"I couldn't, could I?" - Mary and Matthew dancing scene, Downton Abbey 2x08

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  • @darhemceniza9389
    @darhemceniza9389 7 років тому +781

    I still remember the feelings I had when I first watched this scene. This has to be one of my favorite scenes in all of the tv shows I have watched.

  • @fizzao1342
    @fizzao1342 5 років тому +429

    This is such a strong scene. It is beautifully acted, scripted and shot and gets me right in my tear ducts every time.

  • @Boringkip
    @Boringkip 7 років тому +568

    Camera work is just brilliant. Spinning around them just like their hearts would spin in this moment. Goosebumps..

  • @jiminhong95
    @jiminhong95 6 років тому +291

    An unforgettable scene in Downton Abbey. I just love how music changes as they talk about their feelings.

  • @marianamoreira3645
    @marianamoreira3645 7 років тому +679

    "-Can you manage without your stick?
    - You are my stick.
    - We are a show that flopped...
    - Oh God Mary I am so so sorry, do you know how sorry I am ?"
    I CANT !!! JESUS!! Mary and Matthew FOR EVER

  • @Boringkip
    @Boringkip 6 років тому +656

    These series are nothing without Matthew. So so sad Dan had to go..

    • @TheVivianable
      @TheVivianable 6 років тому +17

      Clementine so true! I literally stop caring, unconsciously.

    • @fezzes428
      @fezzes428 6 років тому +62

      Clementine true, i stopped watching after he died. i felt like the whole show's main plot ended and i was so heartbroken

    • @gustavocarvalho2300
      @gustavocarvalho2300 5 років тому

      You say the true

    • @wbbsnwkwbowv
      @wbbsnwkwbowv 3 роки тому +24

      In my opinion Marys character development just started after he died ...

    • @vaiciciaku
      @vaiciciaku 3 роки тому +2

      @@wbbsnwkwbowv oh, thats interesting! I did not like her too much until then, now Im curious!

  • @clarafication5037
    @clarafication5037 6 років тому +292

    anyone else loves how he gently places her hand on himself at 2:35 ; A ;

  • @prakritipandey5250
    @prakritipandey5250 4 роки тому +83

    Years keep passing by ...but every time you watch this you feel something ... something strong ,sweet , nostalgic ,sadness ,romance ...but you feel something that's enough of beauty that this scene carry !

  • @paulasc9777
    @paulasc9777 Рік тому +17

    After knowing the ending for these two, I can't help but rewatch this as a ghostly memory. It gives me the end of Titanic scene vibes. Like this moment got frozen in time and she'll go back to it once she's dead after a long life with someone else.

  • @peachbooks3199
    @peachbooks3199 2 роки тому +28

    this was brilliantly executed. one of the best scenes in the series

  • @Ελευθερία-σ2ω
    @Ελευθερία-σ2ω 4 роки тому +56

    "However much i might want to... "
    Gets me every time... ❤️

  • @bearcuddlerful
    @bearcuddlerful 3 роки тому +141

    The way Dan delivered his lines: "Oh God, Mary, I am so so sorry. Do you know how sorry I am?" You can feel the depth of Mathew's feelings. You feel the longingness but they just couldn't be together. 😟🥺😭
    You also cannot beat Lavinia's love and kindness, after what she saw. After which she tried to release Mathew from her even if she loves him very much. ☹️

    • @КаринаРажик-р9ц
      @КаринаРажик-р9ц Рік тому +3

      Они смогли быть вместе, просто упёртые ослы! 😅
      А Лавину действительно жаль, она и себя обманула и Мэтью её обманул!

    • @elizabethmailaparampil9279
      @elizabethmailaparampil9279 Рік тому

      Where's everyone

  • @Sara-rr9ss
    @Sara-rr9ss 7 років тому +204

    Ahhh one of my favourites scenes...

    • @akritiarora1904
      @akritiarora1904 7 років тому +2

      Sara same

    • @Sara-rr9ss
      @Sara-rr9ss 7 років тому +4

      So sad that he dies though

    • @evisser2482
      @evisser2482 7 років тому

      +Sara WOOPS.. Spoiler alert!

    • @Sara-rr9ss
      @Sara-rr9ss 7 років тому +1

      +E Visser, it's old news, he died on the show like 5 years ago

    • @evisser2482
      @evisser2482 7 років тому

      +Sara calm down, it was only a joke! I knew he died, you just said it so abrubtly, it made me laugh!

  • @huldrrrr9486
    @huldrrrr9486 5 років тому +42

    The music is just gorgeous...

  • @abhisekbhattacharjee9503
    @abhisekbhattacharjee9503 4 роки тому +29

    One of my most favourite scenes in the entire series... :') Love the way the music slowly fades in and out and changes with the emotions...

  • @pam8sj0611
    @pam8sj0611 4 роки тому +38

    The more I see Mary & Matthew scenes the hurt my feeling is. I thought I already get over it #cry

  • @Misspol222
    @Misspol222 4 роки тому +44

    I was so invested in these two that I couldn't keep watching after he was killed off

  • @Leanderkyo
    @Leanderkyo 6 років тому +33

    One of my favorite scenes. Watched this hundred times before 😂 So beautiful ❤

  • @Saltysaltire97
    @Saltysaltire97 4 роки тому +63

    Mary's dress is gorgeous. Beautiful scene between Dan and Michelle.

  • @hannahahle
    @hannahahle Рік тому +12

    Stunning scene. Mary & Matthew are true love

  • @harad4233
    @harad4233 6 років тому +206

    I watched until a few episodes before he died. I couldnt stand continuing the series after him and Sybil died😢

    • @valentinalanza1811
      @valentinalanza1811  6 років тому +26

      Sob! It was really hard, actually...but the show was more than just Matthew and Mary... even if I've spent the last three seasons being angry at Mary for wasting so much time with poor Matthew desperately in love with her... give it a try, if you can! You won't regret!

    • @iamadreamer7461
      @iamadreamer7461 6 років тому +5

      Valentina Lanza after season 3 it became sloppy and they wrecked the work they (*cough* matthew) had done with mary's character. Don't bother with the rest

    • @justemz9128
      @justemz9128 6 років тому

      I know me too.

    • @ruhidina9489
      @ruhidina9489 6 років тому

      Please say me the link

    • @hatiahbegum5659
      @hatiahbegum5659 6 років тому +6

      Valentina Lanza not a chance, I was only watching for Mary and Matthew, they were the backbone of the show

  • @hamidahamida5950
    @hamidahamida5950 4 місяці тому +4

    I love Mary here. Such an air of grace and sophistication. A true natural. Her and Matthew were truly made for each other.

  • @karlavaleriapachecodealba6889
    @karlavaleriapachecodealba6889 2 роки тому +10

    THIS is one of my favorite Lady Mary and Matthew Crawley scenes ever😍

  • @D8hhhf9
    @D8hhhf9 Рік тому +11

    6 years and i still didn't find any couple moves my feelings like them
    I can't get over how they ended 💔💔

  • @agatelcia
    @agatelcia 2 роки тому +11

    It is one of my favourite scenes, I can't forget when I watched it the first time ♥

  • @adervalbrigido9864
    @adervalbrigido9864 6 років тому +78

    "You are my stick"... ❤️

  • @skatebride9205
    @skatebride9205 6 років тому +22

    My heart becomes warm every time I see him ❤

  • @damaris828
    @damaris828 4 роки тому +10

    I am obsessed with this scene

  • @sweetpari2949
    @sweetpari2949 7 років тому +31

    My favorite. Excellent choice

  • @worldagency
    @worldagency 3 роки тому +12

    I binge watching this alone in Netflix these weeks and when Lavinia said Hello I ran around the house silently screaming. I was like OMG 😱 !!!
    What a scene.

  • @gustavocarvalho2300
    @gustavocarvalho2300 5 років тому +25

    This scene is simply beautiful. Lady Mary and Matthew forever ❤💙

  • @nailaakhtar9058
    @nailaakhtar9058 3 роки тому +24

    This scene demonstrated how Matthew is the perfect man. His heart is with Mary and he’s drawn to her, yet he’s willing to put that aside to fulfill his promise to Lavinia

    • @brendachow4465
      @brendachow4465 Місяць тому +1

      I watched this 10 years ago and every rewatch enforced my adoration of Mary and Matthew...too heavenly and cannot be of this world.....
      no wonder Matthew was taken away 50 years before his time.....!

  • @Three-Headed-Monkey
    @Three-Headed-Monkey Рік тому +11

    The writers and actors did a very good job by making sure Lavinia and Mary got on. More specifically that Mary didn't really show jealousy over Lavinia and liked her very much, and did nothing to try and sabotage their relationship. Otherwise there is no way that the audience would have accepted Mathew and Mary as an eventual couple again after Lavinia's passing.

  • @lisalucy890
    @lisalucy890 3 роки тому +14

    "you are my stick". And in the 4th season when she remembers this moment 😞 I've just watched the 3rd season and I don't want to keep on watching it, I can't bear his death.

  • @ThelouwseFD
    @ThelouwseFD 7 років тому +62

    My favorite Downton scene

    • @valentinalanza1811
      @valentinalanza1811  7 років тому +3

      Louise GaryAVBl such intensity...my heart melts every single time!

  • @AsteriskBlight
    @AsteriskBlight 4 роки тому +12

    I feel their feelings in this scene. Wow so strong

  • @shrijitasgable
    @shrijitasgable 3 роки тому +30

    My best scene ever is when he proposed with the snow swirling and then he picked her up and and they went round and round in happiness and the camera zoomed out and you could see Matthew carrying Mary round and round with Downton in the background. Downton belonged to Matthew Crawley he was the most perfect heir ever for the place, I’ll never forget those scenes in the first or second season when they play that music while he’s slowing falling in love with Downton after learning of his inheritance. He was the ultimate master and heir of Downton to me. No one could be as great. I can’t believe they didn’t show Robert’s reaction after he died or the rest of them’s, he loved him like his son and heir. So many beautiful moments lost, how could Dan have left it breaks my heart Dan. You ruined one of the greatest shows of our lives with your decision. :’(

    • @shrijitasgable
      @shrijitasgable 3 роки тому +6

      And also ruined one of the greatest characters and love stories ever. #heartbroken fan. Matthew Crawley forever.

  • @ayshaamin3552
    @ayshaamin3552 4 роки тому +11

    This scene is love! I feel pain whenever I watch this

  • @Ekiya-s4g
    @Ekiya-s4g 3 роки тому +3

    I remember watching this movie in my 1st year of college. I saw his ads when I was in school, but only as an adult I was able to understand the whole point of this wonderful series.

  • @istantwice1149
    @istantwice1149 4 роки тому +7

    I can’t get over this scene

  • @NHBoudy
    @NHBoudy 6 років тому +17

    My favorite scene ❤️ I loved them so much 😢

  • @tinzzz7
    @tinzzz7 2 роки тому +5

    omg, Mary's wearing THE DRESS

  • @jbrzr
    @jbrzr 5 років тому +9

    They were perfect

  • @mylovelypianoo
    @mylovelypianoo 6 місяців тому +1

    My favorite scene!😍🎻🎵🛎️✨🎵😃👌🏻🌹🫶🏼

  • @hatiahbegum5659
    @hatiahbegum5659 6 років тому +7

    Best scene in the history of downton abbey bye

  • @eloisatsatsas608
    @eloisatsatsas608 5 років тому +64

    -Where is everyone?
    -Not sure. Cousin Violets gone home
    -What about you?
    -Waiting for Lavinia and Mother
    -Doctor Clarkson wants Lavinia to stay here. He´ll see her tomorrow
    -I don't know this one?
    -Actually, I rather like it
    I think it was in a show that flopped. Zip goes a million or something
    - Can you manage without your stick?
    - You are my stick
    -We were a show that flopped
    -Oh god, Mary. I am so so sorry. You know how sorry I am
    -Don't be.
    It wasn't anyone's fault.
    If it was, it was mine
    -You know cousin Violet came to me; told me to marry you
    -When was this?
    -A while ago. When we knew I would walk again
    -Classic Granny. What did you say?
    -That I couldn't accept Lavinia´s sacrifice of her life, her children her future, and then give her the brush off when I was well again, well I couldn't could I?
    -Of course not
    -However much I might want to
    -Absolutely not
    -Hello?
    -What are you doing up?
    -Shouldn´t we be getting back?
    -Its decided.
    Youre staying here.
    Doctor Clarkson coming in the morning, so he can treat all of you together.
    You can borrow some things until Matthew brings you what you need.
    I´ll go and organize a room

  • @aurorerich
    @aurorerich 4 роки тому +29

    2:17 is this OST anywhere isolated? It's wonderful!

  • @modestynina
    @modestynina 3 дні тому

    I always cry at this scene, reminds me of someone 😢

  • @FysSessions
    @FysSessions 2 роки тому +2

    My heart melts😍

  • @1982military
    @1982military 3 роки тому +3

    Best scene ♥️

  • @fionaoconnor7879
    @fionaoconnor7879 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful scene

  • @possiblyfading1
    @possiblyfading1 5 років тому +22

    The heart wants what it wants

    • @vaiciciaku
      @vaiciciaku 3 роки тому

      Even though Lavigne was a kinder person.

    • @patriciaowen6243
      @patriciaowen6243 Рік тому

      It is said again in All creatures great and small for Tricky the dog❤

  • @isabellaingrassia396
    @isabellaingrassia396 4 роки тому +1

    My favourite scene ever

  • @shrijitasgable
    @shrijitasgable 3 роки тому +10

    For me his death doesn’t count anymore ever since I came to know it was Dan’s decision to not return but that the showrunners would have kept him on obviously. So that kind of calmed me down and released me.

  • @luiginagalosi4744
    @luiginagalosi4744 6 років тому +1

    This scene is beautiful 😍😊💝 !
    l love " Downton Abbey " 😃💟🌷🌹 🌲🍀 ! 👌👏 🤗 !

  • @nailaakhtar9058
    @nailaakhtar9058 3 роки тому +2

    I love that their theme plays as they kiss

  • @stefano_4593
    @stefano_4593 4 місяці тому +1

    like her stare at the start "I will have him now"

  •  7 років тому +8

    Lindo demais! Amava esse seriado

  • @Nightseeker18
    @Nightseeker18 5 років тому +2

    what a scene

  • @a1opix
    @a1opix 2 роки тому +1

    What song is the violin piece during the kiss????

  • @Happyheretic2308
    @Happyheretic2308 6 місяців тому +1

    That beautiful dress …

  • @mariaoh3167
    @mariaoh3167 2 роки тому +3

    What is the name of this song?

  • @nailaakhtar9058
    @nailaakhtar9058 3 роки тому +2

    However much I might want to.😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jessicakrawcow4260
    @jessicakrawcow4260 Рік тому +1

    I wish I was as cute as these two

  • @nandanasaikia3696
    @nandanasaikia3696 5 років тому +22

    Yeah when your fiance is suffering alone in her room, instead of being with her, you show your cowardly side and kiss another woman. Good job.

  • @eldablack
    @eldablack 6 років тому +7

    Well, that's the moment I died. R.I.P. me

  • @saralprakashsrivastava4643
    @saralprakashsrivastava4643 5 років тому +8

    I really wish to dance on this song like Mathews with my love and in the same setting. But the problem is that I haven't found that person yet. So....i look for the silver lining...

    • @jackwilliamthorne8377
      @jackwilliamthorne8377 4 роки тому +2

      You will

    • @saralprakashsrivastava4643
      @saralprakashsrivastava4643 4 роки тому +1

      @@jackwilliamthorne8377 thanks for your reply. It made me wonder a bit, I wrote it 11months back. And it's still the same adorable moments and imaginations I have with this song 💜

  • @stevencole4602
    @stevencole4602 3 роки тому +1

    This looks like a very hard scene to capture, I bet this took many takes to capture the final scene

  • @whatamidoingwithmylife6849
    @whatamidoingwithmylife6849 6 років тому +4

    not sure about the music, is it "nothing to forgive" or "such good luck"?

    • @valentinalanza1811
      @valentinalanza1811  6 років тому +2

      whatamidoingwithmylife the song is Marion Harris "Silver Lining"..or its adaptation! Love it so much, as it perfectly fit the scene 😍 then, Downton ost 😍

    • @katethe5th555
      @katethe5th555 6 років тому

      I think in this scene is nothing to forgive

    • @BlueSwampyCraft
      @BlueSwampyCraft 5 років тому +4

      whatamidoingwithmylife it’s a combination between “An ideal marriage” and “Such good luck”. They are both being played and intertwine at a point.

  • @ABirdOnTheMoon
    @ABirdOnTheMoon 5 років тому +10

    Wasn't he still engaged to that lady while kissing Mary!? Yes I haven't watched Downton Abbey yet but I am much aware of the story because of everyone around me including youtube clips. I just cannot believe they behaved as if nothing had happened!

    • @hangmango
      @hangmango 5 років тому +3

      Agree with U, even I like Matthew & Mary couple, I still think that Mary behave like such a bitch

    • @nordarcher8624
      @nordarcher8624 5 років тому +8

      @@hangmango How did she behave like a bitch? Matthew kissed her, though maybe she didn't exactly push him away, and after that she told Lavinia to stay and get treated by the doctors.

    • @vaiciciaku
      @vaiciciaku 3 роки тому +4

      Its not only that they were engaged, it was like 2-3 days before his wedding with the lady that came down the stairs and who actually just got sick.

    • @ABirdOnTheMoon
      @ABirdOnTheMoon 3 роки тому

      @@nordarcher8624 Yes .. that's how a good mistress act. Well Mary is a Bitch .. because she wanted Matthew to kiss her and she wanted Lavinia gone from his life. Matthew is an asshole because he didn't respect his soon to be wife. He actually carry most of that guilt. The fact that these two end up using her money to save Downton is disgusting to me. The think they are worthy of their titles and realstate but they owe it to Lavinia to save their asses. I am glad Matthew died because that love was taunted. It was karma .. because you should never do what they did. I mean unless your morals see a grey area and you think your needs/desires justify your actions .. Mary saw that .. Matthew less which is why he felt guilty for awhile and Mary even had to fight him over it.

    • @janedeluxxe
      @janedeluxxe 3 роки тому

      @@ABirdOnTheMoon Mary was a bitch she looked good being one.

  • @taynahcoelho8715
    @taynahcoelho8715 7 років тому +17

    What is the name of the song playing on the phonograph? It is so pretty

    • @Dilara.a
      @Dilara.a 7 років тому +6

      Taynáh Coelho Look for the Silver Lining-Marion Harris

    • @taynahcoelho8715
      @taynahcoelho8715 7 років тому

      dilara akgun thank you very much

    • @tacosmexicanstyle7846
      @tacosmexicanstyle7846 7 років тому +9

      Taynáh Coelho
      awkward bc Zip Goes a Million was a 50s show, Matthew is clearly a time traveller

    • @taynahcoelho8715
      @taynahcoelho8715 7 років тому +5

      tacos mexicanstyle yes, apparently. This song is from 1921 and if I'm right the year in that scene is 1914 or 1915

    • @tacosmexicanstyle7846
      @tacosmexicanstyle7846 7 років тому +2

      Yeah you're right, the song came out well after the scene (it's 1919 I think)

  • @stefano_4593
    @stefano_4593 4 місяці тому

    smart asses to do it in the main stairswell!

  • @princessilaprincess4004
    @princessilaprincess4004 7 років тому +8

    oddio T___T quanto mi mancano, che dolore

    • @Alesyn
      @Alesyn 6 років тому

      PrincessIla Princess e Lavinia ha rovinato tutto

    • @Alesyn
      @Alesyn 6 років тому

      PrincessIla Princess e Lavinia ha rovinato tutto!

    • @doraschiavoni5447
      @doraschiavoni5447 2 роки тому

      Sto impazzendo nel cercare la traccia di sottofondo 🥲...aiutatemi

  • @Theaterkidhormii
    @Theaterkidhormii 5 років тому

    How is that song callwd

  • @kofoolanrewaju1639
    @kofoolanrewaju1639 5 місяців тому +1

    Of course the flop was Mary's fault and her dramatic family. My goodness, if Lavinia didn't die, these two should have still ended up together because wow, if he was still thinking about Mary this way after everything, Lavinia couldn't compete with that

  • @Theaterkidhormii
    @Theaterkidhormii 5 років тому

    How is the background song called?

  • @fionnaighconnaughton8589
    @fionnaighconnaughton8589 13 днів тому

    You are my stick! Swoon

  • @Introvert_Bandi
    @Introvert_Bandi 3 роки тому +5

    Sybil to Richard: You are my ticket!
    Matthew to Mary: You are my stick!!
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯

    • @pia5543
      @pia5543 Рік тому

      Nonononono it was TOM not Richard. Richard was that guy from the press with Mary

  • @ivannasiller9466
    @ivannasiller9466 6 років тому +4

    Epic

  • @asosisos659
    @asosisos659 5 років тому +9

    i had no respect for both of them after this scene his fiance was right upstairs and sick and there were decorations for THEIR WEDDING everywhere

  • @muhamadaffiqnazir3125
    @muhamadaffiqnazir3125 3 роки тому +3

    I stopped watching Downton Abbey after Matthew died.

  • @possiblyfading1
    @possiblyfading1 3 роки тому +1

    Yes Mary it was all your fault!

  • @АлексейБаранов-з1ц
    @АлексейБаранов-з1ц 4 роки тому +2

    Не прощу сценаристам Мэтью и Лавинию :( После третьего сезона можно не смотреть

  • @adrian3355w
    @adrian3355w 3 роки тому +2

    When Matthew died I lost all interest...

  • @sangidas5942
    @sangidas5942 4 роки тому +2

    Wow the dialogues sucks.. no one talked that way in 1900s,,,

  • @nashlistens
    @nashlistens 6 років тому +1

    i like David Haller more

  • @missgj
    @missgj 5 років тому +1

    and then he fcking died... fck this world

  • @mujenn
    @mujenn 6 років тому +8

    I love this scene but i hate mary¡¡¡

  • @thepsychoticempress03
    @thepsychoticempress03 5 років тому +3

    O DISGUSTING!!!
    Poor lavinia 😭.

  • @FallenAngel9979
    @FallenAngel9979 3 роки тому +1

    Mary should NEVER have married Henry Talbot. Yeah he’s handsome and sexy, but he’s BENEATH HER. Maybe if it was Sybil who was courting someone higher it would have been ok, but Mary would never have allowed the irritating Edith to marry higher! Bad form Julian Fellowes!

    • @kristelpi652
      @kristelpi652 2 роки тому +1

      They wanted to give edith a present for always being overlooked I think. I doubt Mary would have remarried

  • @margaretharypkema9290
    @margaretharypkema9290 2 місяці тому

    I didn't like this scene, and I thought Matthew acted shamefully here!

  • @kokoweltal369
    @kokoweltal369 3 роки тому +2

    They don't have any chemistry... plus mary acting sober doesn't suit her. It feels unnatural

    • @Garbancina
      @Garbancina 3 роки тому +7

      Wdym they don't have chemistry???
      They have plenty of chemistry, you can literally feel the tension in the air as they are dancing

    • @kokoweltal369
      @kokoweltal369 3 роки тому +1

      @@Garbancina hey hermione love your name but sorry to say no they don't have any chemistry. It seems forced. The tension is not of love but tge emotional mess they created. The emotional baggage they have

    • @Garbancina
      @Garbancina 3 роки тому

      @@kokoweltal369 Thanks, you may be right about it being the baggage, but it's a beautiful scene anyway :)

    • @majalovric6920
      @majalovric6920 2 роки тому +1

      Mary is so narcisstic, cold and spoiled..