INFJ & ENTJ The biggest relationship challenges (and strategies)

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  • @user1230oo
    @user1230oo 7 місяців тому +24

    I’m an infj female and I have a close friend who’s an entj male. The things u said were all so on point! As an infj, I’ve never seen anyone with as great energy as him! I refer to him as a fireball Bcs his energy ignites sth within me, which draws me closer and closer to him fostering admiration for his qualities! I feel like I’ve unknowingly fallen in love with him . I don’t know if it’s the same for him. He definitely has sth for me but I’m still in doubt.

    • @Eyesofanenigmaticsoul
      @Eyesofanenigmaticsoul 5 місяців тому +7

      Dang same with me! I met an entj guy about 2 yrs ago, we still talk at least 1-2 times a week since we met. We had an awesome conversation and great energy flowing the day we met. I think I too have unknowingly fell for him. Even though i believe we were in a past life together and were destined to meet because of so many instances that have occurred between us. Anyways, I admire his strength, dedication how damn SMART he is. He is so knowledgeable in everything he does and says. I know all that is with in me too, but i think i fail to harness that within me and i see it in him showing it proudly. Maybe that’s why I like him so much. He likes me too, but he’s not a mushy lovey dovey kind of guy, he’s work driven 😏 i enjoy his presence and i guess it will have to stay that way. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @perish9641
      @perish9641 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Eyesofanenigmaticsoulhope it works out, for both of you! 💗 (from another infj girl)

  • @joelrankin
    @joelrankin 4 місяці тому +14

    I asked my INFJ girl to marry me a couple of months ago. I'm an ENTJ.

    • @annemarieINFJ
      @annemarieINFJ  4 місяці тому +5

      Sending my best wishes to both of you

  • @amberclark2129
    @amberclark2129 2 місяці тому +4

    I’m an INFJ married to my ENTJ husband for 12 years. This helps so much he recently just took a personality test at work and I was surprised to learn this was his personality but it makes total sense. Thank you for these good strategies… He is definitely very black-and-white and I’m so indecisive. I’m so glad he’s the leader in a relationship and this video helps me appreciate our differences more and also know where we need to work on things.!

  • @debmanrique6466
    @debmanrique6466 4 місяці тому +6

    I'm infj, and have always been drawn to entj's. I love their energy, self discipline and reliability.

  • @FlametoFulfillment
    @FlametoFulfillment 6 місяців тому +10

    I am so proud of you for saying that you're leaning into your intuition. I am in the same space right now. I have been telling people , "hey I'm a slow thinker lol, but once come up with something it is magical" lol 😆 ✨️

  • @baijalneha
    @baijalneha 4 місяці тому +4

    Well the only way to overcome or tackle all those challenges, believe me, communication is the answer. Both personalities are equal human and have amazing potential to understand each other because love surpasses all these barriers. So anyway out there who is currently facing challenges in there relationships because of personality differences, just talk with an open heart and you’ll start believing in miracles again! Love ya!

  • @elisabethe1234
    @elisabethe1234 4 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for the video Anne Marie, it was really interesting and a lot of things that sounded very familiar😅 INFJ woman married to ENTJ man for 6 years here. Very interested to hear more. Don’t know any people in that same type relationship.❤

  • @tinahoward521
    @tinahoward521 Місяць тому

    my husband and I have the same dynamic. and it is very interesting learning that I do have to sit boundaries in order for this situation to work because he is so dominant

  • @AnonW
    @AnonW Місяць тому +1

    ENTJs don't actually shut off any perspectives, they already know all the perspectives since Te is constantly taking in everyone's thoughts and have made an executable plan out of it. It is pointless thinking that anything can happen from an execution perspective, you need to organize and structure likelihood and proceed with the most likely or most beneficial method, not sit there and be paralyzed in what ifs.
    ENTJs see so many roadblocks, hindrances and inefficiencies, most types aren't doers and essentially sit there and accomplish nothing and ENTJs are kind heartedly reminding people to just do it.

  • @Blackbirdinthedeadofnight
    @Blackbirdinthedeadofnight 3 місяці тому +1

    As an infj who constantly make space for other I thought the opposite would be someone who makes space for you?
    I find myself learning to establish boundaries and working hard on it. It’s hard for me to do. The thought of having to fight for myself with the person I am close to the most and spend everyday with seems exhausting and kind of sad.
    I door slammed my childhood best friend because of not establishing boundaries with her and her not considering me and my sacrifice. I wouldn’t want that to happen again. I learned my lesson about boundaries then but I don’t want a repeat..

  • @wendybesse90
    @wendybesse90 Місяць тому

    By denying myself the boundaries w an entj, he felt like an estj. Bevause he took wuthout regard to how i felt & was terribly abusuve.

  • @m2pozad
    @m2pozad 7 місяців тому +7

    I'm not a good judge of people who want to be in charge of others. It seems like a misguided orientation. To lead people, don't you need to be a people person- someone who people are drawn to listen to and learn from? Plenty of people want to be comedians too, but they just aren't funny. So can ENTJs learn to be charismatic?

    • @annemarieINFJ
      @annemarieINFJ  7 місяців тому +9

      ENTJs are hilarious and extremely charismatic! They are gifted at reading people and situations. I think the leadership comes naturally from them knowing what needs to be done and being willing to take action.

  • @annevanderlaan6441
    @annevanderlaan6441 3 місяці тому +2

    Are ENTJ’s Alpha males? Or?

    • @header_guard1112
      @header_guard1112 Місяць тому

      We're Gamma according to Socionics (See LIE).

  • @lilyLily-gk2pd
    @lilyLily-gk2pd 2 місяці тому

    Why i dislike infj that much? I am entj female, I always feel infj is too hypocritical, not honest at all

    • @zaidhajju2804
      @zaidhajju2804 2 місяці тому +1

      What is your experience with INFJs?

  • @wendybesse90
    @wendybesse90 Місяць тому

    Now i need to hear what an entj -male needs to do to have a healthy relationship w infj. -femalr