Yeah I'm surprised when people want to delude themselves. Like a women not wanting to know her actual weight but wants to lose 10 to 15 pounds. How are you gonna know you did it?
I think it's really important to understand that difference between being clingy and needy and being self sufficient. You automatically treat people different when you don't feel you need them. If you're good with yourself you can still treat people with respect and be nice but you naturally don't care too much if you lose them. If you try to fake it to "win" this game and be the one who cares less to get someone to run after you, you're just a poor little something...
piramja ...it comes down to being supportive but, not nice about it. Once you become nice, you are dead to her, period. This has been proven to me over and over and over. You must remain aloof, not unlike the cats they love unconditionally without question.
I dated a really hot, but also broke girl once who lived out in the boonies when I was in my early 20s. She did exactly what this video described, trying so hard to be the perfect little girlfriend, very giving in the bedroom, very confidence boosting out everywhere else, made me feel like a man. But she didn’t start doing that until she saw my house. I still lived with my parents at the time, and they owned like a $250,000 house in a nice neighborhood which would probably be like $350k+ today.. Not rich, but compared to her.. she basically thought I had rich parents so she like, flicked on that switch to make herself actually be a good girlfriend to win me over. Problem is girls like that are only with you because they think you’re a high value target. Someday either she’ll: meet a higher value guy, or become disillusioned when she get bored and realizes you’re just a regular dude. That’s when the monkey branching starts. And if you don’t know what’s happening, as a man it can destroy you. And it did destroy me. But we get wiser for it.
Exactly. Sorry to hear that though. This is what I missed from the video. Elaborating the probable reasons why she likes you. To understand that is the most important.
Ever since I started working I've had this dilemma whether or not to show how much I earn. I've always had good paying jobs. It's become clear over the years that money indeed is a huge turn on factor for girls but I never wanted to go down the flaunting way. On the other hand, there were these smokin' hot women I knew the only possible way to get with was to let them know. I ended up choosing the wiser path and I never bought that expesive car.
Men have to retrain the mind to not become mesmerised by the beauty and focus on judging the character. Exactly like when making friends with other dudes.
A woman I was interested in said she loved the shape of water movie which i disliked as it was about a deaf woman having sex with a fish man that's more fish than man which she feeds like an animal then it kills and eats her cat then she has sex with it. Red flag for me I don't want to date Alinity.
In case you're like me and don't know what lovebombing is.. Here's a google definition:" Love bombing is the practice of showering a person with excessive affection and attention in order to gain control or significantly influence their behavior. The love bomber's attention might feel good, but the motive is all about manipulation."
@eman987 10 sorry but my wallet is more valuable to me than the (questionable) pleasures a women can provide. They are in 9/10 cases not to be trusted.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3458919/ "In humans, naturally acquired microchimerism has been observed in many tissues and organs. Fetal microchimerism, however, has not been investigated in the human brain. Microchimerism of fetal as well as maternal origin has recently been reported in the mouse brain. In this study, we quantified male DNA in the human female brain as a marker for microchimerism of fetal origin..."
Had one at a previous job actually buy me gifts out of the blue. She was cool to talk to until "teh crazy" started. Even towards the end (I left that job), after she mentioned she was set to marry "a very rich guy" (I was somewhat relieved and assumed the gifts would stop), she was suggesting "having fun" was an option. (Her friend didn't blink an eye.) Really made for an epiphany.
@@gracefool it's great fun but I don't like toying with people's feelings. Whenever it ends they are heartbroken. Now, more to the point, relationships should be a give and take not lopsided to one of the two, it puts too much pressure on the receiving end and too much expectation on the giving end.
I recently dealt with a girl that was all into me from the get go...one day she just ghosted me out of nowhere and next thing you know, she was pregnant by another guy lol ...so I agree
I mean the solution is pretty obvious. If the relationship is sabotaged then its over and not your fault. So leave. Don't even make a spectacle of it. You don't have that kind of time. Mistakes are forever and will always be a part of the relationship even if you're together for 100 years.
@@dylanmorgan5589 That may sound easy to you, but when the person was first a good friend, leaving ain't something you want to do. Every case is different.
I’ve done this when I was less mature/secure in myself. My advice would be, ask her what specifically she likes about you. That will help distinguish whether she is in love with you or in love with the idea of being in a relationship
@@gamersforlife3440maybe stop signing away literally half of your wealth and possessions only to prove to other people that you love this person with a big ceremony. It’s dumb.
Is probably not all the time, some women is like that after faced bad experiences and went through difficult times. So depends on her experiences but I’d imagine is more probably to get a bad women.
I’ve had this. They leave just as fast as they came. If you don’t know the nature of women, or people in general, and you’re desperate, you are extremely susceptible to manipulation.
I've come to a point I am tired of caring about all this crap about how woman work, red flags, what to say or not say. Not to speak of modern feminism gone wrong. Worst time to be a man it feels..
When it comes to emotional struggles, nobody prepares men for anything. Not a word of these truths was mentioned when I was growing up. Men are simply supposed to figure out all by themselves. Some patrarchy indeed!
Why depressing? We men shouldn't be needy of women and have a lot more time to better ourselves while women need a family much earlier in life to be secure and not alone for the rest of their life Im glad to be a virgin 19y/o men I know i got so much more time to enjoy my life and become better Just don't think about women as a priority and do stuff with life
Sex is great, don't think of being a virgin like great achievement ... It isn't. You don't need to work hard or train yourself to be a virgin. Women aren't a priority ... That's for sure.
Arvin Peopleinlove Im not thinking its a great achievement at all Neither sex being a bad thing Being miserable cause you can't have pussy is the big prob I have so much more to do outside craving pussy all day and its much better for men to do things they enjoy,get better at something,than do none and become resentful of women cause they can't have sex
You got your head screwed on right dude, your only 19 plenty of time for girls trust me, focus on your self right now, become a high quality guy, learn to save and invest early as possible, your older self will thank you so much.
I am 25. Mr. Grace, sir, I find your videos are like a natural anti-depressant. The way you explain female nature saves me a lot of headaches, time, and pointless efforts. Good job man. I'm from a third-world country but seems women are the same everywhere especially early to mid 20s.
Desperation, eagerness, 1st time love experimentation, running from something, needing a protector/slave/provider, her next branch to monkey to, etc. ALL are fast to give... and fast to leave. It will spoil fast and she'll be looking for her next guy while still with you. Probably from day 1. A woman who is willing to wait/wants to take things slow, is a good thing. If you don't take time to get to know each other it CAN'T last. Who knows what deal-breakers are lurking beneath the surface? Think of it as the longer she takes to give it up - the better it will be and the longer it will last. Good things are worth the wait and wait YOU MUST! 😎
But doesn’t this just feed the friend zone justifications? A guy that is still in the matrix thinks this is happening and will happen however, in reality she has friend zoned him and he is stuck for some time. Definitely a fine line to walk.
@Antonio Giuseppe All true, but after say six months it should be clear if it will go anywhere or not. Past a certain point, it's being friend zoned or led on, and that is something no man with self respect should tolerate.
@@visionist7 if she DOES open her legs on the 1st/2nd date then think about how many times she can do so in a year... 182-365+ times... 🤮 A woman willing to go slow and get to know you gives you the time to do the same. Those are the keepers if all's well. If it takes at least 6 months; how many men in a year... 2? Less? Far, far preferable to a 1,000's+ body count, no morals, and damage so deep it's now on the surface screaming at you. Of course, as others have mentioned, if by 6 months she's not willing to take it further then she probably never will, but you WILL know by that point whether she's worth pursuing further.
What you’ve run into with a woman who “loves” everything you love and agrees with everything, is 9 times out of 10, a grade A narcissist. Your giving them fuel (sense of purpose), by unknowingly allowing them to use your traits as their own. To them, at that point in time, you are perfect, until your not. When the point of perfection wears off, get ready for hell on earth. Beware of the fact that the abuse that will be employed, will for the most part be based on manipulation, otherwise known as mind-fuckery to the third power. Get away. Run as fast as you can
Moving too quickly is often an indication that your partner actually has narcissistic personality disorder. They “love bomb” you at the outset in order to groom you for the erratic combination of devaluation, toxicity and cheating that is soon to come. They begin by moving quickly because they know that works - after the love bombing stage you might actually tolerate their devaluation of you for far too long as you attempt to regain that abundance of attention that they had once shown you. They know this.
@@davute9546 idk, I never had attention/affection in my younger years/late teens, so I kinda started love bombing random people for affection, but if I'm honest to myself and the other, more often than not I have no clue what I like about her, we usually have no shared interests/hobbies at all, but yeah I just do and during such a period I do truely feel very in love, but after a year or two I tend to isolate myself again.
@@Stormcloakvictory yeah man listen, I am 14 and male so don't expect me to know what is happening with you because I have no clue😂. Maybe take your time before you into a relationship with someone and appreciate and respect your partner because that is why relationships exist. Don't rush into things and get to know the person and appreciate the person that loves you.
@@davute9546 yeah definitly true. Lasting relationships are about respecting and appreciating eachother, value both perfections and imperfections of the partner. What you might dislike right now, you will miss when it's gone. Hehe but prepare for random unexplainable hormone fueled attraction towards people in the comming years.
Let's not forget about "love bombing" by a predatory narcissist to trap you emotionally up front so she can emotionally drain you over the long run. Causing pain is their ONLY reason for existence.
I actually dated a woman who was behaving exactly like you described. She was eager to have sex with me, she offered me a thressome many times, she was very clingy without any reason. Never in my life I was so suspicious about a woman as much as I was back then. When she finally stopped texting me, I felt a big relief in all honesty.
@@deanholder4509 Actually yes. A lot of minority women perpetuate that clingyness through their fetishisation of white men. Seems you're not aware of the racepill.
Quis Being black had nothing to do with her throwing herself at you, in my opinion. I am black and have had both white and black women act that way. Saying she was black implies that that is a common thing to just with black women, which I wouldn’t say is the case.
Never stop what you do Alexander Grace, this reminds me of too many people, way too many when I was learning what matters to me, what rules I need to enforce and what boundaries to set eventually simply settling on the golden rule and I elevated myself to a level I am proud of... leading to me searching for something to justify walking out. The cycle sped up until I said enough, giving up was not the answer and I hope you all take responsibility for your lives and build happiness because your past does not predict the future it just enlightens you.
My mum was psychotic, she was however occasionally capable of flashes of incredibly impressive creativity and lateral thinking. One thing she said to me repeatedly when I broached the subject of going out with a girl, is the world is full of women who want to murder you. This bit of advice has saved my arse on many occasions, for which I am truly thankful🥰💆♀️🤣❤️
Sorry, I may be slow but I don’t get it, or don’t fully get it. I haven’t watched this entire video, by the way. Anyway, by “murder”, do you mean “take advantage” and “exploit”? Or something else, like actual murder?
@@keithsantana145 sounds like the male version of a leftist feminist "there are no good men" !! Those women exist, but you are not up to their mark perhaps
@@adflix424 It's not just leftist Feminazis saying this. All I see on UA-cam and social media is how men are bad, trash, etc. Where are these so-called good women who don't act like that going to start calling out the BS of the Leftist Feminazis? Even the mainstream gets on that man bashing bandwagon. I an not a leftist and never will be. I get rejected because I am too short. They also say I am too nice. I can't change my height in a natural way. I can work on my 'being too nice' part. How many people, men or women are going to date someone who is disabled, or has cancer. I would like to see more women who don't agree with the leftist Feminazi narrative come out of hiding and challenge them. I my experience, most women seem to want a guy who treats them badly. They leave a good guy and chase after the Chads and Tyrones. Any guy who shows them the least respect, love and kindness to them is considered boring because there is no drama.
Thank you, Darth Mimit, for leaving a comment here where it must often seem like hostile territory. I appreciate your willingness to entertain discourse on these challenging topics. Good on you.
I call bullshit. A ton of women are looking for channels like this just to see how the game is evolving, what new angle to use in order to stay on top and in control. Every single time I see some girl bullshit like you and honestly it's sickening. If you're serious, prove yourself by actions. Not words. Till then I'm taking that with a shot of penicillin.
I have a story. I had a friend of mine who wasn’t the greatest with girls. So to his surprise he found a girl that liked him, but not in a gradual way. This girl was super generous and horny, I told him “dude be careful something is wrong with this” he refused to listen and went with her, next day he was in the misleading conduct office, and was being escorted by two police officers. That skank filed a false allegation against him, and now he is in trial with a maximum sentence of 12 years. She only wanted to get close to him to get back at him for “bad behavior” and teach him a lesson. I told him it was a bad idea but did he listen? NOOO! Now he’s gona pay for it with his freedom. Never trust women and especially generous women
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@@davidpadilla1354 So dancing and singing are ok? Nice. Also you shouldn't reference rapture because that comes from one of those fictional books from the 20th century you shouldn't read .
Personally i believe that too much emphasis is put on concern about relationships....UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE YOUR OWN MATE!!! Improve yourself for the sake of self-improvement...period.
Women *_never_* like you, merely the internalized preconception they imagine when looking in your direction. Everything you say or do *_subtracts_* from this 'ideal.'
True, they love the idea of who you are. Although sometimes you might do or say something that happens to reinforce or positively add to the image she has of you, but note that it happens to do so, and you’re not actually aware or in control of it. It’s that whatever you do, women are going to misinterpret it in either a positive or negative way. It’s a game of illusions and fantasies, but sometimes it works out in our favor too. Just know that the thing you’re saying to her will be translated into something else in her mind, so you’ll have to say the thing that will incorrectly get translated into the thing you want her to hear / understand! (If you care about getting through to her and having some kind of communication)
Well said. That's why being mysterious about who you are perpetuates the "perfect guy" fantasy in her mind. You'll never be more attractive to her than before you ever open your mouth.
Thank you for this video. It's exactly what I needed at this point. Met two ladies online (because of covid). One, 8 hours away (and is a friend of several friends) has no kids, but adopted a 9-year old as her daughter. She is interested in developing interest through casual conversation, and serious questions. Not making plans to get together for a date yet. The second, a couple of years older, came on strong. First date, dressed to the nines. Loves to cuddle, tells me how she likes to play dress up, school-girl outfits, cosplay, and willing to do what I want in between the sheets 3x per day. It's like you read her like a book, and I'm suspicious.
I'm only immediately suspicious of a chick that's been avoiding you for a decade while knowing you, and all of a sudden, they start talking to you and devoted to you.
Very true. That might be one of the reasons why i am already 7 years with my girl with all ups and downs, because we did not at all need each other in the beginning, but found out we have the same values and respect eachother. Let‘s see how it will develop further on:)
Describes my ex perfectly. She tried to run game on me cause she was older. She was so sweet and did anything I wanted at first. But I could tell she was trying to keep her story hidden. And over time, I started to pay close attention to the things she'd say and do. She couldn't stand to be corrected on her bad behavior. Downright creepy in retrospect. This is a fantastic video!
Same brother, my first ex definitely noticed my naivety and took advantage. In retrospect id say theres a high chance she has some sort of cluster b disorder.
I was more looking the photo on the wall and noticing that it is crooked. From now on I will always check it. Apart from that it was very interesting and I only wish I knew this years ago.
This is not depressing. I love your content. You know what's depressing? Thinking no one likes you and you're okay with just being friends because no way anyone likes me and not being true to yourself because you're disillusioned into thinking that's normal and then being tossed around by girls or missing ALL the signs of flirting with a high-quality woman who tries for a whole year and finally gives up and you only learn the truth days, weeks, months, years AFTER the woman texts you for the last time and you "didn't know why, she ghosted me for no reason!" People like me need your advice because we don't have our own truth. We thrive on people telling us the truth so we can put it into action and see that we've been acting on life sub-optimally. Thank you!
This is an incredible video. This just happened to me. I guess she was rebounding + is insecure and can't be by herself. But even though I've been in several relationships, I never had an interesting girl show me this kind of attention before. But of course, just like that, she was off (probably to the bigger, better deal). Hurts like hell because you finally get a glimpse of what you thought was love, only to vanish. This is very emotionally abusive behavior, whether intentional or not.
@Sentient being Places like China and India have high populations because they have been ongoing, successful civilisations for thousands of years. They had advanced agriculture a long time ago.
Your videos are helping thousands of men and women! Women are so confusing. You're providing a great service for all the people that watch your channel! Thanks for all your hard work! I love talking about your videos with my girlfriend! She usually agrees with you. Keep up the great content!
I decided at a young age that the dating game isn't worth playing it. The girls make the rules up, call the score and decide the price. It's a game only girls can win. I just focused on myself, let women show interest (~1 a year) and eventually I got married. I think the main problem is: 1) we, men, over-estimate the winner price that we are going to get. 2) we are not conscious of how much effort we really put into getting the winner price. Like in Poker: -Don't put too much on the table until she does. Otherwise she'll know your hand. -If she plays a game with you, you have good cards. -Know when to quit.
Your videos brought it all together for me. I had a woman who did all these infact she persuaded me to live with her and was angry when I refused at first. She even wanted me to marry her and I did. She did all the favours, extra nice and boom she met another guy online who she never met before and wanted to leave me. I talked sense into her then she stayed, to cut the story short she has been doing this, and finally I had enough. And when she mets the guys online she basically tells me that they are better then me lol. Or more sexier than me as she nitpicks at my shortcomings... Now she is with a new guy she met online and had sex with him under 3 weeks of knowing him as she stayed at his house for 4 days she Even used my money to get something for herself. We separated but I’m trying to get a divorce. I always thought she was a high quality woman but I was wrong. Thanks so much for this video. You have taught me a lot
You got a sub because I like the intellectually honest middle ground stance and how straight up you are with your words. You see more than the typical person ever does.
Not really, most of the women I had/have are like this and generous not only in bed but financially as well + cooking, cleaning, and being loving & supportive. I've had night stands who turned out to be incredibly amazing long term partners. To be honest I'm a now businessman, but even before I was lucky to have been spoiled with great women ... So I won't spend a second with a woman who isn't into me or treating me like a king. 😎🍾 You know, it takes one to see one ... I can spot/recognize a high quality woman among a crowd of people, the energy is different. I think it's the same for HQ women spotting the energy of men.
kind of agree, you read all this comments with all this guys been decieved in one way or other, but in my life all my long terms has all been respectable and good womans, except my last one, shes kind, but a bit wack :), but its not that i didnt see it, i was weak
There isn't such thing as "low quality women" and "high quality women". Women act surprisingly alike and agree with each other in a surprising fashion. What happened with you, is that you found a woman who was interested in you. This is fine. Women get interested in men whose position they find high. But she isn't a member of a hypothetical group of enlightened "high quality women". She is just interested in you. Women will act nice when they are interested, and act as bad as possible when they are not. They act to *purposely avoid* men to whom they are not attracted. This might be interpreted by the avoided men as "low quality behavior". But it's just women not being interested. She is acting "low quality" towards one man, and "high quality" towards another.
@K S i agree with you 100%, i experienced this two weeks ago in a theatre, i tried to say hello too lady i kinda knew as i passed by, i said hello to her by her first name and had to repeat myself twice up close before she turned and snarled at me, her friend tried to set me up with her over a year ago but i'm focusing on myself atm, i couldn't believe how ignorant she was to given she was a friend of a cousin of mine and we knew similar people, all she had to do was say hello and i was moving on anyway, it shocked me , thankfully i didn't let her friend set is up because i seen too weeks aso how much of a pig she would have turned out! women are getting worse and even the older women can see it and say it
@K S i think. I was brought up in a Christian home. Where honesty was one of the ground pillars. And you know the agony, of telling the truth. Tho you dont want to. And you can recognize all the tellings of another human being when they are of the more honest righteous type. And its also quite easy to tell when people are not honest. Cause you hear the all "beautiful" words and stories, but how they acting says different. And its a risk of the person being of lower moral. So i believe i managed to stay away from poisinous man and woman in my life
Nodded my head through this whole thing. My ex was like this; she came on pretty strong and consumed all of my free time on the weekends and it soon became clear that she was running from the problems in her own life. It also became clear later that she had bad relationships with friends and family as well as a low self-esteem. It wasn't long before I figured this out and started to distance myself.
I met a woman like that and she’s the mother of my two kids and we are still happily together. We started out not wanting anything serious, so yes it was exactly how you said in the beginning but we both evolved together into wanting more out of each other. Yes she was running away from something but so was I so we ended up two broken people coming together.
If you want your happiness to last, stop watching bitter videos made by single men who will never have any happiness with women because of their cynicism and false wisdom.
Two kids. Lions and tigers and bears, oh my. Don't know what state you married in, but two children plus alimony is going to cost you a bundle. Everything is fine until it's not. Good luck.
@@oneofyou6773pretty sure Mr. Grace has been with the same woman for like 13 years…….sooooo. Also he just doesn’t get on woman and has bad news about men too. It is nice to toss around buzz words but we both know the world is a cruel place. Be as wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove.
Couldn't agree more!💯 Just went through this a couple of days ago. She was giving me way too strong affection from the get go. I stayed cautious. After roughly 4-5 months of knowing and spending time with each other, she confessed to me at a coffee that she has been pregnant for 11 week now. From someone she met after me. He's supposed to be her boyfriend now😂(poor guy doesn't know what's ahead😢) Gosh I am glad I watch this channel🥳😁🫶
Thank you so much. I can't even describe how much it helped me. I been through unexplained hatred and unexplained love from a woman, which made me paraniod to the core. I could not found the answer in the video, but I certainly found what mistake I was making..
Borderline women will do this too. They actually do feel that strongly towards you because they project all their fantasies onto you. It gives them huge relief and satisfaction, thinking they finally found everything that they want in a person. As soon as they see enough flaws or traits that they don't like, a switch flips in their mind and you become like a demon who tricked them, although they were tricking themselves all along. The recent obsession with narcissism seems highly driven by these women who feel they are victims of men who "fake charm to seduce them" but don't put up with bullshit, or simply set standards and are willing to cut people who don't meet the standards from their lives. Borderline women pick up the worst aspects of the "many bad men" who they date and by the time they're 30 do not resemble a real person anymore, just a collection of destructive habits and beliefs.
The actual depressing thing about this, is it doesn’t matter. Even if none of the red flag that you’ve mentioned is shown, it doesn’t mean that you’re not getting played. Knew my ex for three years, and She was always kind to myself and others, told me that she respected my insight and would ask me for relationship advice for her friends even. Then we finally got engaged, and she was a different person the next week. One who had basically no respect for me, thought I was an idiot, was only happy if I was making a sacrifice of some sort for her and used threats to try any push me to do what she wanted.
I don't think it's always fake. I think it really depends on the way a person was raised, I am a woman and have always had a great relationship with my father, brother and every man in my family. I think this definitely shaped the way I view and care for men. That's why hearing the phrase "men are trash" pisses me off. Whenever I see a woman mistreating and manipulating men, I can be almost sure they never had a good, caring male figure to look up to.
People always respond with "you just have self esteem, how sad" when I say a woman showing interest in me is a huge red flag. The truth of the matter is though, the only women who show interest in me are either married, insane, evil, some combination of those or all the above. Decent women just aren't attracted to me. Can't say for certain why, it's just the way it is.
I know perfectly what you mean when you say it but sometimes it makes me laugh when you talk about high value men and women, I just imagine a guy showcasing people like: "this is a pretty good piece: really generous, high value but low maintenence" 😂😂
I'd only be suspicious if a girl actually took a liking to me after being single my entire life. Cause in my mind I'd be thinking "is this real or is she just being nice?"
If a woman is too quick to jump into your bed, especially if she kept you in a friend zone for a long time, she might be pregnant and just wants you to take care for her and her kid while thinking that it is your kid. That happens to so many men all the time, it's scary. But it doesn't mean that every woman is scheming something by such behavior.
I agree. There is nothing at all dark or depressing about this. This is very, very true. Thank you for telling it straight! I have always been spooked when girls are too into me too quickly, but I have later regretted that some of these may have been high quality girls who felt I wasn't attracted to them, even though I was. (Hindsight may or may not be 20/20.) I have had some friends with long-term, successful marriages who knew pretty quickly that they met "the one", but most with successful marriages were friends for a long time before becoming romantically involved. My most successful long-term relationship was with someone I had as a friend for a while before we dated. I think you can get an idea of the quality of the person from the friends they keep, how much they can listen and interchange different ideas, how much they tolerate different viewpoints, how honest they are in work, what others think about them and other factors. It takes time and an honest look to sort this out. This "falling in love" thing can get in the way of this too. I think many "fall in love" with the idea of this person and not necessarily with the person himself or herself, and this is the thing to avoid. Thank you greatly for doing these videos!
Why would I questioned myself if I know what I want? For me personally, she either follows me or not. If she starts playing testing games, she is out. No questions asked. Life is too difficult to engage in this kind of thought. Suggestion be clear and concise about what you want or need. She either makes a decision for you or not.
So true , got with a GF that was obsessed with me, she changed her train tickets several times to stay with me in my art workshop. Had a good time, to good to be true, she begged me to not ghost her one day like other guys and called me so romantic. Quick in the relationship she was doing funky stuff like kissing my balls 😂 and I started thinking something’s wrong. ( her or me?) The next day she told me she needs to leave bc she loves me to much and ghosted me ever since 😂👍 That lasted not so long but that was the only one I could consider a GF in my entire life since social media/smartphones. The rest not worth mentioning
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT Love bombing early in a relationship is a symptom of borderline personality disorder BPD. Feels fantastic for the first few months, until the switch is tripped and she starts to become paranoid about you cheating, angry, and, suspicious. The nightmare has just begun.😢
it's actually not depressing. i enjoy the truth
Yeah I'm surprised when people want to delude themselves. Like a women not wanting to know her actual weight but wants to lose 10 to 15 pounds. How are you gonna know you did it?
Me too bro
@@TheTAEclub i guess when the cloths she wants to wear becomes easy to put on.
Branden Cayanan Being lost in an illusion is depressing, knowing the truth gets you out.
I enjoy the depression
This is the woman who stops the “generosity”once you’re married, or drops you as soon as she gets bored.
Correction... this is one of the woman.
Yep i can attest to this
And they will ALL get bored - no matter what you do.
@@Aedonius 'find herself'
?????
SKD find herself means she wants to entertain other men and date casually
The more you care for her the less she cares for you.
💯whoever cares the least wins!
I think it's really important to understand that difference between being clingy and needy and being self sufficient. You automatically treat people different when you don't feel you need them. If you're good with yourself you can still treat people with respect and be nice but you naturally don't care too much if you lose them. If you try to fake it to "win" this game and be the one who cares less to get someone to run after you, you're just a poor little something...
piramja ...it comes down to being supportive but, not nice about it. Once you become nice, you are dead to her, period. This has been proven to me over and over and over. You must remain aloof, not unlike the cats they love unconditionally without question.
@Mike it a game man what the prize
@nigling she probably cray....lol👀 unstable, emotionally draining, maybe stalker after you try to leave, ya know...the fun stuff!
I dated a really hot, but also broke girl once who lived out in the boonies when I was in my early 20s. She did exactly what this video described, trying so hard to be the perfect little girlfriend, very giving in the bedroom, very confidence boosting out everywhere else, made me feel like a man. But she didn’t start doing that until she saw my house. I still lived with my parents at the time, and they owned like a $250,000 house in a nice neighborhood which would probably be like $350k+ today.. Not rich, but compared to her.. she basically thought I had rich parents so she like, flicked on that switch to make herself actually be a good girlfriend to win me over.
Problem is girls like that are only with you because they think you’re a high value target. Someday either she’ll: meet a higher value guy, or become disillusioned when she get bored and realizes you’re just a regular dude. That’s when the monkey branching starts. And if you don’t know what’s happening, as a man it can destroy you. And it did destroy me. But we get wiser for it.
Exactly. Sorry to hear that though. This is what I missed from the video. Elaborating the probable reasons why she likes you. To understand that is the most important.
@@Johnjackjack yup.. “just friends” are never just friends. Even their beta male friendzones are backups being stored for later use
Ever since I started working I've had this dilemma whether or not to show how much I earn. I've always had good paying jobs. It's become clear over the years that money indeed is a huge turn on factor for girls but I never wanted to go down the flaunting way. On the other hand, there were these smokin' hot women I knew the only possible way to get with was to let them know. I ended up choosing the wiser path and I never bought that expesive car.
Hypergamy
@Squo Crawford Good advice. Being clever and planning 3 steps ahead gives us a huge advantage.
How do you know that a woman wants something?
She's there.
Truly, you will go far in life.
Been saying it for years....any woman seeking a relationship wants something, not someone.
Cringe
haha! nice.
😂
I'm suspicious whenever a human being is willing to spend time with me
Dont be like that, you just have to meet more people, be relaxed and dont overtink it
@@MartinMartin-hf6kg 👍🏼👍🏼
Do what @@MartinMartin-hf6kg said, I was in the same boat and now I am going back out, being relaxed as possible and meet new people.
But keep a bit of your suspicion. Just don't let it get into your head that much. Always good to have some caution.
@@taylorx2 I am in the same boat aswell, I am trying my besto tho
Men have to retrain the mind to not become mesmerised by the beauty and focus on judging the character. Exactly like when making friends with other dudes.
Impossible cuz : dick
That is so true.
Yup...
A woman I was interested in said she loved the shape of water movie which i disliked as it was about a deaf woman having sex with a fish man that's more fish than man which she feeds like an animal then it kills and eats her cat then she has sex with it. Red flag for me I don't want to date Alinity.
@@whitehorsedown6499 WTF?????
AKA lovebombing... cults do this too.
@@almertje what is a borderliner?
@@TheTAEclub BPD is a personality disorder type.
ah yes lovebombing
i love it
In case you're like me and don't know what lovebombing is.. Here's a google definition:" Love bombing is the practice of showering a person with excessive affection and attention in order to gain control or significantly influence their behavior. The love bomber's attention might feel good, but the motive is all about manipulation."
"loveboming" is absolutely the correct term. It's the bread and butter of the narcissist.
If a woman likes me, shock is the first thing I experience.
Same
Lol same
Same
Yup.
Im (on the RARE occasions) all wtf do you want???
yeah missed a few cuz i didnt believe them
Woman: "Hi, your cute! 😉 Want to hang out? "
Me: omg she's after my kidney!! 😱
just your rib
Just your wallet
Lol
Lol
@eman987 10 sorry but my wallet is more valuable to me than the (questionable) pleasures a women can provide. They are in 9/10 cases not to be trusted.
She needs money
She wants to put her pregnancy on you
She needs money
👏🏻
@The Ram Someone has clearly never taken a biology class.
@@anonymouslee2083 Apparently neither have you. Its called DNA Male Microchimerism in Women
@@FreedomNation That's not how chimerism works.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3458919/
"In humans, naturally acquired microchimerism has been observed in many tissues and organs. Fetal microchimerism, however, has not been investigated in the human brain. Microchimerism of fetal as well as maternal origin has recently been reported in the mouse brain. In this study, we quantified male DNA in the human female brain as a marker for microchimerism of fetal origin..."
"If a woman likes you..." well, I'm safe.
Next question.
Nu u aint
@@gamersforlife3440 he means that no women likes him in the first place, that is why he is safe
@@davute9546 lol
Underrated comment xD
Most relatable comment ever.
This usually happens when woman have hit the wall or are close to it
Right, they become very agressive.
Or are new to sex, and you are the world to them.
@@celdur4635 Why is that bad?
Had one at a previous job actually buy me gifts out of the blue. She was cool to talk to until "teh crazy" started. Even towards the end (I left that job), after she mentioned she was set to marry "a very rich guy" (I was somewhat relieved and assumed the gifts would stop), she was suggesting "having fun" was an option. (Her friend didn't blink an eye.) Really made for an epiphany.
@@gracefool it's great fun but I don't like toying with people's feelings. Whenever it ends they are heartbroken. Now, more to the point, relationships should be a give and take not lopsided to one of the two, it puts too much pressure on the receiving end and too much expectation on the giving end.
Mr Lario, never trust a beautiful woman especially one that is interested in you.
-Magneto.
never trust a big butt and smile that girl is poisooooooooooooon
I remember that scene
Magneto was the first mg(ni)tow
Well it especially applies when you see the context of the situation. Context is everything.
That line became a life rule for me. I heard it first when I was 13.
This is a new twist on an old saying. Beware strangers bearing gifts.
The old saying is 'beware GREEKS bearing gifts'
@@sugarnads it is 'beware the Greeks and those bearing gifts'
Beware strangers bearing tits.
Easy come easy go
This thread is like "Jim...James...Jimothy."
I dont need to worry. No woman has ever been into me :}
We're safe my guy
same here...
Yup! I'm not even bad looking and I've never had this happen to me!
@@galaxysurfer1122 perhaps we are too handsome for the ladies...
корова пу ayyyyyy
Love Bombing can also mean you’re dealing with a narcissist: Building you up to tear you down.
Yea that happened to me and it almost destroyed me. Getting better now I'm free.
@@DeanB23 how u got caught?should have killed her or done something to her i mean come on why would u like fall victim?make her ur victim
@@gamersforlife3440 Wow, great advice professor. Did you major in psychology or in psychopathy?
@@Baalaaxa some psicopathology is normal in men, but it can go bad too.
Mirroring & Love Bombing are the main combos to look out for
I recently dealt with a girl that was all into me from the get go...one day she just ghosted me out of nowhere and next thing you know, she was pregnant by another guy lol ...so I agree
Same here
Truuee
You are lucky, good that you are safe
Cluster-B default setting
you almost struck by the lightning. good thing it hit the other guy. i feel sorry for the other guy though
The only thing is I don't like when a girl purposely sabotages a relationship just to see what you will do. It's more than annoying.
I mean the solution is pretty obvious. If the relationship is sabotaged then its over and not your fault. So leave. Don't even make a spectacle of it. You don't have that kind of time.
Mistakes are forever and will always be a part of the relationship even if you're together for 100 years.
@@dylanmorgan5589 That may sound easy to you, but when the person was first a good friend, leaving ain't something you want to do. Every case is different.
@Lee Dawson It was definitely a test in my case, but who is she to test me? I don't have time for endless tests.
How do you know that the sabotage was on purpose, and not the habituated reaction of someone with childhood wounds from her unresolved traumas?
@@raularmas317 Because she told me herself she was testing me. 😅
You’re correct. This is a huge red flag. I’ve seen this exact behaviour before.
did you at least enjoyed this exact behaviour?
Marius Kunz No, I didn’t enjoy it. I couldn’t trust her behaviour.
My ex honestly. I've learned though
If she acts like this with you she is probably acting like that with every guy lol.
How did it end?
Usually (in my experience) when I am approached by a woman it's bc she wants something from me, not bc she wants me
I’ve done this when I was less mature/secure in myself. My advice would be, ask her what specifically she likes about you. That will help distinguish whether she is in love with you or in love with the idea of being in a relationship
Golden comment thank you
Homer Socrates nah actually one one ever did love me it’s possible but rare af idk if it will ever happen again
Like she'll tell you...hah!
If we ask a woman this ,she will think we are insecure
@Leslie Starck how she dresses?
What can that tell you about her?
This is my ex to a tea.
I fell for it with a blind fold on.
When the blindfold came off everything was gone. Including my house.
Happened to my dad. He was homeless afterwards. Lost his kids and everything.
@@hanzo7616 what the fk?damn we gotta take over and change the laws fast af things are looking bad
@@gamersforlife3440maybe stop signing away literally half of your wealth and possessions only to prove to other people that you love this person with a big ceremony. It’s dumb.
"I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."
- Groucho Marx.
This is a big giant golden nugget of knowledge!
Here in my garage
KNOOOOOOLEDGEEEEE
I had a woman like that, married her. We've been together for over 20 years now. It's not always fake.
You struck Gold!
You probably deserved it then
You have to give more context
Untill all the affairs come to light...
Is probably not all the time, some women is like that after faced bad experiences and went through difficult times. So depends on her experiences but I’d imagine is more probably to get a bad women.
I’ve had this. They leave just as fast as they came.
If you don’t know the nature of women, or people in general, and you’re desperate, you are extremely susceptible to manipulation.
I've come to a point I am tired of caring about all this crap about how woman work, red flags, what to say or not say. Not to speak of modern feminism gone wrong. Worst time to be a man it feels..
When it comes to emotional struggles, nobody prepares men for anything. Not a word of these truths was mentioned when I was growing up. Men are simply supposed to figure out all by themselves. Some patrarchy indeed!
And by figure out all by themselves really means being taken advantage of in 101 ways. Patriarchy indeed.
Why depressing?
We men shouldn't be needy of women and have a lot more time to better ourselves while women need a family much earlier in life to be secure and not alone for the rest of their life
Im glad to be a virgin 19y/o men
I know i got so much more time to enjoy my life and become better
Just don't think about women as a priority and do stuff with life
Yo homi
Sex is great, don't think of being a virgin like great achievement ... It isn't. You don't need to work hard or train yourself to be a virgin.
Women aren't a priority ... That's for sure.
@@aarvin1 Being pure is the greatest achievment.
Arvin Peopleinlove
Im not thinking its a great achievement at all
Neither sex being a bad thing
Being miserable cause you can't have pussy is the big prob
I have so much more to do outside craving pussy all day and its much better for men to do things they enjoy,get better at something,than do none and become resentful of women cause they can't have sex
You got your head screwed on right dude, your only 19 plenty of time for girls trust me, focus on your self right now, become a high quality guy, learn to save and invest early as possible, your older self will thank you so much.
I am 25. Mr. Grace, sir, I find your videos are like a natural anti-depressant. The way you explain female nature saves me a lot of headaches, time, and pointless efforts. Good job man. I'm from a third-world country but seems women are the same everywhere especially early to mid 20s.
Yes, I have traveled to many countries. I have made love to women of every race. They are all the same buddy
My wife has been holding back a little for 35 years. Definately high quality
John Kennedy, you definitely have a high quality wife there. Congrats! Sounds like you have a great wife. Good luck John!
@@61dodgelancer nu u all tek it bek
@bruce banner E=hf
My wife stopped going down on me one month after the wedding.
@@ed5308 did she bring in some other mouth to replace hers?
Sad reality, we deny the people who love us unconditionally, but we run after the people who love us by reasons and terms.
Nobody loves you unconditionally
The high quality women went extinct since the 70s.
Shiiid before then
Actually It begun in the 60s.
I dont think so
I've heard there is still lots of quality women in places like Eastern Europe
@@ChrisM-bn5vr it's a lie
Desperation, eagerness, 1st time love experimentation, running from something, needing a protector/slave/provider, her next branch to monkey to, etc.
ALL are fast to give... and fast to leave.
It will spoil fast and she'll be looking for her next guy while still with you. Probably from day 1.
A woman who is willing to wait/wants to take things slow, is a good thing.
If you don't take time to get to know each other it CAN'T last.
Who knows what deal-breakers are lurking beneath the surface?
Think of it as the longer she takes to give it up - the better it will be and the longer it will last.
Good things are worth the wait and wait YOU MUST!
😎
But doesn’t this just feed the friend zone justifications? A guy that is still in the matrix thinks this is happening and will happen however, in reality she has friend zoned him and he is stuck for some time. Definitely a fine line to walk.
@Antonio Giuseppe All true, but after say six months it should be clear if it will go anywhere or not. Past a certain point, it's being friend zoned or led on, and that is something no man with self respect should tolerate.
I Disagree
If she doesn't open her legs on the first or at most second date, she never will
@@visionist7 if she DOES open her legs on the 1st/2nd date then think about how many times she can do so in a year... 182-365+ times... 🤮
A woman willing to go slow and get to know you gives you the time to do the same.
Those are the keepers if all's well.
If it takes at least 6 months; how many men in a year... 2? Less?
Far, far preferable to a 1,000's+ body count, no morals, and damage so deep it's now on the surface screaming at you.
Of course, as others have mentioned, if by 6 months she's not willing to take it further then she probably never will, but you WILL know by that point whether she's worth pursuing further.
What you’ve run into with a woman who “loves” everything you love and agrees with everything, is 9 times out of 10, a grade A narcissist.
Your giving them fuel (sense of purpose), by unknowingly allowing them to use your traits as their own. To them, at that point in time, you are perfect, until your not. When the point of perfection wears off, get ready for hell on earth.
Beware of the fact that the abuse that will be employed, will for the most part be based on manipulation, otherwise known as mind-fuckery to the third power.
Get away. Run as fast as you can
It is also a trait of BPD
Moving too quickly is often an indication that your partner actually has narcissistic personality disorder. They “love bomb” you at the outset in order to groom you for the erratic combination of devaluation, toxicity and cheating that is soon to come. They begin by moving quickly because they know that works - after the love bombing stage you might actually tolerate their devaluation of you for far too long as you attempt to regain that abundance of attention that they had once shown you. They know this.
Hmmm..
Ngl I recognize some of that in myself :S
@@Stormcloakvictory atleast you admit it but it isn't a good thing man
@@davute9546 idk, I never had attention/affection in my younger years/late teens, so I kinda started love bombing random people for affection, but if I'm honest to myself and the other, more often than not I have no clue what I like about her, we usually have no shared interests/hobbies at all, but yeah I just do and during such a period I do truely feel very in love, but after a year or two I tend to isolate myself again.
@@Stormcloakvictory yeah man listen, I am 14 and male so don't expect me to know what is happening with you because I have no clue😂. Maybe take your time before you into a relationship with someone and appreciate and respect your partner because that is why relationships exist. Don't rush into things and get to know the person and appreciate the person that loves you.
@@davute9546 yeah definitly true.
Lasting relationships are about respecting and appreciating eachother, value both perfections and imperfections of the partner.
What you might dislike right now, you will miss when it's gone.
Hehe but prepare for random unexplainable hormone fueled attraction towards people in the comming years.
Let's not forget about "love bombing" by a predatory narcissist to trap you emotionally up front so she can emotionally drain you over the long run. Causing pain is their ONLY reason for existence.
The truth HURTS, but the truth will SET YOU FREE
People get high on drugs all the time to escape the pain from reality.
Beat 'em Back video games..
Me... molly ecstasy weed alcohol coke everyday
I actually dated a woman who was behaving exactly like you described. She was eager to have sex with me, she offered me a thressome many times, she was very clingy without any reason.
Never in my life I was so suspicious about a woman as much as I was back then.
When she finally stopped texting me, I felt a big relief in all honesty.
Thats weird.
Quis Her race was so important to describe here wasn’t it?
@@deanholder4509 Actually yes. A lot of minority women perpetuate that clingyness through their fetishisation of white men. Seems you're not aware of the racepill.
@@deanholder4509 yes and I am a black man. So what's it to yah?
Quis Being black had nothing to do with her throwing herself at you, in my opinion. I am black and have had both white and black women act that way. Saying she was black implies that that is a common thing to just with black women, which I wouldn’t say is the case.
Never stop what you do Alexander Grace, this reminds me of too many people, way too many when I was learning what matters to me, what rules I need to enforce and what boundaries to set eventually simply settling on the golden rule and I elevated myself to a level I am proud of... leading to me searching for something to justify walking out. The cycle sped up until I said enough, giving up was not the answer and I hope you all take responsibility for your lives and build happiness because your past does not predict the future it just enlightens you.
The woman on the left @11:35 said she's been using her femininity to get what she wants from guys. I don't see anything feminine about her, do you?
was kinda thinking that as well.
Generic female body parts, nothing else.
My mum was psychotic, she was however occasionally capable of flashes of incredibly impressive creativity and lateral thinking. One thing she said to me repeatedly when I broached the subject of going out with a girl, is the world is full of women who want to murder you. This bit of advice has saved my arse on many occasions, for which I am truly thankful🥰💆♀️🤣❤️
Sorry, I may be slow but I don’t get it, or don’t fully get it. I haven’t watched this entire video, by the way. Anyway, by “murder”, do you mean “take advantage” and “exploit”? Or something else, like actual murder?
@@zuhairreza actual murder, but also financial and spiritual murder.
@@seeitpickitbinit2510 Gotchu!
So in my generation, there is very few women which are „hot“ and are a high quality women. And if there is one, it‘s damn hard to find her.
@@user-bt4ji2bb6v true
They don't exist. Stop believing in fairy tales.
@@keithsantana145 sounds like the male version of a leftist feminist "there are no good men" !! Those women exist, but you are not up to their mark perhaps
@@adflix424 It's not just leftist Feminazis saying this. All I see on UA-cam and social media is how men are bad, trash, etc. Where are these so-called good women who don't act like that going to start calling out the BS of the Leftist Feminazis? Even the mainstream gets on that man bashing bandwagon. I an not a leftist and never will be. I get rejected because I am too short. They also say I am too nice. I can't change my height in a natural way. I can work on my 'being too nice' part. How many people, men or women are going to date someone who is disabled, or has cancer. I would like to see more women who don't agree with the leftist Feminazi narrative come out of hiding and challenge them. I my experience, most women seem to want a guy who treats them badly. They leave a good guy and chase after the Chads and Tyrones. Any guy who shows them the least respect, love and kindness to them is considered boring because there is no drama.
Women will sometimes do that to get pregnant.
@Mojito Yep they want that c um so they can get money from ya stop filling their wombs with ur seeds stop it u gotta stop bruh
@@gamersforlife3440 gotta save our generation
@@happysaladd8951 Yep
I'm grateful for your knowledge Alex. You're continuously reminding me to remain accountable for my actions as a high quality woman!
Thank you, Darth Mimit, for leaving a comment here where it must often seem like hostile territory. I appreciate your willingness to entertain discourse on these challenging topics. Good on you.
Wouldn't have it any other way! Facing the truth about men and women's difference has been the best thing for me. :)
@Sentient being Absolutely, although might seem hard to believe.
@@darthmimit153 I thought the last high quality women lived in the 70s
I guess we can call this the return of the high quality women
I call bullshit. A ton of women are looking for channels like this just to see how the game is evolving, what new angle to use in order to stay on top and in control. Every single time I see some girl bullshit like you and honestly it's sickening. If you're serious, prove yourself by actions. Not words. Till then I'm taking that with a shot of penicillin.
I have a story. I had a friend of mine who wasn’t the greatest with girls. So to his surprise he found a girl that liked him, but not in a gradual way. This girl was super generous and horny, I told him “dude be careful something is wrong with this” he refused to listen and went with her, next day he was in the misleading conduct office, and was being escorted by two police officers. That skank filed a false allegation against him, and now he is in trial with a maximum sentence of 12 years. She only wanted to get close to him to get back at him for “bad behavior” and teach him a lesson. I told him it was a bad idea but did he listen? NOOO! Now he’s gona pay for it with his freedom. Never trust women and especially generous women
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@@davidpadilla1354
So dancing and singing are ok? Nice.
Also you shouldn't reference rapture because that comes from one of those fictional books from the 20th century you shouldn't read .
Don't waste time on all this games with women. Do your purpose and work .
What is purpose?
Only you can answer that question for yourself.
some one what is a man’s purpose?
@@erikg5776 I have no idea that's why I'm asking.
I agree, but I also believe it's important to know all this stuff so you can identify it more easily and save yourself a lot of trouble
This should be obvious. The fact man don't know this makes me sad.....
Personally i believe that too much emphasis is put on concern about relationships....UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE YOUR OWN MATE!!! Improve yourself for the sake of self-improvement...period.
Women *_never_* like you, merely the internalized preconception they imagine when looking in your direction.
Everything you say or do *_subtracts_* from this 'ideal.'
True, they love the idea of who you are. Although sometimes you might do or say something that happens to reinforce or positively add to the image she has of you, but note that it happens to do so, and you’re not actually aware or in control of it. It’s that whatever you do, women are going to misinterpret it in either a positive or negative way. It’s a game of illusions and fantasies, but sometimes it works out in our favor too. Just know that the thing you’re saying to her will be translated into something else in her mind, so you’ll have to say the thing that will incorrectly get translated into the thing you want her to hear / understand! (If you care about getting through to her and having some kind of communication)
Ouch
Well said. That's why being mysterious about who you are perpetuates the "perfect guy" fantasy in her mind. You'll never be more attractive to her than before you ever open your mouth.
That is literally what everyone does, it's not something W O M E N do
@@BygoneT that is true. But as a woman’s emotions fluctuate more, it’s likely that her impression and opinion of a man will do so, too.
Thank you for this video. It's exactly what I needed at this point.
Met two ladies online (because of covid). One, 8 hours away (and is a friend of several friends) has no kids, but adopted a 9-year old as her daughter. She is interested in developing interest through casual conversation, and serious questions. Not making plans to get together for a date yet.
The second, a couple of years older, came on strong. First date, dressed to the nines. Loves to cuddle, tells me how she likes to play dress up, school-girl outfits, cosplay, and willing to do what I want in between the sheets 3x per day.
It's like you read her like a book, and I'm suspicious.
Lol you prat. You can go with an escort and not have these problems
I'm only immediately suspicious of a chick that's been avoiding you for a decade while knowing you, and all of a sudden, they start talking to you and devoted to you.
Very true. That might be one of the reasons why i am already 7 years with my girl with all ups and downs, because we did not at all need each other in the beginning, but found out we have the same values and respect eachother. Let‘s see how it will develop further on:)
The Ugly Truth is better than The Beautiful Lie ...
^ siempre
Describes my ex perfectly. She tried to run game on me cause she was older. She was so sweet and did anything I wanted at first. But I could tell she was trying to keep her story hidden. And over time, I started to pay close attention to the things she'd say and do. She couldn't stand to be corrected on her bad behavior. Downright creepy in retrospect. This is a fantastic video!
Same brother, my first ex definitely noticed my naivety and took advantage. In retrospect id say theres a high chance she has some sort of cluster b disorder.
@@callanc3925 can it really be classified as a disorder when majority behave this way
Women choose to dress a certain way to attract male attention but it depends on the man**.
well, not the dress. Intentions are.
Who couldn't help staring at the caterpillar on his shirt
I was more looking the photo on the wall and noticing that it is crooked. From now on I will always check it. Apart from that it was very interesting and I only wish I knew this years ago.
This is not depressing. I love your content. You know what's depressing? Thinking no one likes you and you're okay with just being friends because no way anyone likes me and not being true to yourself because you're disillusioned into thinking that's normal and then being tossed around by girls or missing ALL the signs of flirting with a high-quality woman who tries for a whole year and finally gives up and you only learn the truth days, weeks, months, years AFTER the woman texts you for the last time and you "didn't know why, she ghosted me for no reason!" People like me need your advice because we don't have our own truth. We thrive on people telling us the truth so we can put it into action and see that we've been acting on life sub-optimally. Thank you!
My dad gave me this advice. Be wary of the woman who chases you. Some of the best advice he gave me
My nona always told me " its better to be alone than miserable". Your content is so appreciated.
This is an incredible video. This just happened to me. I guess she was rebounding + is insecure and can't be by herself. But even though I've been in several relationships, I never had an interesting girl show me this kind of attention before. But of course, just like that, she was off (probably to the bigger, better deal). Hurts like hell because you finally get a glimpse of what you thought was love, only to vanish. This is very emotionally abusive behavior, whether intentional or not.
I just had exactly this situation, and you explained very well how it messes your head up .
I think this is cultural dependent. I have dated asian women that are 100% devoted. It's pretty ingrained in their culture.
Advice about women is always culture specific.
So if I've found an asian (half chinese half indian) acting overly devoted this isn't an indication of a hidden agenda?
@Sentient being Places like China and India have high populations because they have been ongoing, successful civilisations for thousands of years.
They had advanced agriculture a long time ago.
@@MrAnperm wow just like everyone else.
Carter Stone exactly!!
damn you're so good at putting out ideas and thoughts into words, Alex. so impressive. keep it up
I just saw your pfp has the mask of bard You're a league player!
@@davute9546 ahaha yeah, i play a bit :p
Your videos are helping thousands of men and women! Women are so confusing. You're providing a great service for all the people that watch your channel! Thanks for all your hard work! I love talking about your videos with my girlfriend! She usually agrees with you. Keep up the great content!
If she is been agree. It's a red flag 🚩
I decided at a young age that the dating game isn't worth playing it. The girls make the rules up, call the score and decide the price. It's a game only girls can win.
I just focused on myself, let women show interest (~1 a year) and eventually I got married.
I think the main problem is:
1) we, men, over-estimate the winner price that we are going to get.
2) we are not conscious of how much effort we really put into getting the winner price.
Like in Poker:
-Don't put too much on the table until she does. Otherwise she'll know your hand.
-If she plays a game with you, you have good cards.
-Know when to quit.
From a woman’s perspective: this is true!
@@oliguayasebesteves166 goddamn man😂
@@oliguayasebesteves166 lol
Because she doesn’t like you she likes your money .
The joke's on you pal, No woman likes me, No suspicions to be concerned of XD
This is true. Don’t be like me and learn it the hard way...
Your videos brought it all together for me. I had a woman who did all these infact she persuaded me to live with her and was angry when I refused at first. She even wanted me to marry her and I did. She did all the favours, extra nice and boom she met another guy online who she never met before and wanted to leave me. I talked sense into her then she stayed, to cut the story short she has been doing this, and finally I had enough. And when she mets the guys online she basically tells me that they are better then me lol. Or more sexier than me as she nitpicks at my shortcomings... Now she is with a new guy she met online and had sex with him under 3 weeks of knowing him as she stayed at his house for 4 days she Even used my money to get something for herself. We separated but I’m trying to get a divorce. I always thought she was a high quality woman but I was wrong. Thanks so much for this video. You have taught me a lot
You got a sub because I like the intellectually honest middle ground stance and how straight up you are with your words. You see more than the typical person ever does.
In every relationship, one loves more than the other
Not really, most of the women I had/have are like this and generous not only in bed but financially as well + cooking, cleaning, and being loving & supportive. I've had night stands who turned out to be incredibly amazing long term partners.
To be honest I'm a now businessman, but even before I was lucky to have been spoiled with great women ... So I won't spend a second with a woman who isn't into me or treating me like a king. 😎🍾
You know, it takes one to see one ... I can spot/recognize a high quality woman among a crowd of people, the energy is different. I think it's the same for HQ women spotting the energy of men.
kind of agree, you read all this comments with all this guys been decieved in one way or other, but in my life all my long terms has all been respectable and good womans, except my last one, shes kind, but a bit wack :), but its not that i didnt see it, i was weak
There isn't such thing as "low quality women" and "high quality women". Women act surprisingly alike and agree with each other in a surprising fashion. What happened with you, is that you found a woman who was interested in you. This is fine. Women get interested in men whose position they find high. But she isn't a member of a hypothetical group of enlightened "high quality women". She is just interested in you. Women will act nice when they are interested, and act as bad as possible when they are not. They act to *purposely avoid* men to whom they are not attracted. This might be interpreted by the avoided men as "low quality behavior". But it's just women not being interested. She is acting "low quality" towards one man, and "high quality" towards another.
@K S i agree with you 100%, i experienced this two weeks ago in a theatre, i tried to say hello too lady i kinda knew as i passed by, i said hello to her by her first name and had to repeat myself twice up close before she turned and snarled at me, her friend tried to set me up with her over a year ago but i'm focusing on myself atm, i couldn't believe how ignorant she was to given she was a friend of a cousin of mine and we knew similar people, all she had to do was say hello and i was moving on anyway, it shocked me , thankfully i didn't let her friend set is up because i seen too weeks aso how much of a pig she would have turned out! women are getting worse and even the older women can see it and say it
@K S i think. I was brought up in a Christian home. Where honesty was one of the ground pillars. And you know the agony, of telling the truth. Tho you dont want to. And you can recognize all the tellings of another human being when they are of the more honest righteous type. And its also quite easy to tell when people are not honest. Cause you hear the all "beautiful" words and stories, but how they acting says different. And its a risk of the person being of lower moral. So i believe i managed to stay away from poisinous man and woman in my life
@@communist-hippie i tell the truth even when it hurts, i tell the truth as much as possible, its good for the soul
Nodded my head through this whole thing. My ex was like this; she came on pretty strong and consumed all of my free time on the weekends and it soon became clear that she was running from the problems in her own life. It also became clear later that she had bad relationships with friends and family as well as a low self-esteem. It wasn't long before I figured this out and started to distance myself.
I met a woman like that and she’s the mother of my two kids and we are still happily together. We started out not wanting anything serious, so yes it was exactly how you said in the beginning but we both evolved together into wanting more out of each other. Yes she was running away from something but so was I so we ended up two broken people coming together.
If you want your happiness to last, stop watching bitter videos made by single men who will never have any happiness with women because of their cynicism and false wisdom.
Two kids. Lions and tigers and bears, oh my. Don't know what state you married in, but two children plus alimony is going to cost you a bundle. Everything is fine until it's not. Good luck.
@@oneofyou6773pretty sure Mr. Grace has been with the same woman for like 13 years…….sooooo. Also he just doesn’t get on woman and has bad news about men too. It is nice to toss around buzz words but we both know the world is a cruel place. Be as wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove.
@@robgoins3672 harmless as a dove that is cute, no. You need to be dangerous or the foxes will walk past you one day and decide to gobble you up.
Re: 2 broken people coming together... Well aren't we all!
Couldn't agree more!💯
Just went through this a couple of days ago. She was giving me way too strong affection from the get go. I stayed cautious. After roughly 4-5 months of knowing and spending time with each other, she confessed to me at a coffee that she has been pregnant for 11 week now. From someone she met after me. He's supposed to be her boyfriend now😂(poor guy doesn't know what's ahead😢)
Gosh I am glad I watch this channel🥳😁🫶
I think I knew this already subconsciously, its just nice to hear it in words and be able to reflect on it.
Thank you so much. I can't even describe how much it helped me. I been through unexplained hatred and unexplained love from a woman, which made me paraniod to the core. I could not found the answer in the video, but I certainly found what mistake I was making..
She could be using you as the rebound guy to get over a previous relationship.
fine by me
the "problem" is, everybody has their own definition of "value".
Ignorance is Bliss. Knowledge is forewarning.
The more I hear about "high quality women", the more I believe I've never ever met one. I doubt their existence a lot.
Borderline women will do this too. They actually do feel that strongly towards you because they project all their fantasies onto you. It gives them huge relief and satisfaction, thinking they finally found everything that they want in a person. As soon as they see enough flaws or traits that they don't like, a switch flips in their mind and you become like a demon who tricked them, although they were tricking themselves all along. The recent obsession with narcissism seems highly driven by these women who feel they are victims of men who "fake charm to seduce them" but don't put up with bullshit, or simply set standards and are willing to cut people who don't meet the standards from their lives. Borderline women pick up the worst aspects of the "many bad men" who they date and by the time they're 30 do not resemble a real person anymore, just a collection of destructive habits and beliefs.
good point
The actual depressing thing about this, is it doesn’t matter. Even if none of the red flag that you’ve mentioned is shown, it doesn’t mean that you’re not getting played.
Knew my ex for three years, and She was always kind to myself and others, told me that she respected my insight and would ask me for relationship advice for her friends even.
Then we finally got engaged, and she was a different person the next week. One who had basically no respect for me, thought I was an idiot, was only happy if I was making a sacrifice of some sort for her and used threats to try any push me to do what she wanted.
Paprikash That’s one way to put it
I don't think it's always fake. I think it really depends on the way a person was raised, I am a woman and have always had a great relationship with my father, brother and every man in my family. I think this definitely shaped the way I view and care for men. That's why hearing the phrase "men are trash" pisses me off. Whenever I see a woman mistreating and manipulating men, I can be almost sure they never had a good, caring male figure to look up to.
True
It’s scary how accurate this guy is!
People always respond with "you just have self esteem, how sad" when I say a woman showing interest in me is a huge red flag. The truth of the matter is though, the only women who show interest in me are either married, insane, evil, some combination of those or all the above. Decent women just aren't attracted to me. Can't say for certain why, it's just the way it is.
The best u can do in that situation: ghosting
What if you can't tho
@@steveg4954 I don't see a situation when u can't ghost
^ siempre lol 😂😂😂
That avatar though
I know perfectly what you mean when you say it but sometimes it makes me laugh when you talk about high value men and women, I just imagine a guy showcasing people like: "this is a pretty good piece: really generous, high value but low maintenence" 😂😂
I'd only be suspicious if a girl actually took a liking to me after being single my entire life. Cause in my mind I'd be thinking "is this real or is she just being nice?"
If a woman is too quick to jump into your bed, especially if she kept you in a friend zone for a long time, she might be pregnant and just wants you to take care for her and her kid while thinking that it is your kid. That happens to so many men all the time, it's scary. But it doesn't mean that every woman is scheming something by such behavior.
I agree. There is nothing at all dark or depressing about this. This is very, very true. Thank you for telling it straight!
I have always been spooked when girls are too into me too quickly, but I have later regretted that some of these may have been high quality girls who felt I wasn't attracted to them, even though I was. (Hindsight may or may not be 20/20.) I have had some friends with long-term, successful marriages who knew pretty quickly that they met "the one", but most with successful marriages were friends for a long time before becoming romantically involved. My most successful long-term relationship was with someone I had as a friend for a while before we dated.
I think you can get an idea of the quality of the person from the friends they keep, how much they can listen and interchange different ideas, how much they tolerate different viewpoints, how honest they are in work, what others think about them and other factors. It takes time and an honest look to sort this out. This "falling in love" thing can get in the way of this too. I think many "fall in love" with the idea of this person and not necessarily with the person himself or herself, and this is the thing to avoid.
Thank you greatly for doing these videos!
Anyone else notice the black bug crawling all over his t-shirt?
Not at 144p with my limited data lol
@@heisenberg3099 nu u stap
my gf did, then started looking for comments lol !
Why would I questioned myself if I know what I want? For me personally, she either follows me or not. If she starts playing testing games, she is out. No questions asked. Life is too difficult to engage in this kind of thought.
Suggestion be clear and concise about what you want or need. She either makes a decision for you or not.
So true , got with a GF that was obsessed with me, she changed her train tickets several times to stay with me in my art workshop.
Had a good time, to good to be true, she begged me to not ghost her one day like other guys and called me so romantic.
Quick in the relationship she was doing funky stuff like kissing my balls 😂 and I started thinking something’s wrong. ( her or me?)
The next day she told me she needs to leave bc she loves me to much and ghosted me ever since 😂👍
That lasted not so long but that was the only one I could consider a GF in my entire life since social media/smartphones. The rest not worth mentioning
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT Love bombing early in a relationship is a symptom of borderline personality disorder BPD. Feels fantastic for the first few months, until the switch is tripped and she starts to become paranoid about you cheating, angry, and, suspicious. The nightmare has just begun.😢
My experience you hit this spot on. Great video! Truth will set you free.
Your content is always filled with truth. Thanks for being here.