The Golden Bachelor Newlyweds Got Divorced

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  • Опубліковано 11 кві 2024
  • After three months of marriage, the 'Golden Bachelor' Gerry and his wife Theresa are getting divorced. The newlyweds called it quits, citing proximity to family as their reason for abandoning their vows. Perhaps, this problem could have been predicted and prevented BEFORE tying the knot.
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  • @meleebrawler6462
    @meleebrawler6462 Місяць тому +1095

    If I had a nickel for every time Brett covered divorce this week, I’d have two nickels. Which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it happened twice.

    • @whatspoppinn1632
      @whatspoppinn1632 Місяць тому +25

      It’s a good thing to discuss though

    • @Sarah-zm5dz
      @Sarah-zm5dz Місяць тому +74

      Perry the Platypus?!

    • @MusicalAngel
      @MusicalAngel Місяць тому +33

      @@Sarah-zm5dz *removes hat*

    • @jordankeefer2036
      @jordankeefer2036 Місяць тому +33

      She just got married, too! Kind of ironic

    • @Cuchilain
      @Cuchilain Місяць тому +17

      No one will ever divorce Brett.

  • @owlblocksdavid4955
    @owlblocksdavid4955 Місяць тому +510

    Once you're married, you ARE family. What do you mean "prioritizing family"? "I'm prioritizing family, so I decided to end mine", that's so stupid.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +3

      LOL!

    • @dj393
      @dj393 29 днів тому +7

      They have other family. Your family (siblings, kids, grands) doesn't mean nothing once you get married.

    • @DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro
      @DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro 29 днів тому +27

      @@dj393okay? Still doesn’t change the fact that your spouse is your family. If your kids are grown adults (like those of a man in his 70’s), your first family priority should be with fulfilling the promise you made to your spouse on your wedding day to stay together forever. In fact, that should be number 1 priority even if you do have kids. Marriage is very important

    • @owlblocksdavid4955
      @owlblocksdavid4955 29 днів тому +11

      @@dj393 it's not about "my" family though. It's "our" family. Once you're married, your kids are your wife's kids, your parents are your wife's parents, etc. I'm not saying you necessarily disagree with that, but the way they were talking makes it seem like they don't think of it that way.

    • @barbarajohnson4920
      @barbarajohnson4920 29 днів тому

      Stupid you call it? You’re being very kind

  • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
    @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 26 днів тому +402

    Perfect marriages or relationships simply don't exist. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to navigating them. What may be effective for Adam might not resonate with Peter. However, I've come to realize that there's always a solution to every problem. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such difficulties in our marriage that divorce seemed imminent. Despite the ordeal, we persevered, and today, we've triumphed over that rough patch, reunited and stronger than ever

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 26 днів тому

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things!!!

    • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
      @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 26 днів тому

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters....

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 26 днів тому

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks

    • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
      @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 26 днів тому

      You wont regret it

  • @sherrihurst3142
    @sherrihurst3142 Місяць тому +549

    These shows are so silly.... If you live in opposite parts of the country and refuse to move closer because you can't stand the thought of leaving their families don't get on the show!

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever Місяць тому +28

      This is why you need to talk about these things BEFORE the wedding! You just jump into it without planning it ends in disaster, it doesn't matter how old you are!

    • @sherrihurst3142
      @sherrihurst3142 Місяць тому +9

      @@colleen4ever they're thinking with their heart instead of their head..

    • @lawrencetalbot8346
      @lawrencetalbot8346 29 днів тому +7

      I feel that way about people in general, not just on these shows. I am so sick of meeting women who move to an area only to say that if they got married; they want to move back home to be near their family. Well why’d you move here in the first place then if family so important to you?

    • @ohsweetmystery
      @ohsweetmystery 29 днів тому +7

      Just an excuse, they found out they are incompatible.

    • @sherrihurst3142
      @sherrihurst3142 29 днів тому +1

      @@ohsweetmystery I think you don't really know someone until you live with them!

  • @jaxkommish
    @jaxkommish Місяць тому +435

    Please can we use this to stop all these "go on tv to find a spouse" shows?

    • @jacobellsworth6432
      @jacobellsworth6432 Місяць тому +14

      But they’re garbage and I love it

    • @desertsunset8025
      @desertsunset8025 Місяць тому +5

      It was still fun to watch . Let's not cancel our viewing .

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever Місяць тому +8

      Yes, please PLEASE do!

    • @AngieW2727
      @AngieW2727 Місяць тому +1

      Nooooo I hold on to the couples who still stand together 😭

    • @thegalhorowitz
      @thegalhorowitz Місяць тому +5

      no we cant stop. I need it. We need it. I live in Europe but we love bachelor because its actually silly and its refreshing instead of watching war news everyday. 😢 Love American trash tv

  • @thegenzcompass2526
    @thegenzcompass2526 Місяць тому +269

    I hate these shows. They trivialise the sanctity of courting and marriage. This is a BIG DEAL. I'm originally from Nigeria but live in Australia and I hated Married at first sight, Love Island and Farmer wants a wife. The petty games and cheating is despicable. The courting process should not be turned into a spectacle and marriage should be a unifying sacrament. If I had the choice ( I know its silly to think I could) I would ban these shows.
    Would we trivialize the birthing experience, funerals, and other significant moments? No. So we shouldn't do so for marriage.

    • @Sed_Contra
      @Sed_Contra Місяць тому +9

      Completely agree!

    • @user-lx5kj1wy2w
      @user-lx5kj1wy2w Місяць тому +13

      Agreed, and it doesn't even need to be about it being a religious sacrament. Even as a completely secular thing, romantic relationships, marriage, family should be sacred and considered serious, personal things. It shouldn't be a publicity stunt, or a game, or anything public.

    • @ericchism4855
      @ericchism4855 Місяць тому +10

      American reality TV has and will trivialize everything. Who would guess that a TV reality show arranged marriage would fail?

    • @nickynicks_
      @nickynicks_ Місяць тому +6

      @@user-lx5kj1wy2w Precisely, as someone who isn’t religious and is pretty young, I’ve always found these shows so superficial and unbelievable. How can anyone fall in love naturally in front of a bunch of cameras as it’s made into a game or competition? I hate it, it’s so fake and it downplays love, dating and marriage.

    • @stephaniesurmanfalls6532
      @stephaniesurmanfalls6532 Місяць тому +2

      AGREE!! ✊

  • @richa6099
    @richa6099 Місяць тому +297

    Stevie Wonder could've seen that coming.

  • @pinkanimositygaming
    @pinkanimositygaming Місяць тому +156

    I got married back in October to my husband. Marriage has not been easy. We’ve only been married for six months but we’ve already had two family members die, financial issues, almost losing our home, and bad family drama. And yet I love him more and more everyday. He’s grown into such an incredible man in the three years we’ve been together and I adore him. The key to success is communication, not going to bed without making up, honesty, and accountability. We got hard conversations out of the way early and we’re very politically aligned. That was what got us interested in each other in the first place. We want to stay in the same state and grow old together. We both want 3 kids and we’ve already agreed on their names and schooling.

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless Місяць тому +18

      A caution to the “don’t go to bed angry”. Generally a good idea. But if one of you needs the time and space, you also need to give it. Being angry and frustrated and tired aren’t good ways to handle conversations. Something I’ve learned in my 17 years of marriage.
      Congratulations on tying the knot. Going through all that in the beginning and making it through just shows your grit and commitment.

    • @herroyalhighness5634
      @herroyalhighness5634 29 днів тому +10

      @@BlueDauntlesscame to say the same thing! 😂. I think I took this fabled advice to heart too much, and I’ve found that often times if I just go to bed I don’t even care about it the next morning and we can avoid a frustrating argument! Losing sleep and having lengthy conversations at night when one or both of you just tend to get more frustrated due to those conditions is not good. A lot of times a good nights’ rest brings clarity and makes it easier to discuss things the next morning and you lose the urge to say obnoxious things that you are feeling in the heat of the moment. Hash it out? No, just go to bed and there may not even be anything to hash in the morning

    • @nyguy-tp5sn
      @nyguy-tp5sn 28 днів тому +2

      @@herroyalhighness5634lol, was just gonna say the same thing. I usually do not care about most issues once it’s in the morning, and am usually ashamed of the way I blew things way out of proportion…

  • @bobboyoop1141
    @bobboyoop1141 Місяць тому +73

    So the normal divorce rate is like 50%, but this show historically is like 90% or something? Nauseating GARBAGE!

    • @ccrisc100
      @ccrisc100 28 днів тому +4

      Not really. Most of the couples do not get married, just engaged. Of the married couples the stats are a lot more "normal"

    • @robertortiz-wilson1588
      @robertortiz-wilson1588 26 днів тому

      Actual Justice Warrior has a good video going over the misconceptions with that statistic.

  • @shirlynmwangi5736
    @shirlynmwangi5736 Місяць тому +78

    The sad thing is that people no longer value the sanctity of marriage. I am from Kenya, and I moved to the States to do my Masters degree. It has been almost 8 months since I saw my family (mom, siz, dad,niece and nephew etc) These people live in the same country, with their families, and they can't stay married because they can't stay away from their families?!?! Are people serious?!?! The two of them are older and so are their kids, both of them have children who are married with their own families and still they can't stay married because they have to stay 'far away' from their married children? This is a lame excuse to me!

    • @Narra0002
      @Narra0002 Місяць тому +8

      It is

    • @ClarissaA18
      @ClarissaA18 Місяць тому +13

      You are absolutely correct! “People no longer value the sanctity of marriage” so sad.

    • @PinkTaurus93
      @PinkTaurus93 29 днів тому +6

      Sounds like they both have unhealthy attachments to their ADULT children! Smh.

    • @TheBaumcm
      @TheBaumcm 28 днів тому

      Especially these days and in this country, with the wide array of ways to stay connected. My husband and I have moved all over for work. We live nowhere near our families, but still see them at least twice a year and stay in contact throughout. That sounds like a made up reason.

  • @Mason-ci8gj
    @Mason-ci8gj Місяць тому +42

    Ok, I'm upset, sad and angry. I'm shocked they are divorcing after 3 months?? Where's the commitment? So I wasted my time watching the fake love. Fooled me 😮😢

    • @goldenknightsfanatic
      @goldenknightsfanatic Місяць тому +3

      lol, it was all fake

    • @emilyk.w3593
      @emilyk.w3593 Місяць тому +4

      I know right, it's disappointing. Also they should have decided where to live before they got married🤯

    • @Mason-ci8gj
      @Mason-ci8gj 29 днів тому +3

      @@emilyk.w3593 Right? And I don't buy that excuse. They are both rich and moving in together, compromised on location, a true love would survive. Love would be more important than breaking up over where to live!!!!

  • @ItsLifeLibertyFreedom
    @ItsLifeLibertyFreedom Місяць тому +70

    Oh no. I'm shocked. I never would have thought that people meeting in a dating competition reality show would have ever failed at marriage. Oh well the 15 minutes was fun I guess.

    • @ashleystar4773
      @ashleystar4773 Місяць тому +3

      It's more shocking that it was 3 months after they got married. That's probably the shortest marriage relationship I've ever heard in Bachelor nation history.

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever Місяць тому +2

      Especially since they got married 3 MONTHS after the engagement!

  • @carlee360
    @carlee360 Місяць тому +62

    My great grandmother re-married after my grandfather passed away. They were in their 60's so they each had established large families and homes. His was in Iowa, hers was in Washington State. So, they spent a third of the year in Iowa, a third of the year in Washington and they bought a place together in Arizona and they spent the winters there. They did this for decades all the way up in to their 90's. It was a lot though and did get difficult toward the end because of their age but it worked great for everyone.

    • @lindamlynarczyk6462
      @lindamlynarczyk6462 29 днів тому

      See. De

    • @jessicaangeline
      @jessicaangeline 29 днів тому +3

      That's amazing. Sounds like a beautiful life ❤

    • @shelleycharlesworth5177
      @shelleycharlesworth5177 24 дні тому

      of course!There are plenty of seniors who live apart but are “together”. Living together creates problems. When you set up housekeeping with someone there are many conflicts you will have. Romance thrives on mystery! Familiarity breeds contempt. If they were really in love they would spend 3 months at his place-3 months apart-then 3 months at her place-then travel for 3 months. Simple. They played all of us. They were money grabbing grubbers. Ugh to them both. Foolish old seniors. Shame on them.

  • @edgelord_poe
    @edgelord_poe Місяць тому +34

    Dissolving the marriage, reminds me of Jada Pinkett being in an entanglement.

  • @phantomforester9337
    @phantomforester9337 Місяць тому +23

    He may have been reluctant to use the word 'divorce" because he's hoping for an annulment.

  • @TheAuthoress5784
    @TheAuthoress5784 28 днів тому +8

    Orthodox Jew here. We use matchmakers and dating is fun, of course, but dead serious. What are your values? What are your priorities? Do you want kids? How many? What parenting styles do you like? Where would we live? What about jobs? Etc. These are FIRST DATE questions for my community. And people get married fast, like maybe two or three months of dating, and about the same for engagements. The large majority of people have happy, healthy, long marriages. People need to talk about these things ASAP, not wait until after getting married. It's so weird to me that these are convos people are having so late.
    I feel so terrible for all of y'all in the regular dating world. Good luck, everyone! I hope you all have long, happy, relationships and I wish you all the best in looking for a partner.

    • @nyguy-tp5sn
      @nyguy-tp5sn 28 днів тому

      Hey, same here! Just chasidish, so it’s a little different…we ask serious questions before we even meet and we do wait a little longer than three months of engagement to get married. But the whole thing is with the end goal in mind. Whoever I know that met and dated in this way is very happy, and is glad we didn’t have to go through a whole bunch of time only to figure out we don’t like the guy. Obviously, there will always be those who divorce or fell in, but the majority of people couldn’t be happier.

    • @TheAuthoress5784
      @TheAuthoress5784 25 днів тому

      @@nyguy-tp5sn I'm so thankful for this way for dating. And yeah, I personally don't know any couples who dated like this and are unhappy. It's so sad to see the way dating is for secular people.
      Awesome to see another religious Jew on here, I adore chassidism.

    • @nyguy-tp5sn
      @nyguy-tp5sn 25 днів тому +1

      @@TheAuthoress5784 Thanks!! We are lucky we date with the end goal in mind…and now that I am married, it makes no difference how long you dated before, totally doesn’t contribute to the relationship we have…

    • @TheAuthoress5784
      @TheAuthoress5784 24 дні тому

      @@nyguy-tp5sn Yes, so lucky. I wish you a wonderful marriage!

  • @jaquirox6579
    @jaquirox6579 Місяць тому +33

    So… they are super immature old people? 😂

    • @gj1695
      @gj1695 Місяць тому +4

      Seems so! 😄

    • @janettescott4223
      @janettescott4223 28 днів тому +2

      You forgot narcissistic, too.🤣

    • @jaquirox6579
      @jaquirox6579 22 дні тому

      @@janettescott4223 I thinks that’s a prerequisite to being on the show 😂

  • @nenar4097
    @nenar4097 29 днів тому +7

    I watched the show and I feel like there were so many red flags. When it came down to the last 2 women, I think the other ladies name was Leslie, he was all in on Leslie. According to her, he told her on the overnight dates that he was picking her and she was the one. When he met up with Teresa the next day, he could barely concentrate. He had no interest in her at all until he asked her what she did for a living. She was like I am so glad you asked. She basically said she was a stockbroker and was passionate about her job, she was really good at it. His face lit up and there were dollar signs in his eyes when he realized she was a wealthy widow. All of a sudden he got real cold with Leslie and dumped her. Apparently he had an ex girlfriend that was a younger lady that he asked out after his wife passed away a few weeks later. He had her leave where she lived to move hours away to his home and immediately made her start paying half the rent, cleaning the house and she even paid half when they went out to dinner. At some point I think she broke her leg and he kicked her out of the house before she could even heal and be able to find a new place to live. His 90 year old father said his son is a player. Apparently he also misled how successful he had been in his career and had to clarify some statements he made regarding that. I think that Teresa got smart and made sure to get that prenup signed. I think after they got married and maybe even before, she started to see his true character. He came off sweet and devoted to his dead wife on the show, but I think his true colors came out.

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever 28 днів тому

      Boy, if that were true, he is one great actor. His daughters as well, they signed him up for it!

  • @gigidodson
    @gigidodson Місяць тому +15

    No way. I got married in 3 weeks in the late 70s as a teenager. It lasted 30 years till he passed away.
    I would NEVER do it again.
    Im much too selfish in my 60s. I like my life. My kids and grandkids. I dont want to share my existence anymore.
    I found love. I lost him. Im not optimistic enough to do it again.

    • @janeyrevanescence12
      @janeyrevanescence12 Місяць тому +2

      I lost my fiancé in a car accident 13 years ago. We intended to save for a small wedding and a home but I would’ve given all of that up for a Vegas or courthouse wedding if he had asked me.
      I’ve tried looking for love for the last decade. But sometimes? I know that I’m not going to have another love. So why bother?
      I’m sorry for your loss.

    • @Tenebarum
      @Tenebarum 29 днів тому

      You dont need to. Live and enjoy your life. I bought a twin bed when I moved and have no desire to upgrade it.

    • @noahwilliams8508
      @noahwilliams8508 26 днів тому

      ​@@janeyrevanescence12I'm sorry for your loss

  • @lanelandry13
    @lanelandry13 Місяць тому +69

    I would say that he was so hesitant to say divorced because of the time he grew up in, he might stigmatize the word divorce, and therefore he doesn’t want to put his name with that word

  • @talktothehands4783
    @talktothehands4783 Місяць тому +24

    Its more surprising to hear that a couple stayed together after the bachelor or bachelorette instead of split

  • @Alexi_Inigma
    @Alexi_Inigma Місяць тому +76

    I watched most of the intro to this trying to see when Brett takes a breath for the first time 😆

    • @user-ud6ui7zt3r
      @user-ud6ui7zt3r Місяць тому +9

      I commented on that before, and someone answered me by saying that Brett has "machine gun" delivery.

    • @denisako6493
      @denisako6493 29 днів тому +1

      She talks like Ben Shapiro

    • @jessicaangeline
      @jessicaangeline 29 днів тому +1

      They probably edit out some breaths too though, because breaths can sound a little gnarly. (Spoken as one who edits video myself)

  • @jefferydebbink282
    @jefferydebbink282 Місяць тому +21

    Whenever something like this happens, especially if it’s a couple that met on Bachelor/Bachelorette, I immediately play Iago from Aladdin’s sarcastic comment of, “Oh there’s a big surprise!! That’s incredible, I think I’m going to have a heart attack and die from not surprised!”

  • @wickedwisdom6088
    @wickedwisdom6088 Місяць тому +10

    The way they both spoke so softly while holding hands AND saying how much they would always love and respect each other was BEYOND CRINGE!!!!! 🤨

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +3

      I don't believe for one minute that they love each other as much as they claim.

    • @Tenebarum
      @Tenebarum 29 днів тому

      They're creepy robots held together with face-lift abs botox.

  • @JohnSchofield787
    @JohnSchofield787 29 днів тому +57

    Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @MelvinHenry-cb6bu
      @MelvinHenry-cb6bu 29 днів тому

      i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

    • @JohnSchofield787
      @JohnSchofield787 29 днів тому

      wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @MelvinHenry-cb6bu
      @MelvinHenry-cb6bu 29 днів тому

      Her name is queen stella laveaux ,and she is great at what she does. you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

    • @JohnSchofield787
      @JohnSchofield787 29 днів тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @theotherguy8480
    @theotherguy8480 Місяць тому +61

    For every like this comment gets ill do a push up

  • @victoriageraci
    @victoriageraci Місяць тому +44

    I am a (hopefully) future CPA, and all I kept thinking about was how convenient for tax purposes. They are divorcing right before April 15.

    • @desertsunset8025
      @desertsunset8025 Місяць тому +1

      Lol . Oh my . Do you think Gerry realized his game was up . That prenup was wise of Teresa . They didn't even make it to the honeymoon .

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless Місяць тому +9

      That’s really not going to make a difference in TY 2023. Unless you’re talking about TY 2024, and then it actually just makes them more complicated because he was single then married then divorced in a year.

  • @annenewcomb5609
    @annenewcomb5609 Місяць тому +16

    So....what drew Gerry to Teresa over the runner-up gal was the fact that Teresa said on their fantasy suite date that she would move to him (and the runner up didn't want to leave her family). So it WAS talked about--even if briefly--and talked about enough that it was much of the deciding factor in Gerry's final choice. Also...I agree the show was so wholesome and sweet.

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever Місяць тому +1

      How do you know she didn't say that for the sex?

    • @Tenebarum
      @Tenebarum 29 днів тому

      ​@@colleen4everat 60 and 70+?

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever 28 днів тому

      @@Tenebarum when ya want sex, ya want sex!

  • @alyseceleste
    @alyseceleste Місяць тому +14

    Cop out reason- and their voices…ughhh I can’t, the “softness”makes my skin crawl

  • @sciebelmedia8696
    @sciebelmedia8696 Місяць тому +13

    She legit said she would jump off a cliff if he didn't pick her... anyone who thought this was going to last is blind

  • @4SlowFashion
    @4SlowFashion Місяць тому +18

    i dont see how these are hard conversations. theyre very naturally some of the First things that are the most important to people.

  • @natasyas3444
    @natasyas3444 Місяць тому +28

    I didn’t know what Brett was going to talk about this episode but she says I’m living a happy and healthy life if I don’t know about it. So I’m gonna stop the video right here, 1 minute in, and continue on with my happy and healthy life. Leaving a comment here for her algorithm cuz I love her. See you in one of your other videos Brett!

  • @seangriffin2053
    @seangriffin2053 Місяць тому +13

    So basically, it ended the same way they all do. I've hated reality TV since forever and that won't change.

  • @fergiebells
    @fergiebells Місяць тому +8

    They got paid tons of money to actually go through with a televised wedding. Period, that's why we're here. They knew this would probably happen and went through with it anyway

  • @charitycollins
    @charitycollins 28 днів тому +2

    My husband and I were engaged 6 months into dating. Married 5 months after that, best thing for us.
    My parents have the most interesting start in my opinion. They got engaged from a joke. They werent dating, they worked at the same restaurant. As they were joking around my dad made the joke about when are they getting married. The next dad my dad asked my mom again when were they getting married and she laughed until she saw he was serious. She picked a date and thats when they got married 🤷‍♀️. She went home that same day to her parents and told them she was engaged, no one believed her 😂

  • @Amy-Marchant
    @Amy-Marchant Місяць тому +69

    So is Teresa going to be the Golden Bachelorette…?

    • @goldenknightsfanatic
      @goldenknightsfanatic Місяць тому +2

      I hope the hot blonde is chosen

    • @tinybubbles263
      @tinybubbles263 Місяць тому +4

      He better live in New Jersey cause she is not moving.

    • @Tenebarum
      @Tenebarum 29 днів тому +1

      Probably that hyper annoying one with the big head who looks like Kris Jenner a bit.

  • @llamasugar5478
    @llamasugar5478 29 днів тому +5

    “This was completely and utterly-“
    Predictable.

  • @user_mel90s
    @user_mel90s 28 днів тому +2

    Not surprised he'd be hesitant to say 'divorce' considering that he basically broke up with the runner up because she had been divorced and he implied that he didn't know that he could trust her to not divorce him

  • @gamergeekenator111
    @gamergeekenator111 Місяць тому +24

    Hi Brett, Congratulations on your marriage.

  • @SirLeDoux
    @SirLeDoux Місяць тому +3

    The first big mistake was everyone thinking that show was authentic. Know this Brett- those two people already knew and agreed to a divorce before they got married- it’s good television. It’s all fake

  • @acatinthegarden
    @acatinthegarden Місяць тому +17

    As someone whose guilty pleasure is reality tv I love that you covered this 😅 but honestly so sad and a mockery of marriage. I truly didn’t expect two widows in their 70s especially to not take it seriously.

  • @ibnAmat
    @ibnAmat Місяць тому +7

    But even the way they divorced was very mature and telling for their age. They both sat down and made a decision together. No crying, screaming, or fighting.

  • @autisticDementia
    @autisticDementia Місяць тому +150

    I hate the Bachelor it’s so artificial

    • @lunagrace8717
      @lunagrace8717 Місяць тому +8

      the worst show ever.....who da spok is gonna find true love with cameras filming you ??? It is soooo cringy.. Ew 🤢......and the women look so bad competing for a guys attention, its so insulting, so demeaning.....

    • @trashmesoftsoft
      @trashmesoftsoft Місяць тому +2

      But i love you because you are so real

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever Місяць тому +1

      Every time I see a commercial for yet another season I cry, "Make it STOP!!

    • @user-dk4dd1my7r
      @user-dk4dd1my7r 29 днів тому +2

      It is ridiculous and makes a mockery of marriage.

    • @ohsweetmystery
      @ohsweetmystery 29 днів тому

      Exhibitionists find a huge audience of Peeping Toms. A match made in hell.

  • @ItsArchieYo
    @ItsArchieYo 29 днів тому +4

    Brett: a couple on the golden bachelor got a divorce.
    Me: “no waaaay…”*sarcastic tone*

  • @dkarukas
    @dkarukas Місяць тому +6

    What? Seniors don't want to move away from their families? The thousands upon thousands of seniors moving hundreds of miles away from family to live in the Villages and other retirement communities in Florida appears to wildly contradict Brett's claim. The RV industry relies upon seniors selling their homes and buying RVs so those seniors can be hundreds of miles away from their families also contradicts Brett's claim. In two years I'm retiring, selling my house and buying a boat to go up and down the coast and into the Caribbean. There are literally dozens of UA-cam channels of seniors sailing and RVing hundreds of miles away from family.

    • @keziaburrows3554
      @keziaburrows3554 Місяць тому +1

      Again, priorities. Some people choose to live in a retirement community while others want to stay in touch with their kids and grandkids. Different ways to enjoy their golden years 😊

    • @tinybubbles263
      @tinybubbles263 Місяць тому +1

      They miss the grand kids alot and fly back and forthbalot. I know cause I live in a retirement community and they are lonely after awhile. Family sometimes don't choose to be around elderly and they need to understand that. I bet Theresa will not get that. Her grandkids wanted her out.

    • @docbailey3265
      @docbailey3265 29 днів тому +1

      Yeah, and we don’t worry about our health either, because we’re all in good sh…gach…gasp…augghhh…

    • @oag2167
      @oag2167 29 днів тому +1

      Agreed, I thought that was strange, too. Unless they both have an adult child who is disabled I don't understand why they couldn't move one state away if they truly loved each other as much as they say.

  • @colleen4ever
    @colleen4ever Місяць тому +4

    That HAS to be a record! 3 months!
    But that's what happens when you rush. It doesn't matter how old you are, you don't get married after only 3 months, after only courting for about 8 weeks!

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless Місяць тому

      I have friends that got engaged (age 26 I think for both) at 3 months and married in 6 months. They’ve been together 17 years. It happens.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому

      @@BlueDauntless Right, and I am happy for them, but I wouldn't go so far as to call this a rule.

  • @sola6517
    @sola6517 Місяць тому +6

    Putting your hope on a reality tv show couple is WILD lol

  • @annemorganoli
    @annemorganoli Місяць тому +11

    Reality tv since social media is all about gaining clout / fame/followers & influence. People aren’t in it for the right reasons any more. This tv show is a great example or others like Netflix’s “love is blind”

    • @davidchambers44
      @davidchambers44 Місяць тому +3

      It's also mostly staged and sensationalized. Iirc, the majority of couples on the bachelor/bachelorette broke up shortly after the show ended. So the relationships were mostly just a facade.

  • @jimmoffat3599
    @jimmoffat3599 Місяць тому +4

    I don't understand any of these TV dating shows. I dated my wife for a year and we were engaged for over a year (long story). How do you expect to know someone really well in 3-4 months? Yes, I know there are exceptions but still....

    • @llamasugar5478
      @llamasugar5478 29 днів тому

      We had one actual date (our friend groups overlapped for a year), courted for 3 years, and were engaged for one year.
      34 years on, I’d say we’re pretty solid. ❤️

  • @lisaquintana8651
    @lisaquintana8651 Місяць тому +8

    Too bad he didn’t pick Leslie instead.

  • @trinawitte8625
    @trinawitte8625 29 днів тому +2

    The whole concept is absolutely ridiculous! 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @desertsunset8025
    @desertsunset8025 Місяць тому +5

    The prenup was the beginning of the end . Gerry couldn't keep up his farce if he wasnt profiting . They were already paid for the wedding .soo... he was a jerk .

  • @ladygenesis
    @ladygenesis Місяць тому +5

    Can someone explain why people even watch the Bachelor? I get some reality TVs I guess, but when I think of people watching the Bachelor/Bachelorette, it all seems like some weird fetish thing?? Like why do you want to see 1 person fawned owner by multiple of the opposite sex, all of them making out, having intimate relations with that 1 person, and then are excited that she/he 'won' their affection at the end? How are you happy for the person who won? Or happy for their marriage? Why watch it? I literally feel it's some weird fetish thing people have to watch these types of shows.

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever Місяць тому +1

      That's what I wonder every single season!

  • @BrownEyedBunny
    @BrownEyedBunny Місяць тому +13

    Oh no! I had hopes for the Golden Bachelor! Same as Brett, the last season I watched was Peter's, and I was done with the whole franchise but I enjoyed watching this new version. It felt wholesome and inspiring.💖

  • @taurnguard
    @taurnguard Місяць тому +3

    What I couldn't figure out about the Golden Bachelor is why they got two female contestants that looked like Kris and Caitlyn Jenner.

  • @colleenlongua9752
    @colleenlongua9752 29 днів тому +2

    Weird how being older doesn't fix the divorce rate. Who could have predicted this?

  • @Katiemtz099
    @Katiemtz099 29 днів тому +2

    it looked like she was “ sooo divorce 🤨you could’ve just said that”

  • @appalachiancat
    @appalachiancat Місяць тому +6

    I stopped watching a lot of reality tv when I got married. My husband hates the shows.

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless Місяць тому

      My husband would watch Criminal Minds when we were first married. I had never seen it before. Loved it. Way better than reality tv

  • @unknown360123
    @unknown360123 Місяць тому +10

    My ex was big into these shows. I told her all the time these shows aren't much about true love. It's something being propped up to the world where everyone's watching, the dates, the locations are all extravagant for afew months, most things are planned and maybe paid for.. but none of it is organic or how real relationships move. Real relationships usually start slow and then grow into something big. These relationships start with a massive bang and then dwindle after they are no longer in the spotlight. These kinds of relationships dont feel organic, the live doesn't feel natural. It's all so forced.

  • @mzfitmama2361
    @mzfitmama2361 29 днів тому +2

    The whole bachelor industry doesn’t care about the foundations of marriage. God period. I appreciate your presence born sponsor too !!! So rad!!!! Proud of you 🩵☺️💚🩶

  • @agonsfitness7308
    @agonsfitness7308 28 днів тому +2

    Brett would absolutely love the South African version of the Bachelor, "Boer soek vrou" which means Farmer Seeking Wife. Basically the southern country version.

    • @jessicab6723
      @jessicab6723 23 дні тому

      Many many countries have versions of the Farmer wants a wife tv series.

  • @OzarksAmy
    @OzarksAmy 29 днів тому +1

    I immediately thought of Love is Blind (one of the few reality shows I watch). The fact that the show takes the huge roadblock of location out of the mix, gives the couples a fighting chance.

  • @signaturenil6984
    @signaturenil6984 29 днів тому +1

    “What’s best for our own happiness” is all you need to hear. Starting with a selfish stance by looking out for yourself, then putting happiness at the top of any priority list is never a good idea because happiness is an emotion. And emotions change

  • @indyj16
    @indyj16 Місяць тому +2

    SpongeBob meme: "3 months later"

  • @beestingggirl
    @beestingggirl Місяць тому +19

    Two videos in one day 🤩🤩🤩

    • @JordynMarley
      @JordynMarley Місяць тому +3

      This is Tuesday-Saturday. Last week the vids were pre-recorded because of her wedding.

    • @beestingggirl
      @beestingggirl 29 днів тому

      @@JordynMarley I know lol but we got two in one day regardless

  • @emilyk.w3593
    @emilyk.w3593 Місяць тому +2

    I was so confused too! So surprising. Just be six months in one town and six months in the other!

  • @JaketheJust
    @JaketheJust Місяць тому +4

    Once again, don’t think you will have a successful and long marriage, if your entire relationship was based off a speed dating television show

  • @amygriff00
    @amygriff00 Місяць тому +2

    From reading comments, people knew it was not going to last

  • @waltski4375
    @waltski4375 Місяць тому +20

    He chose....poorly.

    • @MarkMay-cr6bv
      @MarkMay-cr6bv 29 днів тому +1

      Definitely drank from the wrong cup.

    • @hallejohn7063
      @hallejohn7063 29 днів тому +1

      No he chose right good for Theresa for protecting herself and her assets. He would have walked all over Leslie.

  • @ckelly7870
    @ckelly7870 Місяць тому +4

    They should have to pay the show for all the wedding expenses. Why would you even audition for the show knowing you're probably going to have to move across the country!?

  • @nicolenobbs8942
    @nicolenobbs8942 27 днів тому +1

    I have noticed that the older people get, the more likely they are to rush into a relationship, especially when they have been married before. My own grandparent rushed into a marriage and later regretted it. I think that sometimes loneliness can cause elder adults to rush into relationships without thinking everything through because it 1. makes them feel young again to "be in love", and they throw caution to the wind and 2. because they don't want to be lonely which is a bigger issue than we realize.

  • @broken927
    @broken927 Місяць тому +4

    Three months....that's a long time to stay together.

  • @Hi-kj2xf
    @Hi-kj2xf 29 днів тому +2

    It’s not just about being away from their family because they love them but because they’re getting older. Female daughters are the ones who take the most care of their older parents and because they haven’t known each other long enough maybe they both don’t want to be responsible for one another as they become dependent. These are the conversations older adults should be having when starting new marriages in later life

  • @sheryleaaron6214
    @sheryleaaron6214 29 днів тому +2

    She said on the show she would move for him. She said that. I guess she was lying. Clutching hands and saying how much they love one another as they agree to find love elsewhere is pure bull shit!

  • @lilnavynurse84
    @lilnavynurse84 29 днів тому +2

    I watched the season finale with my MIL who loves the show and was like, "this is cringe, not real, and they will be separating once their contract it fufilled." Looks like I was right.

  • @lindakitten2481
    @lindakitten2481 27 днів тому

    I’m 66 and married again in July. My husband lived 200 miles away which meant a lot of traveling every weekend. It worked for me to move where he is because my children and grandchildren live far away while his 4 children and 13 grandchildren live near him. Our lifestyles matched very well and we have a quiet peaceful life. Distance limits how well you can get to know each other but departing from close family is easily a dealbreaker. I’m definitely an exception. My kids love him tremendously and I love being near his family since mine are so far away.
    I hope Gerry and Teresa learned a lesson as well as all who watched.

  • @siyabonganqayana
    @siyabonganqayana Місяць тому

    I remember I was in Brazil when I spoke so she could look my way and on that day I said to myself this is evil making sure she heard that and she is hearing about that not for the first time, now she will think ahhh it's been you all along, you see I didn't surprise her I am walking her through it like it's a thorny jungle and I don't want scratches on both our arms and legs, I mean stop making it like love comes from you try sharing oxygen like I told my sister be friends first, I was making them look away from me so I could be friends with her and we were friends for a few days, that's why I say if you think we are confused good luck to you

  • @sunflower_bean
    @sunflower_bean 26 днів тому +1

    I think we should have a reality show where people try to find their best friend not like a marriage or gf/bf, but like best friend platonic relationship

  • @Margot_est_douce.
    @Margot_est_douce. Місяць тому +18

    Love your creativity, it's inspiring!

  • @stevegreen2753
    @stevegreen2753 Місяць тому +2

    That's why online dating or fake TV dating is really terrible. If you don't have anything in common and live in the same area it's just not gonna work. Get outside and touch grass if you want to meet somebody.

  • @siyabonganqayana
    @siyabonganqayana Місяць тому

    When I thought about my situation I thought the clever ones saying to each other ours is evil, I said something for her to look towards me then I disappeared in the crowd and reappeared behind her after a long time she was looking that way and I spoke a lot of nonsense to those who know too much but sense to her friends just to get any hate or doubt from the people who were watching before I even smiled and greet and I smiled she greeted,it was all in slow motion to me on purpose and I think I did just fine, eliminated all negative thoughts then shared the love, I didn't start by telling her I love her, don't listen to me I mean the clever ones

  • @elasticharmony
    @elasticharmony 29 днів тому +1

    These kinds of situations lead me to consider that it is possible that today most people cannot comprehend the meaning of marriage.

  • @herroyalhighness5634
    @herroyalhighness5634 29 днів тому +2

    The kids wouldn’t think twice about moving out of state and ditching them if they needed to for work or a spouse. These two will probably divorce and then one by one their kids will all move away for different reasons and they will both be left alone and learn a valuable lesson. No relationship is as important as your marriage. No, not even your kids or grandkids.

  • @boozumbuddybulliesburgesse4324
    @boozumbuddybulliesburgesse4324 Місяць тому +2

    I think they both didn’t want to accommodate the other and have to sacrifice that freedom of movement and decisions when it came to splitting time between families and then on top of that they most likely couldn’t mutually agree on a home and location..sucky part of being older is that you are more set in your ways

    • @teresaalbin-davis4529
      @teresaalbin-davis4529 Місяць тому

      More anchors

    • @colleen4ever
      @colleen4ever Місяць тому

      Like Adam Sandler says, "Yet another thing you should have told me about YESTERDAY!!"

  • @liliad.7448
    @liliad.7448 Місяць тому +1

    I think if they really cared for a marriage they will make things work … they just give up for any reason now a days the fact that they are 70 and still have no sense is the crazy part

  • @janeyrevanescence12
    @janeyrevanescence12 Місяць тому +2

    Does anyone remember the one time reality special called “I Want To Marry A Multimillionaire!” which was the Bachelor…in the span of a two hour show? They even had the wedding at the end!
    I remember they divorced shortly afterwards (but I can’t remember when).

  • @gle..
    @gle.. Місяць тому +2

    So basically they divorced because they couldnt agree on a house? Do they really not have enough money to split time between their 2 cities?

    • @fayejordan175
      @fayejordan175 26 днів тому

      They may not. I don’t think either of them are probably wealthy.

  • @SouthernGalPal
    @SouthernGalPal 29 днів тому +1

    If you are being followed by four cameras, a boom mic, a director, a producer, and a gaffer, it's just TV. No reality included.

  • @JoshMcSwain
    @JoshMcSwain Місяць тому +1

    It's like that old episode of Family Guy where Brian wins the show and the girl dupes him at the end and says "it's just TV"

  • @RC-nm9wx
    @RC-nm9wx Місяць тому +4

    Shocker, another divorce 🙄🙄in short time frame.... crazy 😮‍💨😮‍💨 lol

  • @PharoahGreggers
    @PharoahGreggers Місяць тому +2

    Probably in a contract that they had to stay together a minimum time.

  • @kellydinitz6727
    @kellydinitz6727 27 днів тому

    I saw an interview where they talked about that Teresa is still working and wants to work and Gerry wants to travel the world and have tons of adventures! I think that is the biggest issue. They could have figured out the family thing.

  • @gloriathomas3245
    @gloriathomas3245 Місяць тому +1

    I know tons of people who are of his age, lost their spouse but decided to stay single. My uncle being of those. He should've just stayed single and live out the rest of his life with his kids.

  • @jeffnash6601
    @jeffnash6601 26 днів тому +1

    I have noticed your newest content isn’t showing up on Daily Wire. Just curious.

  • @amyj3692
    @amyj3692 29 днів тому

    I married my husband in October after 9 months of dating (we got engaged after 3 months)! He's American and Slovak and I'm from Ireland. We're gearing up to move to Scotland but we both discussed where we wanted to live and thankfully were on the same page about wanting to be in the UK for at least a couple of years before considering mainland europe but this was definitely one of the most important conversations we had before even getting engaged! We both wanted to live somewhere between families

  • @Myhomeisnothere
    @Myhomeisnothere 27 днів тому

    Brett I always enjoy watching your videos

  • @ckelly7870
    @ckelly7870 Місяць тому +2

    They're getting an anullment, and the families probably aren't why they are parting ways.

  • @MisterMooster
    @MisterMooster 28 днів тому +2

    Well they had a good run- ninety days is pretty long for a marriage to someone you don't really know, that kind of thing can put a damper on things.

  • @wunnerwmn2737
    @wunnerwmn2737 Місяць тому +1

    First interview I saw with them after the show, they were griping about how she was a light sleeper and he had to get up several times in the night to go pee and woke her up. She gave him such a look, and I thought, uh-oh.

  • @WORKOUTSOLUTIONS
    @WORKOUTSOLUTIONS Місяць тому +7

    ❤✌⛪🙏☦GOD BE WITH US IN OUR FIGHT AGAINST EVIL ☦🙏🕊🌟💪