projects your value and promotes competition anxiety in the girl. You need to be genuine and not playing games like deliberately not texting her, and once you're in a committed relationship (her ask always - which it will be when she has to chase YOU) never compromise on your gym, football etc. I'm betting you have a strong group of male friends too - maybe your football buddies - right? Guys who are successful with women typically have social skills that are rooted in having a solid friend group. And remember - you can date a bunch of girls without committing. That's the way to take advantage of abundance. Then you can see which girls dip and which fly right. The cream rises to the top.
@@jleano609 Sounds like you have a wealth of experience and I appreciate the reminder about waiting for her to ask for the relationship. Something I did know but the reminder is helpful, I'll be sure to do that. I have a few different friend groups but yes you are correct. What's your current status, are you dating or married?
@@ben_dixon I’m married almost 30 years. Given my wife two daughters along the way and a life of adventure, living and working around the world. I work in Oil and Gas, currently in Houston TX but a UK National. I was red pill before it was a thing, and marriage is RP on hard mode. You have to stay attractive to your girl and that’s not easy, but it is simple. You have to lead, you have to keep fit and dangerous, not compromise on your purpose and your male friend group and most of all, keep gaming your wife. And you can’t complain, you’re a man and you have a burden of performance. There’s no equality in male/female relationships. That’s the trap many guys fall into. It’s not fair, they’ll say, that girls don’t do such-and-such, like men have to do. Like approach, initiate, lead. What they don’t get is despite society trying to tell us otherwise Men and Women are DIFFERENT!!!! Attraction is built on polarity, not equality. My wife is my first mate, but I’m the Captain.
It's nice that you seem to look at things from both sides of the fence. Your helping men to be better and at the same time helping them to find someone that will appreciate them for the things they bring to a relationship. Your a breath of fresh air compared to so many that aren't. Thank you!
Thanks for posting this, especially for the young men who watch this. What's great about manners is that ANY man can do it. It doesn't matter if you're a CEO or flip burgers, if you show a woman that you are a gentleman, it adds a ton of positive points!
I'm so glad you mentioned "walking on the side of her closest to the road" I was brought up to do this and I feel it's often lost on people these days. It's nice to know that there are still women who appreciate this, especially someone of your age. Thank you!
100% From a biology standpoint, since men have more muscle&bone mass, they are more likely to survive getting hit by a car than a woman, especially because anybody that is bedridden that doesn't have skeletal muscle typically will wither away since our cells and our DNA are in constant decay, and we need lots of protein to maintain and prevent degradation so muscle can be a food source for bedridden folks. Look at Emma Watson gone vegan; she looks near death and 4decades older within like 2yrs. I don't count calories and macros, I only count protein as, to me, it's thee most important nutrient for us humans
There are definitely more than that. I would venture to say that most women I know have been in a situation where they cared about a man on a really deep, human level, but had a lot of heartache because they didn't get that same care back. Most men simply do not see those women, probably because they're looking for the wrong signs of it.
Hey Courtney! I'd love to see a video or a series of videos exploring dealing with mental health and how to approach a woman you care about when you have certain issues that you can't help. For example, being a confident, funny and stylish person who still suffers from anxiety is something alot of people have to face and trying to open up without turning a girl into a therapist is a very hard balance. Being vulnerable without coming off as insecure or a mess.
You have to get your life together in all aspects before you would consider a serious relationship. I think most of us have the desire for children so a serious relationship should have children as the end goal. Don't have children if you don't have your life together. You are setting yourself up for heartache when your girlfriend doesn't see you as a good father.
Courtney, your tips are worth their weight in gold! Thanks to you I've figured out how dating works and was able to stop focusing on the impression I give off or on my idealized fancies of how the future with a woman might look and have started to be a lot more confident in just being myself, enjoying the moment and figuring out if I actually like HER. I've recently met a great girl who's intelligent, funny, introspective and cute all at the same time and we're taking our time getting to know eachother, but it really seems like a perfect fit so far. I owe you a lot, just wanted to let you know I'm grateful for all the advice! ;)
Humor and inside jokes are GOLD. And they're not exclusive to the girl you're trying to impress - if you can exhibit this with your friends (when it's a group setting), it can provide lots of of good impressions. Back in the day, me and a couple of buddies had a short-list of go-to quotes and routines (some from comedy we'd heard, and some we just crafted ourselves, many built on pre-existing comedy bits), and we were always well- rehearsed, and in sync. So anytime we were "on", we knew how to proceed or call back if any one of us dropped an opening line from one of our bits. And these bits were usually "all purpose", which means no matter what the topic at hand was, or what was going on, we could draw from these comedy quips and make them relevant to the present moment, or even to lighten moods or keep momentum going. If they landed well and were good enough, we could even circle back to them again later on, lile a reprise or a continuation for ma previous situation. Granted, many of the inside jokes were too "inside" to make any clear/obvious sense to the casual on-looker (even if explained, not many "got it", what was so humorous about it), but it wasn't about the quotes or the jokes themselves - it was about the "well-oiled" and coordinated few of us who could "put on a good show" of entertainment, usually spontaneously, casually, and organically. One word of caution though... try not to be the least attractive guy in your little entourage or group, cos otherwise, all you're gonna succeed in doing is getting all your buddies laid, and not yourself, lol. That was my unfortunate station. I was just a "prop", lol. Still... Those were some good times. I wish I could go back, cos the present sucks.
To your point about old school being a gentleman. We were at an outdoor ceremony when the weather turned unexpectedly cool. I noticed one of my female colleagues was rubbing her arms to warm up. I took off my suit jacket and put it around her shoulders. Five years later she said the women bring that up from time to time during lunch and ooh and ah over it.
I like what you said about teaching and Learning. I've always had a policy: if you're going to date me, you're going to learn something. If, God forbid, the relationship ends, at least you'll come out of it with something useful.
4:26 I’m taking those odds, baby 😂 Great tips as usual. The more I keep working on myself, the better I am for me and everyone else. Q. On your leadership point. Just like the introvert / extrovert thing; people are different. Example: something I’ve learned with the wisdom of a couple decades of being an adult...I’m a great support act to a good leader. But I’m not the charismatic leader myself, it seems. Well respected for my opinions, but I don’t grab the leadership charge. Tips? Is it something to work on, or accept? I do know that women are more naturally attracted to the natural leader
Leadership manifests itself through your masculine energy in different ways. Planning a date for your significant other (date, girlfriend, wife, etc.) is one example of leadership. You don't need to be an Army Captain or an executive officer to demonstrate leadership. But yes, in a relationship a man is supposed to be the leader and gently lead the interaction to where he wants it to go (hopefully towards the fun and seductive). Very important--lead with humor, and assertiveness (not aggressiveness), create opportunities for your woman to have fun every time she is with you, and pick up on her body language/signals to be aware of where her attraction level is with you. Always remember that relationships are about giving without expecting anything back (over time you will understand what this means). Being indifferent makes the difference. PRO TIP: Before doing or saying anything, ask yourself, is this something James Bond would say? ex. Would James Bond beg a woman over text to respond to his text messages? Would he triple or quadruple text a woman?
@@barchetta575m " Before doing or saying anything, ask yourself, is this something James Bond would say?" Ofc, James Bond would not ask himself "is this something James Bond would say?" so ideally it is best to develop a confident mindset, which will lead to confident behaviour. But to start with it can be good to check your behaviour. Even better to check your mindset - "Is this how a confident guy would think?" No? Then put those thoughts away.
@@simontmn The James Bond tip is simply a guideline, a TIP. I started using it to catch myself and reframe my mindset by using a confident character I could relate to. You don't need to use James Bond, you can use any confident character/person/etc. such as Tony Stark, Sherlock Holmes, Bruce Wayne, or Chris Hemsworth, or your football coach?? The point is, that you have someone confident you can use as a guideline and most people need a guideline/foundation because it was not modeled in their childhood for various reasons... Anyway, it's a form of CBT in behavioral therapy, FYI.
@@barchetta575m Yes, I wasn't objecting to the character! It's just I know that this approach can have issues when people (especially people with anxiety like me) over-think it. But as part of reframing your personality to be your best self, it can certainly be useful. 'Fake it til you make it' can be good advice.
I’ve just split up from a 15 year relationship so I’ve been out the dating game for a while. I’m a little nervous. I’ve been bench watching your videos. A lot of helpful information!
I found that being a gentleman is good to attract the kind of woman that I want to date. if she doesn't appreciate the gestures, she might just be dating you to spite her ex or something like that... I dated a girl who would always trash her ex and then didn't really appreciate my gestures so much. Then she ended up sleeping over at her ex's house one night while we were dating. Least painful breakup I've ever experienced, honestly.
@@CourtneyRyan Yeah. We started going out a couple of weeks ago and there was the mention of the sidewalk topic on her end and I was like "Oh, no I screw up 😅😂. But later on, after getting back I gently pulled her to my other side and I said : "Almost forgot " where she just giggled so I figured I saved my date cuz she acknowledged that I paid attention to this detail
*It’s fascinating how simply being genuine and approachable can create a stronger connection than trying to showcase flashy traits. Confidence paired with humility goes a long way.*
I have been watching your videos lately. And I have to say, you are such a beautiful appearance on this site. Honest, straightforward. You are not acting like some guru. Your advice come from normal, natural human side. Similarly to Hamza. Thank you for existing on this dumpster fire called UA-cam :)
Always good content. On being a gentleman, be who you are. All women pickup on it. If she expects you to be one way and she meant reciprocate walk away. Simple.
I believe that as a man when you are truly confident within like in your soul it shows and it’s like your energy changes women and men can feel it men are often intimidated by it and women are attracted to it, for me it comes from eating healthy working out and staying true to myself also having social skills looking after your appearance is also crucial that’s why I love this channel for all the grooming tips.. I’m fully confident in myself as a man sexually I’m not intimidated by women atall but my clothing style hair style and general upkeep is something I’m working on everyday and I appreciate these videos Courtney cheers
Yep... our vibrations/energy levels attract people. The higher and better we strive to be the more people notice you. Confidence and loving yourself is huge.
I rather be unnoticed, like a mystical creature that come into his fullness at night when hes alone, someone who has a beautiful and vivid inner world, only the women you allow in your life can see the magic unfold, the rest of women see you as that guy. You become Iike a guy in a gym with baggy clothes unnoticed until he benches 3 plates with no sweats, someone made of gold a rarity Someone that you never forget. That mindset is my goal.
Great video and good confirmation for these I already do !! Also I set moral and ethical boundaries and stay and stand who I am without Compromising who I am!!!
What's really interesting is that all of these videos send the same message. Presentation. Presentation. Presentation. Ashley does it, Alpha screams it, Antonio lectures on it and Rafael is king when it comes to discussing presentation. I think it's all good advice and helpful to get the different views.
So kind of you I can't believe anyone would post mean comments. Thank you so much for posting this videos so hopeful! It really encourages us as men to keep improving ourselves.
3-Having an iphone 2-Being able to do a backflip 3-Challenging social normal for example: Not showering, not shaving etc.. 4-Being black in general 1-Ranking at least platinum in league of legends Dear Courtney, I am a 60 year man who just started watching you channel. Recently divorced, bald and overweight, since May 2022 I have been watching your channel and you have inspired me to change, lost 30lbs since May few more to go, started dated taking in all your advice. Now just recently I have met a lovely lady (well only been on 4 dates but going well). Therefore I would like to say thank you for making me a better man/person, and I think you are a lovely and intelligent young lady. Keep the video’s comings. Best wishes
Once again, thank you for all the helpful advice. Over the years I have had some questions and done my share of guessing when it comes to what women want. A good number of those questions were answered (and I guessed right on a few things). :) Keep em coming and I'll keep checking back.
A note about why a man should always be on the outside (I.e. street side) when escorting a woman down a street; this came about from the Principles of Chivalry when roads were not macadamized (paved) & horse carriage wheels would often hit puddles & splash muddy water up on the sidewalks (which were also not paved). In this way the man would catch the muddy splash, not the woman (yes Gents, there was a time when women were revered in all respects). It was a way of protecting/shielding the woman from dirt & keeping her clean. It should be practiced to this day. I thank you Ma’dame for your most excellent channel!!! You are an incredibly insightful & prescient woman in so many respects!!! Please keep up this most invaluable work!!! ;
Your presentation was not what I had expected to see/hear. I was expecting to see a video about style and fashion. Your topics that you discussed were very interesting and informative. All in all, I truly enjoyed listening to you. Thank you so much 😊
Courtney, thank you for your vids and quality content. I hear you when you say that sometimes men can go on the attack and it makes you not want to help. I know it's easier said than done but I hope you continue to shrug it off. Most of these men are projecting their frustrations (romantic and sexual) from their bad experiences with women onto you. Although their frustration is justified in many cases, their projection onto you is definitely not.
Thank you Courtney. As you kept (calming throwing) haha, these at us one after another, I was thinking wow! Someone needs attention. Someone needs to be heard. I do respect what you have said. Manners, good grooming, good style is important. I rarely see it all on one place, unfortunately. That is why I shared this video discussion. Thank you.
@@ericmoore9444 so now acknowledging a woman's intelligence and strengths is being a "simp?" If that's what you think, and your fear of being such stops you from acknowleding women in this way, you're never going to get a smart or genuine woman.
That can definitely draw them in but having people skills and a strong mentality, what some called game and frame, is what keeps them coming back and keeps them around
Thanks Courtney. 😊 This is literally all basic stuff to Me. I think I just needed some conformation from the defense. The Woman I am impressing right now is literally a world class professional. Teal Swan. She has so many videos on You tube it's absolutely ridiculous and I Love it. But it's sometimes a bit overwhelming because I do not have nearly the credentials that this Woman has accomplished for HerSelf. I'm just lucky enough to have the intellect and presence to grow along With. Make Great Days. Authenuinely.
4:20 Actually it’s an interesting story why men started walking on the outside of the curb. Way back in the day people would dump their garbage and trash out their windows from high up, and it would land on the part of the sidewalk closest to the road because of the angle. So, that’s why they would let the woman walk on the inside closer to the building to avoid getting hit with anything 😂
This video reintegrates things you've said in others, but it doesn't hurt; I especially appreciate the part about being a gentleman (having manners) and taking the high road even during difficult interactions. It IS sad to admit both of these things are quickly disappearing and finding civility proves far harder. You're right that no one loses if one person is the bigger one--but I would say it gets really hard too when goes largely unaffirmed for long stretches--as it's hard to stay on top of that when there's little encouragement to continue.
I think what Courtney should of also said during the courtship is to express that you would like her to ask you questions and remember stuff about you also. She could be an introvert that's interested in the man, but she expects him to lead in the sense of expressing his love language, and learning hers communication is key in the early stages of the courtship also, rather than just burning this girl with no explanation, because Courtney said "Walk away from that."
4:16 - so lovely to see a more mature couple where the man is showing impeccable manners, it being gratefully received, and the shared look between them
"Something Old, Something New; Something Borrowed, Something Blue". I don't know if Courtney can claim making Number 5 up. Maybe just the application is her own. LOL. I had to expand my view of "interests/passions" recently. I read an article that basically said it is okay if you only have embers in your life rather than full fledged fires. I often would say I don't know what my passions are simply because there aren't many things I think about 24 hours a day and put just as many hours into researching/ developing skills for. However there are things I like. Not many things I LOVE, but lots of things I like. I am only labeled "funny" when I am not actively trying to be. That counts, right?
When you said "peonies" at the 2:11 mark, I thought you said panties at first. I am finishing up a night shift while doing school work as I'm watching this. It's also been awhile since I've been with a woman. None the less, good advice as usual. I enjoy your videos!
Chivalry is most certainly not dead and we should never stop being chivalrous just because women aren’t traditional. If you’re a gentleman keep being you no matter what. Someone, and more specifically the right person is going to notice. 💯
Great tips! And Speaking of “How to be Impressive to Women - Without Actually Impressing…” Become a High Value Man on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of man that women are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand! Women are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality women that is! - women that have their lives together. And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
After turning my bedroom into a blackout zone and investing in red light bulbs for the evening time, my sleep has drastically improved in the positive and I feel like my hormones are balancing better and might have even increased my testosterone. Like some say, testosterone makes effort feel better
A friend's of mine just took a girl on a very smart first date. First he took her to a book store, then coffee, finally a nice dinner. We went free, cheap, classy all in one date. She moved up in date based on her attitude and chemistry. If she through a fit about the bookstore no problem dates over and didn't cost him anything.
Hey Courtney, is it normal for guys to think that girls don't like us? I think girls think differently but as a teen I think that no girls like me at all? Idk why? Can I please have some help? Thank you, enjoy yourself.
I love how the notion of walking on the street side of the road is somehow a gentleman’s move. Like when the car hits me it’s going to bounce off me and she will be safe. Unless the car is driving parallel on the sidewalk or happens to hit at the perfect angle to blast me but not her (Keep in mind that if the car was at the other perfect angle it would blast her and not me), we are both getting blasted. The foot and a half difference between where we are standing is not going to be the thing that saves anyone.
It would honestly be safer for women to focus on that the guy looks both ways for you before you cross the street. That way he is actively doing something that is going to save her. Way more people drive straight down the road without looking at the light color (or for people) but dont hop the curb all the time.
Ok this is what I grew up being taught, then I get comments like " I Can Get MY OWN DOOR" So now I just do it for the elderly and people who have their hands full and kids and so on, but from what I can see, chivalry is dead, and women sort of killed it when the independent woman started saying they don't want that. So I don't do it, because they get pissy if you do. Not my fault the independent woman wanted to kill it off. This is pretty much what the idea of chivalry and showing respect, or for that matter men showing up is dead. Nice to see that people still understand the little things matter to some people. It's more, the fact that you are being self less than selfish. then what happened to social graces and the fact that a woman actually said to me once, "I CAN GET MY OWN DOOR"
Speaking on being funny. A couple of months ago there was a girl I had a crush on she and I talked about her liking Dad jokes and cooking. So one day at a store I saw some dish towels with a block of cheese, and it said Life is Gouda. I bought it for her and told her that made me think of her she laughed and liked the gift. Sadly didn't really work out cause she was doing the whole work around of she didn't really like me, but she liked the attention. But that's a whole story on it's own.
I asked a woman once in college what was her major or what her goals were and she dodged the question. Do woman like to keep that private if she doesn't know the man that well?
I appreciate that you treat people with kindness. But, people need to understand the dangers of being TOO nice. The danger being that you risk attracting alot of creeps, outcasts and other weirdos. The movie there's something about mary covers this issue near the end. When Ben Stiller character tells mary ( Cameron Diaz) that "these guys dont love you. They're just fixated on you because how you make em feel."
"Be a leader" in my opinion is just a big lie. It is mistaken for "small decisiveness". You like when we pick a restaurant, we pick a table, we will plan vacations. When we will tell you what we want to do or even what we want you to wear for an evening date etc. Most guys who are perceived as leaders will crumble when real trouble comes. Luckily for them, we do not have many real life-threatening situations in life. But I have seen many times when a normal guy (probably some would call him beta) takes control over a super hard situation and solves it and meanwhile those "leaders" are just lost and many times gave up or quits.
I agree with a lot of the points you made but I also disagree with some. The way I see it is like this. Mens need to vet vet and vet for at 3-6 months for redflags to know what type of girl he's dealing with. I treat most girls I date with with respect and kindness not to be confused being a nice guy. You will know the type of girl you are dealing with eventually if she's putting up a front. Not all women deserve to be treated the same way because their values and mindset aren't the same.
Just to add to Courtney's point about being a Gentleman and having manners, these attributes are never really about the woman but about the kind of man you are. Being chivalrous informs the world about you as a man, your upbringing, social education, class and mindset. The women just get to be on the receiving end of your behaviour but they are not necessarily the cause for it (not for a real Gentleman anyway). If, as a man you ever get to be in the company of other gentlemen you'll quickly realize that chilvarous and courteous these gentlemen will act towards you, too. Thanks for Courtney, another interesting video, keep up the good work
People keep saying if your short and dark skin is hopeless to get women:( Idk what to do considering majority of your success with women is based on genetics
4:15 Walking down the sidewalk, means you walk closer to the road and then suddenly you accidentaly get hit by a car and she sticks with u after, even though you are coverd in bandages like mummy, bro, she is so into you :D anyway great video Courtney, Maners Maketh Man.
I'm not a funny guy in fact I'm a very serious type of person it shows on my face, however I do have a way of impressing a lady by teaching her something she never knew. Being knowledgeable about many things is my charm so I use it. The grooming, style and fitness I have mastered thanks to people like Courtney, Alpha man. Real men and gentlemen gazette.
Your are right, trouble is there are not a lot of ladies who take care of themselves like you do. Where i live there is a big problem with weight gain and irrational psychosis. Maybe they are all on cocaine i don’t know but somethings not right in both directions. Not many men want a woman bigger heavier or taller than themselves. Men are not encouraged to show their gentle masculine side. Women say they want that but then when a man says hey lets go do this or that they be like narr am eating chocolate and drinking Prosecco
The sister that men need but most don’t have. Thanks for the content and healthy perspective.
0:42 Take care of yourself
2:05 Notice details
3:23 Be a leader
4:10 Be a gentleman
5:55 Teach something you know, or learn something new together
7:45 humor
Which is why we have to share her videos with those who have open ears
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Nice summary - mango 305! Great tips - by Courtney! And Speaking of “How to be Impressive to Women - Without Actually Impressing…”
Become a High Value Man on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of man that women are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand!
Women are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality women that is! - women that have their lives together.
And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Thanks for this!
@@CourtneyRyan Never be a gentleman. Thats how you end up in friends zone..
The cardinal rule that men should always make sure to follow when it comes to women is "less is more." Sometimes just being in your own world is enough to get a woman interested in you, and letting her find out things about you without giving her your whole life story is what gets a woman attracted. A bit of mystery stimulates the mind.
@cantika-sk There’s no mystery here !
Definitely caffeinate the hamster and leave mystery with her
@@Omtla can girl spam bot
THIS.
The thing is, so many dudes are dudes, and have little intrinsic value and don't want to do anything about that.
but if you're in your own world and you've created something special, why would you need a partner or woman?
There was a 2000 film called the Tao of Steve, and it was built around impressing without showing off. The taoist approach to dating is you figure out what the lady is into; demonstrate your competence/merit in that indirectly -- where it can be seen, but make the show incidental, not an overt display. Then retreat and wait. Eventually, she comes to you ✊
It really does work, in terms of drawing interest from specific ladies you wish to pursue and sorting out who should even be pursued in the first place. The main drawback is it isn't applicable at all to online dating, because of how impersonal that is.
You’ll never be the mean girl, Courtney. You are a gem of a human, through and through. 💎Appreciate your vids immensely!
Thank you so much 🥹🥰
Don’t be a Simp!
@@ericmoore9444 based of your comment I can tell you're a child. grow up man, who uses that damn phrase? grow up!
@@ericmoore9444 bro.... don't be disingenuous. She has heart & soul. Its so rare to see women like her.
@@CourtneyRyan You're a breath of fresh air 😭😇 Been binging your videos & rewatching them all night.
I guess it was just your turn this time lol. Please never stop x')
Confidence, respect others like the waiter or waitress. Don't try too hard to impress. Make it look causal when you treat your woman well. Treat everyone as an equal and don't be nice to a person because you want something them from them or you just like them.
Yeah cuz at the end of the honeymoon phase, sometimes who the person really is comes out and no one likes being lied to
Yes! 🙌🏼
Could’ve just said be hard to get
@@aaronharman5431 well she didn't say that because that wasn't what she was going for 🤦
@Lukey boy I'm aware of how you want to be treated as an equal. But we can't expect others to act or treat us as an equal because it won't happened. These people aren't worth your time. FO are very strong words. I think the less you expect from people the better you'll feel. Stay positive. There are some positive people out there and spend time with them.
It's 95% about taking care of yourself, doing things to better yourself physically and mentally; becoming a better man, and being a leader.
Then 5% notice details, be a gentleman, learn something new together. Too much of these things and she will think you are desperate. Show small hints of being interested.... then go back to focusing on yourself (even be stoic).
Yes to all of these! So this one girl I had been emailing back and forth we were talking about karaoke and I mentioned that my stage name is Major Tom because my go to is Space Oddity by David Bowie. She told me it makes her cry, I asked why. She then tells me how moving it is to her. When we finally met up at an event, I sang it and she loved it! For her birthday, I played it on my guitar and put a personal spin on it!
As far as taking care of me, I'm just recovering from covid and I'm almost have my full strength back! Great video!!
This is awesome! Thanks for sharing, Tommy. Glad to hear you’re recovering 🙌🏼❤️
@@CourtneyRyan thank you for giving me the platform to share this
Everyone strives to be the best they can be. Like myself I intend to challenge myself to do better everyday from the tips you've shared Courtney. As I continue to view content like this, I benefit from great lessons being taught from great coaches like you who is willing to put your time to help males to improve their lifestyles. Keep up the great work.
Thanks for being here ❤️
I wish everyone did, then we would have less problems in society because we would have much better quality of people interacting
It's so nice to hear someone talk about dating that actually KNOWS what they're talking about. So many other's just speak from their own insecurities and fears and bad or traumatic experiences.
You have a healthy perspective and you speak the truth. You're like a light shining through all the darkness out there.
Thank you for your kind comment 🥹
Bro! Don’t be a Simp
The way you talk and your voice give me chills and peace, love your channel
Ugly men with confidence:- creep , cocky 🤬😡
Handsome attractive guy with confidence:- self made King, chad , leader🥰♥️🤗
Unfortunately that is pretty accurate.
Pookie and ray ray
Not 💯 true! If you add ‘is in good shape, style, has good hygiene and a great sense of humor’ it becomes a game changer!
@@Wilbilu yo can you please sh*t up with this bs
"Go get a shower bro" *spray some deodorant bro* 🤡,
Shit ain't gona work like that
Here's what you want
1.you need to be 6'2+
2.chiseled jawline that can cut diamonds
3.6 + digit income
4. God like figure
If you doesn't have these it's over for you doomer ,
Personality?? Whats that shit
Damn i bath twice a day and dress modestly lmao
@@Wilbilu if you add money to that list then yes, it can be a game changer. But women will always be repulsed by an ugly man.
I love how you brought up manners, and some may say women don't act in a way that warrants chivalry. The old saying "2 wrongs don't make a right." Just because someone's manners are on a lower level does not mean lowering yourself and your standards.
Chivalry is not dead if we uphold ourselves
💯 love these insights!
Good point. We shouldn’t allow the times we’re in to change who we are, or how we were raised. I have held doors for women, and sure some don’t even say anything. But I’ve had some that were extremely grateful. I always exercise manners and respect. I don’t even participate in the market, but even I have manners, because it shows who I am as a person.
A Women doesn't deserve special treatment just because she exists.
@@SystematicMechanic apparently they do lol. Forget all the things men do for society. Women give birth and that’s all that matters.
@@SystematicMechanic This. Don't be impolite to women who deserve it, just deny them gentlemanly treatment.
I recently did the walk away. Took a girl on 4 fun dates, we had a great time. She said she wanted to see me more but made very little effort. I remembered small things about her and it felt like she wasn't making any effort at all. Moved on and have since had 5 other nice girls interested in me, have taken 3 out so far and am learning what I'm actually looking for in a woman now. Having standards and knowing when to walk away is a great way to save yourself hassle and misery a few years down the line.
Good man. A guy who can walk away from a girl, as long as he does it with grace, communicates to those around him that he has options and boundaries and therefore it BOOSTS his attractiveness to other girls looking on. Women want men who can get other women and who live in such abundance that they can even reject girls who aren't up to standard. If she knows she has to fly right to be with you she'll either dip or fly right - and both are blessings to you.
@@jleano609 thank you. Yes I did it on good terms, even messaged her once more with the intention of it being the last time unless she made some effort, which she didn't so I left it there, politely.
I'm currently experiencing the most abundance I've ever had in my life. I just don't have time to fit in anything other than a genuine nice girl who makes an effort and pays an interest in me. Still prioritising gym, football and other aspects of life such as my house and I keep one night a week free for a date. Thus I've had to say no to 3 girls in the last week in favour of a first date with a new one who I think has a lot of potential.
I want to say this just didn't happen all at once, I had months of zero interest where I was just working on myself and getting on. Swings and roundabouts they call it here. Prioritise yourself and what you need to maintain and achieve in life and the other things like women happen as a bi-product of that.
@@ben_dixon Sounds like you've got plenty going on and that's the way too. If you can't have a woman compete against other women for your attention directly, you can have her compete against your purpose. Either way it projects your value and promotes competition anxiety in the girl. You need to be genuine and not playing games like deliberately not texting her, and once you're in a committed relationship (her ask always - which it will be when she has to chase YOU) never compromise on your gym, football etc. I'm betting you have a strong group of male friends too - maybe your football buddies - right? Guys who are successful with women typically have social skills that are rooted in having a solid friend group.
And remember - you can date a bunch of girls without committing. That's the way to take advantage of abundance. Then you can see which girls dip and which fly right. The cream rises to the top.
@@jleano609 Sounds like you have a wealth of experience and I appreciate the reminder about waiting for her to ask for the relationship. Something I did know but the reminder is helpful, I'll be sure to do that.
I have a few different friend groups but yes you are correct. What's your current status, are you dating or married?
@@ben_dixon I’m married almost 30 years. Given my wife two daughters along the way and a life of adventure, living and working around the world. I work in Oil and Gas, currently in Houston TX but a UK National.
I was red pill before it was a thing, and marriage is RP on hard mode. You have to stay attractive to your girl and that’s not easy, but it is simple. You have to lead, you have to keep fit and dangerous, not compromise on your purpose and your male friend group and most of all, keep gaming your wife. And you can’t complain, you’re a man and you have a burden of performance. There’s no equality in male/female relationships. That’s the trap many guys fall into. It’s not fair, they’ll say, that girls don’t do such-and-such, like men have to do. Like approach, initiate, lead. What they don’t get is despite society trying to tell us otherwise Men and Women are DIFFERENT!!!! Attraction is built on polarity, not equality. My wife is my first mate, but I’m the Captain.
It's nice that you seem to look at things from both sides of the fence. Your helping men to be better and at the same time helping them to find someone that will appreciate them for the things they bring to a relationship. Your a breath of fresh air compared to so many that aren't. Thank you!
Thanks for posting this, especially for the young men who watch this. What's great about manners is that ANY man can do it. It doesn't matter if you're a CEO or flip burgers, if you show a woman that you are a gentleman, it adds a ton of positive points!
But most important.. It adds on a ton of positive points to yourself. And that is what makes the difference. A woman can feel that "difference". ;)
I wouldn't say a ton. Nice guys do finish last, while attractive jerks drown in attention. Manners are no match for pure biology.
This is the best mindset anybody could have talk about freedom
Nice Video Courtney
Not only the tips and advice you give are helpful. But your message and kindness you spread on your videos are more deeply meaningful. Keep it up💙
I'm so glad you mentioned "walking on the side of her closest to the road" I was brought up to do this and I feel it's often lost on people these days. It's nice to know that there are still women who appreciate this, especially someone of your age. Thank you!
100%
From a biology standpoint, since men have more muscle&bone mass, they are more likely to survive getting hit by a car than a woman, especially because anybody that is bedridden that doesn't have skeletal muscle typically will wither away since our cells and our DNA are in constant decay, and we need lots of protein to maintain and prevent degradation so muscle can be a food source for bedridden folks. Look at Emma Watson gone vegan; she looks near death and 4decades older within like 2yrs. I don't count calories and macros, I only count protein as, to me, it's thee most important nutrient for us humans
That's called Misandry.
That's called nice guys finish last
That's called pookie and ray ray
I can count on my two hands the women who genuinely convey they care about men at an existential level.
You are one of them.
There's tons you just haven't looked in the right places! Sometimes we end up doing better in different environments or cultures.
There are definitely more than that. I would venture to say that most women I know have been in a situation where they cared about a man on a really deep, human level, but had a lot of heartache because they didn't get that same care back. Most men simply do not see those women, probably because they're looking for the wrong signs of it.
@@MichelleAntonia 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤢🤢🤮
I'm improving my personality and after watching many of your videos i think it's going well 👍
I’m so glad!
Taking advice from a woman will kill your chances.
Hey Courtney! I'd love to see a video or a series of videos exploring dealing with mental health and how to approach a woman you care about when you have certain issues that you can't help. For example, being a confident, funny and stylish person who still suffers from anxiety is something alot of people have to face and trying to open up without turning a girl into a therapist is a very hard balance. Being vulnerable without coming off as insecure or a mess.
I can definitely do something like this! Thanks for the suggestion and wishing you all the best 🥰
You have to get your life together in all aspects before you would consider a serious relationship. I think most of us have the desire for children so a serious relationship should have children as the end goal. Don't have children if you don't have your life together. You are setting yourself up for heartache when your girlfriend doesn't see you as a good father.
@@denverulland9919 It's more a question of how and when rather than if pal. If she doesn't understand, she's not the one
One way to not turn the woman you are dating into a therapist is to talk to an actual therapist.
Courtney, your tips are worth their weight in gold! Thanks to you I've figured out how dating works and was able to stop focusing on the impression I give off or on my idealized fancies of how the future with a woman might look and have started to be a lot more confident in just being myself, enjoying the moment and figuring out if I actually like HER. I've recently met a great girl who's intelligent, funny, introspective and cute all at the same time and we're taking our time getting to know eachother, but it really seems like a perfect fit so far. I owe you a lot, just wanted to let you know I'm grateful for all the advice! ;)
Humor and inside jokes are GOLD. And they're not exclusive to the girl you're trying to impress - if you can exhibit this with your friends (when it's a group setting), it can provide lots of of good impressions. Back in the day, me and a couple of buddies had a short-list of go-to quotes and routines (some from comedy we'd heard, and some we just crafted ourselves, many built on pre-existing comedy bits), and we were always well- rehearsed, and in sync. So anytime we were "on", we knew how to proceed or call back if any one of us dropped an opening line from one of our bits. And these bits were usually "all purpose", which means no matter what the topic at hand was, or what was going on, we could draw from these comedy quips and make them relevant to the present moment, or even to lighten moods or keep momentum going. If they landed well and were good enough, we could even circle back to them again later on, lile a reprise or a continuation for ma previous situation.
Granted, many of the inside jokes were too "inside" to make any clear/obvious sense to the casual on-looker (even if explained, not many "got it", what was so humorous about it), but it wasn't about the quotes or the jokes themselves - it was about the "well-oiled" and coordinated few of us who could "put on a good show" of entertainment, usually spontaneously, casually, and organically.
One word of caution though... try not to be the least attractive guy in your little entourage or group, cos otherwise, all you're gonna succeed in doing is getting all your buddies laid, and not yourself, lol. That was my unfortunate station. I was just a "prop", lol.
Still... Those were some good times. I wish I could go back, cos the present sucks.
To your point about old school being a gentleman. We were at an outdoor ceremony when the weather turned unexpectedly cool. I noticed one of my female colleagues was rubbing her arms to warm up. I took off my suit jacket and put it around her shoulders. Five years later she said the women bring that up from time to time during lunch and ooh and ah over it.
I like what you said about teaching and Learning. I've always had a policy: if you're going to date me, you're going to learn something. If, God forbid, the relationship ends, at least you'll come out of it with something useful.
4:26 I’m taking those odds, baby 😂
Great tips as usual. The more I keep working on myself, the better I am for me and everyone else.
Q. On your leadership point. Just like the introvert / extrovert thing; people are different. Example: something I’ve learned with the wisdom of a couple decades of being an adult...I’m a great support act to a good leader. But I’m not the charismatic leader myself, it seems. Well respected for my opinions, but I don’t grab the leadership charge.
Tips? Is it something to work on, or accept? I do know that women are more naturally attracted to the natural leader
Awesome comment 😂 and great question! I actually have a video coming out soon about this… stay tuned!
Leadership manifests itself through your masculine energy in different ways. Planning a date for your significant other (date, girlfriend, wife, etc.) is one example of leadership. You don't need to be an Army Captain or an executive officer to demonstrate leadership. But yes, in a relationship a man is supposed to be the leader and gently lead the interaction to where he wants it to go (hopefully towards the fun and seductive). Very important--lead with humor, and assertiveness (not aggressiveness), create opportunities for your woman to have fun every time she is with you, and pick up on her body language/signals to be aware of where her attraction level is with you. Always remember that relationships are about giving without expecting anything back (over time you will understand what this means). Being indifferent makes the difference.
PRO TIP: Before doing or saying anything, ask yourself, is this something James Bond would say? ex. Would James Bond beg a woman over text to respond to his text messages? Would he triple or quadruple text a woman?
@@barchetta575m " Before doing or saying anything, ask yourself, is this something James Bond would say?" Ofc, James Bond would not ask himself "is this something James Bond would say?" so ideally it is best to develop a confident mindset, which will lead to confident behaviour. But to start with it can be good to check your behaviour. Even better to check your mindset - "Is this how a confident guy would think?" No? Then put those thoughts away.
@@simontmn The James Bond tip is simply a guideline, a TIP. I started using it to catch myself and reframe my mindset by using a confident character I could relate to. You don't need to use James Bond, you can use any confident character/person/etc. such as Tony Stark, Sherlock Holmes, Bruce Wayne, or Chris Hemsworth, or your football coach?? The point is, that you have someone confident you can use as a guideline and most people need a guideline/foundation because it was not modeled in their childhood for various reasons... Anyway, it's a form of CBT in behavioral therapy, FYI.
@@barchetta575m Yes, I wasn't objecting to the character! It's just I know that this approach can have issues when people (especially people with anxiety like me) over-think it. But as part of reframing your personality to be your best self, it can certainly be useful. 'Fake it til you make it' can be good advice.
I’ve just split up from a 15 year relationship so I’ve been out the dating game for a while. I’m a little nervous. I’ve been bench watching your videos. A lot of helpful information!
You’ve got this! Rooting for you 🥰
Courtney is a Unicorn. Now with that said, If you are a guy you should never take dating advice from a girl.
@@SystematicMechanic disagree completely, I think I nice balance is better to get a full picture of the game
I found that being a gentleman is good to attract the kind of woman that I want to date. if she doesn't appreciate the gestures, she might just be dating you to spite her ex or something like that... I dated a girl who would always trash her ex and then didn't really appreciate my gestures so much. Then she ended up sleeping over at her ex's house one night while we were dating. Least painful breakup I've ever experienced, honestly.
Courtney, You have no idea how much this has helped me out. I just started dating someone and I 100% appreciate the advice.
I’m so glad I can help! 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan Yeah. We started going out a couple of weeks ago and there was the mention of the sidewalk topic on her end and I was like "Oh, no I screw up 😅😂. But later on, after getting back I gently pulled her to my other side and I said : "Almost forgot " where she just giggled so I figured I saved my date cuz she acknowledged that I paid attention to this detail
PS: Hopefully we can make it work
@@DragonmasterSK k bro chill out you're getting too excited
*It’s fascinating how simply being genuine and approachable can create a stronger connection than trying to showcase flashy traits. Confidence paired with humility goes a long way.*
YOU ARE MAKING ME MORE CONFIDENTIAL AND CLEAR WITH EVERYTHING, THANK U RYAN🥰
I have been watching your videos lately. And I have to say, you are such a beautiful appearance on this site. Honest, straightforward. You are not acting like some guru. Your advice come from normal, natural human side. Similarly to Hamza.
Thank you for existing on this dumpster fire called UA-cam :)
This made my day. Thank you 🥹🤍
Anybody who would gives you a mean comment is obviously jealous. Because you are wiser beyond your years as well as being beautiful...🤗
I have watched several of your videos now, and I really enjoy your content. Keep up the great work!
Always good content. On being a gentleman, be who you are. All women pickup on it. If she expects you to be one way and she meant reciprocate walk away. Simple.
Absolutely!
Just got back in the dating game after 17 years. You've been a great help! Thank you.
Haven’t seen a video in a while, congrats on the engagement Court!
I believe that as a man when you are truly confident within like in your soul it shows and it’s like your energy changes women and men can feel it men are often intimidated by it and women are attracted to it, for me it comes from eating healthy working out and staying true to myself also having social skills looking after your appearance is also crucial that’s why I love this channel for all the grooming tips.. I’m fully confident in myself as a man sexually I’m not intimidated by women atall but my clothing style hair style and general upkeep is something I’m working on everyday and I appreciate these videos Courtney cheers
Agree James! Truly when you do what Courtney’s saying without expecting anything in return and it’s just who you are people are amazed.
Yep... our vibrations/energy levels attract people. The higher and better we strive to be the more people notice you. Confidence and loving yourself is huge.
I rather be unnoticed, like a mystical creature that come into his fullness at night when hes alone, someone who has a beautiful and vivid inner world, only the women you allow in your life can see the magic unfold, the rest of women see you as that guy.
You become Iike a guy in a gym with baggy clothes unnoticed until he benches 3 plates with no sweats,
someone made of gold a rarity
Someone that you never forget. That mindset is my goal.
Great video and good confirmation for these I already do !! Also I set moral and ethical boundaries and stay and stand who I am without Compromising who I am!!!
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What's really interesting is that all of these videos send the same message. Presentation. Presentation. Presentation. Ashley does it, Alpha screams it, Antonio lectures on it and Rafael is king when it comes to discussing presentation. I think it's all good advice and helpful to get the different views.
So kind of you I can't believe anyone would post mean comments. Thank you so much for posting this videos so hopeful! It really encourages us as men to keep improving ourselves.
3-Having an iphone
2-Being able to do a backflip
3-Challenging social normal for example: Not showering, not shaving etc..
4-Being black in general
1-Ranking at least platinum in league of legends
Dear Courtney, I am a 60 year man who just started watching you channel. Recently divorced, bald and overweight, since May 2022 I have been watching your channel and you have inspired me to change, lost 30lbs since May few more to go, started dated taking in all your advice. Now just recently I have met a lovely lady (well only been on 4 dates but going well). Therefore I would like to say thank you for making me a better man/person, and I think you are a lovely and intelligent young lady. Keep the video’s comings. Best wishes
Once again, thank you for all the helpful advice. Over the years I have had some questions and done my share of guessing when it comes to what women want. A good number of those questions were answered (and I guessed right on a few things). :) Keep em coming and I'll keep checking back.
Click that 🛎 lol she uploads 3days/week
A note about why a man should always be on the outside (I.e. street side) when escorting a woman down a street; this came about from the Principles of Chivalry when roads were not macadamized (paved) & horse carriage wheels would often hit puddles & splash muddy water up on the sidewalks (which were also not paved). In this way the man would catch the muddy splash, not the woman (yes Gents, there was a time when women were revered in all respects). It was a way of protecting/shielding the woman from dirt & keeping her clean. It should be practiced to this day.
I thank you Ma’dame for your most excellent channel!!! You are an incredibly insightful & prescient woman in so many respects!!! Please keep up this most invaluable work!!! ;
I have watched a lot of Ms Ryans videos, but this one won me over and made me like and subscribe!
Your presentation was not what I had expected to see/hear. I was expecting to see a video about style and fashion. Your topics that you discussed were very interesting and informative. All in all, I truly enjoyed listening to you. Thank you so much 😊
You are so kind! Thank you for being here 🥰
Courtney, thank you for your vids and quality content. I hear you when you say that sometimes men can go on the attack and it makes you not want to help. I know it's easier said than done but I hope you continue to shrug it off. Most of these men are projecting their frustrations (romantic and sexual) from their bad experiences with women onto you. Although their frustration is justified in many cases, their projection onto you is definitely not.
Thank you Courtney. As you kept (calming throwing) haha, these at us one after another, I was thinking wow! Someone needs attention. Someone needs to be heard. I do respect what you have said. Manners, good grooming, good style is important. I rarely see it all on one place, unfortunately. That is why I shared this video discussion. Thank you.
Courtney you’re a true lady. Always good advice 👍
Thank you so much! 🥰
Stop letting men simp! Get your ego boost somewhere else!
@@ericmoore9444 lolz good calling her out, but why you mad though, you hate seeing people happy?
@@ericmoore9444 so now acknowledging a woman's intelligence and strengths is being a "simp?" If that's what you think, and your fear of being such stops you from acknowleding women in this way, you're never going to get a smart or genuine woman.
All great points. I’m sure being rich and attractive doesn’t hurt either.
That can definitely draw them in but having people skills and a strong mentality, what some called game and frame, is what keeps them coming back and keeps them around
What are you using to meet Women? Your Car?
Thanks Courtney. 😊 This is literally all basic stuff to Me. I think I just needed some conformation from the defense. The Woman I am impressing right now is literally a world class professional. Teal Swan. She has so many videos on You tube it's absolutely ridiculous and I Love it. But it's sometimes a bit overwhelming because I do not have nearly the credentials that this Woman has accomplished for HerSelf. I'm just lucky enough to have the intellect and presence to grow along With. Make Great Days. Authenuinely.
4:20 Actually it’s an interesting story why men started walking on the outside of the curb. Way back in the day people would dump their garbage and trash out their windows from high up, and it would land on the part of the sidewalk closest to the road because of the angle. So, that’s why they would let the woman walk on the inside closer to the building to avoid getting hit with anything 😂
HAHAHA savage 😂
@@CourtneyRyan Lmaoo
Oh wow first time catching you immediately as the vid is released.
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Wooooo
The 🛎 is 🔑
And the 👍 is appreciated!
Great job getting here early, in a field of tough competition. 👏
@@marcmays48 😎😁
Sometimes between your eyes and your lips I have no idea what you are talking about but wow, keep doing what you do, I love your way.
Courtney, ❤️ your personality & channel, pure gold!
This video reintegrates things you've said in others, but it doesn't hurt; I especially appreciate the part about being a gentleman (having manners) and taking the high road even during difficult interactions. It IS sad to admit both of these things are quickly disappearing and finding civility proves far harder. You're right that no one loses if one person is the bigger one--but I would say it gets really hard too when goes largely unaffirmed for long stretches--as it's hard to stay on top of that when there's little encouragement to continue.
Dear Ms. Courtney Ryan.... You are priceless.... Two major thumbs up.... I enjoyed the vlog.... the end... Always in Good Taste... CHEERS!...
Better to strive to be “distinctive” with purpose; this may then in turn “impress” others.
Thats a good idea . I am going to work on dressing nicer when I go places . My confidence talking to women will go up
I think what Courtney should of also said during the courtship is to express that you would like her to ask you questions and remember stuff about you also.
She could be an introvert that's interested in the man, but she expects him to lead in the sense of expressing his love language, and learning hers communication is key in the early stages of the courtship also, rather than just burning this girl with no explanation, because Courtney said "Walk away from that."
Thanks for the tips ma’am, they are much appreciated
4:16 - so lovely to see a more mature couple where the man is showing impeccable manners, it being gratefully received, and the shared look between them
Plan on working out before i start trade shcool in September. Grwat tips as all aways County!
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Courtney! Your videos have helped me so much!!! thank you
"Something Old, Something New; Something Borrowed, Something Blue". I don't know if Courtney can claim making Number 5 up. Maybe just the application is her own. LOL.
I had to expand my view of "interests/passions" recently. I read an article that basically said it is okay if you only have embers in your life rather than full fledged fires. I often would say I don't know what my passions are simply because there aren't many things I think about 24 hours a day and put just as many hours into researching/ developing skills for. However there are things I like. Not many things I LOVE, but lots of things I like.
I am only labeled "funny" when I am not actively trying to be. That counts, right?
When you said "peonies" at the 2:11 mark, I thought you said panties at first. I am finishing up a night shift while doing school work as I'm watching this. It's also been awhile since I've been with a woman. None the less, good advice as usual. I enjoy your videos!
Chivalry is most certainly not dead and we should never stop being chivalrous just because women aren’t traditional. If you’re a gentleman keep being you no matter what. Someone, and more specifically the right person is going to notice. 💯
Love the topic. Looking gorgeous Courtney!!
Great tips! And Speaking of “How to be Impressive to Women - Without Actually Impressing…”
Become a High Value Man on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of man that women are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand!
Women are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality women that is! - women that have their lives together.
And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Love this, Carlos!
@@CourtneyRyan thank you - Courtney! I appreciate it.
Thanks Courtney. You are the bigger sister we have never had lol
😂🙌🏼 living out my dream here since I’m an only child lol
@@Soulflytribe04 knock her out
After turning my bedroom into a blackout zone and investing in red light bulbs for the evening time, my sleep has drastically improved in the positive and I feel like my hormones are balancing better and might have even increased my testosterone. Like some say, testosterone makes effort feel better
That’s awesome!!!
5:35 my only criticism here is that there's a time and place for kindness. prob don't need to go too much deeper into it, but too much kindness = soft
A friend's of mine just took a girl on a very smart first date.
First he took her to a book store, then coffee, finally a nice dinner.
We went free, cheap, classy all in one date. She moved up in date based on her attitude and chemistry.
If she through a fit about the bookstore no problem dates over and didn't cost him anything.
Hey Courtney, is it normal for guys to think that girls don't like us? I think girls think differently but as a teen I think that no girls like me at all? Idk why? Can I please have some help? Thank you, enjoy yourself.
I love how the notion of walking on the street side of the road is somehow a gentleman’s move. Like when the car hits me it’s going to bounce off me and she will be safe. Unless the car is driving parallel on the sidewalk or happens to hit at the perfect angle to blast me but not her (Keep in mind that if the car was at the other perfect angle it would blast her and not me), we are both getting blasted. The foot and a half difference between where we are standing is not going to be the thing that saves anyone.
It would honestly be safer for women to focus on that the guy looks both ways for you before you cross the street. That way he is actively doing something that is going to save her. Way more people drive straight down the road without looking at the light color (or for people) but dont hop the curb all the time.
Ok this is what I grew up being taught, then I get comments like " I Can Get MY OWN DOOR"
So now I just do it for the elderly and people who have their hands full and kids and so on, but from what I can see, chivalry is dead, and women sort of killed it when the independent woman started saying they don't want that. So I don't do it, because they get pissy if you do.
Not my fault the independent woman wanted to kill it off.
This is pretty much what the idea of chivalry and showing respect, or for that matter men showing up is dead.
Nice to see that people still understand the little things matter to some people.
It's more, the fact that you are being self less than selfish.
then what happened to social graces and the fact that a woman actually said to me once, "I CAN GET MY OWN DOOR"
I love your content so thoughtful thought out and extremely intelligent I'm paying close attention
Speaking on being funny. A couple of months ago there was a girl I had a crush on she and I talked about her liking Dad jokes and cooking. So one day at a store I saw some dish towels with a block of cheese, and it said Life is Gouda. I bought it for her and told her that made me think of her she laughed and liked the gift. Sadly didn't really work out cause she was doing the whole work around of she didn't really like me, but she liked the attention. But that's a whole story on it's own.
I asked a woman once in college what was her major or what her goals were and she dodged the question. Do woman like to keep that private if she doesn't know the man that well?
...or, if she's not into you.
I appreciate that you treat people with kindness. But, people need to understand the dangers of being TOO nice. The danger being that you risk attracting alot of creeps, outcasts and other weirdos. The movie there's something about mary covers this issue near the end. When Ben Stiller character tells mary ( Cameron Diaz) that "these guys dont love you. They're just fixated on you because how you make em feel."
Considering all the media bs, it’s nice to hear about women who want to be women with feminine qualities and not women who want to be men.
"Be a leader" in my opinion is just a big lie. It is mistaken for "small decisiveness". You like when we pick a restaurant, we pick a table, we will plan vacations. When we will tell you what we want to do or even what we want you to wear for an evening date etc.
Most guys who are perceived as leaders will crumble when real trouble comes. Luckily for them, we do not have many real life-threatening situations in life. But I have seen many times when a normal guy (probably some would call him beta) takes control over a super hard situation and solves it and meanwhile those "leaders" are just lost and many times gave up or quits.
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Honestly this is just generally good life advice
Disappear, leave, defend and stand up for yourself (a strong iron will) thing's money can't buy... etc.
1:45 "take a shower" wow, thanks for that
Thank you so much for your videos, you have expanded on my knowledge and i appreciate you 💯
The first 2 mins feels like a Jedi mind trick lol
Hahahaha
Hey Courtney, you're looking lovely as always 😍
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Thank you so much! 🥰
Those health habits build massive confidence and get you looking and feeling your best. Do it for yourself first!
I agree with a lot of the points you made but I also disagree with some. The way I see it is like this. Mens need to vet vet and vet for at 3-6 months for redflags to know what type of girl he's dealing with. I treat most girls I date with with respect and kindness not to be confused being a nice guy. You will know the type of girl you are dealing with eventually if she's putting up a front. Not all women deserve to be treated the same way because their values and mindset aren't the same.
Hi Courtney, I super like your vids. They are holistic. Maybe you can talk about flowers or bouquet significance/meanings some other time
Just to add to Courtney's point about being a Gentleman and having manners, these attributes are never really about the woman but about the kind of man you are. Being chivalrous informs the world about you as a man, your upbringing, social education, class and mindset. The women just get to be on the receiving end of your behaviour but they are not necessarily the cause for it (not for a real Gentleman anyway). If, as a man you ever get to be in the company of other gentlemen you'll quickly realize that chilvarous and courteous these gentlemen will act towards you, too.
Thanks for Courtney, another interesting video, keep up the good work
People keep saying if your short and dark skin is hopeless to get women:(
Idk what to do considering majority of your success with women is based on genetics
The style videos are the truth.
Trust me, Courtney, I'm not harrassing you!
I just wnt to say " they look so amazing" alot of girls are already jealous.
4:15 Walking down the sidewalk, means you walk closer to the road and then suddenly you accidentaly get hit by a car and she sticks with u after, even though you are coverd in bandages like mummy, bro, she is so into you :D anyway great video Courtney, Maners Maketh Man.
What is your opinion on body hair for men? Trimmer or shaved?
I'm not a funny guy in fact I'm a very serious type of person it shows on my face, however I do have a way of impressing a lady by teaching her something she never knew. Being knowledgeable about many things is my charm so I use it. The grooming, style and fitness I have mastered thanks to people like Courtney, Alpha man. Real men and gentlemen gazette.
You're a guy and your name is Ashley? No judging here just curious
@@raycutler2524 hes using his gf laptop
Your are right, trouble is there are not a lot of ladies who take care of themselves like you do. Where i live there is a big problem with weight gain and irrational psychosis. Maybe they are all on cocaine i don’t know but somethings not right in both directions. Not many men want a woman bigger heavier or taller than themselves. Men are not encouraged to show their gentle masculine side. Women say they want that but then when a man says hey lets go do this or that they be like narr am eating chocolate and drinking Prosecco
I got a good one.. Any advice on how to attend a wedding alone??