This guy just described my husband to the T. I've had no choice but to look up to him from day one. I admire my husband for so many things. Disciplined like nobody I've ever seen. Excellence is his lifestyle. I'm so happy I got husband material. He is my safe place. ♥️
@dorothymatthews6690 Thanks. There are some good men out there. They are just like diamonds though. Hard to find, but oh, so worth the wait. You'll meet your Mr. Right.
Every women needs to hear and understand this message…. Even some married ladies. 10 thumbs up to this guy who speaks the truth to women without disparaging them for their mistakes.
A man can have alllll his ducks in a row, and STILL be emotionally mature to handle YOUR type of love... He has to do the work so he can detach himself from his ex's ...They have to have some kind of Godly discernment. PeriodT...God is not the author of confusion. If you have to wonder where you stand in his Ife? You need to stand alone.
1. He has no problem committing. 2. He actually has goals to lead a family. 3. He includes you in the action plan of those goals. 4. He has and or is actively gaining the tools needed to reach said goal.
My LORD🙌🏾 Every word said in this video, my GOD put it on my heart and mind just the other day! Thank you as I know this is my sign and I'm on the right path.
Ace so well said Thank you….. yes 1 woman not multiple women and a man has to be there for your emotionally and respectfully and also mentally and peacefully..Amen 🙏🏽❤️
You're a blessing. A man needs to tell other men this! I married too young and now I'm growing into new knowledge, new purpose, etc. Marriage broke me more than empowered me, but I had to be broken before I became empowered. I still don't know what to do in my marriage. I just want to give up on it at this point.
You have both changed since then. Explore the new you's and fall inlove with that person. Understand and share your love languages ❤️ you got this 😉 you got a life partner try to work at it
I would just like to say sir that you have opened my eyes. I've been in a 1 year relationship with a man child. he is my first. I am 25, not married and no kids for all the reasons that you stated. I want to cry because I wish I had seen that our relationship was toxic from the beginning. It's a long story and I wish I could chat with you in person but i know thats not possible. I just wanted to say Thank you. And please don't stop because I'm going to show him(a man that has lied to me for so long and broke my heart) these videos so he can get help. I am too tired and depressed to do it myself.
As someone who is much older, let me encourage you by saying that you are still young and have time to heal and find a healthy relationship. It is a blessing that you have not married or had children with this person. Take the lessons and apply them to create a new beginning for yourself.
It can be difficult to acknowledge that you are in the wrong connection. Please start doing loving gestures for yourself, therapy, and give yourself a timeframe for when you will reevaluate the relationship to see if its a good fit for you or not. Relationships help us see what we need to heal inside of ourselves no shame in that. Continue watching positive content. Sending you positive energy from the other side. You can dot it!
You showing him these video won’t change him. You are trying to FIX him and you can’t fix a man. Trying to fix him is gonna make you waste another 10 years with that man. He’s not a project…that man will not change for no one else but himself. He is telling you with his actions that he don’t care about you so why do you feel the need to send him a UA-cam video. That man won’t even care. Learn to walk away when respect is no longer being served.
Run girl don’t spare your beautiful twenties holding pointing at a video in front of a unhealed man. Go. If he was “the one” he would have found the teachings, instead you did. Your time to heal and grow and prepare your heart for your person.
😅😅😅😅😅I am weakkkkk. You got me over here cracking up when you realized about the recording..that's something I would do😅😅 sweating cause you so intense with the words and spirit of light have you flowing the message forget about everything but it's cool cause the message got across.😄
Laaawwwwdddd 🙌🏽🗣️💯 I said a lot of these things to my ex, but he wasn’t trying to hear it coming from a woman. I wish more men were less triggered by videos like this. . Being able to take constructive criticism w/o getting offend is key. I needed to hear this for my own self growth. Great advice!! Thank you for this video ❣️
When Ace said “somebody come hear me this” he was so passionate and got into it. Whewwww. I’m the only child but if I could ask God for a sibling, he’d be it.
It’s “NICE!!” when a man finally realizes that me being in my “feminine energy” does not mean that - all of the sudden - I think I can exist without him if or whenever I’m expressing how I feel to him - verbally or otherwise…real men know that there’s an all female “plan it” just like there’s an all man “plan it” or planet strictly tailored for the protection and preservation of self - so don’t write me off just because you feel like it let me be the one for you the only way I know how to be that 1 for you is mastery and control - not over you but over my self
From my experience majority of men lack self: discipline, control and awareness. I’ve been abstinent for 5 years after doing a Daniel Fast. I have no vices and am working on my emotional, mental work. Not looking for perfection… just desire a man that is putting in the work in himself 🙏
I wish I found you before I got married. Maybe it would have opened my eyes more and I wouldn't have wasted 10 years of my life on the wrong person feeling like I was never enough. I really like and appreciate your videos. Thank you.
This is not just an advice to women, wise men will listen to this and start rebuking themselves and work to be better Men, Better husbands, Better father 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
This whole video should be common sense and it's sad that it isn't. I was just watching Divorce Court yesterday and the girl wanted to marry her boyfriend while she also goes on about him cheating on her and not contributing to their child financially. The whole time I'm thinking, and you want to marry him? Why? It ain't rocket science
This guy just described my husband to the T. I've had no choice but to look up to him from day one. I admire my husband for so many things. Disciplined like nobody I've ever seen. Excellence is his lifestyle. I'm so happy I got husband material. He is my safe place. ♥️
Blessed!! ♥
That's awesome! I'm so happy for you! I'm still waiting.
@dorothymatthews6690 Thanks. There are some good men out there. They are just like diamonds though. Hard to find, but oh, so worth the wait. You'll meet your Mr. Right.
Every women needs to hear and understand this message…. Even some married ladies. 10 thumbs up to this guy who speaks the truth to women without disparaging them for their mistakes.
I'm so glad God sent me one of those. !!! He knows what he's talking about. I got that!!!😊❤🎉 10:41
You preaching my brother!!! I thought I was at church, I was standing up in front of the computer the whole time saying, "PREACH PREACH!"
A man can have alllll his ducks in a row, and STILL be emotionally mature to handle YOUR type of love... He has to do the work so he can detach himself from his ex's ...They have to have some kind of Godly discernment. PeriodT...God is not the author of confusion. If you have to wonder where you stand in his Ife? You need to stand alone.
Finally, mature, honest perspectives and holding everyone accountable.
You hit the nail on the nose when you said" Although you can do it all by yourself, you don't have too" That's Super Duper Facts.
I hate to admit this, but you are opening my eyes and now im questioning my BOY friend. Thank you, AMEN
You ain't Neva lied. I left mine
Thank you brother Ace...All woman need to hear this....Facts!!!❤😊
If church were exactly like this.....I'd be there front and center every Sunday 🙏
Check Jerry flowers Houston church
Girl...smh
1. He has no problem committing. 2. He actually has goals to lead a family. 3. He includes you in the action plan of those goals. 4. He has and or is actively gaining the tools needed to reach said goal.
You said it all, so PERFECT AND TRUE! HOLY SHIT!!! Never been married, 45 years old, haven't found an honest one!
I adore your energy. You’re obviously channeling these messages, spreading love, truth and awareness. Keep it up. 💞🙏🏼✨
My LORD🙌🏾 Every word said in this video, my GOD put it on my heart and mind just the other day! Thank you as I know this is my sign and I'm on the right path.
Wish I heard this 30 yrs ago!!!
Ace so well said Thank you….. yes 1 woman not multiple women and a man has to be there for your emotionally and respectfully and also mentally and peacefully..Amen 🙏🏽❤️
You're absolutely hilarious...You're like everybody's favorite preacher of love. Great advice and entertaining and I just adore you. THANK YOU
You're a blessing. A man needs to tell other men this! I married too young and now I'm growing into new knowledge, new purpose, etc. Marriage broke me more than empowered me, but I had to be broken before I became empowered. I still don't know what to do in my marriage. I just want to give up on it at this point.
Never give up. Each new day is a chance for greater.
You have both changed since then. Explore the new you's and fall inlove with that person. Understand and share your love languages ❤️ you got this 😉 you got a life partner try to work at it
Men like that exist?
Don't mess with me Ace, don't give hope.
This was really good! Thank you Ace for always keeping it real!💯💯💯🔥🔥
Amen, Amen, Amen.Preach to the Congregation on Sunday Morning.
My peace is everything.💜
Love the set! And as always, great content. Thanks for the word, Ace!
❤ Ace! You are always on point! 🙏🏽
I would just like to say sir that you have opened my eyes. I've been in a 1 year relationship with a man child. he is my first. I am 25, not married and no kids for all the reasons that you stated. I want to cry because I wish I had seen that our relationship was toxic from the beginning. It's a long story and I wish I could chat with you in person but i know thats not possible. I just wanted to say Thank you. And please don't stop because I'm going to show him(a man that has lied to me for so long and broke my heart) these videos so he can get help. I am too tired and depressed to do it myself.
As someone who is much older, let me encourage you by saying that you are still young and have time to heal and find a healthy relationship. It is a blessing that you have not married or had children with this person. Take the lessons and apply them to create a new beginning for yourself.
It can be difficult to acknowledge that you are in the wrong connection. Please start doing loving gestures for yourself, therapy, and give yourself a timeframe for when you will reevaluate the relationship to see if its a good fit for you or not. Relationships help us see what we need to heal inside of ourselves no shame in that. Continue watching positive content. Sending you positive energy from the other side. You can dot it!
You showing him these video won’t change him. You are trying to FIX him and you can’t fix a man. Trying to fix him is gonna make you waste another 10 years with that man. He’s not a project…that man will not change for no one else but himself. He is telling you with his actions that he don’t care about you so why do you feel the need to send him a UA-cam video. That man won’t even care.
Learn to walk away when respect is no longer being served.
Run girl don’t spare your beautiful twenties holding pointing at a video in front of a unhealed man. Go. If he was “the one” he would have found the teachings, instead you did. Your time to heal and grow and prepare your heart for your person.
Man this is what needed to keep going. Thank you for confirmation
Good morning ❤ thank you for this. I love how I’m finishing some of your sentences which tells me I’m on the right path. 😊
Whewww talk your shit brothaa 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Go Ace!!!!! God bless you brother, may God increase your territory
Smh this is REAL HE ISNT A PROJECT he's already HUSBAND MADE 😔
😅😅😅😅😅I am weakkkkk. You got me over here cracking up when you realized about the recording..that's something I would do😅😅 sweating cause you so intense with the words and spirit of light have you flowing the message forget about everything but it's cool cause the message got across.😄
Okaaay, so he’s gay? I didn’t know that. Those antics toward the end got me. 😂
Laaawwwwdddd 🙌🏽🗣️💯 I said a lot of these things to my ex, but he wasn’t trying to hear it coming from a woman. I wish more men were less triggered by videos like this. . Being able to take constructive criticism w/o getting offend is key.
I needed to hear this for my own self growth. Great advice!! Thank you for this video ❣️
That’s right!! This channel needs to blow 🔥🔥🔥
Baaabay that HEALED FROM PAST TRAUMA and PROTECTING YOUR PEACE and COMMUNICATION SKILLS.... whew lawd preeeaach!
You are my “AA” meeting that i go to when ever I feel like going back to him. So thank you.
His truth is much appreciated
Exactly 👏 that so true
Makes things easier not harder🗣🗣
When Ace said “somebody come hear me this” he was so passionate and got into it. Whewwww. I’m the only child but if I could ask God for a sibling, he’d be it.
He's our brother of the heart that many of us have never been blessed with that's filled with genuine wisdom & truth. 🙌💜🙏😇
AAACCEEEE... This was amazing ❤
Sheesh !! Listening to this first thing in the morning and it woke me all the way up. Thank you
he knows what the word COURT means! 💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
❤🎉😂 You're amazing, love your honesty!! You're so right!
He wanted to be a husband and he wasn't even qualified to be my boyfriend. You helping me
saving this and listening to it every day
AMEN 😭🙂 teach me Bro!
You better drop them GEMS 💞💞💞💯💯💯‼️‼️‼️
Excellent! You will be a phenomenal husband! She will be one blessed woman!
Preach. Amen
Just watching the intro I’m thinking the fact that you even have to ask the question tells you everything you need to know.
Thanks bro, your God sent. 🎉
Agreed 👍🏾 period!!!🙋🏾♀️💯
Thank you for this message
ALL OF THIS!!! YOU WENT OFFFFF WITH THIS ONE!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!!!!
This righteous truth brother, thawadah for this message, blessings to you brother
Raw and unfiltered! ❤
Yes! Say it louder for the people in the back! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Say it Ace omg I love this
It’s “NICE!!” when a man finally realizes that me being in my “feminine energy” does not mean that - all of the sudden - I think I can exist without him if or whenever I’m expressing how I feel to him - verbally or otherwise…real men know that there’s an all female “plan it” just like there’s an all man “plan it” or planet strictly tailored for the protection and preservation of self - so don’t write me off just because you feel like it let me be the one for you the only way I know how to be that 1 for you is mastery and control - not over you but over my self
Preach Ace!
6:55 I love it ❤
Always on Point!
We need more content aceeee
🤣You forgot to hit the record button!🤣
OMG REAL TALK 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
Ace preach you in there!!!!
The best part of your video's is when u realizing that u forgot if u recording😂
...and the dog😊 apparently only spiritual people love animals
That part!!!!
Sandra -💥🔥 YES WOW!! GOTTA 😊
Churrrrch!👏🏽👏🏽💎🌟🥰💝☺️😌💖💫🥰💯💯💯
SAY IT ACE, SAY IT
From my experience majority of men lack self: discipline, control and awareness. I’ve been abstinent for 5 years after doing a Daniel Fast. I have no vices and am working on my emotional, mental work.
Not looking for perfection… just desire a man that is putting in the work in himself 🙏
Love ur videos thanks 4 the wisdom😊😊😊😊💞✌🙏
A whole word…❤
Thank you for this message.
It was the " Grand Rising Queen" for me?! I get so tired of that... not the actual greeting... the misuse
Thank you for helping me.
AKA healthy masculinity
I reslly enjoyed this podcast 🎉
What is the difference between chasing and perusing?
Thank you for your true God bless 🙏 ❤👍
You better speak !!!!!!
Amen 🙏
I'm looking forward to hear from you so we can sort out some things that are on my mind and with prayer blessed evening your loving friend
This video was everything!!!!!
RE: PROTECTION....YOU BETTER TELL IT. SO MANY PEOPLE. MEN AND WOMEN THINKG THAT THROWING MONEY AT A SITUATION IS THE ANSWER. NOT!
I wish I found you before I got married. Maybe it would have opened my eyes more and I wouldn't have wasted 10 years of my life on the wrong person feeling like I was never enough. I really like and appreciate your videos. Thank you.
Question: Ace what is your opinion on Flirtatious behaviour ?
damn! you called me out on all my red flags. I am so weirdly attracted to the opposite. but I dont like it. so it always turns into a disaster.
Men such as Ace is describing are rare especially now a days👏🏽Ladies we need to choose carefully.
i need you to understand I will love you and your dog . both of yall will be my main thing and only
Keep your legs closed. Until you say "I do." That's how you know lol
Tell me more about this
Yes. Great advice
That doesn't necessarily protect you from getting involved with/ marrying someone who isn't honest about their sexuality
Keep your penis in control to yourself until you say '' I do''
@@Heyu7her3 or their past, or their intentions.
I'm crying right now. I'm missing a guy. He hasn't healed yet but I miss him.
❤
Hugs ❤
Good teaching
You are Truly a Blessing... Thank you 🙏🏾
This is not just an advice to women, wise men will listen to this and start rebuking themselves and work to be better Men, Better husbands, Better father 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
Thanks for what you do. Much❤2u
This dude is preaching very few men on these podcasts tell men how to be men.
AMEN AMEN AMEN
This whole video should be common sense and it's sad that it isn't. I was just watching Divorce Court yesterday and the girl wanted to marry her boyfriend while she also goes on about him cheating on her and not contributing to their child financially.
The whole time I'm thinking, and you want to marry him? Why?
It ain't rocket science
Ace what you drankin'? That might explain it... LOL Good job, Baby!
I love this message
Awwwww😊the doggieeeee🥰