Kristin Cavallari Needs to STOP Giving Dating Advice

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  • Divorced, mom of three, internet personality Kristen Cavallari is dating a 24-year-old TikToker and giving the worst dating advice to young women.
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  • @graftedworks
    @graftedworks 29 днів тому +2331

    Brett lowkey working “my husband” in as often as possible is legit adorable.

    • @CarlosMartinez-du1cu
      @CarlosMartinez-du1cu 29 днів тому +57

      I was going to to say exactly this

    • @youareawesome5236
      @youareawesome5236 29 днів тому

      Makes her even more smashable ay

    • @tatianasouza2361
      @tatianasouza2361 29 днів тому +48

      I thought is was so wholesome. 💜

    • @youareawesome5236
      @youareawesome5236 29 днів тому

      Still worth a smash, despite her clinger mentality.

    • @thehiepriestess
      @thehiepriestess 29 днів тому +23

      I was just about to comment something to this tune. It truly is so adorable ❤❤❤

  • @neverevenheardofit
    @neverevenheardofit 29 днів тому +497

    I'd guess at least 95% of people should not be giving dating advice

    • @mtsEnrique
      @mtsEnrique 29 днів тому +2

      That's not ridiculous to say when you consider divorce rates and illegitimate children.

    • @louisbuzzi869
      @louisbuzzi869 28 днів тому

      Hi Brett.

    • @louisbuzzi869
      @louisbuzzi869 28 днів тому +2

      I like the way Brett gives advice on things, she's a kid. Stop cursing Brett. It's masculine to swear, like spitting in public. Thumbs down.

    • @madeinussr7551
      @madeinussr7551 28 днів тому

      Nice one

    • @edprado30305
      @edprado30305 25 днів тому

      Nobody knows wtf they're doing. You have to figure things out on your own.

  • @meleebrawler6462
    @meleebrawler6462 29 днів тому +834

    Never take advice from celebrities who lack common sense.

    • @bunnycamo8607
      @bunnycamo8607 29 днів тому +39

      Never take advice from celebrities.

    • @nikitaj8745
      @nikitaj8745 29 днів тому +7

      Reality Stars at that! 😂

    • @cap8870
      @cap8870 29 днів тому

      Thanks for the correction.
      ​@@bunnycamo8607

    • @BW022
      @BW022 29 днів тому +18

      Never take dating or relationship advice from...
      1. Divorced women,
      2. Single women,
      3. Single mothers,
      4. Anyone on social media,
      5. Anyone with money who is shielded from the consequences of their bad decisions.
      6. Women with lots of sexual partners,
      etc.
      And so far... this woman has all of the above.
      If you have to, take advice from happily married men for what their wives did during dating to get them, or a happily married older family member.

    • @RozzyGuard
      @RozzyGuard 29 днів тому +2

      Honestly advice shouldn’t even come from political figures, ( unless it’s Brett cooper )

  • @cc-ij7cr
    @cc-ij7cr 29 днів тому +275

    Advice. Never date someone in a male tik tok group that have the word Boyz in it. Better yet just do better than tiktok celebrities

    • @britneyt9253
      @britneyt9253 29 днів тому +12

      Let’s not call these tiktokers celebrities please, their heads are already so big.

    • @cc-ij7cr
      @cc-ij7cr 29 днів тому +7

      @britneyt9253 sorry. " celebrities "

    • @maggiemay945
      @maggiemay945 24 дні тому +1

      best advice really

  • @charitycollins
    @charitycollins 29 днів тому +493

    My husband and I married at 21, one of the worse advice I think people give is stuff like "it doesnt matter." My husband and I talked extensively on how we wanted to raise our kids, our values, and views on the world. We have 2 kids. I am a SAHM. Love every bit of our life together.

    • @Chad0023
      @Chad0023 29 днів тому +12

      Does that mean Stay At Home Mom ??

    • @charitycollins
      @charitycollins 29 днів тому +7

      @@Chad0023 Yes, it does.

    • @ninakoch1799
      @ninakoch1799 29 днів тому +1

      what do you mean by people say „it doesnt matter“?

    • @jwyluvs
      @jwyluvs 29 днів тому +1

      ​@@ninakoch1799 , when to have kids I think?

    • @charitycollins
      @charitycollins 29 днів тому +6

      @@ninakoch1799 people who say it doesn't matter when you sleep with them or it doesn't matter if they want kids and other values cause they'll "change their minds."

  • @mangaas
    @mangaas 29 днів тому +1062

    Taking dating advice from a divorced single mother - is like taking financial advice from a homeless person.

    • @LydiaTallent-my5fo
      @LydiaTallent-my5fo 29 днів тому +15

      thats so true though!!

    • @bluephoenix53
      @bluephoenix53 29 днів тому +20

      I'll take this comment with a little seriousness but most cases of homelessness has nothing to do with the lack of procuring money.

    • @HandsomeBlackMusle
      @HandsomeBlackMusle 29 днів тому +4

      Well said

    • @Moonlightmatchmaking
      @Moonlightmatchmaking 29 днів тому +59

      I actually disagree. While I don’t think we should listen to this lady in particular, you could learn something about marriage from someone who has been divorced. The world isn’t that black and white

    • @jasono2139
      @jasono2139 29 днів тому +2

      ...or Jim Cramer! 😂

  • @bunnyluv07
    @bunnyluv07 29 днів тому +335

    Someone once told me "take out the sex and physical intimacy, and you'll know if this person really care about you." Be mindful and conscious about who you allow to have access to you and your body.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +8

      Which is why I tend to side with at least some period of abstinence. That includes even after consummating the relationship. There are times when sex and physical intimacy decrease or aren't even possible.

    • @ralph8677
      @ralph8677 29 днів тому +18

      A friend of mine just learned this the hard way. She "dated" a guy for about a month, slept with him on the 1st date & every date after. About a week ago, she told him after their date that "she wasn't in the mood". Now she's freaking out because he hasn't returned her texts or calls since.

    • @lindseyfrazier3298
      @lindseyfrazier3298 29 днів тому +1

      THIS.

    • @inwector
      @inwector 28 днів тому

      yes, use sex as a weapon, what a perfect idea.

    • @chembiz
      @chembiz 27 днів тому +7

      I've met guys who were "interested" and I mentioned I was abstinent and suddenly they were no longer interested. Rather be single than allow somebody to use me for their pleasure.

  • @jeffreyjones1721
    @jeffreyjones1721 29 днів тому +343

    This is her midlife crisis. She'll be through 4 marriages before she figures out, she's been the problem while changing her beliefs every other year

    • @timeracer123
      @timeracer123 29 днів тому +3

      I thought it was funny as she was trying to get him to comment on the podcast and then he says he wants kids (you're not the one). It was like oh you want to play this game? Are you sure?😂😂

    • @562wiseguy
      @562wiseguy 29 днів тому

      She'll be crying a whole new tune when he dumps her in a few months.

    • @Kwildcat13
      @Kwildcat13 29 днів тому +16

      Dragging her 3 kids through the nonsense so sad

    • @kansashoneybadger7899
      @kansashoneybadger7899 27 днів тому +8

      Kristin could not survive the trauma of being the first wife of a successful NFL Quarterback: Jay Cutler. She and Jay even did some videos about their lives together and she seemed to be doing well. Apparently it actually was just "hell' inside that marriage. Slap forehead.

    • @Cashhhhew
      @Cashhhhew 27 днів тому +2

      @@kansashoneybadger7899I’m curious what you mean by this comment. Most NFL/professional athletes don’t hold down a single marriage because they have the highest rates of infidelity. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies to date/marry pretty much any celebrity it seems.

  • @Carey86
    @Carey86 29 днів тому +152

    If I knew someone that filmed TikTok’s where they are shirtless with their boyz & lip-syncing, I’d be so embarrassed for them & would have to mock the crap out of them, immediately!🤦🏼‍♀️
    Also - he’s only 24 & she’s 37 with 3 kids. He doesn’t want to be an overnight step-Daddy, no guy does.

    • @icymarcos5485
      @icymarcos5485 29 днів тому +10

      He’s young and just having fun

    • @ericchism4855
      @ericchism4855 29 днів тому +5

      People watch these things? This is why tiktok should be banned. 😂

    • @lindseyfrazier3298
      @lindseyfrazier3298 29 днів тому +1

      yes. major ick LOL

    • @nathang2465
      @nathang2465 28 днів тому

      These dudes get so many girls though. That’s the culture we live in

    • @Carey86
      @Carey86 28 днів тому +5

      @@icymarcos5485 I get that but still, ew. Lip-syncing while shirtless with the boyz? THATS what guys do nowadays for fun?!🤦🏼‍♀️😂

  • @LowkeyHundo
    @LowkeyHundo 29 днів тому +131

    I’ve had great chemistry with people whose values didn’t align with mine. Doesn’t matter how good the chemistry is, you’ve gotta have similar values.

    • @haleytruslow7200
      @haleytruslow7200 29 днів тому +4

      Exactly.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +8

      This is almost entirely why I am single right now, LOL!

    • @newera478
      @newera478 26 днів тому +1

      Over 70 % of men have conservative values and over 80 % of women have liberal values in western countries.
      Try getting them to pair up. 😅

    • @LowkeyHundo
      @LowkeyHundo 25 днів тому

      @@newera478 which is exactly why I’m leaning towards becoming a passport bro😂

  • @duncan8542
    @duncan8542 29 днів тому +953

    Bros taking off their shirts just "vibing" together is called,,, gay.

  • @JandKDuo
    @JandKDuo 29 днів тому +93

    Don't take dating advice on how to have stable relationships from people who arent in stable relationships 😂 even then its their own experiences so only take whats applicable/sane

    • @shanekeenaNYC
      @shanekeenaNYC 29 днів тому +2

      Just because you can develop 848 acres of prime real estate into a high density mixed-use neighborhood doesn't mean you should.

  • @rodtb2
    @rodtb2 29 днів тому +39

    "feels and chemistry" = LUST

  • @dreddy_g
    @dreddy_g 29 днів тому +184

    When a woman gives me **unsolicited** dating advice, I automatically ask how many women she has dated.
    I have yet to understand why they get offended. 🤔

  • @Mommybecca9804
    @Mommybecca9804 29 днів тому +82

    I feel so sorry for that woman's children. She's NOT being a good mom. I hope she gets it together soon, not just for her sake, but especially for her childrens sake.

  • @deanna6883
    @deanna6883 29 днів тому +167

    How good does it feel to say, “my husband?” Congratulations! ❤

    • @user-ir1lu1ei4n
      @user-ir1lu1ei4n 29 днів тому +1

      She will be disloyal in the name of acting then she will justify it by saying it’s a job she’s a sell out

    • @emmaleighmorris3647
      @emmaleighmorris3647 29 днів тому +15

      @@user-ir1lu1ei4nHas she done this? If she hasn’t, it really isn’t fair to put the poor actions of other people in her industry on her.

    • @TheTiti123
      @TheTiti123 29 днів тому

      ​@@user-ir1lu1ei4n lmao you're a sad troll commenting the same thing in every single one of her videos. Find something better to do with your time for your own sake.

    • @that_celtics_fan
      @that_celtics_fan 29 днів тому

      ​@emmaleighmorris3647 a couple weeks ago she was promoting infidelity in marriage. This isn't really that far of a stretch.

    • @TheTiti123
      @TheTiti123 29 днів тому +7

      @@that_celtics_fan care to point out when exactly?

  • @tell-me-a-story-
    @tell-me-a-story- 29 днів тому +50

    Having sex on the first date is literally the worse advice you can give anyone.

  • @mistybehaviours
    @mistybehaviours 29 днів тому +22

    I give it a few months before she blast him on TikTok for cheating on her. It kinda reminds me of when Olivia Wilde started dating Harry styles, she was so happy with herself for getting a younger man, then before she knew it, they had broke up.

    • @PokrPro21
      @PokrPro21 23 дні тому

      I guess Harry was at too many P. Diddy parties 🎉

  • @yukon065
    @yukon065 29 днів тому +23

    Those "Montana Bro" videos had Brokeback Mountain vibes.

  • @Noname11364
    @Noname11364 29 днів тому +33

    Well, they do have shared values… sleeping on the first date.

  • @M-ny4js
    @M-ny4js 29 днів тому +49

    He's 24 she's 30 plus with 3 kids.
    Please he's not sticking around

    • @davidcox3076
      @davidcox3076 29 днів тому

      Suspect he's never taking off his running shoes while with her.

    • @isabellesender
      @isabellesender 27 днів тому +4

      She's 37, 13 years older....her kids must be so embarrassed.

  • @Greekgal101
    @Greekgal101 29 днів тому +59

    Congratulations on your marriage you looked stunning

  • @nikitaj8745
    @nikitaj8745 29 днів тому +16

    I couldn't believe the headline Brett!!! SMH....The last person I'd take any kind of advice from. 🤦‍♀️

  • @zack6012
    @zack6012 29 днів тому +18

    When I was younger I thought I understood the mentality of not wanting to be "tied down" it made sense. Which I guess kind of does if you're in college want to move to a certain location afterward. After your college years that mentality doesn't make sense anymore. You should have marketability at that point and be able to go wherever you want for the most part. Being in a relationship shouldn't hinder anything. If you're in your mid 20s or older and someone says they don't want to be "tied down" that just means they either want to go sleep around or they don't see you as spouse material. Move on.
    This just another pro of having one person be the bread winner in the relationship. only 1 person has to worry about finding a job. Your careers won't cause your relationship to end

  • @josintawaang8549
    @josintawaang8549 29 днів тому +40

    I remembered having the conversation with my husband about how damaging the sleeping around & hook up culture for the soul. The brain would tell you to get the instant body pleasure, but in the long run it made you feel more miserable & lonely as a person.

    • @PokrPro21
      @PokrPro21 23 дні тому

      I counter that by saying look at all of the miserable relationships and so-called marriages. Life is short, live it up. I have been sleeping around for 11 years. I've had countless women. It's quite hilarious hearing both men and women complain about the lack of sex in their relationships. I'll keep doing my thing. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 29 днів тому +81

    6:56 just because you CAN, doesn’t mean you SHOULD… it definitely doesn’t make it good for you! You will find the occasional success story of a relationship standing the test of time with very early sex, but those are few and far between. It’s rare that those pairings LAST!

    • @HaileyEd
      @HaileyEd 29 днів тому +8

      Exactly. Nor does the ability to do something negate the consequences of what you're doing You are totally free to drink battery acid, but it doesn't mean you're free from the consequences of drinking battery acid.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому

      @@HaileyEd ROFLMFAO!

    • @rievaulxlucienne1176
      @rievaulxlucienne1176 29 днів тому

      Marriage is not good for you. Relationships should last a maximum of 3 years. Sex on the first date is not unhealthy.

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless 29 днів тому +7

      @@rievaulxlucienne1176You’re literally what’s wrong with the world.

    • @GenXfrom75
      @GenXfrom75 29 днів тому

      @@rievaulxlucienne1176 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lynds5678
    @lynds5678 29 днів тому +56

    3:32 “90% of couples who found the one slept together the first or second date” There is NO WAY. I guarantee a large percent of successful marriages are made up of couples who waited for marriage.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +9

      She didn't cite her source for that claim. I dismissed it out of hand.

    • @shabyheltay
      @shabyheltay 28 днів тому

      That means they've potentially slept with dozens and dozens of people each, before they slept with "the one".

    • @Cashhhhew
      @Cashhhhew 27 днів тому +1

      Her stat is wrong but yours is too. Generally couples that move in together at least a year prior to marriage have seen the best outcomes. There is nuance and balance. But no, waiting until marriage also doesn’t fair well statistically.

    • @pamie3327
      @pamie3327 27 днів тому

      @@Cashhhhewnope. Couples who move in together prior to marriage actually break up more. Couples who waited till marriage have more satisfying marriages. Look it up on google.

    • @anniec81
      @anniec81 23 дні тому +1

      ​@@Cashhhhew there was a study by Rosenfield & Roseler in 2028 that says that cohabitation does reduce the risk of divorce in 1st year but actually increases the risk after one year

  • @vanillabeanlady
    @vanillabeanlady 29 днів тому +35

    As a woman in my 30's, I really recommend that people DO settle down in their 20's. Everyone I know that didn't find their partner in their 20's is now single and horribly lonely and can't find a partner. All the best people are taken already. I met my partner right after high school, and my married friends met theirs in college. I also can't imagine sleeping with a man I just met. That's such a vulnerable, intimate thing and to just do that with a stranger sounds so scary.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +7

      Even if one is not religious, sleeping with someone on the first date is absolutely nuts. You [not you personally] wouldn't give someone your bank details or the keys to your house on a first date, so why the hell would you give them your body, no questions asked? P.S. I am also against the three dates bullshit "rule" as well! I know I'm too old-fashioned, but at least abstain until you are sure the relationship is serious!

    • @rickjames4031
      @rickjames4031 27 днів тому +2

      @@Musicienne-DAB1995too much dignity. Women that already have given it up on the first date, or the first time meeting without going out on a date don’t get to reserve 3 dates bs or longer. Give it up. Let us all get our turn.

  • @BamBamBigelow..
    @BamBamBigelow.. 29 днів тому +118

    Jay Cutler made a good choice divorcing this woman. edit: Okay dude, your dating a divorced mom of 3

    • @MajesticFerret
      @MajesticFerret 29 днів тому +6

      Wait, this is Jay Culters ex wife? Dude who has thighs so big they need their own area code Jay Cutler?

    • @jasono2139
      @jasono2139 29 днів тому

      *you're

    • @BamBamBigelow..
      @BamBamBigelow.. 29 днів тому +6

      @@MajesticFerret former QB for the Chicago Bears

    • @EwanCumia
      @EwanCumia 29 днів тому +4

      Culter should have taken OJ's lead.

    • @troyhts1
      @troyhts1 29 днів тому +2

      I was just coming to say Jay Cutler dodged that bullet! 😂

  • @evansmam
    @evansmam 29 днів тому +11

    So sweet hearing you say “husband”. Congratulations and welcome to the club!! My husband and I just celebrated our 31st year and I hope you and your man are blessed with just as many if not more!!!

  • @jasono2139
    @jasono2139 29 днів тому +19

    After I'm finished taking dating advice from her, I think I'm going to ask either Stacey Abrams or Chris Christie for advice on staying fit! 🤣

    • @russs7574
      @russs7574 28 днів тому +1

      Well played. I made the same sort of comment, only I used Lizzo and Rosie O'Donnell as my "go-to" fitness gurus.

    • @jasono2139
      @jasono2139 28 днів тому

      @russs7574 also excellent sources for quality advice! 😂

  • @rutabaga387
    @rutabaga387 29 днів тому +13

    My husband got married to me at 19 and now can focus more on his career because he doesn’t have to save energy at work to come home at do his own laundry and figure out what to eat for dinner. He has a stay at home wife who manages finances and makes sure he gets healthy meals everyday and keeps his home taken care of. So he can use all that energy on his goals at work. He also has a companion to bounce ideas off of and relationship security he doesn’t need to stress about finding or keeping a girlfriend. We aren’t “locked down” we are freed to grow and find ourselves with out all the extra stresses of single life. Some people think I’m crazy for getting married at 18 but now that I’m in my early twenties I feel like we caught the last chopper out of the nightmare dating scene.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +2

      Congrats. Whatever works for you.

    • @PokrPro21
      @PokrPro21 23 дні тому

      Please remember to post here in 10 years when you're trying to juice him in divorce court 😊🥰

    • @vaderkurt7848
      @vaderkurt7848 14 днів тому

      OK that's cool but that isn't everybody.

  • @danalong8632
    @danalong8632 29 днів тому +4

    I haven’t even seen the video yet, but I read the title and am SO GLAD someone is finally saying this!

  • @Margot_est_douce.
    @Margot_est_douce. 29 днів тому +18

    Your videos are a breath of fresh air, always enjoy watching

  • @hannahcampbell8196
    @hannahcampbell8196 29 днів тому +10

    3:34 -- "Feelings and chemistry only gets you so far. Shared values and respect, that is how you build the long haul."
    That's the real truth!!
    Straight out of HS I started dating this boy who I had been OBSESSED with since MS. I had all the feelings for him and so desperately wanted it to work out. We did not have many shared values, especially where God was concerned. That hurt, but I'm so glad things worked out the way they did.
    Looking back it was only a 4 month relationship, but that's long time at 18 yrs old!! Anyway, I am now engaged to someone who is infinitely better for me in absolutely EVERY way! Someone who shares values with me, who I am incredibly attracted to, have chemistry with and feelings for, etc.
    I am beyond glad that I didn't do these serious things with that bf from 5 years ago. Don't fall for the lies of Kristin, she's going to wake up and feel so awful for the choices she is making and is so publicly supporting.

  • @AI.Overlord.X
    @AI.Overlord.X 29 днів тому +7

    If someone has been divorced, their relationship opinions mean nothing.

  • @M-ny4js
    @M-ny4js 29 днів тому +30

    Hold on this so called woman is 30 something, has 3 kids and divorced.
    Now dating a 24 yr old dude?????
    I'm not surprised she's talking the way she is. I feel bad for the kids.
    Can only imagine what their names are.

    • @Kwildcat13
      @Kwildcat13 29 днів тому +4

      Yes she started on reality tv .. are you surprised .. she married a bears QB .. she was a B to him

    • @Typinggibbon
      @Typinggibbon 29 днів тому

      Brayton, Dayton, and Trayton

    • @maribethbarlow
      @maribethbarlow 25 днів тому

      Closer to 40 than 30, it’s creepy, but considering who she is I’m not surprised. She peaked in high school and will never mentally develop past that. Her kids are probably being raised by other people because she can’t be bothered to make the necessary sacrifices.

  • @alanwilson3661
    @alanwilson3661 29 днів тому +8

    Yes, Brett you are right. Foundational values are the base upon which a successful marriage should be built. Don't sleep together until after you are married.

  • @megl6148
    @megl6148 29 днів тому +15

    The age difference does not bother me. I met my husband who was 16 years older than me when I was younger than him. We’ve been married over a decade. Since being married to him I always notice other couples with age gaps and yes, there are lots of older women married to younger men and they’ve been married for decades. In the grand scheme of things 13 years is nothing.

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому

      Agree. 18 and upwards is generally fine for marriage.

    • @Kwildcat13
      @Kwildcat13 29 днів тому

      She has three kids so it’s very different . A party mom is not a good mom .. you don’t sound. Like that !

    • @Kwildcat13
      @Kwildcat13 29 днів тому +3

      @@Musicienne-DAB1995meh 18 and 40 is a little wild to me

    • @MrJumping89
      @MrJumping89 28 днів тому +2

      The thing that throws me off is she is 37 dating a guy who is 24 and she has a 12 year old son. Her age to him is nearly the same as his is to her kids.

    • @isabellesender
      @isabellesender 27 днів тому +2

      My mom married a man 15 years younger than he at 54. Yes, it lasted. However, now that she's 80, it's way too much of an age gap. He has no life and cares for an elderly woman. He is closer in age to me than her and people always assume he's my husband not hers.
      Annnnnd, he regrets not having his own kids now.
      Believe me, it's not optimum. It's a daydream.

  • @cinssan3596
    @cinssan3596 29 днів тому +9

    I used to watch laguna beach back in the day. Kristin had a big ego back then and her costars fed her ego too. I guess she still craves attention. As a 39 year old mother, if i was to divorce tomorrow, my priority would not be to run and find a boy toy. My priority would be my children.

    • @maribethbarlow
      @maribethbarlow 25 днів тому +1

      Yup, couldn’t stand her then, nothing has changed

  • @KaizenLegacy
    @KaizenLegacy 26 днів тому +4

    "I used to think you should make him wait ... and then I found lust!"
    The whole "it doesn't matter if the chemistry is there" is how girls end up with a string of short-term "situationships" and wondering "where have all the good men gone!?" or "why are guys so afraid to commit!?" later on.
    In my weekend gig, I see this situation quite often: a recently divorced woman in her mid- to late-30s has been frustrated and lonely for the last couple years as the divorce proceeded, goes out and wants to see she still "has it". She finds a hot (usually much younger) guy that is willing to help her with her frustration for a time. The butterflies fly, she feels like a teenager again, but then one of 2 realities hits: 1) He dips immmediately afterwards and never talks to her again (one night thing), or 2) After a period of time, one of them (usually the woman) realizes they are in 2 completely different places in their lives and things end poorly. If it was a 1-night thing, that same woman will be back the next weekend to do it all over again with a new guy.
    This appears to be the situation here. It is sad and unfortunate.

  • @morgandubie
    @morgandubie 29 днів тому +9

    I had a guy tell me to my face (back in my early 20’s) that I wasn’t “quality material” because I slept with him on the first date. I was hurt and confused but totally got it. I WASNT A QUALITY GIRL!!! I was sooooo screwed up back then hahah people need to start being HONEST with themselves and realize that sometimes the truth hurts

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +3

      That's the thing with men: they are pretty blunt about these kinds of things. And that's good. Promiscuity benefits no one.

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 29 днів тому +4

      Well he was wrong and you dodged a bullet. You deserve a non judgmental man who appreciates your reciprocity to his actions instead of admonishing you for it

    • @morgandubie
      @morgandubie 29 днів тому +3

      @@harsh3948 thanks :) I def let him have it because he was being a total hypocrite. (What made him a quality guy when it takes two to tango ya know?) but you’re right he was super immature and wrong to say that absolutely

    • @takemeseriouslyplx2124
      @takemeseriouslyplx2124 28 днів тому

      It is sadly the way our minds work as a man! If a woman sleep with us on the first date, our brain will process it like you are sleeping with other men as well and thus filter you out as an option for marriage :/ It's the same way your brain filters out men who cry in front of you for example!

    • @miltain
      @miltain 22 дні тому

      damn, dude was based, I would have said the same thing, but yea glad you took the advice.

  • @zvziak9136
    @zvziak9136 29 днів тому +9

    ''as my husband and I'' 🥺 love to hear that

  • @colleenlam4505
    @colleenlam4505 29 днів тому +55

    Brett, please be my friend. You don't know how relieved I am to know that there is someone who is my age (05' baby) and has their head screwed on right!

    • @Dianacat501
      @Dianacat501 29 днів тому +5

      As an '07 baby I understand.

    • @theprodigalson4003
      @theprodigalson4003 29 днів тому +2

      I had no idea she was so young what

    • @theprodigalson4003
      @theprodigalson4003 29 днів тому

      I thought she was late 20s how is she giving me advice what

    • @Sam-ut5tq
      @Sam-ut5tq 29 днів тому

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @_adelinaaa_
      @_adelinaaa_ 29 днів тому +5

      But Brett's a 01 baby, she's 22,going on 23😂.

  • @Dragonstalon1001
    @Dragonstalon1001 29 днів тому +6

    Dudes in his 20's, Why in the hell would you want to play another Man's 'Saved Game' (Single Mom of 3)??? She already has a track record of LEAVING a Man who has given her more than she Deserves (1/2 of EVERYTHING he has worked his entire life for in the Divorce), that she will do the same thing to this Young Guy if he doesn't RUN NOW!!!

  • @LisaSpirito87
    @LisaSpirito87 29 днів тому +7

    looked up the Carnivore Bar, 6 bars for 95 DOLLARS. im sorry, that discount code doesn't help, thats almost $16 for a 400-calorie meat stick

  • @dyricrothwell4254
    @dyricrothwell4254 29 днів тому +2

    This is the party girl that couldn’t keep a man in high school n ran through the whole school she got with a ten year old younger guy that’s way more relevant to her to chase clout

  • @jasono2139
    @jasono2139 29 днів тому +24

    Lip syncing for TikTok videos is about as impressive as being the lead "air guitar player" in a band.
    This next generation is so talentless, it hurts.

    • @EndertheWeek
      @EndertheWeek 29 днів тому +1

      It's really getting topless for TikTok. The lip synching is just a lazy copy of the female TikTokkers, they literally could be doing anything . . . . as long as they are topless.

    • @jasono2139
      @jasono2139 29 днів тому

      @EndertheWeek it was moreso a general statement regarding most "TikTokers"... but you're correct! 😂
      The "Boyz" could probably make a video of them opening pickle jars, shirtless, with no audio, and their audience of 12 year girls would watch it!

    • @EndertheWeek
      @EndertheWeek 29 днів тому

      @@jasono2139 Did you not see Brett's face change when the first topless man appeared? Human beings are not complicated - show them flesh and they start paying attention 😍

    • @EndertheWeek
      @EndertheWeek 28 днів тому +1

      @@jasono2139 Did you see Brett's face change when the first topless boy appeared? Human beings are very simple - flash the flesh to get the attention.

    • @EndertheWeek
      @EndertheWeek 28 днів тому

      @@jasono2139 Did you see Brett's face change when the first topless boy appeared?

  • @jenniferrosenberry7662
    @jenniferrosenberry7662 29 днів тому +3

    She had the perfect guy in Jay. He was so down to earth and put up with her shit.

  • @Blue-cq2hl
    @Blue-cq2hl 29 днів тому +6

    All you have to do to know you shouldn't listen to her is watch her face and how exaggerated her face is when she says stuff. Lol
    Every time someone talks about sparks and chemistry and all is just someone I avoid. That is the type of person chasing dopamine highs or stuff like that.

  • @DamienHanma
    @DamienHanma 28 днів тому +1

    0:47 that "ooop! " And the throw away, was hilarious 😂 and cute 😂💯

  • @Dawn54811
    @Dawn54811 29 днів тому +1

    Congratulations on your marriage!❤❤❤. You are so right, that conversation was hard to watch…poor children.

  • @pseudollama1031
    @pseudollama1031 29 днів тому +3

    3:08 Make him wait 3 or 4 dates? Even that is way too soon! What is the rush? You don't even know the person at that point. It's sad that society has gotten to this point.

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn 29 днів тому +6

    The way people talk about not having any boundaries for themselves is crazy. The way society has allowed not holding any self values or morals in hookup culture and why there are so many stds and unwanted pregnancies,that leads to abortions. It’s just unreal how many people are out here giving this bad advice or just don’t care about themselves or the ones they are sleeping around with.

  • @jacintaflorence2451
    @jacintaflorence2451 29 днів тому +1

    I’m so glad you said this!

  • @fashnvain3194
    @fashnvain3194 29 днів тому +5

    In my day we had names for girls who slept around. I don’t know what today’s youth are thinking. Risky risky

  • @adamkostuch8453
    @adamkostuch8453 29 днів тому +15

    The wife and I are definitely outliers. We were 18 and got intimate quite quickly. Got engaged after 3 months. And are now still together 14 years later.
    We are a rare exception

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому

      Well, I still congratulate you.

    • @selenachan4230
      @selenachan4230 29 днів тому +5

      Congrats. Thk for acknowledge that you guys are the exception. Can't stsbd it when the "exception" try to make others believe that's the norm

  • @Itslauraokay
    @Itslauraokay 29 днів тому +8

    This is horrible advice why buy the cow if you could have the milk for free. Always better to wait. What matters is how someone treats you and shows up for you at the end of the day. “Chemistry” fades in and out throughout time and the course of the relationship/marriage. Some dudes like em older is he attracted to her probably but will he marry her probably not.

  • @jediradekcrif9568
    @jediradekcrif9568 27 днів тому +3

    your ad read intros are hilarious 🤣

  • @margieconnell9319
    @margieconnell9319 29 днів тому

    I’ve only just starting watching you and you are great!!

  • @fubarace1027
    @fubarace1027 29 днів тому +4

    So she went from married to a starting QB in the NFL to dating a TikToker, and people listen to her?
    TBH, rather than question Kristin's moral fiber, I question young Jay Cutler's discernment in selecting a wife. Methinks he decided to marry the hot cheerleader right out of college, before his brain started thinking about things other than how to get laid. We all go through that, it's a shame the mistake cost Jay as much as it did.
    Lastly, I feel for her kids. How much less cringe than an Only Fans mom would Kristen be? She's 37 and acting like she's 22? Her kids are 12, 10 and 9; old enough to start seeing this crap themselves. What a fantastic role-model she's going to be for her daughter

    • @maribethbarlow
      @maribethbarlow 25 днів тому

      Yup, it’s still just all about her. Hopefully those kids are being raised by other people.

  • @OkMaRcOs11
    @OkMaRcOs11 29 днів тому +6

    Im so sick and tired of hearing about this woman all because shes dating a hot young guy🙄they're acting like its never been done before, Its not revolutionary its annoying AF

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 29 днів тому

      We get it, you’re jealous

  • @jennifertwede7142
    @jennifertwede7142 29 днів тому +1

    I got married at 19, my husband was 22. Both of us were virgins, we’ve raised three beautiful children in a God fearing home. And we’ll celebrate our 31 anniversary this may. Literally, RUN if someone tries to convince you otherwise of this garbage.

  • @meaganvazquez7597
    @meaganvazquez7597 28 днів тому +1

    Brett can you do a video on carnivore. I have been doing it 3 weeks now and love hearing people’s tips and favorite recipes.

  • @michaelv2385
    @michaelv2385 29 днів тому +4

    They'll both soon be just another notch in each other's belts.

  • @TheEarthRealm
    @TheEarthRealm 29 днів тому +3

    I'm in Montana, why is this crazy shite always happening in _my_ state?! 🙄

    • @tofutopper6920
      @tofutopper6920 29 днів тому

      😅😅😅😅 which city are you in Montana?? Im in missoula.

  • @samsunglg6671
    @samsunglg6671 29 днів тому

    Your keen observation helps to steer your followers to the right path and that's incredible, the times we currently living in could change for the better. You're a true hero of our time, and thank you for your dedication. There's always a brighter day ahead.

  • @johncaldwell4709
    @johncaldwell4709 29 днів тому +1

    One of the first to leave a comment... I LOVE THIS CHANNEL BRETT!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

  • @user-su2vf1ub7j
    @user-su2vf1ub7j 29 днів тому +4

    Do a video on toxic boy moms!!

  • @anonymousgamer8807
    @anonymousgamer8807 29 днів тому +3

    The only vibe i got from two shirtless dudes was 'Brokeback Mountain' lol. Also original post has the absolutely worst advice ive ever heard lol

  • @thomasdowling6594
    @thomasdowling6594 29 днів тому

    Interesting ad placement...i love it ! Usually its at the beginning or end of a video.

  • @madilynsackett8466
    @madilynsackett8466 29 днів тому +2

    Hookup culture is not advantageous for anyone. If you're not ready for something serious don't pursue anything at all

  • @Toastergod44
    @Toastergod44 29 днів тому +3

    The big reason for why she rushed into sleeping with him is probably the same reason why she's pressuring him on that podcast. She's scared that if she doesn't lock someone down right now, at her age, that she never will. This is why men avoid older women, they're balls of stress and preconceptions who don't want to get to know you, they want to lock you down and extract children from you because the clock is ticking. It's gross and feels manipulative.

  • @ShandiNicole1982
    @ShandiNicole1982 29 днів тому +3

    Rather than go out and try to make things happen why not try natural interactions. It’s how I met my husband.

  • @helenwong1074
    @helenwong1074 29 днів тому

    Congratualations Brett!! Praying for a fruitful and holy married life for you and your husband!

  • @Courtneyemily91
    @Courtneyemily91 29 днів тому

    Chemistry and feelings ebb and flow. Love is a choice, not a feeling. Great video, as usual!

  • @PrimordialOracleOfManyWorlds
    @PrimordialOracleOfManyWorlds 29 днів тому +4

    very simple. quit social media like TikTok and its apps. experience real life. problem solved.

  • @DuncanClair
    @DuncanClair 29 днів тому +5

    People should have to pass an exam before they’re allowed to start a podcast.

  • @7megan7
    @7megan7 29 днів тому +1

    I love hearing you say "my husband"❤❤ so happy for you, Brett!

  • @em-and-her-days
    @em-and-her-days 28 днів тому

    you should make an episode on the whole conjoined twins thing going on. all of a sudden it’s gotten super popular on tik tok and the news!

  • @dramalama10
    @dramalama10 29 днів тому +11

    We have literal pandemic of STI/STD and millions of misinformation on “safe sex” practice. I’m sure that first date was like this. “I want you so bad”, “me too”. Cool we established lust. So….
    1. When was your last sexual encounter to include oral and was this a stranger or someone you know well. How many people since your last test. Do you know many STI can be transmitted just by touch? Oral? Hands?
    2. Show me your last FULL PANEL STI/STD TEST
    3. Have you EVER had an STI/STD to include hpv hsv.
    4. Ask about birth control methods being used (condom, pill, implant, none)
    Bet that sets the mood off great 😂

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 29 днів тому +1

      Dude, I seriously believe those questions should be asked. I'm seeing HIV adverts asking people to get tested! I'm seeing statistics in my area saying that a disturbingly high number of people have chylamidia. It freaks me out. I am all for asking STD/STI questions on a first date. And financial information, too. Spendthrifts kill romance too.

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless 29 днів тому

      If people refuse to wait, I absolutely think these questions need to be asked.

  • @Nikki30288
    @Nikki30288 29 днів тому +3

    Thank you! I have been watching her... and she is a train wreck.... it is shocking what she talks about

  • @arostilis
    @arostilis 29 днів тому +1

    Sleeping around with random people will get you exactly what you deserve: a bad reputation and a broken heart.

  • @Genevieve24
    @Genevieve24 29 днів тому

    Omg Brett has a Comment's Section phone case
    Wonder when they'll be available in the dw shop 👀👀

  • @matthewcary9463
    @matthewcary9463 29 днів тому +4

    Brett! Your wedding ring is so beautiful! You are glowing! So happy for you! ❤

  • @johnnk3256
    @johnnk3256 29 днів тому +4

    What's a 24 year old dude doing with a divorced mom of 3?

    • @icymarcos5485
      @icymarcos5485 29 днів тому +1

      Getting some nookie 😂

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 29 днів тому +1

      He’s got mommy issues

    • @miltain
      @miltain 22 дні тому

      easy cookie 😂

  • @oliviachampommier5481
    @oliviachampommier5481 29 днів тому +1

    My husband said that if I didn’t make him wait the amount I did and slept with him the first or even second or third date he wouldn’t have married me and I get it!

  • @wronglyrightish4701
    @wronglyrightish4701 29 днів тому

    lol Brett, you’re hilarious! Thanks for this, so entertaining

  • @simonschmitz8869
    @simonschmitz8869 29 днів тому +5

    Congrats on marriage from Germany!

  • @HopeForABetterMarriage
    @HopeForABetterMarriage 29 днів тому +8

    I will never understand why people take advice from someone who doesn't have what they want. If you want to have a healthy marriage or relationship, get advice from those who have the type of relationship you desire 💞

  • @Sunshineheart124
    @Sunshineheart124 29 днів тому +2

    Wait. Why shouldn’t a 37 year old be “hanging out or talking with a guy?”

    • @surlyGir
      @surlyGir 29 днів тому

      Yes!!! I knew I wasn't alone. I thought I misheard her but no. I would like to know too.

  • @mikegwhizz
    @mikegwhizz 29 днів тому +1

    Notice that Brett didn't say she'd never seen him before; just not his face 😂😂. Thirst trap for sure

  • @MixedGoku
    @MixedGoku 29 днів тому +3

    Most Women on these talk shows / podcast use their advice to justify what they are doing it's by no means anywhere close to wisdom

    • @Moonlightmatchmaking
      @Moonlightmatchmaking 29 днів тому +1

      K but keep in mind the vast majority of women don’t have podcasts. There are also 3 BILLION people in the u.s and only 140 million have social media. And that includes men too.

    • @MixedGoku
      @MixedGoku 29 днів тому +1

      @@Moonlightmatchmaking This is true well said!

    • @miltain
      @miltain 22 дні тому

      yea and the ones without podcasts tend to act the same way

    • @Moonlightmatchmaking
      @Moonlightmatchmaking 20 днів тому

      @@miltain maybe you need to reconsider who you spend your time around or where you live. I’ve lived in Illinois, Arizona, and Nevada and have traveled across the country camping in almost every state more than once. I’ve literally never met any woman who acts or thinks like this in real life. I did SEE a lot of women who dressed like prostitutes around the ASU campus in Arizona, but because of the way I move and the type of lifestyle I lead, I’d never actually encounter them or have a conversation. I’ve only met awesome men and women.

    • @miltain
      @miltain 20 днів тому +1

      @@Moonlightmatchmaking that's a nice little novel you wrote, but in the end of the day you definition of 'awesome' can mean anything, people like you tend to be pretty dishonest

  • @BloodSweatandFears
    @BloodSweatandFears 29 днів тому +19

    I made my husband wait 5 months. We have been together since 2004. Two kids, very happy ❤😊

    • @jasono2139
      @jasono2139 29 днів тому +2

      Is five months after you got married or is that between "encounters" since the honeymoon? 🤔

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 29 днів тому +4

      @@jasono2139obviously it’s when he sits and waits while she gets her bad girl phase out of her system

    • @miltain
      @miltain 22 дні тому

      @@harsh3948you know it 😂

  • @destinystarkey3870
    @destinystarkey3870 29 днів тому

    I love when you turn to other camera at the end of a sentence to show how crazy people are. It’s like the Jim looking at the camera in The Office.

  • @305Independent
    @305Independent 29 днів тому +1

    I actually support Kristen and those like her giving it up on the first date, because they probably have nothing else to offer.

  • @sharnethterry6530
    @sharnethterry6530 29 днів тому +3

    I’m gonna tell you what man my husband got me to slow down And it made me double take. And I told myself he was a keeper.

  • @Greekgal101
    @Greekgal101 29 днів тому +5

    The only person that I will 100% trust the advice I get of them is Brett

    • @GorditaSlim
      @GorditaSlim 29 днів тому +1

      Honestly, no. You don't know what goes on behind anyone's closed doors, not even Brett's.

  • @lolakehoee
    @lolakehoee 29 днів тому +1

    I couldn’t agree with you more! We need more people like you to say it!!

  • @user-bo1qn9rs4x
    @user-bo1qn9rs4x 29 днів тому +2

    dude probably has more in common with her kids … that’s a red flag