You are speaking facts!! I did it off and on with my sons father for almost 13 years! Everything you’re saying is true. I became addicted to him and it was so toxic! This breakup was the last breakup! 5 months strong!! I only communicate with him when I absolutely have to since we have a 7 year old. Other than that, I want him to stay far away from me!! I am healing and at peace and I’m never going back!! He can keep his other exes in rotation because I’m done!
You’re strong! It was 14 years for me but no children. I’m almost a year out from seeing him. Definitely a toxic cycle of emotional abuse and trauma bonding. Smh I’m so happy now. I’ve gone completely no contact and he still reaches out.
@AmandaCC88 you go girl!!! And don’t ever accept him back because he wants to try to destroy you! They are so evil and they hate to be ignored and hate feeling like they lost! I have realized so much over the last year or so and I’m so happy I broke the trauma bond. That’s why I kept going back and didn’t understand why. I studied what a trauma bond was and decided to go thru the withdrawals but I knew what I was feeling wasn’t love so that helped me. I knew it would get better and I finally realized and accepted who I have been dealing with for all these years. This Man didn’t even respect me, but wants me to believe he loved me so much! I’m so happy and free and he tries to be nice but I see right thru the fakeness and I know he is just trying to see if I’m having a weak moment so that he can get me back in that toxic cycle! But that’s exactly why I don’t communicate with him unless I have to, which is rare. We have our parenting schedule and we stick to it. Other than that, he no longer exists to me. I never want to be his friend and I mean that.
5 months!! That’s so great. I just broke up with my abusive narcissistic cruel ex tonight after 8 years. I feel like I want to throw up. I have to stick to this. How did you do it? When you wanted to text him or call him how did you stop yourself?
Me too… Ace’s personality is so much like my father…He was too funny I miss my father so much…😊 He would always tell me “To Hell with them fucking nuts!”😂🎉👍🏽🌟💯
A lot of men are just looking for sex with no strings attached. They can see you’re a good woman but that’s not what they’re looking for. I’m truly waiting for a good man with himself and life together…mature and healed enough to have a healthy relationship.
I think the strong question went over your head. We're not talking about strong in terms of independence We're talking about strong in terms of boundaries, not allow a man to hit us or cheat on us so he runs to a woman he can do those things to and who will allow him to and stay
I’m with you we need to make each other feel so much love and support ! That’s the best part of loving someone. Helping each other grow in confidence and connection and love 💕
And men aren't even your your friends like your girl friends are. They want to sleep with you if you give them the chance or slip up. They're actually dangerous to be alone with. Men are rarely your real friends! They're only "friends" with women they want to sleep with.
2002 I went to his job to pick him up🤔 while waiting a man ask can i help you? I said im waiting for my fiancee. He said DAMN HE DOESN'T ACT ENGAGED. 😜THE WAY HE ALL UP ON FEMALES😜. I RAN HOME CHANGE THE LOCKS. HE NEVER KNEW WHY I DUMP HIM.😂🥳🤷🏽♂️
Me and my man gas each other up constantly. You should be willing to stroke your partner's ego (healthily). Of course there will be people who will take advantage of those they see as lesser to feed their own egos, but you don't have to stay with that person in that toxic relationship. But you should also not withold compliments and affection from a good partner worrying about if it's feeding their ego.
I tried to co-parent with my toxic ex-husband these last 3yrs since are split. This is the first year that I have realized we can’t coparent, at all. He only cares about him and loves to continue to disrespect me in front of the kids. He doesn’t help me with the kids, I’m too nice and I keep lying to myself that he is going to treat me with respect and kindness like I do. I am at a point this year. I only want to focus on my peace and future not anyone or anything in my past. Don’t do it ladies, stop moving backwards. Start Loving yourself more and caring less about that ex.
I just simply do not back track obviously there was a reason we broke up nothing is going to get better I move up &forward backwards doesn’t make sense if you won’t take a job that pays less because you moved up why back track with an ex it just simply will not benefit you.
I know my ex won’t even come back! I was savage at the breakup, not too bad. 3.5 years now. He come back, crickets will be chirping. Loving my single self. NOTHING for all these years! Loving JUST ME!
I think us women got used to certain behavior from men because most of them showed us this behavior and we normalized it and accepted it. Cuz it kept happening over and over snd again from different guys. So wr thought oh this is just how they are and we accepted that. Nope Needs to end and not be tolerated anymore. There are good men out there that are good people. Not just selfish insecure ones. And they are the ones that deserve attention. Hopefully the selfish ones will work on themselves and the majority of them will be better men one day
Yo a@@ is hilarious!! But on some real spill, you are truly dropping gems. The main thing I am willing to do for 2024 is let go of having a victim mentality and choose living a peace & abundant life. Thank you for your commentary. I truly appreciate you and your delivery. #Raw&Uncut #BigFactz
My friends have told me men don’t approach me because I’m intimidating…. Nope!! I’m not intimidating, they are intimidated by ME. Obviously they feel inferior in some way and that’s not MY problem.
❤❤❤❤❤ amen I didn't want to believe that I needed a lot of stuff to work on myself I kept saying that it was all these sucky ass men that I was dating but that's not the truth I was a not so nice person I was selfish and a lot of other things I've been single for over a year and I've just been working on myself to be a better person before I can give myself to somen else.... I had to learn what makes me happy and what I wanted a relationship before I can tell someone else what or need, it's always easier to point the finger at someone else instead of looking at yourself in the mirror. I can honestly stay out right now couple good men off out of my life,
I honestly don’t know because this happens to me all the damn time..My son calls them Cockblockers.. My Daddy used to say if he really wants you then he will come to you regardless of what others say/think.. Hopefully this helps you..
You are speaking facts!! I did it off and on with my sons father for almost 13 years! Everything you’re saying is true. I became addicted to him and it was so toxic! This breakup was the last breakup! 5 months strong!! I only communicate with him when I absolutely have to since we have a 7 year old. Other than that, I want him to stay far away from me!! I am healing and at peace and I’m never going back!! He can keep his other exes in rotation because I’m done!
Amen he can play them like a mix tape
Yes! You're off to a good start! ❤
You’re strong! It was 14 years for me but no children. I’m almost a year out from seeing him. Definitely a toxic cycle of emotional abuse and trauma bonding. Smh I’m so happy now. I’ve gone completely no contact and he still reaches out.
@AmandaCC88 you go girl!!! And don’t ever accept him back because he wants to try to destroy you! They are so evil and they hate to be ignored and hate feeling like they lost! I have realized so much over the last year or so and I’m so happy I broke the trauma bond. That’s why I kept going back and didn’t understand why. I studied what a trauma bond was and decided to go thru the withdrawals but I knew what I was feeling wasn’t love so that helped me. I knew it would get better and I finally realized and accepted who I have been dealing with for all these years. This Man didn’t even respect me, but wants me to believe he loved me so much! I’m so happy and free and he tries to be nice but I see right thru the fakeness and I know he is just trying to see if I’m having a weak moment so that he can get me back in that toxic cycle! But that’s exactly why I don’t communicate with him unless I have to, which is rare. We have our parenting schedule and we stick to it. Other than that, he no longer exists to me. I never want to be his friend and I mean that.
5 months!! That’s so great. I just broke up with my abusive narcissistic cruel ex tonight after 8 years. I feel like I want to throw up. I have to stick to this. How did you do it? When you wanted to text him or call him how did you stop yourself?
Preach. No closure is coming from toxic people
Real Talk Ace!!! We must leave Ex's in their place which is leave them in the past...
"Tell yourself no." #DisciplineHeals
Life is too short for second hand men 🎉
Total facts!!! My ex asked if we could be friends…. Like you said he busted my heart wide open! Yeah next!!!
Mines too my ex cheated with his daughter he just met they are w0 years apart. I have been scared and burned for life yet my ex wants to hang out.
I've never laughed so hard in my life.... I needed this thank you....
Me too… Ace’s personality is so much like my father…He was too funny I miss my father so much…😊 He would always tell me “To Hell with them fucking nuts!”😂🎉👍🏽🌟💯
The back shots ain’t worth the shots to your heart 😂
😅😂
I FUCKING LOVE You!!!! Thank YOU for THIS pep talk! ***I am mature and don't need his confirmation. Greatly APPRECIATED ACE!!!!
A lot of men are just looking for sex with no strings attached. They can see you’re a good woman but that’s not what they’re looking for. I’m truly waiting for a good man with himself and life together…mature and healed enough to have a healthy relationship.
I needed to hear this shit this morning. I been acting a little goofy. Thanks
"Makes my brain hurt" LOL, I love that you are so spot on and call it like it is.
Oh my goodness- perfect timing!!! My ex keeps bugging me over and over to go out to dinner with him- no thank you!!!!!! He fumbled
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Ace u have me Rolling😂😂...I definitely think that wine🍷🍷 got u speaking hard truth...TY for the comedy & truth 😂😂
Absolutely right he's not right for me.
He wasn't worth my years
PURE FACTS
I think the strong question went over your head. We're not talking about strong in terms of independence We're talking about strong in terms of boundaries, not allow a man to hit us or cheat on us so he runs to a woman he can do those things to and who will allow him to and stay
Yesss
I’m with you we need to make each other feel so much love and support ! That’s the best part of loving someone. Helping each other grow in confidence and connection and love 💕
Old school (mack)will talk you out of your dreams...life and self esteem thank you brother for the truth ❤❤
Come on guys just stop! Block them on the phone if you have to. We can all do this! We are all better than this! Love to you all!
Social media blocking is real. I keep the phone numbers alive though, so I’m clear who NOT to answer. 😂😂
God Ace! You’ve really upped you game! Man, you may have saved me from a bad deal, today! Thanks!
Amen. I don’t need friends that badly . Silence speaks volumes
And men aren't even your your friends like your girl friends are. They want to sleep with you if you give them the chance or slip up. They're actually dangerous to be alone with. Men are rarely your real friends! They're only "friends" with women they want to sleep with.
😂😂😂 if he felt all that he wouldn’t have phucked up in the first place
Thank you Ace !!!! I appreciate you all blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰
2002 I went to his job to pick him up🤔 while waiting a man ask can i help you? I said im waiting for my fiancee. He said DAMN HE DOESN'T ACT ENGAGED. 😜THE WAY HE ALL UP ON FEMALES😜. I RAN HOME CHANGE THE LOCKS. HE NEVER KNEW WHY I DUMP HIM.😂🥳🤷🏽♂️
This was a good one. And honestly it needed to be heard ‼️‼️ wow amazing. This is helping me be a better me when looking for love 💕
You hitting it right on the nail 💯
That’s what Ace does.. He can be my Handyman..😊😂
Me and my man gas each other up constantly. You should be willing to stroke your partner's ego (healthily). Of course there will be people who will take advantage of those they see as lesser to feed their own egos, but you don't have to stay with that person in that toxic relationship. But you should also not withold compliments and affection from a good partner worrying about if it's feeding their ego.
some times you want the contact for a dopmine rush
PREACH...NEXT 💯
I tried to co-parent with my toxic ex-husband these last 3yrs since are split. This is the first year that I have realized we can’t coparent, at all. He only cares about him and loves to continue to disrespect me in front of the kids. He doesn’t help me with the kids, I’m too nice and I keep lying to myself that he is going to treat me with respect and kindness like I do. I am at a point this year. I only want to focus on my peace and future not anyone or anything in my past. Don’t do it ladies, stop moving backwards. Start Loving yourself more and caring less about that ex.
Amen ...Ex is an Ex
🤣🤣🤣🤣 this was too funny and truthful 👍🏾
True, leave that sht...Alone..
Dayum 4 min feels like 40 min of teaching
Thank you for getting up and walking around 🎉
I crack up every time he does that!! 🤣🤣🤣
Lol it's hilarious. The passion is appreciated.
I just simply do not back track obviously there was a reason we broke up nothing is going to get better I move up &forward backwards doesn’t make sense if you won’t take a job that pays less because you moved up why back track with an ex it just simply will not benefit you.
I know my ex won’t even come back! I was savage at the breakup, not too bad. 3.5 years now. He come back, crickets will be chirping. Loving my single self. NOTHING for all these years! Loving JUST ME!
Don't feel too bad..I was a Lil SAVAGE too...2 weeks Strong. Lol. I said some nasty shit..after remaining calm for a minute.
Always with those voices to make me feel even stupider 😅🤣
Voice of reason ‼️
I think us women got used to certain behavior from men because most of them showed us this behavior and we normalized it and accepted it. Cuz it kept happening over and over snd again from different guys. So wr thought oh this is just how they are and we accepted that. Nope Needs to end and not be tolerated anymore. There are good men out there that are good people. Not just selfish insecure ones. And they are the ones that deserve attention. Hopefully the selfish ones will work on themselves and the majority of them will be better men one day
Exactly..Let’s call a Spade ah ♠️….You fumbled me bruh..you should have tried when I Cared🫡🗣️🗣️🎯
Love the message ❤
THIS BRUDDA'S GODSEND
Yo a@@ is hilarious!! But on some real spill, you are truly dropping gems. The main thing I am willing to do for 2024 is let go of having a victim mentality and choose living a peace & abundant life. Thank you for your commentary. I truly appreciate you and your delivery. #Raw&Uncut #BigFactz
Thank you so much 🫶🏼
It’s an irrational addiction!!! It’s killing me. I can’t make him stay away. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Ace is in the place on time with his wine..🍷 Ace Lets get together and drink wine and Carter to each other’s egos in 2024.. 🎉😂😉💖💯🤩
Do whatever it takes to do nothing - no contact, no reaching out, no responding, so clicking like on social media
My friends have told me men don’t approach me because I’m intimidating…. Nope!! I’m not intimidating, they are intimidated by ME. Obviously they feel inferior in some way and that’s not MY problem.
Thankyou no more Toxic people in my life.
Oh my, your are so damn good. Thank you. Call a spade a spade. They are losers
IM WEAKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK🤣😂
IM LATE BUT THANK YOU FOR THIS SOUND ADVICE #IMSINGLE 🤣
Thank you for this video ❤
Damn 😂😂😂 I was just battling myself … that damn one conversation… ok I’m done
Submitting to a man doesn’t make you weak…
You better say it Ace!
Um just block them on everything take the access away that’s all.
But having children together is different.
Ace you getting buff lil bro 😊 I see you.
Block him that all and move on
Amen
Come on & speak on it!!! I blocked mines for good!!!
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!!!!
Well I guess I’m a bad person and there’s no hope I’m exhausted with figuring it out like atp imma be single forever
Amen...when I did that everybody thought I was petty...😂
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏 facts 💯
Remember why you broke up in the first place.
❤❤❤❤❤ amen I didn't want to believe that I needed a lot of stuff to work on myself I kept saying that it was all these sucky ass men that I was dating but that's not the truth I was a not so nice person I was selfish and a lot of other things I've been single for over a year and I've just been working on myself to be a better person before I can give myself to somen else.... I had to learn what makes me happy and what I wanted a relationship before I can tell someone else what or need, it's always easier to point the finger at someone else instead of looking at yourself in the mirror. I can honestly stay out right now couple good men off out of my life,
Memo: karmac cannot call, text, social media, etc if they are BLOCKED PEROID 🗣️💯🗣️
😂 I like this guy
Well Ace, I ran a good man off! I can admit it.
Preeeeeeeaaaaaaaccccchhhhhh
All talk.
I don't want it ever again 🤮
Mmmmm are we just talking about men and not women??? This dude is a Ultra simp. Women mess up relationships to
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA 16:25 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 YOU SLAPP
Ace said back shots I heard Buck shots😢😢😢😂
😅😅😅 hell naw it ain't worth Ms cellie it ain't worth it😅😅
I'm here again to get my head right.
Why am I laughing, too funny
Lol, i really like you❤❤
Iam know friends with know xxxx
WHERE AND HOW DO WE JOIN YOUR COMMUNITY
Ooooo, me???😆
How do we let go from one that other people broke up and we can’t understand why did this happen
I honestly don’t know because this happens to me all the damn time..My son calls them Cockblockers.. My Daddy used to say if he really wants you then he will come to you regardless of what others say/think.. Hopefully this helps you..
👏👏👏👏💯💯💯
🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️😂😂😂😂👀👀👀😎😎😎
What if you have kids together?
😊📣
32:00 wholesome AF humor fun healthy intimate time
The world knows it.
GOD LEVEL
Hell no.
Can I have some of your liquor 🥃?!
Ouch
Don't gas me up lol.
He denies me of sex he's addicted to fb gets mad disrespectful I should of walked away always hiding something
😂😂😂😂😂😂
lol
I just blocked my ex MAKE SOME NOISEEEE 🎉💗💗💗🦹🏽♀️🙃
🎉🥳🥳🎉🎉 Been 2 months for me tomorrow. Finally seeing all the b.s for what it is and feeling more sanity. Thank you God ❤