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  • Mary gives birth to a healthy baby boy. After seeing his newborn son, Matthew decides to drive back to Downton but he is involved in a car accident and dies.
    From season 3 episode 9: The Crawleys go to Duneagle Castle to celebrate Christmas with the MacClares. Everyone is delighted as they fish, hunt, and dine. Unfortunately, when the Crawleys return, tragedy strikes. Will things ever be the same again?
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  • @GoldenRose116
    @GoldenRose116 5 років тому +2096

    By far the most heartbreaking moment of downton abbey. Non of Mary suiters ever came close to Matthew. Their romance was amazing 💗

    • @nazgullord3198
      @nazgullord3198 5 років тому +175

      Sybil's death was more heartbreaking for me, but I agree. NONE of Mary's suitors were fit to clean Matthew's shoes, not even the one she married!

    • @kshatriyapa
      @kshatriyapa 4 роки тому +47

      William's death was quite heartbreaking as well.

    • @barchetta575m
      @barchetta575m 4 роки тому +34

      @@kshatriyapa William's death was heartbreaking for sure. I missed Matthew and William in the following seasons.

    • @katy3901
      @katy3901 4 роки тому +31

      I can still remember the screams of my aunts when this happened. No one expected a sad episode that Christmas, especially after they'd just killed off Sybil.

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +2

      Arhan Raje-Deshmukh He wasn’t the heart of the show but I must admit I was sad

  • @shantihg8333
    @shantihg8333 5 років тому +2089

    The most Happy and Sad moment of the series in less than 7 minutes...

    • @Saucyakld
      @Saucyakld 3 роки тому +2

      So so sad! New baby and now this!

    • @nicklubrino2606
      @nicklubrino2606 3 роки тому +11

      The saddest is Isis’ death. Robert wanted Isis to sleep in his bed on her last night..still gets me teary eyed.

    • @Mittenslunchbox44
      @Mittenslunchbox44 2 роки тому +1

      What about isis and Sybil huh

    • @32446
      @32446 2 роки тому +1

      It ruined my Xmas 😭😭

    • @Andrea-uc1wz
      @Andrea-uc1wz 6 місяців тому

      😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @BlueSwampyCraft
    @BlueSwampyCraft 4 роки тому +847

    For me this series ends at 3:56 and they lived happily ever after

    • @alberttsai8832
      @alberttsai8832 4 роки тому +83

      Me too! God I wish they could have let Mary and Matthew have their happy ending... Not even Sybil’s death could compare to the tragedy of this moment...

    • @mariannabernardi8957
      @mariannabernardi8957 4 роки тому +2

      Me too

    • @JJ_Justice
      @JJ_Justice 3 роки тому +12

      @@alberttsai8832 nor could o'brian causing Lady Cora to lose her baby

    • @maidinulster
      @maidinulster 3 роки тому +28

      So totally agree, killing Matthew of was the worst part of this series

    • @whitewizard953
      @whitewizard953 3 роки тому +15

      Unavoidable since the actor wanted to leave the series

  • @iceskatings
    @iceskatings 3 роки тому +462

    It's so sad that the birthday of Sybbie and George it's also the day of death of one of their parents.

  • @lillianasiqueiros417
    @lillianasiqueiros417 4 роки тому +1536

    I was relieved that at least Matthew got to meet his son before his death, but his death was heartbreaking nonetheless! I don't think I've ever shouted so loudly at the t.v. as I did when he died!

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +39

      I literally wanted to throw my tv out of the window. My blood pressure and stress level 📈📈📈📈📈📈

    • @lillianasiqueiros417
      @lillianasiqueiros417 4 роки тому +7

      @@jehannethompson1432 Same!

    • @anamarier4791
      @anamarier4791 3 роки тому +3

      Haha right!

    • @Perioddramagirl
      @Perioddramagirl 3 роки тому +3

      Couldn't have put it better myself

    • @oliviacampana3091
      @oliviacampana3091 3 роки тому +9

      Yes same with me and I had someone knocking at the door to see if I was alright

  • @katialewinska3540
    @katialewinska3540 3 роки тому +392

    I think it's always cute how Carson was caring about Mary as his own daughter

    • @louisewestie989
      @louisewestie989 2 роки тому +16

      Well he’s known her since the day she was born and was there for all of her milestones and watched her grow up and I remember his story he told Mrs Hughes about Mary as a child

    • @raesarchives
      @raesarchives 2 роки тому +11

      Well she was his favourite as he told her in season 1

    • @helenarichard
      @helenarichard Рік тому +4

      The only "company" that is allowed to call itself "one big family"

    • @12classics39
      @12classics39 Рік тому +9

      Just like how Thomas later cared about George as his own son.

  • @or529
    @or529 4 роки тому +308

    To me the most touching moment was when Mary visits Matthew's gravesite to let him know she is going to remarry but Matthew will always be her one true love.

    • @taroman7100
      @taroman7100 3 роки тому +36

      Matthew was never replaced by anyone good enough. I didnt care for the race car driver.

    • @robertandhollyscorpiofan2697
      @robertandhollyscorpiofan2697 2 роки тому +6

      I liked the interaction between mary and Isabel afterwards….

    • @therra1101
      @therra1101 2 роки тому +23

      @@robertandhollyscorpiofan2697 We never got enough of Mary and Isobel. What a shame.

    • @נפךמרנץ
      @נפךמרנץ 2 роки тому +9

      Couldn't agree more. I never liked Mary, but that was her most moving scene ever.

    • @audreykennedy90
      @audreykennedy90 Рік тому +2

      I like Charles. He was a good match.

  • @sandranorman5469
    @sandranorman5469 4 роки тому +159

    When my Mother was born at home (1920) my grandfather went out front to get a breath of fresh air. When someone asked what the baby was he said, “I forgot to look.”

  • @nina1522
    @nina1522 5 років тому +888

    Carson forgetting to ask if the baby is a boy or girl 😁🤗❤

    • @CGwarrior12
      @CGwarrior12 4 роки тому +63

      Carson has had a few moments of being a complete and utter dork, this was probably my favorite. Next to him practicing using the telephone in Season 1

    • @AC_RDR2_Q
      @AC_RDR2_Q 4 роки тому +35

      Wow and Then mirs patt more was like “ugh men” 😂😂

    • @harringt100
      @harringt100 3 роки тому +3

      I mean...it is the sort of thing that you find out soon enough, isn't it?

    • @lindabiggs3905
      @lindabiggs3905 3 роки тому +1

      So sad😭😭😭😭

    • @demisemihemidemisemiquaver
      @demisemihemidemisemiquaver 3 роки тому +9

      "Men!"¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @01Mary02
    @01Mary02 5 років тому +487

    I often wonder if Dan Stevens regretted leaving the show as it turned out to be such a huge hit and then the movie on top of it. The show was never the same after they killed Matthew off.

    • @midori4760
      @midori4760 5 років тому +86

      Mary@ and he was not able to achieve the measure of success he thought would come his way after leaving the show. Up until now, he’s mainly know only for this role😐

    • @CJPDeQueen
      @CJPDeQueen 4 роки тому +72

      @@midori4760 well I'm not sure that is completely true. He just finished of as the lead of a three series/season tv show and was the male lead in the successful Disney film Beauty and The Beast so he's not done too badly since DA.

    • @exaudi33
      @exaudi33 4 роки тому +37

      I hope he regretted it bitterly!

    • @jlhabitan50
      @jlhabitan50 4 роки тому +8

      @@midori4760 Legion and Apostle were great though.

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +31

      I never watched anything with Dan Stevens after this

  • @josemiguelmarquescampo4902
    @josemiguelmarquescampo4902 5 років тому +640

    Ah, dear Matthew Crawley... such a good-hearted character! Matthew's tragic accidental death is absolutely brutal... but masterfully handled, a touching script, beautifully acted, and accompanied by an extraordinary musical score. It's more than heartbreaking, but very well done.

    • @julz3tt3
      @julz3tt3 5 років тому +34

      Yes, I mean the irony is he survived the first world war, recovered and was spared the Spanish flu only to die in a car crash while he was jn the peak of physical health.

    • @harringt100
      @harringt100 3 роки тому +5

      @@julz3tt3 After the "May they be happy," Ouija board message from Lavinia(?) I can sort of picture the two of them meeting in the afterlife only a few years after she said goodbye and "Be happy," to him. I wonder if she smacked him.

    • @olha_
      @olha_ 2 роки тому +11

      I totally disagree it's masterfully handled. In terms of acting, yes, but in terms of script, not at all. Having a fatal car crash out of the blue on an easy and flat and empty countryside road in great weather conditions, without hitting another car or being drunk or anything like that seems very unlikely. Even if his car fell off the road the way it did, he would most likely have ended up injured, not dead. Considering how it happened in the last episode of the season, it was very obvious they killed him off because the actor was leaving. I didn't believe that crash for a minute.

    • @TheKat12364
      @TheKat12364 2 роки тому +3

      @@olha_ I laughed for a good minute. It felt so cartoonish. And than when he was actually dead. I was like really why kill off another person on the day of their childs birth. (Sybils was sad but made sense). I didnt come back to this show for months.

    • @skyblue_studios2991
      @skyblue_studios2991 Рік тому +1

      @@TheKat12364 they had no choice really Dan Stevens wanted to leave at the last minute maybe they could have done something else but he didn't want to be in one more episode

  • @KoiYakultGreenTea
    @KoiYakultGreenTea 5 років тому +3098

    What’s with the writers and killing off one parent hours after birth

    • @accccc17363
      @accccc17363 5 років тому +70

      i know right

    • @m.layfette6249
      @m.layfette6249 5 років тому +315

      Dan Stevens and Jessica Brown Finnaly both asked to leave the series. Killing off their characters was the Only "sensible" thing to do. #MissingSybill #MissingMatthew

    • @AleLibRiv
      @AleLibRiv 5 років тому +212

      No one the actor didn't want to continue in the show, so the creator didn't feel the character would just leave Mary and the baby, the only way of write him off without Matthew looking like an ausent parent and husband (which is against the nature of the character) was killing him

    • @KoiYakultGreenTea
      @KoiYakultGreenTea 5 років тому +50

      AleLibRiv just kill him off in a flash forward of 6 months later an episode later then

    • @AleLibRiv
      @AleLibRiv 5 років тому +24

      No one ohhh I just got your comment, sorry english is not my first language, well, I don't know why the creator did it this way, but we have to remember that shows should be the closest to reallity, in reallity some parents die when their kids are born, so, it's a way remember us that nothing should be taken for granted, I'm guessing only, at the end, at least for me, it was a clever move: the character​didn't lose his nature and the we see how Mary from being a neglecting mother transforms herself to a mature family woman

  • @LikeOMGDuh21
    @LikeOMGDuh21 4 роки тому +316

    Mathew brought out the best in Mary. He, Carson, and Anna were the only three for the longest time that knew and understood Mary for how she really is and loved her for truly being her.
    This was so sad to watch. Broke my heart all over again to watch. Just as sad as when Sybil was gone 😭😭😭

    • @marionarda2790
      @marionarda2790 2 роки тому +6

      And boy was it a full time job bringing good out of her

    • @zabavnaya-xt8tb
      @zabavnaya-xt8tb Рік тому

      @@marionarda2790 ikr mary is a selfish egoist snob

    • @WitchKing-Of-Angmar
      @WitchKing-Of-Angmar Рік тому

      ​@@marionarda2790 "Mh, Lady Edith, I didn't know you had rung."

  • @sarasr18
    @sarasr18 5 років тому +360

    That title is very "well that took a quick turn" lol 😭

  • @abhikthapa1291
    @abhikthapa1291 4 роки тому +181

    "U'll be my Mary always, because mine is the True Mary" - Matthew Crawley

  • @katherinee.1213
    @katherinee.1213 2 роки тому +88

    I have never, and I mean NEVER, been more shocked by anything that happened on a tv show than I was when Matthew died. I actually leapt from my seat, threw my pillow on the ground and yelled! Sybil’s death was shocking but not quite so much because it had been built up to throughout the episode rather than being so sudden. Matthew’s death was a tragically brilliant twist though, props to the writers for writing him out of the show in a believable way.

  • @kalex270
    @kalex270 4 роки тому +128

    The show certainly wasn’t the same without Matthew or Sybil. 😢 Whenever I rewatch the show, I always stop after season 3. But I respect the actors’ choices to try new things. Everyone has that right. Always gonna miss them, though.

    • @TheKat12364
      @TheKat12364 2 роки тому +6

      Really I found season 5 and 6 to have some of the best scenes. We get to see every one grow and us Sybils and Matthews influence to enrich the Abbey and valley.

  • @downtonviewer
    @downtonviewer 5 років тому +176

    THE worst Christmas night of my life!!! After the hustle and bustle of the day, all guests gone and food packed away...settled down for the Downton Abbey Christmas Special and we got _this_ ? I was devastated. It took a while to forgive Julian and even longer to forgive Dan. I got there in the end but...whew! It took a while.

    • @maxeyre2024
      @maxeyre2024 5 років тому +26

      It’s too bad as the rest of the episode was sooooo good. Imagine if it just ended with Matthew back home.

    • @CJPDeQueen
      @CJPDeQueen 4 роки тому +20

      I like and have enjoyed Dan Stevens in other roles HOWEVER I've not forgiven him still to this day for leaving the role of Matthew. I understand his reasons but I still hate it because I wanted to see Mary and Matthew love story to the end of DA. Of course it was sadly never to be....

    • @katy3901
      @katy3901 4 роки тому +4

      So true. We had everyone over- I can still remember all of my aunts and older cousins screaming like death when this happened. No one expected a sad episode on Christmas, especially not after Sybil.

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому

      Downton 654 that would be really weird

    • @torinicole633
      @torinicole633 3 роки тому +3

      I’m still not there yet!

  • @maxeyre2024
    @maxeyre2024 5 років тому +228

    That final Matthew and Mary scene is seriously one of my favourite scenes of the show

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +3

      The best and worst scene for me 😭

    • @VPGarg-pf2dy
      @VPGarg-pf2dy 2 роки тому

      @@jehannethompson1432 i know

    • @boomboombelle
      @boomboombelle 2 роки тому

      I know! I wish they would do an interview about it...so hard that it's just brutally cut off right after that!

  • @lxtatar7773
    @lxtatar7773 11 місяців тому +24

    Poor Mary is so reserved, even in the happiest of moments... "we've done our duty", "I'll remind you of that next time I scratch the car"... She loves him so much, yet she is just unable to express it fully. Interesting how he, who had obviously never had this kind of strict upbringing, is much more open in expressing his feelings. But he understood her, that's what made them such a good couple

    • @vickiross1025
      @vickiross1025 6 місяців тому +3

      So few cars are on the road & he has a fatal accident with a truck. Go figure.

    • @lxtatar7773
      @lxtatar7773 6 місяців тому

      @@vickiross1025 don't get what you mean
      he has a fatal accident bc Dan didn't renew his contract

  • @agnes3109
    @agnes3109 5 років тому +283

    I adored Mary and Matthew's relationship from the very beginning. I doubt it was love at first sight for Mary but that was definitely the case for Matthew. After 8 long years of them being in love with each other they found each other again. And then when they thought they were finally the happiest they would ever be the most tragic thing happens, Matthew's accident 😭 I get that they had to kill him off because Dan Stevens wanted to leave but I really want to see what would've happened if he were still alive 😭💘 Don't get me wrong I love that Mary found happiness again with Henry as she deserves the world but she will always love Matthew the most 😭😭😭

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +7

      I agree with this comment. Beautifully written but I don’t like Henry at all

    • @Book_Dragon2562
      @Book_Dragon2562 Рік тому

      Did she really find happiness with Henry though? Between her fears of being a crash widow a second time and his prolonged absence in the movies, it would seem Mary knew best when she tried to distance herself from Henry.

  • @a.walters123
    @a.walters123 2 роки тому +88

    This was honestly one of the most profound and emotional scenes in the entire series. When he was so happy driving down that sunny road… I just knew what was coming

    • @WitchKing-Of-Angmar
      @WitchKing-Of-Angmar Рік тому +2

      Because they never show full driving scenes, especially when they cut back to him after the house for the second time while driving. The clues all show up.

    • @madmaxmedia
      @madmaxmedia 8 місяців тому +1

      Many people don’t seem to like the finale but I thought it was a really powerful scene and ultimately very well done, considering the actor was leaving the show.

  • @gabrielleantille8008
    @gabrielleantille8008 4 роки тому +72

    Dan Stevens has the most beautiful eyes. He is so wonderful

  • @gretchenortner
    @gretchenortner 5 років тому +296

    Don't hold anything back in the title why don't you 😭😭😭. I want Matthew back so bad!

    • @aperson22222
      @aperson22222 5 років тому +2

      gretchen ortner Well, it _is_ a seven-year-old episode.

    • @gretchenortner
      @gretchenortner 5 років тому +8

      @@aperson22222 I know, but the title was just very straightforward lol

    • @aperson22222
      @aperson22222 5 років тому +7

      gretchen ortner Actually, if I hadn’t known better I would have thought the baby died too.

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому

      aperson22222 lol

  • @mattdavis1735
    @mattdavis1735 3 роки тому +42

    And please know that I cannot thank Dan Stevens, Michelle Dockery, and the writers for every single scene with Mary and Matthew! Their loving relationship will always be an example to me...their laughter, kindness, forgiveness, sacrifice, and perseverance towards and with each other was beyond wonderful to see...thank you all so much...

  • @moonchild712
    @moonchild712 5 років тому +325

    We should've known something terrible was about to happen as soon as the music took as turn while the Dowager was speaking

    • @alyssafoster4765
      @alyssafoster4765 4 роки тому +42

      I knew as soon as I saw is dumb, smiling face speeding down the road. Smh getting into a car crash in the 1920s.

    • @Jason-ib4fk
      @Jason-ib4fk 4 роки тому +22

      @@alyssafoster4765 Yeah... when they spend way too long concentrating on a driving scene... lol.

    • @glen7318
      @glen7318 3 роки тому +2

      @@Jason-ib4fk Far as I can remember, it was well known that he was leaving the show and was going to be killed off

    • @lizzy4075
      @lizzy4075 3 роки тому +2

      no, the moment we find out the baby's a boy. same with when sybil died and the name of her baby girl wasn't known until she died.

    • @questworldmatrix
      @questworldmatrix 2 роки тому +1

      It was such a cliche. Should have just had a hunting accident.

  • @zepper2422
    @zepper2422 Рік тому +9

    As soon as they showed Matthew driving the car, you knew something bad was gonna happen. Lol.

  • @MassEffectFan113
    @MassEffectFan113 4 роки тому +178

    I cried so hard seeing this. This also marks the moment when I stopped watching the show. It was never the same. I could tolerate Sybil leaving but not Matthew too.

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +14

      Exactly over a course of one season it was too much for me

    • @hippopottermus9856
      @hippopottermus9856 3 роки тому +8

      I didn't stop watching but the fact that Mathew died on his way back from seeing his child is so sad😥and especially all the things he said about how much he loved his new family ahhhhhhh😭

    • @TheKat12364
      @TheKat12364 2 роки тому +2

      I stopped to but came back. It gets so good after really

    • @thankunext1625
      @thankunext1625 2 роки тому +5

      I could hardly tolerate Sybil but I somehow forced myself because I was desperately in love with Matthew. After Matthew, I was done

    • @sethd6485
      @sethd6485 Рік тому +1

      it goes downhill for a bit but in the end it is actually really quite good. Season 5 but especially Season 6 are at this level. Henry will never be Matthew but it’s a different dynamic with Mary and I appreciated that.

  • @happybkwrm
    @happybkwrm 5 років тому +179

    After watching Sybil die, he must have been so worried.

  • @tehreemfatima646
    @tehreemfatima646 4 роки тому +259

    I don't know why I'm torturing myself with this scene again :((

    • @Hermione_Granger
      @Hermione_Granger 3 роки тому

      Same 😭

    • @kidistight
      @kidistight 3 роки тому

      Coworker and I was just talking about this, so I had to come see it again.

  • @cards0486
    @cards0486 4 роки тому +60

    “My dearest little chap...” You have to love Matthew. Unfortunately, Dan Stephens wanted off the show.
    So, as Allen Leech said, “And then we ruined everyone’s Christmas.” Two deaths of beloved characters in one season WAS rough.😢

    • @peteandpare
      @peteandpare Рік тому

      Sybill sure was pretty loved her marriage to except when Tom left her to find her own way she was pregnant also..sad when she died.

    • @cards0486
      @cards0486 Рік тому +2

      @@peteandpare It was several years ago that I discovered it’s more common in England than in America for major character actors to leave after their basic 3 year contract. Most often they get killed off.
      I thought,”Sybil and Tom are so in love. Why would she want to leave DOWNTON ABBEY?”
      Then I looked up Jessica Brown Findlay’s work after she left. She had many wonderful roles.
      So I understood why.
      And looking at the rest of the series Tom took on a major role in the Crawleys’ life.
      He certainly showed his intellect and talent in saving the property.
      And he learned that the rich couldn’t all be lumped together as oppressive to the lower classes.

  • @bobbidazzler1343
    @bobbidazzler1343 5 років тому +131

    Oh God, I loved Matthew. He was bloody perfect! 😥

  • @meggy0
    @meggy0 5 років тому +108

    I so wish Stevens stayed on the show. Matthew really was the heart of the show and it wasn't the same without him. I would have loved to have seen what he did at Downtown and how his family grew, I am guessing much of his plot lines were given to Tom instead. But they didn't really have a choice, and at least we got a lovely love story from it.

    • @taroman7100
      @taroman7100 3 роки тому +11

      The show lost momentum when he left. I dont understand actors. Fellows was not happy with him.

    • @TheKat12364
      @TheKat12364 2 роки тому +5

      I seem to feel the opposite of everyone. While I did love Matthew and what he brought out in Mary and did for the estate. (While his death was badly written, would have been better for him to get hit by a car rather than crash). I do like Tom and Mary push to keep Matthews ideas alive and expand them. I feel it gave Mary a much needed purpose she wouldnt other wose have had if Matthew lived.

    • @juliag.5114
      @juliag.5114 2 роки тому +4

      @@TheKat12364 I kind of agree with you, I hate that he left but i don’t know what other major storylines they could’ve had once they got married, had the baby and were running the estate. At least we had a chance to see Mary dealing with grief and rediscovering herself, becoming a business woman, it was really interesting

  • @ladyfoxwf1075
    @ladyfoxwf1075 4 роки тому +27

    That bit at the end with that beautiful smile on Mary’s face, thinking “I couldn’t be cruel, I’m so happy, I have everything I could dream of now, what reason do I have to be cruel anymore? I will always love you baby, I’m nice really, Matthew sees it, and so long as he sees it I promise you will too”
    And then he dies, and Mary's cold once again.

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +3

      Whether you like Mary or not you have to have sympathy for her. She was her her baby boy and her husband happily ever after. Then he died. Mary was so depressed in later episodes. She’s my favourite character bc after everything she went through to be together with Matthew and then this happens 😭🤬

  • @fannyknoll8242
    @fannyknoll8242 5 років тому +318

    This might be one of the sadest moments in the history of English's tv-drama

    • @ElyWill
      @ElyWill 5 років тому +1

      Fanny Knoll modern drama.

    • @stand_bye
      @stand_bye 4 роки тому +2

      The saddest moment in ALL of tv drama

  • @joanbernsten3960
    @joanbernsten3960 5 років тому +145

    Is your mission to get me crying?!

  • @annabellenonimous1302
    @annabellenonimous1302 5 років тому +33

    I start tearing up right at the start every time! He's so happy to see his child, so full of the future and love...

  • @connellwalker7873
    @connellwalker7873 5 років тому +75

    Yes, I'm bawling, too. The ugly cry. They are so tenderly sweet, and -- seeing Matthew after all these years -- is like finding your own brother again. Crikey.

  • @m.layfette6249
    @m.layfette6249 5 років тому +93

    Watching this scene after the fact...Makes my heart just sink and almost Stop. And when the Dowager says, "We don't always get your just desserts." That phrase is the epitome of foreshadowing if there ever was.

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx 5 років тому +1

      en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dessert

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +6

      I know. I literally felt my heart skip a few beats and then I felt like my heart sank. I felt like throwing my tv out of the window

    • @sarahjones1120
      @sarahjones1120 2 роки тому +2

      My heart almost stopped. At first, I thought he could have survived but then my stomach dropped when they showed him.

  • @annabella_prinx
    @annabella_prinx 5 років тому +20

    I've been rewatching the series and just cried yesterday for Matthew, now you post this and make me cry again. Whyyyyyyyyy 😭😭😭😭😭 Matthew used to be my favorite character.

  • @jiminhong95
    @jiminhong95 5 років тому +30

    With Matthew Mary was such a wonderful person. God they should've stayed together longer than this. So heartbreaking...

  • @pedrogaleano6722
    @pedrogaleano6722 4 роки тому +50

    Though I was also shocked at the sight of who was- at least to muy view- the best character in the show lying on the road with a bleeding head, I think that the writers handled Steven's situation very skillfully. They managed to keep on with a storyline of Marry taking over as the Queen of the estate and Tom as a former revolutionary-now charming gentleman. Definitely a great show with fantastic actors!

  • @mattdavis1735
    @mattdavis1735 3 роки тому +19

    Just watched this on Netflix yesterday and am beyond heartbroken...truly the greatest fictional romance in history...I loved watching Matthew's and Mary's every scene together...

  • @albinaterpay3949
    @albinaterpay3949 4 роки тому +17

    “I hope I will always be YOUR Mary crawley for all eternity”😭😭😭😭

  • @juliag.5114
    @juliag.5114 2 роки тому +7

    3:17 I don’t know what that baby did but the reaction in both their faces was adorable

  • @gretchenortner
    @gretchenortner 5 років тому +42

    I can't even get halfway through it without crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @saraho92
    @saraho92 5 років тому +22

    I always loved how the baby yawns when Mary says "tired".

  • @rosemacey
    @rosemacey 2 роки тому +8

    I haven’t enjoyed Downton the way I did since Matthew’s death, I watch it every night and I hold back tears missing him every time

  • @nickenchugget8263
    @nickenchugget8263 3 роки тому +8

    When Matthew was around Mary smiled more, was a happier and better person. With Matthew gone I felt like there was a hole both in Mary’s happiness and in the show.

  • @brookehobbs8711
    @brookehobbs8711 5 років тому +19

    Hate the ending, but love love love the way they shift the tone with violet’s line. Sooo perfect and heartbreaking ❤️

  • @julz3tt3
    @julz3tt3 5 років тому +18

    Atleast they got one last kiss xoxo
    Matthew got to see his son.

  • @aliendrone
    @aliendrone 4 роки тому +10

    And that it's the christmas special folks! Merry Christmas !!! hahaha i can`t imagine watching this the day it aired..

  • @geowinchester4573
    @geowinchester4573 4 роки тому +12

    he would have been such a good dad you can just see it in the way he acts around his baby off the bat im sooooo mad we never got to see it 😭😭😭 don't think i'll ever fully recover from this

  • @lecorsaire2283
    @lecorsaire2283 4 роки тому +43

    I give the writers credit for killing off two main characters gracefully. They could’ve replaced them but that never works out well. Film and great TV are all about immersion and nothing breaks that immersion like having two or more people play the same role.

    • @flyboy152
      @flyboy152 3 роки тому +1

      Julian Fellowes said he'd never recast the roles on DA. Apparently it had not gone well on some prior show he did.

  • @julz3tt3
    @julz3tt3 5 років тому +30

    Why did Dan Stevens want yoe leave? He was the centre of the Downton village and Abbey. Mary and Matthew were meant to be forever. 😓😓😓 RIP Cpt Crawley. You're still ever so missed even now in 2019.

  • @kellyramon8506
    @kellyramon8506 2 роки тому +7

    This ending is the most heartbreaking and shocking of all. I’ve rewatched it many times and it still hurts. I will never get over it…….💔

  • @questworldmatrix
    @questworldmatrix 2 роки тому +7

    The moment I saw him gleefully driving I already thought "Oh give me a break. Are you kidding. What lazy soap opera writing is this? I mean seriously. Again? "

  • @ghostwtm5652
    @ghostwtm5652 4 роки тому +5

    Just now started watching 3. Omg can't stand the thought of Matthew gone. Those eyes gone. : (

  • @bellarosa009
    @bellarosa009 3 роки тому +4

    I’m so late in watching this series, but I just watched this episode and couldn’t believe it. How sad that they killed off such a wonderful character. I loved Matthew. He was the center of the show for me. So very sad..

  • @PeepsMcNutley
    @PeepsMcNutley 5 років тому +24

    😢😭😢😭breaks my heart every time I watch this.

  • @twilightfan1228
    @twilightfan1228 Рік тому +4

    I have never bawled so much at a show/movie than I did at this moment. The emotional high followed by the absolute shock of Matthew's death was heartbreaking. 100/10 writing, but I hope for a different ending every time.

  • @kidistight
    @kidistight 3 роки тому +3

    Man I was so against watching this with my wife, once I did I was so invested. This episode CRUSHED me. LOL. I was like Matthew had gone through so much for Mary.

  • @cintavega
    @cintavega 5 років тому +14

    I still cry every time I saw this scene, it's the saddest death on the TV shows story, anyway, their romance was epic, and will always be my favorite one. Thank you Downton Abbey for giving us this amazing show ❤️

  • @mira9667
    @mira9667 3 роки тому +3

    Was also looking forward to the bond with Tom and Matthew. Wish he didn't leave, he was one of the main characters and a good person

  • @KyAl2
    @KyAl2 5 років тому +10

    Can't watch again since I already saw it the first time. The more I watch Matthew....

  • @LoKom12
    @LoKom12 4 роки тому +13

    Such a beautiful and horrific moment tied into one. I hated it and loved it all the same. God, Dan, you didn't have to kill me.

  • @mischamccarthy5887
    @mischamccarthy5887 5 років тому +9

    I bowled so much watching this!!! Now and when I watched it for the first time...😭😭😭

  • @august1763
    @august1763 10 місяців тому +1

    I never noticed Mary's foreshadowing line "next time I scratch the car"😓🥺

  • @skylilly1
    @skylilly1 5 років тому +50

    At least put in a comma. A baby, and Matthew dead on the road. This episode was tough to watch. Really liked Matthew.

  • @saul.t.2.969
    @saul.t.2.969 2 роки тому +1

    “I wonder if he knows how much joy he brings with him?” Doesn’t ever baby do just that?❤️❤️

  • @littlekasino
    @littlekasino 3 роки тому +1

    And this was the bloody Christmas special. Talk about being sad through the rest of the holidays!

  • @clarab325
    @clarab325 2 місяці тому

    rewatching the show rn and this scene is absolutely gut wrenching. beautifully shot, a tragedy right at the happiest moment of mary and matthew’s lives

  • @floralovespringandflowers6227
    @floralovespringandflowers6227 2 роки тому +6

    How sad it is that we all knew he was dead before she knew. The sadness was already birthed into her life but she did not know yet. Sometimes not to get to know something is peace.

  • @KW-rb4vf
    @KW-rb4vf 3 роки тому +19

    This 100% DESTROYED my whole Christmas

  • @patstokes7040
    @patstokes7040 3 роки тому

    This is the most heart retching episode for all of Downtown Abbey. No one saw it coming. All the beautiful and joy of the baby, everyone waiting for Matthew to come and not knowing he was already dead. How could they write some much emotion.

  • @JMWxx
    @JMWxx 4 роки тому +3

    *Yep. I was crying again. Legit SOBBED the first time I saw Matthew’s death. I was gutted when the actor that played him left Downton Abbey. Was never the same again!*

  • @loisen
    @loisen 2 роки тому +2

    I knew it would happen when he visited Mary for the last time. Everything he said seemed so perfect. I knew that something bad would happen

  • @rebeccamorgan2602
    @rebeccamorgan2602 5 років тому +19

    Really was ready to give up watching it after this episode 😭

  • @Lynn-qr2fr
    @Lynn-qr2fr 4 роки тому +3

    I hated how Mary’s dad never got to say how grateful he was to Matthew for the modernization of Downton . 💔 I’m just glad they had him meet his son and he was able to say goodbye to Mary.

  • @Sunny25611
    @Sunny25611 2 роки тому +4

    This was a lesson in why we must live life to the fullest every single precious day because to do so otherwise will leave us with a lifetime of regret. Imagine Mary thinking back on her statement that ‘Mr. Crawley must wait his turn’ to the nurse while he lie dead only a few miles away. . It gives me shudders every time I think of this scene.

  • @solmartel360
    @solmartel360 4 роки тому +5

    Best and worst moments..! Their chemistry is incredible in that scene! But did anybody notice how great her hair looks after delivering a baby..?

    • @eloisatsatsas608
      @eloisatsatsas608 4 роки тому +1

      exactly! you would Not look like that after going through labour

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому

      I know. It looks so soft and silky

    • @flyboy152
      @flyboy152 3 роки тому +3

      @@eloisatsatsas608 She had a maid to help her get cleaned up.

    • @taroman7100
      @taroman7100 3 роки тому

      Yes just the whole scene when she sitting there in labor. At that stage, no way you're sitting straight up.

  • @bugsboom
    @bugsboom 5 років тому +78

    I’ve never been more devastated over fictional characters in my life!

    • @connorburnett21
      @connorburnett21 4 роки тому +2

      bugsboom I loved Matthew and was upset with his death but Sybil's death before him devastated me in a way I don't ever think I'll recover from

    • @jehannethompson1432
      @jehannethompson1432 4 роки тому +5

      Connor Burnett For Sybils death was very sad but her character was just too nice and nothing happened to her that was vital in the show apart from her death. Matthew and Mary’s love story was Downton Abbey from the beginning of the series. No one saw Matthews death. Sybils death had events leading up to it ( doctors arguing, family arguing, etc.) but for Matthew we just saw him and Mary so happy and then he dies.

  • @vermutkol
    @vermutkol 3 роки тому +3

    Una delle scene più dolci toccanti tenere ed emozionanti di tutta la serie. Confessioni d'amore e sincerità che lasciano un ricordo incancellabile nell'anima di ognuno.

  • @susannestein3955
    @susannestein3955 4 роки тому +19

    Heartbreaking to see! All of their dreams come true and of course Matthew has to die. Nothing was ever the same after his death. And of course no other man could measure up to Matthew! I feel so bad for Mary!

  • @VPGarg-pf2dy
    @VPGarg-pf2dy 3 місяці тому

    i cried for an hour after he died. he was my favorite character. every scene he was in i smiled with glee. i fell in love with him. the most heartbreaking moment after sybil death. i will miss u matthew

  • @tamiepilling4260
    @tamiepilling4260 3 роки тому +4

    I didn’t watch the series when it first came on TV but I can only imagine the screaming and hollaring that must have gone on in living rooms around the world when this totally unexpected death occurred.

  • @andreasoto5205
    @andreasoto5205 5 років тому +13

    It was a tragedy!
    Poor Mary! Mathew was her lifes love, and now hes gone...
    I feel really sad thinking that Master George and also Baby Sybbie will never meet their parents 😔

    • @flyboy152
      @flyboy152 3 роки тому +2

      Nor Marigold. They all lost a parent; 2 of them on the day they were born, and in Marigold's case, even before.she was born.

  • @cassidyfaith16
    @cassidyfaith16 4 роки тому +10

    I love how relieved Carson was.

  • @annameyer3098
    @annameyer3098 2 роки тому +3

    The writer and producers made a huge mistake by creating the flawless character like Matthew, without being certain that Dan Stevens would play the role until the end of the show. It was extremely unfair to the fans, as no one managed to fill his shoes, so it lost its thrill after 3rd season. I still gave it a chance, watched till the end, but 4-6 seasons were utterly disappointing. It’s just unbelievable that Mary who has experienced great love with Matthew, would get seriously involved with that superficial car racer. I understand how hard it was to fill the void left by Matthew’s death, but Mary didn’t have to find a new love interest. She could have become a strong, independent woman and cherish the memories she had with Matthew. I had a feeling that the writer didn’t want the show to become too tragic, so he almost ignored the mourning process that follows the death of the loved one. I know they portrayed Isobel Crawly as a strong woman who didn’t show her feelings, however it’s so odd how she almost never mentions him and is just cheerful most of the time. In the end it could have been a great show, had it ended with Dan Stevens’ departure from the show. This way they wouldn’t have to kill him off and Mary and Matthew could have been given the happy ending the fans deserved.

  • @mira9667
    @mira9667 3 роки тому +2

    He was such an essential part of Downtown, the show wasn't the same anymore. Still frustrated me that he and sybil died so soon

  • @mbracyt
    @mbracyt Рік тому +8

    Years passed and im still questioning why they’d do such a cruel thing to us 😢

    • @TheFranzi0309
      @TheFranzi0309 Рік тому +6

      if the question is still unanswered: his actor wanted to leave the show and they needed a way to explain his disappearance

  • @msammy6914
    @msammy6914 3 роки тому +4

    I was really shocked when Matthew died. Couldn't bring myself to watch the rest of the series after that.

  • @alzbetadostalova2040
    @alzbetadostalova2040 5 років тому +38

    One of the best moments of the whole series, quickly turnes to one of the worst...

  • @rebeccameldrum8185
    @rebeccameldrum8185 3 роки тому +5

    "I'll do all that tomorrow." SOB!😭

  • @totorohawkeye3109
    @totorohawkeye3109 4 роки тому +5

    I mean I like Talbot he was alright but Matthew was just so much better, him and Mary were by far the best couple of the show, I cried so much when he died 😭😭😭

  • @TheJbarner560
    @TheJbarner560 2 роки тому +7

    As sad as this was, Stevens leaving the show was a boon in terms of storytelling. Downton *is* drama and Mary's sharper edges are a big part of that, so Matthew's death gave the writers the opportunity to explore her character more by taking her down a different path. (And personally I can't regret anything that gave us the chance to watch Matthew Goode as Mr Talbot)

    • @gee2541
      @gee2541 9 місяців тому

      Interesting, I found this season after this extremely dull and couldn’t keep up with it 💀

  • @BL4ZEEEE
    @BL4ZEEEE 9 місяців тому

    I cry every Time I watch that scence... Matthew was by far my favourite Actor from Downton...

  • @AC_RDR2_Q
    @AC_RDR2_Q 4 роки тому +1

    I’m not being funny but I love Dan Stevens voice and just his little smile AAAA 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😭😭

  • @Queen_Springsteen
    @Queen_Springsteen Рік тому +1

    So beautiful when Matthew met his son

  • @SeatherineJent
    @SeatherineJent 3 роки тому +2

    The fly buzzing around Matthew's lifeless body is so disturbing.