1. When women feel that they are in love, they turn their intelligence off. 2. She talks to much too soon. 3. She gives too much too soon 4.when a woman thinks shes in Love she checks out on her own life. Overindulging in the fantasy of the man or possibility of love, no longer apart of what shes already created. 5.She will settle for a project instead of a partner. 😥 6.She hangs on too long. Even when its obviously the wrong situation...🤧 Here are the major points ladies.
As a grown educated successful woman, it just disgusts me these games grown men and women play. We are not teenagers anymore and some of us want serious relationships. It's sad to see grown women and grown men using each other BECAUSE of their insecurities. I've done so much healing that I see the red flags immediately and the men get mad because I'm aware they are playing games. Know them by their fruits!
At 40 years old....wish I had learned these lessons earlier on so I wouldn’t have “held on” for 20 years to someone who didn’t deserve me! Glad I finally gave ME a chance at life again!
This is the info all of our young girls should hear. I play your videos in the car snd while Im cooking so my 5yo CAN hear. She doesnt understand now....BUT THE SEEDS ARE BEING PLANTED AND IT IS BACKED BY THE WORD. I am determined our family's generational curse be broken with her Thank you Pastor Blakes for providing me with such down to earth ministering and mentoring for myself and my babygirl. May God continue to provide you with bigger and bigger platforms to share this MUCH NEEDED wisdom and knowledge.
These videos have turned my life around. I had a man recently try to trap me by saying he loved me and calling me wifey. It did not move me like it would have in the past. I kept my antenna up and investigated and questioned. I didn't talk too much or give out a bunch of personal information. Things did not add up and I ended it quickly. It was a relief and not painful because I did things the right way. I let it go and kept it moving. Thank you Pastor Blakes for your wise and helpful teachings.
Same here! This definitely touched my soul and I am forever grateful to Mr. Blakes!!! God has used him to get these messages through to Us. Knowledge is Power!
Sometimes you can have a great dad that warns you of these things like mine did but if you've been violated like I was at a very young age that can reverse all that he taught you....
I thank God for my daddy. He's a true example of an amazing father. Thank you Jesus for blessing me with honourable parents. Truly they taught their children well.
That's how I feel when a women does this all they are showing they trully love just to have ea boy not a man crush everything they shares and love with you
It's pathetic that women do this and a reflection of low self esteem. Everything of value comes at a cost. You can't treat yourself like an item on clearance (or a giveaway) and expect people to see value in something that they haven't paid a price for. It's economics 101- in the mind of a consumer, there is correlation between price and quality.
Same here!! 🙋🏽♀️ Pastor Blake’s continues to pour into me with these videos!! I share them with my single sisters as well. I mean every single video that I’ve watched was phenomenal teaching!!!! 🥰🙏🏾
And people think Steve Harvey has wisdom for women, we women need this advice forget watching TV or hanging with girlfriends. These videos are powerful. These messages need to spread across the world then women would carry less bagage. To be honest, I never had a father growing up to provide such wisdom...but God. Through life's pains, God has kept me. But one thing 4 sure & 2 things 4 certain, everything you've said is real talk....preach pastor!!!! Thank you. Now I'm teaching the same things to my girls, grandchildren, & those who will listen. God bless you and your family. Stay safe and be healthy.
Exactly. If he loves you he will start discussing about the future how to become together & start life not talking about sex. Sex must done under marriage but not done under boyfriend. Boyfriend has no plan about future while husband have a plan about future.
That hit home that is the bottom line you give up everything you are and hope to be as an individual to have somone else value you. I will be praying tonite to not be bitter afraid or desperate. Nor to long fir somone who walked away tonite my prayer will be ti walk so closely with jesus. That I will have much better that what I thought I lost. That it nor he will no longer mattter I believe Jesus will heal and renew me IBELIEVE JESUS WILL MAKE ME BETTER THAN I COULD HAVE IMAGINED. I DIDNT LOSE IM GAINING EVERYDAY AND SO WILL YOU LADIES. JESUS LIVES AND YOU MUST BELIEVE HE IS AND HE IS A REWARDER OF THOSE THAT DILIGENTLY SEEK HIM REMEMBER THIS. SEEK HIM
Men have don't care about you to sleep with you. They will tell you anything to sleep with you. Make him earn the privilege to sleep with you. Raise your standards. Marriage.
Yes, this is true. The right men will always respect a woman who says NO until marriage. This way the relationship is consummated and presents a strong message to the man that Sex is sacred to marriage. The reason why God has designed this way is because, this is the most effective system apart from the fact that humans still sin and cannot completely avoid it. But the right men do not misuse this system. I'm a man and I have loved only wife ever since we consummated on marriage. Sex out of marriage is detrimental to the mind, body and soul and most importantly is a sin.
Mine told me soon after we met, before we even started dating, that he didn't believe in premarital sex because he was such a good Christian. Long story short, he was gay & his gay lover was the Best Man in our wedding.
I wish my brother’s girlfriend would watch this. She’s been hanging on to him for over a decade and he still hasn’t proposed to her. But I can’t get Involved, just mind my own business.
😔😔😭😭 I'm trying to let go now. I know I have too. I see he has no intention on having anything together just what he wants. He laughed as I cried and begged for him to hug me and love. Its hard because I let myself get in too deep. I have to cut ties
7:55 #1 turns intelligence off 12:10 #2 she talks to much too soon 17:00 #3 gives too much too soon 22:30 #4 checks out on her own life 25:44 #5 settles for a project over a partner 30:02 #6 she hangs on too long
When a woman thinks she's in love, she will settle for a "project" instead of waiting for a "partner." You need a iheart radio show...this platform isn't big enough for you! Jesus!!
I was married to my high school sweetheart we had six children over the years. To make a long story short we are now divorced. I just became tired of the cheating among other things. The told me to don't marry him I did it anyway. Now, I am on a journey of not knowing how to date. I don't trust! I don't want to date because we as Christians don't date. We court. My ex husband was a Muslim. We have always been unequally yoked! Thank you for shedding light on things for me. Even though I am 45 years old I still need to be taught. God Bless you Pastor.
You can trust your God. You can trust yourself. When your GOD-Self tells you DANGER, Listen. Be true to yourself. God is your soulmate. Cultivate that relationship with prayer and contemplation. You will be so happy. Wear a ring on your left ring finger to remind yourself that God is your mate, until your God tells you to move the ring to your right finger. (Sigh of relief. )
OMG!!! I so so so wish I had found you years ago! I never knew any of this and yes, I gave it all away, like EVERYTHING and he gave nothing in return. I seriously thought I was supposed to give my love, create a life, give support and encouragement, believe in him, etc. He promised me marriage, guess I should be thankful he welched, I lost all of my savings, my heirlooms, my belongings (except my bed and clothes) even my vehicle - I was carless for 2 years to pay his bills while he had two trucks, one of which I bought for him when I still had savings and the other one was just constantly under repair. I share because anyone else listening to this - PAY ATTENTION! I flat-ass didn't know and I lost EVERYTHING including myself until I hit bottom and woke up! NowI'm rebuilding my entire life from the ground-up at 47 years old.
I went out with a complete and utter loser for almost 3 years. Knew I was being manipulated. Always paying for everything... I could go on. Just a horrible person he was. I finally got fed up and my life has been an absolute dream ever since. Don't worry, don't look back, don't kick yourself sister. God bless and may the sun shine upon you.💝💝💝
This is 100% real. Our life is limited, our biological time is limited, hoping-trying to change a Man is just WASTED LIFE.... When we are in our bed to die, nobody can and nobody will give us five minutes more, OUR TIME LIVING is the only real treasure we have, don't worth wasting our TIME to change something that cannot be changed after all, it's a crime we do to ourselves.
Yaya H.. that's good..don't wast your youth on man..love yourself too much.. let people talk about you the way you love yourself..that's me..and men will respect you..men are afraid of a woman who love himself..bcoz they know ur experience ..
I love this and I am 23 year old . I am about to get my BSW. I just ended a toxic relationship where I thought this guy or Mama's boy loved me and he did not. He used me, manipulated me., Ghost cheat etc. I feell very bad for not seeing all this pain
@@averythebutterfly that kind of come with being in your 20s that's why my young sisters should date and be great. Go to school and travel ,live this wonderful life before settling down!
I am 55 year old woman that has had my heart broke after a 17 year marriage. I was raised in the era where a good wife takes care of her man. I gave and did so much with no reciprocation. Your words touched me so much!!! Thank for your passionate presentation! God bless you!
I never had a father in my life; if someone would have taught me these things, my life would be completely different. I would never accept the years of abuse that I have endured. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. I appreciate you so much. 💛👑
I have a father but he was walways absent for the education of his child , he brings only a money in house and left mother alone for education of child. In a moment i was angry with my mother that during 20 years why she didn't divorced with our curs dad. But finnaly it's not her fault, she to didn't know what to do at this time so each day i make better as i can to have fulfilled life and learn more about how deal with relationships
Romantic love is not a necessity. Stop falling for this. Society tells you that you must have a man but men are never told that they must have a woman.
So true. The worst part is not telling oneself the truth. I have learned that: 1- a Queen cannot accept a man that can't do for her more than what she can do for herself in any important area of life. 2- I can be his Esther if he's my Boaz. We must feel protected, PERIOD!!!
Thank you so much! I'm single now and I got rid of a man that didn't work. I'm 51 and he was 60..He had a drug habit and I had to pay his drug DEBTS..I asked God to remove him.
Which is sad. They are predators looking to prey on us. This is really disturbing to me. I need to stay single. Im a really honest and open person and dont know how to be anything else. So hearing that you pretty much cant trust anything he says or does is frightening.
I am addicted to your videos. I have learned so many pieces of information that helps understand related bible scriptures better and see dating and courtship differently.
I’m not even a religious person but your videos and Biblical references be so on point! When it comes to life lessons, they apply to everyone no matter your beliefs. Thank you!
I wanna elaborate on the 'Project' men...for women that take project men, fix them up and help get them on the right path, very few have stayed faithful to their sponsor!!!!! They go find women that dont know their background and act like he's self made to those women. I've seen friends fix up guys just so that he's fly for the next woman. His ego needs him to be the man....if u got him when he was broke down then he knows you know him. He cant front with u, so he finds someone he can..
I’ve never heard that before until I watched this video!! Wow! He speaking directly to me!! Thank God I finally turned my intelligence back on and got out of the relationship as Pastor said that was going no where!!
This is soooo true women do talk to much and that include me I had to learn the hard way. I shut up now the last guy I date he told me when I get quite he gets nervous because he don't know what I'm thinking , and he was running game but soon that game stopped and I dropped his lying tail.
Exactly. Agreement. I've made my mistake "s I am truly. Done a man is not even on my radar iam ok. 3yrs now the last man is still calling, I wont even talk to him.
He needs to say that again! "A man doesn't have to be attractive in order to sleep with you! A man will say he loves you to sleep with you temporarily!..."
That song by Beyonce "To the Left" she said I can have another you in a minute. ...he'll be here in a minute. When I listened to that song she kicked out a deadbeat to let another deadbeat in. I think that song influenced a lot of women.
I can totally relate with o this mindset of something is really wrong with me cause I’m in my thirties, not married and no children yet. My family loves to remind me that I’m not getting any younger. But I will never Finance no man’s life or stop my career path for any relationship. The depressing part comes in where there is that need for companionship but the options are so few and far in between. I’m not settling and with the help of Pastor RC Blake’s ministry I’m going stay strong and fight through it. Promiscuity is tempting but it’s temporary and we deserve better than that.
Krissy Mitch precisely I'm 34, single, no kids, traveling the 🌎, focused on my career & getting my 1st FHA loan. yes the caliber of men are few, far & between. many guys play too many games & aren't sincere, I pray for a spirit of discernment. I can totally relate ( we are young, beautiful & successful ) God Bless
Krissy Mitch Unfortunately family and friends will be the first ones to shame you when things go wrong too.. so try not to pay them to much attention ... You are wise to wait. Blessings to you Sister!
I appreciate your ministry beyond my words. Raised by a single mother. Raising two daughters myself. I've learned many lessons about love & relationships the hard way. But I didn't grow up until I truly surrendered my life to God. It's been uphill ever since. I'm so thankful for men like you that minister to the fatherless without selfish agendas. It makes a major difference in the lives of women & girls to be able to hear the voice of a wise man. Thank you for using your voice to speak life into people.
Amen, sis, for me longer than that! But, I hope you have dried your eyes. Unfortunately, most of us even grew up in a household which perpetrated this ignorance that we learned from the older females who were suppose to be teaching us - they taught us alright! Some of us "followed" just what we saw! Lol.. But God! Thank you Jesus for your Mercy~
I'm smh...wow I wish this was my dad sitting down and talking to me about what not to give wayyyyy too soon, stop talking so much, stop dating projects, stop turning off my intelligence; etc. Thank the Lord for this insightful video by Pastor.
@15 about silent men? That was deep for me right now: either something to hide or not a leader. He has no vision so he has no conversation. 📝 I'm taking notes. Class is in session🤓
VoL. I’m in that of situation, he is way to 🤫 quiet, especially when when we’re riding in the car together. There’s times often when we’re on the phone. It bores me to death. However, when he wants sex he’s talkative and touchy then.🤔
VoL. this happened to me 2 weeks ago a guy introduced himself & we exchanged # s. to make a long story short he didn't want to talk on the phone but texted me for an hour. he tells me he's seperated but still legally married, ( he probably still lives with his wife & didn't want her eavesdropping on his conversation) anyhow I shut that down very quickly. good riddance
Five years ago when you posted this I needed to receive it but I hadn't healed enough yet to accept it. Today, it's message is clear and serves to confirm I'm in a healed, happy, and whole place! The rawness of this message is amazing! Thank you Mr. Blakes🙏🙏🙏
When me and my ex husband were dating, he use to ask me about my ex. I told him I didn't want to talk about my ex because that was in the past. After we got married, he tried to throw my ex in my face and I was able to say "you don't know anything about my ex and just so you know, my ex want me back so don't push me back into his arms!"
I’m just so grateful for you Bishop! You have really broke chains that were deep rooted in my soul and increased my awareness of my worth. I’m healing now and I know it is Gods Spirit flowing through you ❤️🙏🏽
Amen! Every last point is true. My Father asked me “ are you sure?” And 7 years later (of marriage) I let go. No more man-child for me. sometimes your best isn’t enough. And that’s ok...it’ll be great for someone else!
Excellent message that is so powerful and full of truth. 👏👏 1. She loses her Intelligence. 2. Talk to much too soon. 3. Give too much to soon. 4. Checks out on her own life and stop persuing her goals. 5. Settles for project of a man instead of a equal partner. 6. She hangs on too long.
OMG!!! This was fire!!!! Wow! Wow! Wow! Watching this lets me know how vital having a wise father is and how not having that male influence is so detrimental to women. Thank you for being a vessel. God bless you and your wife. You two have been a tremendous blessing.
I had a father but never ever involved emotionally. He was always at home, not drinking alcohol at all and had no close friends but never involved at all. You can see that not having a father at home is similarly to me. Thank God you're grown up, loved by your mom or gurdian who raised up. God has raised people like RC Blake to teach us.
I love these ❤️ videos because i’m learning so much from them everyday.. also because my generation needs this type of messages .. I’m only 18 years old.. I’m glad my mom send me these videos ..
Same here.. sometimes women does as really hyper I would say around a man.. I believed with all my heart when we have the holy spirit in us and can be able to discerning the truth or take it to prayers.
🌷💐🌻🌾I absolutely adore Bishop R.C. I follow him on Face Book, Periscope & UA-cam. Thank you Poppa Blakes & Lady Blakes... His Ministry is priceless. Bishop be dog walking that devil and exposing satan's plot. 🙌❤👀👂
Had I saw this a year ago I would be in a completely different place...the woman you described was me to the T. I am grateful I found this now tho...when the student is ready the teacher will appear. Thank u for sharing this gem
Thank you again for this message "You give too much too soon" If I knew then what I know now I'll be a better woman but my past is my past and there's room for better today thank you Pastor.
This was everything I did wrong! Everything! I’m glad I only wasted a year. He left me heartbroken and pregnant. But I learned. There was never a repeat. The first heartbreak was enough to learn the actual lesson. It built my spiritual muscle.
All of this applies to me: twice in a matter of 7 years- just recently....wasn’t as bad as the first. But the pain is nonetheless hurtful. So heartbroken ...I know better and yet, somehow, I still didn’t do better.....didn’t protect me...Please Father God, I ask you please guide me, order my steps, order my tongue, wash my heart, and guide my feet.
It also applies to me. I'm a 53 yr old woman who has allowed this to happen to me for the past 3 1/2 yrs. I can attest to exactly how you feel. I'm in total agreement with your prayer. We will win in the end. Be blessed my sister ❤️
Same happened to me also, but I married them. Terrible mistake that they are making me pay for. Harrassing me all the time...making it difficult for me to heal.
RC Blakes - When you went in about those women who have given sooo much of themselves to selfish men that they become lesbians hits home with me as a man because I loved this particular woman with everything I had in me and she constantly was drawn to and dogged out by the "selfish charmers". The last time I talked with her she made a comment that disturbed me. She stated "Men!!!" I'm so tired of them. Maybe I should just be gay because they seem like they really enjoy themselves and each other". Nevermind that I presented my feelings for her years ago and watched as guy after guy stepped in with their flattery and excitement only to leave her devastated over and over again. Highly educated (Doctorates) academically, but like a 12 year old little girl emotionally and psychologically. I don't even want to trust women anymore! Tired of being a good Brotha and being looked over by my beautiful Sistas who seem to "mostly" prefer the selfish sex predators who provide them with temporal excitement and thrills. My apologies, but listening to what you said really hit home with me.
Yeah, Trina Johnson, as long as he keeps looking for perfection 'outwardly' he will never meet that kind of woman. These high profile, highly educated men want what Hollywood told them would be considered 'eye candy' and perfect for him to place on his arm. So, as long as they continue buying into that garbage, they will continue to be disappointed in their relationships.
Lil Fuller, "Men like him are far N between...." No, their not! There are PLENTY of men out there like him. Who fall head over heels and go out of his way to absolutely please those types of women who are totally video girl airbrushed sexy outwardly, but who only desire the bad boy type. It's so sad, but they won't even consider the average looking or regular looking woman with great inner qualities. So, for this, I truly am losing my ability to feel sorry for those type brothas. They keep looking in the pig pen for queens and then wonder why she keep trampling over their good deeds.
Ask God to take yr feelings for this Man Love. Do things daily to get him off yr mind. An far most remember yr value Queen. You deserve to have a man who loves you back equally this it takes waiting on God for that do so it will be well worth the wait. Do not cast your pearls into swine least they trample all over it. You're a queen my love never forget it.. and if it seems it's not working some things only come by fasting and prayer.❤ God can do the The Impossible.🙏
Whoa!! The conception of love for men vs women breakdown, was so on point. Relatable for me. Walk in love, never fall in love. Sex does not equal love....
Oh my goodness I wish I had heard this earlier in my life particularly 5 years ago. It would have saved me stress, anxiety, heartbreak and sooooo many tears. Thank you
I thank God for allowing me to have come across your teachings to open up my understanding of how men work. I'm going back to my first love which is Jesus Christ
We must hold back on simple things like "COOKING" for men. This is one thing that tells a man a woman is willing to "give" in most cases and especially when she's not receiving much but scraps!
Yes. I met my husband at 15, 31 now and still getting the breadcrumbs of marriage. Don't even have a home and I'm fighting for a marriage I don't want, he keeps telling me he will change but I know that's not true. Just don't know how to leave anymore.
Everything I wish I had been taught by my dad when I was young. I knew all these things all my life and went the wrong way maybe just to sabotage myself because my daddy didn't teach me? I do know these things now and I appreciate your fatherly guidance. You and God and I are now transforming me into the woman I always always wished I had been from the start :-). Thank God I never gave up :-)
1. When women feel that they are in love, they turn their intelligence off.
2. She talks to much too soon.
3. She gives too much too soon
4.when a woman thinks shes in Love she checks out on her own life. Overindulging in the fantasy of the man or possibility of love, no longer apart of what shes already created.
5.She will settle for a project instead of a partner. 😥
6.She hangs on too long. Even when its obviously the wrong situation...🤧
Here are the major points ladies.
Yes thanks
You’re an MVP
Guilty! 😔
You're a gift from God
Thanks Shelly. R 👍
If man ghosts you, let him go. Don't call him, don't bother him.
AMEN!
Vana Phill .....for sure!
Exactly i had it done to me and I just let him go i didn't call or text him
Amen!
Amen thank you
As a grown educated successful woman, it just disgusts me these games grown men and women play. We are not teenagers anymore and some of us want serious relationships. It's sad to see grown women and grown men using each other BECAUSE of their insecurities. I've done so much healing that I see the red flags immediately and the men get mad because I'm aware they are playing games. Know them by their fruits!
Just Me They get angry with me for talking about it.🙏🏽
Robert Blakes ... Yes as part of my calling in deliverance and counseling, I as well get people upset with me for exposing the truth.
Anjulah Puraless yes mam
Same here sis, they gets mad😢
Key word GROWN....grown ppl don't play games period...
“You can’t get the right man because the wrong man is always takin the space!” 🤯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you for this brutal honesty King 👑
After five years you have come to me to show me the right path, you are an Angel 😇 God Bless You 🙏🏻
At 40 years old....wish I had learned these lessons earlier on so I wouldn’t have “held on” for 20 years to someone who didn’t deserve me! Glad I finally gave ME a chance at life again!
10 for me Amen
IKR
Better late than never 👍
8 years for me 🙄
21 years for me.
@@sharekasirrah9117 sorry to hear that, but I'm glad you got a second chance now
This is the info all of our young girls should hear. I play your videos in the car snd while Im cooking so my 5yo CAN hear. She doesnt understand now....BUT THE SEEDS ARE BEING PLANTED AND IT IS BACKED BY THE WORD.
I am determined our family's generational curse be broken with her
Thank you Pastor Blakes for providing me with such down to earth ministering and mentoring for myself and my babygirl. May God continue to provide you with bigger and bigger platforms to share this MUCH NEEDED wisdom and knowledge.
Thank you!!!
l dan oh wow. I will do the same, good idea
AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNN
L Dan children understand a lot.
(Good job!!!)
L Dan 👏👏👏👍👍👏👏👏
"When a woman thinks shes in love she will settle for a project and not a partner." DEEP
Yemaya Ra I made that mistake. I mistook the project as a sign of love, not a partner.
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For real!!!!
I have had many projects but effective immediately ... No more
Trust me .. it happened to me many times but no more
Wish I had a father like you in my life as I was growing up. Thank you for your information provided.
Smilin MJ I know what you mean. My dad was there but he wasn't there. The only thing he taught me was to try not to get a man like him.
Smilin MJ Exactly
Smilin MJ I know what you mean. I wish I had a father like Pastor Blake’s as well.
I totally agree with @Smilin MJ 🙏 tysm for all this mind opening content
Me too.
The MORE HE KNOWS the MORE POWER you give him. Bam 🤫🤐🤫🤐
Yea keep your life as private as possible.
These videos have turned my life around. I had a man recently try to trap me by saying he loved me and calling me wifey. It did not move me like it would have in the past. I kept my antenna up and investigated and questioned. I didn't talk too much or give out a bunch of personal information. Things did not add up and I ended it quickly. It was a relief and not painful because I did things the right way. I let it go and kept it moving. Thank you Pastor Blakes for your wise and helpful teachings.
Thanks so much for sharing!
This touched my soul... I cried like a baby. I'm mad at myself the most. I must forgive me & move on. Keep me in prayer. Thank you soo much!
God bless you sis!
❤️ me too. May God Bless you and your Love life in the future.
I hear you and understand what you went through because I was there.
We cry together sis💔💔♥️♥️♥️🌺🤲🏾
Same here! This definitely touched my soul and I am forever grateful to Mr. Blakes!!! God has used him to get these messages through to Us. Knowledge is Power!
"I see highly educated women manipulated by a man who can barely read." Enough said!
Facts
Never got a Pizza 🍕 Hut personal pan for reading rewards 😂🤦🏾♀️ #bruh
By far the best video I've seen!!! @Regina Craig
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REGINA...ohhhmygoooodness...ON POINT GIRL!!!
If most of us had a dad like you, this world would be a better place. Now that I know better I can do better. Lord the truth hurts. Thank you!
TRUTH same
Tra Daze men need a dad like him too
Sometimes you can have a great dad that warns you of these things like mine did but if you've been violated like I was at a very young age that can reverse all that he taught you....
You are so on point
Ik father Blake's is helping g us heal let's go Blakesdaughters
I wish all girls could have a father like you. Would save many a lot of heart ache.
I thank God for my daddy. He's a true example of an amazing father. Thank you Jesus for blessing me with honourable parents. Truly they taught their children well.
Yes
If only I’d had a father to teach me like this...
Mannnnnnn
I wish I had a father also.
I felt it when he said "Women often gives her heart, her time, her body and her money even before the man said he's exclusive with her"
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That's how I feel when a women does this all they are showing they trully love just to have ea boy not a man crush everything they shares and love with you
this is sad
It hit really deep
It's pathetic that women do this and a reflection of low self esteem. Everything of value comes at a cost. You can't treat yourself like an item on clearance (or a giveaway) and expect people to see value in something that they haven't paid a price for. It's economics 101- in the mind of a consumer, there is correlation between price and quality.
This is the first time in my life a pastor is giving me REAL talk. Will share with single sisters
Real talk
Same here!! 🙋🏽♀️ Pastor Blake’s continues to pour into me with these videos!! I share them with my single sisters as well. I mean every single video that I’ve watched was phenomenal teaching!!!! 🥰🙏🏾
should not fall in love ...WALK into it....that is DEEP
This is still beneficial for today.
As a psychotherapist, I have to say this is a really wise, sound advice. Refreshing! Thank you 🙏
And people think Steve Harvey has wisdom for women, we women need this advice forget watching TV or hanging with girlfriends. These videos are powerful. These messages need to spread across the world then women would carry less bagage. To be honest, I never had a father growing up to provide such wisdom...but God. Through life's pains, God has kept me. But one thing 4 sure & 2 things 4 certain, everything you've said is real talk....preach pastor!!!! Thank you. Now I'm teaching the same things to my girls, grandchildren, & those who will listen. God bless you and your family. Stay safe and be healthy.
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I totally agree! I’m a psychotherapist as well.
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I’m not a psychotherapist and I see the wisdom in the words Pastor Blake’s shares.
I just cried I maybe hurting but I'm exiting left with tears and my self respect.... Thank u pastor I needed this.
God brought me here.. I know it. This is what I needed to hear. God bless you
Me too, God brought me on this page tonight.
Same here 🙋🏽♀️ And it’s now 2022!!! Wow!
'It's bad to love something that don't love you back!'
You are so right
Exactly. If he loves you he will start discussing about the future how to become together & start life not talking about sex. Sex must done under marriage but not done under boyfriend. Boyfriend has no plan about future while husband have a plan about future.
That hit home that is the bottom line you give up everything you are and hope to be as an individual to have somone else value you. I will be praying tonite to not be bitter afraid or desperate. Nor to long fir somone who walked away tonite my prayer will be ti walk so closely with jesus. That I will have much better that what I thought I lost. That it nor he will no longer mattter I believe Jesus will heal and renew me IBELIEVE JESUS WILL MAKE ME BETTER THAN I COULD HAVE IMAGINED. I DIDNT LOSE IM GAINING EVERYDAY AND SO WILL YOU LADIES. JESUS LIVES AND YOU MUST BELIEVE HE IS AND HE IS A REWARDER OF THOSE THAT DILIGENTLY SEEK HIM REMEMBER THIS. SEEK HIM
Letty A -no lies here😦
... casting pearls before swine ...
Men have don't care about you to sleep with you. They will tell you anything to sleep with you. Make him earn the privilege to sleep with you. Raise your standards. Marriage.
Yes, this is true. The right men will always respect a woman who says NO until marriage. This way the relationship is consummated and presents a strong message to the man that Sex is sacred to marriage. The reason why God has designed this way is because, this is the most effective system apart from the fact that humans still sin and cannot completely avoid it. But the right men do not misuse this system. I'm a man and I have loved only wife ever since we consummated on marriage.
Sex out of marriage is detrimental to the mind, body and soul and most importantly is a sin.
True
Yes waiting on my boaz
Most cheaters are married men.
Mine told me soon after we met, before we even started dating, that he didn't believe in premarital sex because he was such a good Christian. Long story short, he was gay & his gay lover was the Best Man in our wedding.
When a woman thinks she is in love she hangs on too long..to a fantasy. TRUTH. Hard to hear sometimes.
How do you learn to move on
I Stand Accused @ Amanda McQ
@@averythebutterfly idk you just do first accept he's not coming back #2 cut off all contact #3 forgive and forget
I wish my brother’s girlfriend would watch this. She’s been hanging on to him for over a decade and he still hasn’t proposed to her. But I can’t get Involved, just mind my own business.
😔😔😭😭 I'm trying to let go now. I know I have too. I see he has no intention on having anything together just what he wants. He laughed as I cried and begged for him to hug me and love. Its hard because I let myself get in too deep. I have to cut ties
7:55 #1 turns intelligence off
12:10 #2 she talks to much too soon
17:00 #3 gives too much too soon
22:30 #4 checks out on her own life
25:44 #5 settles for a project over a partner
30:02 #6 she hangs on too long
🤗Thanks!
Thank you! You could get a job making reviews with breakdowns like this. I look for reviews like this. Thank you!
Thank you 😊
Outlet Ministry Plugging into God Thank you so much ❤️
Thanks very man of God.
Really what u r saying l am the one.l give in quickly,and l end up being hated.
Thanks very much
This is deeeeep. The difference between when a woman says "I love you" versus when a man says "I love you. 😔😔
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Mannnnn
I truly love this Man of God because he speaks truth NO MATTER how it may sound...Thank You Bishop!
Same ❤🙏🏻
When a woman thinks she's in love, she will settle for a "project" instead of waiting for a "partner." You need a iheart radio show...this platform isn't big enough for you! Jesus!!
I was married to my high school sweetheart we had six children over the years. To make a long story short we are now divorced. I just became tired of the cheating among other things. The told me to don't marry him I did it anyway. Now, I am on a journey of not knowing how to date. I don't trust! I don't want to date because we as Christians don't date. We court. My ex husband was a Muslim. We have always been unequally yoked! Thank you for shedding light on things for me. Even though I am 45 years old I still need to be taught. God Bless you Pastor.
Thames71 you had a blended family of Muslim and Christian how was that?
You can trust your God. You can trust yourself. When your GOD-Self tells you DANGER, Listen. Be true to yourself. God is your soulmate. Cultivate that relationship with prayer and contemplation. You will be so happy. Wear a ring on your left ring finger to remind yourself that God is your mate, until your God tells you to move the ring to your right finger. (Sigh of relief. )
Thames71 Wow,!I just read this. How are things going with you now?
Praying for you and start working on you and your dreams.
OMG!!! I so so so wish I had found you years ago! I never knew any of this and yes, I gave it all away, like EVERYTHING and he gave nothing in return. I seriously thought I was supposed to give my love, create a life, give support and encouragement, believe in him, etc. He promised me marriage, guess I should be thankful he welched, I lost all of my savings, my heirlooms, my belongings (except my bed and clothes) even my vehicle - I was carless for 2 years to pay his bills while he had two trucks, one of which I bought for him when I still had savings and the other one was just constantly under repair. I share because anyone else listening to this - PAY ATTENTION! I flat-ass didn't know and I lost EVERYTHING including myself until I hit bottom and woke up! NowI'm rebuilding my entire life from the ground-up at 47 years old.
Tabitha Jane I’m praying for your strength .. God bless you💕💕💕💕🙏🏾
I went out with a complete and utter loser for almost 3 years. Knew I was being manipulated. Always paying for everything... I could go on. Just a horrible person he was. I finally got fed up and my life has been an absolute dream ever since. Don't worry, don't look back, don't kick yourself sister. God bless and may the sun shine upon you.💝💝💝
#MeToo I'm proud of you Queen... Keep up the GREAT work
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏾. I am learning.
Tabitha Jane, Dusties have no shame.
This is so good! I’ve been married for 19 years and STILL learned something by listening. (Mainly, I’m lucky to have a good man!)
Bless you❤
"You can't change a man. He either is or he ain't!" 🔥
This is 100% real.
Our life is limited, our biological time is limited, hoping-trying to change a Man is just WASTED LIFE.... When we are in our bed to die, nobody can and nobody will give us five minutes more, OUR TIME LIVING is the only real treasure we have, don't worth wasting our TIME to change something that cannot be changed after all, it's a crime we do to ourselves.
24, about to be 25 years old. Thank you for the wise words, I’m not wasting my youth on a man that can’t connect with me emotionally.
Yaya H.. that's good..don't wast your youth on man..love yourself too much.. let people talk about you the way you love yourself..that's me..and men will respect you..men are afraid of a woman who love himself..bcoz they know ur experience ..
I love this and I am 23 year old . I am about to get my BSW. I just ended a toxic relationship where I thought this guy or Mama's boy loved me and he did not. He used me, manipulated me., Ghost cheat etc. I feell very bad for not seeing all this pain
@@averythebutterfly that kind of come with being in your 20s that's why my young sisters should date and be great. Go to school and travel ,live this wonderful life before settling down!
Don’t‼️ I did at you age he wasted 10 yrs of my life @36 I’m recovering from the damage
When he said, "This man is playing you with sheet music YOU provided!" I literally hollered. 😂😂🎼🎵🎻
#offkey😟
Yes Rich!
Glamourously Flawed Wow 😂
I hollered 2! 😄😄😄
I am 55 year old woman that has had my heart broke after a 17 year marriage. I was raised in the era where a good wife takes care of her man. I gave and did so much with no reciprocation. Your words touched me so much!!! Thank for your passionate presentation! God bless you!
It’s 2020 and I’m just now running into this. One of the best videos I’ve seen on UA-cam ❤️
You are so right...I just mistakenly ran into this video...he is amazing
Same with me.
Same here💜
Life changing...
......smh...
2021 for me👍🏾
I never had a father in my life; if someone would have taught me these things, my life would be completely different. I would never accept the years of abuse that I have endured. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. I appreciate you so much. 💛👑
No one has ever spoken to me like this... I got a project man for 5years. He broke me in a lot of places. Thank you Pastor
I have a father but he was walways absent for the education of his child , he brings only a money in house and left mother alone for education of child. In a moment i was angry with my mother that during 20 years why she didn't divorced with our curs dad. But finnaly it's not her fault, she to didn't know what to do at this time so each day i make better as i can to have fulfilled life and learn more about how deal with relationships
Me too 😭
realizing my mistake and on my path to improving. thank you so much!
Romantic love is not a necessity. Stop falling for this. Society tells you that you must have a man but men are never told that they must have a woman.
So True - men are not told they must have a (1) woman. They are told and encouraged to have several and juggle them! Sad~
YAH tells Man a wife is good to find. Our mistake is listening to & believing what society tells us & disbelieving YAH/GOD.
So true. The worst part is not telling oneself the truth. I have learned that:
1- a Queen cannot accept a man that can't do for her more than what she can do for herself in any important area of life.
2- I can be his Esther if he's my Boaz.
We must feel protected, PERIOD!!!
I need to save this and play it to my baby daughter in 15 years.
I turned my intelligence off for 15 years 😩 luckily i turned it on this year.
Wow
#salute
It’s never to late! Proceed!!!
😂darling you dodged a bullet
Welcome back ....
Thank you so much! I'm single now and I got rid of a man that didn't work. I'm 51 and he was 60..He had a drug habit and I had to pay his drug DEBTS..I asked God to remove him.
Inspirational word look for the sign a before it gets that far
Sis stay strong. All things are lessons that god will have us learn. Sending you love and light❤
A grown woman never falls in love but walks in love. Preach!
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Men Breaks a woman down EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY. If SHE LETS HIM she's LOSING AT THE GAME !!!!
Which is sad. They are predators looking to prey on us. This is really disturbing to me. I need to stay single. Im a really honest and open person and dont know how to be anything else. So hearing that you pretty much cant trust anything he says or does is frightening.
This Pastor is killing me... 😂.
He is speaking the truth!
I am addicted to your videos. I have learned so many pieces of information that helps understand related bible scriptures better and see dating and courtship differently.
I’m not even a religious person but your videos and Biblical references be so on point! When it comes to life lessons, they apply to everyone no matter your beliefs. Thank you!
I wanna elaborate on the 'Project' men...for women that take project men, fix them up and help get them on the right path, very few have stayed faithful to their sponsor!!!!! They go find women that dont know their background and act like he's self made to those women. I've seen friends fix up guys just so that he's fly for the next woman. His ego needs him to be the man....if u got him when he was broke down then he knows you know him. He cant front with u, so he finds someone he can..
Cynsi24/8 bob the builder
Cynsi24/8 find people who whole
Cyn-sei you better say that!!!! Preach sis!
True!!!
I'm no architect. Can't build a spouse.
I’m guilty of turning my intelligence off
We ALL have! Smh
You are not alone. I have to turn it back on. Help me God
Same🤦🏿
Guilty 39 yr old here🙋🏾
I'm also guilty but i thank God for coming in contact with RC BLAKES...God bless you sir!
Some women turn off their intelligence and enter relationships as a NEED..so true!!!
I’ve never heard that before until I watched this video!! Wow! He speaking directly to me!! Thank God I finally turned my intelligence back on and got out of the relationship as Pastor said that was going no where!!
This is soooo true women do talk to much and that include me I had to learn the hard way. I shut up now the last guy I date he told me when I get quite he gets nervous because he don't know what I'm thinking , and he was running game but soon that game stopped and I dropped his lying tail.
Good, stay quiet around men! Freak them out.
Charoletta77 lady I'm learning that now.
Charoletta77 smart woman
Charoletta77 good for you!👍
Charoletta77 girl your to funny
A voice of a father crying out in the wilderness,"listen daughters u are Royalty! Know your worth!"
Majesty Amen 🙏🏾
Exactly. Agreement. I've made my mistake "s I am truly. Done a man is not even on my radar iam ok.
3yrs now the last man is still calling, I wont even talk to him.
He needs to say that again! "A man doesn't have to be attractive in order to sleep with you! A man will say he loves you to sleep with you temporarily!..."
That song by Beyonce "To the Left" she said I can have another you in a minute. ...he'll be here in a minute. When I listened to that song she kicked out a deadbeat to let another deadbeat in. I think that song influenced a lot of women.
Stormy Martin Kabad that was deep what he said...💯🤔👍
Stormy Martin Kabad attracted
Stormy Martin Kabad amen on that
That's so disgusting
"I see women everyday who r highly educated being manipulated by men who can barely read". 😂😂😂😂😂
🖐🏽🤣💅🏾
It’s that real😳 😢
Nooo way!🤢
Been there done that
What was I thinking? 🤔
I literally was one of them
His momma couldn't change him
What makes you think you can change him 👀
His momma made him...
His mamma enables him.
I can totally relate with o this mindset of something is really wrong with me cause I’m in my thirties, not married and no children yet. My family loves to remind me that I’m not getting any younger. But I will never Finance no man’s life or stop my career path for any relationship. The depressing part comes in where there is that need for companionship but the options are so few and far in between. I’m not settling and with the help of Pastor RC Blake’s ministry I’m going stay strong and fight through it. Promiscuity is tempting but it’s temporary and we deserve better than that.
Krissy Mitch
precisely I'm 34, single, no kids, traveling the 🌎, focused on my career & getting my 1st FHA loan. yes the caliber of men are few, far & between. many guys play too many games & aren't sincere, I pray for a spirit of discernment. I can totally relate ( we are young, beautiful & successful ) God Bless
Ditto
Krissy Mitch- stick to your standards and know that God got you🙏💯👏
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Krissy Mitch Unfortunately family and friends will be the first ones to shame you when things go wrong too.. so try not to pay them to much attention ... You are wise to wait. Blessings to you Sister!
I appreciate your ministry beyond my words. Raised by a single mother. Raising two daughters myself. I've learned many lessons about love & relationships the hard way. But I didn't grow up until I truly surrendered my life to God. It's been uphill ever since. I'm so thankful for men like you that minister to the fatherless without selfish agendas. It makes a major difference in the lives of women & girls to be able to hear the voice of a wise man. Thank you for using your voice to speak life into people.
I’m crying wishing god had put a book like this under my nose 20 years ago.
Amen, sis, for me longer than that! But, I hope you have dried your eyes. Unfortunately, most of us even grew up in a household which perpetrated this ignorance that we learned from the older females who were suppose to be teaching us - they taught us alright! Some of us "followed" just what we saw! Lol.. But God! Thank you Jesus for your Mercy~
I'm smh...wow I wish this was my dad sitting down and talking to me about what not to give wayyyyy too soon, stop talking so much, stop dating projects, stop turning off my intelligence; etc. Thank the Lord for this insightful video by Pastor.
"Penthouse vision with a man who's happy in the basement" 🤦🏾♀️
sha sha girl I’m screaming 😱💀💀💀💀🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪LOL
that part!
This video speaks volumes
Sheeesshhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!
So true
Thank you Pastor. I am a Muslim girl, and I like your advices so much. May God bless you & keeps you lightening our path 🌿🙏🏻
This video is so important. Every girl-child born should be given this information. Parents don’t always know how to parent.
Sex outside of love and marriage equals disaster in most instances.
Berneta Johnson Completely blinds your eyes from intimacy outside of marriage.
Amen...Amen
But in some instances ?
@15 about silent men? That was deep for me right now: either something to hide or not a leader. He has no vision so he has no conversation. 📝 I'm taking notes. Class is in session🤓
VoL. I’m in that of situation, he is way to 🤫 quiet, especially when when we’re riding in the car together. There’s times often when we’re on the phone. It bores me to death. However, when he wants sex he’s talkative and touchy then.🤔
VoL.
this happened to me 2 weeks ago a guy introduced himself & we exchanged # s. to make a long story short he didn't want to talk on the phone but texted me for an hour. he tells me he's seperated but still legally married, ( he probably still lives with his wife & didn't want her eavesdropping on his conversation) anyhow I shut that down very quickly. good riddance
VoL. That part!!
Michelle McDonald ...yup. DUECES...✌🏽lolol!
He pretends he's such a quiet guy. I don't think it ever was that. It's sad to see alot come out and ai didn't even know him
“A wise woman walks in love” whew!!!
Five years ago when you posted this I needed to receive it but I hadn't healed enough yet to accept it. Today, it's message is clear and serves to confirm I'm in a healed, happy, and whole place!
The rawness of this message is amazing! Thank you Mr. Blakes🙏🙏🙏
women think turning their intelligence off is being SUBMISSIVE. a new definition of submission needs to be made.
ayanda simelane ... we submit to our husbands... not boyfriends or significant others. Don’t put the horse before the cart.
Partner or forget it.
This was for me!!! I married my PROJECT😪😰 I will be emailing you, this video has me in tears and i need strength and guidance..
I pray God guides you and gives you all the answers you need sis.. He is on point. "Sex does not equal love." You cannot EVER change somebody.
+Stormy Martin Kabad He's my online Pastor that I was telling you about..
+Nariskas Mommie oh ok cool..
Nariska & Johan's Queen how are you now
Nariska & Johan's Queen May Christ Jesus strengthen and restore you.. Amen.
When me and my ex husband were dating, he use to ask me about my ex. I told him I didn't want to talk about my ex because that was in the past. After we got married, he tried to throw my ex in my face and I was able to say "you don't know anything about my ex and just so you know, my ex want me back so don't push me back into his arms!"
I’m just so grateful for you Bishop! You have really broke chains that were deep rooted in my soul and increased my awareness of my worth. I’m healing now and I know it is Gods Spirit flowing through you ❤️🙏🏽
Amen! Every last point is true. My Father asked me “ are you sure?” And 7 years later (of marriage) I let go. No more man-child for me. sometimes your best isn’t enough. And that’s ok...it’ll be great for someone else!
Excellent message that is so powerful and full of truth. 👏👏
1. She loses her Intelligence.
2. Talk to much too soon.
3. Give too much to soon.
4. Checks out on her own life and stop persuing her goals.
5. Settles for project of a man instead of a equal partner.
6. She hangs on too long.
Not
You know how many times someone has told me I may have to help build a man?
I have a WHOLE son. I'm not building a man. Sorry.
K Turi Lightways my own momma told me that
Amen I know thats right I have 2 grown boys not about to raise no man not I thats not my job so I keep moving.......NEXTtttt lol
Say that!!!
OMG!!! This was fire!!!! Wow! Wow! Wow! Watching this lets me know how vital having a wise father is and how not having that male influence is so detrimental to women. Thank you for being a vessel. God bless you and your wife. You two have been a tremendous blessing.
I had a father but never ever involved emotionally. He was always at home, not drinking alcohol at all and had no close friends but never involved at all. You can see that not having a father at home is similarly to me. Thank God you're grown up, loved by your mom or gurdian who raised up. God has raised people like RC Blake to teach us.
2019 why am I seeing this now?? but well it is very inspiring... self-love is very important. ive learnt a lot from this
Perhaps it could not have come at a better time than now....
I love these ❤️ videos because i’m learning so much from them everyday.. also because my generation needs this type of messages .. I’m only 18 years old.. I’m glad my mom send me these videos ..
I wish I would have watched this 3 yrs ago
Kareen Mondesir shit me too!
Same here.. sometimes women does as really hyper I would say around a man.. I believed with all my heart when we have the holy spirit in us and can be able to discerning the truth or take it to prayers.
How about 12 years ago
Wish I had this knowledge over 25 years ago!
But least you are watching this now it never too late x
# "STOP! TURNING YOUR ..INTELLIGENCE!...OFF"!!!......Ladies.
Smart women scare weak men. These men can't play games with you because you have already been there.
🌷💐🌻🌾I absolutely adore Bishop R.C. I follow him on Face Book, Periscope & UA-cam. Thank you Poppa Blakes & Lady Blakes... His Ministry is priceless. Bishop be dog walking that devil and exposing satan's plot. 🙌❤👀👂
Thank you!!!!😊
Had I saw this a year ago I would be in a completely different place...the woman you described was me to the T. I am grateful I found this now tho...when the student is ready the teacher will appear. Thank u for sharing this gem
Thank you again for this message
"You give too much too soon"
If I knew then what I know now I'll be a better woman but my past is my past and there's room for better today thank you Pastor.
Amen!!!
Resonates...deeply and painfully
"He's playing you with sheet music you provided" LOLOLOL 😂😂😂
This man is the truth!!!
No it isn’t
I hollered when he said that! 😄😄 🎶
Bless you pastor 😍✨✨✨✨ l can't believe this is free of charge
Pls help me tell Pastor he needed the earth 🌍 award. So one can feel the same way I do. nnaa dalu
Aleesha Mucharwa Thanking God that it is!
This was everything I did wrong! Everything! I’m glad I only wasted a year. He left me heartbroken and pregnant. But I learned. There was never a repeat. The first heartbreak was enough to learn the actual lesson. It built my spiritual muscle.
You were blessed that you only wasted a year.
All of this applies to me: twice in a matter of 7 years- just recently....wasn’t as bad as the first. But the pain is nonetheless hurtful. So heartbroken ...I know better and yet, somehow, I still didn’t do better.....didn’t protect me...Please Father God,
I ask you please guide me, order my steps, order my tongue, wash my heart, and guide my feet.
It also applies to me. I'm a 53 yr old woman who has allowed this to happen to me for the past 3 1/2 yrs. I can attest to exactly how you feel. I'm in total agreement with your prayer. We will win in the end. Be blessed my sister ❤️
Amanda Glaude thank you for sharing your testimony. May you find peace in wholeness.
Same happened to me also, but I married them. Terrible mistake that they are making me pay for. Harrassing me all the time...making it difficult for me to heal.
Same here babe 😭... I knew better... 😢
I’ve gotta listen to this five more times because this is SOOOO GOOD!
I turned from Michelle Obama to Marilyn Monroe. That hit me hard cause it is true😔
Marilyn was quite intelligent, she just couldn’t handle her emotions.
RC Blakes - When you went in about those women who have given sooo much of themselves to selfish men that they become lesbians hits home with me as a man because I loved this particular woman with everything I had in me and she constantly was drawn to and dogged out by the "selfish charmers". The last time I talked with her she made a comment that disturbed me. She stated "Men!!!" I'm so tired of them. Maybe I should just be gay because they seem like they really enjoy themselves and each other". Nevermind that I presented my feelings for her years ago and watched as guy after guy stepped in with their flattery and excitement only to leave her devastated over and over again. Highly educated (Doctorates) academically, but like a 12 year old little girl emotionally and psychologically. I don't even want to trust women anymore! Tired of being a good Brotha and being looked over by my beautiful Sistas who seem to "mostly" prefer the selfish sex predators who provide them with temporal excitement and thrills. My apologies, but listening to what you said really hit home with me.
Hang in there my brotha i know its hard but you will meet a woman that will appreciate and love you
C Toomer there are still some good women out here. Men like you are far N between all the crap that's out there. Sorry to say.
Yeah, Trina Johnson, as long as he keeps looking for perfection 'outwardly' he will never meet that kind of woman. These high profile, highly educated men want what Hollywood told them would be considered 'eye candy' and perfect for him to place on his arm. So, as long as they continue buying into that garbage, they will continue to be disappointed in their relationships.
Lil Fuller, "Men like him are far N between...." No, their not! There are PLENTY of men out there like him. Who fall head over heels and go out of his way to absolutely please those types of women who are totally video girl airbrushed sexy outwardly, but who only desire the bad boy type. It's so sad, but they won't even consider the average looking or regular looking woman with great inner qualities. So, for this, I truly am losing my ability to feel sorry for those type brothas. They keep looking in the pig pen for queens and then wonder why she keep trampling over their good deeds.
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People make it so hard to love, all I can do is pray!!!! Pastor, men are very selfish and I refuse to marry a selfish man
I'm in love with a man who doesn't even love me its about 4 years now, by this word I feel good and to let him go
Amen sis once you reach the turning point, you are good
Am married to a man who doesn't love me and only realise this after 6years
Run sister
🏃🏽♀️🤸🏽♀️💃🏾...Me celebrating you Queen
Ask God to take yr feelings for this Man Love. Do things daily to get him off yr mind. An far most remember yr value Queen. You deserve to have a man who loves you back equally this it takes waiting on God for that do so it will be well worth the wait. Do not cast your pearls into swine least they trample all over it. You're a queen my love never forget it.. and if it seems it's not working some things only come by fasting and prayer.❤ God can do the The Impossible.🙏
Whoa!! The conception of love for men vs women breakdown, was so on point. Relatable for me. Walk in love, never fall in love. Sex does not equal love....
Oh my goodness I wish I had heard this earlier in my life particularly 5 years ago. It would have saved me stress, anxiety, heartbreak and sooooo many tears. Thank you
Do you think you would’ve listened? Do you think you would’ve heard the message?
Thats a Very Cold Reality! A Sexual Relationship Should Be Proven Not Given Away! Thats Why GOD Instituted Marriage!!!!! Not Casual Sex!
I thank God for allowing me to have come across your teachings to open up my understanding of how men work. I'm going back to my first love which is Jesus Christ
Alicia Young Amen
We must hold back on simple things like "COOKING" for men. This is one thing that tells a man a woman is willing to "give" in most cases and especially when she's not receiving much but scraps!
I'm in the right place at the right time. I needed to hear this.
Me too dear
Isn't God good!!? Own time God!
#On time
From Mitchelle Obama to Lindsey Lohan
It's bad to love someone who doesn't want you back..so many gems, a video worth repeating over and over again!!!
you cannot change a man & you have to cut your losses
Wow this is deep young girls need to hear this from prob the age of 15/16 it will save a lot of heartache as it becomes harder as we get older.
Yes. I met my husband at 15, 31 now and still getting the breadcrumbs of marriage. Don't even have a home and I'm fighting for a marriage I don't want, he keeps telling me he will change but I know that's not true. Just don't know how to leave anymore.
Still TIMELESS ADVICE in 2019 and BEYOND!!!!!! Definitely time to level up ladies and gentleman!!!!
Everything I wish I had been taught by my dad when I was young. I knew all these things all my life and went the wrong way maybe just to sabotage myself because my daddy didn't teach me? I do know these things now and I appreciate your fatherly guidance. You and God and I are now transforming me into the woman I always always wished I had been from the start :-). Thank God I never gave up :-)
You have been a father to God’s daughters...who is my mother , father, sister, brother, those who DO the will of my father!