Fearful Avoidant Traits: 7 More Traits (Part 2)
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Attachment style is one of the most important things to examine when healing trauma and equally important when navigating and fostering successful, fulfilling relationships in our lives, especially romantic relationships. Different attachment styles have different subconscious 'rules' for relationships regarding behavior and expectations. It is easy to see how not having an understanding for what these may be if, for instance, we have a partner with a different attachment style, can lead to hurt, disappointment, frustration, and misunderstandings. Having an understanding for your partner's attachment style is important as well as having an understanding for your own to learn what pain points you have to heal in relationships and life and become securely attached. In this video, I discuss seven more traits in addition to the traits discussed in part 1.
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Please make video on traits of FA leaning Dismissive.
FA leaning dismissive and Dismissive Avoidants are same?
Content on FAs leaning dismissive is coming in the near-future!:) FAs leaning dismissive and DAs will share some of the same wounds and patterns but there are definitely fundamental differences between the two as well.
@@CoachSarahNicoleB Thank You so much. I'm eagerly waiting!
Hello, video posted!@@MAMTAYADAV-wk1vp
Hello, video posted!@@MAMTAYADAV-wk1vp
I feel like my wife is a FA we have been together 19 years I have a more secure attachment style I noticed she would get really attached some days and pull back some days and I never reacted either way and I think it was a good balance for us.
About two years ago I noticed she started getting triggered by a lot of things and she started talking about a lot of childhood trauma I’ll add her father is very controlling and was always really bad about wanting his daughters to live off him and never move out he didn’t want anyone to support them only him.
About 3 months ago my wife had a series of traumatic events Happen in about 3 weeks time she had an eptopic pregnancy (her tubes are tied) she refused to go to the hospital sat in our bathtub for 2 weeks howling in pain I finally got frustrated with her about not going to the hospital about a week before she finally passed the eptopic she got laid off her job of 8 years and then a few days later her daughter (my stepdaughter) got put in a psyche ward
She got really cold and distant and one night she tried to pick a fight she finally provoked me around bedtime and she exploded accusing me of not loving her etc.
I denied it and then she said she was done and wanted out and the next 2 weeks it was like dealing with a different person everyday hot/cold then she totally deactivated and started to say some really outlandish things embellishing things in the relationship that never happened she started giving the notion she may harm herself I tried to encourage her to get help she got very combative to the point that I tried to have her involuntary commited she took off to her parents house she’s been there for two months now
She’s been very deactivated and cold every few days she will want to talk and encourage me to confess my love and I will and she gets angry and says that me doing that makes her feel guilty about wanting a divorce and then she won’t reach out for a few days then we talk and she immediately throws the committed thing at me and she goes from I didn’t love you for the last 6 months then to 4 years then to 8 years then to 10 years then it goes back to I can never forgive you for trying to have me committed I just started a no/limited contact with her now to try to give her space to reactivate now that I’ve learned about this attachment style she’s also been very hot/cold to our daughter and she hated her parents for years and now that she’s over there they are the greatest ppl ever so I feel like all I can do now is just wait it out till she reactivates and then hopefully help her heal